I think I have that problem as well. I think that part of the problem, for me, is that I am a bit anti-social and find social interaction energy-draining--even with good friends. I also think I have that wall, but I asked for that wall--I love the wall...to an extent, but it gets annoying when you need to make friends.
and plus that really makes me feel depressed because they never listen to me, its like im such a weirdo that the only way to deal with me is not listening to whatever i have to say and thats the reason for which i cut too...but anyways my ways of dealing with that is getting creative and listening to my weird music :P u just be yourself and trust me it'll make u feel a whole lot better....just get busy doing whatever u like and try to achieve something hard cuz that can distract u from that...
wow i can really connect to the first problem in this vid....i know what u mean...it happens to me always, i feel like i dont fit with my friends, even though i know they are great persons but i just dont have the same mentality as they do...i feel like i have to be somebody else around them because i am just so different from them...and i also feel like i live in a cave cuz i never know about the stuff they know...i just wish i could meet someone who would actually listen to me cuz they dont...
Hmm.... I don't know what to say kid. I don't really have the same problem, but I do have a friend who does. Just be bird with it's wings soaring in warm pockets of air. Have your arms open as well as your mind. Who knows? Maybe being open will find you a friend that is like a sibling or a twin. You never know until you find out. Try taking aspeach class. You might have anxiety problems or nervousness around people. I don't know. Try it.
And to Kerli, you are intelligent, I relate to you in many ways, to your music, and the way you are open to the realty of not everyone in this world is human. I think you are a fairy, and an angel. i love you, and I hope you continue to have the positive thoughts!
I hope this person sees this, that feels alone, I feel the same as you. I just havn't found someone to open up to, connect to. But there are others out there! I fall for the wrong friends. I go through the same depression issues, I know how you feel. One point, you will find someone who will connect so well with you. You will always have moments you feel alone, but know this, the ones who care, think of you, and is always there for you spiritually. You have to help yourself first. You can do it!
Wow you are both so intelligent and I loved all these videos you made answering people's questions. It's so personal and sooo helpful! Thank you! I agree with your discussions. I am also so strange, socially. I've moved from most of my old friends because I just started college and I want to be able to express myself without their critical remarks. Sometimes I feel very alone, but I like it now, because I like to reflect and appreciate the smaller things too. Hope next iced coffee is soon! <3
I understand the loneliness thing, I can never hold a conversation, in fact, people hardly ever let me say a sentence before the judge me as weird, and tell me to stop talking. I had given up on making friends for a year, then I met my two best friends, they had both given up on people too, and we were instantly friends. A lot of times, people just have to find other people like themselves I guess.
I have the same problem with not connecting with people. I just try and understand that I'm a bit mature for my age and not everyone I know has found themselves yet. =)
that MariMoon chick is kinda dumb jus sayen...not even close to Kerli's level of spirituality and maturity and i think she does more wrong than good in this video...just my opinion...
@TheDanka13 i wouldn't call her dumb. there are different kinds of intelligences and so many different ways to express them. yes kerli get's more in depth. but merimoon had a lot of more blunt, straight forward, practical advice. which i think went together with kerli's spiritual and scientific advice very well. balanced it out. which is good because every moonchild is different. i think she did much good because a lot of her answers were things kerli elaborated on. peace and love. -cags
Like if you are someone who likes art, but everyone around you likes sports, go to an art museum, or a place where people make art or look at art and talk to strangers and tell them that you want to see their art, or find out more about what they like, maybe make a hang out plan and meet their friends. Eventually you will find someone that you can connect with. <3
Everyone feels alone, if you constantly feel alone, think about what makes you alone, what things you see around you versus what you want, what you like, what you do. And find people who like those things. Some great ways to do that is to go out in public and do the things you enjoy and meet up with people who are there, and also join social sites and find people who you see yourself in.
This may not refer to friends...but I was depressed for a while because I always thought no one would ever love me and want to spend their life with me. last year I met someone I connected with deeply but "knew" that they would never like me. So I just kept searching and kept getting screwed over and hurt...finally, one day...when I was literally just about to give up. He added me, talked to me, and we realized we had a very deep connection with each other. You don't find love...love finds you.
I Am the same way but its not that im space i just dont like people sometimes i am in highschool and i can only handle 4 or 5 people and my girlfriend because i just like to be my self and i am a person who is afraid of being judged all i can tell you is that you just need to find the right people and if u cant connect with them just find a common intrest that the two of you have and then get a relationsip started Just Be youreself and find the right peoplet to hang out with .
I know I'm a little late commenting, but I want to give advice to the actor. ...You should ALWAYS do what you love. In order for us to be happy with our lives we need to do things that make us happy. Sure, at times it may seem hopeless and people may look down on you, but if you keep working at it and are truely enjoy it, then you will eventually make it <3. Looks should have nothing to do with what you do. If you feel love and peace when youre acting, there is no reason to quit! ILU
Does Anyone Have any Detail On Her New Album! When's It Coming Out, When's the Next Single Dropping, Is their Anymore Music Videos. Cause I See Is Old Demos Leaking!
