How Do You Get That Lonely- Blaine Larsen (Lyrics)

[taker1z]

Wasn't the album called "In My High School"?

[LoveDeath97]

Every suicide should be front page news!

[divaqueen237]

I am a 13 year old girl. I have almost no friends, everyone teases me, and the guy I love hates me. My cousin which I thought of as being my son was murdered by a man who walked free. My grandma died the day before my birthday and a few years before my grandpa died the day of my birthday. The only one I can talk to is my 14 year old cousin, and recently I moved half a country away from her. My life is hell. :'(

[tbspovonlife]

@divaqueen237 awww I'm sorry about everything! All I can say is think about how strong you are to pull through everything. If you're strong enough to pull through things now just imagine how strong you're going to be! xwx

[Louisa337]

@divaqueen237 Wow/: I'm 13 too. I'm soo sorry:( I believe that the worst things happen to the best people because in the end it betters the person, so they have reached their full potential. Keep going, I believe that you are strong enough. It'll be okay in the end, if it isn't, it's not the end. Believe. You'll make it<3

[divaqueen237]

@Louisa337 I'll try. :( Don't know if it will work but I'll try.

[Orton4everFan]

Lost a dear friend to suscide, its the hardest thing to deal with, that they had to end their own life. We found out about it late one night, and then the next day at school!!! RIP LEE REED!!!

[ritsuka151]

, my 17 year old sister smoke and does drugs and yells for no reson, myothe sister is getting a devors with a new born babby boy with hardly eny money, my oldest sister 32 year old has a boy friend that drinks and likes to tuch kids so i cant see he and she gave her kid to my grandmal, and my grandmal dont know but i told her about the oborshon, and my nethu 12 years old is mean to all the friends i had in the past so i cant ceep friends cus him, my life sucks!

[ritsuka151]

i started to cry and i am 13 so i still live with my parints,they cant drive so i stay in my room on my labtop all day, dont got friends...only sam wich i can see only at school but my mom forst me to do homeschool

[senorme1]

@ayb5423 Not everyones family will miss them when theyre gone

[pizzkayla]

I love this song.

[ayb5423]

I love this song, however I am totally aganist suicide, and think its pretty selfish/cowardly. I mean I've thought about it, so much that I had every moment of the 'act' decided. But I could never put my family though that. Nothing is so wrong in ur life that u need to 'punish' ur family for it, which when its all said and done is pretty much how it feels. A friend of mine's brother just killed himself yesterday in a cemetery, and all I can think is how this is gonna make affect his kids.

[Myklwykl]

@ayb5423 Do you really think anyone who commits suicide is in their right mind at the time? People get off from killing other people for temporary insanity, but not for killing themselves.



[countryqueen361]

This song breaks my heart when I hear it, It's amazing though

[ambermccreery]

rip Jonathan lee russell

[99rondared]

This song is basically telling the story of my friend. 4 years ago my oldest brothers best friend killed his self. He was my friend too, he treated me more like a little sister than my own brother did. I also liked him when he killed his self, it crushed me when I found out he was dead and what hurts the most is I lived next door to him and my dad heard his mom screaming so he went next door and when my dad came home he said my friend was dead. Him and my brother had plans to go to college and

[OneLastChance10]

Fuck the people that dislike this video, you have no heart! everyday i prey for those who died by suicide and every day i prey that my twin bro is safe in heaven, he died slicing his wrist and left a note only saying that he wished it hadnt had to end that way. god bless all of you and never attempt suicide, its not worth it when someone out there is waiting to save you.

[rileywoodworks]

i just lost my bestfriend/ brother to suicide on tuesday....i miss him dearly still in denial dont want it to be true miss hearin his voice around me :(

R.I.P. Zach Wilson 12/13/2011 sissy lovess youu dearly and always will

[melbrattlof]

Their is a life in heaven

[cottoncandymusic94]

my name is carol terry and i have so many feelings accompanied with this song i have been here and dealt with this battled it off only for it to come back again and then battled it off once more and so far it has had no return thank you god

this song brings me hope inspiration and a way of celebration as i didn't give in i fought although i came close to death i am okay now i know how it feels to wonder why me

thank you for listening

[cottoncandymusic94]

my boyfriend actually succeding in hanging himself he died in '09

i also went thru a time where i tried many of times to kill myself came close a few too many times but im stil her thank god

i always thought he loved life he was such and awesome sweet caring person he loved life i never suspected him to be the one who'd succedd or even attempt "it" he was so young he didnt leave a note not a single word to explain to anyone. R.I.P Willam E. Dotson. I'll see you again in heaven my love.

