This is the first video that i saw with abusive relationship...I just ended a relationship because the person i was with used verbal and physical and emotional abuse...he was dealing with pills...and i thought that i could change him...but now i can see that all this done to me...He loves me but when you love somebody you don't call you names!! or try to stop you from speaking with his hands around your neck...
i was doing second thoughts you know...but you made it clear to me...thank you..
This is the first video of yours I've seen so far - but I feel like this issue brings us and so many others together. You're an inspiration and you're so beautiful inside and out - thank you so much for what you're doing here on YouTube.
I was a damn fool for this boy name Andre Glenn. Noticed I called him a boy not a man. That relationship didn't last because he was jealous and abusive. The longer I stayed the more I wanted to kill him. Love don't hurt at all. Fuck being with him, I'd rather be alone then to stay and be unhappy with that worthless punk. I left the relationship not for my safety but for his safety. The last fight we had I ended up stabbing him and told him it's best he leave before I kill him.
wow i've never been in a abusive relationship but i have a friend that was in one. & u really opened my eyes to wat really happens in a relationship like that.
i'm in abusive realtionship now,but i don't know how to get out.part of me still won't let go though i know it should be simple your boyfriend hits,you leave him. i just can't leave him,after he slap me,push me,or yell at me, i used to startto cry and evrytime i said i will leave him,he become really sweet and say he loves me so much. yesterday he slap me on public but i just don't know how to get out btw im 18 and he is 21 we go to the same school. is there any chance i could talk to you?email?
Thank you, what I think about besides the agony is that this persons FRIENDS, FAMILY and CO-WORKERS have no idea or if they do, they are told you were the crazy bitch. If only they could see the real truth..... I truly believe all lies will be revealed in time. Hopefully the next girl isnt killed. The saddest part is when the person is looked upon as a GOOD GUY. I guess it really doesnt matter what they think because I know what happened to me.
I was trying to find a video for blackheads and I stumbled upon this. Your story is really touching and although I've never been in an abusive relationship it seems that this video has helped the people who follow you. I truly and genuinely hope that you are happy in your life, you seem like a very strong women. And you have also helped me through my acne crisis :)
I completely understand EVERYTHING I am in the same kindof relationship and keep HOPING that it will change because he can be so loving but the abuse comes and NEVER stops in 3 years, I stay because of the kids or money because i have no family here and nobody to help me work and no one i know understands because they havent been through this and just call me stupid I think i should talk to someone who has been through it all before and understands if you or anyone has time please reply Thanks!!
@ChelseyNicole88 hi, it has improved so much for me. he is never drinking again..that seemed to cause it. he is an emotional person already but the alcohol makes him crazy. but he loves me so much so wont be drinking anymore. i'm so sorry you're going through this...i'm not going to say the generic "there is help out there" because i'm sure you know that and you know whats right for you...i really hope things improve for you, it would be fantastic if it resolved without any breakups...
@ChelseyNicole88 and i hope your abuse isnt physical, mine was verbal and nothing really physical...but it was just as damaging...and in public too...good luck. i am sure you are smart enough to know whats best for you <3
Hun I just wanted to tell you that you are absolutely beautiful&I'm very sorry that you went through what you went through. Your advice is great advice,your words I can tell will hit people's hearts&inspire people's thoughts. Not many people get on this site to share advice straight from the heart. I respect what you had to say and I absolutely hope life brings you nothing but beautiful moments and opportunities! Take care hun
Damn abusive guys what makes you so retarded to hit your girl, she don't deserve it even if she did something mean to you yall abusive guys should deserve to get a country ass woopin by a real man OR get spit on and punched in the face etc. by a group of women who have been abused. Yall sorry ass fucks
Well, abusive relationships aren't just BF/GF... My mom, for about 4 years, has been cursing at me, calling me a bitch, telling me I'm fat and need to work out, that I'm lazy and should clean more, and if I talk to her most of the time she would call me a crybaby. If we're in the car, she slams my head in the window. I cry myself to sleep at night and now I think bad names and curse words are fine. I mean, before, I'd cry if someone called me fat. Now, I don't care if someone calls me a bitch.
@cryinglaughterFTW Thats very sad because i grew up the same way and around fighting and arguing and me getting treated badly and being called names and now I am in the same kind of relationship. I dont think its a coincidence this is an AWFUL CYCLE I dont want my daughters to grow up that way. Please dont let that get deep into you and carry that around, start your own beautiful family and get AWAY from that Its Runing My life and Happiness
as a very young child i grew up in a famlly with domestic violence but never thought it was normal i think it made me and my sibling more anxious, less secure, scared, afraid, overly cautious and fearful of marraige
Just got out of my first "real" relationship and he grabbed my wrist once and I didnt think much of it second time I got pulled off the bed hit my chin and then smacked and finally the last time when a towel was smacked in my face ankle grabbed when I was putting my shoe on to leave and thrown on the bed and told "If you ever try to leave I will break your ass" I wanted to believe he was ok but I know now he wasn't!!! It was only 4 months but it still hurt to let go!!!
