this girl left me after 4 days and she was the first person iv liked that isnt one of my close friends and im not sure if i should try get it back or if i should just leave it i want to leave but i cant please help
My bf and I decided to break up last october. He was my 1st love, we were each other's 1st bf/gf. We had been together for 5 yrs. I'm still in love with him but it just wasn't working. I miss him everyday and I know that I should move on but part of me I don't want to and I know I shouldn't care but I am so scared of the day when he finally meets someone. How can I move on when I still love him :'(
@carolinlovecoach I love him a lot, there's no one that I have met so far that I have that connection with. I know he really cares for me but We seem to be heading in different paths in life to be honest. I know what you mean in the sense that he is all I know and not being with him would obviously make a huge impact in my life. So many times I just feel that it's stupid for us not to be together but I think long term and I start doubting it :s
Me and my partner are 28, we have a 2 year old son and have only recently broke up, I really don't want to let go as I love being a family and love her so much, she keeps saying you never know what the future holds, if I ever want to try with anyone it'll be with you but while saying these things she has moved out and i just feel my head is being messed with and she is just trying to keep the door open incase her plans don't work out,
my first boyfriend broke up with me just over a year ago and it has taken that year for me to get over him as we were in university together in a very small town and saw each other all the time. I was his first girlfriend as well and the easiest choice was to try and be friends as we ran into each other all the time and it was really hard. but now he's graduated and I feel I am finally ready to move and love again. This video really helped me through the final stages of my mourning period Thanks
@carolinlovecoach I feel happier than I have done all year. I have no desire to speak to him now cos I realised it wasn't making me happy. I feel ready to meet someone else now and love again :) xx
Please reply----the girl I love just said how she loved me and wanted me to be with her on the phone. then she hangs up. and since it was late i sent her a text saying "good night, i love you" she replies "f**k off, im done and im not answering your texts". What did I do wrong?
its like he doesnt even care that ive been crying:,( he txt me everyday "sorry" and, "are you mad?" and im like no shit, of course im upset but... what do i do???:(
@Lexistarrr mine did this to me. Best thing I found that helped telling him to leave me alone, I deleted/blocked him on facebook and deleted his number from my phone to avoid drunk texts and hid all reminders of him including photos,things he'd given me and gave his things back to him. not having him always in my waking life helped me to move on massively! use this time to work on your relationship with yourself it's the most important as you're ALWAYS with yourself. chin up darlin' xxx
i broke up with my bf last week...bcz he started avoiding me and ignoring my calls and text...i tried to talk but he doesnt bother to answer..... now it seems like everything is falling apart and i can't hold on to things... i m having trouble everywhere at work , at home where ever i go...
it seem like my life is based on other peoples choices and not my own. lifes full of shitty people who dont care and honestly i think everyone here is a shitty person exculding me.
This video is great, my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago and I've been feeling really lonely. I've felt like I have no one to talk to and have been trying to get over it by writing a blog. illfindsomeone.blogspot.com , I think it really helps the loneliness to vent your feelings, even if it's just to the internet.
Well thnks for your video.but you are talking from a womans point of view( of course to your own convenience ) if your girl breaks up with you,its because she already has someone else.most women cheat on their men at work.a cheating woman leaves clues n signals for you.like she stays longer at (work) strange txts.calls.then you know something IS GOING ON.
my girlfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago, and i can't move on. i feel very defensive for her, like i can't have her than nobody can.. since she broke up with me i've been depressed, and i've never been depressed before and i don't know how to deal with that either
every night i lay awake for hours crying and begging god to kill me in my sleep.. i don't want to even find another girl.. she was perfect for me, and all i deserved was her..
maybe u can help me so this girl is literaly the first girl i have ever loved i mean it she is an she lovess me too........but one day she got drunk an her an her best friend took turns suking this guys DICk..!!!!!!!!!!!! i was balling mi eyes out an shiit i mean first girl i ever cryed over ,,just alot of first things u know..i have majoreeee trust issusee now we broke up an SHEE ignores me..?!!!!!! i cnt get over her i really cnt tell me wat to do..!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@TheSOGDog I'm going through the exact thing. My boyfriend left me today and he said "I cant do this anymore" but i think its because of another girl. The thought of him being with another person just tears my heart into a million tiny pieces. :(
My boyfriend broke up with me this morning...it lasted a year and six months..I don't know how to move on. It's thanks giving today here in Canada and I have no friends to be with since everyone is busy and my father and I dont celebrate thanks giving. I'm alone and all I wanna do is call my ex but I know I shouldn't. Please help :(
@mello11219 Oh dear, I´m with you in my heart. Take a long walk, find a beautiful spot and sit there for a while, praying. Be grateful for what you have in life. You have lots and there is more to come.
Thank you for making me interested in art and dancing. Thank you for letting me have all these new friends. And most of all, thank you, for saving me from dying from that car.
My boyfriend or should I say EX boyfriend broke up with me and the worse part is that I lived with him. We've been togethet for over 3yrs and out of the blue hes all like ” I need my space” im pretty much forced to move out and to live back with my parents and I cant have my old room cuz my grandma lived with them now. he didnt gave me a clear explanation why he wanted to end our beautiful long term relationship. But he said said its mostly due to stress. Im utterly heartbroken and want him back
I broke up with my girlfriend because she was bi-polar, like she would like me for a moment and we would have sex, and the next moment she would get mad at me and start ignoring me. i feel so bad i wanna do absolutly nothing.
@Jm0n3yba9s it´s ok to do nothing for a while, then write a wish list of how you want a relationship to be. Why are you drawn to such an insecure person? Are you in fact afraid of something...? x
@carolinlovecoach Afraid of what? IDK i liked her when she was nice but when she was a bitch it made me want to change her and that's about it. despite everything though i still have feelings for her.
@Jm0n3yba9s I have bi-polar and know that personally it is difficult to live with but also difficult for the people around you. It's important to understand that her reactions to you were not personal attacks at you, unless you are on medication they are uncontrollable. Many people don't see bi-polar for what it is which is a mental illness, and the mood swings are irrational. if you felt the relationship was suffering and becoming negative, leaving was for the best for both. chin up xx
I want to not be romatically involved as much but he took it as a breakup and now he avoids me at school and all my friends hate him even though I pleaded with them not to. My intention was not to burn a bridge but not use it as often. Now he ignores me and all I want is for him to be safe and not hurt himself but it's difficult when he keeps making me feel so guilty.
@IBehVicc Separate yourself emotionally. He is hurt, and needs space from you. The more energy you spend on him, the more you are in his face, the longer it takes for him to find his feet again. Life will always move up and down for all of us; it´s part of the mystery.
hey me and my gf dated for a while and she was kinnda mean and i was nice and she said wats up i'm mean your nice wats with that and i told her i love her to much to be mean to her and i will alway love her then she said that her meanist is way to high up and mine is way to low and she said that we arnt good to gether but we were awsome to gether and she broke my heart i'm 12 PLEASE REPLY
I am in tears right now! Sooo sad about my relationship and how its going and scared about the future... I don't want to be alone or on the street .. but your words and happy face made me feel so much better thank you
Today, we had to break-up after 5 years of a relationship - reason was she never made me feel secure and I never got respect from her friends. There has been immense mental torture that I have had to go through in the last few years - but I stuck to it thinking that it might just work out! I really love her - but have no other options. For the next few days - let me try and survive! I feel DEAD!