[ilessthnthreeu]

This song make me think about things so much! My brother attempted suicide back in January. He hung himself and was dead for five minutes, but thank god! they could resucitate him. And It wasnt the first time he tried. It was mainly bc my dads house. And he got out of their as fast as he could. I still live there. He had me come live with him for awhile bc he didnt want me stuck in that house, but i had to go back.. Im so glad i still have him. I dont know what id do without him. <3

[silvap4p]

this song has a very powerful message and what happened to blaine larsen? haven't heard from him in a while

[kennyt151]

i use to help ppl who attempted suicide recover and U should never take ur life away. ur gonna have problems where u would wanna die . but u have ppl who loves u and dont wanna lose u.  but giving up is never the answer .

[sabotagedson]

Kinda ironic I was thinkin bout suicide when I found this song still kinda am.. Heartache

[cottoncandymusic94]

@sabotagedson are you okay now i hope so i know the feeling very well im all to familuar with it

god i hope your alive still and i hope your feeling a little better

no matter what you think you are loved <3

[harleylynn95]

On the 20th of September I tried to commit suicide. I would have succeeded if I would have taken one more pill... This song makes me want to cry, because I have been there...

[kennyt151]

@harleylynn95 we all been there but u shouldnt take ur life away over something soo little. u have ppl who loves u and will miss u . just rememebr u r loved and noone wants u to die.

[melinaaaxbytchh]

My friend recently committed suicide and show'd no signs of being suicidal. This song describes all of my thoughts. i havent been able to sleep for the past couple of nights. I stay up wondering how did he get to the point where he thought no one could understand him and no one was there for him. He was loved by many and always will be.

[AmuandIkuto802]

I remember losing many friends to suicide. Now everyday I keep having the suicidal thoughts. I don't know who to my parents would be so disappointed. My friends would just yell at me and call me stupid. Sometime life is just so difficult. i don't know what to do anymore. I feel like giving in to the thoughts

[HoLyGamingVideos]

@AmuandIkuto802 I know how you feel, I feel the exact same way, but you need to hold on, everything will be okay in the end =/, you just have to be strong

[thall2015]

my friend commited suicide may 12 and i miss him like crazy. i think of him every day and sometimes i just want to cry my eyes out and this song reminds me of what i was thinking the night he died

[jjismyname98]

i love this song

[imnotokay2132]

My girlfriend's brother, my grandmother, my cousin's girlfriend..... All gone to suicide. My best friend attempted it. I've attempted. I never want to go there agian.

[MrsKatieninja]

its sad its a perminant silution to a tempirary proublem

[DeniseTheDreamer]

One of my uncles comitted suicide when she was 12 (I never met him) but, it's still sad, and everyone told her he shot himself with the gun on accident until she was in her 30s. I also attempted suicide a few times but, fortunately I failed. I've also had to talk a few of my close friends out of ending their lives, so I can relate to this song a lot.

[Oreo188ify]

My dad killed himself when I was 8 and Im 12 now and its still really sad ): I miss him so much this song makes me cry.

[chevy6645]

@h4nn4h43500 u wont understand but he went to prom with me he went to my graduation when he shouldnt have my family should have but i had him there but im losin everyone in my family by deaths but thats a part of life ='(

[chevy6645]

@h4nn4h43500 ya i no but ill always have him in my heart but he wont no til wats gone in the world cuz soon ill be gone

[stupiddumb1992]

My best friend/ roommate just killed himself this morning. We both lost a mutal friend who was like a brother to both of us and he didn't handle losing him very well. Now i have lost both of them. I thought i was helping him through it i guess i failed :( R.I.P. Drew (6/12/1989-8/9/2011)

[chevy6645]

@stupiddumb1992 im sry to hear that i lost my best friend by a drunk driver who was drinkin himself away cuz the drunk driver was tryin to kill himself but he lived and killed my best friend ='(

[chevy6645]

@stupiddumb1992 but ill pray 4 u and the one u lost may i wish him/her happines in heaven and if u need someone to talk to im here

[DeniseTheDreamer]

@stupiddumb1992 *hugs* I'm so sorry you had to go through losing 2 people that close to you so fast.

