I hope you get reincarnated as a man, bloggerchickster, then have to listen to someone give you the same shitty advice that you know in your heart to be utter bullshit.
Wrong. When he's 30, either he'll still be a player (happily so) or he will have grown up, and be married to a girl whom he won when he was a jerk. Yes, girls do want to end up with a jerk-off like that. How do I know? BECAUSE IT'S WHAT THEY DO. Proof's in the pudding.
"Eventually they all want the nice guy"... Yeah, when they can't get the jerk anymore, and need a breadwinner to help raise the jerk's kid. They'll only want the nice guy when they NEED him...until then, they want the jerk.
Hey thank you for this video because I tend to be "The nice guy that gets treated like crap" by yonger or my same age women. Older women seem to be more better for me, My girlfriend is 46 and Im 22, do u think thats wrong or weird? Well anyways she's more acceptable to my kindness and wanting to be with her for who she is. But anyways Thanks Blogggerchick This Video Rules!!
In a relationship a man gives up his money, freedom, the right to look at random girls (one of a man's favorite things), and is usually subjected to complaining and demands and in return he gets...
someone please tell me what he gets, I can't think of any reasons why being nice would be better from a man's perspective... why shouldn't I try to be cruel to a bunch of hot chicks?
that's a myth. the majority of girls want the fairy tale love, you just don't hear about those girls because the stupid gossipy bitches are too loud and obnoxious.
Wait till we're in our 30's? Yeah thats some bullshit right there. A woman isn't interested in a nice guy until after she's had her fun, been fucked by everything with a dick, and doesn't believe in love anymore but is just looking for a human wallet to take care of her when she's past her prime. No thanks. Since women don't share the best of themselves (when they're young and beautiful) with nice guys, they shouldn't get the best of us when they're old and used.
Nice guys, save the best of yourselves for YOUNG, BEAUTIFUL women who aren't superficial from the beginning. Forget those old skanks. Who wants someone else's leftovers?
a nice girl.LOL! nearly extinct. personally i think girls like a guy to have a bit of a mean streak but show respect and have loyalty. puppy dogs get annoying and super jerks just suck. gotta have a mix of both.
hahaha..aaaa...what you just contradicted yourself....you said you wanted the cocky guy, that wants to be rough with you and treat you bad...and then you say you don't want a guy like that
Jeeez i sense some tension there, btw ull grow some wrinkles if u dont calm down =p ur face is too cute for that. I'm romantic,gentleman, i compliment a girl all the time and im good looking ^ ^ im simply perfect =p
...I believe that the female sex is still a symbol of vulnerability and subordination in most women's eyes and that is why they end up with those type of men. its time to end with the 'machismo' and act more like gentlemen guys! :)
if only every women had a senseful head above their shoulders and a faithful heart like Heidi's. here is someone that any guy would love to be arround with 24/7 for their entire lives. not like most women that can't express their minds much less their fealings and expectations in a man...
You're in highschool? Its not that girls seek out bad boys (your percentile is way off btw more like 30% want bad guys) its that those girls who date them are eith them because they dont have to concern themselves with that. It's pretty much all about sex in hs and collage. It's only after that, that women begin to care: who's making the money, who's the nice guy, and so forth. It's the fatal flaw in attraction. :P If you want to discuss more because I have far more to say feel free to message
Wow. I just saw this today (Nov 1). What would make you think that I haven't been laid lately. (See my first video, I have a boyfriend that I live with. Enough said.) Also, I don't see how having cats would make up for missing the nice guy (Of course, that would mean that I missed the nice guy, and I didn't.)
If any guy is interested maybe I'll make an advice on dating vid. And to the young lady who posted his video. Thats awsome how you inforce the whole girls want the nice guy to marry but the bad boy to date thing. I guess its more like its nice to know that there are some girls out there that do want the nice guys. And of corse if they are all as cute as you then yea, lol.
Mogadore is the so-called town I live in in Ohio. I have a hard time calling it a town simply because we don't even have a post office or police station. We have a fire house, but unfortunately for me it's right down the street.
I love the bad boy look and there's some of the "Bad boys" who arn't total asses, but I'm definetly more into the good guys when it comes to people I really like.