Thank you so much for sharing this with everyone :] I grew up with my parents fighting all of the time, and I'm so sick of my dad abusing my mom. I know that this totally isn't the right way to live-around fighting all the time, I mean. I got so sick of it I moved out and now I live with my grandparents. I'm worried about my mom, of course, so I sent her the link to this video. I hope you don't mind. I'm too much of a chicken to tell her to break it off with my dad.
Im in a gay abusive relationship and i got into a fight last Sunday [ a week ago]
well this guy is 27 and im 20. the guy just got jealous in a bar and attacked me. i have been dating him for 11 months and he hurt me really bad. he toss me to the ground and dislocated my arm. I was really scare and angry but i couldn't admit to the police that he did it. so t0 make a l0ng st0ry sh0rt I basically ended in the hospital and he was there for me. im scare he is going to hit me again
@robbillion Honey, being afraid to end the relationship is totally normal. But the way he is treating you is not fair, and it's not right. Any one who lands you in a hospital is dangerous. And I PROMISE you, no matter what he says, it WILL happen again. People like that just dont change. You need to get out of that relationship, even if you love him, he clearly doesn't care much about your well-being. I'm worried for you. If you need any help or need someone to talk to, please e-mail me.
@Tarynbeth my friend told me to easy it off and brake up with him slowly, but i feel like the more we last together the more i love him. i know he is not right. but he will hurt me if i leave him. i know he will =[ i feel played used and abused. t.y so much fr replying to me! it means a lot!
@82cristalyn I'm glad you got yourself out of that relationship. No one deserves to be treated poorly. I'm glad you were able to find the strength to give yourself a chance to have the kind of relationship you DESERVE :)
you're beautifull, never let anyone put you down! i agree with everything you say! you are soooo talented tarynbeth, you're skincare tips are some of the best on youtube! you're amzing at what you do! and you are an inspiration to soooo many people! never let anyone hurt you again :) we love you tarynbeth! lots of love from the uk! :) xxxx
@mreconor Wow, thank you so so much! Kind words like the ones you just gave me really just make my day and build me up. I smile so big because of all the great people here on youtube like yourself. I appreciate every single person on here who lends me their support. I love and cherish all of you.
@mreconor He cannot, and will not hurt you if you leave him. That's a scare tactic to make you stay, and it's working! If you can be brave enough to leave him, and you are truely scared, you need to call the police and tell them the situation, and that you're scared for your safety. I know that sounds drastic, but that would make sure that you're safe. I really hope you discover how much you're worth. You deserve someone who loves you and treats you well!
Tarynbeth this video is an inspiration. You are very strong to get out of that relationship. My parents split up when I was a baby because they were extremely unhappy, and it was definitely the right decision. Good stuff!
WOW, you are really something! Getting out was hard but staying out I hope is not only easy for you but is the choice you have made. There is so much better waiting for you and you deserve only the best - BELIEVE IT!
OMG! I subscribed toyou because of your acne videos. But I watched this one and it hit home with me. EVERYTHING you said was part of my story as well. I hope some young girl sees this and it changes her life. If It helps just one, you've succeeded! I hope you and your baby girl have all the happiness you deserve!
@msschwahn Thank you so much love. I'm sorry you had to go through that too. But hopefully it's made us both stronger individuals. I hope the same thing for you, that you find real love and true happiness.
OMG I LOVE YOU! thanks so much for sharing ur story with us and your part of my new project. My project is on emotional abuse. im showing it to my speech class and if you can please private message me i would love to talk to you about doing a video on just emotional abuse. so i can direcly show it to my class. This will mean the WORLD To me if you can do this! thanks!
Aw, I didn't think your life was hell. I'm glad you're able to escape from that and I do hope you'll meet someone that will treat you in the way you deserve. Please continue to make more videos. You're the best!
@Kamyel I'm glad you were able to get out of that relationship hun :) I hope everything goes well for you, and that you find real love and true happiness.
I must say that you are very courageous and brave woman to discuss this topic. I once was in a toxic relationship when I was 18, and know exactly what you are going through. Even though you feel you wasted years of your life with that person, just be thankful that you opened your eyes before it was too late. Wish you the best :-)
im so sorry this happened to you..so happy you found your way out :) you are an inspiration and you are so brave for posting this! by the way you have beautiful skin! :)
yah your right im 11 and, i don't really think that people should stay with them because i know peoplle want to do everything for their kids but, y stay unhappy and, when i see adults continuosly fight i don't llike seeing them together knowing that my mom is unhappy and is just doing it for me and, not her and, i shouldn't be around that anyway because it makes me really emotional and, i look at the smallest things that i did that was horrible and, start thinking maybe thats why they r miserabl
@Cherish51099 I'm sorry to hear that you're going through that sweetheart. But don't blame yourself. Your parent's issues probably have more to do with their compatibility. Keep your chin up hun :) Love ya
Glad you moved back with your parents :) Even though your daughter doesn't have a father with her, she has you plus your parents. They should be awesome examples since they have already been parents before and know what they would have differently for the next time- you know what i mean? But they are a great exchange for your boyfriend and a ton better of an example for your daughter. YOu made a great choice :)
I know exactly what you mean I moved out of my moms at 17 moved in with my gf her and her hole family did drugs but I was blinded by lust moving apt to apt I worked had my car she would steal from me cheat on me all the time we were engaged everyone told me to get away from her but I was lost in her I didn't listen to anyone we fought everyday she was always lying about something I came home early from work an saw her with the other guy I lost it and ended up getting my cloths and left
@MJG164 That's awful. I'm sorry you went through that. But it's true, when youre in that situation you're blinded to everything bad about that person. Especially when that happens when you're young. I moved out when I was 18.
