How to Never Get Pissed Off Again

[ctsent]

I don't see why the video was done shirtless?

[twitterfire]

Please die, fucking faggot!

[Lukemylove4ever]

@twitterfire Dumbass, what the fucking fuck is your problem? I am gay too, do you want me to die too??? OMG Motherfucker you're so stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Burn in hell stupid dumbass!!!!!!!

[purplezart]

@Lukemylove4ever ... did you actually watch the video?

[Lukemylove4ever]

@purplezart Yes but guys (or girls) like him just make me very angry

[knetye8124]

awww weres the kiss :(

[jazzybellejimenez123]

i love how your shirtless all the time.... even at your boyfriends parents house. :) keep being your self :)

[ShortSide0fTown]

Re name for video. "How to be annoying"

[VipersNest21799]

im not gay but your a beautiful person. Inside and out.

[Jessh1905]

@superman77377737 Wow... jealous much? its pretty sad and pathetic when you cant appreciate a person as amazing as Davey... 

[23LoveK]

I've been looking for this video that Davey made, he mentions how he keeps money he finds from the universe. I've seen almost all of them so I have no clue which one it is! LOL. If someone could please help me, it would be greatly appreciated :) Thank you

[Beltainted]

@23LoveK I think that might have been in the video where he gives a little tour of his condo. I'm pretty sure he briefly shows the bowl where he keeps the money or something. I think there was a little Buddha next to it...

[colin12012]

I read the title and thought "weed?"

[iFuckPokemons]

So.. my girlfriend dumped me for another guy to save her dying mother?...

[Ayame837]

This is simple psychology :D

Dispositional vs situational attribution.

The more positive side is situational, which is good to think about

Way to go Davey

[Nicolasthehippy]

thats crazy i was talking about this with my brother today and i said the same thing ! its weird i found this today !

[ajaladin]

stupid gay boy

[jasonz777z]

@ajaladin

He is possibly more stupid than you are, but the compassion he shows is far more than you put into that comment.

Oh, and we all know he is gay.

[ajaladin]

@jasonz777z lol

[Vancouver012582]

why do you always have your shirt off? your hot...,but why?

[littlebit19801]

@Vancouver012582 You answered your own question, b/c he's HOT!

[hbk2221]

It's impossible to never get pissed. It's just human nature.

If someone says or does something that annoys, irritate, irks you, or you're heart is starting to pump and start to feel hot and a lil sweaty, those are signs inside you that you getting pissed.

Also if you're Mentally disturbed or if you feel butthurt.

[Randja066]

Did he just call us his butt buddies?

[brandtnw16]

@Randja066 i know id be his butt budy hehe i love you davey wavey happy belated 28 bday

[Staciaab00]

i love you .

[SueMoseley]

Two years ago my husband was lying by the side of the road with his leg completely broken in two. He had a paramedic by his side and 2 ambulances in the road. A young boy racer type drove past at speed through a puddle, showering him with dirty water. A serious infection set in and he almost lost his life. Sometimes you just have to accept that there are complete jerks out there.

[halomanic21]

I get pissed when I play games... but i CANT STOP!

[fedea82]

Davey, what can I do when I´m facing a jerk that is actually behaving like a jerk, and that there´s no doubt about it? Maybe a guy hitting a girl on a street, for example, or someone insulting me just for the sake of it?

[realgaylog]

I think thats an amazing way to keep calm. I will definetly try it, and get back to you about it. :)

[smivy7799]

ur gay ... :( but ur AWSOME!

[SuperAlexrios]

who is gay?

[wyattboggess]

@SuperAlexrios Me ;D



[rspkk0]

i like to get pissed

[IKVE0]

you could do a commercials.. :D

[Xloi63]

I have just recently restarted watching your videos Davey, and I really think you should have longer hair. Not too long mind you, but just a TEENSEY WEENSEY bit longer

just sayin

[hsells67]

..and if the same person does something 3 times that's rude, they're just an asshole. :D

[zapryan99]

Yur Gay :[)

[SoBeIt1454]

@zapryan99 yes he is... do you have a problem with that?

[GraemeHull]

Oh dear me, I wish I am able to try that. I get like that almost every day at work.

[Kronoan]

What if there's no way that there's an alternate story ... like the person deliberately insults you or something? Some people are jerks & it's not too hard to know when someone's done something to you on purpose Dave.

