I'm 16, and I've been in four relationships. My last one was nearly a year ago. Right now I don't really have any interest in being in a relationship, at all. There's not very many Lesbian/bisexual girls at my school, and I'm too platonic or I don't like any of the ones that I do know. But you know what? I'm totally okay with that. Right now I need to focus on my goals, and figure out who I am as a person. I'll still have plenty of time for dating when I'm a bit older
I'd be careful about okcupid. Granted, I did meet my boyfriend on that site and I love him very much, but I think I got very lucky. All my other friends that have used that site have not had very good experiences.
I find that sometimes, if you feel you need to, it is helpful allow yourself a day or two to mope about, to cry, to listen to sad songs. It is very important to stick to the few days you have given yourself just to feel sad. After that time period is over you MUST focus on moving on.
i think the best thing is to have your closest friends know whas going on around school or your social click. the reason why is becuz u already know that he is telling other girls stuff, complimenting a girl's ass on FB, or that he was cheating on you. its being prepared and knowing what you dont see. a good friend is GREAT support!!!!!! (this was personal experience and when my friends told me all the stuff, i didnt even cry when he broke up with me the next day!) :D hope this helped!
Also, I tell myself everything happens for a reason and what's meant to he will find a way. Then I look in the mirror and list all the good things about myself
My girlfriend of 3 years just broke up with me. I'm having such a hard time accepting that it's real. Neither of us want to break up, but we both know that we really should. She has really bad anxiety and she hasn't felt right about anything in the past year. She said that she had to gain control over it before she could be in a relationship. I completely understand, but I don't think she's ever coming back to me. We still talk every day, but we don't see each other anymore. I need a hug so bad.
Haha today is 2/21/12...I got out of my first relationship today. Being my first, I was so careful with what I said and did around him. I made sure I wasn't too needy, too jealous - I never questioned where he was or what he was doing. His birthday was this Saturday.
On the same day, I found out he had been cheating and today, he dumped me through facebook. Girls/guys, your heart might feel 100lbs heavier after a break up. But in the end, you're the one who deserves your love the most.
Personally, I've never had a rebound. I had only one boyfriend in my lifetime, and when I broke up with him I realized that I was happier being single.
Thank You So Much For This Video!. It Really Helped Me Realize A Lot .. Because It's Been 8 Months And I'm Still Not Over My Ex ... Sadly I Still Sleep With His Shirt, Listen To Our Songs, Look At Our Pictures, Think About The Past..Etc. So Thank You So Much !. I Think It's Time For Me To Move On & Be Happy!. (: Oh And I Subbed!!!.
My "boyfriend" broke up with me saturday, he is like, my heart breaker, and my mom is sending me to holland if I talk with him or go back to him cause she don't want to see me hurt again!
uuuhh that doesnt work when you have a psycho ex girlfriend..we jux broke up a month ago and she left me for another that quick didnt even notice she didnt have love for me nut she wont let me move on or have a girlfriend either. i guess i should have deleted her from my fone and lost contact of her but its impossible cause if i dont answer my fone she knocking my door down.
my relationship lasted for 6 years best 6 years of my life and she had the biggest heart, but now she doesent even wanna see me and that is what hurts the most that she is just ice cold. I miss here so much and i can barely get to work. Cant eat cant sleep the only thing i can is work out. Why would God create a person with a heart like that. It hurts it really really hurts, and i'm not afraid to admit it. And i fully agree with the comment above, show them that ur strong!
@gallant5k yupp i dated a girl for 6 months and it was the best ever, everything was great, then all of a sudden she got depressed soo i tried to help her as much as i could, but then she wanted to take a break cause she couldnt act like a gf cause of it, then 3 days later she left me saying she lost feelings and couldnt have a guy at the moment cause of her depression, but now is all over some kid and now she smokes weed all day and wants to drop outa school, i can admit i miss her alot :(
@RXJ7 Then imagine how u would feel after 6 years... ur probably over ur heartbreak at the moment (i hope for ur sake) but mine will probably take months and months.. but we will get over it, we just have to give it time, and maby she wantet a badboy and smoke weed, but she will regret that shit later belive me, been there before.. U deserve better than a girl like that my friend! much better!
I'm just too emotionally detached to get upset over break ups... I know thats not normal... but if me and my current bf ever break up I know its gonna be hard for me cuz this is the only relationship I'v ever been girly about <3 <3
I think that getting rejected by someone I love was the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with in my life.
For anyone who's going through the same sort of pain that I was experiencing about 6 months ago due to a breakup, I have a recommendation for you. Check out..
Breakups2Makeups. com
The program on there helped me get through a really hard time and ultimately, it helped me get my girlfriend back and my whole life back on track. Good luck guys and girls. Hope it helps :)
Ex-bf broke up with me cause he did drug. I've been drinking since i was in the 5th grade and stopped because i knew alcoholism runs in my family. i recovered on my own and helped ppl with their issues.not once did he open up with me about his issues. 3/4 of my friends are drug abusers.His story wouldnt have surprised me, i would have done everything in my power to help him out. But i lost contact with him and am in a wonderful relationship now. ^.^
love is just like a drug. inside our brains, a chemical reaction happens that makes us feel the NEED to love. its superficial. but it doesn't feel that way. we feel that we need that in order to feel wanted, or unique, or whole. when we find love our brain spurts these chemicals that get us "high" and we become addicted to this feeling of "love" and in the end we are left yearning for more of this drug they call "love" it takes awhile for our bodies to withdraw from this.
My boyfriend has been kind of distant lately, I really really really like him so of course it hurts my feelings and even though its possible nothing is wrong I can't help but feel like he might want to break up. The thing is though, hes my best friend's brother, so ceasing contact is pretty much impossible. Any advice?
my boyfriend just cheated on my last night for the 13th time. he has been horrible for me. abusive and crazy. I know that I should have ended it months ago but I was so in love with him. He has hit an all time low for what he has down. two weeks ago I just got a kidney transplant and after that for three months you can't kiss anyone because of germs. He slept with someone else last night. I wanna kill myself because I am so upset but that is so stupid because I was just given the gift of life.
