Okay question they chasing, a woman stops the chase have sex, then he says we shouldn't have done this we were friends. What is saying in men language ?????
STOP CHASING WOMEN . IF ALL MEN STOP CHASING WOMEN IT WOULD CHANGE THE FACE OF THE DATING GAME . WHY DO YOU THINK WOMEN CAN CHARGE MEN FOR SEX AND GET MONEY OUT OF MEN OTHER WAYS . IT'S BECAUSE YOU MEN GIVE UP YOUR CONTROL . YOU TAKE CONTROL LET THEM CHASE YOU AND MAYBE THEY WILL PAY YOU FOR SEX OR GET MONEY OUT OF THEM . CHANGE THE GAME MEN . STOP BEING FOOLS . THAT'S WHY WOMEN ARE SOMEWHAT AHEAD OF YOU .
STOP CHASING WOMEN . IF ALL MEN STOP CHASING WOMEN IT WOULD CHANGE THE FACE OF THE DATING GAME . WHY DO YOU THINK WOMEN CAN CHARGE MEN FOR SEX AND GET MONEY OUT OF MEN OTHER WAYS . IT'S BECAUSE YOU MEN GIVE UP YOUR CONTROL . YOU TAKE CONTROL LET THEM CHASE YOU AND MAYBE THEY WILL PAY YOU FOR SEX OR GET MONEY OUT OF THEM . CHAGE THE GAME MEN . STOP BEING FOOLS . THAT'S WHY WOMEN ARE SOMEWHAT AHEAD OF YOU
She said she is going ice skating. I hope she doesn´t break through the ice and start a tidal wave that engulfs all the coasts of the world. OINK OINK. lol
dats shit u talkin bout shy men is a bunch of bullshit. im notsayin im shy but i have a friend who is and for u to say when it comes to having making descions it will be the the female is not true. the relationship is 50/50. most of the stuff u say is true but the rest is not. stop lookin at men like they are all the same because they are not.
Women like unavailable men, this video is not gonna help that. On another note, I agree, men and women fake it until they make it. Test them by not letting the relationship be perfect, fucked up people will show themselves. Haha, get what you want before sex? What if the lady just wanted sex?
Boy, Tanya you are so right about what you said. I have encountered so many men that promise you the world, but do not deliver. I think it is through a man's actions, regarding how he cares for you. Actions speak louder than words!!
Hm, if shy men shouldn't be able to mate, bitchy women shouldn't either. People can be brought out of shyness. This is a very narrow attitude you're putting forth.
Respond to this video... I USUALLY AGREE WITH HER BUT MEN SHOULD NOT CHASE A WOMAN THAT'S WHY THESE WOMEN ARE F-CKED UP NOW . NO WOMEN SHOULD CHASE THE MAN OR IT SHOULD BE MUTUAL CHASING . MEN SHOULD BE MEN AND STOP GIVING THESE WOMEN THE CONTROL . WQHEN MEN CHASE WOMEN YOU GIVE UP YOUR CONTROL
These are really great! They touch on alot of things I dealt with. It's so easy to get caught up in unrewarding situations, regardless of how savvy you are. Emotions and logic are very different!
Tonya it's not just the women gettin played. Women that play men act like they are victims and blame everything on everyone else. Trust me, this is coming from a man that used to be nice. I've been played and yes I play now with no worries, but I only play those that I believe deserve it. I am careful not to play nice girls, I just can't do that.
And yes nice guys finish last. When I turned that around is when I started to finish first. When I show my "niceness" is when I get played very hard.
i had a great Valentine's day this year. i spent it with good friends making dumplings for Chinese New Year. that is what it is all about spending time with cool people.
Yea i waz liztening 2 ya video today and im a man and ya videos is very powerful dat wuld be co if young ladies would listen 2 your advice cuz wat you are say iz true and i like that dudes play gurlz all the tyme but woman really dnt want a nice guy they go for the badd ones i dnt mean 2 be hat'n or any thang but dey do and chu iz rite men do chaze for wat they want but but every tyme i chaze i get a put dwn cuz of mi eyez their hazel so juz bout every gurl thing ima a playa but im not n
fuck that im lookin out 4 da men, i been played twice and im talkin big time, i dont care i would shatter a womens heart with out a doubt, its always dat bitch u turn men into a monster
lol tonya i already tried MULTIPLE girls not to get played i said to them WHAT THE GUY is gonna do and they are players !! cuz i know them but they never listen so i don't think they will now xD
at 23:00 yeah but buying things isent the same as trying to forme a lasting relationship, its hard for some of us were not made of stone(that would be nice lol)
The number 1 thing that kills relationships is ignoring warning signs early on that is the best advice anyone can get. The way you deliver your teaching just penetrates my brain.
Great advice I have never been in this situation were a guy never turned up for holidays + valentines day!. But I agree that if a giy does not spend holidays with you then he must be cheating on you. If a guy loved you he would spend time with you no one else if there was a problem he would ring you or tell you face to face that he can't make it because his mum or someone is in hospital, then you but flowers go to the hospital to wish the person well ans see if the guy was not lying.
Some ppl feel they do... who am I to judge what one woman wants/needs. Some women need that diamond ring... some just need that diamond. Some need love, and some just need lust. All I am saying is each woman knows what she needs to be comfortable enough to lay down... just get it b4 hand. If you need love, or respect or whatever, dont expect it to come after. be comfortable with whatever BEFORE you do is my only point.
