What Really Holds Men Back From Attracting Women

[strovrpwr]

I think we should all stop basing what we want out of a partner based on media. I think pop culture, magazines, music, and television are really changing people and distorting reality. Its hard to break down our preconceived notions men and women because they're been drilled into us since childhood. Idk what I want out of a women, but if i seek to understand a healthy relationship then I may learn to seek out the substantial qualities in women.

[JorEl7771]

What I find sad is, there doesn't seem to be that type of woman who likes romance, flowers and poetry anymore. I am finding that many women are becoming more masculine and losing their femininity. Many are loud mouths, stuck up, bitchy etc. There's no decency anymore. It's sad. Not saying all women are like that, but many are.

[red44ever]

Treat women like shit and I will promise you she will put out in no time. For some reason they think they can change you. Oh eyah 6 packs also helps and muscles they will drop those panties in no time and both are achievable.

[victorsvoice]

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[Gary190tube]

It's all crap anyway.

Women hate whiny manginas and metrosexuals who read Cosmo magazine and watch Sex and the City.

Women rightfully like equality in the workplace, and they like the "new man" sensitive guy thing when it comes to politicians, but they hate it in courtship and especially in the bedroom.

[Gary190tube]

I'd love to see people's reactions if a man made a video about the 10 things a woman should do to get a man. And then the video maker listed stuff like:

"(1) Learn about what men like and try to please them (2) Get in tune with men's wants and desires, you need to learn about men's outlook on life to have any chance (3) start liking men a lot more, if you don't like men it will show in your attitude. Hide any feminist tendencies because men don't like that (4) yadda yadda yadda..."

[Fiskler128]

I dont understand all these messages what men have to do to attract women. I believe in a truly equal world where both men and women are the ones that seek out love out there.

[Nimzowitz]

you are very smart

[kos66t]

What the fuck do you know about men's feelings,what going on in theire heads and what they advantages are? And what makes you think that men got nothing better to do than attracting women? Read your sermon to little girls and leave men alone,please.

[OthelloCarmellow]

@101johngalt

Haha.

Great minds eh?

[OthelloCarmellow]

Step one of being successful with women:

Disregard everything that women have ever told you about being successful with women.

[Dyingworld666]

the power of the pussy

[marklange121]

Hottt

[silentbl00d]

lolz i believe... that relationships dont have to be mind game, to be about signs and what supposed body means. what it mean if u move this way, what it means if ur girlfiend does her "signs" i believe what you are is what u put out there.

if u have something on ur mind say it. no head games. dont be a follower to a guy thinking that he got to do everything. its destine for failure cuz it takes 2 to make it work. btw there is no signs with me, i would expect nothing from her as well

[kubaniski]

Guys stop complaining and controll your women. And man up. If you don't act like a man she will go out and find a guy who does. 

[gmann1695]

go ahead get lost in the matrix.

[Mythicist]

Woman are just simply complicated. Plus they love to use their bodies as weapons.

[funcuz]

I've learned through years of experience that women are exactly the opposite of whatever a feminist says they are .

They're emotional , illogical , and generally untrustworthy . I don't hate women for this , I simply accept it . I hate that I'm told it's not the truth when , generally , it most certainly is .

The standard reaction to this , of course , is to call me a misogynist . I'm not ... I simply embrace the truth about women . Basically , they're all crazy .

[Mythicist]

@funcuz spot on bro

[th3inquisitiv31]

no offence but this is bullshit !!! The most insecure and woman hating guys get the most women. All that superficial stuff is BS.

[XCode010]

I,disagree because you can be level-headed and respectable and be positive and still go through hell...yes i do want a beautiful woman that can be the best she can be but why do i have to change myself to achieve a certain woman in life if she can't be a understanding person why should i?? that's what's wrong with women today always want the man to change they're ways of living to look a certain way or be a certain way but can't see the man that is truly loves women for who they are

[Frosty301289]

my experience: women love men that treat them like shit, most of the time

and a few months later they cry about how their boyfriend is an ass and how they "thought" they could change them lol...

be yourself and be like YOU think you should be, dont force yourself to be like other people want you to

maybe you wont get as many women, but at least when you get one, you are liked for what you are, not for what you pretended to be

[taylorgangexclusive]

Jennelli, I just wanted to thank you. Your videos have helped me so-

Shut the fuck up and do something productive with your time, bitch.