@Forgottenandignored Even if you aren't a teen, words are simply words. They all mean the same despite what age you are. Whatever advice you hear, even if it's geared towards certain people, you ultimately choose if it has any value to you or not. Advice is advice, regardless of who is saying it or who it is said to. If it means something to you, let it flow in you and learn from it. :)
I actually had that feeling like you don't like being yourself. Just be yourself and get an "I dion't give a shit" attitude. True friends will come and somebody will like you for you.
dude, I always tought that i was the only one feeling it, a wall between me and society. i've never had a best friend. i guess i never had a friend you know? i never stop in a school since i was little so, is hard to me to connect with ppl. And my trouble family doesn't help..
i feel bad 'cause i don't know who danny is xD to the first if you can't connect then maybe they don't intrest you and you will not be able to connect for a while...try to bring up soemthing you all like? try to work your way back in so you feel better. =) i think the last two have allready been adressed properly though =o
The best things I think for you to do to become very social, comfortable being close to other people, and to no longer feel alone is to feel possibly more comfortable with yourself and figure out exactly why you feel alone. If you feel alone due to maybe insecurities, realize you will find many great friends that will love you still if you open up to them and try to get close. I feel like possibly you aren't letting yourself get close. You might have to find a friend
To Taniel?(actor) 1 if you are a good actor, you are PAYING that teacher to teach you. They are bailing cus THEY are NOT a good teacher. If you can make the character be born onstage. Stay acting. If its more fun and experimental, explore your other numerous talents(imsureuhave) and never let your art die, but don't take too big a risk. You can be a lifeless doll on stage, or a dynamic force. If your the force, get another teacher/tell them you will work hard not buy your way into acting.<3
To the person with a warped glass wall, I was thinking perhaps expectations are making your walls. You seem like a highly intelligent/analytical person who sees the world very clearly. You also see the difference between yourself and others when you try to connect? I think this is the distance created. To break it, stop and listen. U may share your thots alot(which is why they think ur awesome) but also listen. if you don't feel anything in response try a smaller approach. smiling helps.:)hug
I told my parents that i'm asexual, and they don't get it :/ of course when i'm older i want to have children, but i just don't want sex. Btw i'm 16 going to be 17 in August.
@Litvinenko88 What is your problem?i am my self, i don't have to be special to you or anyone that i do not like,, i just gave a comment ,you can't tell me who i am and who i am not.,,You really need to charm down,,ok..i was not being mean to anyone..your just being mean to me just i'm Nina ..i bet your a troll..why did i bother wasting my time on a low life like you.
Don't feel that you are the only one alone! About 4 months ago i came out of a depression that i had been in for 2 yrs. What brought me out of it was tlking to people about it i did end up doing some self harm before i could tlk to anyone, so talk to someone even if its some random on Facebook that likes Kerli or MariMoons's page and find somthing you have in common with them, there is over a million people on this planet, you are bound to find someone u have something in common with, I.L.U <3
KERLI!!! i am a moonchild and i know that you want posotive comments... but ppl are just really mean and its making me mad and hatefull! i know its rong to hate ppl but theyre just so mean!!
@Litvinenko88, i think you need to look at what you are saying, Kerli and MariMoon are trying to help people, how would you like it if someone close to you sent a message to them about how bitchy and rude you are and they dont want to turn out like you, so you need to get a life and if you dont like these videos, dont watch them. i feel sorry for you that you are wasting your time putting peolpe down.
@Sequoiajayde I don't give a fuck who these two little ugly transvestite looking cunts are trying to help or what they're trying to do. All I know is that bitch in the pink hair is fucking ugly. don't take her out on video again. plus she has a fucking ugly and annoying voice. And if you don't like my opinion you can eat shit and die.
Kerli...[sorry for the spam] please talk about sexuality. And when you do, talk about the trans kids, the genderqueers, the intersexed. All of 'em. One of my besties is a trans kid.
Also, talk about self-expression, finding our niche in the world.
Sometimes it's okay to be alone. But you have that too much. If you aren't sure, don't want to do something [dance in a crowd, sing at a kareoke bar] do it. You only live once [supposedly], so live it up! You aren't alone. Ask the universe for friends, that helps too...even a quest of self discovery would help. What traits would you like in a friend? Think about it.
Person referred to in the vid... as dumb as it sounds, look online. Look in other places for friends. I've felt this way...alot. I say you join clubs that interest you, even volunteer work. If you like books, ask for things going on at your local library. If you like sports, go to a gym. To connect...you have to let your guard down. Don't tell random people your life story mind you, but don't be snobby. Be curious about other peope, ask about them. Some may suprise you. *continuing*
you can talk with mom or dad u just had to say i want to know and just explain.
well i think that just dont listen to others and just go if u think u can do this u will reach the ladder of the carrier just listen to your heart :) <3* dont listen what others say :)
I know exactly how the first person feels. I have school friends but all except one I don't really connect with enough to hang out with them outside of school. Maybe I expect too much. When I look at my online friends I met through blog sites, fandoms, and video games, though, I realize how much better they are. Maybe I haven't found my right group of friends yet. All my online friends who I relate to I feel closer to than the people I know in real life.
