MLGBTCC

[abbyconnelly]

You're great!

[jellybean2201]

You look so cute in that dress!

[elvis3700]

You lookm so pretty in that dress.

[kinko0192837465]

you are a beautiful girl. i couldnt even tell you were trans till i saw the cmnts. :]

[jdpasino]

You look amazing in that dress!

[ken2305]

much too young for me...but you are soo cute...

[pinkblack179]

You're just adorable. Always!

[gothkenny]

Where did you get that dress!? I loveeee it. C: You look so cute in it. ^_^

[Xindi71]

i like your dress i love dresses i just wish i could wear them now

[peaceandloveletsblow]

I like the gayBLT, with mayo.

[JoaquinJack27]

I don't know what the intention behind this comment was, but it made me giggle.

[dalle93]

hello are you a girl or a boy  transgendered in girl?

kiss

[WordsYouForget]

i go to ur town from time to time

[zundaga]

You have put a smile on my face. Oh, btw...your hair is great in this video.

[Nymunariya]

I was at the MBLGTACC 2009!

[peterpan82x]

i was there it was Kick ASS

[gerger83]

Hi I just see all the videos and I do not understand your language as a unique q me what your taste is I love the clothes they got up

[coolicepolo]

...love.. ....love

[sunnyeyedhope]

I hope to see you at MBLGTACC this coming year.

And yes I think you look cute.

[queerlittlekitten]

its mblgtAcc

[Nikkilove42069]

you look fab in the dress, wish i could look that good

[h5t6ca]

Congratulation for your dress it is prety and you look grat in it.

happy to hear you enjoyed the conference.

[ajjprincess]

You look great. I love that dress, where did you get it from?

[chrisvera0203]

wat does gender queer mean?

[scbkers]

Your dress is super cute. Your body-type is perfect for the fit of that dress! We should go shopping so I can live vicariously through you!

p.s. the bow does NOT go in the back, do NOT listen to the person who made that comment

[sissycd28]

Dork? lol, no you really Cute!

[luv4eva1]

ummm... i think thw bow goes in back.... sooo... yea..

[radolf123]

conference ? you and me only is a great conference

[radolf123]

cofference ? you and me only is a great conference

[NutterGrrl]

beautiful dress for a beautiful you! Southern California beaches are the best! (you are still in San Diego right?) I grew up in Orange county and spent many a summer day at Redondo beach or out at Balboa island. I kind of miss it there.

any way back to watching I have almost gotten up to current on your vids

~D

[kerrydog]

you are beautiful!

[daniellefromcal]

You look truly sweet. You are obviously where you belong.

[pgy001]

I bought me a dress similar to that one at Rose's the other day:)

[abstractactivist]

What a lovely dress!

[lilypaaad]

you have a great figure! why are you so thin. *jealous*

[GROZNAYA]

not to insult, but does the dress have to be custom made if it's form fitting for women's curves, or does it not really matter?

[icecoldbath]

Hormones redistribute the fat on my body. I have curves like any other girl. :)

[GROZNAYA]

yea i didn't notice a difference when i saw you in the dress, but i have seen some horror with trans in dresses before, so i thought i should ask.

[oceanbruce1980]

girls....always talking about their dresses, shopping, ect.

thats nice about the confrence, dancing, ect.

[tennischickie]

wow - i love the dress! don't let ashley2012 or w/e get you down. he/she/it needs to get glasses

[FallofFayth]

Wow, you are one gorgeous girl.

That dress looks amazing on you :)

-frankie.

[ashley2012wild]

are you a girl or guy? not bein mean or nothing...

[icecoldbath]

girl.

[gaytrannyhater]

actualy, if you look it up in a dictionary, thers a picture of you under the definition of slutty bitch ass mother fucking skanky whore face.

[icecoldbath]

love the user name!!!

[pgy001]

gaytrannyhater-So does that name mean you are a GAY tranny-hater? You're a gay person who hates trannies?

[AldinTheMad]

What's wrong with being a slutty whore? Girls that enjoy sex, know what they want and how to ask for it, and that are more likely to practice safe sex and have skills

[oceanbruce1980]

dont ask questions like this. that was rude. go look at "Bad Questions to Ask a Transsexual"

[ruba90]

cute dress love ur body i wish i was as skinny

[chris19001]

You are very cute.