My bf just broke up with me after six months....in that time we've been through so much he says he doesn't feel the same anymore it's been hard because of other people getting into our business making it difficult to be happy i really love him but i don't want to force him....he doesn't tell thr problems he'd rather keep it in...also we have the same friends...ALSO his bday just passed and i did everything i could for him and my bday is 8/20 so i feel like wtf this is my bday present after every
i know how u feel i was in relationship almost 5 years,have 2 gorgeous girls and its come to an end,i knew she went off me along time ago but stayed i thk of feeling sorry for me,u see im from england but i imigrated to holland back in 2007 and just 2 days before my bday i must say gd buy to my loved 1ns as i can no longer live in this country!i tell ya its hard and people really misunderstand how 1 feels.that anger rage and jealousy makes is horrible!!going to be hard to let go.
i was in love with a guy, and we started dating. ever since then its been and on/off relationship. but today his new gf started texting me and threatening me if i bothered him and called me some really mean things...when i confronted him about it he said dont worry, its none of your business....how do i deal with this...?i cant take it anymore </3
I got dumbed 3 days after our anniversary and 2 days after prom..he told my fried that he was going to do it. He text me and told me he wanted a break but he still wanted to be friends. After over a year of being together he through it away and asked me if I like someone else. this is how he ended our relationship. Now I have to deal with gorgeous prom pictures that make me want to cry. I'm heart broken and I really don't know what to do. How can we go from being happy one day and over the next?
@mybabe531 Every break up will leave you with unanswered questions. Sometimes we don´t know why we break up since feelings are complex and hard to capture, control or understand. Just pamper yourself right now, make plans for your life and be among people who love you. Everything in life happens for a reason. x
@WinterRose19 I did the same thing today, i didn't want to do it but he was that type of person to have higher expectations; like dream and do. I love him so much and i still do but my love wanted him to be happy.
@Twirler1995 Im pretty much going through the same as you right now. :( Well me and my girlfriend are on a break but I can tell its going to end. Its horrible and i've never felt so shitty. :(
@Twirler1995 im 14. and i know what love is. so, your not the only one that thinks that there "too young" to know what "true" love is. i havnt broken up with my gf, but were thinking of it, mainly because its just fights and argumants all the time. we LOVE eachother. but we just end up fighting all the time. :/ </3
Hi!!! My girlfriend broke up with me 2 days ago but she said we can get back together in 6th gradebut I can't wait and I can't get over her!!!I need her! I have cried every day since!!! What should I do? PS I am in 5th grade...
your going to feel like this but you are so young! I went through this at your age, i thought it was the end of the world cuz i needed that one person but as you get older; these will be your experiences and one day you will have that special person and remember the memories.
my boyfriend broke up with me in the other day, we had been going out for about 4 and a half months... and he broke it off... i couldn't stop crying for about 2 hours... i dont know what to do cos he said he still wants to be friends and he doesn't love me anymore... but i still love him to pieces and cant stop thinking about him... i also get angry and upset whenever i see him now... because i asked if we could work it out as BF/GF but he said no... help?...
@WhatKirkSays I know. I HATE how it's just so easy for guys sometimes. (although I know woman crush hearts as well). I'm scared that i'm pregnant. I feel like a freakin' cleche. Woman and man meet, man expresses deep love to woman, woman falls and has sex, man jets with out a word to go onto the next woman, woman alone and pregnant. I sort of knew it was too good to be true, but I fell for him so hard that all I could think of is his face and being close.
yeah i wish i had time to ask what i did wrong all he said was he texted me sayin i rrl like you but lets be friends rite now. i mean if you dont see an US in the future dont say for rite now. </3
i get what your saying, but it feels different when you know that they left you for someone else. how do you cope with that knowing that they found someone better? just makes me feel lost. and it hurts twice as bad
@filipin0ryan i feel your pain man. It hurts like a b**ch. It makes you feel very worthless... (sry to harp on the neg. but i'm going through a relationship that is crumbling very slowly and painfully. ) I thought I was his main "dish", but (on a lighter note) i'm just a side appetizer (not even the happy hour side. The crusty bread pubs give you that's so nasty a dog wouldn't eat it. LOL)
@singingme4774 No! I would not support such things. If he is with someone, you go and find Your wonderful man elsewhere. Be your best you, be proud, and that man will come. Good luck :)
Is there such thing as love at 16? Is it the same feeling as say...a 20 year old would get? It just makes me wonder, because time and time again teenagers get told they're immature and too young to understand the word LOVE. Is it really much different?
And a question if I may.
What do you do if you've recently broke up with someone but you still want to be friends? And how do I make it clear that I still want to be friends but not go anywhere near the subject of "getting back together again?"
hmmmm, so many girls talking about their breakups... there all so sad :(
well im a guy who is trying to deal with my breakup, and I guess for the first time i can say that I was in love for the first time. Question, is it normal to feel hopeless for quite some time? And is it silly to bash yourself when you realise that you did nothing wrong?
@CaitlynnLovesToast hey sorry about this my sister was on my account... OLLIE QUIT IT and i cant believe ur looking at how to get over it. in the words of family guy: write a sad poem in ur journal and move on.
and no thats a lie. shes not 14 shes alot younger and that guy was a pig. CUT THE DRAMA
@carolinlovecoach Truee we can get blinded by love. I know what concerns them is not just the baby, but the Girl im in love with herself, her personality, her past. And I've she's changed for the good, not just for me but for herself. She tells me that she has dedicated herself and her goals towards me. We recently concluded by sneaking out together until I can be more independant..I trust this girl and I believe she is worth it...
@carolinlovecoach My breakup is rather complicated....We broke up because my parents disapproved of us...my Girlfriend's past is not so bright (She has a baby...) but she has really changed as a person, she dedicated herself and her goals entirely towards me...I completely accept her, know that her past is her past and that has changed. My parents forbid me to see her. She doesn't want me to have any problems, or to cause her parents anymore problems. I really love her...Please help.
@AznJ3oi I think love will always win but get a sense there is more than the baby that concerns them. Try to listen for a second, are you missing something...? Love can make us blind.
@AznJ3oi once you move out or something try again or tell your parents you really love her and that nothing will stop u from seeing her or date behind there backs ive done all 3
y s it that the person who makes u happy also make u the saddest,the one who u trust and respect the most is the one who disappoints and betrays u the worst,y is it that the one person u love,who u will kill r die for the one who kills u themselves??i am a boy and i just cant understand y we do this to ourselves,i know woman have more emotions than boys,but boys have feelings too
THANK YOU! I got with the person I turned down for my previous ex, and I couldn't be happier. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, and he even said that when we weren't together. I believe him =] And he loves me for ME. <3 You're an amazing person, I'll recommend you to my friends.
I don't know what to do carolin.after the breakup my boyfriend continues to talk to me and continues to flirt with me.. and i get all these ideas in my head.why is he doing that to me? and what should i do? he says he wants to be friends. but then he goes and he flirts with me.. to me.. at times to me.. he has not been talking to me as a friendand i got a message from his bestfriend the other day wishing that we got back together. i know he talks to his bestfriend. what do i do?