For the first person, I know how you feel because I go to an out-of-state school for college. And my first semester there there was a period where I felt so alone because I was dumped by my group of friends and I had no one. But then I got to know most of the people on my floor and it was really great and I realized that I didn't need them. I definitely know that getting to know new people is hard, but you just have to force yourself and you will meet some really great people like I did. :-)
I think anybody can be a good actor, a great actor. You just have to give it your all, when I want to be, I can be a great actor, I have connections to get into CSI if I want too. But sometimes I'm just too nervous to do it in front of people I don't know. So sometimes I ask myself is this for me? And I have a past, so if I'm famous, I DO NOT want it to leak :/ so it sucks. But no matter what size you are, it doesn't matter, you can do whatever you want. Lady Gaga is like 5'1 and was in a runway
And Kerli, I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT! I have friends but it's not like we all have something in common, but once I went to The Monster Ball, I met SO MANY people from different parts of the United States, like Florida, Los Angeles, and all around New York. EVEN FROM GERMANY! I was meeting people from Munich, Germany, South Africa, and even people from Tokyo :)
I know what the person is saying and the way Kerli and Marimoon paraphrased it or explained it was not what he is struggling about. Spacey means distant, like he cannot connect the right way so he doesn't bother connecting. He doesn't mean too cool for people. Lol. He means that he just can't connect properly so he just wants to know a way to break that barrier and connect better with people :)
Marc or Mark: Be yourself, be who you are, it's easier to be who you are, then to be you're not <3
well i fell that to not u one :) well u just have to wait for your real true friend that u dont have that space between you with a real friend u can tell even your secrets if its a real friend u can be your self he is the only one who understands u who knows maybe your best friend is just now around the corner so just wait for him h will show when it will be the time :)
Also, for the acting question: There are so many opportunities for acting. Broadway, local theaters, movies. The world needs actors. There are parts for everyone. Not many people have the courage to get on stage or on film and speak. It's a talent you should embrace and never give up. I love acting. It's addicting and if someone told me I couldn't do it because of how I look (also a size 12) I would give everything in me to prove them wrong. Do what you love. Never settle for anything less. <3
For the third question I know exactly how you feel I love acting and drama to and people say I am pretty good and talented, but I am not the tallest, prettiest, skinniest person and people tell me that but I decided to follow my heart and do what I love and screw everyone else negative comments it is people who are different that actually accomplish something in life and become successful.
will have friends for life. You just have to find what you love and enjoy it and people who love what you love will pick up on that connection and you will gain new friends and not feel so lonely. <3
I honestly feel like I'm not socially awkward. And I have local theater to thank for that. Loads of the people I have met in theater are so amazing and open minded and comforting. It's a great environment to be in. So go audition for something! It can be just a part with only 2 lines, it's still fun I can promise.
Some of us are introverts. We don't connect well with people. We feel alone in a crowd. Go somewhere that you love and surround yourself with people who enjoy what you do. I'm a drama kid. I love acting, but I've always felt alone in a room full of people. I was afraid to talk to others because I wondered if they'd like me or if it would feel awkward. I went to an acting camp and I realized that if I just start a conversation, I gain new friends. All 15 of us at the camp bonded and I believe I
There's this short film called "How to Be Alone", you can find it here on youtube. It really did open my eyes up. I feel alone almost all the time. I have my large share of friends, but they don't seem to include me in on much :P I would suggest having zero expectations when you're with or meeting someone. Just take the conversation as it is. Don't filter yourself. If you do, you won't ever *truly* meet someone that you can connect with.
To anyone who feels alone, remember that you are NEVER alone, God is AWLWAYS with you. He knows everything you go through and everything you feel, and he understands. He is always there to talk to and be with. Everyone struggles with feeling alone sometimes, but we just have to remember that God is always with s and he is always our friend even when no one else is. :) <3
i love you Kerli. everything you say is so inspirational and you are a great role model to have, because you show true love, and true beauty to others. <33 keep showing others strength because you are my role model :)
I feel so alone, its normal, im socially awkward around people when i first met them.
and sometimes i dont talk to them anymore or i silently hang with them, studying there friends so i can act like they like whenever im around them. i recently moved and its been hard and lonely i havent made any friends yet and i feel very detached from society and i miss being around people where i knew how to pretend to be. ive never met the real me. so being alone is very common and yeah very lonely
'Pleased that I'm your friend & wish we can be even better friends' ... that obliterated the barriers between myself & other people. I was no longer alone & they have helped me to re-build the happy person I once was before. I honestly had no hope. I hope you find that someone comes along and soon! You don't need to act like someone you're not no longer, be yourself! You are NOT alone! The barriers break! I hope this helps, even in the slightest. I reposted on kerli's site too. I.L.U<3
Everyone feels alone or isolated from people at some point, I lost all my friends because I've been sick the whole of this year & I closed off from everyone. But throughout so much has changed apart from one thing . Me! The most important thing I've found out is that people DO eventually accept you for you & you don't need to change the way you are because there is someone! 1 person that I had known but not talked to spoke to me & they immediately accepted me and when they told me they were...
......so whenever we get in groups, I just go to the people who seem nicest or least likely to refuse and be in their group. And then we start talking and I usually end up being friends with them for a while. Not best friends, but stil friends.