[lucysl4life]

emm pritty dress, hope to see you in them alittle more, the vidos are coming on well.

Keep up the good work.

XXX Lucy XXX

[somewhereNBtween]

OMG I hate you!!! LOL I wish I was that size and figure again!!! Keep up the good videos!!

[phantasma616]

you look great in that dress!

:D

[icecoldbath]

thanks!

[MiteGai]

I got it right, I noticed the difference. :)

I love the dress, it looks fantastic on you!

Thanks again! Always inspiring!

[icecoldbath]

Thank you, and I got that message about your new SN! Be sure to message me when you make your first video so I can watch it!

[jenzagall12345]

I know your going through a hard transition, but take care!!

I LOVE YOUR DRESS""

[InformationOverload4]

Also don't get insulted, I'm not saying you look like a guy, I just thought you bore a resemblence to him before you were on hormones. And guys and girls can resemble, not wasnt being insulting.

[InformationOverload4]

Hi Ashley! I've been watching your vlogs for a while now. And I noticed on your first vlog where you started documenting your transition *before you started taking hormones I think* You look just like this guy on YouTube called wheresthebrain! I was wondering if you are related to him? The resemblnce is uncanny. I have some of his videos saved in My Favorites, please go to my favorites have have a look! The resembelce is eerie!! I thought you migh be related!

[Synthmotifx]

That is a sick looking dress... you look comfortable in it.

[damageinc2]

cute girl, cute dress, you have a really great figure. Is that a clockwork orange poster in the background, i love that movie.

[1ginger4u2]

It looks like you'll be slapping a lot of hands when you wearit & you wear it well. I tried to upload a video to you not sure if it worked.

[smlaurieanne]

cute outfit dear

[nytransguy]

i bet that dress looks hot from any angle- in dim lighting or bright lighting ooor nooo lighting ;)

ur so sexy it leave me "singing in the rain" :P

[grishno]

What a cute dress. It has totally disarmed all of the horrible things i was going to say to you. DAMN!

[tekalynn]

The dress is lovely and a very nice style on you. Thanks for showing it.

[umjacksuzy]

r u gay mn u better stop doin that or u will never get a girlfriend

[icecoldbath]

no, i'm a transsexual. I don't want a girlfriend. I like guys.

[pgy001]

umjacksuzy-Well this shows how stupid and ignorant YOU ARE! As Ashley said she doesn't want a girlfreind, BUT PLENTY of people like Ashley DO DATE GIRLS!!! Check out Grishno's channel she's trans and she has a girlfriend.

Why do people have to make ignorant comments like, "NEVER get a girlfriend"? Hun, NEVER is a long time! There's someone for EVERYONE! There are women who DO DATE trans girls you idiote!

[mtencati]

i feel like you should point in the the camera and tell people that dont understand harsh reality to fuck off more often. that was sweet!

[icecoldbath]

I think I really like cursing at inanimate objects. :)

[gabyinsideout]

I love your DRESS!!!

[icecoldbath]

thank you!

[MadameMalaise]

first of all, you look super cute in the dress^W^ second of all, id love to go to a conference like that. being surrounded by a bunch of queer/trans ppl in such large numbers would be a bit overwhelming but gratifying at the same time.

[icecoldbath]

Yeah it was a really cool experience, felt like being surrounded by an extended family.

[MISTAFIEDONEEIGHTSEV]

¥T

[icecoldbath]

????

[MISTAFIEDONEEIGHTSEV]

Time for change.. Click my link and read! Spread the Word.

¥T

[gothique11]

A dress! A dress! Congrats on your first dress. I don't wear dresses that much, although I have one somewhere that I wear sometimes when going out. The conference sounded good; I'm glad you had a good time.

[icecoldbath]

Yeah, I don't think i'll be putting these on that often, but its good to have them for the wardrobe.

[shinekite18]

you look like a cute dork :)

[icecoldbath]

*giggles*

[rachelroseh]

congrats on your dress. its really cute on you. plus bustin out the spring dress early makes it seeeeem warmer:)

[icecoldbath]

haha, i wish it were warmer! it's snowing outside!