Just be to clear....I want you to know that I was not protesting against your statement...I just found it a little funny that's all...because to some it would sound a little gold diggerish....but however I do agree with everything you said....why should sex be the first thing you give away when meeting someone?? By the way....I love your vids they are very helpful and encouraging... : )
Every women has their own needs. OMG I don't know what I need im too scared to even say yes to a guy if he asks me out now he is waiting for a reply and im not saying nothing yet. What the hell is wrong with me lol
Yur so smart, and beutiful. U r my role model. When i was very young my mother was abused by sooo many men and that has followed me through out my whole life. You have tought me that not all men are like that... Your amazing hun! I luvv yu
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tonya you totally seem like a woman who has been hurt by men... probably a male figure at a younger age. im not being malicious, i hope you get help for that. its not healthy go on living thinking that lowly of men. we make up half the population, why marginalise yourself from a large group based on a few bad situations you experienced?
Are you serious? Yes, if course she has been hurt but she is bringing that to the table in a very objective and gentle way. I know this as well. One of my guy friends once said it best: "Guys are jerks, but they don't know they are being jerks." It just happens. Yes, I can see that, as a man, her video may seem biased and slightly disturbing, but she doesn't need help. This is how it is. Sad but true.
i know the true answer jesus Is the true answer i am married lead by God. if you follow God you wouldnt be in these problems. becasue God wouldnt lead u to such a person
You said you had a lot to say in a short amout of time. 30 mins is not a short time. That's an episode. On average I see vids at 10 mins at longest but 30 mins is long for youtube vids.
Honey don't watch it. I make vids for people who WANT to watch it. If you feel you dont have the time to get the information within then, that's on you. But don't tell me that I have to somehow qualify my videos to fit into your desire.
If u need the information u'll listen to the video. Put the video on play while u clean your room. You do what you need to. I don't time them or edit them, I talk from the heart and what comes out comes out. Those who get it, get it, those who dont ask me to say what I need to say in a time or manner which is CONVENIENT to them...
I make videos for FREE on Youtube. If you want to watch it, do. But I KNOW my self worth and I know that I'm WORTH listening to for 30 minutes or 3 hours.
@feigned don't be too quick to judge what the 'majority' of women "know."
Many women out there NEEDED to hear this message, which is evident from the responses both on this video and in my email, both on youtube and on my website.
Wonderful words of WISDOM. Women LISTEN..... It doesn't matter who the words of wisdom are coming from. IT'S the truth. So the TRUTH shall open your EYES. Thanks TONYA. YOU are the greatest. Yoy are never to old to continue to learn.
Oh my brother you can in NO WAY make or tailor the emotions and chemicals of LOVE to LOGIC. It simply CANT BE DONE. The chemical released when one is falling in love is linked to insanity. That is why when you love someone nothing else matters. You dont even see the fault in them. Hell they shit dont even stank..lol If you can logically talk your way out of your love for someone then it was NOT LOVE . I love my child. I can never make my mind NOT love him. Point of video is to help women BEFORE
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I didn't need to "play" girls this Valentine's Day. The girls were fighting each other to holla at your boy. I don't mean to toot my own horn but, "Toot, toot!"
I "preach" this ALL the time. I am always on my friends about relationship issues. Being a student , I learned much from my teacher and I pass along my knowledge THANKS MAMA!! YOU ARE WONDERFUL!
Theres a way to do everything. And no one is saying you should be a push-over or a doormat. Think about it... the girl you were doing all of this for did she say "Don't tell me... Show me?" or was she saying no no no, and you decided to show show show. If someone is saying "NO!" you need to get the green light before you move ahead. Being too nice to someone who is not really interested will only make them LESS interested.
Remind me to do a video for guys about the tactic of hooking chicks
OH women like nascar and football too. Yes we are wire different..again love ya!!!! can wait for next post. next topic you need to teach our young black women (guys too). how to dress for a interview!!! OMG i have seen some crazyness.
a true player in the game can get away on holidays. but the side chick show know her place anyway. she knows she is the jumpoff. sometimes the number 2 was in it for sex then she catches feelings. ladies remember your place. if you number 1 and number 2 and 3 or 9 10. know your role. be save and god bless
you know i am right....love your page, to be honest love you and you beautiful thick body. and you cant mess up the game.....women know they are the jumpoff, side chick, side pussy, number 2, 3 ,4...99. oh and one thing...valentines day is a JOKE. Yes i am gonna say it....its a media, hallmark holiday made up to generate dollars. it has no religious link to christianity, valentine day not in the bible.. ........tonya :-*
No man should care about what Valentine's day means to HIM. What matters is how this day is seen to his woman. If there is anything that means a lot to your partner and you disregard it, the INITIAL problem begins with YOU.
I don't care WHO invented it or what its called. In Japan Feb 14th is the called "White Day" and its the opposite where chocolates and such are given to the guys. No man or woman should enter into a relationship or sex act, thinking about THEMSELVES First. If both people think about the OTHER person Then and only then can mutual pleasure TRULY begin.
As it is celebrated in this country, it IS a woman's holiday. HiRoll, I really don't care WHAT you do. Go ahead and find whatever woman u want to find who believes or doesnt believe in whatever, and you treat her any kind of way you CHOOSE to treat her. If you use the misjudgment of trying to become MY man, then your point of view on this matters to me, but other than that, I could give a rat's rump.