It's tough shit. I had an on and off abusive relationship with a guy for a year and a half. He made me feel like nothing and every time he broke up with me I would beg for him back and the last month of our relationship was basically a string of one night stands. I finally have gathered the strength and it's been a few days since I have tried contacting him. I do feel better about myself. And I'm hoping I'll be able to stay strong if he tries contacting me. My life isn't controlled anymore.
It's tough shit. I had an on and off abusive relationship with a guy for a year and a half. He made me feel like nothing and every time he broke up with me I would beg for him back and the last month of our relationship was basically a string of one night stands. I finally have gathered the strength and it's been a few days since I have tried contacting him. I do feel better about myself. And I'm hoping I'll be able to stay strong if he tries contacting me. My life isn't controlled anymore.
My girlfriend of 3 years left me for someone who could "take care" of her more (her words).
I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep .. seriously, I never knew I could feel sooo terrible. Losing (and getting rejected by someone you love) is by far the worst feeling in the world!
Anyway, I'm back with her now after the 3 months of what was basically emotional torture.
facebook is the worst, ive blocked my ex on fb but i can still stalk his friends' public fb to see what them and my ex get up to. i just need to fight the urge of being nosey and move on but its so hard :(
thanks soooo muchh!!! ive been through a recent break up and ive been depressed and breaking down and ive been wanting to crawl back again!! but hes not worth it ive been doing all these tips this helps me alot
Okay this helped so much. I have a boyfriend or ex im not sure but he broke up with me twice in the same week, I keep crawling back to him. He hangs up on me for no reason. Ignores me and tells me he has alot going on in his life. I told him that if he needed space he should tell me, but he said he wanted to be with me... Im not sure anymore. Ive spent the last 2 days crying, and worrying that hes going to leave me. I even lost 5 pounds because i havent been eating. Any advice?
This reminds me that people tell me how I'm young and how I will get over her. That this is just one more experience. that this will happen again. That I will fall in love again. Then I saw a video of Chris Rock explaining that a 40 yr old titty is "your man's titty" ... a 20 yr old titty - Community Titty! . - I begin to realize that this also apples to a penis.
Even tho its funny and I feel better, i wish I didn't have that many ex gf. I just want to find the right one.. I miss my girl!
Honestly, if it ends with someone its not because you were inadequate, its generally because you were not right for each other in the long term. We all have strengths and weaknesses that are applicable in some places, but not others.
I got rid of like everything on facebook of us, posts on my wall that he posted or commented on, comments on his profile or posts of mine, deleted all the pictures of us off of facebook, photobucket, and my hard drive, then i noticed there was still a picture of us in his profile picture album! I messaged him and asked him to take it off... and he won't. no clue why, any advice?
All is great EXCEPT "getting under some else"! That is just fucking stupid. Unless you're a big time whore, that will accomplish NOTHING! You will feel much worse after the fact.
Just deal with the pain. take it one day at a time. push through the days when you really want to have contact and DON'T. In a few weeks you'll feel so much better. In a few months you'll be back to normal. Promise. Hugs to all who are hurting right now!
please help me im so aggravated cuz he wants to get back together but i cant trust him cuz he joked about dumping me and he did it more than once. some 1 help im confused on what o do
1st guy I ever likes, finally asked him out, rejected, hard, so hard he thought I was kidding. He sits right behind me in class, i would always rush in out and around to avoid him. I thought he was a total jerk. I wrote down the 1st 10 words that came to mind when thought of him, and this one guy who REALLY pisses me off, 3 things where similar. When I got home I would think about him. EVENTUALLY, I DID get over him (shocker). Trust me ladies, IT'S NOT THE END OF THE WORLD!
help, me and my ex have the same grup f friends, how can i get over himk when i see him pretty much everyday. but i dont wonna stop hanging with the group coz it will make him see that im hurting
@KentuckyStateeeBro same thing for me. You kinda have to avoid him, but not REALLY avoid him. Try to avoid any realtionshiip conversations and talk to him as little as possible, try to stay focused on other friends. Think of a guy you hate, write down the 1st 10 things that come to mind when you think of him/her, now, do the same for your ex. Did you see anything similar? Try to think of those things when you see/ talk to him to help you not feel lonely. Hope I could help!
So, my friend showed me your channel because she knows that I like to listen to people opinions and outlooks on many topics - and I must say, watching your videos has helped me reflect my own views and such.
So, I had a nasty break up. I dated the guy for... 18 months. And he ended up having to move. He left, and literally a week later I found out two devastating things. 1) I had a blood disorder called Agranulocytosis. 2) I was pregnant. And it just... resulted in a break up and lots of pain
@XoXDreamerXoX5 But, I also took a lot of time to myself - starting running again, took up drawing again, and just spent a ton of time with my friends and had lots of fun until he was off my mind. And, well it worked. He was my first love and I look back now (We've been broken up since October 2010) and I see that I do still care for him but differently, and I always will. But yeah, break ups suck - and now that I am dating again and such, I use lessons from my past to make a better future :)
hey Laci. what if the guy you love is your best friend and he doesn't love you back, but you know that he's the one and you have tried to cease contact but it never works? what would you do?
I just went through a really tough break up and it really was difficult. It was a little short of a year long thing and it hurt =( then i found this video and im a lot better now! thanks laci!! my timing SUCKED tho.
totally agree with everything you said :) i also found that beautifying yourself helps a lot. get that self confidence back :) go out and find a guy and just hook up (lol) i know it sounds weird, but trust me, it really helps :) you'll be back to your old self in no time. just remember how amazing you are, and how much you deserve.