[qt28739]

Ashley, Thank you for the videos. You are doing at an age that I should have. Although what differance does 47 years make? I have learned why people enjoy life. In the words of my across the street neighbor "Will you STOP smiling so much!" Man I love being a woman.

Georgy

[icecoldbath]

lol @ "man i love being a woman" Thank you for your sweet words.

[nancy4366]

You look really pretty in a dress. How do you stay so thin? What is your diet like?

[icecoldbath]

haha. I don't have a diet. I really should start to work out, my tummy is getting flabby.

[Reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed]

Damn I wish I could have gone. You look very pretty in that dress!

[icecoldbath]

aww, next year! Thank you!

[whotookaegir]

You seem pretty angry with the HRC. Care to elaborate?

[icecoldbath]

They stabbed transgendered people in the back over the ENDA in order to maintain political clout. The HRC is not an LGBT org, it is a rich gay white men org.

[icecoldbath]

They stabbed transgendered people in the back over the ENDA in order to maintain political clout. The HRC is not an LGBT org, it is a rich gay white men org.

[alice9w9]

The dress is awesome. I need to get a dress like that-after I drop about 70 lbs! All my dresses are too short, ripped, with safety pins and band buttons (lame, I know). The conference sounds xtremely cool.

[icecoldbath]

lame! Thats badass.

[speaksofthesky]

That is a very cute dress!

I was planning on going to the conference, but I had school stuff and a job interview that same weekend and didn't get to go. I'm so jealous!

[icecoldbath]

Haha I should have done what you did and stayed home and done homework!

[icecoldbath]

I should have done that as well!

[sevenwst]

You look very cute. I always like ur videos never a bore.

[icecoldbath]

But but, I'm trying to be a bore! ;)

[AndrogyneMichinaga]

Lovely dress, and the conference sounds very cool.

[icecoldbath]

Thankya muches!

[tglady]

Always nice to see what you've been up to these days.You look so natural every time I see a new video.Now in a very pretty dress,WOW! You look like the very beautiful young lady you really are...very nice..WOW!

[icecoldbath]

Aww thank you! I try to make a blog with a little life update now and then.

[GenieP]

So what, the girl's in a dress. Big deal! Now, when she wears a tiara and a mink stole, then I'll make a big deal of it. Still, it is always good to hear from you, Ashley. Even if I am a TS gal in stealth!!

[icecoldbath]

Oh Genie, I think we just use the word stealth in two different ways. You think stealth means just living your life, and by that standard I'm stealth. When i'm talking about stealth people, i'm talking about liars and self-haters. There is a difference.

[GenieP]

Okay, my dear. Then I am with you. I don't normally tell people that I am a TS woman, but then, depending on the circumstances, I wouldn't deny it either. I am a very proud and happy TS woman. By the way, I love wearing pretty dresses too! I just adore being feminine. Love ya!

[icecoldbath]

Yeah, I mean how often does one's gender even come up in conversation? Not that often for me. Probably the only difference between me and you is I still associate with 95% of the people I had to come out to.

[dirmac]

you look amazing ,you are really beautiful. nice poster Molodoy Ptitsa

[icecoldbath]

Thank you!! Yes I do love the kubrik.

[orangebandana]

I very cleary see a light behind you! Use that! lol... (that's what college did to me...)

Haha, told them to fuck off. I think I would have asked them if they expected me to stick it over my mouth or something really witty or something.

omg omg, Transpeople meeting in real life! omg omg! I did that once or twice... nothing too exciting, no secret formulas given... was rather sad...

[icecoldbath]

Yeah by "fuck off," I actually said "When you are ready to fight for my equality, then I will wear your sticker"

huh. No one has invited you to the secret meeting yet?

[orangebandana]

Ooooooooohhh, that told them!

There's a secret meeting? .... :( I'm never told about these things...

[MIMMM]

You should do it more, wearing a dress. It caresses your personality.

[icecoldbath]

eek! I don't know if I want my personality caressed.

[MIMMM]

Sure you want. Everybody wants it. You are certainly no exeption.

[icecoldbath]

is it painful?

[icecoldbath]

is it painful?

[gendersupport]

GORGEOUS dress love,

you look all kinds of hot missy miss! So jealous

[blickblocks]

A dress? God you're so heteronormative.

