Black Lesbian UK asks "Are you faking it?"

[bellsummer]

Damn fucking right bitch! Damn fucking right! Love you!!!! From a GAY man. x x x x xXXXXXXX

[MissSabrinaChristine]

For some reason I missed this vid - You totally got to the point - sooooo frustrating. I agree with you RE the things we go through that other people have no idea about. As a femme lesbian I get girls either presuming I like them (please!) OR curious girls who feel, for some reason that I'll be up for some action with them just because they're feminine too...ridiculous. I just let people know straight up that I'm not even mildly interested & then talk about my partner if they still don't get it!

[ACARNELL1]

Wonderful intriguing video and I love your accent  ; )

[demijayne13]

U talk sense, I like u, sending out a good message in an entertaining way! Keep the vids comeing :D

[loversarelunatics]

great video. man i wish it was that easy. i'm 20 years old and it took for i think 15 years to figure this out. battling myself through every stage of my life trying to tell myself im confused and this is a phase. finally im out to some people and it feels great. its ok to be confused but it bugs me when women intentionally deceive lesbians knowing damn well they arent really gay.

[midnull]

Ahahaaa your vids are funny, lol. They're so animated when you do them, it's awesome. :D

[chiquita1962]

Like how you mentioned the fact that a lot of friends say that being a lesbian is 'cool'.

Finally someone speaks it out, that it shouldn't be seen as a lifestyle or whatever, but as a part of who we are. Like you said, how can it be cool??

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

@no1vincy thank you for watching my vids :)

[fall4daeyez]

Very well said :)

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

@fall4daeyez thank you :)

[BabyGirlGoddess]

some girls pretend they are gay for attention.

like they kiss a girl just to entertain some guys...

like that song " i kissed a girl"....hated that song.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

@BabyGirlGoddess very true some people may do that, me too I can't stand that song because of its message

[mzangie36]

Girl I can relate to your story. Thank you so much for sharing. Some girls think from one kiss they are instantly gay. That's so funny.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

@mzangie36 thks for watching and understanding, peace

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

@no1vincy Thank you :-)

[iThinkz]

why do people always hate on bi's? i've known i was by since i was like 5; well, obviously i couldnt understand it but i knew that i liked both. We have it SO hard; st8 people think we're ho's, gay people think we are lyin, and half of all bi's are at least one of those things. Us bisexuals have it SO fuckin hard, and it sucks because its so hard to tell if other bi's are tellin the truth or not. Please dont hate on us; we do exist, and it sucks to be us.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

@iThinkz WHAT R U ON ABOUT?! WHERE in my video am I "hatin" on Bisexuals?! I'm so irritated by people who DO NOT LISTEN!!! LISTEN this video is about heterosexual women who think it's "fashionable" to be Les/Bi when they should explore themselves deeper before claiming so! DON'T come on my video with such ignorance I can't stand it, I do not hate on anyone period do you it makes NO difference to me KMT urgh!

[iThinkz]

@IgnoranceIsNotCute Sorry! I didnt mean you, im addressin all those people who were saying things like "i hate bi's". I should've said that in my other comment. I completely agree with what you were saying, i just got SO pissed lookin at the hater comments. My bad :( Sorry! <3

[iThinkz]

@IgnoranceIsNotCute SOOO sorry! :( :(

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

@iThinkz it's ok apology accepted :)

[CakeLesbian]

hey, your right ignorance is not cute.but anyone that is playing around ,there is no connection. i been through alot too. i couldnt tell why two ladies wanted to attract a man. it should not be to attract somebody else. that shouldnt be in a relationship anyways.

[CakeLesbian]

hey, your right ignorance is not cute.but anyone that is playing around ,there is no connection. i been through alot too. i couldnt tell why two ladies wanted to attract a man. it should not be to attract somebody else. that shouldnt be in a relationship anyways.

[ChainsAndHearts]

Hey girl, I need serious advice on this: I told a few close friends that I was a lesbian but now I'm really confused.

I really fancy girls but there are some guys that I like to think about dating. The thing is that the moment I think about sex with a man my mind sort of naturally "transforms" him into a woman. Am I bisexual? If not could you please tell me what is going on!

