god this scares me, I dont want to spend all my good looking years with one guy if he will leave, but who know I might die,, then life would be better.
@30millionwinner I am accepting my present situation because my ex-fiance did get married and was cheating on me for 2 yrs. We do have a 9 y.o. son together and she knew this. She was actually sitting on my sofa and her boyfriend was here when I first met her. Anyway, he went to jail a week after they were married because he owes back child support, thousands, for a daughter he fathered. There's no guarantee in life and even if your guy doesn't cheat he can die. So, enjoy each day together!
That's hard. I was with a guy who lived an hour away and I didn't know what he was doing all of the time. It ended up finally that I found out that he did have sex with someone because I saw the used condom in the trash. He told me the whole week on the phone how much he loved me and was looking forward to spending the 4th of July with me. I don't think she meant anything, but I couldn't be with him.
I usually have three girl friends on the go at any one time. When one relationship ends (e.g. she finds a condom in the trash) I find a new one within 24 hours.
The average single guy who is successful with women goes out a few nights a week, talks to dozens of women, gets a few phone numbers and a few of them translate into dates and at least one woman a week of that number will sleep with him. It is possible for a sexually active man to have sex with hundreds of women a year.
@TheTipperaryMan It's easy I agree, but does it really make you happy? When you get older you will probably see that you want only one woman in your life. It's great to be in love.
@TheTipperaryMan I think dating is fine and there's no reason to settle down until you have met your goals in life. Just be careful with the sex thing. No diseases! You don't want that.
this is stupid!!! A MAN OR A WOMAN get cheated on mostly because they believe after they get married they don't need to do anything else to keep the partner happy. My spouse and I are in a relationship for 7 years and there is no needs for cheating and secrets, because we care about each other and keep our life happy and excited every day.
usually the truth is one thing and what you wanna accept as truth is what causes all the headache.
You just never know why someone will fall out of love with you. I've seen it too many times and even with my brother's friend who was married 30 yrs. He did everything to keep her happy and it just wasn't enough.
I look horrible here! This was one of my first vids. I paid a lot of money to get this perm too! It was so curly! The lighting didn't compliment either.
so Im only wondering if my man is cheating on me after someone said he might be. He gets super mad when i talk to guys and claims im cheating on him? i know he talks to girls so is he cheating on me? is there 2 sides to this raod? or could he be just super jealous... ? HELPP!!
Someone told me that usually the guys that accuse the women of cheating are the ones that are guilty themselves. I've had that happen to me. Did he just start talking to girls and how so?
this is a good video, although i am only thirtteen turning fourtteen this really helped me, because i am having long distance relationship, so its harder for me to tell. he loves to joke, about omg girls, oh sorry was that outloud, and that type of rediculas jokes young men offten play. so hopefuly you can give me some advice, you dont need to but thanks anyways.
I'm glad you enjoyed this vid. I remember 13 like it was yesterday. What I learned is that I would not get serious with anyone at that age. I think it is fine to date, however, I would focus on long term career goals. I'll tell you why. My fiance recently left me and we have an 8 y.o. son together. We were together for 9 1/2 yrs. I don't need him financially which makes things much easier. I will be doing a series soon on this topic. Clues-he would wear cologne before work. He did lanscaping.
He would shower before work and then after. Sometimes, it just looked like he threw grass on his pants. Anyway, I recently started going to church. It's different. You can wear whatever you want and the music is Christian Rock. It is appealing to younger teens too. Date someone who has morals and who isn't going to force you to do something that you don't want to do. I learned not to hold onto guilt. We can't change the past. So, live "Right here, right now." Meet nice girls too. Go to bonfires.
I'm starting to think this. My ex-fiance recently left me. He was cheating and still denies he is living with this girl who my son told me. I even got the address from her ex-boyfriend and videotaped his truck at 12:30 a.m. being at this hotel.
