Pick Up Artist: Meet Women

[emob0mb]

Good job, but pay attention to the whole set.

[yoman222222]

:D wow this opener is very common :D

[albashpe]

wow. Amazing how dumb and obvious questions can be used as openers in the states. Back here in Norway, it's like telling her HI I AM BRAD AND I AM SO DESPERATE.. Lame

[pylar123]

I love that opening lol add it to the book ;)

[oOSpursOo]

But he didnt engage the group, now they view him as a threat and will inevitably prove a block later in the set, even if she's interested.

[Esoparagon]

cool. I wish I had the balls to talk girls like that. She seemed pretty into it. I dunno if she was just tipsy or not but I didn't think it'd be that easy to strike up conversation like that.

[blackyblackblack505]

It's crazy to see someone break rules and still get the girl. awesome.

[MarkPwnzJ00]

that guy was good as fuck.

[barbarshater]

her group was totaly nothing .. cause when u asked .. she is the only one that she answerd thats good advantage cause u isolate the others and u took her down alone ... and great one here 2 when u asked a nice person should intrdused his self.. and she oh sorry lol im lisa .. nice pick up :)

[runnalls]

He changed his position to get her to put her back to her friends and seperate her from that pack. Good move...

[imnotbad9]

fake, she was paid.

[tkddcu]

he shouldn't repeat the girls response back to her. it makes it look like he has nothing better to say so he buys time by repeating her. it lowers his value.

[rdaleos]

This dudes a douche... no game whatsoever.  Disarm the obstacles. Blown out the set in 1 minute.

[villaking1978]

She was obviously ready to make out with this dude from the get-go. She was even keeping herself directly in front of him as he was side-stepping. I'm assuming he was trying to get into a less threatening position but I think she was actually enjoying his close proximity. As she was talking to him she maintained constant eye contact and kept taking quick glances down at his lips as he would talk. She definitely wanted to kiss already. His attraction game was all he needed in this rare case.

[BwSeven]

Loved the way he made her completely turn her back to her friends. She was all his.

[fransack]

This guy did pretty well, overall.. but instead of saying "Can I ask you a question?" I would have said, "Hey, who do you think lies more..."

[MrCobalt20]

I think I just saw how to effectively use an opinion opener. Instead of focusing on it I should have used it strictly to open and then move on just like Bravo did here.

[robdorg]

Chris Rock said it best.

Men tell little lies and more of them. "I'll be home before midnight."

Women tell fewer lies, but they are big lies.

"You're the father."

[laverdad89]

by not introducing herself and then she says sorry then he calls himself bravo and she asks why they call you bravo then he claps making her smile and laugh this is pure genius theres so much going on here its not even funny lol

[laverdad89]

opener is the question who do you think lies more girls or guys funny how he switched it up that was smooth lol...hmm the question when he asks so you werent sneaky ? he def sets her up and she fell for it and he played on it by saying you have a good girl face but a bad girl (something couldnt hear it lol) this is called cold reading then hes prizing by trying to get her to show him shes not bad so hes getting her to impress him and then he throws it off by makin her feel guilty

[CorruptedSeducer]

Man, this line has been overused so many times "Who cheats more, guys or girls?" It won't work in today's times, 2010.

[kataklysm12345]

he would better work the whole group, otherwise the other friends will get bored and save her from him

[mesafalcon88]

Well, he got a bit past "the open." I thought the "open" was the inital thing you say to start the interaction - then you go "in set" (if more than 1 HB set), which he did here, got her talking at least

[HorNet505]

what was his opener? I hear only music.

[simponator]

good girl face and bad girl what? im hearing figure, i cant make it out :S ive tried this opener many times but have trouble continuing after

[mirrorimage345]

Man just watch that girl. It is textbook. The second he does his approach she goes straight for the hair and starts playing with it. It's almost primordial, and extremely cute. Bravo has her complete interest from start to finish. One of the best performances of this opener that I have ever seen. Guys like this don't need these classic openers. However it is fun to watch them show that they are still valid.

[mirrorimage345]

What impresses me the most about bravo is his amazing ability to control the frame. He has this girls head on a string from start to finish. Good show.