@xokelspaigexo u will not have any idea yet if u can or cannot seem to get over them because its too recent...give it a month, see how u feel and think then
ive known ppl who just get over the person after 2 yrs+ in a month or less, they date others happily ever after, but then i know ppl who were dating for 2 months and still felt bad after awhile...ive done so as a "we coulda stayed just friends, but i screwed up" situation
either way, give it time and take laci's advice here its good
@RACE44100: yeah, facebook stalking is BAD. if you want advice on how to stop thinking about your ex and facebook stalking them, check out my youtube channel for more advice on how to get over a break up.
Usually when you break up with your ex, or he or she breaks up with you, there is a natural level of missing one another, or longing to get back together. This is especially true following a relationship of a year or longer. Your ex is probably going to miss you no matter what, because of how many memories were shared together during this period of time. Read more in my site
This is weird for me cuz i had a relationship with a coworker for a year while being married. I definitely loved her but had to just let her go. My relationship with my wife has gotten exponentially better and now were having a kid so fuck that homewrecker! lol. i used most of the steps you stated. lol. hope my wife doesnt read this somehow.
@XR0ck3rChickX trust your feelings and remind yourself that you broke up for a reason. i know its hard being by yourself when youre used to having someone there doing everything but remember that this is the right thing to do and stay positive. if you want some more advice on how to get over a break up, check out my youtube videos.
hey so what do you do if you like this boy and you don't know if he likes you and if you ask him your afraid he is going to say no?IDK HELP PLEASE THANKS
thank you my guy friend sam just told me that my boyfriend (very first one) is thinkin about breaking up with me and i am soo sad right when i saw the text i started crying i really like him and he said that he loves me then he wants to break up with me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE!!!!! im still crying :(((((((( HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i just broke up with my bf 2 days ago, but it feels like it has been a week. its so true that we should all know that breakups happens and more are coming. just never stop looking for the right one just because you are afraid of getting hurt again. its definitely gonna be tough, but i know that i am tougher :) thank you Laci.
Im scared that boyfriend i just started dating is gonna dump me... I really like him, and he told me he couldnt talk right now. But he told he would text me... And he didnt text me back. But when we hung up he told me he loved me.... Is he gonna dump me, or am i overeacting?
something that helped me was just being around my friends and family. at the time that i broke up with my ex, my cousin was visiting, one that i had never met before. so while something ended, something else even more precious entered my life. so go and meet some new people and make a few friends at a coffee shop or wherever. do something, or talk about the breakup with someone you can trust. and, to help the pain, make a voodoo doll and write (and burn) a letter to him. hey, it helps :P
Thanx, I'm hurting really bad over my ex right now. I can't stop thinking about all the good times I've had with her, she's like my best friend, thankgod it was mutual. Sometimes people just grow up and grow apart. Thanks a ton for making this ^^
i am completely straight, but you are absolutely gorgeous <3 and i totally agree with all the tips, i've only been broken up with once, and the rest, i was the one to break it off. but you're tips are all so true.
my boyfriend broke up with me today and he wont tell me why but i think these tips will really help but imma try em tomorrow im tired this already made me feel better though thank you laci :)
I cried for a couple minutes today. Me and my boyfriend (8 months) broke up almost 3 weeks ago. I cried and then i didn't feel sad anymore. My new thing "guess my heart wasn't meant to broken over you" :] that made me feel better! You know what also helps? Writing them a hate letter and then stashing it somewhere and forgetting about it. Lets your "true colors" to them come out[:
my boyfriend broke up with me the day after prom. he went out with another girl the day after prom then told me we "werent working out" fuck him you lying cheater..
Ive been with my boyfriend for 3year,almost.Then,today,we we're supose to chill in a park with friends,you know..like,drinking and stuff.Then I went to the bathroom for a few minuts,when I came back,that guy was kissing my friend,she wasen't my best but it still hurts like hell when I saw then with the corner of my eye,not like to stare at them,just I saw that they we're kissing(ALL LONG)I felt so sad,I still love him anyway and she knows it,but he dosent give a shit guess..anybody :
I forgot to mention,we broke up with only 1month ago....PLEASE HELP ME!!!
Its not like I want to suicide,but its kinda the thing I have in mind....
Im fifteen and heart-broken...
I tried to follow your steps,but its hard to not mention or pretend not seeing him because he's in my school,class.... :( If I say him how I feel..HE'LL TOTALLY REJECT ME!..I know him.. :(
Thanks Laci. I just had a breakup after a 2 and a half year relationship, and now she won't even talk to me at all. It's been tough, but these tips actually make a lot of sense. And you're right, ceasing contact is really hard to do.
@Cybrisk i just broke up from a 2 year relationship as well-.- actually im the one who got dumped literally, its been a month and my ex has somebody else, prolly a new shelter for her...plus the main reason she did is she just got this new job which she really loves and every time she was feeling demoralised abt her previous jobs, she'd come running to me but once she sobbered up, she'd dump and made me feel like i was her bitch..
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and on his birthday i found a pic of another girl, he claims it was a pic he downloaded form porn. i have been so hurt before and cheated on, i over reacted i took all my fustration out on him form the past realtionship! i punche him ad slaped him, i called him worthless and i lie and said ive been cheating on him too. break up are so mean and messy! i feel so ashame that i would even think of doing something like that.
Nice tips(: me and my boyfriend are having problems. i love him so much bujt were constantly fighting. iif we do, though I guess i will absolutely follow your tips(:
very helpfull. i didn't break up it was more like rejection i asked a guy out because he told me i like you and that we should go out and when i asked him out he told me it was all a lie and that no and for me to piss offf
currently going through a horrendous breakup and it's hurting me so bad. i just want to allow myself to accept and move on but it's hard when you still care for the person and love them, in spite of them telling you that they no longer have love for you.
thanx for the help laci cuz i juz broke up with muh gf today aand i still do love her she been all bout sex and drinking and i wasnt liked tht sorta cuz i wanna look into a good life not a girl tht pary everyday and have sex.. she wasnt liked tht at first she was sweet but then turn out bad and crazi over me and i hate tht being obessive over me.. and now she calling me a whore cuz i didnt ask for sex.. she was acting liked one.