@carolinlovecoach i broke up because he was too busy partying and there was no time for me. and he got angry and said he agreed and said i was a mean person. but ever since we broke up he always is the one that keeps talking to me. as friends or flirting, why is he doing this? he told me i was a mean person and also wanted this? so why keep in contact... i really just need to move on for myself because i do still love him.
i just got broken up with by a guy i loved very much. but he said he only loves me as a friend now. i dont understand. it was just saturday we were fine and happy and he said "i love you". why do guys do that? =[
@Xirokami Oh yeah, don´t we all wish there was an easy answer and that we could just find a rule book that fits everyone... Unfortunately people are more complex and I would say the boy doesn´t really know why he did that either... If you look inside yourself you probably know more than you think. Just focs now on caring for yourself.
@carolinlovecoach of course i can care for myself but im so confused. i give the guys i get with love and attention and i listen to them and i be as flexible and understanding as i possibly can. but they still say stuff like, "it's not working out" or "i dont love you the way i did before" things like that. i know for a fact i've got a lot to offer. but nobody seems to see it. i dont know how much longer i can deal with this and im only 17.
@Xirokami Darling, You will fall in love and have a beautiful life!! Who made you think you need to bend and stretch and change yourself to be loved? You will be loved when you are just your gorgeous self - and proud.
@carolinlovecoach thank you so much.. i know i am beautiful. i dont need to change at all! =] whatever guy wants me to change for him can suck one. you helped me a lot, thank you. =]
i was dating a girl and we just broke up because...i really wanted to date her but when we finally did i lost all intrest in her...now we are broken up i want to date her again! :(
i just broke up with my gf. Like juat now we have been going out for 8 months. i phill like crap i havent talked to aney one for a long time i just phill like crap.oh i was in a highschool relationship..she wont talk to me aney more do you have aney tips on what i can do to get her to talk to me as a friend. please massage me back
WTF !!!! me its been 2 1/2 years since i broke up with my ex and i still love her i still miss her i still want to kill myself for her wtf am i supposed to do ???>
69flamez69 umm... can i ask you somethin? how many years have you spent wid your partner? jst askin... how many day/ months will it take to move on? because till now im still in pain.
I just broke up wid my gf, wev been togeder for almost 8 yrs,4 yrs here in the philippines and 4 yrs in the US, shes in USA and im here in asia philipines. shes been cheatin on me for a month, nothin left to do but to end it. its hurts damnit! i wish my pain would go away. ive been crying for a week now and still it hurts. i have no friends becuz of her. im all alone now...
Keep on crying for a while, let yourself. Life is not always fair - at least it feels that way - but your angfels want what is good for you so open your eyes for possibiities and miracles.
I told my girlfriend of 8 months that I cheated on her on December 2009. I told her yesterday what happened... I am not sure if we're broken up.. her parents won't even let me talk to her.. I don't know how she feels... I've been crying for hours now and I don't know what to do.. I feel I have a future with her.. but not right now... please help me out?
Oh hun. Write a letter. There was a reason you told her. Why did you? Because you wanted to be honest since you love her so much? Write her a letter describing how you want things to be and how you feel. Relax, what is right will happen. Trust nature
I got dumped yesterday by my girlfriend of 5 months. I was absolutely in love with her, I've had girlfriends before, but she was my first true love. It's really hard to get through, and your vid helped a bit, just knowing that there were people out there to help. So thanks, and to everyone who just went through a break up, it's one of the toughest things I've ever had to do, but try to keep your heads up as I am doing.
My girlfriend just broke up with a few minutes ago. I can't get my mind off of her either. We been together almost a year and I even bought her a ring and a necklace. She says we should just take time, but then when i tell her things she just doesn't care and treat me like shit.
I just feel so dizzy and I don't know how to cope with it.
Sweetie, Let yourself feel a little dizzy, it´s ok... Pamper yourself, spend time with friends now, go out to the water and talk to the angels. Whatever that makes you get it all out. Get it ALL OUT, old negative thoughts can easily get stuck and if you dont throw them away they will start to smell! Be nice to yourself. YOu will heal.
Let it take some time. Put a lot of effort in fantasising about the future now. Paint a picture in your head of what you want and why. You want a gf who treats you well. Why did you let yourself fet treated badly, also figure out the answer on that q and life will be lighter.
i've been going out with a boy for around 4 months now~
and on monday he dumped me, and he didnt answer any questions, im usually really happy, and really easy to cheer up, but not even my friends have managed to make me smile,
i loved him, and i knew it was real love!
and now i just feel like part of me is missing, i havnt been able to eat or anything, andthe only way i get to sleep is by actually crying myself to sleep:'(
Hun it´s only been a few days, be nice to yourself. It´s ok to be sad for a while. It´s natural and normal. Just go through it with grace. You know why he broke up; you have the answer. You don´t need his.
I am going through a rough spot in my relationship...I know it's over, she knows it's over, but it just can't be said...she loves me, but she has feelings for some other guy too, and it hurts too much, and I am not sure what to do, I wanna be with her but I also wanna end it, I love her so much though..and she loves me still I know...if anyone has AN advice or words to speak on the situation...please message me...
Pamper yourself with light and peace. Make sure you have time to sit totally quiet in the nature and make wishes for the future. Breathe slowly, feel you are receiving help.
I am so sorry, hun. Hope she gave you a proper answer so you can understand. We can´t always control other people, especially not with gifts... Let yourself be quiet for a while
my girlfriend broke up with me on Monday because she didnt feel that our relationship was there anymore..like she didnt like me that way which hurt when she told me. Whats worse is that i got a valentines gift for her and now i spent 50 bucks on something i cant give her. I really want her back and i think she misses me too but im afraid to find out. She looks bored/upset when i pass her in the hallway at school so i really dont know anymore.
this didnt work for me and i really wish it did, my boyfriend dumped me about 2 months ago. ive always been the HAPPIEST girl like you wouldnt imagine, constantlyy laughing nonstop it was crazy, then i went out with a boy and really fell in love, i know it was love. he dumped me and i hvnt been able to eat or sleep nd havnt smiled for 2 months. i cry at least 2 times a day. i need help i just dont know what to do. <l3
well what if she wont answer the questions?? and she says she doesnt know why she just dont know.. its so stupid i wasted 3 years of my life. love sucks
Your not alone. I fell in love with a boy and we dated for two years. I still love him. I'll do anything to get him back =X I'm defined as a crazy ex girlfriend!