[MrKiljeaden89]

Hey, who do you thin lies more? guys or girls? gay , but good opener, gj

[supercows1]

that girl wasn't even cute, wtf..

[CasterTown]

great over-the-shoulder opening

[victshot]

WRong. You see race as an obstacle. This is an AFC attitude. You see it as an obstacle, so therefore, It will not work. It works on every woman of races, but not EVERY woman. Just because you got shot down by a bunch of black women, doesn't mean all are like that.

[kx3clock]

He should have engaged the whole 4 set.

[changos979]

can somebody tell me which is the opener because i am argentinian and don't understand very well waht he said

[vision6961]

Great Old School opener.

Bravo has great body language on the approach as well as a nice body rock out once the girl is engaged.

[yellowmon123]

Whats better reading the books or watching real pickups when you cant go out and actually do it

[mopbrothers]

These questions would only work in a bar/club. Otherwise they'd be too personal.

[nasq2]

really i dont see how it wouldnt work in an actual day setting i think its still possible to use these lines

[Wulfgar12]

Forexample..

it went RIGHT through me that beautiful girls cannot be approached with interest because they are so tired of being approached by interested men, so you have to have an EXCEPTIONAL opening line...

I neve knew that... I just approach them.. lol

[Wulfgar12]

Did i mention my friends mock me "you have no chance" but sometimes that girl talks to me, she sees through the game of this stupid pickup thing, and its wonderful when that happens.. its just beautful

[verycoldice2]

so...anyone got laid that night?

[StylelifeAcademy]

What do you think? ;)

[lamrof]

bad pickup. That was a lucky pass.

[fireking345]

That isnt a pick up line lol...

its called an opener

[labulldog5]

Who do you think lies more, guys or girls?  what a pathetic pickup line! WTF is this??

[lamrof]

Mystery must be thinking... damn what did I do with this pickup routine.

[PocketHercules99]

I find it lame but if it works go with it

[Gamezero05]

lol I find it funny all of the comments on here talking about "kino" and "negs" waiting "79 seconds before kino" or whatever all that mess means. That guy just met that girl and thats all their is to it. Who gives a shit about "negs" or whatever else bullshit being told to you guys. Guys have been meeting and hooking up with girls since the dawn of man, and they never needed any of that bullshit. The key is to not cower in fear around the girl. Be confident, be yourself. win some lose some.

[licmy3balls]

thats very true, but i think some assholes who are just total tools at birth think they need some fucking 'secret' before they have the stones to talk to hot girls, so shit like this helps them out. i personally know from experience that how you come across to women determines your sucess rate alot more than what you say. 80% is just talking to them in the first place, then you see what dumbasses they are and look for another.

[Wulfgar12]

thats very true, but i think some assholes who are just total tools at birth think they need some fucking 'secret' before they have the stones to talk to hot girls

" I laughed hard at that one of the trueness of it all!"

god damnn your right! There is no secret!

Just be your fucking self!! hahah

[Wulfgar12]

but its an advantage to know what the game rules are so that you do not open as an innocent mistake that can turn BIG, with a wrong word, if forexample someone killed someone at the nightclub a week before, and u make a joke of a killing, it can ruin, if you know what I am menaing to try to say here..

[juliangomez101]

being urself does not work you cant tel a starwars nerd to go and approach gisele bunchden and expect those to to have anything to talk about u need to adapt new behavioral patterns imm so tired of ppl always saying that you need to be yourself.....that shit doe not work for everybody

[marcuz217]

nice

[BravoPUA]

Vid was shot for a mission in the SLA. JUST to demo mini-isolation, turn her back to her friends. I also showed that canned stuff still works (which use if you NEED it)

Sneaky-turned into relationship talk and if she ever was = solid

neg/dhv/kino , you need more than just that when dealing with people, it's not just 3 things you do and repeat that get the girl.

Kino rushed is creepy, I generally wait more than 79 seconds to begin to escalate.

I love how there is such a detailed break down!

[puaintraining]

- When she said guys are sneaky, INSTANT NEG back, don't let her INDIRECTLY call you sneaky.

- Don't speak so excitedly. Less sugar for you. Volume was good though. Look at Mystery.... Slow... Rhythm.