@Tarynbeth yea we almost had a son together but he died inside her I think it was because of the drugs or she aborted him she wouldn't tell me but I was 17 I was still in high school we lived together for 3yrs and now I'm an emotionless robot every gf after her we just end badly every time I give my trust out it just hurts a thousand times worse in the end I don't even date anymore I gave up
@MJG164 I know, I hear you. I pretty much have given up on relationships. I have way too many walls right now and I'm too upset to let anyone even attempt to tear my walls down. I'm sorry to hear about your son, that must have been crazy to go through. It probably gave you another chance at a normal (or semi-normal) teenage life though.
I think you and all the other girls out there deserve way better than a guy who doesn't know how to respect a girl. And all the guys who are abused deserve to live a life where the girl doesn't physically or emotionally hurt them. NO MATTER if you're a straight/gay guy or a girl just know that NO ONE should have to accept being hurt.
Thank you for posting this video, I think your words can help save at least one person if not many ^_^
My friend had a baby with a guy and he was really abusive towards her. She wanted to stay with him for their little girl...it bothered me soooo much and despite EVERYONE telling her that she NEEDS to leave him, she is now engaged. I fear for their daughter and for my friend. :(
@TehKitteh01 Yeah, she's just going to have to figure out on her own that she needs to get out of there. But when you're in a bad relationship, and you're upset all the time, you can't give 100% of yourself as a parent. If you're depressed and angry most of the time, that will reflect in your parenting. The child will mirror the parent. So if you're happy and taking care of yourself, the child will be healthy and happy too.
Tarynbeth, I completely aggree with you. When someone loves you they only want the best for you and biceversa. People forget that in a relationship, respect and communication is fundamental.
I had to learn this from my own personal experience. I was married for almost 12 years and my exhusband was not very nice to me either. I decided to get divorce because of my daughter; I did not want her to grow up seing me cry all the time and him screaming at me all the time (whenever he was home)
@AnaAydee Yeah that's exactly what I was going through. I hated her seeing us arguing and me crying all the time. Hopefully she was young enough that she won't remember most of it.
this made me feel really emotional. ive been with my bf for almost 4 years in february and fight alot, but we have good times to. hes my bff and hes the one i count on, i hope it doesnt turn out like this.imsorrry for what happened to you:(.
@johncena1154 That's how I felt about my relationship. When times were good, they were really good. But when times were bad, they were REALLY bad. The thing was, they were bad a lot more than they were good. You really just need to ask youself what you're getting out of the relationship. I hope things work out well for you sweetheart. I'll be thinking of you.
aww i no how u feel, its always ilke tht and i hate it,
but we mostly have good times,
but there wud b times, were we'd fight everyday and i hated it, i felt like we were not merant to be but i dealt with it and were still together but were happy,i wish u good luck, congrats on ur baby btw! i never knew u had one, must b a cutie !
I had a boyfriend for two years. And Of course I was a young dumb stupid regular teenager. haha. But I thought I was IN LOVE!!!! And it got to the point where, I never saw my family, I was ALWAYS with him. And then we would argue all the time, and my parents always told me that I didn't need to be with him. And You are right. Love IS blind. because I was hurting the people I love and myself more just being in that relationship. Listen to your family. they love you. God bless you Tarynbeth! :)
well you still look smashing if it's any consolation. I imagine this will prove helpful to someone out there although usually people just have to figure these things out the hard way. Sad really, but such is life.
Great video. I admire you so much. That is so great that you got your daughter out of that situation--some people aren't strong enough to do that. So glad you guys are doing well!
@xwithaflourishx Yeah I totally understand. He probably did you a favor by breaking up with you, that's not to say it didn't hurt like a stab to the heart when he broke up with you though. I'm sorry you had to go through that hun.
I'm really sorry to hear all this and I am happy that you are much stronger now. My friend was in a relationship that was very similar to yours, and it was very hard for me to try and helping him and make him understand all these things that you just explained perfectly! I'm really proud of you, I think alot of people may watch these and recognize their own situations. Stay strong Taryn. No person, male or female deserves that!