Christmas is a PAGAN holiday which had NOTHING to do with JESUS. Easter too. Open ur eyes
and remember ladies after you get all you need/want be ready for sex, i myself think valentines day is over rated and since i take good care of my women when that day comes they dont need nothing, so.......sex it is........lol
Doorag1986, How is it that she is bitter? How is she saying that men are evil? You are way off-- FAIL!
TonyTKO, Thanks sooo much for this video. There are many confused women who are being manipulated and don't know when they are being played. I'll pass this video along.
I feel that tactics, chasing, catching up etc, does not enter into it for the most part if the two people stick to some basics. Get to know the person first, then friendship, then dating if both are comfortable. Get IT before you have sex, is ok if IT is going to help the relationship. If IT is material or along that line, the person needs to know where you stand.
Tonya, What you s Iay is true & yes both men & women can and will get played. Yes I ignorred the warning signs. What happens is you make excuses. She is under stress; she has personal issues she has to cope with etc. Oh yeah not being there with me for the holidays when she used to. Ive been down that road too.
Happy Valentine's Day to you and Thank You for giving this advice. Ladies please listen to this Lady, because there are way to many players out there for you not to use your head. I loved the way you described the sex before you get want you want.
Hey girl. I'm a mom to two teen daughters. I talk to them (not lecture) on my own, but I sent them the link to your video to hear some great advice from another young woman. Keep it up. Great stuff.
Ms. Tonya, I have to say that you need to make a more comprehensive video on this subject. I love this video, it is very truthful and to the point but I would love to hear more from you on this subject, please. Thank you in advance.
Haha, Tonya...it happened again. Whenever I have a complex situation in my life, you come up with a video that offers me a solution or at least an extremely valuable new aspect to help me find a solution. This is crazy. Since I subscribed to your channel, this has happened well over 10 times where you said something in your video that gave me a very accurat solution. Thanks so much, Honey. =) Lots of hugs!
Well gohoya, keep going for your "Easier" women... Doesnt seem like the ones with more worth are missing out on much, since you're just looking for 'easy' stick with "easy."
Nice video, i found that interesting as a man myself. I think ur absolutly right about all of those. Every woman deserves to be happy and end up with someone with the right intestions that they want and not get played or lied to, unless they want to.
Scientifically speaking yes, shy men shouldnt get laid and get blue balls until they come out of there shell, but there is allways porn as an alternative unlike the good ol days.
I guess this further confirms my inabily to get laid, damn my corner!
lol just got done watching the whole video pretty interesting I'm 21 and a virgen and OMG it gets so hard for me sometimes with guys lol and i learn couple things from this video thanks you so much for posting much love to you ,, your gorgeous mamaz !!
Thanks Piink, I wish I could talk ON and ON about virginity and celibacy. It gets so hard out here with all of these warped points of views and skewed standards
What if he is "chronically unavailable" because he is in afghanistan?
thesarrow10 2 weeks ago in playlist Relationship Advice, Q&A & Words of Wisdom Videos
Okay question they chasing, a woman stops the chase have sex, then he says we shouldn't have done this we were friends. What is saying in men language ?????
BURNS2011able 3 weeks ago in playlist Relationship Advice, Q&A & Words of Wisdom Videos
STOP CHASING WOMEN . IF ALL MEN STOP CHASING WOMEN IT WOULD CHANGE THE FACE OF THE DATING GAME . WHY DO YOU THINK WOMEN CAN CHARGE MEN FOR SEX AND GET MONEY OUT OF MEN OTHER WAYS . IT'S BECAUSE YOU MEN GIVE UP YOUR CONTROL . YOU TAKE CONTROL LET THEM CHASE YOU AND MAYBE THEY WILL PAY YOU FOR SEX OR GET MONEY OUT OF THEM . CHANGE THE GAME MEN . STOP BEING FOOLS . THAT'S WHY WOMEN ARE SOMEWHAT AHEAD OF YOU .
MrBigbootychaser 5 months ago in playlist Relationship Advice, Q&A & Words of Wisdom Videos
STOP CHASING WOMEN . IF ALL MEN STOP CHASING WOMEN IT WOULD CHANGE THE FACE OF THE DATING GAME . WHY DO YOU THINK WOMEN CAN CHARGE MEN FOR SEX AND GET MONEY OUT OF MEN OTHER WAYS . IT'S BECAUSE YOU MEN GIVE UP YOUR CONTROL . YOU TAKE CONTROL LET THEM CHASE YOU AND MAYBE THEY WILL PAY YOU FOR SEX OR GET MONEY OUT OF THEM . CHAGE THE GAME MEN . STOP BEING FOOLS . THAT'S WHY WOMEN ARE SOMEWHAT AHEAD OF YOU
MrBigbootychaser 5 months ago in playlist Relationship Advice, Q&A & Words of Wisdom Videos
I had to come back and look at this again! Right on point!
SoLady1 7 months ago
Thumps up if you just turned down the volume and stared at her tits :) (-) (-)
LuRK409 11 months ago
Big Boobs
SamuelPeter2 11 months ago
you're amazing =]
XxInfamousAxX 11 months ago
Get fun with beautiful Asian women *lushfmlk.info*
nbmnkjlrwewds 11 months ago
OMG the slut of Salisbury lane priceless ur class all the way
QueenTaz100 1 year ago
I Truly believe you should write a book, I have never read a book that covers so many Important factors that you cover.