- Don't linger much about stuff not about her or DHV stories. Neg / DHV / Kino

- IF you Kino, you could have PULLED THE TRIGGER 4 minutes in or less, after you isolated her. Ugh I was dying...

Good job though

[puaintraining]

Ugh...

I'll start with the good.

+ "You have a good girl face, but bad girl tendencies." Awesome, I'll be stealing it, good qualifier.

+ She was EXTREMELY into you from the bat

- Not a big deal, but don't turn your body fully at her so soon.

- Not enough Kino!! If you didn't get the message, she looked like she wanted to at least lean in for CHEEK kiss when you shook hands. More kino.

- Ignored her friend... could have been bad, but lucky she had her guy friend and other girl to go to.

[verycoldice2]

true true true about the ignorance of her friends

[rsaini1]

lol she freaked out when he called her bad.

[snake147258]

what so speacial about this crap

i do it better Z Z Z

[jindagreatlee]

umm... a handshake? Are you serious? On top of that being the only kino escalation bravo needs some work and needs to transition, stop sticking to the opener!

[mdubs88]

I thought his transitioning was pretty good. He ran the opener and right after that he moved a lil to the side so that the girl has to turn her body towards the camera (and ultimately away from her friends). Then he transitioned into a cold read (you have like a good girl face but u have like bad girl tendencies) which set up the qualification nicely...which brought on the introductions. Anyways, my point is he transitioned well.

[jindagreatlee]

he did transition speaking.. i meant he needed to transistion his kino more.

[GraysAthletic1890]

na. girl was so easy. so easy man. if only all girls took a bit of mystery method that easily

[supernova58]

I guess most of his success goes for his body language projecting his confidence.

I like the part at 0:26 where with a slight turn he makes the girl get separated totally from her group and just face him.

[omgkevin]

wow that was pretty good

[sgtd69]

We all know How 2 open, Hey I only have a minute I need a womans perspective Should a gurl get a guys named tatooed? Now what neg the target?

[jindagreatlee]

now.. you read the mystery method, magic bullets or venusian arts.

[mitsubishidiamante]

hahahaaa that was smooth

[sayfaylo]

That's a good one at the end! "Because when I'm done"...clap...clap...clap...

[magichatrick]

she's got prude written on her forhead.

[patopato80]

Guys you are accomplishing a holy mission giving to everyone these keys to open the heaven's door. I'm doing another mission as much important giving the keys about NOT HOW to pick-up, but WHERE in the whole world. I'm doing my best but I need your help, I can't do everything by my own. Thanks to all PUAs that will help me to improve my masterpiece, google pussytravellers to understand what I'm talking about

[kasp84]

Lame! lol hahahahhahahhahahha

"who do you think lies more? blablabla"

[inmyownblood]

its easier to pickup women if ur doin it as a contest or if theres a camera around or something like that...no what the hell am i talking about its all the same thats just pussy talk..picking up women is always the same

[chachee99]

I don't see the atraction, just a guy and a girl talking to each other. Just because they are talking doesn't mean she is into him.

[JSparkleZ2]

THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING... Just bc she didn't tell him to go away doesn't mean she likes him... I'd talk to the fattest ugliest girl in the world if she asked me my opinion bc it's rude to ignore her... Most people aren't outright rude and girls are no exception... It really shows how immature the guy is if he thinks a girls manners = attraction

[mattflowmofo]

this is so good and evil unless hes a fag he dosent give a shiz about who lies more men or women he probably asked the girls from church the same thing,his goal is to use planned routines to get into her privates.nice!!

[psaghafi]

How can I take this seriously when the guy that did the work was in shape and good looking enough to have succeeded even if he wasn't very good at being a "pickup artist". Show me something surprising.

[christheskitz]

its not in the looks, that conversation would have caught anyoens attention, boy or girl. Dont claim she liked him for his looks if youve never tried it.

[PickUpLabs]

didnt always look that way, was chubby and dressed terrible after my divorce, you can find the pic on the Stylelife lucky 20 vids on youtube

[exbogus]

you forgot the rest of the set. Luckily, you got rid of them easily on that game

[lesbianlove68]

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[Cold0ne]

all the people analyzing this shit piece by piece, when youre in the real world and the situation is happening you have no time to think, analyze, change what you would have said. you have to roll with it in the moment and this guy does a pretty good job of keeping this sort of average+ girl interested. but really he does look at least as good as her for the male side. maybe even a bit too good for her. still nicely done as even average women put up defenses like crazy these days!