[thisgame2]

you have to do a million things to get a bitch and she has nothing about a women giving any love at all, sorry honey , good hoes start at 200

[Anthony1105]

Geez, I don't think I can thank you enough Hot Alpha Female for sharing this info. Your videos have really helped me understand women much better; I honestly feel I'm becoming an overall better person by simply following some of your great advice. God bless you, keep on adding value to others the way you are already doing :)

[trinidadindian]

"You want to be the most equipped as a man as you can be in order to get the prize, in order to get the particular woman you want". Good advice, I like this girl!

[amplifyquell]

I think that this was a well thought out well organized video with information that may help me in the relationship business. Attitude and woman psychology. Ok.

[CharmzzTheFirst]

I refuse to change my attitude and I've attracted more females since I turned into a jerk.

Isn't that great? ;)

[MMArtist99]

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[iAREanthonyyy]

@MMArtist99 how was "The Game"? Worth the money? I got DYD by David D'Angelo and it was.. just okay I guess. Seemed like his stuff would only work on a certain type of women.

[kinggreg41189]

girls vaginas get turned on by a mans money or status that its. if those things arent present a woman turns to another woman and they start licking each others crotches

[Docmananoff]

@kinggreg41189 That ONLY counts for Lames... I'm BROKE and have bagged some of the finest women around (some have even had the status and money that I lack.)

[mba2ceo]

@Docmananoff ... another internet Giacomo Casanova ?

[Docmananoff]

@mba2ceo No, not a "Casanova," somebody who has been with enough women in life to know the deal.

[mba2ceo]

@Docmananoff ... ya ... I know a few of U in real life. I believe there is treatment now a days.

[Docmananoff]

@mba2ceo Treatment? Uhh, No thanks. I enjoy having sex, you should try it someday.

[mba2ceo]

@Docmananoff ... I just did actually started when U wrote this. She just left.

[Docmananoff]

@mba2ceo Or did you just let the air out of 'her?' LMAO!!!!!!!

[gordonsexytime]

yea wemon want money thats what kills society cuz im in the army and thats all bitches see thats y i dont chase em lol

[chicoling1]

girls n boys are naturally atracted? why all the talk about it, just hello

then bam! ur good to go

[fireonhair]

Perfect how is it possible that this is sooo spot on this is so amazing I'm not lieing

[fireonhair]

God dam every video is perfect I might just subscribe

[ijoeq]

Are you a psychologist? Cause alot of this makes sense :1

[airamanddex]

*clicks on video an pops pocorn*

[oscarhollywood]

The fact females can't be mature enough to accept the fact a man is going to approach them and try to ask them out

Your socially retarded for the first 10mins when a man first speaks to u

you purposely make it difficult for men to date you, speak to you, do things with u

u expect men to be greek gods

the fact women cheat and lie in relationships more then men

and the fact women have absolutely no idea at all what they want and then make videos thinking they know all about the dating game.

[StyrbjornStarke]

@oscarhollywood Wisest thing ive read on youtube in a while

[MetalmatteIsBack]

@oscarhollywood

Wow, I though I was one of the few men who relized that, but it's intressting to see other man coming to the same conclutions!

Our society is so fucked up right now, girls don't learn how to be WOMEN, they act like they are in another episode of sex and the city and the only thing they do is just shopping and consuming and think life is all about them, when they get older after having "fun" all their life they end up old and alone without any famuly or a man.

Tragic

[cragmac1000]

@oscarhollywood , Women project what they want onto men and then as a result of that don't respect men who predictably fulfill all their wants and desires.

[qklsjdv]

women are beatiful but everone is already taken, lol, serious, I havnt met a single women for about 3 or 4 years.

[WickedWitch1988]

lol competition....it's only competition for the "best of the best". But pussy is pussy.

[sameerdbz11]

What women hate:

Well to begin with I believe they don't want a wussie. Women and especially attractive desirable women who have choices are use to men CHASING after them and KISSING up to them and demonstrating they believe the women is a RARE and VALUABLE prize

When a guy calls to often, share his feelings to soon or to much or trys to buy a women's attention and affection with gift,dinners and favours and generally puts his OWN LIFE, NEEDS and SELF RESPECT aside for a women he is a wussie.

[mba2ceo]

Since I am here ... money & looks ? :)

[runtodahills]

the vast majority of men dont 'attract' women

they chase women, pursue women, make effort, try to impress them, prove something to them, bring something else to the table, fulfill some utility for them...

you call that attraction?....attraction is effortless and natural.

[Antrizzle2009]

@runtodahills That's a good point. Men chase women for the most part when they should have women chasing after them. There are very few good men out there so if you're a good man you should have women at your feet!