Please keep the videos coming. I would like to write to you in private but I am not sure how?
XxX
donnagibson 1 year ago
Turn to Jesus , and repent. It will not fare well for many.
PHANTOMSLAYER777 1 year ago
Thank you my dear!
I really agree there are no shy man. You put that so well. He either wants you or there is no reasons for you to want him.
Warm hugs darling,
Best wishes and the best of of luck!
lonettamaier 1 year ago
She said she is going ice skating. I hope she doesn´t break through the ice and start a tidal wave that engulfs all the coasts of the world. OINK OINK. lol
jampie06 1 year ago
This video is 5* !!!!
Moviesmoveme 1 year ago
dats shit u talkin bout shy men is a bunch of bullshit. im notsayin im shy but i have a friend who is and for u to say when it comes to having making descions it will be the the female is not true. the relationship is 50/50. most of the stuff u say is true but the rest is not. stop lookin at men like they are all the same because they are not.
slychris86 1 year ago
Women like unavailable men, this video is not gonna help that. On another note, I agree, men and women fake it until they make it. Test them by not letting the relationship be perfect, fucked up people will show themselves. Haha, get what you want before sex? What if the lady just wanted sex?
griffon727 1 year ago
When are you coming again to St. Kitts? I would like to meet you.
yoko149 1 year ago
excellent advice!
kzique73 1 year ago
this is really good advice... watching this, this morning just helped me stop a big mistake
ritzyscorpio 1 year ago
Thank you! xD
Bluestrike22 1 year ago
Boy, Tanya you are so right about what you said. I have encountered so many men that promise you the world, but do not deliver. I think it is through a man's actions, regarding how he cares for you. Actions speak louder than words!!
sbr1976 1 year ago
I have jungle fever now
arvydas0069 1 year ago
Noob.
dilanpatel6 1 year ago
You speak the truth. I'm just shaking my head up and down saying yes. You should be on tv.
eashayo123 1 year ago
Hm, if shy men shouldn't be able to mate, bitchy women shouldn't either. People can be brought out of shyness. This is a very narrow attitude you're putting forth.
mre2u2 1 year ago
@mre2u2 hehehe, I'm sorry MrE, that is my own personal bias. But you're right, to each their own, and I believe I stated that. :)
-Tko
TonyaTko 1 year ago
@mre2u2 I AGEE THANKS
MrBigbootychaser 5 months ago in playlist Relationship Advice, Q&A & Words of Wisdom Videos
Respond to this video... I USUALLY AGREE WITH HER BUT MEN SHOULD NOT CHASE A WOMAN THAT'S WHY THESE WOMEN ARE F-CKED UP NOW . NO WOMEN SHOULD CHASE THE MAN OR IT SHOULD BE MUTUAL CHASING . MEN SHOULD BE MEN AND STOP GIVING THESE WOMEN THE CONTROL . WQHEN MEN CHASE WOMEN YOU GIVE UP YOUR CONTROL
MrBigbootychaser 5 months ago in playlist Relationship Advice, Q&A & Words of Wisdom Videos
she has more than his ear, dear.you want us NOT to be an aggressive overbearing and but you don't want us to make the first move. Pick a lane, dear.
azmildman 1 year ago
These are really great! They touch on alot of things I dealt with. It's so easy to get caught up in unrewarding situations, regardless of how savvy you are. Emotions and logic are very different!
RedTango 1 year ago
Tonya it's not just the women gettin played. Women that play men act like they are victims and blame everything on everyone else. Trust me, this is coming from a man that used to be nice. I've been played and yes I play now with no worries, but I only play those that I believe deserve it. I am careful not to play nice girls, I just can't do that.
And yes nice guys finish last. When I turned that around is when I started to finish first. When I show my "niceness" is when I get played very hard.
Andre2099 1 year ago
it's spring. I am get rid of my so called guy friends who just basically just tease me. they are on the ignore list. I am too cute to waste time.
acestarone 1 year ago
i had a great Valentine's day this year. i spent it with good friends making dumplings for Chinese New Year. that is what it is all about spending time with cool people.
acestarone 1 year ago
Yea i waz liztening 2 ya video today and im a man and ya videos is very powerful dat wuld be co if young ladies would listen 2 your advice cuz wat you are say iz true and i like that dudes play gurlz all the tyme but woman really dnt want a nice guy they go for the badd ones i dnt mean 2 be hat'n or any thang but dey do and chu iz rite men do chaze for wat they want but but every tyme i chaze i get a put dwn cuz of mi eyez their hazel so juz bout every gurl thing ima a playa but im not n
jgivensmusic 1 year ago
wow! wish i saw this video last year, thnx for the advice.
venezolanatrini 2 years ago 4
I love your advice sista.
Lily1ist 2 years ago
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Lily1ist 2 years ago
fuck that im lookin out 4 da men, i been played twice and im talkin big time, i dont care i would shatter a womens heart with out a doubt, its always dat bitch u turn men into a monster
hold2dez 2 years ago
kno u turn your self nto a monster. Ur responsible for your own action and emotions
jazziejay0918 2 years ago
lol tonya i already tried MULTIPLE girls not to get played i said to them WHAT THE GUY is gonna do and they are players !! cuz i know them but they never listen so i don't think they will now xD
NicolinoOh 2 years ago
Thank you TonyaTko!