If you are serious, you can confront him. Some women ignore it and never will bring it up and it is just a fling and it will just end. Are you married and do you have children?
yeah you are soooo right but then again its like they say if you haven't been cheated on your not a female. meaning we are bound to got through it some time in our lives
Yes, I believe most men have cheated at least once whether or not the wife ever finds out. I think this has been happening forever. I discussed this with a really good friend of mine who is 69 y.o. and she said many of the very wealthy women will not end the marriage over one fling because it isn't worth it. They don't acknowledge it. She grew up in a very wealthy area close to NYC in Bergen County, NJ. The women know that their husband is not going to leave them. Thanks, by the way!
Ah! My number one rule of relationship do's and don't. I hate cheaters worse then anyone else. Cheaters deserve nothing less then death in my book. :o)
I don't like cheaters either. My parents were totally against it and they were married until death do they part, 49 years. I think it does happen a lot, but people either ignore it and will not acknowledge it. Would you rather not know if your partner was truly sorry? Sometimes, I feel it is better to let somethings unknown. That's just my opinon.
You smoke cigarettes and sound a little depressed you obviosl;y have some loss of self worth and have been kicked around a bit i feel sorrow when i hear your voice i hope life get much better for you. Grant Australia.
Wow, this vid was one of my first ones on YT. 1 yr and 5 months ago. Now, I am a Partner. I was waiting for my court case to settle because I was struck by a tractor trailer in 2004. I was in pain and depressed living in this expensive apt. I had to sell my house. Things are better now. I have a house again, an inground pool and I think I am much happier. I went through a lot from that accident physically, emotionally, and financially. I have also been independent so I am different.
Exactly! I think it would be harder for a woman to not be emotionally involved with the person she is cheating with. So, would she still have sex with her husband or would she feel violated? I guess it would depend on the woman. Many times women cheat for different reasons.
That's a good point. I saw this on the tv show, "What About Brian." The wife had a gut feeling because her husband was working all the time. So, she went to the office and was cool about it and found out who he was working with. She saw a bottle of champagne on his desk. It was cool because when he knocked on the hotel door, his wife opened it. I do like the role playing. That keeps your relationship spicy.
If the guy shows up at the motel u should have never been wit his dumbass in da first place cuz dude is straight stupid for listening to some random letter on his car. That letter is screamin for a setup. Good overall video though. Yes I am a man
Thank you! I really appreciate it! This was one of my first vids on YT. So, I was shy and less confident. My hair was really curly from the perm and no makeup on. Now, I am a Partner and more confident.
I love my wife
kazezuma 8 months ago
@kazezuma I'm glad that you do. That's sweet:)
mia0899cs 8 months ago
what if the hubby says..oh honey..i knew it was you..thats why i showed up to the hotel..lol
1beebees 1 year ago
@1beebees Yeah right lol! Is that before or after you clobber him?
mia0899cs 1 year ago
god this scares me, I dont want to spend all my good looking years with one guy if he will leave, but who know I might die,, then life would be better.
30millionwinner 2 years ago
@30millionwinner I am accepting my present situation because my ex-fiance did get married and was cheating on me for 2 yrs. We do have a 9 y.o. son together and she knew this. She was actually sitting on my sofa and her boyfriend was here when I first met her. Anyway, he went to jail a week after they were married because he owes back child support, thousands, for a daughter he fathered. There's no guarantee in life and even if your guy doesn't cheat he can die. So, enjoy each day together!
mia0899cs 2 years ago
i wouldn't know. im in a long distance relationship.
MistressVirgo 2 years ago
That's hard. I was with a guy who lived an hour away and I didn't know what he was doing all of the time. It ended up finally that I found out that he did have sex with someone because I saw the used condom in the trash. He told me the whole week on the phone how much he loved me and was looking forward to spending the 4th of July with me. I don't think she meant anything, but I couldn't be with him.
mia0899cs 2 years ago
I usually have three girl friends on the go at any one time. When one relationship ends (e.g. she finds a condom in the trash) I find a new one within 24 hours.