[SinCchic]

@stupiddumb1992 I lost my friend to suicide. I loved him dearly and hated myself when he left. I thought maybe I wasn't there for him enough, didn't say the right things, didn't save him like he needed me. And I still think those things, but know that you can only do so much. You can't blame yourself for this. It's a sad sad sad thing when someone takes their own life. I'm sure you were an amazing friend..some things just can't be stopped..no matter how terrible they are<3

[chevy6645]

@h4nn4h43500 i no how it feels i been with someone for 2 years and a half we lived together and shit jst completely turned on me and iv cried for a month cuz a month ago i was with him and it happen so fast and he really hurt me cuz he was my first and i wanted him to be my last so i been thinkin bout y live if i cant have any happinest

[musicvideomaker1996]

I know how he got that lonely. I was there. I posted about my depression and found that people I didn't know cared about me and didn't want me to end it all.

[EmoNinjaGirl15]

what's amazing is this guy was only 18 when he sang this yet his voice sounds so mature...anyone would think he was 30 just by his voice xD

[SuperHenderson7]

Listen, to aneyone that wants to kill there self or has thought of it! Remember that there are people that truely care about u! u just need to find thoes people, people that make u smile and feel good, make u forget about what is on ur mind! Try to spend as much time as u can seeing them or talking to them! it will make u feel better!!!!!!!!! god gave everyone a chance to live so take it and make the best out of it!!

[flyn292]

@SuperHenderson7 what if that on eperson doesnt want to spend time with you, what then?

[YouNeedALife101]

I overdosed listening to this song, but I survived. Thanks for the song!

[incarnationofsorrow]

There are no words to describe the pain in response to the questions posed by the quorus. I've been there many times, made one legitimate attempt, backed out of a couple others. Sometimes I just wanted someone to rescue me, so I reached out to everyone I knew only to be turned away. They were all too busy to save my life. I still don't know how I survived this long.

[IrennPotterMonster]

@incarnationofsorrow Most of the people wanna understand but they just keep their eyes totally blind :'( I've felt that, its like no one cares about anyone else. I'm just 14 and I've thought about killing myself so many times..

[IIIPackyIII]

@IrennPotterMonster

I know your pain. I'm 22, a 4.0 student, and I hate myself.

[mybeaver100]

@IIIPackyIII .you made me have goose bumps all over.....i too feel this way..am i did try to kill it made my heart older then 20 years my real age ,,hon now i cant walk i used to be in exercise and sports a lot now, stuck inside poorer then i ever been ,well now i,m lonely i look like a real monster . i got fat as i never been now i have many more reasons to die,and its weird but i don,t want to kill my self no more now i fighting to stay alive even if ly life sucks..what u want is live

[mybeaver100]

God i love this video ,and that voices what a talent ,, and tells about me i feel //and for many others 4 sure.. t,y Blane you're one off d best ..t.y.. 

[ShirlaIsASquirrel]

How do you get that lonely and nobody knows? ..Trust me.. it's possible</3

[XXbitesizeXXX]

This song makes me think twice about thinking about killing myself... this song is a truely beautiful song!

[rainydaygurl97]

This was played at my best friend's funeral...

[Amorabre]

This is song is...amazing. My best friend has had suicidal thoughts. She actually attempted, but thankfully I got there in time. This song has helped her through EVERYTHING. When we were younger, My Dad showed it to us. To this day, Its both of our favorite songs. Ill never forget it.

[MrGmt919]

@Amorabre Thank God she survived im happy for both of y'all but four years ago my best friend killed himself because of drugs and his girlfriend and on the second verse i always cry

[Amorabre]

@MrGmt919 Im so sorry, that you had to go through that and that your friend didnt survive, I cry on the second verse too even though my friend didnt succeed in suicide. But; thats why theres songs like this so we can relate to it and maybe it even helps us.

[hannamaeee]

My Boyfriend Committed Suicide 6 months ago today :( This song really makes me think so much about what was going through his head. Nothing to mee sticks out I guess its just something I'll never get to understand.

I miss him so much.

[perikatl]

I feel so depressed and hopeless and like nobody cares about me. I have constant thoughts of suicide. I'm not sure how much longer I can hold on.

[alishac88]

@perikatl the world is a beautiful place....got to look in the right places and turn to the right people... there are people that love you and need your love no matter who you are... keep holding on with head up... with prayer and love for yourself and God happiness is on the way... DONT GIVE UP.... God bless..