Blessings,
Cinnamonslices
cinnamonslices 2 years ago
at 23:00 yeah but buying things isent the same as trying to forme a lasting relationship, its hard for some of us were not made of stone(that would be nice lol)
TheXander360 2 years ago
The number 1 thing that kills relationships is ignoring warning signs early on that is the best advice anyone can get. The way you deliver your teaching just penetrates my brain.
musicvideo16 2 years ago
thx for your advices
passang25 2 years ago
GODDESS
rzrzrzrzrzrz 2 years ago 3
Great advice I have never been in this situation were a guy never turned up for holidays + valentines day!. But I agree that if a giy does not spend holidays with you then he must be cheating on you. If a guy loved you he would spend time with you no one else if there was a problem he would ring you or tell you face to face that he can't make it because his mum or someone is in hospital, then you but flowers go to the hospital to wish the person well ans see if the guy was not lying.
ILoveKelseyBriggs 2 years ago
Valentine's day is my day from hell.
BattleAngel07 2 years ago 3
yeah lol i h8 it :(
TheXander360 2 years ago
its all good.
andyvanderploug 2 years ago
"Get everything you need before sex"...."I don't know if you need Gucci"......lol......
SoftandBeautiful77 2 years ago 6
Some ppl feel they do... who am I to judge what one woman wants/needs. Some women need that diamond ring... some just need that diamond. Some need love, and some just need lust. All I am saying is each woman knows what she needs to be comfortable enough to lay down... just get it b4 hand. If you need love, or respect or whatever, dont expect it to come after. be comfortable with whatever BEFORE you do is my only point.
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
Just be to clear....I want you to know that I was not protesting against your statement...I just found it a little funny that's all...because to some it would sound a little gold diggerish....but however I do agree with everything you said....why should sex be the first thing you give away when meeting someone?? By the way....I love your vids they are very helpful and encouraging... : )
BuiltLikeAStallion 2 years ago
hey....Builtlikeastallion is my secondary accout....I didnt want to confuse you....ciao....
SoftandBeautiful77 2 years ago
Every women has their own needs. OMG I don't know what I need im too scared to even say yes to a guy if he asks me out now he is waiting for a reply and im not saying nothing yet. What the hell is wrong with me lol
ILoveKelseyBriggs 2 years ago
Yur so smart, and beutiful. U r my role model. When i was very young my mother was abused by sooo many men and that has followed me through out my whole life. You have tought me that not all men are like that... Your amazing hun! I luvv yu
jadelynn1331 2 years ago
ii have a singlet like you :)
babylovekween 2 years ago
some dumb shit right there...
jorgemacafura 2 years ago
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also, its one thing to be a man hater, its another thing to go on the net and teach your garbage to other females.
rponschual1 2 years ago
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tonya you totally seem like a woman who has been hurt by men... probably a male figure at a younger age. im not being malicious, i hope you get help for that. its not healthy go on living thinking that lowly of men. we make up half the population, why marginalise yourself from a large group based on a few bad situations you experienced?
rponschual1 2 years ago
rponschual1:
Are you serious? Yes, if course she has been hurt but she is bringing that to the table in a very objective and gentle way. I know this as well. One of my guy friends once said it best: "Guys are jerks, but they don't know they are being jerks." It just happens. Yes, I can see that, as a man, her video may seem biased and slightly disturbing, but she doesn't need help. This is how it is. Sad but true.
Haygirl345 2 years ago 2
omg you cant generalize a whole population of people like that..... thats IGNORANT. just like racism is.
rponschual1 2 years ago
Thank you Tonya. I really learned a lot.
mattisdr 2 years ago 3
I LOVE YOU,
Josshepe 2 years ago 3
thank you hunny 4 the advice ur like my mum ur so free n very intelligent lots of luv from the uk x
jyutiluti 2 years ago 3
YESSSS! SPEAK SISTA SPEAK!
NvrSettle 2 years ago
This is one of the best advice videos I've ever seen
caramelanie 2 years ago 2
Looking good, very good. You can have all my damn money lol. JK
Goukimessatsu2 2 years ago
thats why some yall women gettin played instead of looking to Jesus for the truth yall go to youtube so plane on crap happ over and over agian
tuki1boo 2 years ago
GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!WOOOOAHHH
mcgrew123 2 years ago
i know the true answer jesus Is the true answer i am married lead by God. if you follow God you wouldnt be in these problems. becasue God wouldnt lead u to such a person
tuki1boo 2 years ago 3
DAMN YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL!!!
BLAKKMAJIKK14 2 years ago
How does this relate to the "progress of women" as a whole? And, where is the commonality between men and women when it comes to this episode?
cipherclub 2 years ago
tonyas an attractive woman, i would go after tonya too. lol lol.
dakoolkid85 2 years ago 2
He's just not that into you... my best friend thinks that's the funniest thing of all time.
Magdalicious00 2 years ago
stop giving advice on how women can get things from men tanya. bitch get a job if you plan to be rich.
rponschual 2 years ago
HAHAHA Tonya, you were speaking to me during this video.
LadyFlameSniper 2 years ago
You said you had a lot to say in a short amout of time. 30 mins is not a short time. That's an episode. On average I see vids at 10 mins at longest but 30 mins is long for youtube vids.
Fungirl1983 2 years ago
Honey don't watch it. I make vids for people who WANT to watch it. If you feel you dont have the time to get the information within then, that's on you. But don't tell me that I have to somehow qualify my videos to fit into your desire.