@DariushUFC1985 I really hope that people watch this and can relate to it. I think if I had seen something like this back then I would have started thinking about things a little bit more. Thanks for the kind words :)
i can relate to this! so much. i am so glad you're out of that relationship! i remember trying so hard to hold on to the good times and trying to convince myself that everything was okay because i was scared to leave. scared of change. now im ina healthy relationship! full of love and communication, but unfortunately sometimes i slip up because of the bad habits from my past! this was a great message to send out, youre brave! stay strong. its a lesson learned.
Well Im glad you are safe now, take care of yourself. Something a bit similar happened to me, and im so relief its over for me too ~! I hope you have a great and happy life from now on :)
@MissLeLe110 Oh yeah, I would never undo anything. I wouldn't be who I am now, and know all the things I know now if I hadn't experienced those things. :)
you have GORGEOUS eyebrows!!! :D im so glad you got out of that relationship! you are a strong woman and you deserve a wonderful life full of fun and joy!
@annajade95 Thank you! I do my brows myself because I got them waxed one time and the girl messed them up! lol. Thank you for all the complements sweetheart, you're a doll :)
@75ariane Everything is MUCH better now, it's only been 6 months since I've been home, so hopefully everything will just keep getting better :) Thanks for asking.
big nose!
quosmo1 2 days ago
thanks for making such an important video! all this is true & seeing someone else talk about this helps.
lilyvalle760 3 weeks ago
This is the first video that i saw with abusive relationship...I just ended a relationship because the person i was with used verbal and physical and emotional abuse...he was dealing with pills...and i thought that i could change him...but now i can see that all this done to me...He loves me but when you love somebody you don't call you names!! or try to stop you from speaking with his hands around your neck...
i was doing second thoughts you know...but you made it clear to me...thank you..
ColourfulMB9 1 month ago
This is the first video of yours I've seen so far - but I feel like this issue brings us and so many others together. You're an inspiration and you're so beautiful inside and out - thank you so much for what you're doing here on YouTube.
ItsaJohnni 3 months ago
I was a damn fool for this boy name Andre Glenn. Noticed I called him a boy not a man. That relationship didn't last because he was jealous and abusive. The longer I stayed the more I wanted to kill him. Love don't hurt at all. Fuck being with him, I'd rather be alone then to stay and be unhappy with that worthless punk. I left the relationship not for my safety but for his safety. The last fight we had I ended up stabbing him and told him it's best he leave before I kill him.
mrslayvondawilson 4 months ago
wow i've never been in a abusive relationship but i have a friend that was in one. & u really opened my eyes to wat really happens in a relationship like that.
Hissweetlady16 6 months ago
i just don't have anyone to talk to . im too afraid to tell my friend or family about this
yaymeimfab 6 months ago
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yaymeimfab 6 months ago
i'm in abusive realtionship now,but i don't know how to get out.part of me still won't let go though i know it should be simple your boyfriend hits,you leave him. i just can't leave him,after he slap me,push me,or yell at me, i used to startto cry and evrytime i said i will leave him,he become really sweet and say he loves me so much. yesterday he slap me on public but i just don't know how to get out btw im 18 and he is 21 we go to the same school. is there any chance i could talk to you?email?
yaymeimfab 6 months ago
You definitely just helped me out to stay strong and respect myself more, thank you very much<3
GymDog990 7 months ago
Thank you, what I think about besides the agony is that this persons FRIENDS, FAMILY and CO-WORKERS have no idea or if they do, they are told you were the crazy bitch. If only they could see the real truth..... I truly believe all lies will be revealed in time. Hopefully the next girl isnt killed. The saddest part is when the person is looked upon as a GOOD GUY. I guess it really doesnt matter what they think because I know what happened to me.
dawnellen1967 7 months ago
you eyes are beautiful and your gorgeous.
JustinBieberSwaGGa 7 months ago
I was trying to find a video for blackheads and I stumbled upon this. Your story is really touching and although I've never been in an abusive relationship it seems that this video has helped the people who follow you. I truly and genuinely hope that you are happy in your life, you seem like a very strong women. And you have also helped me through my acne crisis :)
sundancekid128 7 months ago
I completely understand EVERYTHING I am in the same kindof relationship and keep HOPING that it will change because he can be so loving but the abuse comes and NEVER stops in 3 years, I stay because of the kids or money because i have no family here and nobody to help me work and no one i know understands because they havent been through this and just call me stupid I think i should talk to someone who has been through it all before and understands if you or anyone has time please reply Thanks!!
ChelseyNicole88 8 months ago
@ChelseyNicole88 hi, it has improved so much for me. he is never drinking again..that seemed to cause it. he is an emotional person already but the alcohol makes him crazy. but he loves me so much so wont be drinking anymore. i'm so sorry you're going through this...i'm not going to say the generic "there is help out there" because i'm sure you know that and you know whats right for you...i really hope things improve for you, it would be fantastic if it resolved without any breakups...