My boyfriend just dumped me today, and I feel horrible. :( He didn't even say it to my face, he just sent his friend to tell me instead. And this was at school. So all day at school I tried sooooooo hard not to cry. So now im so depressed, and i've been crying all night. This is my first break up, I don't know what to do, and I feel like I never want to eat. I need help::(
my girl friend broke up with me... i freaked... she broke up with me and not even to my face, the next time i saw her i asked her what when and why she dumped me, she started to freak out and it ended up into a huge fight, i know she wasn't worth it but is it good or bad to ask questions after a break up?
nah.. the same thing happened to me. my girlfriend broke up with me on new years day and she still hasnt told me why. Every time I try to ask she gets mad.(my girl was worth it) =(
breakups are always hurtful its hard to breakup but its easy to break down but i think both guys and girls need happiness i think sometimes guys have stupid moments and girls have stupid moments but im pretty sure that all of you people describing your exes, that your exes really did and possibly do still love you or is in love with you ive had lots of relashionships and have been hurt by many guys but i learned to work it out and get ovr it even tho i am recently single- megan, hope i helped =)
me and my ex got 2gether after i just came out of a long term relationship,moved in to a flat,had a kid,good few years 2gether,then she met a guy through work,then she changed,very distant,'post natal depression'we thaught.then a month or so b4 xmas,she left.2 months later,she with the guy she met through work,3 months after that, their engaged.they make my life hell. only see my daughter sunday 2 monday as i work 6 days to support so i dont meet nice girls sucks eh?Rolly/24/Belfast
I need help!!! Is it my fault for not having feeling for my long distance boyfriend...welp the thing is that we been dating for 3yrs and he been gone for a year that i jus lost my feeling for him...does this always happen to long distance couple or isit natural...i'm stressing out over this and i want to let him go but i jus dont know how to say it to him....
Sweet, feelings and love are driven by mysterious forces, and they can´t be controlled like other things in life. They don´t have a remote control... If you don´t have feelings, you don´t. What are you really stressing over? Tell me what you would like now? "I want peace"? "I want to get my feelings back"? "I want him to live closer"? Ask, and you will get. xo Carolin
this girl left me after 4 days and she was the first person iv liked that isnt one of my close friends and im not sure if i should try get it back or if i should just leave it i want to leave but i cant please help
Josho1812 1 week ago
my guy suckes
sapphirekidsable 1 week ago
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Sigh .. Break ups suck :(
This has to be the worst feeling in the world. There's nothing worse than being rejected by someone you love.
It's been 6 months since my girlfriend broke up with me and it still hurts so much!!
I've been using the program on Breakups2Makeups. com and I'm starting to get positive reactions from her so that's a start at least.
You never know what you have until it's gone :(
MMArtist99 2 weeks ago
My bf and I decided to break up last october. He was my 1st love, we were each other's 1st bf/gf. We had been together for 5 yrs. I'm still in love with him but it just wasn't working. I miss him everyday and I know that I should move on but part of me I don't want to and I know I shouldn't care but I am so scared of the day when he finally meets someone. How can I move on when I still love him :'(
CHERRYqs 3 weeks ago
@CHERRYqs Do you really love him... Or are you simply afraid of change and taking responsibility for the future...? Start living girlfriend :)
carolinlovecoach 3 weeks ago
@carolinlovecoach I love him a lot, there's no one that I have met so far that I have that connection with. I know he really cares for me but We seem to be heading in different paths in life to be honest. I know what you mean in the sense that he is all I know and not being with him would obviously make a huge impact in my life. So many times I just feel that it's stupid for us not to be together but I think long term and I start doubting it :s
CHERRYqs 3 weeks ago
Me and my partner are 28, we have a 2 year old son and have only recently broke up, I really don't want to let go as I love being a family and love her so much, she keeps saying you never know what the future holds, if I ever want to try with anyone it'll be with you but while saying these things she has moved out and i just feel my head is being messed with and she is just trying to keep the door open incase her plans don't work out,
garrymcgrattan 1 month ago
my first boyfriend broke up with me just over a year ago and it has taken that year for me to get over him as we were in university together in a very small town and saw each other all the time. I was his first girlfriend as well and the easiest choice was to try and be friends as we ran into each other all the time and it was really hard. but now he's graduated and I feel I am finally ready to move and love again. This video really helped me through the final stages of my mourning period Thanks
magicgypsyfish18 1 month ago
@magicgypsyfish18 I´m glad to have helped a little. Now I hope you are full of life, ready to be happy! :)
carolinlovecoach 1 month ago
@carolinlovecoach I feel happier than I have done all year. I have no desire to speak to him now cos I realised it wasn't making me happy. I feel ready to meet someone else now and love again :) xx
magicgypsyfish18 1 month ago
Please reply----the girl I love just said how she loved me and wanted me to be with her on the phone. then she hangs up. and since it was late i sent her a text saying "good night, i love you" she replies "f**k off, im done and im not answering your texts". What did I do wrong?
CaseyTheDoctor 1 month ago
its like he doesnt even care that ive been crying:,( he txt me everyday "sorry" and, "are you mad?" and im like no shit, of course im upset but... what do i do???:(
Lexistarrr 1 month ago
@Lexistarrr mine did this to me. Best thing I found that helped telling him to leave me alone, I deleted/blocked him on facebook and deleted his number from my phone to avoid drunk texts and hid all reminders of him including photos,things he'd given me and gave his things back to him. not having him always in my waking life helped me to move on massively! use this time to work on your relationship with yourself it's the most important as you're ALWAYS with yourself. chin up darlin' xxx
magicgypsyfish18 1 month ago
i broke up with my bf last week...bcz he started avoiding me and ignoring my calls and text...i tried to talk but he doesnt bother to answer..... now it seems like everything is falling apart and i can't hold on to things... i m having trouble everywhere at work , at home where ever i go...
why is this so hard???
ssiiwon 1 month ago
it seem like my life is based on other peoples choices and not my own. lifes full of shitty people who dont care and honestly i think everyone here is a shitty person exculding me.
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This video is great, my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago and I've been feeling really lonely. I've felt like I have no one to talk to and have been trying to get over it by writing a blog. illfindsomeone.blogspot.com , I think it really helps the loneliness to vent your feelings, even if it's just to the internet.
illfindsomeone 3 months ago
i had someone for 4 months not a long time but we broke up yesterday but i already kinda feel better but not my best :(((((((
hobobo9 3 months ago
im broken. he flirts with other girls. idk if its cheating or not. fml. thats all i can say and im done with my life i wanna end it he ruined it. ;(
xStitchesGirl 3 months ago
@xStitchesGirl keep your chin up. you're better than he deserved/can be/ever will be. stay strong and try to look forward xxx
magicgypsyfish18 1 month ago
Well thnks for your video.but you are talking from a womans point of view( of course to your own convenience ) if your girl breaks up with you,its because she already has someone else.most women cheat on their men at work.a cheating woman leaves clues n signals for you.like she stays longer at (work) strange txts.calls.then you know something IS GOING ON.
musicofz 3 months ago
thankyou for trying but u made no difference :(
AKXU1 4 months ago
my girlfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago, and i can't move on. i feel very defensive for her, like i can't have her than nobody can.. since she broke up with me i've been depressed, and i've never been depressed before and i don't know how to deal with that either
every night i lay awake for hours crying and begging god to kill me in my sleep.. i don't want to even find another girl.. she was perfect for me, and all i deserved was her..
i don't know what to do :'(
sandsnakesinmypants 4 months ago
maybe u can help me so this girl is literaly the first girl i have ever loved i mean it she is an she lovess me too........but one day she got drunk an her an her best friend took turns suking this guys DICk..!!!!!!!!!!!! i was balling mi eyes out an shiit i mean first girl i ever cryed over ,,just alot of first things u know..i have majoreeee trust issusee now we broke up an SHEE ignores me..?!!!!!! i cnt get over her i really cnt tell me wat to do..!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mw2xLeGacYxFTW 4 months ago
@TheSOGDog I'm going through the exact thing. My boyfriend left me today and he said "I cant do this anymore" but i think its because of another girl. The thought of him being with another person just tears my heart into a million tiny pieces. :(
mello11219 4 months ago
My boyfriend broke up with me this morning...it lasted a year and six months..I don't know how to move on. It's thanks giving today here in Canada and I have no friends to be with since everyone is busy and my father and I dont celebrate thanks giving. I'm alone and all I wanna do is call my ex but I know I shouldn't. Please help :(
mello11219 4 months ago 3
@mello11219 Oh dear, I´m with you in my heart. Take a long walk, find a beautiful spot and sit there for a while, praying. Be grateful for what you have in life. You have lots and there is more to come.
carolinlovecoach 4 months ago
Dear Ex,
Thank you for making me interested in art and dancing. Thank you for letting me have all these new friends. And most of all, thank you, for saving me from dying from that car.
