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  • Well said KT. I know you work so hard for pole. You are a fantastic advocate for the sport. I know it is really difficult - you feel like you are having to constantly fight and prove what you do is valid. You are a particularly awesome example of an athlete - it's quite incredible that you personally are still fighting misconceptions....Best...X

  • i agree.

  • i do pole dancing and i love it! its awesome exercise and it has built up my strength big time! I deffenetly understand the way that pole dancers are viewed! I did pole dancing in high school and forever was being called bad names just because it was one of my hobbies. so to all them ladies who want to do it, dont pay attention to all them bias people and just do what you love coz in the end thats all that matters..

    Times change.. get over it!!!!!!!!

  • WELL said KT!!

    I totally agree, I too am getting tired of being judged on my graceful and beautiful sport. Especially when friends or anyone comes to my house and see's my pole - the first thing they usually said is "you got a stripper pole in you lounge!".

    ITS NOT A STRIPPER POLE! I don't strip! I exercise and perform gymnastic on a vertical pole - that simple.

    Thank you for posting this video KT. Hopefully you can sway some people negative and forever judgmental minds.

  • I've been amazed at your strength on the pole, and it was great to hear you speak as well. I'd add that the more dancey aspects can't be discounted either. When people say the sexy aspects are all about men they imply that beauty only exists in relationship to men. When actually our sexuality belongs to ourselves. Any feminism should begin with this basic concept. I'm a part-time pole fitness instructor and I see the confidence it gives all sorts of women!

  • Hey KT! I just wanna say I am blown away by what u said. I started pole dancing recently and I found it difficult to tell family and some of my friends about it because I know they were gonna think that pole dancing is for "strippers". After watching this though I can hold my head up high and tell people that I pole dance and not give a damn if they raise their eyebrow! I take my hat off to you, I think u r such an inspiration to everi1 out there! Good on u girl! Lisa xx

  • inspiring :)

    besides my mum, my family all look down on me doing pole..

    it doesnt get to me asmuch anymore, but i wish they could watch this :)

    x

  • Well said... I've been dancing for years but I've only been pole dancing for about 3 months now and love it.. totally hooked, my upper body strength has come on so much and my teacher is only young but she is amazing. It's not slutty like people think, it's a true art form.

  • Ok. Hands down you are my new hero. I know exactly how you feel though I have not been pole dancing for long, only a year. I want to do more gymnastic things as well but I lack the strength right now. I feel your pain. I see pole dancing as an art form and I got so much crap for fighting for it. I have been trying to get word out for your petition as well. I just wish people would be open minded and see our views...

  • well said KT! I've not had any negativity yet, the raised eyebrows amuse rather than annoy me and I tell people how fantastic and demanding poling is as an exercise, whether performed gymnastically or with a sexy wiggle. It's a way to get fit and to express yourself all at once. Pole and be proud :o)

  • I used to always associate pole dancing with stripping... until I saw one of your videos 10 minutes ago. I do think that is the common misconception though.

    You are an amazingly strong woman, I can't begin to imagine the physical power needed to preform the way you do. I was very, very impressed. I'd love to get into shape and try this, you flow so well...

  • i am 16 and a boy, and i love pole dancing. i agrue with people all the time about this matter. i am currently writing a report for schoo on my future job goals and i have chosen pole dancing. the school is trying to stop me and has considered my topic immature and a joke. i have only been dancing since june and am doing so without intruction because i cant afford it at the momment. congrats and props. keep up the amazing works you are inspiring

  • Well said KT, I am taking pole dancing class, and i have nothing but the utmost respect for those who have mastered it, even those who do it in the club, it takes talent to be able to do those things on the pole. I get the same thing though for bellydance sometimes though, people will ask well isn't that like stripping?

  • pole dancing is great. ive only been dancing since august but i hope 2 be as good as you one day! i just bought my own x-pole and it arrived yesterday. got to wait until the extension arrives so its in bits on my floor!

  • I agree and think it is an artform and a fab way to stay fit. Im going to join a club and take classes myself and would love to be an instructer like yourself. I would also like to be able to have my own pole and exercise at home but I rent and I'm afraid I may damage the ceiling lol. Don't worry about negative views it's just ignorance.