TonyaTko 2 years ago
If u need the information u'll listen to the video. Put the video on play while u clean your room. You do what you need to. I don't time them or edit them, I talk from the heart and what comes out comes out. Those who get it, get it, those who dont ask me to say what I need to say in a time or manner which is CONVENIENT to them...
I make videos for FREE on Youtube. If you want to watch it, do. But I KNOW my self worth and I know that I'm WORTH listening to for 30 minutes or 3 hours.
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
Tonya, you are the big sister, i've never had!!!
Everything you said, i've taken it!!!
I LOVE YOU!!!
ilsyda 2 years ago
hi TKO, I was just wondering what the "V" on your hat stands for. Thanks
9dayrow 2 years ago
@feigned don't be too quick to judge what the 'majority' of women "know."
Many women out there NEEDED to hear this message, which is evident from the responses both on this video and in my email, both on youtube and on my website.
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
Oh and i like your voice. :)
KevinAskicker 2 years ago
LOL U dont have time. And the video i 30 minutes.
KevinAskicker 2 years ago
Wonderful words of WISDOM. Women LISTEN..... It doesn't matter who the words of wisdom are coming from. IT'S the truth. So the TRUTH shall open your EYES. Thanks TONYA. YOU are the greatest. Yoy are never to old to continue to learn.
FOXYJA47 2 years ago
amazing..advice I needed to hear
vnt31 2 years ago
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kawright1005 2 years ago
Oh my brother you can in NO WAY make or tailor the emotions and chemicals of LOVE to LOGIC. It simply CANT BE DONE. The chemical released when one is falling in love is linked to insanity. That is why when you love someone nothing else matters. You dont even see the fault in them. Hell they shit dont even stank..lol If you can logically talk your way out of your love for someone then it was NOT LOVE . I love my child. I can never make my mind NOT love him. Point of video is to help women BEFORE
nosugarcoatn 2 years ago
sista,you are so fine.
jefwil34 2 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
I didn't need to "play" girls this Valentine's Day. The girls were fighting each other to holla at your boy. I don't mean to toot my own horn but, "Toot, toot!"
skettcharmstrong 2 years ago
love your advice!!
kashibak2 2 years ago
mamaaaaaaa tonyaaaaaaaaaaaaa I looooooove yaaaaaaaaaaaa
Mithraa 2 years ago
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MandIizea 2 years ago
Wow Tonya, so much wisdom. I also enjoyed the delivery of your pearls of wisdom--had a good giggle!
Mamakilah 2 years ago
nice tits baby
Saiixx 2 years ago
I agree with everything! Im 37 I can take advice from anyone that has my best interest at heart. Im sure that you do Tonya! Gr8 vid! BRAVO!
hotchocolett 2 years ago
I "preach" this ALL the time. I am always on my friends about relationship issues. Being a student , I learned much from my teacher and I pass along my knowledge THANKS MAMA!! YOU ARE WONDERFUL!
lrgnluvlee 2 years ago
If a guy ever says these words out of his mouth, "I'm a nice guy"...RUN!! RUN LIKE YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT!!!
I learned that the hard way.
blahblahblahman 2 years ago
And if ANYONE male of female says "Trust Me" open your ears... bcz a LIE is coming up
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
shy men shouldnt get laid
girl ur bad lol
GunStreets 2 years ago
so all of that hard work was for nothing
and men end up with broken hearts over and over again
so your advice to women:
dont tell me..show me
let him show you..before you make up your mind
my advice to men:
find out if this girl is worth fighting for..before you Start ''showing'' her
coz we all know..some of these women are not worth it. Not worth fighting for
seriously
GunStreets 2 years ago
let that man SHOW instead of talking all these nice things
thats true..but here's the thing
there are allot of women of woman out there who don't appreciate the things men do for them
so lets say this guy has showed everything that he possibly could to let that girl know..he's into her
you know what happens then..that girl will be digging him for a while..untill she meets someone else
then she will drop him luck a brick
(allot of women are like this)
GunStreets 2 years ago
Gunstreets you are right. I am sorry to say that i experienced what you said in your last comment.
emmanuel43 2 years ago
man
sorry that it happened to you
no-one deserves that
GunStreets 2 years ago
Theres a way to do everything. And no one is saying you should be a push-over or a doormat. Think about it... the girl you were doing all of this for did she say "Don't tell me... Show me?" or was she saying no no no, and you decided to show show show. If someone is saying "NO!" you need to get the green light before you move ahead. Being too nice to someone who is not really interested will only make them LESS interested.
Remind me to do a video for guys about the tactic of hooking chicks
TKO
TonyaTko 2 years ago
wel..well. the queen responded to my comment rofl ;)
we dont need tactics for hooking chicks
you know why
coz no one understands chicks
men dont understand chicks
neither do women rofl
a woman's emotion is like a crazy rollercoaster ride combined with a never ending labyrinth
there's no way figuring it out, and once you've experienced it you want to get out as fast..but you cant coz the ride isn't over
Fellas holla at me
lol
GunStreets 2 years ago
This video was so on point, it ain't even funny. Great Vid Ms. TKO - excellent excellent excellent..wow!
PinotNoir1975 2 years ago
To long vlog :S damn girl 30 min...