I'm 16, and I've been in four relationships. My last one was nearly a year ago. Right now I don't really have any interest in being in a relationship, at all. There's not very many Lesbian/bisexual girls at my school, and I'm too platonic or I don't like any of the ones that I do know. But you know what? I'm totally okay with that. Right now I need to focus on my goals, and figure out who I am as a person. I'll still have plenty of time for dating when I'm a bit older
TheCrazynessOfSarah 6 hours ago
uno what the only real heal is to get back at them by poeting there phone number all over the internet
PotatoPieBros 1 day ago
I'd be careful about okcupid. Granted, I did meet my boyfriend on that site and I love him very much, but I think I got very lucky. All my other friends that have used that site have not had very good experiences.
I find that sometimes, if you feel you need to, it is helpful allow yourself a day or two to mope about, to cry, to listen to sad songs. It is very important to stick to the few days you have given yourself just to feel sad. After that time period is over you MUST focus on moving on.
MsJournalist91 2 days ago
i think the best thing is to have your closest friends know whas going on around school or your social click. the reason why is becuz u already know that he is telling other girls stuff, complimenting a girl's ass on FB, or that he was cheating on you. its being prepared and knowing what you dont see. a good friend is GREAT support!!!!!! (this was personal experience and when my friends told me all the stuff, i didnt even cry when he broke up with me the next day!) :D hope this helped!
LAflorale 6 days ago
Also, I tell myself everything happens for a reason and what's meant to he will find a way. Then I look in the mirror and list all the good things about myself
JOJOAMBERGARZ 1 week ago
My girlfriend of 3 years just broke up with me. I'm having such a hard time accepting that it's real. Neither of us want to break up, but we both know that we really should. She has really bad anxiety and she hasn't felt right about anything in the past year. She said that she had to gain control over it before she could be in a relationship. I completely understand, but I don't think she's ever coming back to me. We still talk every day, but we don't see each other anymore. I need a hug so bad.
gladiators2037 1 week ago
Haha today is 2/21/12...I got out of my first relationship today. Being my first, I was so careful with what I said and did around him. I made sure I wasn't too needy, too jealous - I never questioned where he was or what he was doing. His birthday was this Saturday.
On the same day, I found out he had been cheating and today, he dumped me through facebook. Girls/guys, your heart might feel 100lbs heavier after a break up. But in the end, you're the one who deserves your love the most.
Evnaaa 2 weeks ago
Break ups suck ughh.
jgabriellex 2 weeks ago
Rebounds: good for you, bad for them. :3
Personally, I've never had a rebound. I had only one boyfriend in my lifetime, and when I broke up with him I realized that I was happier being single.
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i have a friend lose her boyfriend thanks 2 this girl it better 4 her
4125MRKNIGHTX 1 month ago
Thank You So Much For This Video!. It Really Helped Me Realize A Lot .. Because It's Been 8 Months And I'm Still Not Over My Ex ... Sadly I Still Sleep With His Shirt, Listen To Our Songs, Look At Our Pictures, Think About The Past..Etc. So Thank You So Much !. I Think It's Time For Me To Move On & Be Happy!. (: Oh And I Subbed!!!.
NellaEsquivel 1 month ago
My "boyfriend" broke up with me saturday, he is like, my heart breaker, and my mom is sending me to holland if I talk with him or go back to him cause she don't want to see me hurt again!
TheGummyBear95 1 month ago
uuuhh that doesnt work when you have a psycho ex girlfriend..we jux broke up a month ago and she left me for another that quick didnt even notice she didnt have love for me nut she wont let me move on or have a girlfriend either. i guess i should have deleted her from my fone and lost contact of her but its impossible cause if i dont answer my fone she knocking my door down.
orylosoya 1 month ago
Thanks!!!
BGirlSkirtao 1 month ago
My son needs a date for the senior prom are you available?
GoldPondFrog 1 month ago in playlist SEX+ Episodes 4
lol i just realized i watched this when my ex broke up with me XD it helped
dark58 1 month ago
@tapthat do you do the original number 8 :P
phunkyphantom619 1 month ago
before # 8 was corrected it Was my favorite!!!! XD lol
Emopunkface 1 month ago
This chick looks good. I want some of hers.
MrHotdog55555 2 months ago
sexuality.. what if you're like 13?
sweetheart3423 2 months ago
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sweetheart3423 2 months ago
my relationship lasted for 6 years best 6 years of my life and she had the biggest heart, but now she doesent even wanna see me and that is what hurts the most that she is just ice cold. I miss here so much and i can barely get to work. Cant eat cant sleep the only thing i can is work out. Why would God create a person with a heart like that. It hurts it really really hurts, and i'm not afraid to admit it. And i fully agree with the comment above, show them that ur strong!
gallant5k 2 months ago
@gallant5k yupp i dated a girl for 6 months and it was the best ever, everything was great, then all of a sudden she got depressed soo i tried to help her as much as i could, but then she wanted to take a break cause she couldnt act like a gf cause of it, then 3 days later she left me saying she lost feelings and couldnt have a guy at the moment cause of her depression, but now is all over some kid and now she smokes weed all day and wants to drop outa school, i can admit i miss her alot :(
RXJ7 1 month ago
@RXJ7 Then imagine how u would feel after 6 years... ur probably over ur heartbreak at the moment (i hope for ur sake) but mine will probably take months and months.. but we will get over it, we just have to give it time, and maby she wantet a badboy and smoke weed, but she will regret that shit later belive me, been there before.. U deserve better than a girl like that my friend! much better!
gallant5k 1 month ago
@gallant5k I've been broken up with my ex for six years. Though I've moved on, it still hurts in some ways. Pain never entirely goes away imo.
Vicioussama 1 month ago 3
I agree with 957 Chatterton that no pain is worse.
So what do you do when none of that works?