Thanks for your videos. They make me feel 100% better.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

@ChainsAndHearts Hi sorry for the delayed response, please email me with this question-ladyfroutube@yahoo.co­.uk, bless :-)

[theskyizfallin]

my comment got zapped. St8 girls don't kiss other women, as you said perhaps she is bi-sexual. There seems 2b some disdain regarding women who r exploring outside of the dictates of society sexual roles. This is inclusive of the gay communitiy re bisexuality, in the u.s. they're called sike a dikes. Not very nice. . A fade is not gonna make a woman lay with another woman in the same way a fad won't make you lay with a man if your a lesbian. This is not meant to be an aggressive comment.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

@theskyizfallin OK I am ANNOYED with people NOT LISTENING!!! DID u watch my video to the end prior to leaving this comment? I clearly said towards the end of it, that possibly one could be bi-curious OR bi-sexual please LISTEN and watch a video in its entirety prior to commenting.

[theskyizfallin]

cont.

don't kiss girls. Perhaps Roxanne's working out her identity, you can be friends w/ a person for years and not know their appetites in bed. In the U.S. there are so many rules to being 'gay' I've heard the term sike a dike in condemnation of bisexual girls as well as many other nasty stereotypes, which is rather ironic coming from a group that knows what it feels like to have their sexuality regarded with disdain by society. What right does anyone have to label anothers sexuality?

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

@theskyizfallin "Roxanne" she is my friend whom I know VERY well...IF YOU'D LISTEN you'd note that I said "Roxanne" claimed to be GAY *NOT* BI when I know she still likes to be sexual with men hence why I CLEARLY said she may be bi-curious LISTEN, for goodness sakes LISTEN!!!

[theskyizfallin]

This is no agressive comment. I think its a thin line between hetero prejudice & gay prejudice. I hate to hear st8 ppl tell a gay person that their confused about their sexuality as well as lesb. telling bi- girls that they're st8. Not saying this is you but as a bisexual this is such a sensitive spot. Every friend I've ever had turned out to be lesbian, however in the begin. they claimed they were bi-, once they were completly out they looked down on my sexually as if it were a fad. St8 girls -

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

@theskyizfallin I'm beyond irritated now with your comments because it seems to me you've jumped on your high horse without actually understanding my video, it seems as though you may have issues with others & r inflicting them on me, well don't! I NEVER said one may be straight I said she's not gay as in HOMOSEXUAL she could very well be bisexual or just curious she enjoys sex/romance with men & it was I that let her know that's ok & she needs to explore herself more b4 claiming any sexuality

[HAPPYNAPPYDIVA1]

Iam a "straight" woman but I have kissed a girl and I fucking loved it! LOL I also have had sex with a girl and I like it but ! I am not gay because of it ! YOU CAN LIKE and have sex with GIRLS AND Not BE GAY! Just be you and be happy with your sexuality! Love live be free and happy! We only have one life.

[KihSkl9]

I love the music in your videos...

[Alipeewee]

I think, tbh, you're being a bit harsh on "roxanne". She might not be gay, but if she kissed a girl and she liked it, can you say she's straight? I wouldn;t think so. Having a long coming-out period filled with hardships isn't what makes you gay. Liking the same sex is what makes you gay, pure and simple.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Thank u for your input Ali, TBH with u I dont think youve listened properly or understood what I said in my video. Roxanne is my friend for 15 yrs I know her VERY well & as stated in my video she MIGHT very well be bi-curious or potentially bi-sexual as she still likes & dates men BUT finds women attractive therefore she is NOT gay as she does not exclusively date her own gender. What I am saying is one needs to take time out to explore themselves b4 saying theyre lesbian, comprende?

[Alipeewee]

Yeah, I get what you're saying, I just got the impression from your video that you were saying she was definitely straight and she was just being stupid. If that's not how it was meant, then fair enough, but it's the way it sounded to me.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

@Alipeewee Watch the video again, the message is more than clear to those that can understand...

[StrawberryWhipcream]

I've never been in a relationship with a girl, but I've always thought I was lesbian. I even said to my mom when I was 8 years old that I thought I was a lesbian... but what do you guys think?

[complexx142]

Oh my goodness! These chicks need to realize that kissing a girl does not make you gay! Honestly some girls like to mess around with whoever, that doesn't mean they are gay or even bi. That bothers me so much. I went through so much stuff coming out and it pisses me off to hear shit like this. I'm glad you told her your experience!

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Thanks for understanding and relating complexx142, bless :-)

[Aboish1981nj]

i think people should be what the hell they are..

like, there are bigger fish to fry, and that is irrelevant.. i can't stand bi's though, but what can you do? nada..