Zatso127 2 years ago
I'd rather hear 30 min of something uplifting than 4 min of BS.
lovesproduct 2 years ago
hm yeah true true
Zatso127 2 years ago
just to pick on you a bit...wooooow you said Jimmy "Superfly" Snuka...he hasnt wrestled in 15 years..lol
803HighRollers 2 years ago
OH women like nascar and football too. Yes we are wire different..again love ya!!!! can wait for next post. next topic you need to teach our young black women (guys too). how to dress for a interview!!! OMG i have seen some crazyness.
803HighRollers 2 years ago
a true player in the game can get away on holidays. but the side chick show know her place anyway. she knows she is the jumpoff. sometimes the number 2 was in it for sex then she catches feelings. ladies remember your place. if you number 1 and number 2 and 3 or 9 10. know your role. be save and god bless
803HighRollers 2 years ago
@803HR, Ohhhh Be Quiet!
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
you know i am right....love your page, to be honest love you and you beautiful thick body. and you cant mess up the game.....women know they are the jumpoff, side chick, side pussy, number 2, 3 ,4...99. oh and one thing...valentines day is a JOKE. Yes i am gonna say it....its a media, hallmark holiday made up to generate dollars. it has no religious link to christianity, valentine day not in the bible.. ........tonya :-*
803HighRollers 2 years ago
No man should care about what Valentine's day means to HIM. What matters is how this day is seen to his woman. If there is anything that means a lot to your partner and you disregard it, the INITIAL problem begins with YOU.
TonyaTko 2 years ago
I don't care WHO invented it or what its called. In Japan Feb 14th is the called "White Day" and its the opposite where chocolates and such are given to the guys. No man or woman should enter into a relationship or sex act, thinking about THEMSELVES First. If both people think about the OTHER person Then and only then can mutual pleasure TRULY begin.
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
It does matter who invented...if its not with my religious views it does matter
803HighRollers 2 years ago
why shouldn't a man care...if i dont believe in it, why should i celebrate it? you make it seem like its a womans holiday.
803HighRollers 2 years ago
As it is celebrated in this country, it IS a woman's holiday. HiRoll, I really don't care WHAT you do. Go ahead and find whatever woman u want to find who believes or doesnt believe in whatever, and you treat her any kind of way you CHOOSE to treat her. If you use the misjudgment of trying to become MY man, then your point of view on this matters to me, but other than that, I could give a rat's rump.
Christmas is a PAGAN holiday which had NOTHING to do with JESUS. Easter too. Open ur eyes
TKO
TonyaTko 2 years ago
and remember ladies after you get all you need/want be ready for sex, i myself think valentines day is over rated and since i take good care of my women when that day comes they dont need nothing, so.......sex it is........lol
hammr2ke 2 years ago
Tonya u talking like we man are evil, all we want to do is hit that pussy,nothing else
u sound like u been hurt by a man & u are really bitter
Doorag1986 2 years ago
Doorag, why don't you be quiet. And YES that's ALL YOUNG MEN DO WANT. Why don't you write out what it is that I said that's wrong??
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
Doorag1986, How is it that she is bitter? How is she saying that men are evil? You are way off-- FAIL!
TonyTKO, Thanks sooo much for this video. There are many confused women who are being manipulated and don't know when they are being played. I'll pass this video along.
foxxywoxxy 2 years ago
love u tonya!
YurgesBitch 2 years ago
True! True! I have a good one know,but God knows it took awhile to find him.
sharandamote 2 years ago
If your sweetie is chornically absent from holidays and they work in the freight industry, you might want to check the paranoid attitude!
:0)
ShiekUrBooty 2 years ago
Happy St. Valentine's day Tonya! Hugs and kisses, sweetie!
ShiekUrBooty 2 years ago
I feel that tactics, chasing, catching up etc, does not enter into it for the most part if the two people stick to some basics. Get to know the person first, then friendship, then dating if both are comfortable. Get IT before you have sex, is ok if IT is going to help the relationship. If IT is material or along that line, the person needs to know where you stand.
684paq 2 years ago
thanks for the awesome advice!!! :o) it is really good
ryababe24 2 years ago
i spent the day with my baby today , it was good for me today , i met the parents , and played pool with her brothers , and took pictures had fun ..
biohazardx 2 years ago
Tonya, What you s Iay is true & yes both men & women can and will get played. Yes I ignorred the warning signs. What happens is you make excuses. She is under stress; she has personal issues she has to cope with etc. Oh yeah not being there with me for the holidays when she used to. Ive been down that road too.
Thank you for your video.
rfarebrother 2 years ago
ur brest is outta control but i love it!!!! WURK IT GURL
jaeseabean 2 years ago
tonya you lookin so damn good i like what you got to say thats why i subscibed to this channel
tay240 2 years ago
you should raise the can up a bit i bet5you got a beatiful head i would love to see it
funkluv 2 years ago
THX GURL, TEACH ON
ladycamm 2 years ago
LOL @Wolfie, well a wolf should be a wolf... why put on sheeps clothing? ;-)
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
Happy Valentine's Day to you and Thank You for giving this advice. Ladies please listen to this Lady, because there are way to many players out there for you not to use your head. I loved the way you described the sex before you get want you want.
spock8585 2 years ago
cool
CHINGYCENT505 2 years ago
Hey girl. I'm a mom to two teen daughters. I talk to them (not lecture) on my own, but I sent them the link to your video to hear some great advice from another young woman. Keep it up. Great stuff.
lindazkewl 2 years ago 2
Ms. Tonya, I have to say that you need to make a more comprehensive video on this subject. I love this video, it is very truthful and to the point but I would love to hear more from you on this subject, please. Thank you in advance.
purplekisses7528 2 years ago
ok purplekisses, more comprehensive in terms of what? I can speak on this for days
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
Thank you Tonya for schooling our young ladies. This message is on target.