Love,
Your Ex
aznfan1981 4 months ago
My boyfriend or should I say EX boyfriend broke up with me and the worse part is that I lived with him. We've been togethet for over 3yrs and out of the blue hes all like ” I need my space” im pretty much forced to move out and to live back with my parents and I cant have my old room cuz my grandma lived with them now. he didnt gave me a clear explanation why he wanted to end our beautiful long term relationship. But he said said its mostly due to stress. Im utterly heartbroken and want him back
imygurl305 5 months ago
I broke up with my girlfriend because she was bi-polar, like she would like me for a moment and we would have sex, and the next moment she would get mad at me and start ignoring me. i feel so bad i wanna do absolutly nothing.
Jm0n3yba9s 5 months ago
@Jm0n3yba9s it´s ok to do nothing for a while, then write a wish list of how you want a relationship to be. Why are you drawn to such an insecure person? Are you in fact afraid of something...? x
carolinlovecoach 5 months ago
@carolinlovecoach Afraid of what? IDK i liked her when she was nice but when she was a bitch it made me want to change her and that's about it. despite everything though i still have feelings for her.
Jm0n3yba9s 5 months ago
@Jm0n3yba9s I have bi-polar and know that personally it is difficult to live with but also difficult for the people around you. It's important to understand that her reactions to you were not personal attacks at you, unless you are on medication they are uncontrollable. Many people don't see bi-polar for what it is which is a mental illness, and the mood swings are irrational. if you felt the relationship was suffering and becoming negative, leaving was for the best for both. chin up xx
magicgypsyfish18 1 month ago
I want to not be romatically involved as much but he took it as a breakup and now he avoids me at school and all my friends hate him even though I pleaded with them not to. My intention was not to burn a bridge but not use it as often. Now he ignores me and all I want is for him to be safe and not hurt himself but it's difficult when he keeps making me feel so guilty.
IBehVicc 5 months ago
@IBehVicc Separate yourself emotionally. He is hurt, and needs space from you. The more energy you spend on him, the more you are in his face, the longer it takes for him to find his feet again. Life will always move up and down for all of us; it´s part of the mystery.
carolinlovecoach 5 months ago
hey me and my gf dated for a while and she was kinnda mean and i was nice and she said wats up i'm mean your nice wats with that and i told her i love her to much to be mean to her and i will alway love her then she said that her meanist is way to high up and mine is way to low and she said that we arnt good to gether but we were awsome to gether and she broke my heart i'm 12 PLEASE REPLY
justinshelton35650 5 months ago
I am in tears right now! Sooo sad about my relationship and how its going and scared about the future... I don't want to be alone or on the street .. but your words and happy face made me feel so much better thank you
hollymoore86 5 months ago
My girlfriend left me like an hour ago. Im alny 12 and i dont know what to do.......I wanna curl up into a little ball.......Please reply.
roxasoraxelea 5 months ago
@roxasoraxelea Dear, you will be fine!!!
carolinlovecoach 5 months ago
Today, we had to break-up after 5 years of a relationship - reason was she never made me feel secure and I never got respect from her friends. There has been immense mental torture that I have had to go through in the last few years - but I stuck to it thinking that it might just work out! I really love her - but have no other options. For the next few days - let me try and survive! I feel DEAD!
bonjour9585 5 months ago
My bf just broke up with me after six months....in that time we've been through so much he says he doesn't feel the same anymore it's been hard because of other people getting into our business making it difficult to be happy i really love him but i don't want to force him....he doesn't tell thr problems he'd rather keep it in...also we have the same friends...ALSO his bday just passed and i did everything i could for him and my bday is 8/20 so i feel like wtf this is my bday present after every
TheChaya01 6 months ago
@TheChaya01
i know how u feel i was in relationship almost 5 years,have 2 gorgeous girls and its come to an end,i knew she went off me along time ago but stayed i thk of feeling sorry for me,u see im from england but i imigrated to holland back in 2007 and just 2 days before my bday i must say gd buy to my loved 1ns as i can no longer live in this country!i tell ya its hard and people really misunderstand how 1 feels.that anger rage and jealousy makes is horrible!!going to be hard to let go.
STRONGMANSWAY 6 months ago
It's a strange feeling seeing the girl I love flirt with someone else. Its like a mix of anger and jealousy.
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ashley0804ify 6 months ago
I just broke up with my boyfriend last night, I was drunk, I'm 18...I hate myself, too old to find love now. I'm such a fuckup.
The1andonlyIris 7 months ago
My girlfriend of a year left me because she wanted a break, and I still dont know what I did wrong. GD I miss her
drethedude1 7 months ago
i was in love with a guy, and we started dating. ever since then its been and on/off relationship. but today his new gf started texting me and threatening me if i bothered him and called me some really mean things...when i confronted him about it he said dont worry, its none of your business....how do i deal with this...?i cant take it anymore </3
mezrulztheworld 7 months ago
I got dumped after 8 years of our relationship. i dont know how to deal with it and btw da reason is his misunderstanding with me.. please help !
zat704 7 months ago
my girlfriend broke up with me via text saying jeff i think its time for a break
she even deleted me off of facebook
magmaman1114 7 months ago
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HAHA ALL YOU DUMBASSES GOT DUMPED CAUSE YOURE UGLY AND STUPID AND THEY DONT LOVE YOU ANYMORE THEY LOVE SOMEONE ELSE. HAHAHAHA YOU GUYS SUCK
bigdaddyx182 8 months ago
@bigdaddyx182 I broke up with him actually. It's still hard.
rennyjc 7 months ago
tell me how to be kinds and nurture my heart what are the rules to that?
softtacos 8 months ago
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KeNuBort 8 months ago
@KeNuBort Actually you can get the marriage annulled if you've been married less than a year - same as a divorce but less time and money.
hichief 7 months ago
@drakeisaguy that happened to me today... Only she didn't say that we were goin to get together again...
laxbrosky10 8 months ago
I got dumbed 3 days after our anniversary and 2 days after prom..he told my fried that he was going to do it. He text me and told me he wanted a break but he still wanted to be friends. After over a year of being together he through it away and asked me if I like someone else. this is how he ended our relationship. Now I have to deal with gorgeous prom pictures that make me want to cry. I'm heart broken and I really don't know what to do. How can we go from being happy one day and over the next?
mybabe531 9 months ago
@mybabe531 Every break up will leave you with unanswered questions. Sometimes we don´t know why we break up since feelings are complex and hard to capture, control or understand. Just pamper yourself right now, make plans for your life and be among people who love you. Everything in life happens for a reason. x
carolinlovecoach 9 months ago
Thank you...I feel horrible because...I left him. My heart told me I had to though, because...I was just holding him back. I...feel so bad...!