[CrashRyseRio]

Rushing to the hospital??? Or maybe he's just a dick???

[bbbbmer]

Yes, this approach is saintly, but unfortunately I was not born a saint... Ah well...

[bebe4choco]

this concept is fundamental in Islam religion, where u ought to give someone's else 70+ excuse for their unexpected behaviour n control your anger ..

i do respect you man :D

[warpedapple]

Hey its the anal douche guy lol

[Guyvere]

Giving people the benefit of the doubt is always a great philosophy.

[perpexel]

i really wish i had you optimism :(

[yidox4]

I washed my hands after watching this video

[ImGuruS]

why u always been naked on your vids? 

[JeZebeL2600]

@alixamett

Because he's too sexy for his shirt ;P

[DurwardMatt]

GODDAMNIT WHO THE FUCK WOULD DISLIKE THIS VIDEO?!?! I'M SO FUCKING ANGRY AT THOSE MOTHERFUCKERS TO DISLIKED THIS SHIT VIDEO THEY SHOULD BURN IN HELL OMG I'M SO FUCKING PISSED OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!!!!

[Zoran304]

@DurwardMatt Think of the alternate story: maybe they were attempting to click "like" but were pushed by someone as they were about to do so and clicked "dislike".

Just saying :)

[Incline1978]

What if there is no alternate story? What if the guy was very obviously being a jerk?

I'm just curious how you deny what you saw = the driver saw a puddle, an unsuspecting target and a very entertaining opportunity. But I'm sure his wife was right next to him, screaming for him to go faster and trying to remember what she'd learned in lamaze class.

[Trinitrotoluo]

This guy is a reciever!

[torshabrittmine]

sweetie pie.

[OnThe246]

Oh my gosh! This is exactly how I handle those situations... If I'm driving and someone speeds up behind me, I get out of the way. I assume its an emergency. You never know. I always create alternate stories. Great topic!

[sunshinesam26]

You are totally adorable!!!! -3

[babyguurlxoxo]

wow...you're beautiful...and you make the rest of us the same! thank you so much for making blogs, do no stop ♥

[TheVentusVanitas]

are you buddhist? or do you follow the buddhas teachings? cause i am (im gay too...just sayin) and it seems like you are too. you have the same compassion and the same attitude and the same perspective as most buddhists do....also i saw your vid when you said you painted all the pictures in ur house and there was a buddha meditating pic above your toilet x]

[Reborn1561]

Shut the fuck up fag, i clicked on this because there whas a title call how to never get pissed off again, But you just fucked up my whole day, Focking assfucker

[IvySweetVenom]

@Reborn1561 meanie 

[Reborn1561]

@IvySweetVenom lol, Why you making me come back to this video, This guy just pisses me off, The fact that he is gay i don't care but putting his shit ass on youtube and not putting in his title only for gay guys pisses me off, The thing he just said in his video makes no sense at all, Look how many gay guys voted my comment down, Its hillarious

[steveatl40]

Awesome. Amazing how gay folks are so spiritually aware.

[JMCx123]

you're such a dork, but in a good way :)

I LOVE the way you look at the world!

[SilverShadowization]

I've used this technique before I even watched this video. But I have to say, it has HELPED a lot. But only for the small stuff. For big things like--ex. someone dumping me after 2 years--It doesn't really help. I sometimes believe that anger is helpful if controlled correctly and not wasted in for too long of a time. I'm probably one of the only people who meditates constantly, follows Tao, and finds this to be true.

[xIsmenex]

here in belgium it rains alot,

and I always have to go to class by bike so you could think that sucks..

but I find that it really helps when u sing when biking

and so I never get pissed off :D

xoxo

[Smilleyy79]

what if someone violates ur butthole?

[xXxilikepianoXD]

@Smilleyy79 You Enjoy It XD

[TheTrueScottyAura]

i should try that !!

[Smilleyy79]

what if some one clubs you in the head with a crow bar?