[RockTheShowstopper]

So true :-)

This "over-theorisation" just turns the whole thing into something totally artificial !

Where is the natural side ?

Just grab your balls and go see her ! Have a strong BL and voice...

Girls don't care about what you say... only HOW you say it :)

[pancit7]

actually, what you talk about is really a big part. you dont just wanna talk about yourself and your achievements the whole time or compliment the way she looks. girls get that a lot and its always the same "you look so hot" from experience that never works.

[Xazard]

What happened to "Never ask a question if you can ask a question..." :)

Bravo is awesome, though.

[aimjames86]

Human beings are absurd. Thats what makes PUA possible. It works on smart professionals even better than drunk dumbasses! you can be yourself all you want, but it only works AFTER you have got her attracted to you. until then you need a lure.

[WILLSTHASHREDER3000]

hes doing fine wtf are u guys talking about

[JSparkleZ2]

Are you people commenting really critiquing this guy on the non-sense that these "pick up women" self-help courses teach you... he was doin fine b4 he blew it with that dumb ass nickname... Just be your god damn self guy...

[christheskitz]

J SparkleZ2...

its funny cause YOUR trying to tell HIM what hes done wrong. laughable my friend.

[JSparkleZ2]

I'm not saying it's wrong... I'm saying it's pathetic... Just bc something works doesn't make it good... McDonalds has sold over 99 billion burgers and all of them sucked...

[NyloStar]

Hilarious and effective analogy. It's hard to disagree when you're laughing.

[JSparkleZ2]

I call them like I see them...

[netmaster96]

as everyone has pointed out correctly, the female "opened" in the video clearly showed a strong physical attraction, mix that in with a club type enviornment and there was not any actual work to be left done her...she was instantly physically attracted and therefore it does not count as being a PUA. In season 1 of The Pickup Artist with Mystery, in one of the elimination ceremonies Matador pointed out what can one of the guys do different if there is also another good lookin guy there too

[kapitanusa]

he was himself. not pua

[chompychomps]

Was he chewing gum?

[Todoslosfritos]

hahaaaaaaaaaaa

[idkiduk]

hmm, I think this is quite a lucky case. I sarge in London and allot of the time if you open like that a girl won't open up too much. This isn't realy the essence of pick up artistry anyway, the opener is the easiest part to build. Where's the full video?

[mikev137]

weak ass game

[FergiePUA]

Its all about confidence....chicks want to be opened they just don't want a creep opening them.

Fergie

[JRskatr]

That's why you don't introduce yourself as a dumb nickname, because if you saw the girl gave the "wow this guy is full of himself" look. I'd say his pickup with her was going well until that point. He might have been able to recover though because she clearly thought he was hot and was eye raping him like others have said in their comments.

[chocobo19]

Oh and, u forget false time constraint/body rocking..

[rsaini1]

he opened beautifully over the shoulder, and she was receptive, the set was hooked, so WHY THE FUCK SHOULD HE FALSE TIME CONSTRAINT. NERD.

[htownlean]

lol right on. he hooked her for sure when she asked him for his name.

[chocobo19]

lol he did not open the set but the girls directly..?!?! As u can see, the attraction is purely physique, the girl don't stop give IOIs and they just met...

I don't call that a PUA

[lazio666]

Bravo kept a positive frame but that wasn't a hard thing to do considering how willing she was to be opened, and how her friends just immediately left them to be isolated. So very low difficulty approach.. this girl is no more than a 7.

However, Bravo talks too fast and like her I couldn't make out some of what he said until he repeated.

[ngbsf]

wow she really was eye fucking him, all he did was open and basic talk. intresting, still good job

[dubzy81]

wow impressive

[BlackRingBrothers]

You dont have to go step 1 step 2 step 3, when you start at step 5.

You guys trying to point things out wrong are all keyboard jockeys!

Clearly he knows what he was doing because she was eye fucking him

[FearAcademy]

wow seems the attraction was already set so no need to engage the group...

