Brief Bibbel to Being a Bisexual Boy

[demonicsonic666]

mad funny dude very informative. you rock.

[crazychubba]

hahaha...so true

[johnchristopherblack]

I am a gay man but for the last 5 years i have been mixing alot with bisexual males and females, and have gathered a huge amount of information. if anyone is interested in contacting me, please feel free to do so

[XxLevynxX]

I want to steal your shirt... XD

[neuro369]

Omg I love alliteration.

[BigBlueLion]

This is the first video about bisexuality I have ever watched which actually speaks to me as a bi person. You're a legend.

[umbraven]

Shit Bisexual/ polyamourists/gender queers say: "That couple is hot, I'd join." Does pegging a gay guy make me a gay man in a bi girls body, or just really butch? I want that guy to do my boyfriend and then high five him while they pig roast me. She won't be straight for long, I've arrived. Do I look like a dyke? Do I look too straight? Do I look like a straight guy, a gay guy or a butch girl? Gender is totally a social construct. I don't adhere to your gender binary It's not a dichotomy

[luvtheheaven5]

Someone just tweeted this vid out along with: "As a bisexual, all the women think you're gay, and all the men think you're gay. :P" and I assumed the tweet was about bisexual women/one bisexual woman - which both proves that the stereotype holds for both genders of bisexuals kind of and also proves that I have stereotypes in my head that I need to get rid of about how my mind jumps to female when I hear bisexual. ;) Sorry about that.

I'm in love with the word "bibbel" now too thanks to you. ;)

[KillermaTV]

For a long time I was back and forth with the whole "I'm straight.. No, I'm gay.. Wait.. Straight" I had a eureka moment when I was about 14, for some reason the idea of being attracted to both genders was never considered, so much confusion solved with two letters. Bi.

[AllTheBestIntentions]

I'm a guy and I love being bisexual! Well, except for all the annoying shit people say or question like the things you just mentioned!

[queerpan]

bisexual, pansexual, what, biromantic? I like a lot of labels too. Some of them sometimes even contradict each other :P

[JenniferRuthFrances]

there is too much bisexual erasure going around in the world today, only the other day my brother told me that bisexual girls can't exsist!!! i think he was somewhat confused with the study that showed that bi men do exsist, and took it to mean that bi girls dont... so i'm very glad you've made this video i'm sure it will make a lot of bisexual people happy to know they are so well represented!!! xxx

[NimbusDX]

I LOVE this video. They should make a button for that.

[RitchandFamous]

@NimbusDX =D

[jeccz]

Doctor Who Scarf?

[RitchandFamous]

@jeccz *nods*

[1991kaylarae]

Is that the Fourth Doctor's scarf hanging up behind you?!?!

This was a great video before I noticed it, but if that's the Doctor's scarf, this video just got so much more awesome.

[RitchandFamous]

@1991kaylarae It sure is! I'm a big fan.

[junipermama1]

Thumbs up if you want to marry this guy. <3

[fastball1978]

I am 33 and used to hide the fact I dated women and men. But the fact is it is harder to hide then to just tell the truth. I enjoy sex with both men and woman. People can tell me all they want that bisexuals don’t exist, but I know how I feel when I am with a man and or women. It does not really matter to me any more on how my friends feel about it.

[likelylike]

Don't get me wrong but you act like a gay man; Bi's aren't gays who like woman; sorry but that's pissing me off

[junipermama1]

@likelylike Wtf does that mean?

[RitchandFamous]

@junipermama1 I think its internalized homophobia.

[mzic666]

this is all true

[PanButNotPeter]

You are so hilarious and adorable. Thank you for this! We ARE the future, you're so right. <3

[Bimboesque]

i love bisexual guys!!!

[RitchandFamous]

@Bimboesque Yeah, me too =)

[johnie89]

**has bisexual envy**

[red0imagination]

I love this video. So true and agree with a lot as a bisexual woman. I also agree that we need more bisexual guys.

Also, kudos for the Torchwood reference.

[DrCaptainBlackman]

Love everything about this. Especially the Tom Baker scarf in the background.

[GitanaLuna23]

I'm a bit in love with you for this. I'm a bisexual girl, but I understand a lot of what you are talking about. Oh and I love the scarf behind you and the Torchwood reference.

[brkngbnjmn14]

Torchwood was the perfect analogy.

[anonfangirl]

I perhaps just fell a little bit in love. Well said, all of it.