Lately though I have gotten a few best friends this way :) I don't seek out best friends, it just happens. so um, this was more like me telling a story than giving advice.... but oh well.
I used to hate being alone, but then I realized I'm perfectly fine with being alone. To me it feels like im in this egg. Sometimes someone will pick me up, so i'll break out a bit and talk with them. And thats how I make friends, (kind of). I just wait for people to talk to me. Which probably isn't the best thing to do, but im fine with it. What I don't like is when we have to get in groups in school, and I don't know who to go with. :(
So whenever we have to get in groups, .............
.... (continued) I feel exactly what you described a lot when I'm at school. Just be yourself. And if you see someone else who is quiet and seems alone, talk to them! If they're not "popular," don't think you'll be looked down on for hanging out with them. If you are, who cares if that person is actually really cool? So, the bottom line is: be yourself, don't care about what others think, reach out to people, and just live life to the fullest because you are AWESOME. :)
I struggle with the unity-part myself, but that's okay. Let it go and evolve. You don't have to be perfect all the time, no one can be. They only pretend to be.
Surround yourself with beauty and things you love, and people who you ARE able to connect with, will automatically surround you, in the right way.
Don't try to break the barriers, enlight yourself & love yourself (and all your quirks, they make you you)! You are not DIFFERENT, you are UNIQUE. Everyone is. Try to think of everyone going through what you are going through, they're just not showing it. Maybe you are more sensitive than others are, but that's okay.
Being alone isn't a bad thing, unless you get lonely. They are not the same things. If you're alone, you invite company. Loneliness takes more time to solve, but help is possible!
You (the first person) stole my thoughts! And you know what, I don't know what the deal is with me or with other people, but it's all alright. I have found that if you are just nice to everyone who you respect and if you respect those who actually deserve it regardless of what others think about them, you will find people who accept you and who you really enjoy spending time with. :) And if even that fails, just be confident in yourself. Don't let it get you down....
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I think I have that problem as well. I think that part of the problem, for me, is that I am a bit anti-social and find social interaction energy-draining--even with good friends. I also think I have that wall, but I asked for that wall--I love the wall...to an extent, but it gets annoying when you need to make friends.
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and plus that really makes me feel depressed because they never listen to me, its like im such a weirdo that the only way to deal with me is not listening to whatever i have to say and thats the reason for which i cut too...but anyways my ways of dealing with that is getting creative and listening to my weird music :P u just be yourself and trust me it'll make u feel a whole lot better....just get busy doing whatever u like and try to achieve something hard cuz that can distract u from that...
stephaniemarconi 1 week ago
wow i can really connect to the first problem in this vid....i know what u mean...it happens to me always, i feel like i dont fit with my friends, even though i know they are great persons but i just dont have the same mentality as they do...i feel like i have to be somebody else around them because i am just so different from them...and i also feel like i live in a cave cuz i never know about the stuff they know...i just wish i could meet someone who would actually listen to me cuz they dont...
stephaniemarconi 1 week ago
@evil your not listening to the conversation then.
vampin6 1 week ago
Hmm.... I don't know what to say kid. I don't really have the same problem, but I do have a friend who does. Just be bird with it's wings soaring in warm pockets of air. Have your arms open as well as your mind. Who knows? Maybe being open will find you a friend that is like a sibling or a twin. You never know until you find out. Try taking aspeach class. You might have anxiety problems or nervousness around people. I don't know. Try it.
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I wasn't totally convinced before but I am now, I am a Moonchild! <3
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robits7 3 months ago
thats not totaly true. guys are horny all of the time if they have hard on problems its because their lady is not treating them like a man.
vampin6 4 months ago
@vampin6 That was pretty irrelevant...
EvieBowdenOfficial 1 week ago
I want to make videos like these... and if you were to watch them, id love that, thanks for listening!
XDSlyXD 4 months ago
And to Kerli, you are intelligent, I relate to you in many ways, to your music, and the way you are open to the realty of not everyone in this world is human. I think you are a fairy, and an angel. i love you, and I hope you continue to have the positive thoughts!
XDSlyXD 4 months ago
I hope this person sees this, that feels alone, I feel the same as you. I just havn't found someone to open up to, connect to. But there are others out there! I fall for the wrong friends. I go through the same depression issues, I know how you feel. One point, you will find someone who will connect so well with you. You will always have moments you feel alone, but know this, the ones who care, think of you, and is always there for you spiritually. You have to help yourself first. You can do it!
XDSlyXD 4 months ago
Wow you are both so intelligent and I loved all these videos you made answering people's questions. It's so personal and sooo helpful! Thank you! I agree with your discussions. I am also so strange, socially. I've moved from most of my old friends because I just started college and I want to be able to express myself without their critical remarks. Sometimes I feel very alone, but I like it now, because I like to reflect and appreciate the smaller things too. Hope next iced coffee is soon! <3
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I understand the loneliness thing, I can never hold a conversation, in fact, people hardly ever let me say a sentence before the judge me as weird, and tell me to stop talking. I had given up on making friends for a year, then I met my two best friends, they had both given up on people too, and we were instantly friends. A lot of times, people just have to find other people like themselves I guess.
blackfrost713 5 months ago
I have the same problem with not connecting with people. I just try and understand that I'm a bit mature for my age and not everyone I know has found themselves yet. =)
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I think they're both a bit odd. Just sayin'
LedaDear 5 months ago
@LedaDear "odd" is amazing. Normal is over rated!