Thanks for the moral boost. Not had a great day. But ye it is true. nice girls are not easy to find and same for guys. So I promote this video and recommend to keep looking.
If a guy says your fat, most likely you are. If your thin your not going to look fat in clothes lol. Most females are chunky anyway. They want the guys with the nice abs, but a lot of females don't bother trying to look nice for a guy.
If someone says you look fat then most likely you are. If you are then maybe you should try to workout. I can't stand it when females say they love a guy with great abs, but they can't get themselves to look good to get a guy.
That's so untrue. My aunt weighed 102 at 5'7" and her husband called her fat every day. She looked like on eof those anorexic models. Some guys really are just assholes.
hey im a guy n i watched this video, i jst wanna say im not a bad guy, and im only 13! lol, so im havin trouble dating right now, cos of all the idiots want the bad guys, so i agree with u, but i know that in the future i wanna settle down, n all tht, so il be looking, and im sure when im bout 25 or so there will be more nice girls looking for the nice guys, and im gona b one of the lucky ones with a girl, i hope lol
This is a lie girls use to justify it! But it makes it even worse!
Girl's attractiveness peaks at this young age, and they spend their best years giving themselves away to these mean guys.
Then, when they start getting less attractive and can't get these guys anymore, they switch and use the nice guys for their money and security. After they've past over the nice guy, leaving him sitting at home before.
AMEN!!! EXACTLY THAT'S WHAT WE WANT...THE NICE GUY!! THANK YOU!!! *hugs* I love you for this video because I don't have a camera to say these things XD...lol AND YES FOOD!! haha you do get somethin' out of it...lol....lol. Ok so basically I agree with you! Great video!
The only good thing about dating is to get to know them first and spend some time with her for a year or so. When the time is right then get married something.
But you're right. When some women get older, they realize that this type of man will not provide a stable life for them. But for those of those that were more concerned with music or intellectual pursuits than being the bully, after many lonely Fridays we figured out the game and stopped being so nice as we got older.
Not necessarily. The first date needs to be about getting acquainted and seeing if there is any chemistry. If it doesn't click, don't waste time. There's no reason to get stuck on anybody. I don't believe that there is just one "soulmate" out there. It's a choice.
And this is not being mean, just realistic. Furthermore, I think it's more important to be real, honest, considerate, and empathetic than to be nice. Nice is superficial. Truly connecting with another human being at a deep level is an entirely different dynamic.
And women say they want a guy to be nice and caring, but when you see a guy that is nice and caring, you see it as a sign of weakness and he becomes unattractive. So basically your superego is in conflict with your id. Your social values brought on by feminism and pop psychology is in direct conflict with your biological drives.
Women are still driven by their biological responses. They go for the alpha male. The captain of the football team type. Alpha males have the charateristics that women love to verbally criticize: dates many different women, is dominant over other males, is highly competitive, and carries a high social status. Women are driven to this individual by biology. Surely the attention from women goes to an alpha male's head pretty quickly. Which makes them bigger assholes than they were before.
I'm a 35 year old woman and I still have not found this ellusive nice person. Yes, I wanted the jerks too when I was younger. It's called low self esteem. That's why girls want jerks. Oh, how I wish I had listened to my mother.
I think a lot of times, the girls are dating the jerks as a rebellion thing. I guess I got lucky and didn't have that phase, probably because it requires one to have parents.
hahaha, well thats what you get for only dating jerks before you were past your prime. Who cares that you wised up now, you're over the hill and guys aren't interested in spoiled goods. Ah sweet sweet karmic justice. If you're lucky you might find some old geezer to latch onto like Anna Nicole did.
Girls want a "mean" guy because subconciously, they realise those are the honest ones. Those guys that are so nice and always complimentary are phony, pretentious liars who just want to get on a girls good side for their own hidden motivs.
I am a good guy because I can't stand to be mean, because I care about people's feelings and I won't put myself up to being a bully to impress a girl who is looking for the wrong type of guy. My complements are genuine and I have no hidden motives when I'm out with any girl.
I don't think you, yourself even know you have these motives, thats my point, you're such a lying yes man that you actually believe your're "nice" but in reality, you're just trying to get laid. =)
For the record: I could care less about getting laid. I don't go on dates with condoms in my car or wallet or anywhere, because I don't expect to get any, nor do I EXPECT any. I'm going out because I am interested in a woman whom I would really like to spend my time with.