[shaunitad]

hello darling, i love this video and i think you are amazing for making it....i am a fellow bisexual..just wanted to say hello:) its always good to know one another...r u on facebook?

[GarthCat]

More like babbel, but so cute! And I agree with everything you said, almost.

[MJMJMJMJMJMJable]

lemonade....all the way :)

[jamaq]

bisexual porn is MIND-BLOWING!

[thisiamdenied]

I've found your videos via both Feministing and The Advocate. I take this as a sign that I should finally subscribe to you.

I also hear a lot that being bisexual automatically is connected with being polyamorous. I think poly is awesome, but I don't automatically want more than one romantic and/or sexual partner at the same time, or any given time for that matter. Maybe at some point I will want more than one partner, but I get tired of people assuming I'm poly since I'm bi.

[RitchandFamous]

@thisiamdenied Hooray! The universe brought you to me!

[thisiamdenied]

@RitchandFamous I've been lurking since your Feminist Boy bibbel, actually, and even posted a link to that one in my blog! It made my day.

[sillyyetsuccinct]

@thisiamdenied You live in a universe in which people ASSUME you're poly? Really?!? I want to live in that universe.

[BrisAussieBi]

Great Bibbel, just love it. We need you down under in Australia to stir up the the bi movement here. Please, please say you'll cum down under!!!!!

[BornOfRoyalBlood]

Hooray for us bi boys!!!

[JSLSampaio]

@Mindlabytinth what? that has nothing to do with WHNorthcote said...

[Kwenami]

Love your shirt. Love lemonade. Win-win. =D

[Caddy666]

monosexual means wanker.

[25butterbeers]

This is one extremely quality video. Subscribing. :D

[kinofrost]

A lot of truths and a lot of humour mixed together... maybe you're confused? Just kidding! Great vid :D

[junipermama1]

Marry me!

[TransmissionFilms]

I love this video it is brilliant, witty, and funny. I love your hair. You're cute too. I also love your accent.

[DeadCandyLizard]

It might re-inforce your video to put a link to the study about promiscuity in bi people in the description.

Thank you for this. I love a funny way to denounce myths about myself.

[gosparklynn]

That scarf looks familiar!

[Tehvoodoo19]

lol genius man you brightened up my day with this seriously made me realize some things that helped. thanks. : )

[tvanymesic]

"Try to be decisive about things, like pizza toppings; it helps people realize you're not really confused." <-- FUNNIEST SHIT EVER =]

[evenindeathiserve]

thanks man. even though this is pretty simple, i caught it at the right time and it really helps a lot

[DJViking115]

Always happy to hear another bi dude making the most of the bullshit we catch. Stay strong, brutha. Also, your sideburns are awesome, speaking as one proudly sporting mutton chops.

[RitchandFamous]

@DJViking115 Thanks, I grew them myself ;)

[ruth7067]

Fantastic. Yep, epic, sums up a lot and I'm not even a bi boy, am a bi girl! You rock :)

[NirnrootQueen]

YOU ARE EPIC. This guy is one of the best people on the internet.

[RollerGirlMeli]

Great vid.. 'We are the future!' .. & yeh, bisexual transsexuals are pretty awesome!

[ronetecohen]

Great bibbel. I'll go even further than that and say it's the best bibbel I've ever seen. I want your t-shirt. I'm guessing we're probably not the same size (I'm an XS woman) so nicking yours is not an option. Where can I legally obtain one?

[RitchandFamous]

@ronetecohen Mine was a gift, but I think they found it on cafepress(dot)com or something. Personally, I think it'd be better if you had a t-shirt of a screencap of me wearing the t-shirt. That would be epic and original.

[ronetecohen]

@RitchandFamous Yeah, you would think that wouldn't you... I've just ordered one. When it arrives, I'll have my photo taken wearing it and put it on my site or my blog (or my FB page - wow, I'm an online media slut). If you feel compelled to do so, please feel free to put me on a t-shirt.

BTW can you google me (either my name or Rainbow Couch) and mail me please? I'd like to ask you something (and I'm really not coming on to you - not that there's anything wrong with you...).

[LokcedUot]

@RitchandFamous If you make that T-shirt, I will BUY that T-shirt. (But, until then, I'm looking on cafepress.)

[LokcedUot]

This is one of my favorite videos ever. You're hilarious and genius. Favorited.