Iloverandomness19 2 months ago
i can't wait for the next ice coffee. :)
cagalli85 6 months ago
that MariMoon chick is kinda dumb jus sayen...not even close to Kerli's level of spirituality and maturity and i think she does more wrong than good in this video...just my opinion...
TheDanka13 6 months ago
@TheDanka13 i wouldn't call her dumb. there are different kinds of intelligences and so many different ways to express them. yes kerli get's more in depth. but merimoon had a lot of more blunt, straight forward, practical advice. which i think went together with kerli's spiritual and scientific advice very well. balanced it out. which is good because every moonchild is different. i think she did much good because a lot of her answers were things kerli elaborated on. peace and love. -cags
cagalli85 6 months ago
Like if you are someone who likes art, but everyone around you likes sports, go to an art museum, or a place where people make art or look at art and talk to strangers and tell them that you want to see their art, or find out more about what they like, maybe make a hang out plan and meet their friends. Eventually you will find someone that you can connect with. <3
iTeets 6 months ago
Everyone feels alone, if you constantly feel alone, think about what makes you alone, what things you see around you versus what you want, what you like, what you do. And find people who like those things. Some great ways to do that is to go out in public and do the things you enjoy and meet up with people who are there, and also join social sites and find people who you see yourself in.
iTeets 6 months ago
This may not refer to friends...but I was depressed for a while because I always thought no one would ever love me and want to spend their life with me. last year I met someone I connected with deeply but "knew" that they would never like me. So I just kept searching and kept getting screwed over and hurt...finally, one day...when I was literally just about to give up. He added me, talked to me, and we realized we had a very deep connection with each other. You don't find love...love finds you.
masterlinx767 6 months ago
ahh tinha alguem ai se mostrando que sabia falar Ingles e Estoniano..
Cibele128 7 months ago
I Am the same way but its not that im space i just dont like people sometimes i am in highschool and i can only handle 4 or 5 people and my girlfriend because i just like to be my self and i am a person who is afraid of being judged all i can tell you is that you just need to find the right people and if u cant connect with them just find a common intrest that the two of you have and then get a relationsip started Just Be youreself and find the right peoplet to hang out with .
TheWhitekids100 7 months ago
I know I'm a little late commenting, but I want to give advice to the actor. ...You should ALWAYS do what you love. In order for us to be happy with our lives we need to do things that make us happy. Sure, at times it may seem hopeless and people may look down on you, but if you keep working at it and are truely enjoy it, then you will eventually make it <3. Looks should have nothing to do with what you do. If you feel love and peace when youre acting, there is no reason to quit! ILU
y0shisgrl 7 months ago
Does Anyone Have any Detail On Her New Album! When's It Coming Out, When's the Next Single Dropping, Is their Anymore Music Videos. Cause I See Is Old Demos Leaking!
DeaDea2011 7 months ago
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KittKat521 7 months ago
Mama Kerli um be careful chewing gum,drinking coffee and talking at the same time...just saying hun.:)lol
MizzA10111 7 months ago 2
I wish she would give advice to people that are not teens : /
people in their 20's need advice too.
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KittKat521 7 months ago
@Forgottenandignored Even if you aren't a teen, words are simply words. They all mean the same despite what age you are. Whatever advice you hear, even if it's geared towards certain people, you ultimately choose if it has any value to you or not. Advice is advice, regardless of who is saying it or who it is said to. If it means something to you, let it flow in you and learn from it. :)
iTeets 6 months ago
I actually had that feeling like you don't like being yourself. Just be yourself and get an "I dion't give a shit" attitude. True friends will come and somebody will like you for you.
KendellLGS 7 months ago 4
you both seems like two grow up kids.. no ofence, pls
mahlolokinha 7 months ago
Mari, you should speak english more naturelly, you know? just my advice!
mahlolokinha 7 months ago
07:46 totally agree mari
mahlolokinha 7 months ago
kkkkkk cara, a kerli viaja 05:36 LOLZ
mahlolokinha 7 months ago
ok, I'm not a human! that's why
mahlolokinha 7 months ago
kerli you are the best advicer i ever met!! do you wanna adopt me?? pleeease
mahlolokinha 7 months ago
dude, I always tought that i was the only one feeling it, a wall between me and society. i've never had a best friend. i guess i never had a friend you know? i never stop in a school since i was little so, is hard to me to connect with ppl. And my trouble family doesn't help..