The average single guy who is successful with women goes out a few nights a week, talks to dozens of women, gets a few phone numbers and a few of them translate into dates and at least one woman a week of that number will sleep with him. It is possible for a sexually active man to have sex with hundreds of women a year.
It's easy.
TheTipperaryMan 2 years ago
@TheTipperaryMan It's easy I agree, but does it really make you happy? When you get older you will probably see that you want only one woman in your life. It's great to be in love.
mia0899cs 2 years ago
@mia0899cs
Maybe so.
I'm having too much fun right now.
A guy who is infatuated with one women should date at least two dozen more women so he can know for sure if she is worth it.
When I get older I'll know what kind of woman I really want and what kind of woman is right for me because I will have experience.
If a relationship is going to work it has be based on trust and I'm honest with women when I tell them I'm not ready for a relationship yet.
Some day sure.
Maybe.
Not yet.
TheTipperaryMan 2 years ago
@TheTipperaryMan I think dating is fine and there's no reason to settle down until you have met your goals in life. Just be careful with the sex thing. No diseases! You don't want that.
mia0899cs 2 years ago
ROTFLMAO!
TheTipperaryMan 2 years ago
i wouldn't know. im in a long distance relationship...
MistressVirgo 2 years ago
this is stupid!!! A MAN OR A WOMAN get cheated on mostly because they believe after they get married they don't need to do anything else to keep the partner happy. My spouse and I are in a relationship for 7 years and there is no needs for cheating and secrets, because we care about each other and keep our life happy and excited every day.
usually the truth is one thing and what you wanna accept as truth is what causes all the headache.
zlakic 2 years ago
You just never know why someone will fall out of love with you. I've seen it too many times and even with my brother's friend who was married 30 yrs. He did everything to keep her happy and it just wasn't enough.
mia0899cs 2 years ago
Well, my boyfriend is out of town and i'm on Youtube in the middle of the night passing time and now a video about cheating. Thanks a lot!
jdfox1 2 years ago
No, he's not cheating!
mia0899cs 2 years ago
Were you steaming when you made this video...??
You're wrecked there aren't you..???
Aye... you're quite right i suppose... !!!
tes74 2 years ago
I look horrible here! This was one of my first vids. I paid a lot of money to get this perm too! It was so curly! The lighting didn't compliment either.
mia0899cs 2 years ago
great vid :']
so Im only wondering if my man is cheating on me after someone said he might be. He gets super mad when i talk to guys and claims im cheating on him? i know he talks to girls so is he cheating on me? is there 2 sides to this raod? or could he be just super jealous... ? HELPP!!
BeepBeep8D 3 years ago
Someone told me that usually the guys that accuse the women of cheating are the ones that are guilty themselves. I've had that happen to me. Did he just start talking to girls and how so?
mia0899cs 3 years ago
thank you for posting could you post a video as to why women cheat and how to tell thank you
spinningstarr 3 years ago 2
Yes, spinningstarr! I think that would be a great vid idea!
mia0899cs 3 years ago
this is a good video, although i am only thirtteen turning fourtteen this really helped me, because i am having long distance relationship, so its harder for me to tell. he loves to joke, about omg girls, oh sorry was that outloud, and that type of rediculas jokes young men offten play. so hopefuly you can give me some advice, you dont need to but thanks anyways.
velairia 3 years ago
I'm glad you enjoyed this vid. I remember 13 like it was yesterday. What I learned is that I would not get serious with anyone at that age. I think it is fine to date, however, I would focus on long term career goals. I'll tell you why. My fiance recently left me and we have an 8 y.o. son together. We were together for 9 1/2 yrs. I don't need him financially which makes things much easier. I will be doing a series soon on this topic. Clues-he would wear cologne before work. He did lanscaping.
mia0899cs 3 years ago
He would shower before work and then after. Sometimes, it just looked like he threw grass on his pants. Anyway, I recently started going to church. It's different. You can wear whatever you want and the music is Christian Rock. It is appealing to younger teens too. Date someone who has morals and who isn't going to force you to do something that you don't want to do. I learned not to hold onto guilt. We can't change the past. So, live "Right here, right now." Meet nice girls too. Go to bonfires.
mia0899cs 3 years ago
All men fucking cheat...