[TheTrueScottyAura]

@Smilleyy79 Mybe he was the guy that got splashed by a car driven by doctor getting the hospital whom he mistook for a jerk

[DarthOreoz]

Compassion is overated

[CutThroatCuntFucker]

Thank you SOO much, this is a really great way to calm my anger.. Thank you :)

[vanhornerichard]

It's true, sometimes you have to be empathic and put yourself in the other person's shoes and see things how they see it, or else you'll never truly understand. Very insightful! Keep up with the awesome vids =)

[GottaLoveLikeWoe]

if only i had watched this last week when the straight guy i had a crush on last year was throwing balls at me during gym just because im gay... :[ ruined my day... this would have helped! thanks davey ill try it out :D

[HAYU571018031]

i think he just made me gay

[devonjerome]

why did i click on thisssssssssssssssssssssssssss­sss

[JaceFalcon]

@devonjerome the shirtless guy?

[colorchalk]

I just needed someone to remind me to think twice before judge others. I had a stressful weekS, thanks for the video. Exactly what i needed, Davey.... thanks :)

[jonnydwarren]

I'm definitely going to TRY the technique but I'm not making any promises!

[EpicElement123]

When do we get to see your boyfriend??

[illusion4963]

@EpicElement123 The thing is, we don't.

[EpicElement123]

@illusion4963 yeah, but i really wish we could! It would be cool to see Davey Wavey's Other Half...

[NerdyDan]

... You know, in the UK you could say it was a homophobic attack, sue and get the guy sent to jail....

[Dontamnitsud]

I love this thought process. I discovered it early in High School. It helps with bullying and ignorant people too.

[c1nico]

Davey, I do this; make myself see every possibility. Usually, I fall more toward the reasonable explanations.

I commend you for not holding any contempt toward this said stranger. However, when attempting to see the good in people, you must use yourself to fulfill the reasoning. Meaning, would you, under any circumstances do as such to another individual?

Probably not. Thus this person is probably a jerk. They could've at least imparted a warning. Like honking.

Sure I'd get over it, but still...

[Akrilles]

You're so nic Davey :)

[Norcalsweetheart]

Love it!

[sanchioblack]

That was me...I Just felt like being a jerk.

[mcrblackmasquerade]

i already do this... too bad you cant apply it to fouls in personal relationships.

[kennpatrick797]

Hahaha

When I encounter crazy drivers, I usually assume that he/she needs to take a shit because I know I drive like a maniac when I am in that situation. So instead of getting pissed off, I feel their dilemma.

[Ang3l4life93x]

everything happens for a reason, this it seems to me was that it prompted you to create this video to change the perspectives of MANY MANY people including me

thank you davey <3 :)

[Shrtcat]

@Ang3l4life93x If everything happens for a reason, then why do you look when you cross the street?

[Ang3l4life93x]

@Shrtcat because we've been told to all our lives, its just pretty much instinctive now? pretty obvious answer lol

[jakisemo]

how come your boyfriend hates the camera so much?? I think I am not alone when I say I want to see him :D

[outsiderofcal]

I can't see your nipples. Thumbs DOWN!

[oxforddictonary]

i'm eating ginger-cookies right now. they're yummy. hence, i'm not about to get pissed off any time soon :-) xox

[qtgonewild]

always good.

[mebarak06]

I Like It..! Very Nice!

[SniperOnTheDot]

Right, so what happens when the person causing you to get pissed off is a jerk and did so and so on purpose ?

[MusicLovin123]

greatt vid

[dakshajackson]

his boyfriend is a WOMAN!!!!!!!!

[burtmurdoch]

thank you for this video. i love you dave. <3

[nanu1980]

I have question for you Davey: does loving s.o. (or not loving s.o.) equal judging that person (as worthy or unworthy [of my love])?

[JustinJPCF]

@nanu1980 I dont know how ur applying the word 'love' here but i think that if ur feeling negative to any person, you are doing that to some degree. But Love has no degrees. Your either loving or not loving in the moment. And Love is shown in different ways, even if its a respecting a persons right to be who they be.

[brentboy81]

This helped me - thanks davey

[wx1gdave]

I's difficult to have anything but contempt for the inconsiderate or the careless, but, I'll try the Alternate Story technique after my next such encounter. Thanks for sharing!

[dweek123]

That background music sounds like it belongs in a horror movie

I prefer just to assume that someone is an asshole and remind myself not to be one as well.

[tomersh1]

i agree with u...i prefer to always give people the benefit of a doubt, and if it's a situation where i'm in contact with that person i prefer to hear him out first.....then i can make up my mind ....at least i try to do that all the time ....sometimes i'm not 100% successful :P ..