WinterRose19 9 months ago
@WinterRose19 I did the same thing today, i didn't want to do it but he was that type of person to have higher expectations; like dream and do. I love him so much and i still do but my love wanted him to be happy.
anitamata29 9 months ago
My first love left me two days ago. I'm young - only 16. I know people are going to judge me but i just want help xx
Twirler1995 10 months ago 12
@Twirler1995 Be grateful for what was, nurture your heart and you will get a long life with plenty of love!
carolinlovecoach 10 months ago
@Twirler1995 I'm also young and just went through a break up :'(
LikeitsDino2010 10 months ago
@Twirler1995 i dont judge you at all. my first love also left me 2 days ago. but now your 1 step closer to "the one"
paulagonzalez973 9 months ago
@Twirler1995
Try Help.com
Sepherocky 2 months ago
@Twirler1995 Im pretty much going through the same as you right now. :( Well me and my girlfriend are on a break but I can tell its going to end. Its horrible and i've never felt so shitty. :(
NiPleHuntEr 1 month ago
@Twirler1995 im 14. and i know what love is. so, your not the only one that thinks that there "too young" to know what "true" love is. i havnt broken up with my gf, but were thinking of it, mainly because its just fights and argumants all the time. we LOVE eachother. but we just end up fighting all the time. :/ </3
MrFireheart132 3 weeks ago
Hi!!! My girlfriend broke up with me 2 days ago but she said we can get back together in 6th gradebut I can't wait and I can't get over her!!!I need her! I have cried every day since!!! What should I do? PS I am in 5th grade...
drakeisaguy 10 months ago
@drakeisaguy
your going to feel like this but you are so young! I went through this at your age, i thought it was the end of the world cuz i needed that one person but as you get older; these will be your experiences and one day you will have that special person and remember the memories.
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katyshalo 11 months ago
my boyfriend broke up with me in the other day, we had been going out for about 4 and a half months... and he broke it off... i couldn't stop crying for about 2 hours... i dont know what to do cos he said he still wants to be friends and he doesn't love me anymore... but i still love him to pieces and cant stop thinking about him... i also get angry and upset whenever i see him now... because i asked if we could work it out as BF/GF but he said no... help?...
WhatKirkSays 11 months ago
@WhatKirkSays I know. I HATE how it's just so easy for guys sometimes. (although I know woman crush hearts as well). I'm scared that i'm pregnant. I feel like a freakin' cleche. Woman and man meet, man expresses deep love to woman, woman falls and has sex, man jets with out a word to go onto the next woman, woman alone and pregnant. I sort of knew it was too good to be true, but I fell for him so hard that all I could think of is his face and being close.
katyshalo 11 months ago
@katyshalo I mean scared that i MIGHT be pregnant.
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katyshalo 11 months ago
Thank you so much..
I really wished I watched this video sooner..
It would've helped so much..
But thank you..
OxJ0ExO 1 year ago
yeah i wish i had time to ask what i did wrong all he said was he texted me sayin i rrl like you but lets be friends rite now. i mean if you dont see an US in the future dont say for rite now. </3
Lovedgirl101 1 year ago
Thanks...
slayerofthenewbz522 1 year ago
Thank you.
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djgfdgsdgsd 1 year ago
what should you do if they break up with you and later you find out they were cheating on you and three weeks later they wont you back?
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nice video. my girl left me for 1.5 years ago. the only thing I think about is her all the time. I Cant get her out of my head.
I think of all the fine things we did, and something that bothers me is that she will meet other guys and that driving me crazy.
I eat depressant tablets now to try to clear my way through this.
have never experienced such pain, my heart will never be whole again. / Crippa Sweden.
crippa1983 1 year ago
i get what your saying, but it feels different when you know that they left you for someone else. how do you cope with that knowing that they found someone better? just makes me feel lost. and it hurts twice as bad
filipin0ryan 1 year ago
@filipin0ryan They don´t find someone better, only someone different. You are perfect.
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago 12
@carolinlovecoach Thanks, but if I'm perfect then why would she leave for someone else????
filipin0ryan 1 year ago
@filipin0ryan Maybe she wasn´t perfect for you, and you not for her at this point in life. It doesn´t change the fact that you are and will be loved.
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
@filipin0ryan i feel your pain man. It hurts like a b**ch. It makes you feel very worthless... (sry to harp on the neg. but i'm going through a relationship that is crumbling very slowly and painfully. ) I thought I was his main "dish", but (on a lighter note) i'm just a side appetizer (not even the happy hour side. The crusty bread pubs give you that's so nasty a dog wouldn't eat it. LOL)
katyshalo 11 months ago
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filipin0ryan 1 year ago
:) nice
you should also emphasize for people not to get a bf/gf soon after a bad break up
it can hurt them even more.
sweethippy67 1 year ago
can you make a video on how to get a bf when hese taken ?? pleas!!!!!! its cuz that happening to me right now :(
singingme4774 1 year ago
@singingme4774 No! I would not support such things. If he is with someone, you go and find Your wonderful man elsewhere. Be your best you, be proud, and that man will come. Good luck :)
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago 2
Is there such thing as love at 16? Is it the same feeling as say...a 20 year old would get? It just makes me wonder, because time and time again teenagers get told they're immature and too young to understand the word LOVE. Is it really much different?
And a question if I may.
What do you do if you've recently broke up with someone but you still want to be friends? And how do I make it clear that I still want to be friends but not go anywhere near the subject of "getting back together again?"
Fakeblad 1 year ago
@Fakeblad Love is so intriguing because there are no true answers, no red and green, no black or white... You just need to follow your gut. :)
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
hmmmm, so many girls talking about their breakups... there all so sad :(
well im a guy who is trying to deal with my breakup, and I guess for the first time i can say that I was in love for the first time. Question, is it normal to feel hopeless for quite some time? And is it silly to bash yourself when you realise that you did nothing wrong?
taffydjsr 1 year ago
@taffydjsr All kind of feelings can come up, that´s ok! Just set a deadline.
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
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888xan 1 year ago
@888xan its only 2 years apart....
CaitlynnLovesToast 1 year ago
@CaitlynnLovesToast hey sorry about this my sister was on my account... OLLIE QUIT IT and i cant believe ur looking at how to get over it. in the words of family guy: write a sad poem in ur journal and move on.
and no thats a lie. shes not 14 shes alot younger and that guy was a pig. CUT THE DRAMA
888xan 1 year ago
@888xan really? how old?
CaitlynnLovesToast 1 year ago
FUCK LOVE!
bigjuiceyms101 1 year ago
@carolinlovecoach Truee we can get blinded by love. I know what concerns them is not just the baby, but the Girl im in love with herself, her personality, her past. And I've she's changed for the good, not just for me but for herself. She tells me that she has dedicated herself and her goals towards me. We recently concluded by sneaking out together until I can be more independant..I trust this girl and I believe she is worth it...