Possibilities: You are completely retarded. I am a man and I respect women, no matter how "uncool" you may think it to be. This is the most idiotic statement I think I have ever heard. You are questioning my manhood because I choose not to treat women like a piece of meat.
Actually, I gave possible reasons for your apparent lack of sexual interest in other people. It must be caused by some problem that also impeded the development of reasoning abilities, since you could not think well enough to respond to what I actually said.
I did indeed respond. Maybe you have poor reading skills. You criticized me basically saying I masturbate a ton, I haven't reached puberty yet, or I'm gay, then have the nerve to say I can't think well? I told you the reason already. I've said it twice. I respect women and I don't try to score. It has to do with morals and respect, something that,along with your comprehension skills, you obviously don't posses.
OK moron, I will say it again; I listed some possible reasons. Do you understand? Probably not, since the short circuit in your brain has been illustrated very clearly by your responses. You can't see it, obviously, but that is why you should learn not to talk. I am not interested in an idiot's conception of his own characteristics. You are just a remedial-level waste of time.
p.s. some advice: check out your first comment; learn the difference between "compliment" and "complement"
If you are going to point out my one misspelled word, perhaps I should point out that you didn't capitalize "possibilities" in your first comment. Also, I'm "remedial-level" now? I'm remedial because I misspelled one word? Take whatever is up your ass out.
I have yet to see anything intelligent come from you. Your initial response to my comment was nothing more than a jab at me, which is why I did not respond to it in the way you were wanting me to. Don't act like you were serious when you posted it. You wanted to get some laughs at my expense. You know it as do I. You're pathetic.
Your thought process is so totally twisted. It is possible to be honest and nice. It's called tact. For example, I can try something on and ask my boyfriend if it looks okay and he'll be honest. If it looks bad, he just goes, "Such and such might look better." He was honest that the outfit looked bad but without being an ass. Tact.
So tehedevil is a bad guy i guess. Always thinking about getting laid instead of thinking about the girl's feelings or about wether that girl could be that wonderful person who would always be there for you.
Ive been a jerk before, i know. If you have the mentality of a jerk and you insist that you as a man cant change to a nice guy and you want to continue being an unfaithful jackass then thats too bad.
Im...not like that...I hope...I'm sure I'm not cause my friends would kick my ass if I was a jerk...yeah... they'd beat me... Oh well, dating has it's ups and downs (Huge ups and GIGANTIC F***ING DOWNS), but in the end you just try it again because...that's what people want, a companion(sp?).
By the way...you sound like a VERY cheery person...congrats, It's very pleasing to the ear cause you have a nice voice. Anyways, Unholy out.
I love you. I can't wait until ladies realize this... I just pretty much lost a girl whom I really cared for to a jerk. I, uh, well I'm pretty down about it, so this helps.
x2....her x bf...they broke up for a reason and when they got together again he cheated on her and she knew just complained about it..finally broke up...but just...as much as miss her, fuck that im not gonna be stepped on like that..where is the balance point of jerk and nice guy?
Nice points! I consider myself a bad guy but haven't had the bad luck of my kinda girls choosing the jerks over me. The best kind of relationships spawn gradually, rather than a first date whose conversation is baseless beyond the physical. Although, some girls..you can see their personality at almost first glimpse, and it's beautiful.
:) I think I'm pretty good and seeing people's personality at a glance. The intrigue is when you see a person that is so mysterious it actually draws you in. That's how it was when I first met my boyfriend.
Very nicely said. People who are shallow and are "users" always pay the price in the end. They fail to learn the means to have a relationship when its truly needed. Keep up the good work!
Yeah, I agree with you, but that jerk of a guy, is going to go through tonnes of girls, and he'll have a tonne of small 'uplifts' from the many girls that he has over the years... So he'll probably won't be lonely and miserable.. And then the nice guys will probably not want all these girls, who have been choosing those jerks over him all the while and... ahh... this could go on forever. bottom line. nice guys finish last
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Kasmir145 3 months ago
I hope you get reincarnated as a man, bloggerchickster, then have to listen to someone give you the same shitty advice that you know in your heart to be utter bullshit.