Thanks.
blankfrankeno 2 months ago
Actully i didn't get dumbed I got rejected when I asked her out I still got a hug
luckyscootersponsers 2 months ago 3
God I wish I'd thought to rewatch this before I got back together with that bastard who raped me.
Camoool 2 months ago
It's easier said than done.... -/3
xWiggleDeezRoots 2 months ago 7
I'm just too emotionally detached to get upset over break ups... I know thats not normal... but if me and my current bf ever break up I know its gonna be hard for me cuz this is the only relationship I'v ever been girly about <3 <3
PirateDuckyy 3 months ago in playlist More videos from lacigreen
The neural activity in the brain of a person suffering from a recent break-up is similar to a person who has just been physically injured!
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I think that getting rejected by someone I love was the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with in my life.
For anyone who's going through the same sort of pain that I was experiencing about 6 months ago due to a breakup, I have a recommendation for you. Check out..
Breakups2Makeups. com
The program on there helped me get through a really hard time and ultimately, it helped me get my girlfriend back and my whole life back on track. Good luck guys and girls. Hope it helps :)
BillTheTrainer 3 months ago
Ex-bf broke up with me cause he did drug. I've been drinking since i was in the 5th grade and stopped because i knew alcoholism runs in my family. i recovered on my own and helped ppl with their issues.not once did he open up with me about his issues. 3/4 of my friends are drug abusers.His story wouldnt have surprised me, i would have done everything in my power to help him out. But i lost contact with him and am in a wonderful relationship now. ^.^
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There is no pain worse.
957Chatterton 3 months ago
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I have a funny!!! yet helpfull video on my channel of '10 ways to get over a break up' Check it xx
ThingsTimesTen 3 months ago
Perth is crappy for meetup sites.
stuartp2006 3 months ago
@stuartp2006 Well at least you don't live in the bush.
Camoool 2 months ago
love is just like a drug. inside our brains, a chemical reaction happens that makes us feel the NEED to love. its superficial. but it doesn't feel that way. we feel that we need that in order to feel wanted, or unique, or whole. when we find love our brain spurts these chemicals that get us "high" and we become addicted to this feeling of "love" and in the end we are left yearning for more of this drug they call "love" it takes awhile for our bodies to withdraw from this.
wlwrk4fd 3 months ago 3
Thanks! Your smile made me look at life from a a much more positive point of view :D
esla90 3 months ago
yes, your tips are helpful!
Sugizo1969 4 months ago
making the list of things i didn't like helped out a lot...i made a list of like 30 things. thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i feel better now.
garzawin 4 months ago
Dude yes.
I had to take the first song he taught me on guitar off my iPod.
Sucked cause I love that song..
But it helps.
SkinnedKneeGlamour 4 months ago
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i'll probably never get over my ex, thats why im never getting involved in another relationship for the rest of my life it just fucks your head up
robstaa89 4 months ago
thanks by the way. it done did helped.
me25422 4 months ago
damn i wanna... cuddle.
me25422 4 months ago
Thanks all you're smiling cheered me up. :]
ImmaEatYouN0M 4 months ago
I love her.
RipptarHD 4 months ago
Number 3 is golden, good advise gotta watch it everyday...1 thing though i am alot strong w/ dealing with new dudes...smart woman..
shsu97 4 months ago
This helped alot! thanks :)
AngelheartsBMTH 4 months ago
Thank you so much Laci :)
Ketoaleast 4 months ago
What about if you broke up with him and he starts to stalk you?
weirdoneontheblock 4 months ago
no offense and no homo [lol]....but i love your mouth!! lmao. like you have THEE most perfect lips and teeth. i'm jealous. lol
WhuddupSlime 4 months ago
My boyfriend has been kind of distant lately, I really really really like him so of course it hurts my feelings and even though its possible nothing is wrong I can't help but feel like he might want to break up. The thing is though, hes my best friend's brother, so ceasing contact is pretty much impossible. Any advice?
BloodRedApple16 4 months ago
Thankyou lol i loved the bit where you were like im a serial dater. Xx
pinKstarzx 5 months ago
my boyfriend just cheated on my last night for the 13th time. he has been horrible for me. abusive and crazy. I know that I should have ended it months ago but I was so in love with him. He has hit an all time low for what he has down. two weeks ago I just got a kidney transplant and after that for three months you can't kiss anyone because of germs. He slept with someone else last night. I wanna kill myself because I am so upset but that is so stupid because I was just given the gift of life.
nathanx333 5 months ago
@nathanx333 dump that asshole, u deserve better...if he try 2 beat u up, call the cops..=) hope that helps..
THeRightOne91 5 months ago
This is odd. Because this girl totally reminds me of my ex.......
Niklas323 5 months ago
i'm in my first high school relationship and my parents dont like my boyfriend and are making me break up with him tomorrow, im so heartbrokenn</3
MissGloria95 5 months ago
If you never breakdown, you will never have to breakup
RunfromtheHeathen 5 months ago
you're awesome!
MyspacelaaxD 5 months ago
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It's tough shit. I had an on and off abusive relationship with a guy for a year and a half. He made me feel like nothing and every time he broke up with me I would beg for him back and the last month of our relationship was basically a string of one night stands. I finally have gathered the strength and it's been a few days since I have tried contacting him. I do feel better about myself. And I'm hoping I'll be able to stay strong if he tries contacting me. My life isn't controlled anymore.
lyndsie92 5 months ago
It's tough shit. I had an on and off abusive relationship with a guy for a year and a half. He made me feel like nothing and every time he broke up with me I would beg for him back and the last month of our relationship was basically a string of one night stands. I finally have gathered the strength and it's been a few days since I have tried contacting him. I do feel better about myself. And I'm hoping I'll be able to stay strong if he tries contacting me. My life isn't controlled anymore.
lyndsie92 5 months ago
But Laci..how do I do this when I have to see him and his girlfriend everyday?! :( I'm never gonna get over him...
kellycupcakekiller 5 months ago
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Break ups suck!!