[gcanary]

I agree David. In my day this was called "Taking the high road". I have taken the high road for the last 5 years and it's great because so few people use it. Most, if not all, of the angry people take the "low road" which is why it's so crowded and full of hate.

[mgl87]

i do try this method as much as i can usually but mostly it fails lol

[Alex7STV]

I agree with you Davey. I've been applying this technique for over 20 years. When a stranger does something that might normally make me want to get mad at them, not knowing their situation is the best way to help keep myself in check. Why always assume that people's only intention is to piss me off. I know I've done stupid things (on rare occasions) that I didn't mean to do, and couldn't apologize for it (would be weird to follow a driver to their destination just to apologize).

[tiburon0406]

Many of my friends are against the mosque near Ground Zero. We should allow it in order to promote tolerance. I also propose that two gay nightclubs be opened next door to the mosque to promote tolerance in the mosque. We could call them "The Turban Cowboy" and "U Mecca Me Hot".

[baltashchit]

i love ur videos, but i cannot agree with you on this subject. anger, just as love, is ahuman emotion that should be expressed whenever felt. it is the diversity of feeling that make us all different. i wouldn't want everyone to be always loving. life is multidimensional. i am all about peace and love, but when one gets angry i think it should be externalised and not repressed. :)

[whambamram]

If you had been in tighty whities it would have been the start of a very interesting and fun contest.

[LoveForAAR]

This is called the fundamental attribution error... instead of attributing behavior to situational factors, we tend to attribute it to character traits. By taking situation into account, I think it makes us judge less, which in general makes us more positive and less angry [at least for me].

[RRasTT]

thank you for this video! you made me think about this, and yeah, you're right..

[random29]

I love your videos. You are incredibly insightful! I wish I could take a journey through your mind and soak up your ideas. How are you so enlightened? Reading? Meditation? Do tell any good books you've read or things to that effect.

MUCH LOVE!

[b28e]

all right.

but. i really don't find this applicable much else. say someone very close to you gets cancer. is there an alternate story you can imagine for that? i would find it very reasonable to be pissed off at the universe at that point.

your title isn't accurate, in my opinion.

[Alex7STV]

@b28e I think Davey was talking about activity/encounters involving other people (strangers), not something you just described.

[josephjuvenile]

you're like a hippy lol

[joyariffic]

lol he snuck into the bathroom, took his shirt off and took out his camera at his boyfriend's family house to do this? how awesome of you

[Diamondchild26233]

WHERE ARE YOUR NIPPLES?????

I'm going to concider this advice the next time something may happen :)

[TheMikeHxcful]

Another way to do this is smoke weed.

[whbjoe]

I just dont get why Americans hate canadians, makes no sense, you sir are a gorgeous and genuine human being :)

[tCson]

Interesting

[chorgaparada]

ohhh please STOP trying to be mother teresa all the time... it's getting boring!!!! i prefer you random funny blogs..

[haydavisito]

i pressed the unlike button by mistake! SORRY!

[LadyLyss76]

Davey, thank you for being such an inspiration. Your advice truly reaches out and gives hope to a better way of life.

[papatoony]

You're giving too much credit to humans beings. Humans are self-serving, self-obsessed, self-centered assholes.

[g950p]

Getting (briefly) pissed-off and blowing off some steam also can have soul-healing effects. At least for me, and i think for many other people. Also, it can be done wayyyy faster than having to stop and create some dubious alternative story :)!

[TheRowerm]

This is very good. Thanks.

[bearhedded]

I dunno..... creating excuses for people who act like jerks doesn't keep them from acting like jerks.

You may not be upset, ( agreed, a good thing) but you're still soaked!

[NerdDancerFunnyman]

SHOW US YOUR TITS!

[yeffwy]

When do we get to meet your boyfriend? I think we all want to know the man we envy. lol luv you Davey! ;D

[benno6664]

i was getting annoyed at friends this week because they wern't replying or being very talkative ,andi went to thenegative side of oh maybe they dont want to tlkto me or maybe ive done something wrong , but wheni asked them it turns out they had their own issues and it had nothing to do with me.. makes me feel stupid and I should have thought about the other possibilities instead of going straight to the negative angry side..

[mcrisinglibra]

that story is really great. more and more people are starting to do what you just did and the world is becoming a better place to live.

[FANNYLEROUX]

Whats the backing music in this video? Very calm and relaxed with the odd little noise in it, very nice :)

[Bubblepoopda]

show us your boyfriend!!!!!