2ejs9 8 months ago
@ChelseyNicole88 and i hope your abuse isnt physical, mine was verbal and nothing really physical...but it was just as damaging...and in public too...good luck. i am sure you are smart enough to know whats best for you <3
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Mark10Fischer 8 months ago
Hun I just wanted to tell you that you are absolutely beautiful&I'm very sorry that you went through what you went through. Your advice is great advice,your words I can tell will hit people's hearts&inspire people's thoughts. Not many people get on this site to share advice straight from the heart. I respect what you had to say and I absolutely hope life brings you nothing but beautiful moments and opportunities! Take care hun
Soilworker091 8 months ago
Damn abusive guys what makes you so retarded to hit your girl, she don't deserve it even if she did something mean to you yall abusive guys should deserve to get a country ass woopin by a real man OR get spit on and punched in the face etc. by a group of women who have been abused. Yall sorry ass fucks
teushu 9 months ago
@teushu Exactly what i say i bet he wont do that to a MAN just a weaker woman
ChelseyNicole88 8 months ago
Well, abusive relationships aren't just BF/GF... My mom, for about 4 years, has been cursing at me, calling me a bitch, telling me I'm fat and need to work out, that I'm lazy and should clean more, and if I talk to her most of the time she would call me a crybaby. If we're in the car, she slams my head in the window. I cry myself to sleep at night and now I think bad names and curse words are fine. I mean, before, I'd cry if someone called me fat. Now, I don't care if someone calls me a bitch.
cryinglaughterFTW 9 months ago
@cryinglaughterFTW Thats very sad because i grew up the same way and around fighting and arguing and me getting treated badly and being called names and now I am in the same kind of relationship. I dont think its a coincidence this is an AWFUL CYCLE I dont want my daughters to grow up that way. Please dont let that get deep into you and carry that around, start your own beautiful family and get AWAY from that Its Runing My life and Happiness
ChelseyNicole88 8 months ago
ahh I'm going through this :(
2ejs9 10 months ago
@2ejs9 So am I and its very sad!! Vicious Cycle!!!! Email me if you want to talk 22 year old Female
ChelseyNicole88 8 months ago
as a very young child i grew up in a famlly with domestic violence but never thought it was normal i think it made me and my sibling more anxious, less secure, scared, afraid, overly cautious and fearful of marraige
luvsbuffgurls 10 months ago
Just got out of my first "real" relationship and he grabbed my wrist once and I didnt think much of it second time I got pulled off the bed hit my chin and then smacked and finally the last time when a towel was smacked in my face ankle grabbed when I was putting my shoe on to leave and thrown on the bed and told "If you ever try to leave I will break your ass" I wanted to believe he was ok but I know now he wasn't!!! It was only 4 months but it still hurt to let go!!!
danicabrooke 10 months ago
Thank you so much for sharing this with everyone :] I grew up with my parents fighting all of the time, and I'm so sick of my dad abusing my mom. I know that this totally isn't the right way to live-around fighting all the time, I mean. I got so sick of it I moved out and now I live with my grandparents. I'm worried about my mom, of course, so I sent her the link to this video. I hope you don't mind. I'm too much of a chicken to tell her to break it off with my dad.
iLove2tlk 10 months ago
Where should one go to get advice? I'm a male being verbally and emotionally abused every day by a female
NesBoy1985 10 months ago
Im in a gay abusive relationship and i got into a fight last Sunday [ a week ago]
well this guy is 27 and im 20. the guy just got jealous in a bar and attacked me. i have been dating him for 11 months and he hurt me really bad. he toss me to the ground and dislocated my arm. I was really scare and angry but i couldn't admit to the police that he did it. so t0 make a l0ng st0ry sh0rt I basically ended in the hospital and he was there for me. im scare he is going to hit me again
robbillion 1 year ago
@robbillion Honey, being afraid to end the relationship is totally normal. But the way he is treating you is not fair, and it's not right. Any one who lands you in a hospital is dangerous. And I PROMISE you, no matter what he says, it WILL happen again. People like that just dont change. You need to get out of that relationship, even if you love him, he clearly doesn't care much about your well-being. I'm worried for you. If you need any help or need someone to talk to, please e-mail me.
Tarynbeth 1 year ago 4
@Tarynbeth my friend told me to easy it off and brake up with him slowly, but i feel like the more we last together the more i love him. i know he is not right. but he will hurt me if i leave him. i know he will =[ i feel played used and abused. t.y so much fr replying to me! it means a lot!
robbillion 1 year ago
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@robbillion die u fucking faggot, no one cares about u
0nly1God1 11 months ago
@82cristalyn I'm glad you got yourself out of that relationship. No one deserves to be treated poorly. I'm glad you were able to find the strength to give yourself a chance to have the kind of relationship you DESERVE :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
you're beautifull, never let anyone put you down! i agree with everything you say! you are soooo talented tarynbeth, you're skincare tips are some of the best on youtube! you're amzing at what you do! and you are an inspiration to soooo many people! never let anyone hurt you again :) we love you tarynbeth! lots of love from the uk! :) xxxx
mreconor 1 year ago 5
@mreconor Wow, thank you so so much! Kind words like the ones you just gave me really just make my day and build me up. I smile so big because of all the great people here on youtube like yourself. I appreciate every single person on here who lends me their support. I love and cherish all of you.