My girlfriend of 3 years left me for someone who could "take care" of her more (her words).
I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep .. seriously, I never knew I could feel sooo terrible. Losing (and getting rejected by someone you love) is by far the worst feeling in the world!
Anyway, I'm back with her now after the 3 months of what was basically emotional torture.
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MMArtist99 5 months ago
I can't delete any pictures!!!!! I CAN'T GET OVER HIM!!!! Ahhhhhhh! :'(
WildWebkinzCandy 5 months ago
I can't.
colourfulwithaU 5 months ago
She looks like she's fighting back tears through half of this video.
Rayzorbladez 5 months ago 78
facebook is the worst, ive blocked my ex on fb but i can still stalk his friends' public fb to see what them and my ex get up to. i just need to fight the urge of being nosey and move on but its so hard :(
honeeybuns 5 months ago
thanks soooo muchh!!! ive been through a recent break up and ive been depressed and breaking down and ive been wanting to crawl back again!! but hes not worth it ive been doing all these tips this helps me alot
asiiangirl818 5 months ago
Okay this helped so much. I have a boyfriend or ex im not sure but he broke up with me twice in the same week, I keep crawling back to him. He hangs up on me for no reason. Ignores me and tells me he has alot going on in his life. I told him that if he needed space he should tell me, but he said he wanted to be with me... Im not sure anymore. Ive spent the last 2 days crying, and worrying that hes going to leave me. I even lost 5 pounds because i havent been eating. Any advice?
LeslyeRodriguez08 5 months ago
GOOD TIPS! Btw I think you look like a mix of miley cyrus and kaley cuoco haha!
MuseToYourEars 6 months ago
This reminds me that people tell me how I'm young and how I will get over her. That this is just one more experience. that this will happen again. That I will fall in love again. Then I saw a video of Chris Rock explaining that a 40 yr old titty is "your man's titty" ... a 20 yr old titty - Community Titty! . - I begin to realize that this also apples to a penis.
Even tho its funny and I feel better, i wish I didn't have that many ex gf. I just want to find the right one.. I miss my girl!
Miguelc271086 6 months ago
girl, i wanna give you endless oral sex
brownspottedbanana 6 months ago
this just reminded me of everything....
str8killing 6 months ago
Hahahaha thanks you helped me and your pretty (=
neon2477 6 months ago
i just whent through a break up today with my boyfriend
darfos17 6 months ago
You obviously didnt love your boyfriend..
Moderm101 6 months ago
wtf new toy to im not going 2 go there
jarredsnider 6 months ago
Honestly, if it ends with someone its not because you were inadequate, its generally because you were not right for each other in the long term. We all have strengths and weaknesses that are applicable in some places, but not others.
DontForgetIran2010 6 months ago
Really all relationships, regardless of how long they last, are, in fact, learning experiences. You actually learn a lot about yourself.
DontForgetIran2010 6 months ago
my mom also told me to never cry out in public because of a break up, show that person that your strong. and once you get home, cry it out.
18redcup 6 months ago 93
thank you !
MsPxxxx 6 months ago
I...am going to do this all :')
TheAfterPain 6 months ago
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Deborah211000 7 months ago
Thanks so much!
TWALLIZE 7 months ago
honestly this website helped me out gettingoverbreakup (.) net
brandonsince1986 7 months ago
I got rid of like everything on facebook of us, posts on my wall that he posted or commented on, comments on his profile or posts of mine, deleted all the pictures of us off of facebook, photobucket, and my hard drive, then i noticed there was still a picture of us in his profile picture album! I messaged him and asked him to take it off... and he won't. no clue why, any advice?
yummycrayons97 7 months ago
Why didn't I have these tips a year ago :o I really could have used them
MouseexD 7 months ago
Very helpful, thanks love.
Psyaxe 7 months ago
All is great EXCEPT "getting under some else"! That is just fucking stupid. Unless you're a big time whore, that will accomplish NOTHING! You will feel much worse after the fact.
Just deal with the pain. take it one day at a time. push through the days when you really want to have contact and DON'T. In a few weeks you'll feel so much better. In a few months you'll be back to normal. Promise. Hugs to all who are hurting right now!
shakimaro 7 months ago
my fiance just left me for the 2nd time.. please someone talk to me. i feel so alone....
sasuke1on1 7 months ago
By th e way im only 11
volleyballspike1 7 months ago
@Sakurarose89 thank you for advice i realized that it was abt popularity so no way
volleyballspike1 7 months ago
Very helpful thank you!
sakurarose89 7 months ago
please help me im so aggravated cuz he wants to get back together but i cant trust him cuz he joked about dumping me and he did it more than once. some 1 help im confused on what o do
volleyballspike1 7 months ago
@volleyballspike1 DON'T DO IT!!
sakurarose89 7 months ago
1st guy I ever likes, finally asked him out, rejected, hard, so hard he thought I was kidding. He sits right behind me in class, i would always rush in out and around to avoid him. I thought he was a total jerk. I wrote down the 1st 10 words that came to mind when thought of him, and this one guy who REALLY pisses me off, 3 things where similar. When I got home I would think about him. EVENTUALLY, I DID get over him (shocker). Trust me ladies, IT'S NOT THE END OF THE WORLD!
200230797 7 months ago
help, me and my ex have the same grup f friends, how can i get over himk when i see him pretty much everyday. but i dont wonna stop hanging with the group coz it will make him see that im hurting
KentuckyStateeeBro 7 months ago
@KentuckyStateeeBro same thing for me. You kinda have to avoid him, but not REALLY avoid him. Try to avoid any realtionshiip conversations and talk to him as little as possible, try to stay focused on other friends. Think of a guy you hate, write down the 1st 10 things that come to mind when you think of him/her, now, do the same for your ex. Did you see anything similar? Try to think of those things when you see/ talk to him to help you not feel lonely. Hope I could help!