BagejoGolshidakha 1 year ago
Being a little spiteful are we?
jasonpalth 1 year ago
Wrong. When he's 30, either he'll still be a player (happily so) or he will have grown up, and be married to a girl whom he won when he was a jerk. Yes, girls do want to end up with a jerk-off like that. How do I know? BECAUSE IT'S WHAT THEY DO. Proof's in the pudding.
"Eventually they all want the nice guy"... Yeah, when they can't get the jerk anymore, and need a breadwinner to help raise the jerk's kid. They'll only want the nice guy when they NEED him...until then, they want the jerk.
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DarkCybrid 1 year ago
Hey thank you for this video because I tend to be "The nice guy that gets treated like crap" by yonger or my same age women. Older women seem to be more better for me, My girlfriend is 46 and Im 22, do u think thats wrong or weird? Well anyways she's more acceptable to my kindness and wanting to be with her for who she is. But anyways Thanks Blogggerchick This Video Rules!!
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zzzcthulhu 3 years ago
Brilliant... just 14 years to go..
FrankBiggle 3 years ago
Women are programmed to want to get knocked up by an Alpha Male then ensnare an unwitting Beta Male into raising the child for her.
countmockula12 3 years ago 11
In a relationship a man gives up his money, freedom, the right to look at random girls (one of a man's favorite things), and is usually subjected to complaining and demands and in return he gets...
someone please tell me what he gets, I can't think of any reasons why being nice would be better from a man's perspective... why shouldn't I try to be cruel to a bunch of hot chicks?
Yankeezcap 3 years ago
that's a myth. the majority of girls want the fairy tale love, you just don't hear about those girls because the stupid gossipy bitches are too loud and obnoxious.
paint1487 4 years ago
Omg...that's true us girls sometimes dream of love like the fairy tale perfect kinda love..damn ur good paint1487*
sushilandblu 3 years ago
Wait till we're in our 30's? Yeah thats some bullshit right there. A woman isn't interested in a nice guy until after she's had her fun, been fucked by everything with a dick, and doesn't believe in love anymore but is just looking for a human wallet to take care of her when she's past her prime. No thanks. Since women don't share the best of themselves (when they're young and beautiful) with nice guys, they shouldn't get the best of us when they're old and used.
fulte2d 4 years ago 21
Nice guys, save the best of yourselves for YOUNG, BEAUTIFUL women who aren't superficial from the beginning. Forget those old skanks. Who wants someone else's leftovers?
fulte2d 4 years ago 15
a nice girl.LOL! nearly extinct. personally i think girls like a guy to have a bit of a mean streak but show respect and have loyalty. puppy dogs get annoying and super jerks just suck. gotta have a mix of both.
Froinlaiven 4 years ago
Wops replied to wrong place.
lolloxor 4 years ago
yep, i have to agree with ya there, dating does SUCK!!
magicgurl7 4 years ago
you give me hope in female kind :)
cwcdonkeycwc 4 years ago
damn you are crazy.. go on vacation, site in a room full of nothing and ponder , then untold knowlage sets in or smoke weed like everyone else
graffnameseed 4 years ago
hahaha..aaaa...what you just contradicted yourself....you said you wanted the cocky guy, that wants to be rough with you and treat you bad...and then you say you don't want a guy like that
mikeballer11 4 years ago
I said most girls want the cocky guy who is an ass.
bloggerchickster 4 years ago
hahaha..aaaa...what you just contradicted yourself...
lolloxor 4 years ago
that's what i said!!
mikeballer11 4 years ago
FIVE YEARS!? danng.
emceealli 4 years ago
theres someone pushing your buttons Heidi! how would you approach this scenario?
rsiano 4 years ago
Jeeez i sense some tension there, btw ull grow some wrinkles if u dont calm down =p ur face is too cute for that. I'm romantic,gentleman, i compliment a girl all the time and im good looking ^ ^ im simply perfect =p
Nassu001 5 years ago
...I believe that the female sex is still a symbol of vulnerability and subordination in most women's eyes and that is why they end up with those type of men. its time to end with the 'machismo' and act more like gentlemen guys! :)
rsiano 5 years ago
Yeah. That's what I'm talking about. :)
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
if only every women had a senseful head above their shoulders and a faithful heart like Heidi's. here is someone that any guy would love to be arround with 24/7 for their entire lives. not like most women that can't express their minds much less their fealings and expectations in a man...
