Girl's Guide to Breakups + Contest

[GosselinLuva]

forwarding this to my friend. you should be a proffesional. <3

[0Yazz]

I just discovered your channel and.. can I just say? You are amazing. It's so great of you to be making these videos because, you know what? People my age (im 16) don't listen to advice from those who are not from their age group.. and you make it fun and easy and accessible and you should be proud of yourself (if you aren't already =D)

p.s. you get the weirdest comments on your videos sometimes xD

[mt12315]

U r HOT

[hahawhatever6]

i.love.you. this is the best guide i have ever watched.

[CoryReynoldsify]

oh my gosh sam e thing happend o me will you go out with me on facebook

[justndaniel]

This isn't just for girls I'm a guy and the girl broke up with me after a year and I gave her everything and this does help

[AliKatt821]

Oh. My. Gosh.

THANKYOUUUUUU!

[BrookeIssMeeex]

OhMahGosh. Your Awesome:D Haha. Nh:)

[DeejayLarz2006]

Coming from a guy - I was engaged to be married five years ago, everything was great up until that point. It went downhill right after getting engaged. We ended up breaking up and it was a terrible one. Now I realize this is meant for girls, but from a male's perspective, the best thing is stay single for a while. In fact what I did was went into seclusion for about a year, taking that time to learn a lot about myself. It was the best thing I ever did; by the end of it, I was a new person.

[eyeheartyoo123]

"how many times can i say you know in a sentence?" l

[erry610]

I think doing yoga everyday & reading books are very good ideas. Wish I had listened to your video during my awful breakup! =)

[aceualways]

this video is amazing!! it helped me so much and gave me my confidence back. LADIES: stop thinking its was something you did to make him lose feelings for you. He broke up with you cause he was too immature to handle how incredable you really are. end of story.

[ashablaanca]

Thank you soooooo much my break up only happened tonight and it hurts so much!!!! but your helping me get through it

[iluvufreaks]

what do i do if a guy is like..obsessed with you, sexual, just disturbing, and then a few months later he says he's better, found help in church, and wants to try again?

[lauriekaypoli]

It's day 3 now, and I watched a sappy love movie yesterday and it was terrible, wish i found this before then.

[20Honda03]

Oh and why did he break up with you if you dont mind me asking.....ummm ur like f*** hot ahahah :P

[20Honda03]

I broke up with my ex a little while ago and one of many things i can say is that, if he/she doesnt stick with you in all the hurdles in life/your relationship (when you are at ur worst) then he/she doesnt deserve you when you are at ur best! ((Oh and this does not include people who cheat.....then u definitely deserve he/she breaking up with u)

I was at my worst and she was never there, NOW i have my own business, keeping fit and enjoying life. This goes for both genders believe in urself!

[anicholeroser]

you're amazing. honestly you're like a new role model to me. <3

[KikuShake]

Duude you're great :) I wish I found this video 2 years ago :D lol But i'm so over him now. I think started really liking me again but I don't care. :)

[nick34374]

this is all bull shit

[elimag99]

cooldude1697 this is A GIRLS GUIDE TO A BREAK UP. I'm 11 and even I know that

[xGlamxCorex619]

i am going through the most hurtful breakup..thank you for this<3

[cooldude1697]

I'm a guy can this still apply with me?

[TheKynlove]

thankyou so much!

[lalabadazz1987]

its ok my breakup was like 30min. ago but i look at it as his loss i did what i had to do to make it work i dont fell i could have done anymore than what i did!!!! school is all thats on my mind screw a man !!!!

[pammyismybestie]

first night of phase 1

[lolalove111213]

i went though a really really REALLY bad breakup!!! then i got with anoher guy....i WISH I HADENT!

[A8lilac88]

thanks so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

[KenyleineLaspina]

girl!! thank you! Ive bee crying all freaking day & this just made me feel awesome. You're right! I don't need him

[spacebound40]

does this work for guys?

[areyoufree]

Awww honey you're adorable :) good advice for sure!

[honeyb237]

2 months..come on? that's stupid..you don't know shit...dumb ass:\

[120brooklyn]

this really helped me thanks u

[267FunnyDancingCooky]

Thanks for posting this video up! Recently I was dumped for baseball

[bethlovespunk007]

amazing!!!!!

[whitegirls02]

this is a great video im soo glad i found it <3

[Ediizzle]

This is the best breakup guide I've ever watched. Ever. I just suffered a really bad break up, and I realized how many things I shouldn't have done lol. But this was really great.

