I'd try to talk to them into not doing it into such a young age, but still give them the condom. They'd probably go and do it unprotected if they don't have a condom.
The first chick is really just so fricking opinionated that she ruins her argument. It is not overly difficult to train a child to not ask for a condom, and there are plenty of shows on tv that don't overtly promote sex at a young age. @bigben yes sexual desires at your and my age are normal but we are not yet mature enough to fulfill them without significant consequence.
I'm 14 and while I think it's normal for early teenage boys to have sexual desires, girls just generally aren't ready for it, wether try think they are or not. My little sister is 10 and if I found out that next year she was having sex, I'd beat the shit out of her and her boyfriend. I mean it's not normal, when your 11 you don't fully understand sex, virginity is one of those thing you can't get back, so save it for a real relationship.
Look im 11 puberty is coming n i do think about sex i cannot help it. But i know its wrong ppl hav asked me i denied but i wuld never ask my dad for a condom cuz he wuld kick my behind so friggin hard... wow!
i totally agree with the girl in the pink shirt! i am 11 and i have a boyfriend. i still think about sex and i understand at 11 most kids are going through puberty which brings on sexual tension between genders! also i think about sex alot and its just normal
children from the age of 11+ DO have strong Sexual feeling... i would know. all my friends and i do. im not embarrased but it is true that it is natural for a 11+ yr old to NATURALLY want sex.
I am 11 and I don't even think about it!! I mean yeah I know about it because they teach us in school, but 11? Really? And when I GROW UP and have kids and one asked me for a condom I'd sit them down and talk to them. Then I'd find out who they expected to "use" it with and go to them and their parents and talk to them about it too. And it is a lot of TV and stuff, I see it on all the time and it's all over the internet. My mom got mad once when my good friend (who's a boy) called at like 9:30!
I am 11 and I don't even think about it!! I mean I know about it because they teach us in school, but 11? Really? When I GROW UP and have kids and one asked me for a condom I would make them tell me why and I'd sit them down and stuff and still wouldn't give it to them! Then I'd find out who they actually expected to "use" it with and go talk to them and their parents. And yeah it is a lot of TV and stuff I see it on all the time and it's everywhere on the internet.
now wdf would an 11 yr old want with a condom?? We all blame tv for turning our kids this way but have u heard of parental controls? Entertainers are entertainers. They don't care who the hell watches them and picks up on their behavior. They make money doing what they do so their main concern will not be "oh i dont want 10 year olds to think that weed is kool." I never even thought of sex til i was 17.
Well... I'm 15 and never saw or talked about condoms besides the fact I saw one a long time ago. If I were to have kids I'd honestly sit down with them and talk about it and still not hand them the condom. If they were 16 maybe I would, but 11? Never.
sorry I'm terrible with names so I'm gonna just adress you as the color of your shirt lol ..so lady with the orange shirt at eleven scared to kiss a boy ok one from a million I was not sexally active at 11 but had thoughts about it not thoughts about having sex but thoughts of it period I have to agree with the guy where I deffinatelly wouldnt shun them I wanna trust them i'v been threw that situation where my doctor told my mom that I was sexally active my docter put me on birth control (con
Also, one of the issues in having children fear things is that sometimes it clouds the issues. I think a child shouldn't fear the world around them, and should be able to interact with their parents about the world they live. So IF a child is asking it is because it is a part of their world. The issue to me is about parents presenting to their children the proper context for all things. If the child understands the cultural context of their actions they don't need to fear things.
I would of course over the course of their life have real talk about pretty much everything with my kids. Some people beleive that certain topics are taboo until a certain age. Yet, with the media throwing things at kids at early age the best parenting would be to talk honestly with kids. If this understanding existed if my child approached me in that way I would interact with them on WHY they want such a thing. Hopefully through engaging them I can get them to understand the issues.
the girl n da pink is wrng,jus bkus u dnt giv the kid a condom it dnt mean they nt go hav sex,either way the kid cud go out and hav sex,and jus cuz u giv a kid sum condoms dnt mean u r influenci to go hav sex,if anythng ur jus sendin the message that if or wenever u hav sex be SAFE
raiine,,this topic cnt even b compared to gun fire,,,if a 11yr old ask 4 a condom honeslty i wud give it to them but b4 i do i wud talk 2 them,kids go to skool ,now-a-days kids b havin sex at skool,evrywher,"i'd rather b safe than sorry" if i had a son i'd rather giv him sum condoms den become a grandmother at a yung age
i'm with u kia..at 11 i wasn't thinking about sex. i was pretty sheltered in a pentecostal household so i didn't know much about anything..but i do agree that you need to be getting to the kids as early as possible with talking about sex. by the time i talked to my father i had already heard nonsense from my peers it would have been better to have a solid foundation from my parents..but sex was taboo in a christian household back then.