rsiano 5 years ago
nooooo, not 90% wants the bad guy nononono 90% want the good guy! be a good guy!! =D asses will be asses and no1 wants an ass. =D
LilMissae 5 years ago
good points :)
Dante3044 5 years ago
In other words nice guys get the left overs.
lduenas 5 years ago
that's it!
tomorrow i'm gonna go up to the girl i like and say
'oi u slut i want u to meet my little friend'
*points to crotch*
that's gonna work for sure right?
damoo 5 years ago
You're in highschool? Its not that girls seek out bad boys (your percentile is way off btw more like 30% want bad guys) its that those girls who date them are eith them because they dont have to concern themselves with that. It's pretty much all about sex in hs and collage. It's only after that, that women begin to care: who's making the money, who's the nice guy, and so forth. It's the fatal flaw in attraction. :P If you want to discuss more because I have far more to say feel free to message
kerflop 5 years ago
ppl in hs and college are so horny but some people care about personality more like me..but i'm still horny unfortunatly
sushilandblu 3 years ago
the guy i like (he likes me bk) he is kinda bad he is so AWESOME
lucyrocker 5 years ago
Just remember that song from green day
Nice guys finish last
Apollo149 5 years ago
if thats true, girls are... aliens :s my girl is absolutely not like that =) She's one of the 10%.. the..humanoids^_^
OnlyWolfie 5 years ago
Wow. I just saw this today (Nov 1). What would make you think that I haven't been laid lately. (See my first video, I have a boyfriend that I live with. Enough said.) Also, I don't see how having cats would make up for missing the nice guy (Of course, that would mean that I missed the nice guy, and I didn't.)
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
Can I congratulate you on being the smartest girl I've personally seen?
Check it, yes women want jerks.
Why do I know this? Nice guys finish last and I converted from nice guy to jerk in a way so I know EXACTLY what I'm saying is true.
A woman who realizes girls go for jerks... wow! Gratz! ^_^
navymrgoodbar 5 years ago
If any guy is interested maybe I'll make an advice on dating vid. And to the young lady who posted his video. Thats awsome how you inforce the whole girls want the nice guy to marry but the bad boy to date thing. I guess its more like its nice to know that there are some girls out there that do want the nice guys. And of corse if they are all as cute as you then yea, lol.
CelticLove 5 years ago
What secret tips did u want? Maybe I'll do another "Tips for Nice Guys" video.
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
where are all the secret girl tips your video description suggests this contains? =)
xlynx9 5 years ago
Lol, tell me im not the 1st to think u act like Phoebe from 'Friends'?
Erthling 5 years ago
OMG! Please tell me u r kidding. Phoebe was an idiot.
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
No offence, but i didnt mean the way u think, just the way u talk. Its not a bad thing by any means! :D
Erthling 5 years ago
Okay. I was scared for a second. :)
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
Mogadore is the so-called town I live in in Ohio. I have a hard time calling it a town simply because we don't even have a post office or police station. We have a fire house, but unfortunately for me it's right down the street.
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
LOL.
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
Yeah sistah youre right! love ya!
Tanaone 5 years ago
I love the bad boy look and there's some of the "Bad boys" who arn't total asses, but I'm definetly more into the good guys when it comes to people I really like.
smartwitch101 5 years ago
hah way to go
elfinquisition 5 years ago
A nice guy wouldn't say you're fat,unless you really are .
stresslord 5 years ago
Thanks for the moral boost. Not had a great day. But ye it is true. nice girls are not easy to find and same for guys. So I promote this video and recommend to keep looking.
Gothicslayer 5 years ago
ah no i like nice guys!if any guy ever told me i was fat there DEFINITELY wudnt be a second date!jesus woman!lol
gemmabelle 5 years ago
If a guy says your fat, most likely you are. If your thin your not going to look fat in clothes lol. Most females are chunky anyway. They want the guys with the nice abs, but a lot of females don't bother trying to look nice for a guy.
JadenJoshua 5 years ago
If someone says you look fat then most likely you are. If you are then maybe you should try to workout. I can't stand it when females say they love a guy with great abs, but they can't get themselves to look good to get a guy.