mahlolokinha 7 months ago
Kerli, you need to sleep! ^.^
andrel96 7 months ago
i feel bad 'cause i don't know who danny is xD to the first if you can't connect then maybe they don't intrest you and you will not be able to connect for a while...try to bring up soemthing you all like? try to work your way back in so you feel better. =) i think the last two have allready been adressed properly though =o
AngelicDaughter135 7 months ago
To the person who is alone,
The best things I think for you to do to become very social, comfortable being close to other people, and to no longer feel alone is to feel possibly more comfortable with yourself and figure out exactly why you feel alone. If you feel alone due to maybe insecurities, realize you will find many great friends that will love you still if you open up to them and try to get close. I feel like possibly you aren't letting yourself get close. You might have to find a friend
DFFactor 7 months ago
To Taniel?(actor) 1 if you are a good actor, you are PAYING that teacher to teach you. They are bailing cus THEY are NOT a good teacher. If you can make the character be born onstage. Stay acting. If its more fun and experimental, explore your other numerous talents(imsureuhave) and never let your art die, but don't take too big a risk. You can be a lifeless doll on stage, or a dynamic force. If your the force, get another teacher/tell them you will work hard not buy your way into acting.<3
charcharyin 7 months ago
To the person with a warped glass wall, I was thinking perhaps expectations are making your walls. You seem like a highly intelligent/analytical person who sees the world very clearly. You also see the difference between yourself and others when you try to connect? I think this is the distance created. To break it, stop and listen. U may share your thots alot(which is why they think ur awesome) but also listen. if you don't feel anything in response try a smaller approach. smiling helps.:)hug
charcharyin 7 months ago
I told my parents that i'm asexual, and they don't get it :/ of course when i'm older i want to have children, but i just don't want sex. Btw i'm 16 going to be 17 in August.
Love you Kerli xoxo
star4nina 7 months ago
@star4nina OMG get the fuck over yourself. You're not special because your claiming to be "asexual" stupid little shit.
Litvinenko88 7 months ago
@Litvinenko88 What is your problem?i am my self, i don't have to be special to you or anyone that i do not like,, i just gave a comment ,you can't tell me who i am and who i am not.,,You really need to charm down,,ok..i was not being mean to anyone..your just being mean to me just i'm Nina ..i bet your a troll..why did i bother wasting my time on a low life like you.
star4nina 7 months ago
@Litvinenko88 no need to be rude! she didn't exactly harm you did she, learn some manners
youruniquestyle 7 months ago
@youruniquestyle Ok. Only cos ur hot<3
Litvinenko88 7 months ago
Awww love this video,,i have one friend,,love her so much
star4nina 7 months ago
Don't feel that you are the only one alone! About 4 months ago i came out of a depression that i had been in for 2 yrs. What brought me out of it was tlking to people about it i did end up doing some self harm before i could tlk to anyone, so talk to someone even if its some random on Facebook that likes Kerli or MariMoons's page and find somthing you have in common with them, there is over a million people on this planet, you are bound to find someone u have something in common with, I.L.U <3
Sequoiajayde 7 months ago
KERLI!!! i am a moonchild and i know that you want posotive comments... but ppl are just really mean and its making me mad and hatefull! i know its rong to hate ppl but theyre just so mean!!
hungergamesaddict01 7 months ago
That bitch in the pink hair is fucking ugly. don't take her out on video again. plus she has a fucking ugly and annoying voice.
Litvinenko88 7 months ago
@Litvinenko88 what's the matter with you? She's so cute and sweet!
Loopyright 7 months ago
@Loopyright shes an ugly cunt
Litvinenko88 7 months ago
@Litvinenko88, i think you need to look at what you are saying, Kerli and MariMoon are trying to help people, how would you like it if someone close to you sent a message to them about how bitchy and rude you are and they dont want to turn out like you, so you need to get a life and if you dont like these videos, dont watch them. i feel sorry for you that you are wasting your time putting peolpe down.
Sequoiajayde 7 months ago
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@Sequoiajayde I don't give a fuck who these two little ugly transvestite looking cunts are trying to help or what they're trying to do. All I know is that bitch in the pink hair is fucking ugly. don't take her out on video again. plus she has a fucking ugly and annoying voice. And if you don't like my opinion you can eat shit and die.
Litvinenko88 7 months ago
Kerli...[sorry for the spam] please talk about sexuality. And when you do, talk about the trans kids, the genderqueers, the intersexed. All of 'em. One of my besties is a trans kid.
Also, talk about self-expression, finding our niche in the world.
Ghaelwyn 7 months ago
I AM A FAERIE!! Heehee...I'd like to hear her talk more on that. X3
Ghaelwyn 7 months ago
Sometimes it's okay to be alone. But you have that too much. If you aren't sure, don't want to do something [dance in a crowd, sing at a kareoke bar] do it. You only live once [supposedly], so live it up! You aren't alone. Ask the universe for friends, that helps too...even a quest of self discovery would help. What traits would you like in a friend? Think about it.
Ghaelwyn 7 months ago
Person referred to in the vid... as dumb as it sounds, look online. Look in other places for friends. I've felt this way...alot. I say you join clubs that interest you, even volunteer work. If you like books, ask for things going on at your local library. If you like sports, go to a gym. To connect...you have to let your guard down. Don't tell random people your life story mind you, but don't be snobby. Be curious about other peope, ask about them. Some may suprise you. *continuing*
Ghaelwyn 7 months ago
you so cute when swear in you accent. my accent sound weird when i says swears
glitterdicks 7 months ago
I want to meet you two ssoooo bad! i also want your hair Kerli :)
kataangforev121 8 months ago
i feel like that all the time
queenxconverse 8 months ago
you can talk with mom or dad u just had to say i want to know and just explain.
well i think that just dont listen to others and just go if u think u can do this u will reach the ladder of the carrier just listen to your heart :) <3* dont listen what others say :)
LilOne19971 8 months ago 40
LET US ALL UNITE!