we need to be honest 100% about it with our kids. yes the consequences physically but also mentally emotionally and spiritually. we need to tell our babygirls that no 11 year old boy has the maturity to nurture you after some random sex act leaving you exposed and self concious. telling our babyboys that when you have sex you're expelling yourself spiritually and everytime you have sex you're weakening yourself and only a WIFE can truly cover you because she can give BACK what you've lost.
lastly...my brother on the panel stated that if you gave a gun to someone you don't necessarily expect them to use it...but to shut that all the way down from jump...would you give a gun to an 11 year old? NO because they're not prepared to handle the responsiblities that take place once it's fired.
i looooooooove this channel and thank you so much for making me aware of its existence!!
wow i am 11 and my friend also 11 had a baby, so yes you guys are right and uhhh him in going in grade 6 bout to b 12 i don't really think i want to have sex its nasty.
But i would never ask my mom for a comdoms because i know haveing sex is not right for a 11 year old - 14 year old because teen boys there age a to young to be able to take care of and child they may even get up and leave there baby behind casue he can handle it and i know a 11 year old cant take care of a baby and i know they wont give there baby up1!!!1
this topic has caused me 2subscribe. Im responding as a CHRSTIAN, nxt as a mother, nxt as a person born in da 70s. my sis says Im strict. GOD says 1 MAN for 1 WOMAN. if ur 11yrs pf age, ur neither-not of legal status 2 do anything. ur considered a DEPENDENT/WRITE OFF on ur parents' taxes. baby girl & baby boy r thinkn of da wrongs things. kids 2dy r not more intelliegent, they r jus exposed 2more. if we had all this bck n da dy, we wld seem 2 b more intelligent as well. ladies 2 to 1 on topic.
I had a similar situation my friends nephew asked me for a condom he was 13 or 14. I felt bad but i was like its better him be protected then to do somethin foolish on top of a bad choice. i could of preached to him as much as i wanted but at the end of the day he wasnt my nephew or son so i couldnt tell him what to do ...... i was a bad choice on my part i think. I just didnt want him to get a girl pregnat or some sorta STD. I think I made a good Choice.
i wouldnt scare my child i wouldnt say ur junk gonna fall off. however i would show the all the teenagers that got pregnant and all that and if they still asked i probly would. but idk i guess cuz i dnt have kids right now so i guess i would have to see
I don't agree with the brother, b/c 11 yrs old should b asking about, video games, food, homework.... not about a condom/
When I was a kid, asking or even thinking about sex was not an option. Even when I was old enough to have sex, the fear was still there, because of the way I was raised.
I used to blame my parents so much, but nw I'm so thankful, I'll make sure to raise my kids the same way.
Me too I'm 11. Y can't we have some fun.
vanspinks 2 days ago
@Campod3 im 11 too and im a boy!
Zombieslayer626 5 days ago
I'm 11 I don't have. Boyfriend but I do think about it and I want a boyfriend
campod3 1 week ago
I'd try to talk to them into not doing it into such a young age, but still give them the condom. They'd probably go and do it unprotected if they don't have a condom.
MasterPeanut94 1 month ago
smack her if she asks me for condom
masterlee123 3 months ago
The first chick is really just so fricking opinionated that she ruins her argument. It is not overly difficult to train a child to not ask for a condom, and there are plenty of shows on tv that don't overtly promote sex at a young age. @bigben yes sexual desires at your and my age are normal but we are not yet mature enough to fulfill them without significant consequence.
pwhittyful 5 months ago
I'm 14 and while I think it's normal for early teenage boys to have sexual desires, girls just generally aren't ready for it, wether try think they are or not. My little sister is 10 and if I found out that next year she was having sex, I'd beat the shit out of her and her boyfriend. I mean it's not normal, when your 11 you don't fully understand sex, virginity is one of those thing you can't get back, so save it for a real relationship.
BigBen9719 6 months ago
Look im 11 puberty is coming n i do think about sex i cannot help it. But i know its wrong ppl hav asked me i denied but i wuld never ask my dad for a condom cuz he wuld kick my behind so friggin hard... wow!