JadenJoshua 5 years ago
That's so untrue. My aunt weighed 102 at 5'7" and her husband called her fat every day. She looked like on eof those anorexic models. Some guys really are just assholes.
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
ur so cute :) <3
super240986 5 years ago
hey im a guy n i watched this video, i jst wanna say im not a bad guy, and im only 13! lol, so im havin trouble dating right now, cos of all the idiots want the bad guys, so i agree with u, but i know that in the future i wanna settle down, n all tht, so il be looking, and im sure when im bout 25 or so there will be more nice girls looking for the nice guys, and im gona b one of the lucky ones with a girl, i hope lol
hidd3n1 5 years ago
Do you need to get so close to camera.
your scaring me!!!!
paulyboy1000 5 years ago
Yes. :)
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
thats why you should be friends first. And to say girls go for the bad guys, sure some do, but all girls are not as that stupid.
dan000206 5 years ago
AMEN TO THAT!
VampMan101 5 years ago
Where the hell is Mogadore?
stevexcraig 5 years ago
BFE
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
It's in Ohio. (No, Ohio jokes. I hate this place!) :)
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
This is a lie girls use to justify it! But it makes it even worse!
Girl's attractiveness peaks at this young age, and they spend their best years giving themselves away to these mean guys.
Then, when they start getting less attractive and can't get these guys anymore, they switch and use the nice guys for their money and security. After they've past over the nice guy, leaving him sitting at home before.
carnalknowledgepua 5 years ago
Yeeh. Haha. I agree with that. What is up with woman and liking assholes. I gave up being a nice guy a long time ago. . . .mm. . .probably bad.
Nice vid.
I also agree with tequilajay down there ;) :-P
ElThew 5 years ago
well put..
Odellion 5 years ago
well said
charlieparis1 5 years ago
I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years, so I guess either 4 years ago or every day, depends on how you look at it.
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
When's the last time YOU had a date???
spartacus1138 5 years ago
LOL... dumb... I'm a PUA.. your somewhat right yes.. you females... love guys that make orders and are in Charge!!
ScubaSteve57 5 years ago
AMEN!!! EXACTLY THAT'S WHAT WE WANT...THE NICE GUY!! THANK YOU!!! *hugs* I love you for this video because I don't have a camera to say these things XD...lol AND YES FOOD!! haha you do get somethin' out of it...lol....lol. Ok so basically I agree with you! Great video!
Bevy24 5 years ago
lame
killermatt 5 years ago
I'd date you!
TequilaJay 5 years ago
what a cutie
valon18 5 years ago
The only good thing about dating is to get to know them first and spend some time with her for a year or so. When the time is right then get married something.
493722 5 years ago
that is sooo right thanx for makin this video
Scooti4 5 years ago
But you're right. When some women get older, they realize that this type of man will not provide a stable life for them. But for those of those that were more concerned with music or intellectual pursuits than being the bully, after many lonely Fridays we figured out the game and stopped being so nice as we got older.
Ironic, isn't it?
ndavidg 5 years ago
That's sad.
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
Not necessarily. The first date needs to be about getting acquainted and seeing if there is any chemistry. If it doesn't click, don't waste time. There's no reason to get stuck on anybody. I don't believe that there is just one "soulmate" out there. It's a choice.
ndavidg 5 years ago
And this is not being mean, just realistic. Furthermore, I think it's more important to be real, honest, considerate, and empathetic than to be nice. Nice is superficial. Truly connecting with another human being at a deep level is an entirely different dynamic.
ndavidg 5 years ago
And women say they want a guy to be nice and caring, but when you see a guy that is nice and caring, you see it as a sign of weakness and he becomes unattractive. So basically your superego is in conflict with your id. Your social values brought on by feminism and pop psychology is in direct conflict with your biological drives.
ndavidg 5 years ago
I don't believe in all that feminist crap. I think a woman's place is in the home.
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
Women are still driven by their biological responses. They go for the alpha male. The captain of the football team type. Alpha males have the charateristics that women love to verbally criticize: dates many different women, is dominant over other males, is highly competitive, and carries a high social status. Women are driven to this individual by biology. Surely the attention from women goes to an alpha male's head pretty quickly. Which makes them bigger assholes than they were before.
ndavidg 5 years ago
If that were true, what does that say about men? You are falling for the stereotypes and just to let you know, steroetypes are false.