Thank you for making my day 1000 times better :)
Lots of love back!
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
@mreconor He cannot, and will not hurt you if you leave him. That's a scare tactic to make you stay, and it's working! If you can be brave enough to leave him, and you are truely scared, you need to call the police and tell them the situation, and that you're scared for your safety. I know that sounds drastic, but that would make sure that you're safe. I really hope you discover how much you're worth. You deserve someone who loves you and treats you well!
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
Tarynbeth this video is an inspiration. You are very strong to get out of that relationship. My parents split up when I was a baby because they were extremely unhappy, and it was definitely the right decision. Good stuff!
jakeboydston 1 year ago
how old are u
theones100 1 year ago
you're so brave for sharing this!
It's better for a child to have one parent than two fighting parents!
just do the best you can for her :)
2paranoid2think 1 year ago
Your voice is very soothing.
lizoalex 1 year ago
@lizoalex Thank you :) Very nice compliment.
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
Very inspiring! I love you! Were u physically abused?
sup3rn3rdy 1 year ago
@sup3rn3rdy Not a lot, it was actually very rare, but it was never hitting or punching or anything. And I love you too :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
WOW, you are really something! Getting out was hard but staying out I hope is not only easy for you but is the choice you have made. There is so much better waiting for you and you deserve only the best - BELIEVE IT!
wintr1000 1 year ago
@wintr1000 Thank you so much hun :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
By the way how old are you vuz ur def not over 22 and what's your daughters name?
XxXRoxygrLXxX 1 year ago
@XxXRoxygrLXxX lol I'm actually 23. My daughter's name is Summer :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
Very very inspiring. I never knew this about you. Best of luck with everything and I luv ur hair!
XxXRoxygrLXxX 1 year ago
@XxXRoxygrLXxX Thanks hun :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
OMG! I subscribed toyou because of your acne videos. But I watched this one and it hit home with me. EVERYTHING you said was part of my story as well. I hope some young girl sees this and it changes her life. If It helps just one, you've succeeded! I hope you and your baby girl have all the happiness you deserve!
msschwahn 1 year ago
@msschwahn Thank you so much love. I'm sorry you had to go through that too. But hopefully it's made us both stronger individuals. I hope the same thing for you, that you find real love and true happiness.
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monica47nhgbs 1 year ago
OMG I LOVE YOU! thanks so much for sharing ur story with us and your part of my new project. My project is on emotional abuse. im showing it to my speech class and if you can please private message me i would love to talk to you about doing a video on just emotional abuse. so i can direcly show it to my class. This will mean the WORLD To me if you can do this! thanks!
amandamartir 1 year ago
@amandamartir Thanks for the opportunity hun :) I'm glad it went well for you, and I was happy to do it.
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
Aw, I didn't think your life was hell. I'm glad you're able to escape from that and I do hope you'll meet someone that will treat you in the way you deserve. Please continue to make more videos. You're the best!
Seyzen 1 year ago
@Seyzen Thank you! I will continue to make videos for as long as you guys will watch them :)
Ps. You're the best
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
This is deep, thanks for posting. i wish you the best
lifedelay 1 year ago
@lifedelay Thank you hun :)
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HnjuyCbgyt 1 year ago
Thank you for posting this. So much of what you talked about sounds like the relationship I recently got out of.
Kamyel 1 year ago
@Kamyel I'm glad you were able to get out of that relationship hun :) I hope everything goes well for you, and that you find real love and true happiness.
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
there should be more people like you in this world =)
CHEESEMONKEY92 1 year ago
@CHEESEMONKEY92 That is super sweet of you to say, thanks love :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
Thank you for posting this, it's a ray of hope.
writtenpieceopaper 1 year ago
@writtenpieceopaper I'm glad that you liked the video :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
I must say that you are very courageous and brave woman to discuss this topic. I once was in a toxic relationship when I was 18, and know exactly what you are going through. Even though you feel you wasted years of your life with that person, just be thankful that you opened your eyes before it was too late. Wish you the best :-)
lilchanchan864 1 year ago
Great video ! Thanks for sharing !
Could you do a tutorial on your eye make up? Its really pretty !
mebemadisongrace 1 year ago
im so sorry this happened to you..so happy you found your way out :) you are an inspiration and you are so brave for posting this! by the way you have beautiful skin! :)
sienatahlia 1 year ago
Thanks for sharing this. <3
RobynMW81 1 year ago 15
@RobynMW81 Thanks for watching it sweetheart :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
yah your right im 11 and, i don't really think that people should stay with them because i know peoplle want to do everything for their kids but, y stay unhappy and, when i see adults continuosly fight i don't llike seeing them together knowing that my mom is unhappy and is just doing it for me and, not her and, i shouldn't be around that anyway because it makes me really emotional and, i look at the smallest things that i did that was horrible and, start thinking maybe thats why they r miserabl
Cherish51099 1 year ago
@Cherish51099 I'm sorry to hear that you're going through that sweetheart. But don't blame yourself. Your parent's issues probably have more to do with their compatibility. Keep your chin up hun :) Love ya
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
you are so brave to do this video. thank you very much, Tarynbeth.
christentze 1 year ago
@christentze Thanks hun :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
aww that sucks :( you must be a very strong person too still live with there ex :(
hope everything goes better!