  • You go girl! I'm only just beginning to look into poledancing, but there are no fitness clubs where I am to give it a go. I am a dancer and know that it doesn't matter if it's on a stage, a mat, or a pole, dance is dance. Thank you for posting this and keep up the positive attitude. =)

  • you're absolutely amazing. <3

  • Honey, you don't have to explain..pole dancing is an art and people are starting to talk about it how great it is to do to keep in shape. Pole dancing started in clubs or burlesque, but now it is a sport..it has gone beyond strip clubs into something more. It has become the "endurance" art of pole dancing..that's what it means...a challenging fun sport. This sport is no different than an athlete spinning around on a rope during a performance or at a circus. Same thing except on a pole.

  • hi kt am a hundred percent behind u in everything u said there i've been dancing 8mths now in newry + lve it i would like 2 say 2 any1 who has any thing bad 2 say about dis way off keeping fit just try 1 class then comment on it its not like da gym ders not 1 class da same +da crk grt just try it all da best kt

  • well said ur fab!i wish wish WISH i could poledance!!!!

  • From watching these videos on youtube, it's clear it's more a form of gymnastics than some seedy sex-club thing.

    People who perist in viewing it as dirty need to take a look in the mirror to see where the real dirt is...

  • Thank you KT for putting this message out there. you truly are an amazing woman.

  • I agree,sadly I think the negative views you discuss will always be to some extent present,just because of the way pole began. It's just a fact it started in the strip clubs,so it may always be associated with the adult industry.But it's totally evolved from that into a legitimate & beautiful dance form.Most women taking classes have never so much as stepped inside a strip club.We bring our parents to our performances (my dad films mine!) & we come from all vocations and walks of life.GO POLE!

  • I just want to say a special thank you to KT and to all the women who have inspired me to start pole dancing by posting their videos! My husband and I do pole dancing together and help each other out with all the moves. I am just sick to death of all the negative comments left by perverted men and jealous women. These ignorant ppl leaving such comments wouldn't last five minutes on the X-pole!

  • Too right pole dancing is extremely hard I am a beginner and after my first lesson I truly appreciated how unbeleivably hard it is. KT makes it look easy but thats because she is the most amazing woman and is at the top of her game, she is my idol and I want to eventually train to be a pole dance teacher !

  • Very well said. I just wish my parents would see things the way you do. I wish America could be like those other countries who have accepted it as a sport.

  • o heck ya girlfriend i'm totally behind you on that. america thinks everything as dirty and it bothers me. lol :)

  • I totally agree with you KT pole dancing is not at all to do with bowing down to men its about fitness, gracefulness, sensualness and really isnt a dirty thing to do at all Pole dancing is beautiful! xx

  • I REALLY want to learn!!! How do I find an instructor? It is an amazing ART!!!!

  • I agree! Amen to that KT!

  • beautiful job sweetie, its about time someone spoke up

  • Those people who criticise pole dancing are doing nothing but sitting on the couch and picking thier bloody noses.Period.

    Yours truly

    Philosopher Mac

  • KTCoats you are a legend.

  • you go girl, i totally and utterly agree with you in everything you said.

    xx

  • Part 2 - KT - Poledancing is about empowerment, its about strengthening our femninity not suppressing it ... Femanists who critcise poledancing cannot have experienced the power of the goddess within themselves .... Poledancing is a way of expressing that. How can you dislike something unless you have experienced it?. Good luck KT keep up the good work xx

  • ya i totally agree with you on that! :)

  • Part 1 - "The best advice I can give women is to Go Goddess! Goddess spirituality, sensuality. Male dominance and oppresson has had a detrimental effect on women. The resurgence of the Divine Feminine is the best thing to happen for women in ages. Going Goddess is the best thing you'll ever do for yourself. I believe every women needs to embrace Her Goddess Nature. Real men, the men of men, have no need to dominate or oppress a woman. The men of men love a Goddess Woman!" - Mother Wintermoon -

  • well said. Those who don't pole dance have no idea how hard it is to do so.

  • Well said! I've wanted to pole dance since I was 14 and I still do it today and i enjoy it very much! It is just a beautiful as ballet!

  • Where did pole danceing originate?

  • see the vertical dance site there is a history on the home page

  • in a society where female sexuality is constructed by male sexist values pole dancing will be judged ! I have been pole dancing for around six months now, it has done wonders for my confidence,it is positive and builds strength in all aspects for positive female expression

  • you are a wonderful dancer. And more than that you show that you aren't just a dancer. You have a wonderful personality that shines through like crazy! Tisk tisk on ANYONE who could believe that dancers are one dimensional people. And congratulations on finding a way to make money that incorporates your passion. That's more than 75% of people can say about their lives. Dance your heart out!