[phillipandheather]

if a guy breaks up with a girl then that girl will destroy that guy by hitting him with her thumb,as soon as she hits him with her thumb then he will explode and if a girl breaks up with a guy then that guy deserves it and he will die in 2 seconds because the girl wants him to die in 2 seconds,guys dont control girls,girls control guys

[AJTJ12345]

Thx alot for the addvise it worked...thx!!!

[yescandles]

The pedicure was a great idea. I would also suggest a massage and facial!

Girls, find a gay friend! They are usually fun, adore girls and will continually be on your side always and will make sure you feel good about yourself, look your best and will be there for you. I am serious! ( Of course your ex will hate this idea but who cares, right?)

[woodwinkedx]

@respectedvegas thanks for being the only positive guy comment on this video! Haha that means a lot to me, thank you.

[benjy642]

Push up bras are for posers, i dont want one chick wearing a push up bra unless ur a frikken stripper. So what ur saying is if your boobs are fakely bigger ul feel gud about urselff?? Ugh!

[seekingelite]

So the next time I break up with a chick, I know that shes going to have hairy legs for a few days. Interesting....

[billyofatty]

bitches be crazy

[LaLaGirl2402]

This was so helpful I just had a breakup except I broke up with him so I didn't really care?!?!

[xxdancer10xo]

OMG you are amazing!! This has helped me soo much!(: fannntabulous video!

[aquaeyes87]

this video is amazing! I'm so glad I found it, and you! new subscriber!

[woodwinkedx]

@aquaeyes87 Thank you so much! That really means so much to me!

[reach2mypocket]

girl, you're awesome.

i have the same exact views, don't let anyone be your everything, because when they're gone you have nothing.

gotta let go and move on and really discover yourself and find your own identity, because you loose a lot of yourself when in a relationship.

[GirlyFreek090]

when your boyfriend broke up with you did you give back gifts? or should we keep them? cause im going into highschool and if i have a boyfriend i wanna know. thx

:)

[BlushedBeautyful]

haha this is really funny xoxo

[amoruso04]

hope i never ever have to use these rules because i love my f to bits but very very very very very very good advice!x

[byoungchild69]

this is genius, i needed this last year :( favorite guru ever!!!!!!!!!

[Romancelover8]

Your actually reli reli pretty =P your EX is an idiot to dump you ;]

[MsBinkies]

p.s. completely random and possibly very strange, but you have a perfect nose! it's like my moms kind of. and mine is TERRIBLE! i would love to have it look like yours.

that's just my out of left field ccomment/compliment.

[MsBinkies]

oh i have such a good one but it's too late!

[ohheygirlx3]

Oh my gosh. I LOVE you for this! Absolutely subscribed!

[MakeupObsessedx3]

i LOVE your advice <3

[shenghlubteng37]

wow thanks you seem so confident when you're giving advice. That means serious advice there.

[hillbill55]

Yay! Breakup are a lesson u learn from I just got out of one and just completed the sad shitty sleepless nite thing but it takes time we've all been there ur not going to die even if u think u can't live with out him best song for me boring by pink everyday I rock out in the shower sexy lol

[mwahahaha09]

your beautiful!

[Skyescraper24]

i just got dump.. he was my bestfriend and pretty much my life.

it sucks.

boys are assholes!

[sarastro84]

omg love this. sooo funny espeicially the shaving legs bit!!!!

[woodwinkedx]

hahah thank youu! <3

[MakeupByNichole]

sorry that i had to with draw my entry, hopefully your not mad

[woodwinkedx]

i hate you. just kidding you know i love you biatch

[GosselinLuva]

haha this is extremley helpful!! <3 :) ohh i love your videos. i'm very sorry about you and kyle..! what a.....assh-butt :) hehe ohh your to good for him kayla!

[woodwinkedx]

Thank you so much! :) That means so much to me seriously.

[DaisyBelleful]

HAHA omg hilarity. I completely agree. Delete from life, period

[woodwinkedx]

amen! :)

[soeunkate]

BREAKUP EPISODE OF FRIENDS!

best reference ever

[woodwinkedx]

hahaha friends is my favorite show EVER. love it!

[Becca201067]

Thank You so much I'm just going though a hard break up and I have dated him for 6years and my heart is broken he lefted me for another girl so thanks so much this is helping

[woodwinkedx]

i'm so glad that the video helped you! believe me i know the incredible pain that you are going through. if you need someone to talk to i'm always here for you :)

[JuicyGeorgie09]

do you have to be US ?

Im from UK and wanna enter;);)?

[woodwinkedx]

nope! contest is international!

[JuicyGeorgie09]

wow, thanks(L)

[SierraSpicer]

the best break up video ever!

[woodwinkedx]

thank youu!