[lamentate07]

@runtodahills excellent point

[terryk495]

Hi Jennelli,

what i want to say is , not everyone has 100% self control, with great sharpness in every second and i am sure you know the body energy is different during the day yeah you girls want the perfect man who can control any situation, but look at around yourself, how many men do you know with this ability, accepting the reallity is good. as a man just look after your health and your body and girls will come to you:) make a life for yourself, smile and having good attitude helps a lot:)

[milinm]

Thank you. Finally, a girl which KNOWS what attracts girls. This is exactly what I was learning.

Sincerely, David DeAngelo's student :)

[xxxLawThreexxx]

in my mind alot of women are stupid but they got me started on that

[Missouriku]

Are you single

[kreculjkreculj]

u have nice lips, i was totaly hipnotized by them @.@ ....

[StatuesBleedingGreen]

blah blah blah, lets get back to arranged marriages, it's way easier.

[AdoreLucifer]

@StatuesBleedingGreen

Let's get back to Patriarchy. Own that woman.

AL

[MysticalSteven]

Hi Jen,

What's really going on is that you are amazingly insightful and that bothers some guys. You have great style and delivery. Thanks for the words of wisdom, and don't believe the haters!

[rgchrono]

@MysticalSteven : how much did alpha female paid you to say that ?? or !! did she gave you a free copy of her online ebook..too post this up here?? hmmm??

[EgoFallacies1]

brain washing.??

[Glenn83021]

You know you may have great things to share. However your back drop, unkept room is such a distraction. In truth how can you give advice with your back ground looking like crap.

Forgive me for any miss spelling. Just imagine ophra doing her show without makeup and a great production team.

YOu have a great voice lovly tone and your thoughts are interesting. Your backdrop is hurting my eyes. however you more than make up for the distraction behind you. Just a thought.

[BCoriginal1]

Well Ms.Jennelli17 to answer your question it's simple:we as men aren't sure if the females to whom we're interested in is wanting to talk to us. As in she doesn't give off any signals,or expects us to initiate the conversation. Not that we're not willing to do so, but if she's a complete frost queen we won't take that chance of being in that girl's company.

[bkzunltd000]

what are you, like, chinese or something? Anyway, you talk funny!

[pakanaman]

Very smart young lady!

[mrtogomaster]

women are terrible horrible things and nothing can be done about that im afraid

[Crazayblasiangirl]

@mrtogomaster and ur (LIL) "thing" is T-E-R-R-I-B-L-E!

[mba2ceo]

@mrtogomaster ... sure U can - take away they "rights"

[RoadlessPath]

@mrtogomaster There is hope for everybody. Of course every boy / men dreams about the hot alpha female. But you don't have doesn't girl on your own. There are a lot of good looking, slim beta girls, looking for a guy like you. And remember. Everybody is scared.

[3star2nr]

@enterjcs they would curl into a ball and cry lolololol

[huke1928]

ok here it is....guys stop chasing women.....if you keep chasing women you will keep losing money, if you start chasing money you will never loose women...its simple, women want money or what they call " security" ...of course they also want a guy with a great personality, but a great personality does not take you anywhere today...people will judge you at first impression ...we live in a world where we are what we can buy ..sad but true....love has a price....

[3star2nr]

@huke1928 not true. it has little to do with money unless thats the chick youre trying to get. A large % of women are not like that. Go after a girl who is educated and has ambition and she wont care how much money you make. The best relationships ive been in are the ones where i never spent a dime on them once. The ones where i took the girl out spent and spent had little to no return on my investment.

Its better to build an emotional connection than to try to buy one

[huke1928]

@3star2nr you're right, I cant generalize on the matter..but we could say that for the last 50 years men have been spoiling women to much..and hey.. they got used to it..now most of them use feminism as a convenience as opposed to an idea.. come on what is the first line most guys use when they are about to start a conversation with a girl.." can I buy you a drink".. today women control the dating game because our past generations were to naive to handle it... money =power=control=confidence

[3star2nr]

@huke1928 all that maybe true,but it doesn't mean that you have to be a slave to the convention. I for one have never bought a girl a drink lol.

[huke1928]

Well I personally think that its lame to buy a woman a drink...never did it as well..they wanted equal rights, they got it.. go and pay for your overpriced booze...and once we live in the system we are all slaves at some point.. that's the game.. the truth is that choice is a mere imposition by the ones with power..by the way where do you live?

[3star2nr]

@huke1928 Texas

[huke1928]

nice...but dude, I was living in south Florida and recently moved to Los Angeles...probably 2 areas that are top 10 around the world in shallow women...here if you want to make a good impression you better be riding nothing less than a BMW...and I'm not talking about the series 3...money is the most attractive thing for women, you got cash, you got game...