YourStrangeDream 8 months ago
I know exactly how the first person feels. I have school friends but all except one I don't really connect with enough to hang out with them outside of school. Maybe I expect too much. When I look at my online friends I met through blog sites, fandoms, and video games, though, I realize how much better they are. Maybe I haven't found my right group of friends yet. All my online friends who I relate to I feel closer to than the people I know in real life.
thiefessa 8 months ago
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That bitch in the pink hair is fucking ugly. don't take her out on video again. plus she has a fucking ugly and annoying voice.
Litvinenko88 8 months ago
@Litvinenko88 you shush, she's beautiful(:
TheMurderScene261 8 months ago
@Litvinenko88 what the hell is your problem?! she is lovely and they practically have the same accent!
queenxconverse 8 months ago
All i can say is ILU <3
LoveTheVoiceWithin 8 months ago
For the first person, I know how you feel because I go to an out-of-state school for college. And my first semester there there was a period where I felt so alone because I was dumped by my group of friends and I had no one. But then I got to know most of the people on my floor and it was really great and I realized that I didn't need them. I definitely know that getting to know new people is hard, but you just have to force yourself and you will meet some really great people like I did. :-)
Chelseaness09 8 months ago
You two are beautiful!You guys remind me of Miku and Luka from Vocaloid.
Michiharuharu 8 months ago
@Michiharuharu lol they do look like it XD
MomoTheNightmareNeko 8 months ago
I think anybody can be a good actor, a great actor. You just have to give it your all, when I want to be, I can be a great actor, I have connections to get into CSI if I want too. But sometimes I'm just too nervous to do it in front of people I don't know. So sometimes I ask myself is this for me? And I have a past, so if I'm famous, I DO NOT want it to leak :/ so it sucks. But no matter what size you are, it doesn't matter, you can do whatever you want. Lady Gaga is like 5'1 and was in a runway
salvihilton94 8 months ago
Kerli should write a book. She's really inspirational. ;o
neonxslinky 8 months ago
And don't feel alone Kerli… I'll be your best friend :)
salvihilton94 8 months ago
@salvihilton94 Sammee here <3
Sequoiajayde 7 months ago
And Kerli, I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT! I have friends but it's not like we all have something in common, but once I went to The Monster Ball, I met SO MANY people from different parts of the United States, like Florida, Los Angeles, and all around New York. EVEN FROM GERMANY! I was meeting people from Munich, Germany, South Africa, and even people from Tokyo :)
salvihilton94 8 months ago
I know what the person is saying and the way Kerli and Marimoon paraphrased it or explained it was not what he is struggling about. Spacey means distant, like he cannot connect the right way so he doesn't bother connecting. He doesn't mean too cool for people. Lol. He means that he just can't connect properly so he just wants to know a way to break that barrier and connect better with people :)
Marc or Mark: Be yourself, be who you are, it's easier to be who you are, then to be you're not <3
salvihilton94 8 months ago
well i fell that to not u one :) well u just have to wait for your real true friend that u dont have that space between you with a real friend u can tell even your secrets if its a real friend u can be your self he is the only one who understands u who knows maybe your best friend is just now around the corner so just wait for him h will show when it will be the time :)
LilOne19971 8 months ago 36
Also, for the acting question: There are so many opportunities for acting. Broadway, local theaters, movies. The world needs actors. There are parts for everyone. Not many people have the courage to get on stage or on film and speak. It's a talent you should embrace and never give up. I love acting. It's addicting and if someone told me I couldn't do it because of how I look (also a size 12) I would give everything in me to prove them wrong. Do what you love. Never settle for anything less. <3
kykat112 8 months ago
For the third question I know exactly how you feel I love acting and drama to and people say I am pretty good and talented, but I am not the tallest, prettiest, skinniest person and people tell me that but I decided to follow my heart and do what I love and screw everyone else negative comments it is people who are different that actually accomplish something in life and become successful.
-Alex I.L♥.U
Alm0stAlex 8 months ago 2
will have friends for life. You just have to find what you love and enjoy it and people who love what you love will pick up on that connection and you will gain new friends and not feel so lonely. <3
kykat112 8 months ago
and to add onto my first comment;
I honestly feel like I'm not socially awkward. And I have local theater to thank for that. Loads of the people I have met in theater are so amazing and open minded and comforting. It's a great environment to be in. So go audition for something! It can be just a part with only 2 lines, it's still fun I can promise.
oheyjawshhh 8 months ago 2
Some of us are introverts. We don't connect well with people. We feel alone in a crowd. Go somewhere that you love and surround yourself with people who enjoy what you do. I'm a drama kid. I love acting, but I've always felt alone in a room full of people. I was afraid to talk to others because I wondered if they'd like me or if it would feel awkward. I went to an acting camp and I realized that if I just start a conversation, I gain new friends. All 15 of us at the camp bonded and I believe I
kykat112 8 months ago
@kykat112 Well said. :]
thiefessa 8 months ago
There's this short film called "How to Be Alone", you can find it here on youtube. It really did open my eyes up. I feel alone almost all the time. I have my large share of friends, but they don't seem to include me in on much :P I would suggest having zero expectations when you're with or meeting someone. Just take the conversation as it is. Don't filter yourself. If you do, you won't ever *truly* meet someone that you can connect with.