AznJ3oi 1 year ago
@carolinlovecoach My breakup is rather complicated....We broke up because my parents disapproved of us...my Girlfriend's past is not so bright (She has a baby...) but she has really changed as a person, she dedicated herself and her goals entirely towards me...I completely accept her, know that her past is her past and that has changed. My parents forbid me to see her. She doesn't want me to have any problems, or to cause her parents anymore problems. I really love her...Please help.
AznJ3oi 1 year ago
@AznJ3oi I think love will always win but get a sense there is more than the baby that concerns them. Try to listen for a second, are you missing something...? Love can make us blind.
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
@AznJ3oi once you move out or something try again or tell your parents you really love her and that nothing will stop u from seeing her or date behind there backs ive done all 3
PigsWearingHats 1 year ago
y s it that the person who makes u happy also make u the saddest,the one who u trust and respect the most is the one who disappoints and betrays u the worst,y is it that the one person u love,who u will kill r die for the one who kills u themselves??i am a boy and i just cant understand y we do this to ourselves,i know woman have more emotions than boys,but boys have feelings too
DeadlyNinja1702 1 year ago 2
easier said then done
hetnhdf 1 year ago
THANK YOU! I got with the person I turned down for my previous ex, and I couldn't be happier. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, and he even said that when we weren't together. I believe him =] And he loves me for ME. <3 You're an amazing person, I'll recommend you to my friends.
Xirokami 1 year ago
I don't know what to do carolin.after the breakup my boyfriend continues to talk to me and continues to flirt with me.. and i get all these ideas in my head.why is he doing that to me? and what should i do? he says he wants to be friends. but then he goes and he flirts with me.. to me.. at times to me.. he has not been talking to me as a friendand i got a message from his bestfriend the other day wishing that we got back together. i know he talks to his bestfriend. what do i do?
90mariacruz 1 year ago
@90mariacruz Dear, look at the reason why he broke up. What is he scared of...?
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
@carolinlovecoach i broke up because he was too busy partying and there was no time for me. and he got angry and said he agreed and said i was a mean person. but ever since we broke up he always is the one that keeps talking to me. as friends or flirting, why is he doing this? he told me i was a mean person and also wanted this? so why keep in contact... i really just need to move on for myself because i do still love him.
90mariacruz 1 year ago
@90mariacruz We say things when we get hurt... don´t bother about that. Of course he wants you back.
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
i just got broken up with by a guy i loved very much. but he said he only loves me as a friend now. i dont understand. it was just saturday we were fine and happy and he said "i love you". why do guys do that? =[
Xirokami 1 year ago
@Xirokami Oh yeah, don´t we all wish there was an easy answer and that we could just find a rule book that fits everyone... Unfortunately people are more complex and I would say the boy doesn´t really know why he did that either... If you look inside yourself you probably know more than you think. Just focs now on caring for yourself.
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
@carolinlovecoach of course i can care for myself but im so confused. i give the guys i get with love and attention and i listen to them and i be as flexible and understanding as i possibly can. but they still say stuff like, "it's not working out" or "i dont love you the way i did before" things like that. i know for a fact i've got a lot to offer. but nobody seems to see it. i dont know how much longer i can deal with this and im only 17.
Xirokami 1 year ago
@Xirokami Darling, You will fall in love and have a beautiful life!! Who made you think you need to bend and stretch and change yourself to be loved? You will be loved when you are just your gorgeous self - and proud.
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
@carolinlovecoach thank you so much.. i know i am beautiful. i dont need to change at all! =] whatever guy wants me to change for him can suck one. you helped me a lot, thank you. =]
Xirokami 1 year ago
i was dating a girl and we just broke up because...i really wanted to date her but when we finally did i lost all intrest in her...now we are broken up i want to date her again! :(
acdc133 1 year ago
@acdc133 So what is so terrifying in getting what you want. And what is so rewarding with being an underdog, seeking the unattainable?
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
@xRiteOfPassagex Of course it is... but it´s pretty hard to not do it too, unfortunately. It´s better to try than to give up. You´ll manage :)
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
learned my problem i dated a friend not gonna do that again
Sion428 1 year ago
no offence but this made me feel worse i dont see how theres any help in this message me please
supremenovagarr97 1 year ago
@stuartdlc223 Great advice, thanks for sharing!
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
Thanks for this video... im finaly moved on... i owe you a lot thanks...
shadowprince2010 1 year ago
@shadowprince2010 That makes me happy! i bet you are having the time of your life :)
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
I just broke up with my Gf tonight. Ima learn how to deal with it.
Davion1937 1 year ago
i just broke up with my gf. Like juat now we have been going out for 8 months. i phill like crap i havent talked to aney one for a long time i just phill like crap.oh i was in a highschool relationship..she wont talk to me aney more do you have aney tips on what i can do to get her to talk to me as a friend. please massage me back
OBMAable 1 year ago
WTF !!!! me its been 2 1/2 years since i broke up with my ex and i still love her i still miss her i still want to kill myself for her wtf am i supposed to do ???>
MATM2009 1 year ago
@MATM2009 Does she know? You don´t wish to kill yourself - you wish to find and live in true love. Repeat that!!!
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
@MATM2009 omg i feel the same with mine but the thing is i lost it to this girl and my ex bests mate gose out with her so i nw hw u feel
bellyzbad 1 year ago
69flamez69 umm... can i ask you somethin? how many years have you spent wid your partner? jst askin... how many day/ months will it take to move on? because till now im still in pain.
sleepy2206 1 year ago
I just broke up wid my gf, wev been togeder for almost 8 yrs,4 yrs here in the philippines and 4 yrs in the US, shes in USA and im here in asia philipines. shes been cheatin on me for a month, nothin left to do but to end it. its hurts damnit! i wish my pain would go away. ive been crying for a week now and still it hurts. i have no friends becuz of her. im all alone now...
sleepy2206 1 year ago
You are never alone, love is all around you. Go through the pain, forgive her and see what miracles that are meant for you
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
@carolinlovecoach NO, you never forgive a bitch for sucking other dick. NEVER
SuperGilberto1977 1 year ago
@sleepy2206 exactly the same 2 me. :(
69flamez69 1 year ago
my girl and i are not even talking. and she still has feelings for her ex... i have been crying for hours over this.. i don't know what to do...
endscap3 1 year ago
Keep on crying for a while, let yourself. Life is not always fair - at least it feels that way - but your angfels want what is good for you so open your eyes for possibiities and miracles.
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
I told my girlfriend of 8 months that I cheated on her on December 2009. I told her yesterday what happened... I am not sure if we're broken up.. her parents won't even let me talk to her.. I don't know how she feels... I've been crying for hours now and I don't know what to do.. I feel I have a future with her.. but not right now... please help me out?
k0edby22 1 year ago
Oh hun. Write a letter. There was a reason you told her. Why did you? Because you wanted to be honest since you love her so much? Write her a letter describing how you want things to be and how you feel. Relax, what is right will happen. Trust nature
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
Okay, thank you so much !
k0edby22 1 year ago
I got dumped yesterday by my girlfriend of 5 months. I was absolutely in love with her, I've had girlfriends before, but she was my first true love. It's really hard to get through, and your vid helped a bit, just knowing that there were people out there to help. So thanks, and to everyone who just went through a break up, it's one of the toughest things I've ever had to do, but try to keep your heads up as I am doing.
imstoned6 1 year ago
Thank you. You have a great attitude. Thanks for cheering people up
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
My girlfriend just broke up with a few minutes ago. I can't get my mind off of her either. We been together almost a year and I even bought her a ring and a necklace. She says we should just take time, but then when i tell her things she just doesn't care and treat me like shit.