[murshell29]

im the worst when it comes to break ups your advice really helped me :D

i wish i can have a video response for u but im horrible at this kinda advice, i think u pretty much said all the advice i wanna hear aha.. ur prize video made me crave chocolate now. . :P

[woodwinkedx]

I'm so glad the video helped you! And yum chocolate! I want some now! haha

[iAmEphalent]

I LOVE THIS but im so grateful i dont need this lol

[woodwinkedx]

haha yay! :)

[pincstuff]

aw girly, best video ever. I really love your confidence and attitude! You go girl! xoxo

[woodwinkedx]

Thank you so much! :)

[SherriLovesCereal]

Preach it sista! :)

[TimtotheTam]

Wow, very informative. Especially considering my girlfriend broke up with me two days before you posted this video.... i'm not gonna shave my legs though :)

[woodwinkedx]

hahaha you don't have to shave your legs ;)

[ttylomglolcrazee]

U BROKE UP WITH KYLE??? or wutever his name was

[woodwinkedx]

yup Kyle, about 2 months ago.

[cleannpretty09]

That was the best information ever haha

and very fuunnnyy :)

[woodwinkedx]

haha thank youu!

[ashboo9]

you helped me ALOT.

thank you soooooo much !

:)

[woodwinkedx]

Thanks for watching and commenting! :)

[jenabasicallyable]

awe :D

[woodwinkedx]

thanks!

[Fiercification]

is it international??

[woodwinkedx]

Yes! And for future reference all my contests will be international!

[woodwinkedx]

haha thank you so much! i'm glad you found it funny! xoxo

[yummycupcake918]

at first i was so depressed and sad and you really helped me because i loved him and he was using me to get to my so called best friend and he left me for her and i would cry myself to sleep and think its the end of the world and you helped me thanx! :)

[woodwinkedx]

I'm so glad it helped you!! Thanks so much for the amazing feedback! xoxo

[BryBerryPie]

Thank you so much for this video Kayla! So helpful

[woodwinkedx]

Thanks for watching! :)

[PeaceNLove016]

omg this has to be the best video ever!!!! u r so funny and easy to relate to thanks for the advice :)

[woodwinkedx]

Thanks so much! I'm sooo glad you enjoyed it! <3

[BlackTiedMe]

I love this video! Amazing! :) I am going to enter this sometime soon! You are gorgeous! :)

[woodwinkedx]

Thank you so much! <3 :)

[besties4life186]

I so appreciate this video. I love your channel (:

[woodwinkedx]

thank you! <3 <3

[xxmaryxrosexx]

:) i made my first video, but where there was a couple mistakes, i wanted too fix it, so i deleted my other video, and made a new one, hope thats fine.

<3

[woodwinkedx]

yay of course that's okay! thanks so much! <3

[anniegirl1216]

this is why i love you! you make encouraging videos instead of just beauty videos! keep it up :)

[woodwinkedx]

i love you too thank you! <3

[twentytwolove]

what took me two years to figure out, you just summed up in 5 minutes. haha SO GREAT. love the advice :]

[woodwinkedx]

Thank you! So glad you enjoyed it! <3

[intelligenceisnot]

Beautiful girl.

Good bye!

[woodwinkedx]

Thank you!

[Bubblesoflush]

gonna make a video soooon :)

[woodwinkedx]

yay <3

[caarllyxo]

I LOVE YOU

hahah im 14 so i havent had a bad break up but i love listenin to you!

[woodwinkedx]

haha I love you too!

[pine4apples]

This is such a great video! I favorited it! Not sure I could do break up advice b/c my break up experience is a little weird, but Kayla, your advice is amazing!

[woodwinkedx]

Thank you so much! <3 <3

[imprezanic0le]

Honestly, i was looking for these kind of videos but never find a decent one.

Im so glad you did this! Im going thru a lot right now, its not over, but still. Things that he has done, i try to forget. Try to trust again. Maybe you can do a vid with tips how to handle fights/problems with trusting etc?

[woodwinkedx]

Believe me. Been there. Done that. Trust is such a huge part of a relationship and once it's broken, it can seem like the worst thing in the world. I will def do a video on that. I understand where you're coming from completely and believe me, it will get better. Just focus on YOU and what YOU need. <3

[Surfandsandmegs]

Love it! Haha I'm gonna see if this can be the first video I do with me in it! :D how cool would that be? Lol love you Kayla! :) <3

[woodwinkedx]

yay! love you <3 <3

[peterandelena]

haha i think i'll do this ;)

[woodwinkedx]

haha I know you've got awesome advice because you gave it to me! haha love you.