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
I'm a 35 year old woman and I still have not found this ellusive nice person. Yes, I wanted the jerks too when I was younger. It's called low self esteem. That's why girls want jerks. Oh, how I wish I had listened to my mother.
MurphyBalls 5 years ago
I think a lot of times, the girls are dating the jerks as a rebellion thing. I guess I got lucky and didn't have that phase, probably because it requires one to have parents.
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
hahaha, well thats what you get for only dating jerks before you were past your prime. Who cares that you wised up now, you're over the hill and guys aren't interested in spoiled goods. Ah sweet sweet karmic justice. If you're lucky you might find some old geezer to latch onto like Anna Nicole did.
fulte2d 4 years ago 9
jeez fucking retard not all girls like horny jerky bad boys i don't..
sushilandblu 3 years ago
nice guys rule!!
starryeyed346 5 years ago
Nice guys finish last. Slutty bitches are the best.
VF5Akira 5 years ago
you are so right
sarahmayco 5 years ago
So i have to wait till i'm in my 30's to find a nice girl? AWE!! *tear*
tainted111 5 years ago
Yeah.. it sucks. makes it hard for the nice guys, eh?
tainted111 5 years ago
Girls want a "mean" guy because subconciously, they realise those are the honest ones. Those guys that are so nice and always complimentary are phony, pretentious liars who just want to get on a girls good side for their own hidden motivs.
tehedvil 5 years ago
You sir, are a complete and total moron.
I am a good guy because I can't stand to be mean, because I care about people's feelings and I won't put myself up to being a bully to impress a girl who is looking for the wrong type of guy. My complements are genuine and I have no hidden motives when I'm out with any girl.
Unrequit3d 5 years ago
I don't think you, yourself even know you have these motives, thats my point, you're such a lying yes man that you actually believe your're "nice" but in reality, you're just trying to get laid. =)
tehedvil 5 years ago
For the record: I could care less about getting laid. I don't go on dates with condoms in my car or wallet or anywhere, because I don't expect to get any, nor do I EXPECT any. I'm going out because I am interested in a woman whom I would really like to spend my time with.
Unrequit3d 5 years ago
possibilities: you wack off a lot, you don't have adult-sized testicles, or you are a fruitcake
oedible 5 years ago
Possibilities: You are completely retarded. I am a man and I respect women, no matter how "uncool" you may think it to be. This is the most idiotic statement I think I have ever heard. You are questioning my manhood because I choose not to treat women like a piece of meat.
Stop being a tool.
Unrequit3d 5 years ago
Actually, I gave possible reasons for your apparent lack of sexual interest in other people. It must be caused by some problem that also impeded the development of reasoning abilities, since you could not think well enough to respond to what I actually said.
oedible 5 years ago
I did indeed respond. Maybe you have poor reading skills. You criticized me basically saying I masturbate a ton, I haven't reached puberty yet, or I'm gay, then have the nerve to say I can't think well? I told you the reason already. I've said it twice. I respect women and I don't try to score. It has to do with morals and respect, something that,along with your comprehension skills, you obviously don't posses.
Unrequit3d 5 years ago
OK moron, I will say it again; I listed some possible reasons. Do you understand? Probably not, since the short circuit in your brain has been illustrated very clearly by your responses. You can't see it, obviously, but that is why you should learn not to talk. I am not interested in an idiot's conception of his own characteristics. You are just a remedial-level waste of time.
p.s. some advice: check out your first comment; learn the difference between "compliment" and "complement"
Bye
oedible 5 years ago
If you are going to point out my one misspelled word, perhaps I should point out that you didn't capitalize "possibilities" in your first comment. Also, I'm "remedial-level" now? I'm remedial because I misspelled one word? Take whatever is up your ass out.
Unrequit3d 5 years ago
I have yet to see anything intelligent come from you. Your initial response to my comment was nothing more than a jab at me, which is why I did not respond to it in the way you were wanting me to. Don't act like you were serious when you posted it. You wanted to get some laughs at my expense. You know it as do I. You're pathetic.