  • I totally agree with you! It's a form of art and bloody difficault too! I've DJ'd at quite a few clubs and its nice to see you talking out for yourself and the girls! Well done!

  • I agree! I think pole dancing is definitely distinct from pornography (not that I think there's anything wrong with either). I was raised in a religiously fundamentalist setting and I used to think both erotic dancing and pornography were degrading. But something is only degrading if what it <i>depicts</i> is degrading, and I can no longer believe sex is inherently degrading. It's a natural part of what it is to be human.

  • And while any idiot can make pornography, it still takes skill to make <i>good</i> pornography. I cannot imagine pole dancing could be very easy, either. Anyone could dance with a pole, but a good pole dancer will make it <i>look</i> easy, so that the audience sees only the erotic aspect of it, the beauty of it, etc., but not the effort that went into it.

  • i think it's an expressive and artistic dance. Should definitely be accredited and regulated by some established governing bodies.

    Keep up the good work, u look great.

  • wow..you are a strong women!! I wanna try that some day! good job!!

  • Dont let people bring you down, you are an inspiration to women everywhere.

  • I completely agree. Some people don't understand how physically demanding pole dancing is, and just how much creative thought goes into it. I've done several "classical" forms of dance and none compare to the difficulty and grace required in pole dancing. It's not demeaning, it's almost a power trip. I just wish you could come to my town and teach some of the girls here. Keep it coming, i'm fascinated by your amazing abilities!

  • ok last part lol sorry lol. and yes i agree, the ppl that think negatively about pole dancing are definitely ignorant and should open their eyes. yes u could say i was ignorant cuz i used 2 think this was slutty but it's jus wat i heard. can't believe everythin u hear. but it's not slutty in any way whatsoever. besides, what does a pole have anything to do with sex? O.o

  • i'd like 2 add on lol this thing only let's u have 500 character thingies lol. pole dancing is very creative if u ask me. all the moves n stuff i'm like woa how do they do that lol. but ya it's very graceful and out there n expressive. i bet it feels like u're flying. that's probably why it's so popular

  • this definitely changed my views on pole dancin! i always grew up hearin that it was slutty so i always thought it was. but watchin videos of proper dancers such as urself, it made me realize, what's so dirty about it? what did they do 2 make it look dirty? all they're doing is basically advanced ballet. thx a lot KT! keep spreadin the word! =]]

  • I think what you do is awesome, and I'm going to be buying an X-POLE very soon. You ROCK and I so would love to be as talented as you. lots of love and support, PEACE!

  • hey there KT i think your form of pole dancing is great, its is physically challenging and iv seen this on the pole dancing vids in you tube, since iv seen your vids i want to take it up myself lol its cool and should be made an olympic sport YAY 4 POLEDANCING

  • Hi there mate,,

    I Believe you are just right on the money mate,,

    Some of the girls I have seen over the years have been just stripers using a pole,,

    But,, people don't see or know the about the hard work and dissapline that makes up a gymnastic rutine on one of these poles,, I firmly believe it should be an olympic sport,,

    as it is every bit as demanding as any of the floor, beem, or bar, gymnastics,,,,

    Anyway mate all the best to you and keep up the good fight,,

  • ive jst startd doing pole dancing and i luv it!! its great exercise and i sum ppl thnk its jst a slutty thng u do in strip clubs n bars, bt its nt

  • Why don't you just say that you want some respect instead of this?

  • did you listen to the video?

  • A group in america was performing pole dancing at a stand at a women's show, amongst other stands with people selling breast implants, vibrators etc- some women were having stuff eaten on them. the girls at the pole standing stand were wearing sportwear, tank tops and clothes, and some women complained about them saying they were degrading to women! eventually the organisers of the show asked them to leave, and now they're suing for descrimination. good on them i go!

  • I agree with you ...tho pole dancing is illegal in certain countries therefore many ladies who wish to pole dance just can't take classes!!

  • Here here KT... Let's hope the negative thinkers of the world think more positively after listening to your video!

  • I'm a man working in the domestic violence field and a women friend of mine is learning PD'ing. I first saw it done today, watching Rowena and others on these videos. I know from movement training that there is tremendous skill, balance and strength in this work. I appreciate KT, your committment to the work and speaking out about this art form. I feel the heart and soul of the work through the shallow mist of misquided perceptions and attitudes. Keep on dancing! Scott Renton, WA

  • Hello,

    so yeah..i've personally never done pole dancing, but ive been watching alot of it on youtube recently and i realllly like it! And your right, all those haterz should eat they're own shit.