</3

[icecoldbath]

mmmm gender binary. I prefer mine with the duck sauce.

[blickblocks]

I'm vegan

I only eat imitation binary

[icecoldbath]

oo good call.

[KarinaAndAliChannel]

wait.. is that a guy or girl!

[icecoldbath]

I'm a girl.

[KarinaAndAliChannel]

yeh but theres a video of u, and u have shorter hair

and ur voice sounds like a guy?...

are u a transvestike?

or whatever?

[icecoldbath]

I used to be a boy. I am a transsexual yes. I'm not a transvestite. I don't dress like I girl for fun. I do it because I would kill myself I didn't.

[KarinaAndAliChannel]

Ohh.

but

how did u change ur voice and like... like.. did u get sergery? for ur. um. private areas and stuff..?

and why did u want to be a girl?

[icecoldbath]

I changed my voice with practice. No I'm not going to tell you about my genitals, thats private. I didn't want to be a girl, but I was going to kill myself living as a boy - I had to become a girl. No one is a transsexual for fun, it sucks.

[KarinaAndAliChannel]

wtf!

then whyd u do it!

and?...

U DIDNT HAVE TO BECOME A GIRL.

and whats the difference if u were a boy?

and why were u ganna kill urself?!

[icecoldbath]

I've explained it 3 times. I was going to kill myself because I was a boy and my whole brain was telling my that was horribly horribly wrong. Transsexuality, like homosexuality is NOT A CHOICE. Being a boy, me being suicidally depressed. No drugs helped at all. The minute I began becoming a girl, the depression went away.

[KarinaAndAliChannel]

thats creepy.

[icecoldbath]

Being a transsexual sucks. Think about it next time you think we are all weird. Its just like having cancer; the cure is just changing our sex.

[icecoldbath]

Being a transsexual sucks. Think about it next time you think we are all weird. Its just like having cancer; the cure is just changing our sex.

[orangebandana]

you asked all them creepy questions.

[blickblocks]

Why are you coming here to Ashley's blog and asking these kinds of questions?

[WallaWallaOnions]

o.O People like you are why innocent people die. Learn before you speak.

[GenieP]

So, this is the first time you've "heard" or "seen" a transsexual? What rock are you living under? Watch out...we're everywhere. Visit Lynn Conway's "Transsexual Women Successes" if you really want to learn something.

[pgy001]

Yes I KNOW transgenderism is NOT a choice, but I often wonder, what if it was? Even if it WAS a choice, WHY would people think it's SO BAD? I mean if a male felt like he'd be happier as a female, what's the big deal?

[pgy001]

KarinaAndAliChannel-If I may interject, these questions REALLY get old! She "wanted to be a girl" because she HAS ALWAYS BEEN a girl, she was just born in the wrong body, so she's taking steps to correct her body so it matches who she is on the INSIDE. So it's not like she wanted to "be a girl", she has ALWAYS BEEN A GIRL! Just unfortunatly born in a male body, how HARD is THAT to understand?

[QueenOfShemakh]

OMG, how can you be so skinny? What's your secret, Ashley? I starve, I work out and I still look like a pregnant cow. Btw, were there many cute transmen at the coference? :-D

[GoldRainGirl]

Don't starve, it makes it harder :p

(but say, cutting refined sugar, more water, more complex carbs...)

Do aerobics, not huge workouts... heck, just walk a couple miles a day.

And you might see :D

Yay for close community :D

(And the dress is pritty :D )

[icecoldbath]

Thats the right way to do it!

[icecoldbath]

Its genetics unfortunately. I totally need to start eating better. Estrogen is turning me into a total fat cow. Which you are not! You are hot!

There were a lot of hot guys at this conference, both gay and trans!

[GoldRainGirl]

So says the skinny bitch :p

Oooh, hot guys...

[Bethhappy]

Ashley you look sooo good. If I can only look half as good as you. Keep up the videos and some day I will post a video, Beth

[icecoldbath]

aww thank you, i'm sure you look twice as good as me. make videos!

[louise2bsoon]

You look nice in your new dress. I'm not sure what "genderqueer" means, I'll have to look it up! You've come a long way since you first started vlogging haven't you Ashley? Best wishes.