Love you Tonya!
blessone48021 2 years ago
Mary J Blige No Happy Holidaysssssssssss
tssexychanel 2 years ago
This just keeps getting better!!!!
suprabuddha 2 years ago
het girlie...i emaiked you w/ my contact info....btw happy v-day
1feistydst 2 years ago
show us your breast in a nice top..you flirt to much ;)
streets321 2 years ago
That man gave you some good advice.......SPREAD IT LIKE WILD FIRE!!!!
IBVee 2 years ago
Haha, Tonya...it happened again. Whenever I have a complex situation in my life, you come up with a video that offers me a solution or at least an extremely valuable new aspect to help me find a solution. This is crazy. Since I subscribed to your channel, this has happened well over 10 times where you said something in your video that gave me a very accurat solution. Thanks so much, Honey. =) Lots of hugs!
thanae 2 years ago
Awe well that's WONDERFUL Thanae, I'm glad I am able to help you. If you ever have any questions plz reach out.
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
Happy Valentine's Day, Tonya!!!
Btw, you look great!!!!!!
MissPrettynCurvy 2 years ago
Hey miss thing! long time no talk!
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
Love the way how girls blame us men for doing the wrong stuff, when its them doing everything wrong making us react and do something stupid.
arabik4life 2 years ago
Hey toyna!!
first let me say it was cool runing into u the other day..u are as nice as i th u wud b..
and no you dident take it back to superfly snuka..
and i have to say im a shy guy..
tymurren5 2 years ago
Same here... you're so tall nice in person. Loved the crisp hair cut :)
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
you make a message to the men as well not to be fooled or played by women , we men end up being the biggest suckers to it
jmm1233 2 years ago
i don't like chasing women. it's usually not worth it when there's an easier girl around.
gohoya 2 years ago
Well gohoya, keep going for your "Easier" women... Doesnt seem like the ones with more worth are missing out on much, since you're just looking for 'easy' stick with "easy."
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TONYA!!!!!
Great advice thanks.
Sallyakerti 2 years ago
Nice video, i found that interesting as a man myself. I think ur absolutly right about all of those. Every woman deserves to be happy and end up with someone with the right intestions that they want and not get played or lied to, unless they want to.
Scientifically speaking yes, shy men shouldnt get laid and get blue balls until they come out of there shell, but there is allways porn as an alternative unlike the good ol days.
I guess this further confirms my inabily to get laid, damn my corner!
dudekillr 2 years ago
Have a great and happy Valentines Days Tonya. Take care now.
SairentoZ7 2 years ago
its a good thing your doing but thares more honist guys out thare then thare are liers/"players"
and its not that men and women don't know thes things its just that thay think with thare emotions insted of thare brane witch makes things worse.
still your a well spoken lady and you are a very wise one at that but i notced that you to were talking with your emotions as well as your mind.
mofo976 2 years ago
Good advice :), I've never seen a 30min video on youtube! happy valentines day Gorgeous!!!
NuMoons 2 years ago
30 min o.o
candyshopfr50 2 years ago
Lookin Good TKO...Happy V Day
BLKTRX252 2 years ago
My girlfriend decided to come down all the way from Connecticut just to see me this valentines day.
BLACKNEND 2 years ago
Tonya, I would never try to take advantage of you, no matter HOW much testosterone I have.
The football represents the vagina. The men compete for it.
The Alpha Males in today's society are the ones with MONEY.
The more money, the more ALPHA.
Money is also the #1 cause of marital argumernts
ALL people, both male and female, use and deceive.
You seem to have an extra strong distrust for men and the need to dominate.
And never mistake patience for shyness. patience has it's limits.
tomken8dy 2 years ago
lol just got done watching the whole video pretty interesting I'm 21 and a virgen and OMG it gets so hard for me sometimes with guys lol and i learn couple things from this video thanks you so much for posting much love to you ,, your gorgeous mamaz !!
xoxo happy valentines day!
piinknena 2 years ago
Thanks Piink, I wish I could talk ON and ON about virginity and celibacy. It gets so hard out here with all of these warped points of views and skewed standards
-Tko
TonyaTko 2 years ago
"SHY MEN SHOULDN'T GET LAID" lmao :O)
OperationRightNTight 2 years ago 2
Great advice.
~T
TeeLadyC 2 years ago
HAHAHAHA IM MEANT CLAP!! not CRAP LOL
liplylips 2 years ago
lol.!!!! you made me hella laugh hahaha
piinknena 2 years ago
OMG! ive been commenting while watching this LONG video and the ending just made me Crap!
I'm only 16 but i will hold on to this advice forever ♥♥
Thanks Tonya
and HAPPY VALINTINES DAY!!
liplylips 2 years ago
happy valentines day tonya u look beautiful 2day
-scott
Overtheedgevideos 2 years ago
Love is not logical and you cant deal with things of the heart from a mental stand point.
nosugarcoatn 2 years ago
very good vid. so true. BTW you look very pretty today
FROMFATTOTHIN 2 years ago
haha when you were describing Men you were decribing my EX xDD
liplylips 2 years ago