XxPandaPurplexX 1 year ago
Thanks for telling your story. I was wondering how old you were when you got into the relationship? And how old you are now.
dsetitoff 1 year ago
@dsetitoff I was 18 (and thought I knew everything) when I got into the relationship, 19 when I had my daughter, and now I am 23.
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
@Tarynbeth does your daughter live with you now???
hl5slgbdb13 1 year ago
@hl5slgbdb13 Yes, she lives with me :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
Glad you moved back with your parents :) Even though your daughter doesn't have a father with her, she has you plus your parents. They should be awesome examples since they have already been parents before and know what they would have differently for the next time- you know what i mean? But they are a great exchange for your boyfriend and a ton better of an example for your daughter. YOu made a great choice :)
corgiluver26 1 year ago
I know exactly what you mean I moved out of my moms at 17 moved in with my gf her and her hole family did drugs but I was blinded by lust moving apt to apt I worked had my car she would steal from me cheat on me all the time we were engaged everyone told me to get away from her but I was lost in her I didn't listen to anyone we fought everyday she was always lying about something I came home early from work an saw her with the other guy I lost it and ended up getting my cloths and left
MJG164 1 year ago
@MJG164 That's awful. I'm sorry you went through that. But it's true, when youre in that situation you're blinded to everything bad about that person. Especially when that happens when you're young. I moved out when I was 18.
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
@Tarynbeth yea we almost had a son together but he died inside her I think it was because of the drugs or she aborted him she wouldn't tell me but I was 17 I was still in high school we lived together for 3yrs and now I'm an emotionless robot every gf after her we just end badly every time I give my trust out it just hurts a thousand times worse in the end I don't even date anymore I gave up
MJG164 1 year ago
@MJG164 I know, I hear you. I pretty much have given up on relationships. I have way too many walls right now and I'm too upset to let anyone even attempt to tear my walls down. I'm sorry to hear about your son, that must have been crazy to go through. It probably gave you another chance at a normal (or semi-normal) teenage life though.
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
YOU are such an AMAZING person :)
I think you and all the other girls out there deserve way better than a guy who doesn't know how to respect a girl. And all the guys who are abused deserve to live a life where the girl doesn't physically or emotionally hurt them. NO MATTER if you're a straight/gay guy or a girl just know that NO ONE should have to accept being hurt.
Thank you for posting this video, I think your words can help save at least one person if not many ^_^
BabiiMackiinz 1 year ago
@BabiiMackiinz Thank you hun. I think you're pretty amazing too ;)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
My friend had a baby with a guy and he was really abusive towards her. She wanted to stay with him for their little girl...it bothered me soooo much and despite EVERYONE telling her that she NEEDS to leave him, she is now engaged. I fear for their daughter and for my friend. :(
TehKitteh01 1 year ago
@TehKitteh01 Yeah, she's just going to have to figure out on her own that she needs to get out of there. But when you're in a bad relationship, and you're upset all the time, you can't give 100% of yourself as a parent. If you're depressed and angry most of the time, that will reflect in your parenting. The child will mirror the parent. So if you're happy and taking care of yourself, the child will be healthy and happy too.
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
Tarynbeth, I completely aggree with you. When someone loves you they only want the best for you and biceversa. People forget that in a relationship, respect and communication is fundamental.
I had to learn this from my own personal experience. I was married for almost 12 years and my exhusband was not very nice to me either. I decided to get divorce because of my daughter; I did not want her to grow up seing me cry all the time and him screaming at me all the time (whenever he was home)
AnaAydee 1 year ago 11
@AnaAydee Yeah that's exactly what I was going through. I hated her seeing us arguing and me crying all the time. Hopefully she was young enough that she won't remember most of it.
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
you look soo pretty in this video (:
i would NEVER guess you have a daughter. you look sooo young. this is a good vid though ((:
amandafloresloveyou 1 year ago
@amandafloresloveyou Thank you hun!
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
this made me feel really emotional. ive been with my bf for almost 4 years in february and fight alot, but we have good times to. hes my bff and hes the one i count on, i hope it doesnt turn out like this.imsorrry for what happened to you:(.
this really helped me alot, i love ur advice
johncena1154 1 year ago
@johncena1154 That's how I felt about my relationship. When times were good, they were really good. But when times were bad, they were REALLY bad. The thing was, they were bad a lot more than they were good. You really just need to ask youself what you're getting out of the relationship. I hope things work out well for you sweetheart. I'll be thinking of you.