[1countreyfan]

I was so upset about my exboyfriend Franco breaking up with me that I was thinking about suicide. My best friend Raelyn helped me get through it by saying, "how do you think your parents will feel. What about me? All your friends will miss you" Thank you Raelyn. I hate you Franco

[ddaylea92]

Once, I was that lonely. Fortunately, I had someone amazing come into my life at the right time.

Never doubt your ability to change someone's life. The smallest acts of kindness can make the biggest difference.

A simple "I love you, how are you?" made me realize someone would miss me if I was gone. That my life would impact someone else's.

Looking at all the remembrances on this page, there were a lot of people who didn't know the impact they would have.

[jlawrence9798]

my 13 yr. old daughter commited suicide 5 months ago and I always ask how was she so lonely and how did i never know.

[namine436]

the day the love of my life for three years left me this is how i felt and still do Alex Maurice Barfield i love you =/

[Wacoswim]

lol this song is so shallow for a deep subject.... just saying.

[LordNecrid99]

Feeling depressed is the worst thing you can ever feel. i have wanted to kill my self cause i thought no one cared about me but instead i deceied that if they don't care thats there problem and I want to find at least one person who does and a few months later I met some new friends who helped me get out of my stage

[jhbff2]

I lost my friend to suicide. No one would ever think she would do such a thing. She was beautiful, smart, on the cheerleading team, and was an amazing singer. Unfortunately she was talking to a boy online that insulted her daily & threatened her. I guess she just couldn't handle it and over dosed. I wish I knew about the guy that was harassing her, but it's to late no one can go back in time. I love and miss you Anna -3

[mexiconenamarta]

my exboyfriend commited suicide... it hurts to know im the last girl he ever kissed, .it all seems so unreal. i just cant rap it around my head that ill never hold his hand again that ill never hear his laugh that i ill never see his smile... its just tooo depressing.

[X3xers]

i attempted to kill myself thursday night and i was going to do it but thanks to my dear friend and god i am still here today. i told no one because i felt nobody would understand, when your in that place your feel as if not a soul in the world could like somebody like you. now i look back and see that it was all a lie. one person that will always love you is jesus christ and he saved my life.

[ashweefbaby10]

i lost a cousin to suicide on friday and i don't think i'll ever understand why. i wish he would have said something or gave some type of sign because he was too loved for someone to not try to save him.

[bowlbybowl2]

i always sing this song and hope my buddy blake is listing...........1991-2006 rip we all miss you bud...

[gayflower1]

... PLEASE message this girl. She is my friend. HELP ME PLEASE. her user is "Wild2dreamer" she feels like no one loves her. She is planning suicide. I can't live my life without her. I love her. But she wont listen to me. PLEASE MESSAGE HER. just let her know you care........

[KayleeBugify]

Rapping the repeat button. This song gives me the chills every time I listen to it. i've been this low. Thankfuly I pulled through my overdose. I know i have people who care about me now. and i thank god for them.

[morphine30roxy]

Pray to God. And smoke that fine herb he put on this earth for us.. It helps depression and mood swings. And it's not addictive like drugs. Weed isn't a drug. It's a plant. Drugs got house cleaning shit and battery acid in em.. Trust me, it will change your suicidel thoughts to happy thoughts.. Ahhhhh

[katiebug709]

@morphine30roxy ya that sounds good if i could only find some of that plant and try it it might help me with whats going on cause right now i dont know what to do with my life 

[BattyAffie]

I came pretty close to being that lonely myself a couple years ago. Thankfully someone saw through my fake smiles and "I'm alright"s, and pulled me through it. I had never met her before, and all my "real" friends believed me when I said nothing was wrong. But a complete stranger, now my best friend, looked me in the eye and told me to stop lying to her. She saved my life that day.

[Ejmii1]

.. my best friend attempted suicide yesterday, fortunetly failed. thanks for the video.. accompanied my unrestlessness throughout the night..

[theomc09]

@Ejmii1 I know how it feels...that's why I made this.

[Ejmii1]

@theomc09 yeah .. i thank u for that. didnt see the comment earlier. shes well now, attended by somone professional. though she had tried it again two days after i commented here. god bless her.

[miloismyedward]

@Ejmii1 I'm sorry, that happened to me too.

[prabourn]

I wish I didn't know...

[7777Dylan7777]

@prabourn i know exactly what you mean D: i wish i could delete memories, but nobody understands how i feel and stuff