[bittiker]

i would have touched her earlier

[YankeeRebelSon]

The whole thing seems so forced and disingenious.

[ArkadioLu]

not "high quality" action....:/

[loogy123]

asking for permission to ask a question, not talking to the entire set, this isnt mysteries method!

[netmaster96]

rofl you quoted him exactly, i just recently got into the pickup artist. i now feel all badass referring to people as "sets" lol

[johnny115377]

completely agree..ok opener no false time constraint, opened up to her way to early she didnt earn enough attention for that, also dont ask for her name she has to ask for urs, horrible vid too many mistakes.

[kersmac]

I thought he did what was necessary... he didn't need a false time constraint with this girl, or at least at that moment because she was very engaged. When he goes into DHV he might need to give her a time constraint before continuing. Secondly, he didn't ask for her name, he said "nice people introduce themselves" implying that she should have introduced herself to prove that she was as nice as she said she was. This was well done.

[loogy123]

na i think he said "its usually nice for one person to introduce themself." and you're right he didnt need a false time constraint with THIS girl, cause she was easy.

[shakaloso83]

Wanting to become a PUA myself, got any good openers?

[1msk1]

i got some gimme ur email

[johnny115377]

yea one thats been working real good for me is the securtiy guard opener. it works when its a big set ive yet to try it wit guys in the group but u go up to the set and tell them that ur friends wit security and they are getting kicked out (make up a reason).if u sell it ur gonna get all the attention of the group then the second part is up to u. its real successful if you from real serious to funny. its worked for me wont hurt to try cuz u can go in solo wit no wing

[shakaloso83]

I thought the same thing too, he didnt engaged the whole set like he shouldve. DO not ask for permission, simply say I got to ask you a something and just spit it out.

[helios213]

Being yourself has a time and place, unfortunately it isn't during the attraction stage. Most PUA's I run with are genuinely nice guys, but that doesn't get the girls. Nice guys get caught up in the defense shield women use to protect themselves from the thousands of guys that hit on them. The rules of pick up aren't the mans rules, it's the women's. We have to adapt to it and play their game or be alone. Some guys adapt naturally, others need assistance.

[Parker1006]

wow. thanks. it's good to know that I basically have to play a role in order to be appealing to women....lolwut?

[johnny115377]

no not a role u just have to be interesting. technicaly the opener is the only practiced routine the other phases of the game or just to build ur value and lower hers. besides the pros only use it on 10s not regular girls like these cuz there too easy. the really hot ones are the fun ones cuz they have so many defense mechanisms u should check out mystery instead of these rookies

[Parker1006]

um... wut happened to being yourself to meet women? I understand that you need confidence, but for the most part, alot of this pick up artist stuff seems like one has to put up a fake persona

[Ali3970]

true so true!

[rsaini1]

that was ok. nothing special.

[FadeAway23]

nice work bravo loving the site!

[yourhighness616]

His game is str8 WACK!, but I can see how it worked on a lame chick like her. I have women mesmerized by the things I say. They fall into a trance. I ususally have them eating from the palm of my hand. I made their world go round.

I made a living off of their generosity. They helped me through college. See...all this guy wants is the HONEY, all I want is the MONEY.

The game got boring after a while. I guess I grew out of it.

[enjoiCam]

i don't think u do get much women considering how much u were kinda ranting there..

and u may wanna get ur head outta ur own ass ;)

[HughHefner]

Yeeaaa, I bet buddy.

So where is the video of YOU on youtube, proving what you just said?

[HughHefner]

Sure buddy. We believe you.

And I bet you will be posting youtube videos to prove this any day now.

[helios213]

It amazes me how people behave. We can't fear/hate/ridicule characteristics in others unless we feel threatened by them. Why do you think so many jocks like to call people "fags"? I mean, it's the jocks who are getting naked, grabbing, and rubbing against men, not to mention the physicals (turn your head and cough)... but somehow everyone else is gay but they are safe from the "insult"? We fear what threatens us, and what we may be hiding about ourselves.

[damonk32]

killer sideburns man

[acebrawler73]

that was great.

[AndrewKane]

Not staged. But good points guys.