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
@Tarynbeth
aww i no how u feel, its always ilke tht and i hate it,
but we mostly have good times,
but there wud b times, were we'd fight everyday and i hated it, i felt like we were not merant to be but i dealt with it and were still together but were happy,i wish u good luck, congrats on ur baby btw! i never knew u had one, must b a cutie !
johncena1154 1 year ago
I had a boyfriend for two years. And Of course I was a young dumb stupid regular teenager. haha. But I thought I was IN LOVE!!!! And it got to the point where, I never saw my family, I was ALWAYS with him. And then we would argue all the time, and my parents always told me that I didn't need to be with him. And You are right. Love IS blind. because I was hurting the people I love and myself more just being in that relationship. Listen to your family. they love you. God bless you Tarynbeth! :)
amegan10 1 year ago
@amegan10 Thank you :) God bless.
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
Hamburgers...
well you still look smashing if it's any consolation. I imagine this will prove helpful to someone out there although usually people just have to figure these things out the hard way. Sad really, but such is life.
OrbGoblin 1 year ago
@OrbGoblin Thanks love :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
You're so brave to make this video.. I'm sure it's going to help a lot of people. I'm so happy everything is working out for you now. :)
nikamiw 1 year ago
@nikamiw Thank you sweetheart :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
loved this video. such a powerful message!
BBlivefeeds 1 year ago
@BBlivefeeds Thank you!!
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
Great video. I admire you so much. That is so great that you got your daughter out of that situation--some people aren't strong enough to do that. So glad you guys are doing well!
And love your makeup!!
MySweetRealityx3 1 year ago
@MySweetRealityx3 Thank you sweetheart! You're very kind.
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
*haha, more pain than love/happiness
xwithaflourishx 1 year ago
one of my exes was going thru his parents divorce, for the 2nd time.
i always told him i was there for him and that i'd always listen and everything
but he'd be so rude and start being so arrogant and he'd call me names and talk about me behind my back, and then finally broke up w/ me.
it hurt me so much b/c i felt like i worked so hard for it, and he did absolutely nothing, and then in the end it didn't even matter.
i definitely agree, that relationship had so much more pain than hurt.
xwithaflourishx 1 year ago
@xwithaflourishx Yeah I totally understand. He probably did you a favor by breaking up with you, that's not to say it didn't hurt like a stab to the heart when he broke up with you though. I'm sorry you had to go through that hun.
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
This was very thought-provoking. Thanks for the video.
christeelaxlax 1 year ago
@christeelaxlax Thank you for watching it. I'm really excited that you liked it :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
I'm really sorry to hear all this and I am happy that you are much stronger now. My friend was in a relationship that was very similar to yours, and it was very hard for me to try and helping him and make him understand all these things that you just explained perfectly! I'm really proud of you, I think alot of people may watch these and recognize their own situations. Stay strong Taryn. No person, male or female deserves that!
DariushUFC1985 1 year ago
@DariushUFC1985 I really hope that people watch this and can relate to it. I think if I had seen something like this back then I would have started thinking about things a little bit more. Thanks for the kind words :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
i can relate to this! so much. i am so glad you're out of that relationship! i remember trying so hard to hold on to the good times and trying to convince myself that everything was okay because i was scared to leave. scared of change. now im ina healthy relationship! full of love and communication, but unfortunately sometimes i slip up because of the bad habits from my past! this was a great message to send out, youre brave! stay strong. its a lesson learned.
kirstiel0vesy0u 1 year ago
@kirstiel0vesy0u For sure. I'm glad that you're in a healthy relationship now :) Thanks for the uplifting comment!
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
Well Im glad you are safe now, take care of yourself. Something a bit similar happened to me, and im so relief its over for me too ~! I hope you have a great and happy life from now on :)
XxNajmaxX 1 year ago
Look to the positive side, look how much you've learnt.
MissLeLe110 1 year ago
@MissLeLe110 Oh yeah, I would never undo anything. I wouldn't be who I am now, and know all the things I know now if I hadn't experienced those things. :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
you have GORGEOUS eyebrows!!! :D im so glad you got out of that relationship! you are a strong woman and you deserve a wonderful life full of fun and joy!
annajade95 1 year ago
@annajade95 Thank you! I do my brows myself because I got them waxed one time and the girl messed them up! lol. Thank you for all the complements sweetheart, you're a doll :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
Great video ... I hope everything is okay now =).
75ariane 1 year ago
@75ariane Everything is MUCH better now, it's only been 6 months since I've been home, so hopefully everything will just keep getting better :) Thanks for asking.
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
im sorry for what your going through, but your make-up looks great!
shugargrl 1 year ago
@shugargrl lol Thanks!!
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
@Tarynbeth Where are u from?
DJPaggos 1 year ago
@DJPaggos Canada. My family is Italian Canadian. :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago
Im first, kewl!! lol!! xo luv ya!!
shugargrl 1 year ago
@shugargrl Love you too :)
Tarynbeth 1 year ago