[theimaginator16]

omg i started bawling near the end!!! I think it was the combination of the beautiful and relaxing music, and your incredibly positive outlook on life that just made raw emotion burst forth from within me. Thank you for so much help Davey, you really are an inspiration to me!

[jukaufman]

this story is proof of how much of a nice guy davey is because i would be soooo pissed lmao!!!!!!

[standcm12]

so sexy....only reason i watch. on mute.

[soccerwannabee14]

What if a friend pisses you off?

[KreativeKingo]

I love your way of love, the way you're so caring, loving and all the rest of it.

You've inspired me to be more loving and caring and not get annoyed/pissed off over the slightest little things.

Thankyou :3

[matteo110901]

your my favorite davey wavey your always have the best outlook on life and alway looking for the best in people which is amazing

[znigao4]

yay ur in Canada!!!!! ftw

[meadow227]

you're genuinely refreshing compared to all the hateful sociopaths out there <3

[thomashbreed]

I also want to see Nick W. He's gorgeous! lol

[dafttool]

We all could be more compassionate & understanding, BUT be compassionate & understanding of this fact as well: sometimes getting pissed off is the justified & proper reaction to actions taken against you. Maybe not for something as frivolous as what you relayed, but for important matters such as some bigoted legislator who tries to take away your rights. Sometimes getting pissed off leads to a call for action. Obama would never have been elected had Bush & the GOP not pissed off so many people.

[Muco808]

its not healthy at all to supress your anger your anger is a part of you if you deny your anger you will snap like a twig sooner or later

[duhhhhish]

i would like to see your boyfriend

[NewCreation181]

Oh my goodness, Davey! Your video's subject, the "Alternate Story Technique" I think you said, right? It actually stems from something in social psychology. When bad things happen to us, we blame the situation (including blaming someone for speeding by and splashing us), but when something bad happens to someone else, we blame them. It is interesting that you bring this up, we just recently studied it in my social psychology class. Go you for making it more understandable!!!

[dylanwikifoo]

I love the DW logo =)

[Shadowp03]

or he needed condoms fast ;)

[Kaizen800]

I do that a lot lol

[feitocomfruta]

As long as it was JUST water in the puddle, I see no need to worry about getting splashed. Clothes dry.

[stuartvd1]

Awesome, It actually takes A LOT to get me pissed off, but it does happen once in a blue moon… This is a great way of simply changing your perspective! I LOVE IT! thanks Davey, XOXO -Stu <3

[stuartvd1]

hey handsome... hope all's fantastic in your corner of the world! (as for me, sad summer's pretty much over!) anyway, just wanted to say HI! XOXO -Stu

[theescrappy1]

haha i love u. unfortunately i dont get pissed off, mad, happy, happy, sad, or angry, part of this video is why <3

[wayneyeo12]

what if some one @ work is just trying to cause you trouble - would you use this same technique or would you just treat the the same way ????

[vladththth]

we would really want to see your boyfriend ;) pls? ^_^

[zenithian15]

I like that you're promoting a more empathetic approach, but anger, like every other emotion, needs an outlet for expression. I don't think it's a good idea to temper your anger with compassion every time something or someone makes you upset. In my opinion, anger should be channeled into activities that require you to challenge yourself physically and/or mentally without deliberately hurting others, such as doing an intense workout or writing a song or poem.

[MDkid1]

just think of it this way....it could be metaphorical ;) I find making things dirty now only makes me smile but gets me in the mood! BEND OVER!

[juanmora19910209]

Would you like to be my spiritual coach? I choose you as one of my mentors, thank you for emparting us with the knowledge & wisdom you have.

[coolsteven2]

I don't do the alternate story technique... I just don't get that mad that fast, i don't let it bother me that's all. I just rely on karma, which has never let me down before haha.

[VincentBrooke1]

@coolsteven2 So if I call you a name, then... I'll die?

[coolsteven2]

@VincentBrooke1 LMAO You obviously don't understand how karma works -_-.

[kevin6004]

GREAT words davey! thx for the advice! :)

[boardroom7]

haha i would go for *jerk* lol  you have a point though! :)

[CERAAAAAAAAAAAA]

nah hes a jerk

[FiveStarsPerShoulder]

Oh yea, well what if I stub my toe? Do I say maybe the table had an good reason for getting in the way of my foot?