Also, remember gentlemen, sometimes you NEED to be a little imperfect.

[rezzinator1110]

bravo, I can't believe you told her your fieldname! Way to isolate though, and excellent aim on the opener. Though I'm surprised you of all people wouldn't open the whole 4 set and run with that!

[bigmommamaria]

It had almost nothing to do with what he said.

She was clearly feeling him either because of the way he looked or the way he carried himself.

[BravoPUA]

luckily we teach those skills too

[lRedBaronl]

true

[danehill917]

Judging by the way she was looking at you, I believe a sodomy opener would have worked.

[Beccali]

true

[BravoPUA]

Bravo from the vid here.

This vid was shot to demo mini-isolation for our missions as well as a canned opener. Think I winked at her first and when she smiled back, opened her by asking if I could ask, after getting an IOI it was not the same as a straight cold approach. Also was demo'ing that even the most well known openers still work.

[ohchaaase]

im pretty sure this is pretty bad game... he pulls her away from the group, instead of engaging the whole group, he doesnt use a false time constraint, if this girl had any social value, she would have been trying to get back to her group and feeling uncomfortable by his shifty body language...

[danehill917]

This is worthless. The target girl needs to be less attractive than the guy, not the other way around. That chick was just happy a 'hot' guy was talking to her. He could have said ANYTHING and she would have had puppy dog eyes for him. I'd hate to be her BF and see this...

[cjpierre45]

that was sick

[pinkerton48]

I hope the girl's single and she doesn't have a bf who watches this shit and gets jealous cos she was just getting picked up by some guy who had some lame-ass openers like can i ask you a question!

[Jonesy87Bradford]

i agree with the poster that said

"She was attracted right off the bat. These "classic" routines helped him in no way."

he could have talked about hitting children with power tools and she'd have given the same IOI's :P

[Chrisfnrb7]

"I hope the nerd in the background was less boring."

ROFL!

[batx5]

What are you guys talking about? That girl is pretty good looking.

And it's not staged. I've opened sets just as easily as that.

I love what Bravo does in that he gets into the Power position and gets her facing away from her friends. It makes her focus on Bravo and thus he can get into comfort game.

[gitzenshigels]

Canned pickup lines have never been more than cheesy. The old adage "Be yourself" has remained true for generations. Men just need to learn how to tap into their inner self and they're just as attractive as any other random dude. Women like looks, but look for that inner person.

[brockpetrie]

Agreed, totally unattractive.

And these old-ass canned routines are getting quite passé.

[PunkSled]

Great video,keep'em coming.

[Sway213]

She was attracted right off the bat. These "classic" routines helped him in no way.

[fIRsTRATmAN]

you said it perfect

[Duster598]

good delivery but never ask if you can ask a question. Just say what you're saying in a interesting way.

[XXcelol]

Smooth.

[marsuapin]

staged...

[rolandpris]

I agree. Looks staged.

[reptile1000]

fuck yea this rocks you will find no one better then swing cat and style life

[arkid231278]

I'm just starting out at this and cannot believe it can be so smooth! Lots of respect Bravo, top lad!

[blink18jew]

lol, that was smooth 'bravo' :)

[quitejaded]

Woah, that was really good!!

[JayTheSneak]

Of course it was, Bravo = the man :)

[shakaloso83]

I realized that I dont approach women, not because of fear of the approach itself, but because I simply dont know what to say, and how to go from my opener into a regular conversation.Then DHV. I know how to neg pretty well. But I am still not closing. I look like a model (no bull) but I dont have any game, any help?

[quitejaded]

I used to know a lot about this because I'm a nerd and do research on every passing obsession. I used to try these out in regular situations to help me be more social (I'm a girl) but since I'm satisfied with my social ability for now, I forgot all the details of this stuff. There are lots of sites that can help, though.

[johnny115377]

its fine thats how most guys are the opener is just to start conversation. when u go into regular conversation talk bout something funny or exciting that happened to u that do or that week just give them a taste of ur personality then the rest should be on the spot usually games help. u should research some games you could play and have interesting stories ready.

[shakaloso83]

that wasnt helpful but thanks I guess

[quitejaded]

Well, it said you were replying to me so I had to reply back telling you I don't know anything.