I just feel so dizzy and I don't know how to cope with it.
ZchinoZ94 1 year ago
Sweetie, Let yourself feel a little dizzy, it´s ok... Pamper yourself, spend time with friends now, go out to the water and talk to the angels. Whatever that makes you get it all out. Get it ALL OUT, old negative thoughts can easily get stuck and if you dont throw them away they will start to smell! Be nice to yourself. YOu will heal.
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
I just broke up with my GF.
I know its for the best, and I was mistreated in the relationship.
I just cant keep my mind off her, what can I do?
AGodlyNoObx 2 years ago
Let it take some time. Put a lot of effort in fantasising about the future now. Paint a picture in your head of what you want and why. You want a gf who treats you well. Why did you let yourself fet treated badly, also figure out the answer on that q and life will be lighter.
carolinlovecoach 1 year ago
i've been going out with a boy for around 4 months now~
and on monday he dumped me, and he didnt answer any questions, im usually really happy, and really easy to cheer up, but not even my friends have managed to make me smile,
i loved him, and i knew it was real love!
and now i just feel like part of me is missing, i havnt been able to eat or anything, andthe only way i get to sleep is by actually crying myself to sleep:'(
geegomersallx 2 years ago
Hun it´s only been a few days, be nice to yourself. It´s ok to be sad for a while. It´s natural and normal. Just go through it with grace. You know why he broke up; you have the answer. You don´t need his.
carolinlovecoach 2 years ago
I am going through a rough spot in my relationship...I know it's over, she knows it's over, but it just can't be said...she loves me, but she has feelings for some other guy too, and it hurts too much, and I am not sure what to do, I wanna be with her but I also wanna end it, I love her so much though..and she loves me still I know...if anyone has AN advice or words to speak on the situation...please message me...
XxBaneofdeathxX 2 years ago
Pamper yourself with light and peace. Make sure you have time to sit totally quiet in the nature and make wishes for the future. Breathe slowly, feel you are receiving help.
carolinlovecoach 2 years ago
My gf broke up with me just now. She said it just doesn't feel right dating me anymore. :(
I gave her a valentines gift and everything..
somenooblol24 2 years ago
I am so sorry, hun. Hope she gave you a proper answer so you can understand. We can´t always control other people, especially not with gifts... Let yourself be quiet for a while
carolinlovecoach 2 years ago
my girlfriend broke up with me on Monday because she didnt feel that our relationship was there anymore..like she didnt like me that way which hurt when she told me. Whats worse is that i got a valentines gift for her and now i spent 50 bucks on something i cant give her. I really want her back and i think she misses me too but im afraid to find out. She looks bored/upset when i pass her in the hallway at school so i really dont know anymore.
netram888 2 years ago
:( ngguhgfrderserdfghjkm
princesskimmy421 2 years ago
this didnt work for me and i really wish it did, my boyfriend dumped me about 2 months ago. ive always been the HAPPIEST girl like you wouldnt imagine, constantlyy laughing nonstop it was crazy, then i went out with a boy and really fell in love, i know it was love. he dumped me and i hvnt been able to eat or sleep nd havnt smiled for 2 months. i cry at least 2 times a day. i need help i just dont know what to do. <l3
CaNxYuxDaNcE 2 years ago
well what if she wont answer the questions?? and she says she doesnt know why she just dont know.. its so stupid i wasted 3 years of my life. love sucks
RiseingWithTheFallen 2 years ago 12
Your not alone. I fell in love with a boy and we dated for two years. I still love him. I'll do anything to get him back =X I'm defined as a crazy ex girlfriend!
stephnwi 2 years ago
@RiseingWithTheFallen love sucks indeed man
persini 1 year ago
My boyfriend just dumped me today, and I feel horrible. :( He didn't even say it to my face, he just sent his friend to tell me instead. And this was at school. So all day at school I tried sooooooo hard not to cry. So now im so depressed, and i've been crying all night. This is my first break up, I don't know what to do, and I feel like I never want to eat. I need help::(
Bella~God Bless
xsurfinglovex 2 years ago
my girl friend broke up with me... i freaked... she broke up with me and not even to my face, the next time i saw her i asked her what when and why she dumped me, she started to freak out and it ended up into a huge fight, i know she wasn't worth it but is it good or bad to ask questions after a break up?
mUslcfrEAk 2 years ago
nah.. the same thing happened to me. my girlfriend broke up with me on new years day and she still hasnt told me why. Every time I try to ask she gets mad.(my girl was worth it) =(
America21345 2 years ago
ok my x just dumped me cuz she is confuessd and she still loves me and i love her but i could wait for her for ever but it kills me in side
aspireeripsa 2 years ago
im going through the exactttttttt same thing, its a bad feeling waiting when there is no fact that you'll get back together. :( it sucks
Eric101 2 years ago
@aspireeripsa im going threw the same thing its so hard she means the world to me
2iidejay22 2 years ago
@aspireeripsa same here and there si no reason for it.. my x says she just is blank i dont understand
RiseingWithTheFallen 2 years ago
breakups are always hurtful its hard to breakup but its easy to break down but i think both guys and girls need happiness i think sometimes guys have stupid moments and girls have stupid moments but im pretty sure that all of you people describing your exes, that your exes really did and possibly do still love you or is in love with you ive had lots of relashionships and have been hurt by many guys but i learned to work it out and get ovr it even tho i am recently single- megan, hope i helped =)
cheerhotty5912 2 years ago
Thanks this was very helpful. I favorited and I'll watch it when I'm feeling like I can't deal.
lacievlogs 2 years ago
I hate this , Your super nice , but you don't know how we feel , and you can't understand everyone. Your very sweet , but no,
ilusunshine 2 years ago
me and my ex got 2gether after i just came out of a long term relationship,moved in to a flat,had a kid,good few years 2gether,then she met a guy through work,then she changed,very distant,'post natal depression'we thaught.then a month or so b4 xmas,she left.2 months later,she with the guy she met through work,3 months after that, their engaged.they make my life hell. only see my daughter sunday 2 monday as i work 6 days to support so i dont meet nice girls sucks eh?Rolly/24/Belfast
rolly3D 2 years ago
I need help!!! Is it my fault for not having feeling for my long distance boyfriend...welp the thing is that we been dating for 3yrs and he been gone for a year that i jus lost my feeling for him...does this always happen to long distance couple or isit natural...i'm stressing out over this and i want to let him go but i jus dont know how to say it to him....
lovingmoibabe 2 years ago
Sweet, feelings and love are driven by mysterious forces, and they can´t be controlled like other things in life. They don´t have a remote control... If you don´t have feelings, you don´t. What are you really stressing over? Tell me what you would like now? "I want peace"? "I want to get my feelings back"? "I want him to live closer"? Ask, and you will get. xo Carolin
carolinlovecoach 2 years ago