[3star2nr]

@huke1928 I had a friednd who drove a lamborghini murcielago in the club that dude couldnt pull a single chick LOL

He would never apprach any and when he actually did approach one he would fail horribly. So its not all about money

[huke1928]

Did he ever mentioned to the ladies that he was riding a Stallion?? maybe he forgot to flash them a bundle of Benjamin.. dude its impossible, sorry, but even a women would agree with me on that...

[3star2nr]

@huke1928 When you're in a social setting like a bar or club. Money doesnt really matter. The girl doesnt know what you have in the parking lot all she can see is you and how well you advertise yourself.

[huke1928]

Believe me, women know when a guy has money... but your right..your friend was probably giving the wrong ( I am rich ) body language...see your buddy had a straight flush on his hand but didn't know how to play poker... but I had to learn the hard way...women are a huge liability....God was very pissed off when he made them....

[bkzunltd000]

@huke1928

nah dude women have ALWAYS controlled the dating game. Women don't go around attracting viable males...FEMALE peakcocks are HALF as grand as male peacocks. It's simply the law of nature. The male has to prove that it has genes that are sufficient to ensure the survival of the offspring, its up to the female to choose whichever one she feels is the best.

[huke1928]

@bkzunltd000 you're right up to a point, but remember that we live in a " civilized" era up to a certain point...women can be choosers, but men also have the right of word too...back then the first female that showed interest would be the one, today the pool choice is open for both genders...although I agree that women play a major part on choosing rather than being the chosen one...remember we live in a globalized world, where we can meet dozen and even hundreds of people in a day..

[bkzunltd000]

@huke1928

oh nah... i was just saying where that came from. Like, its less prevalent (although it still is imperative), but you're right, we do live in an age where it is not uncommon for the bolder female's to approach men. I'm pretty sure that's unheard of in the natural world, but i cant say that with certainty because i don't have every species ever cataloged in my mind.

[lamentate07]

@huke1928 yes and that's the advantage that rich men have in an increasingly globalised world. They can travel the world to meet women, they are not stuck with the ones in their city or country. I know rich guys that found wives overseas, never looked back. The average guy doesn't really have that option, unless he packs up and moves, and even then, he must compete directly with the local men for their affections. These guys i know just go to countries, meet women, and bring them back.

[Baleur]

@lamentate07 You're wrong about them having to compete with the local men though. In many cases women overseas far prefer foreign "exotic" men to their local tried and true equivalent. Even if you are from iceland you are considered exotic in the other side of the world :)

So i'd say that money only helps in the way you first mentioned, being able to travel.

[lamentate07]

@Baleur Maybe, but i'd say that it would be harder to make a decent wage overseas, unless a company sent you over or something.

So while local women may screw you because of your 'exotic appeal', whether you can hang on to them in the long run is questionable imo. unless you are well off.

[liquidswordz17]

your extremely smart

[nothinginnumerous]

what have we men come down to,when women is a PRIZE,when we have to submit our whole life to chasing them,to adapt our whole psihology if we want to just MAYBE have a chance with finding the one that suits us..? women are organized,and they have ENSLAVED us to a point were we are just begging for them to give us a piece of love that we have worked so hard for. my advice is the best you can get:

HATE THEM!!! bully them around,have your revenge,and then they will love you. they are just animals!

[mysticman07]

@nothinginnumerous hate to admit it but i agree with u!!!

[kipkayify]

@nothinginnumerous Oh shut the fuck UP. You aren't enslaved, society has always been corrupt and crappy. There are downsides to being a man. There are downsides to being a woman. That's life. Get used to it.

[Theonedue]

Jennelli17 are these your insights your stating in your vids, or are you just looking up stuff like articles or mystery method type crap and summing it up here?

[templarkc]

@Theonedue lol

[limelight06]

I am glad that I don't have these issues.

[limelight06]

The best advice I can give to men is to save your money and retire some place warm.

[rgchrono]

everything you are saying..is common sense....

but! when it comes to the confidence of attracting women, it is hard.

you just do not know..cause you are not a man or a lesbo, trying to attract a lady.

[pjs4sp]

Really good video. You seem to really understand this area naturally but you occasionally drop some PUA slang which makes me think you've also taken it upon yourself to study it too. Ignore the haters, you are right about this.

[mba2ceo]

I going with looks and money !!!

That is all that matters to women.

[3star2nr]

@mba2ceo not true. thats a lame excuse men who fail with women use to make themselves feel better about themselves.

[Crazayblasiangirl]

@mba2ceo haha I'm an EXCEPTION!!