[icecoldbath]

Well this person takes hormones, but plans to live as a mostly androgynous boy. They do dress up and go out 'en femme' a lot and when I met them they were presenting as female. They see themselves as both male and female.

[mochi65]

You are simply beautiful my friend.

Such a hot little body on you.

I'd love to show you off to my friends.

Take care,

wonderful to see you again,

Mochi

:)

[icecoldbath]

*blush* thank you mochi!

[mochi65]

When will you have one of those get-togethers here in Hawaii?  ;)

[RosebudOfCane]

Ooh... not fair. I was guessing it was the Kubrick poster behind you (much cooler than a dress). But, in my defense, I couldn't see that it was a dress until you stood. Contrary to my defense--despite the fact that I had read the description before watching the video--you do say, "Look [sic] a new dress!"

I went to my first gay pride last year, and I saw my first girlfriend there. It was an odd feeling, being surrounded by society's strangers but, at the same time, keeping good company.

~B

[icecoldbath]

lol that poster has been in several videos. Are you a fan of the old ultraviolence yourself?

Queers make the best company. I think everyone should date or be friends with a queer person.

~A (go beginning of alphabet!)

[icecoldbath]

That kubrick poster is totally in other videos. Are you a fan of the old ultraviolence? Don't correct my grammar punk!

[ArtWankDiva]

You're a humanities graduate student, and you're still sensitive to the antics of Grammar Nazis? Oh what a long, sad road lies before you, my dear... ;)

[icecoldbath]

You know, funny enough, The grammar nazi's have recently tried to get me thrown out of grad school.

[shastab24]

You are a big dork. Your dress looks cute, though.

(Forewarning: this would be a compliment in my family, as we value when one can retain silliness in their life.)

[icecoldbath]

I value silliness as well :) Its a great value. Zoink!

[seashechanges]

Ashley, your dress is stunning! The conference sounded fascinating and fun, and It made me giggle that you got to say fuck off to the HRC folk, I would have gladly done the same! best wishes, internet stalker fan D. :)

[icecoldbath]

hooray for internet stalkers, i'm really glad I bought this dress. I can't wait to wear it out.

[LoveTheComedy]

The dress is very cute. I'm glad you had fun at the conference and met some new friends.

[icecoldbath]

Thank you very much. It is sad you deleted your videos :(.

[AskAJanything]

That dress would look best on the floor of my bedroom...xo

[icecoldbath]

ow ow! I think I would look hot on the floor of your bedroom. ;)

[icecoldbath]

ow ow! I think I would look hot on the floor of your bedroom. ;)

[fgor1984]

Cute, but you're supposed to do a twirl so we can see the back!

Otherwise we only get to see half of it. :P

[icecoldbath]

lol, I know I forgot the twirl. I had been really frustrated with my comp. Believe me I twirled a lot in the mirror.

[pigpen7471]

CUTEST DRESS EVER!!

were did u get it? I WANT ONE! HAVE TO HAVE IT!

[icecoldbath]

bodyc dot com.

[MadHacktress]

We don't have many conferences in Canada but when they do come here I have always enjoyed them. It's really very fun to get out and to participate in the discussions, meet people and get involved. They are an exceptional opportunity to expand one's horizons beyond your usual circle of friends, queer or otherwise.

I'm glad you had fun... and, of course, that is an awesome dress! :)

[icecoldbath]

Yeah this was my first conference, but hopefully not my last. I think i'm going to present at the next one.

[archetype891]

ice cold bath roxxorz

[icecoldbath]

your boxxorz?

[shipwrecksilence]

awesome dress. ha i can't even imagine being in a room with 40 other trans people.

[icecoldbath]

haha you could smell the gender dysphoria in the air.

[fugazi0311]

Hahaha Ashley.

Shipwreck, I know. Wouldn't that be so fun?

You should've shown us the cut of the dress because I thought it was just a shirt until you announced it was a dress.

[shipwrecksilence]

awesome dress. ha i can't even imagine being in a room with 40 other trans people.

[icecoldbath]

yeah it was pretty surreal.

[cheechcaballero]

Great dress, yes!

[icecoldbath]

Thank you!

[jeremyj417]

Cute dress. You look very pretty.