Fireblazer5 6 months ago
i totally agree with the girl in the pink shirt! i am 11 and i have a boyfriend. i still think about sex and i understand at 11 most kids are going through puberty which brings on sexual tension between genders! also i think about sex alot and its just normal
zebracutie1 7 months ago
children from the age of 11+ DO have strong Sexual feeling... i would know. all my friends and i do. im not embarrased but it is true that it is natural for a 11+ yr old to NATURALLY want sex.
SnookeySk8 8 months ago
Well I am 11 and I have a boyfriend
Most of my friends have boyfriends too
I think about sex EVERYONE my age does
I am in year six btw
TophAangSokkaKatara 9 months ago
L0L NAO 11 Y3@R 0LDZ R 1N IT. FTW
Mast3rC33F117 9 months ago
I am 11 and I don't even think about it!! I mean yeah I know about it because they teach us in school, but 11? Really? And when I GROW UP and have kids and one asked me for a condom I'd sit them down and talk to them. Then I'd find out who they expected to "use" it with and go to them and their parents and talk to them about it too. And it is a lot of TV and stuff, I see it on all the time and it's all over the internet. My mom got mad once when my good friend (who's a boy) called at like 9:30!
FMdog10 1 year ago 2
@FMdog10 lol get your head outta the gutter mofo sit back and dont be so trippin mofoin kids.
16945pie 1 year ago
@FMdog10
i a gree
mmull1 1 year ago
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@FMdog10
i agree
mmull1 1 year ago
I am 11 and I don't even think about it!! I mean I know about it because they teach us in school, but 11? Really? When I GROW UP and have kids and one asked me for a condom I would make them tell me why and I'd sit them down and stuff and still wouldn't give it to them! Then I'd find out who they actually expected to "use" it with and go talk to them and their parents. And yeah it is a lot of TV and stuff I see it on all the time and it's everywhere on the internet.
FMdog10 1 year ago
I'm 11 and I don't think sex wrong at that age as long as u know a bit ur never 2 yung so fuck u phisics, I do what I want
Austintanner11 1 year ago
i am 11 and me or my friends would never ask!!
sameblack11 1 year ago
im 11 and i wouldnt have a condom 2 give them!!
sameblack11 1 year ago
now wdf would an 11 yr old want with a condom?? We all blame tv for turning our kids this way but have u heard of parental controls? Entertainers are entertainers. They don't care who the hell watches them and picks up on their behavior. They make money doing what they do so their main concern will not be "oh i dont want 10 year olds to think that weed is kool." I never even thought of sex til i was 17.
sakeena17 1 year ago
@sakeena17 - EXACTLY!
NewKiTV 1 year ago
Well... I'm 15 and never saw or talked about condoms besides the fact I saw one a long time ago. If I were to have kids I'd honestly sit down with them and talk about it and still not hand them the condom. If they were 16 maybe I would, but 11? Never.
JSimonTV 1 year ago
@JSimonTV- and you my friend are a very wise 15 year old....
NewKiTV 1 year ago
Thanks.
JSimonTV 1 year ago
When I was 11 I didn't know anything about sex or cared to know. We didn't have cell phones, internet, or obscene tv.
shiro182 2 years ago
sorry I'm terrible with names so I'm gonna just adress you as the color of your shirt lol ..so lady with the orange shirt at eleven scared to kiss a boy ok one from a million I was not sexally active at 11 but had thoughts about it not thoughts about having sex but thoughts of it period I have to agree with the guy where I deffinatelly wouldnt shun them I wanna trust them i'v been threw that situation where my doctor told my mom that I was sexally active my docter put me on birth control (con
PhilliesBlaze1 2 years ago
Also, one of the issues in having children fear things is that sometimes it clouds the issues. I think a child shouldn't fear the world around them, and should be able to interact with their parents about the world they live. So IF a child is asking it is because it is a part of their world. The issue to me is about parents presenting to their children the proper context for all things. If the child understands the cultural context of their actions they don't need to fear things.
Ehav4Ever 2 years ago
I would of course over the course of their life have real talk about pretty much everything with my kids. Some people beleive that certain topics are taboo until a certain age. Yet, with the media throwing things at kids at early age the best parenting would be to talk honestly with kids. If this understanding existed if my child approached me in that way I would interact with them on WHY they want such a thing. Hopefully through engaging them I can get them to understand the issues.