    I think that when pole dancers dance with beauty and grace, its amazing! that shows the real side of pole dancing!

    glad you mentioned what you did, because i'm considering pole dancing now. :)

  • I hear you lady!

    I'm a level 3 Gym Instructor as well as having and Exercise to music certificate and teaching Pilates and pole dancing is by far the most difficult thing I've tried - but also most fun!

  • i know what it's like to not have your sport respected. but even though any sport/dance/art that takes talent, creativity, strength, perseverance, dedication, etc FULLY deserves to be respected. unfortunately there are so many people that judge without really knowing anything. all we can really do is tell ourselves that we see it differently, and those people don't have the capacity to be open-minded.

    the only thing you can change is how you react to things.

  • cool videos

  • well your from england right? where abouts =O mayb you do classes ayeee :P!? comment back =]?

  • Just keep going,some of use see the light some do not. Good info nice vid.

    From Cimex 01

    直 指 人 心

    T.C.A.A.H.S

  • you are soooooooo sexy.

  • Well arent you the blunt one, anythin worthwhile to say about the vid?

    Thought that was a good vid mate, i hate when people say poledancing is "dirty". To me its art, and a great way of keeping fit at the same time. =]

  • I hadn't thought of this before, but after watching one of your videos, I definitely have changed my mined. If anyone tocks negatively, I will definitely correct them.

    I am a man for the record, in case anyone cares.

  • preach on sista! pole dancer power to you!

  • I had my second pole dancing lesson today, and I can understand now why you must get so pissed off with all the negative comments!! Its soooooooooooooooo hard! To get the strength in my arms to lift myself, took the whole of the first lesson!!! It's bloody hard!

  • well KT u really have hit the nail on the head with ur comments on poledancing , If ppl really new how hard poledancing is then maybe US girls would get the recognition that we fully desearve . Ive only been poleing for 4 mths and i love it ... its a brilliant way to loose weight and tone up . So all you negative ppl out there reading this try a class b4 you pass judgement on those that pole . forum member p2p xx

  • Thankyou for posting this video KT... was fantastic! pole dancing IS beautiful, I'm so glad i decided to give it a go, it's given me so much already! and i really hope that the people who have made nasty comments towards polers watch this and realise that very wrong!!! xx

  • As a new pole dance instructor in the US, I have not encountered as many negative comments. But I think the warm reception I have received is due to you and instructors like you that have devoted their time and energy to making this a legitimate and reputable exercise program and art form. So please know that your work has had a huge impact around the world. You have made it easier for all of us to gain the respect and admiration that our dedication to this art form deserves. Thank you!

  • Well done for putting your views 'out there' (once more :)). Inspirational (as always).

  • Amen to that sister!!! Fantastic Vid KT, expressing what we all feel perfectly!! You Rock!

  • KT, I love what you are doing for this art form. Although my style of dancing is more sensual, I am totally about trying to show others that this is an extremely technical art form that has nothing to do with pleasing a man and everything to do with personal expression through movement. Lead on KT!

  • Yah KT!! You are SO fantastic! Thanks for dedicating so much time to pole dancing and leading the way! xoxoxo

  • I agree with you totally here KT. I also posted a comment on the newspaper website that you refer to in a round about way. And i would never bow down to a man either I am too strong a person to do so, I joined the army at the age of 16 so that i could prove i was as good as any man there, and i did that by winning best physical training award in a mixed troop, so why would i as a women lower myself if anything i have become a an even stronger woman for pole dancing!!!

  • What newspaper website are you talking about?

  • KT, you rock! We're all working with you to change people's views, but it's so much easier for people to judge than actually try a pole move. I'm so glad that I discovered pole dancing - and your website!!

  • Here! Here! I so admire all of your hard work for pole dancing. I would not know half of what I do if it were not for your website. You are a true inspiration! :)

  • We love you katie!!!! You are so right, you are a true artist! You deserve big respect!

  • Thanks jojo!

  • From Scott, Renton WA: Your talk is strong and I learned a lot. passing it to couple women friends of mine who r starting a pole dancing group. My friend Vanessa talks about how good she feels, for her it is the movement / the feeling - the positive sexuality.

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