200230797 7 months ago
Today would have been my 5 month anniversary and we broke up on 3 month anniversary and i cant move on any tips please help
volleyballspike1 7 months ago
Best way to avoid a break up is to not get involved with someone in the 1st place.
TheWaynelds 7 months ago
does it work about best friends too...?
killertellitubby 7 months ago
after 2 fucking days x
MakeupBaybee 7 months ago
I loved this you really inspired me and made me feel better!
hyper5 7 months ago
#8 Sorry but.. What a whore
Alan89486 7 months ago
So, my friend showed me your channel because she knows that I like to listen to people opinions and outlooks on many topics - and I must say, watching your videos has helped me reflect my own views and such.
So, I had a nasty break up. I dated the guy for... 18 months. And he ended up having to move. He left, and literally a week later I found out two devastating things. 1) I had a blood disorder called Agranulocytosis. 2) I was pregnant. And it just... resulted in a break up and lots of pain
XoXDreamerXoX5 7 months ago
@XoXDreamerXoX5 But, I also took a lot of time to myself - starting running again, took up drawing again, and just spent a ton of time with my friends and had lots of fun until he was off my mind. And, well it worked. He was my first love and I look back now (We've been broken up since October 2010) and I see that I do still care for him but differently, and I always will. But yeah, break ups suck - and now that I am dating again and such, I use lessons from my past to make a better future :)
XoXDreamerXoX5 7 months ago
I dont give a fuck about what people say to you, you're gorgeous and also The best person at advice! Im not kidding! <3 i love you.
brittahkneee 7 months ago
hey Laci. what if the guy you love is your best friend and he doesn't love you back, but you know that he's the one and you have tried to cease contact but it never works? what would you do?
AngelicTearzFandubs 7 months ago
And get some advice about what I should do
devin101bff 8 months ago
Hey I just want through a rough break up I was wondering if I could senbu a message on face book or something and talk to u one on one if that's okay
devin101bff 8 months ago
I just went through a really tough break up and it really was difficult. It was a little short of a year long thing and it hurt =( then i found this video and im a lot better now! thanks laci!! my timing SUCKED tho.
Noodlezz11473 8 months ago
totally agree with everything you said :) i also found that beautifying yourself helps a lot. get that self confidence back :) go out and find a guy and just hook up (lol) i know it sounds weird, but trust me, it really helps :) you'll be back to your old self in no time. just remember how amazing you are, and how much you deserve.
iBeauty96 8 months ago
@xokelspaigexo u will not have any idea yet if u can or cannot seem to get over them because its too recent...give it a month, see how u feel and think then
ive known ppl who just get over the person after 2 yrs+ in a month or less, they date others happily ever after, but then i know ppl who were dating for 2 months and still felt bad after awhile...ive done so as a "we coulda stayed just friends, but i screwed up" situation
either way, give it time and take laci's advice here its good
jonnyrobbybob 8 months ago
You're so cute! No, I'm not hitting on you I'm 40 & straight. Awesome channel!!!!
URABombShell 8 months ago
what if it is the other way around? (If I broke up with someone but that person doesn't get over it?) =/
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UFCFights11 8 months ago
@RACE44100: yeah, facebook stalking is BAD. if you want advice on how to stop thinking about your ex and facebook stalking them, check out my youtube channel for more advice on how to get over a break up.
HowToGetOverYourEx 8 months ago
my ex picked weed and partyi over me, i should hate him, but i love him still -.-
kaylewaring 8 months ago
@kaylewaring you shouldnt hate him, just realize hes wasting your time, when someone else could be putting u before everything else
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AlicaAlica1 8 months ago
Listen to SIlent Alarm from Bloc Party all the way through a million times.
JoJosG 8 months ago
This is weird for me cuz i had a relationship with a coworker for a year while being married. I definitely loved her but had to just let her go. My relationship with my wife has gotten exponentially better and now were having a kid so fuck that homewrecker! lol. i used most of the steps you stated. lol. hope my wife doesnt read this somehow.
666ThaScarecro666 8 months ago
I broke up with my bf of 1year and 8 months, i still love him but it wasnt the same:'( i miss him tho..
XR0ck3rChickX 8 months ago
@XR0ck3rChickX trust your feelings and remind yourself that you broke up for a reason. i know its hard being by yourself when youre used to having someone there doing everything but remember that this is the right thing to do and stay positive. if you want some more advice on how to get over a break up, check out my youtube videos.
HowToGetOverYourEx 8 months ago
You actually looked happy in this video... amazing tips!
hamm0di 8 months ago
Love you Lacey! I applied this advice to other problems in my life and it worked wonders. Stress and anxiety ) : > ( :
replytoomyass 8 months ago
thanks!
lulu66 8 months ago
hey so what do you do if you like this boy and you don't know if he likes you and if you ask him your afraid he is going to say no?IDK HELP PLEASE THANKS
babygirl20333 8 months ago
Your amazing u really made my day your so rite thanks xxx
faisalaslam123 9 months ago
thank you my guy friend sam just told me that my boyfriend (very first one) is thinkin about breaking up with me and i am soo sad right when i saw the text i started crying i really like him and he said that he loves me then he wants to break up with me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE!!!!! im still crying :(((((((( HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ajs24ever 9 months ago
hey, um..ur're not over him yet, im no hater by d way
littleprincess6100 9 months ago
My bf broke up with me yesterday cuz we lived 8 hours away and he said he wouldn't work out. I'm pretending to be happy, but inside ima mess.
TheZoey9900 9 months ago
I really enjoyed this video :)
DreamsAreBeautiful12 9 months ago
"HOW TO: GET OVER A BREAK-UP"
Fuck her sister?
Desertphile 9 months ago
finally a logical way to get over the break-up! :)
xLadyPattinson0o1x 9 months ago
or u can do what i do, and bone another girl. i'm sorry if that's blunt, but after a couple women, youll be over her.