PS: You cannot "talk" through comments, moron.
Unrequit3d 5 years ago
Your thought process is so totally twisted. It is possible to be honest and nice. It's called tact. For example, I can try something on and ask my boyfriend if it looks okay and he'll be honest. If it looks bad, he just goes, "Such and such might look better." He was honest that the outfit looked bad but without being an ass. Tact.
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
agree
candyygirll123 5 years ago
true dat
makeyoufeelgood 5 years ago
So tehedevil is a bad guy i guess. Always thinking about getting laid instead of thinking about the girl's feelings or about wether that girl could be that wonderful person who would always be there for you.
Ive been a jerk before, i know. If you have the mentality of a jerk and you insist that you as a man cant change to a nice guy and you want to continue being an unfaithful jackass then thats too bad.
frostymourne 5 years ago
lol that ending was funny
jch88usa 5 years ago
Yup,chicks hate me cus I am a nice guy.Dating sucks!
Moviebro 5 years ago
Im...not like that...I hope...I'm sure I'm not cause my friends would kick my ass if I was a jerk...yeah... they'd beat me... Oh well, dating has it's ups and downs (Huge ups and GIGANTIC F***ING DOWNS), but in the end you just try it again because...that's what people want, a companion(sp?).
By the way...you sound like a VERY cheery person...congrats, It's very pleasing to the ear cause you have a nice voice. Anyways, Unholy out.
UnholyVashX 5 years ago
I love you. I can't wait until ladies realize this... I just pretty much lost a girl whom I really cared for to a jerk. I, uh, well I'm pretty down about it, so this helps.
Unrequit3d 5 years ago
She'll get what she deserves. Karma and all that. :)
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
x2....her x bf...they broke up for a reason and when they got together again he cheated on her and she knew just complained about it..finally broke up...but just...as much as miss her, fuck that im not gonna be stepped on like that..where is the balance point of jerk and nice guy?
FORDGTFANATIC 2 years ago
You've got the balance point. Don't be an creep but don't be a doormat either. Balance. :)
bloggerchickster 2 years ago
your nice, i like you :}
ShokoDemon 5 years ago
Nice points! I consider myself a bad guy but haven't had the bad luck of my kinda girls choosing the jerks over me. The best kind of relationships spawn gradually, rather than a first date whose conversation is baseless beyond the physical. Although, some girls..you can see their personality at almost first glimpse, and it's beautiful.
cjh8 5 years ago
Oh, crap! I meant to say that I consider myslef a NICE guy. Eeks! haha
cjh8 5 years ago
:) I think I'm pretty good and seeing people's personality at a glance. The intrigue is when you see a person that is so mysterious it actually draws you in. That's how it was when I first met my boyfriend.
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
sorry, but i dont agree with you. most of the girls go out with jerks because they pretend to be nice at the first (and second *LOL*) date.
then, when she realises that he is a tottaly jerk, she (probably) is in love already.
well, i dont know... maybe its just me, but... im looking for a nice guy. and i dont wanna have 30 to find it.
but dont get me wrong, i understand your point of view. =)
keep on with the good videos.
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dbeep 5 years ago
keep in mind not everyone wants to get married
T3hH0lyman 5 years ago
ill keep that in mind
mteeire 5 years ago
you sound like you're gonna cry
londonlondonbridge 5 years ago
Very nicely said. People who are shallow and are "users" always pay the price in the end. They fail to learn the means to have a relationship when its truly needed. Keep up the good work!
jtmack77 5 years ago
Yeah, I agree with you, but that jerk of a guy, is going to go through tonnes of girls, and he'll have a tonne of small 'uplifts' from the many girls that he has over the years... So he'll probably won't be lonely and miserable.. And then the nice guys will probably not want all these girls, who have been choosing those jerks over him all the while and... ahh... this could go on forever. bottom line. nice guys finish last
neptuna23 5 years ago
LOL speak for yourself sweetie.
Hardcorebetty 5 years ago
meaning?
bloggerchickster 5 years ago
BOY...I coulda used this insight years ago! Thanks for the post. Had to learn it all the hard way...
djplazma 5 years ago
yup everyone had to learn this the hard way well atleast i did
T3hH0lyman 5 years ago