[makeupbynumbers]

Good video and I know boys go through these feelings too, maybe not as "dramatic" as girls but they do do it! My ex came to class in his pjs after we broke up and my teacher gave him a talk basically exactly what you said. It really helped him too

[woodwinkedx]

I know guys go through it as well. They just aren't always as vocal about it. But us girls gotta stick together! haha <3

[misha50333]

Amen!!

[linds1986]

Great attitude to have girl! You're a superstar and I love ya for it! xoxoxo

[woodwinkedx]

xoxoxo you're the best!

[saraelizabetheverett]

you have the coolest accent ever! i love the way u talk!

[woodwinkedx]

haha thanks love

[sherribailey75]

great video! wish i had it to watch after my break up. I didn't give myself 3 days to mourn. I kind of made myself delete him from my mind immediately, which i think later backfired, because it was like forbidding myself from eating a piece of food and then later gorging on it. anyway, he's a distant memory now. he he. i love the "thoughts have wings" saying. so true, so true.

[woodwinkedx]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I completely know what you mean. Sometimes it's just easier to not deal with it, but it always comes back to bite you! Time heals all <3

[smashrobot3ZO]

"Hide" his activity on facebook lol. they made a group about hiding people XD

[woodwinkedx]

That's such good advice. I totally did that haha.

[mydenmel]

u deserve a better man kyla=)

have a great day ahead=)

[woodwinkedx]

Thanks so much! keep being positive and love life! Enjoy the little things!

[jonaslovinmachene321]

OH SNAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[woodwinkedx]

hahaha i don't know if that's good or bad, but thanks!! :D

[LanoTheWhale]

this was amazing, and so true. made me realize a lot of things, so thank you for that. I'm glad you're moving on, because you seem like such a good person, and someone that deserves to be happy.

[woodwinkedx]

Thank you so much. I'm so glad that it helped you. It helped me just making the video! And everyone deserves to be happy. Never forget that you're worth it. <3

[4x4girly]

I think this is the best contest video on youtube .

Such a great idea, love it.

[woodwinkedx]

Thank you so much. That means so much to me! <3

[caliprincess04]

Omg I love you lol. Favorited!! <3

[woodwinkedx]

i love you too! haha thank you! <3

[caliprincess04]

Lol thanks doll :) I've gotta come up with some breakup tips now! :)

[01bobbee]

my ex boyfriend broke up with me and i still like him and we still talk like if were still together butt i think he likes my friend..

[woodwinkedx]

Forget that loser and focus on yourself and find your prince charming! He's out there somewhere and you DESERVE happiness! <3

[01bobbee]

yah i spoke to soon last night i texted him and he told me that we shouln't talk no more. like as in we diddnt know each other..

whatever i could do better

[01bobbee]

ii Loved the video Kayla!

[woodwinkedx]

Thank you!

[BRONXPEPE]

i had to favorite this, because i become so cold after a breakup i dont like to be pathetic and be up the guys ass asking why even tho i want to be but i am like no cuz i look like a fool cuz there are times i exit guys out of my life and they want to know why and i dont want to bother with them.

[woodwinkedx]

I know exactly what you mean! You gotta be strong but not too strong! <3 You're not pathetic! I promise!

[BRONXPEPE]

yeah i think its the mixed of emotions just turns against u sometimes to be kind of distant in ur feelings towards others.

[Bubblesoflush]

Loved the video Kayla, you are really sweet to help out like that. I am actually kinda with a guy but still you forget yourself so it reminded me to go take care of me. plus I have definitely been there and that would help! :)

[woodwinkedx]

Thank you so much! You are so important! Always remember to take care of you and your dreams!

[TapiocaDexterin]

aww man i just called the ex crying ...and then text him to tell him i loved him and needed him...even though he has started seeing someone new. I wish I had seen this first. Kayla i just feel so shitty!

[Bubblesoflush]

I reckon that kind of thing is always tempting. It's ok, you just need to start from now just looking after you, and also if he took you back while you are feeling low it wouldn't work good.. It doesn't matter about him now. Just kinda act like you are over him and eventually you will catch up, cry when you need to, and try and keep yourself busy, watch things that make you laugh. I hope you don't mind me saying!

[woodwinkedx]

I was going to say the same exact thing! Stay STRONG! Be positive. Resist temptation. Believe me I know how hard it is. But it has to be done! <3

[inxthexxsky]

AMAZING.

=)

[woodwinkedx]

thank you!

[Smontie103]

a good song is "so what im still a rockstar!" by pink its one of my favorite songs!

[woodwinkedx]

love that song! will def be on the cd for the winner! <3 love pink!

[cliniquegloss178]

lol ily

[woodwinkedx]

ily too!