Circus2999 9 months ago
i just broke up with my bf 2 days ago, but it feels like it has been a week. its so true that we should all know that breakups happens and more are coming. just never stop looking for the right one just because you are afraid of getting hurt again. its definitely gonna be tough, but i know that i am tougher :) thank you Laci.
KathrynKSCHEN 9 months ago
Im scared that boyfriend i just started dating is gonna dump me... I really like him, and he told me he couldnt talk right now. But he told he would text me... And he didnt text me back. But when we hung up he told me he loved me.... Is he gonna dump me, or am i overeacting?
PunkVampirez11 9 months ago
@PunkVampirez11
talk to him about it. good communication is really important
OliviaJani 9 months ago
something that helped me was just being around my friends and family. at the time that i broke up with my ex, my cousin was visiting, one that i had never met before. so while something ended, something else even more precious entered my life. so go and meet some new people and make a few friends at a coffee shop or wherever. do something, or talk about the breakup with someone you can trust. and, to help the pain, make a voodoo doll and write (and burn) a letter to him. hey, it helps :P
rawritsjazzy 9 months ago
i just broke up with my bf:( it sucked!
djpalomino06 9 months ago
Thanx, I'm hurting really bad over my ex right now. I can't stop thinking about all the good times I've had with her, she's like my best friend, thankgod it was mutual. Sometimes people just grow up and grow apart. Thanks a ton for making this ^^
kittygobark1 9 months ago
thank you so much i was just about to go beg for my ex to take me back and now thanks to you i know i can get over him
randombubbles100 9 months ago 16
i am completely straight, but you are absolutely gorgeous <3 and i totally agree with all the tips, i've only been broken up with once, and the rest, i was the one to break it off. but you're tips are all so true.
MsANIM3lov3r 9 months ago
I just broke up :(
thejordan670 9 months ago
i rather die alone then not be with him, at least friendship, i just want him to be happy.
missrockcantswim 9 months ago
my boyfriend broke up with me today and he wont tell me why but i think these tips will really help but imma try em tomorrow im tired this already made me feel better though thank you laci :)
omg211000 9 months ago
Ur amazing
chelaina23 9 months ago
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burey1979 10 months ago
I cried for a couple minutes today. Me and my boyfriend (8 months) broke up almost 3 weeks ago. I cried and then i didn't feel sad anymore. My new thing "guess my heart wasn't meant to broken over you" :] that made me feel better! You know what also helps? Writing them a hate letter and then stashing it somewhere and forgetting about it. Lets your "true colors" to them come out[:
MonsterBashBaby 10 months ago
my boyfriend broke up with me the day after prom. he went out with another girl the day after prom then told me we "werent working out" fuck him you lying cheater..
Yellex 10 months ago
@Yellex that sucks balls
omg211000 9 months ago
Ive been with my boyfriend for 3year,almost.Then,today,we we're supose to chill in a park with friends,you know..like,drinking and stuff.Then I went to the bathroom for a few minuts,when I came back,that guy was kissing my friend,she wasen't my best but it still hurts like hell when I saw then with the corner of my eye,not like to stare at them,just I saw that they we're kissing(ALL LONG)I felt so sad,I still love him anyway and she knows it,but he dosent give a shit guess..anybody :
HELP ME!!
GagaliciousVEVO 10 months ago
@GagaliciousVEVO
I forgot to mention,we broke up with only 1month ago....PLEASE HELP ME!!!
Its not like I want to suicide,but its kinda the thing I have in mind....
Im fifteen and heart-broken...
I tried to follow your steps,but its hard to not mention or pretend not seeing him because he's in my school,class.... :( If I say him how I feel..HE'LL TOTALLY REJECT ME!..I know him.. :(
GagaliciousVEVO 10 months ago
lol you have a really great personality idk how ur single xP great video
frenchgurl201 10 months ago
My bf just broke up with me!
MJpitbullSPAZZgal 10 months ago
Thanks Laci. I just had a breakup after a 2 and a half year relationship, and now she won't even talk to me at all. It's been tough, but these tips actually make a lot of sense. And you're right, ceasing contact is really hard to do.
Cybrisk 10 months ago 28
@Cybrisk i just broke up from a 2 year relationship as well-.- actually im the one who got dumped literally, its been a month and my ex has somebody else, prolly a new shelter for her...plus the main reason she did is she just got this new job which she really loves and every time she was feeling demoralised abt her previous jobs, she'd come running to me but once she sobbered up, she'd dump and made me feel like i was her bitch..
TheSynyster27 8 months ago
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and on his birthday i found a pic of another girl, he claims it was a pic he downloaded form porn. i have been so hurt before and cheated on, i over reacted i took all my fustration out on him form the past realtionship! i punche him ad slaped him, i called him worthless and i lie and said ive been cheating on him too. break up are so mean and messy! i feel so ashame that i would even think of doing something like that.
what to yall think?
angeleaRice 10 months ago
Nice tips(: me and my boyfriend are having problems. i love him so much bujt were constantly fighting. iif we do, though I guess i will absolutely follow your tips(:
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CarlineMagazi 10 months ago
laci, love your videos. How do you put up with all the guys' racy comments?
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xxx1627 10 months ago
very helpfull. i didn't break up it was more like rejection i asked a guy out because he told me i like you and that we should go out and when i asked him out he told me it was all a lie and that no and for me to piss offf
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KaseyOlivez 10 months ago
currently going through a horrendous breakup and it's hurting me so bad. i just want to allow myself to accept and move on but it's hard when you still care for the person and love them, in spite of them telling you that they no longer have love for you.
Muffintop2k7 10 months ago
thanx for the help laci cuz i juz broke up with muh gf today aand i still do love her she been all bout sex and drinking and i wasnt liked tht sorta cuz i wanna look into a good life not a girl tht pary everyday and have sex.. she wasnt liked tht at first she was sweet but then turn out bad and crazi over me and i hate tht being obessive over me.. and now she calling me a whore cuz i didnt ask for sex.. she was acting liked one.
masonflowers25 10 months ago