Ehav4Ever 2 years ago
SHOWIN KIDS PICS OF STDS/PPL WIT STDS WUDNT SCARE THEM INTO NOT HAVIN SEX,who hasnt seen pics of stds b4??yet ppl r still havin sex requardless
imyselfme2009 2 years ago
the girl n da pink is wrng,jus bkus u dnt giv the kid a condom it dnt mean they nt go hav sex,either way the kid cud go out and hav sex,and jus cuz u giv a kid sum condoms dnt mean u r influenci to go hav sex,if anythng ur jus sendin the message that if or wenever u hav sex be SAFE
imyselfme2009 2 years ago
raiine,,this topic cnt even b compared to gun fire,,,if a 11yr old ask 4 a condom honeslty i wud give it to them but b4 i do i wud talk 2 them,kids go to skool ,now-a-days kids b havin sex at skool,evrywher,"i'd rather b safe than sorry" if i had a son i'd rather giv him sum condoms den become a grandmother at a yung age
imyselfme2009 2 years ago
i'm with u kia..at 11 i wasn't thinking about sex. i was pretty sheltered in a pentecostal household so i didn't know much about anything..but i do agree that you need to be getting to the kids as early as possible with talking about sex. by the time i talked to my father i had already heard nonsense from my peers it would have been better to have a solid foundation from my parents..but sex was taboo in a christian household back then.
raiiniie 2 years ago
we need to be honest 100% about it with our kids. yes the consequences physically but also mentally emotionally and spiritually. we need to tell our babygirls that no 11 year old boy has the maturity to nurture you after some random sex act leaving you exposed and self concious. telling our babyboys that when you have sex you're expelling yourself spiritually and everytime you have sex you're weakening yourself and only a WIFE can truly cover you because she can give BACK what you've lost.
raiiniie 2 years ago
lastly...my brother on the panel stated that if you gave a gun to someone you don't necessarily expect them to use it...but to shut that all the way down from jump...would you give a gun to an 11 year old? NO because they're not prepared to handle the responsiblities that take place once it's fired.
i looooooooove this channel and thank you so much for making me aware of its existence!!
raiiniie 2 years ago
lol ps. 11yr olds can kiss on lips just not go and u know what
cousinitt98 2 years ago
lol if u think haveing sex is nasty when ur
18 ur rather gay or u hate kids dude
how u think u were born?
also im 11 so
im plannen on getten married to my gf
cousinitt98 2 years ago
wow i am 11 and my friend also 11 had a baby, so yes you guys are right and uhhh him in going in grade 6 bout to b 12 i don't really think i want to have sex its nasty.
boonitae 2 years ago
??? I like boys ???
But i would never ask my mom for a comdoms because i know haveing sex is not right for a 11 year old - 14 year old because teen boys there age a to young to be able to take care of and child they may even get up and leave there baby behind casue he can handle it and i know a 11 year old cant take care of a baby and i know they wont give there baby up1!!!1
babeinlove123 2 years ago
subscribed.
ZeZedevil1 2 years ago
this topic has caused me 2subscribe. Im responding as a CHRSTIAN, nxt as a mother, nxt as a person born in da 70s. my sis says Im strict. GOD says 1 MAN for 1 WOMAN. if ur 11yrs pf age, ur neither-not of legal status 2 do anything. ur considered a DEPENDENT/WRITE OFF on ur parents' taxes. baby girl & baby boy r thinkn of da wrongs things. kids 2dy r not more intelliegent, they r jus exposed 2more. if we had all this bck n da dy, we wld seem 2 b more intelligent as well. ladies 2 to 1 on topic.
3minesak 2 years ago
I had a similar situation my friends nephew asked me for a condom he was 13 or 14. I felt bad but i was like its better him be protected then to do somethin foolish on top of a bad choice. i could of preached to him as much as i wanted but at the end of the day he wasnt my nephew or son so i couldnt tell him what to do ...... i was a bad choice on my part i think. I just didnt want him to get a girl pregnat or some sorta STD. I think I made a good Choice.
MISSARIEL44 2 years ago
i wouldnt scare my child i wouldnt say ur junk gonna fall off. however i would show the all the teenagers that got pregnant and all that and if they still asked i probly would. but idk i guess cuz i dnt have kids right now so i guess i would have to see
pixiepoodle1909 2 years ago
I don't agree with the brother, b/c 11 yrs old should b asking about, video games, food, homework.... not about a condom/
When I was a kid, asking or even thinking about sex was not an option. Even when I was old enough to have sex, the fear was still there, because of the way I was raised.
I used to blame my parents so much, but nw I'm so thankful, I'll make sure to raise my kids the same way.
lisalary 2 years ago 2