[JPAndreoni]

So true it's scary

[videogamer160]

.Ok so here's the situation. My best girl that is a friend, we will call her Debbie, just told me that she is bi-sexual I said that I am cool with that, which I am I love gay people, but her parents don't know and her mom isn't cool with gay people shes one of those bible people. Her mom reads all her texts so we cant communicate that way but I have so many questions for her. I dont really know why I'm writing you guys I think its best just to write it all out but where do i go from here?

[ijkoszewski]

@videogamer160

1. Talk to her (in person) about whatever's on her mind.

[ijkoszewski]

@videogamer160

2. Find lgBt communities online or otherwise that can provide information and support. It's a pretty warm and welcoming community.

[ijkoszewski]

@videogamer160

3. Learn about safer sex (both sexes).

[ijkoszewski]

@videogamer160

4. You--visit straightforequality[dot]org and read up on being an ally.

[Msoski]

love this!!

[Estraven53]

I keep coming back and watching this and laughing some more - thanks!!!!

[ShawnCon83]

you are awesome...thanks.

[yeznutz]

love the vid. now let me show it to my mother lol. maybe she will understand me more.

[RitchandFamous]

@yeznutz I should make one specially for confused mums

[yeznutz]

@RitchandFamous that would be so awesome of u.. i'll have to translate tho lol

[writerinchains]

Great vid! I wish I'd had a shirt like that last weekend for Pride. We *are* the future, yeah? Plus, eloquent boys are hot -- definitely make more vids. :)

[purplefrog42]

I have a few sexuality/gender labels: bisexual/pansexual polyamorous genderqueer switch, and I do watch Torchwood. Also, you're hot!

[inspiredbyteaching]

This is such a great video! thank you so much

[tranarchy000]

you are fucking cute

[snoopncoop]

Im sooooo in love with you!

[badger2305]

When asked if she would describe herself as bisexual, Carol Queen replied, "that's one of....about 26 words I would use to label myself." - great video!

[RobinReneeTV]

I love this, Ritch!  You are my new bi hero. As a multispiritual, biracial, bisexual, biromantic, polyamorous, gender malleable woman, I am into the multi-label system, too.

[MissNandiLaSophia]

I'm trans, MTF and I've always dated Bisexual cis-guys. I think Bi guys are sexy and always have. You're super hilarious and HOT! thanks for making this! xx BTW, Torchwood is my favorite! It's apparently coming back for a new series?!

[RitchandFamous]

@MissNandiLaSophia New series is out already! Thanks, I'm glad you enjoyed the video!

[cricketskies]

yes. yes. and yes!!! Boo yuh. To most heterosexuals and homosexuals, the bisexual is an alien being whose dual sexuality opens up the possibility of their own sexual ambiguity. They cannot understand the bisexual's ability to share their own preferences but no their own aversions. 

I too, love to see other Bi-men out there advocating for visibility.

[johnhendersonclark]

luv it. u hit all the points, esp torchwood & how to make lemonade (i'm really good at it).

[RitchandFamous]

@johnhendersonclark Oh I bet you are...

[Estraven53]

Ritch, I saw your T-shirt when I was marching in the LGBT Pride March on Washington in 1993. I've wanted one ever since. WHERE did you get it? Srsly.

AWESOME video, BTW. THANKS!!!! After all the serious fighting of biphobia, it's so nice to just laugh.

[interimo]

haha this is awesome, I can't "like" it enough!

[aijire]

Spastic fun! Love this! :D

[zoopie99]

hilarious

[stillcloseted]

"Being bisexual can be a pain in the butt."

Not if you're careful and practice at home first! (maybe)

[F3lch]

I don't feel like I have anything witty or amazing to contribute but I'm happy there's other bi boys out there. I've met dozens of bi girls, and I can count on one hand the number of bi guys I've met. EVER. Lots of homos, not a lot of hump doublers.

[RitchandFamous]

@F3lch We exist! Most bi boys are just closeted, I think....we need to encourage them out! With videos about torchwood and lemonade!

[nickricki]

"bisexuals love alliteration"

haha, yeah we totally do

also, I FREAKING LOVE THIS.

[jnorthme]

This guy totally gets me... Hard!

[xxHEll0KiTTYYxx]

"when life gives a diverse taste in genitalia, make... lemonade..."

LOVE THIS VIDEO

[netcrusher88]

@xxHEll0KiTTYYxx DO YOU KNOW WHO I AM? I'M THE MAN WHO'S GOING TO BURN YOUR HOUSE DOWN. WITH MY wait no hold on that's not right

[graphmark1]

:))