Stay strong, moonchildren. ILU.
oheyjawshhh 8 months ago 4
To anyone who feels alone, remember that you are NEVER alone, God is AWLWAYS with you. He knows everything you go through and everything you feel, and he understands. He is always there to talk to and be with. Everyone struggles with feeling alone sometimes, but we just have to remember that God is always with s and he is always our friend even when no one else is. :) <3
PockyStarPokemon 8 months ago
So smart. Sex =/= love.
FluffyPurpleKitty 8 months ago
i love you Kerli. everything you say is so inspirational and you are a great role model to have, because you show true love, and true beauty to others. <33 keep showing others strength because you are my role model :)
AnimeLuver2597 8 months ago
I feel so alone, its normal, im socially awkward around people when i first met them.
and sometimes i dont talk to them anymore or i silently hang with them, studying there friends so i can act like they like whenever im around them. i recently moved and its been hard and lonely i havent made any friends yet and i feel very detached from society and i miss being around people where i knew how to pretend to be. ive never met the real me. so being alone is very common and yeah very lonely
xhcchopex 8 months ago
'Pleased that I'm your friend & wish we can be even better friends' ... that obliterated the barriers between myself & other people. I was no longer alone & they have helped me to re-build the happy person I once was before. I honestly had no hope. I hope you find that someone comes along and soon! You don't need to act like someone you're not no longer, be yourself! You are NOT alone! The barriers break! I hope this helps, even in the slightest. I reposted on kerli's site too. I.L.U<3
NinthKnife 8 months ago
Everyone feels alone or isolated from people at some point, I lost all my friends because I've been sick the whole of this year & I closed off from everyone. But throughout so much has changed apart from one thing . Me! The most important thing I've found out is that people DO eventually accept you for you & you don't need to change the way you are because there is someone! 1 person that I had known but not talked to spoke to me & they immediately accepted me and when they told me they were...
NinthKnife 8 months ago
......so whenever we get in groups, I just go to the people who seem nicest or least likely to refuse and be in their group. And then we start talking and I usually end up being friends with them for a while. Not best friends, but stil friends.
Lately though I have gotten a few best friends this way :) I don't seek out best friends, it just happens. so um, this was more like me telling a story than giving advice.... but oh well.
DubstepTech 8 months ago
I used to hate being alone, but then I realized I'm perfectly fine with being alone. To me it feels like im in this egg. Sometimes someone will pick me up, so i'll break out a bit and talk with them. And thats how I make friends, (kind of). I just wait for people to talk to me. Which probably isn't the best thing to do, but im fine with it. What I don't like is when we have to get in groups in school, and I don't know who to go with. :(
So whenever we have to get in groups, .............
DubstepTech 8 months ago
.... (continued) I feel exactly what you described a lot when I'm at school. Just be yourself. And if you see someone else who is quiet and seems alone, talk to them! If they're not "popular," don't think you'll be looked down on for hanging out with them. If you are, who cares if that person is actually really cool? So, the bottom line is: be yourself, don't care about what others think, reach out to people, and just live life to the fullest because you are AWESOME. :)
JulietheWriter 8 months ago
oh, and I would like to add:
* Integrity, love, unity *
I struggle with the unity-part myself, but that's okay. Let it go and evolve. You don't have to be perfect all the time, no one can be. They only pretend to be.
Surround yourself with beauty and things you love, and people who you ARE able to connect with, will automatically surround you, in the right way.
LotteQuintelier 8 months ago
Don't try to break the barriers, enlight yourself & love yourself (and all your quirks, they make you you)! You are not DIFFERENT, you are UNIQUE. Everyone is. Try to think of everyone going through what you are going through, they're just not showing it. Maybe you are more sensitive than others are, but that's okay.
Being alone isn't a bad thing, unless you get lonely. They are not the same things. If you're alone, you invite company. Loneliness takes more time to solve, but help is possible!
LotteQuintelier 8 months ago
You (the first person) stole my thoughts! And you know what, I don't know what the deal is with me or with other people, but it's all alright. I have found that if you are just nice to everyone who you respect and if you respect those who actually deserve it regardless of what others think about them, you will find people who accept you and who you really enjoy spending time with. :) And if even that fails, just be confident in yourself. Don't let it get you down....
JulietheWriter 8 months ago
kerli,, WE NEED TO MAKE A SONG TOGETHER PLEASE,,,
KyleSlyMusic 8 months ago
Why don't you call it Iced Advice?? xx I.L.U
Helissia 8 months ago
I want to eat you! both! haha LOL Love yoooou =)
0195rainbow 8 months ago
I love when you are together and Marimoon! São lindasssssssssssssssssss amo vocÊsssssssss
edjanemariano2010 8 months ago