[QuirkyGengar]

@mba2ceo You are forgetting one key ingredient.

You must be at her every beck and call. You must be as flexible as silly putty and moldable as clay.

In this since, your only purpose and function in life is to make her feel better, forget about your wants and needs you are only alive to make her feel better no less. As you are flexible so is your job, can't get off of work because you are overworked? Tough luck, your fault, not her unrealistic standards.

Don't go for American women, but Foreign.

[SpiderWaffle]

...thoughts, "I might want to cold approach a guy" or "I should cold approach a guy" or "It might benefit me in these ways if I cold approached a guy", ect...

The only chance a girl above a 7 would ever approach a guy is if they were both in a setting highly conducive to social interaction and/or they were drunk.

[worldtravel101]

im going good, how you going?

[RussianAlmaz]

its very interesting what you said about attracting the same type of female... 5th now.. and its beyond me why its so :D

[hengwong33]

Thanks for sharing!

[RPKGameVids]

How would thinking that women are terrible and inflict pain, attract those sort of women into your life? Sounds like magic to me.

[JDawg1expert]

this gave me some motivation/inspiration lol

[matleyz]

I was wondering how you'd respond to the somewhat negative comments on your last video. Well done.

[pentelesoikoon]

good stuff

[viperr000007]

Another thing I think can happen with girls or even people in general is that the way you behave towards that person tends to induce how they behave towards you. It may seem obvious but in the case that you have a crappy mentality and expect the person to do you dirty or wrong. Then it usually ends up being the case.

so yh positive attitude = positive results

[mysticman07]

@viperr000007 so what your saying is that one person is responible for another person nasty ways ? it sounds

twisted and ridculous to me..

[viperr000007]

@mysticman07 Its easy to just dismiss it as twisted rubbish, but the fact is their are plenty of examples in the real world of this behavior in people. I mean take a school yard bully for example he/she would usually pick on people who seem to be or behave as if they are weak. Another example of this is in prison people having to act tough so as not to attract unwanted attention. Now im not saying I've ran experiments but if you behave as if ur partner is too good for you then they will leave u.

[RonQE]

A couple things;

First, you could use a lot fewer words to convey the same content. You repeated a lot and over-described simple concepts. I LOL'ed when @ 6min you said "I will keep this short".

Second, there's not just ONE "psychology of women"; they vary considerably. I'd rather hear more of the various motivations than just "understand the psychology"

Third, it's also important to ID the women with damaged esteem and psyches; of which there are many, MANY!

[viperr000007]

thanks jenne, I fear you hit the nail on the head...

[blackroc123]

Your accent is not only sexy but it draws me into watching two or three of these video's when ever i check you out... get' em jennelli17!!

[walkingon2001]

I just want to say thank you, you are speaking the truth. I think you are saving me from falling, thank you very much.

[shadowgiest22]

to do the same thing over and over again, getting the same result while expecting something different. definition of insanity right? that's good advice, but the thing that worked for me personally was to understand that women are not some grand prize to compete for, and my life is just as enjoyable without dating them. I need nor want anything from them so it draws them in

[PsionicX1]

A very well done video. I especially liked the part about the subconscious mind because ths is so often ignored in making changes. People fail to realize that the inner game is the most important game. Win that, and you win the outer game automatically.

[lesslove12]

this is too common sense go deeper

[Carnuss]

Thanks for sharing your sound advice with us. You're completely right, attitude is really important. It's the soul of the interaction, attitudes are contagious, so keep a postive one =)

[mysticman07]

@Carnuss please i seen guys with positive atitudes and they still get shitted on by women!

[siliconsurf]

Just whip it out like it's 1999

[gregory2953]

What is guy to do if he's shy around women, yet he's expected to be the one to approach her first?

-Gregory

[Carnuss]

@gregory2953 You have to approach to have a chance with women or else you'll just be overlooked. You have to be proactive and do it like a hobby. If you're shy just keep things short and friend then build it up to longer more sensual interactions overtime. If you're shy go out with a cocky mentality to help counterbalance it because you need to be confident. A lot of the time it doesn't go according to plan but you should just laugh it off and move on to another approach, approach, approach

[SpiderWaffle]

@gregory2953 As much as this sucks for you to hear but this is absolute honest truth. The ONLY solution is to NOT be shy around women. Fortunately anyone can be this. Just show a little courage and you will ALWAYS gain confidence, eventually you will be confident and NOT shy around women, just stick with it.

If you're SUPER attractive to women on the surface some will approach you, but NEVER one above a 7 in looks. Girls above a 7 in looks get approached SO MUCH they are incapable of the...

[uabm]

First