I just logged back on since 6 months ago. I finally got around to making a google account. Geeez.
I got your message/comment. I completely understand the lack of confidence. You have to put yourself out there a first time, then a second, third, so on.
So, I'm scared of what I'm doing soon. I'm moving on my own for the first time. I have no idea what's going to happen or what to do. I need some support haha.
I just logged back on since 6 months ago. I finally got around to making a google account. Geeez.
I got your message/comment. I completely understand the lack of confidence. You have to put yourself out there a first time, then a second, third, so on.
So, I'm scared of what I'm doing soon. I'm moving on my own for the first time. I have no idea what's going to happen or what to do. I need some confidence.
@dectonian Well, that comment was 5 months ago, and to be honest I still struggle with difficulties on the confidence side of things... I have gone out to places I am a little more comfortable with and have made sure a friend is along rather than taking it all on alone... Even on simple things like work or dealing with complaints all day, I usually know all the right answers, I just lack the confidence in myself to follow through with that answer until someone coaches me through it.
@dectonian And then I get that feeling of "wow, I could have made things a lot more simple had I just been confident enough to follow through with my instinct"... I am making progress... It takes time, I am able to go to the bar now, thats a good thing... Now chatting up with people and starting casual conversation... thats another thing... I hope I can get over that soon because I am sure there will be a whole new world opening up to me if I can get over my nerves and just say hi to people
Hey. I've read a comment of yours on the video "create your own reality". It was a comment from 5 months ago, but I wanted to tell you a few things.
It's hard at first to change your perspective about things, especially about yourself. You said you're getting a gut and that you're ugly. I just watched your video and you're not ugly. An you know what? I happen to like people who have fat, because it looks healthy and it feels good.
I use to be not confident in everything I've done. It change.
I just logged back on since 6 months ago. I finally got around to making a google account. Geeez.
I got your message/comment. I completely understand the lack of confidence. You have to put yourself out there a first time, then a second, third, so on.
So, I'm scared of what I'm doing soon. I'm moving on my own for the first time. I have no idea what's going to happen or what to do. I need some support haha.
dectonian 11 months ago
I just logged back on since 6 months ago. I finally got around to making a google account. Geeez.
I got your message/comment. I completely understand the lack of confidence. You have to put yourself out there a first time, then a second, third, so on.
So, I'm scared of what I'm doing soon. I'm moving on my own for the first time. I have no idea what's going to happen or what to do. I need some confidence.
dectonian 11 months ago
And, btw, just went through a tough breakup. I don't drive. I live with my dad.
That's a negative point of view.
I could make myself believe I'm lame, but why would I put myself through that? It's silly to beat yourself up. :)
This is my view on those things up above.
I loved as much as I could, but I am the strong one since I did not leave.
I love to walk places because I don't have car bills and I see the trees and bugs and flowers, and people in cars don't see what I see.
Finally... I l
dectonian 1 year ago
@dectonian Well, that comment was 5 months ago, and to be honest I still struggle with difficulties on the confidence side of things... I have gone out to places I am a little more comfortable with and have made sure a friend is along rather than taking it all on alone... Even on simple things like work or dealing with complaints all day, I usually know all the right answers, I just lack the confidence in myself to follow through with that answer until someone coaches me through it.
tamasurvivor 1 year ago
@dectonian And then I get that feeling of "wow, I could have made things a lot more simple had I just been confident enough to follow through with my instinct"... I am making progress... It takes time, I am able to go to the bar now, thats a good thing... Now chatting up with people and starting casual conversation... thats another thing... I hope I can get over that soon because I am sure there will be a whole new world opening up to me if I can get over my nerves and just say hi to people
tamasurvivor 1 year ago
Hey. I've read a comment of yours on the video "create your own reality". It was a comment from 5 months ago, but I wanted to tell you a few things.
It's hard at first to change your perspective about things, especially about yourself. You said you're getting a gut and that you're ugly. I just watched your video and you're not ugly. An you know what? I happen to like people who have fat, because it looks healthy and it feels good.
I use to be not confident in everything I've done. It change.
dectonian 1 year ago
Well, you are very brave... Crazy, but brave, L-O-L! Thanks for sharing the video guys.
KuyaBillRomjue 1 year ago