Skazat3 3 years ago
I'm starting to think this. My ex-fiance recently left me. He was cheating and still denies he is living with this girl who my son told me. I even got the address from her ex-boyfriend and videotaped his truck at 12:30 a.m. being at this hotel.
mia0899cs 3 years ago
Are there any women in NJ that wouldn't mind dating a guy with a small penis?
philbio66 3 years ago
lol! Is this Howard Stern?
mia0899cs 3 years ago
ur amazing! im so sad though now the truth hurts... i didnt want to believe it what do i do?
NubNizzle 3 years ago
If you are serious, you can confront him. Some women ignore it and never will bring it up and it is just a fling and it will just end. Are you married and do you have children?
mia0899cs 3 years ago
i love her wat she saying is so smart and true
vampcrazy8 3 years ago
Thank you so much! I really appreciate it! This was one of the first vids I made on Youtube. This was about 1 year and 5 months ago.
mia0899cs 3 years ago
yeah you are soooo right but then again its like they say if you haven't been cheated on your not a female. meaning we are bound to got through it some time in our lives
ederlko 4 years ago 2
Yes, I believe most men have cheated at least once whether or not the wife ever finds out. I think this has been happening forever. I discussed this with a really good friend of mine who is 69 y.o. and she said many of the very wealthy women will not end the marriage over one fling because it isn't worth it. They don't acknowledge it. She grew up in a very wealthy area close to NYC in Bergen County, NJ. The women know that their husband is not going to leave them. Thanks, by the way!
mia0899cs 3 years ago
Ah! My number one rule of relationship do's and don't. I hate cheaters worse then anyone else. Cheaters deserve nothing less then death in my book. :o)
MDAaron1971 4 years ago
I don't like cheaters either. My parents were totally against it and they were married until death do they part, 49 years. I think it does happen a lot, but people either ignore it and will not acknowledge it. Would you rather not know if your partner was truly sorry? Sometimes, I feel it is better to let somethings unknown. That's just my opinon.
mia0899cs 3 years ago
You smoke cigarettes and sound a little depressed you obviosl;y have some loss of self worth and have been kicked around a bit i feel sorrow when i hear your voice i hope life get much better for you. Grant Australia.
neephius 4 years ago
Wow, this vid was one of my first ones on YT. 1 yr and 5 months ago. Now, I am a Partner. I was waiting for my court case to settle because I was struck by a tractor trailer in 2004. I was in pain and depressed living in this expensive apt. I had to sell my house. Things are better now. I have a house again, an inground pool and I think I am much happier. I went through a lot from that accident physically, emotionally, and financially. I have also been independent so I am different.
mia0899cs 3 years ago
These things could also apply to the question... is she cheating on you?
KnowlageSeeker 4 years ago
Exactly! I think it would be harder for a woman to not be emotionally involved with the person she is cheating with. So, would she still have sex with her husband or would she feel violated? I guess it would depend on the woman. Many times women cheat for different reasons.
mia0899cs 3 years ago
:D true
Adrianlovepeja 4 years ago
That's a good point. I saw this on the tv show, "What About Brian." The wife had a gut feeling because her husband was working all the time. So, she went to the office and was cool about it and found out who he was working with. She saw a bottle of champagne on his desk. It was cool because when he knocked on the hotel door, his wife opened it. I do like the role playing. That keeps your relationship spicy.
mia0899cs 4 years ago
If the guy shows up at the motel u should have never been wit his dumbass in da first place cuz dude is straight stupid for listening to some random letter on his car. That letter is screamin for a setup. Good overall video though. Yes I am a man
ChiVision 4 years ago
Thank you! I really appreciate it! This was one of my first vids on YT. So, I was shy and less confident. My hair was really curly from the perm and no makeup on. Now, I am a Partner and more confident.
mia0899cs 3 years ago