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

hi aboish1981nj I agree people need to be honest and open wih who they are wether they are a heterosexual, bi or gay peace :-)

[678mayhem]

great vid. i hear what your saying.....so many girls try to "beg" being bi/gay simply to get attention or because they believe it to be "cool". which is a joke!!

so good on you for bringing that topic to the forefront....and might i add that your videos are hardcore addictive lol

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

hi 678mayhem thanks for understanding where I coming from and for the love, bless :-)

[Assertive100]

very interesting and very articulate! Great information sharing!

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

thank you assertive100 :-)

[cynmille2000]

I when chick 'PLAY" gay because they are in the moment. I have been in a relationship and I take my love for my girl very seriously. I don't believe in confussed BI chicks. Either you are or not.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

I agree cynmille it's not good when someone pretends to be something they're not as innocent people can get hurt

[TheNubian69]

True True!! x

[LaReinaB]

i think you have a valid point. I see it in the US alot as well.

I'd like to add that you are drop-dead gorgeous. just so you know

[jgar6]

Your friend may not be gay but she definetly not straight. Don't forget people , bisexuality DOES EXIST! Sexuality is'nt black and white.

[SmileNow2]

I agree with your post. Bisexuality definitly exists.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Hi smilenow2, thank you :-)

[selima77]

smh trendy lesbians bad bad bad lol love ur vidz im subbin

[Pretti6oiYung]

this video is so true i'm tired of girls claiming they are gay just because they think its "cool". me personally i don't pay attention to anyone when i'm in public with my girlfriend. i could care less who is watching me.

good video

[ohwowrahtid]

AMEN.

i love wen you talk about the struggle.

go deh gyal!!! woooooiiiiiiiiii

xx

Dejay

[thexgoldenxwolf]

I'm bi and I used to hold my ex gf's hand in public. Bi's get a bad rap, unfortunately. Support to you.

[carnitta2000]

I honestly have never looked around at anybody elses face when im in public and kissing my girlfriend. Im not concerned with looks and already know that if they are looking they probably wanna join. When Im kissing her...thats all i see...her...

[0194D]

or they are disgusted and look away quickly no offense.

[Rokstarrainebow]

r u jamaican?

[carnitta2000]

yeah she said that in the vid

[timabimabear]

Hey love your videos and your accent. You are gorgeous. Keep up the good work

[blueskittle5]

Honey........if i had five dolla for everytim a busta came up to me and told me he was gona turn me out. do u know i'd b up there wit bill gates. but seriously i fully agree with ur words. its disrespectful for females to claim the title of lesbian and in actuality they're really jus comfortable wit explorin thier sexuality. In others words thier straight but freaky as they wanna b.

[timabimabear]

no one chooses oppression or a oppressive way from a none one... Homosexuality is not a choice

[BossLadyLatifah]

I fully understand where you are coming from. I almost lost my sisters and my mother. The media romaticzes it and everyone think that it is a fad. It is an EXTREMELY hard life to live.

[babycloudx]

i totally know what you mean tho, i got some friends like 'roxanne'

dont you think the family that dont know your gay might see this?

[babycloudx]

oh no, your so funny...

got me in stitches =]

[SaranGlover]

You are Hilarious in this Vid. lol

[BlackChynaDoll1990]

you talking about the club candybar?

[thevoodooshop]

what if your friend is really gay but never had the chance to meet other gay women because of her homophobic community and maybe you coming out inspired her.. maybe you should have given her a chance to express herself instead of talking about all the negative sides of being OUT.. thats the last thing you wanna hear if youre coming out to a friend specially a gay friend. but then again i hear what youre saying about fake gay women, i cant fuckin stand it. thats all i meet these days

[estari4life]

Love the content. Love the accent, the face, the hair. Love the earrings. (I'm certain that I have those exact same ones in one of my videos:-) By the way, you're absolutely right, being a lesbian is not a moment or a lifestyle, it's part of our existence.

[coqueta064]

you're fantastic; more people need to watch this.

[simplicity1x1]

i agree, until your ready to shout that your gay from London bridge (metaphorically) your not gay. However,'coming out' is a process that doesn't happen over night but the intention to be - must be there.

[ImagineMeRuling]

Tah me and my friend where just speaken on this subject and u made a great example of that. My friend says she gay then turn aound goes back with her ex... which is a dude. People think it is cool and cute but it not its who they are not a trend.Iam bi iam glad u made this blog like for real.I mean i have friends i went to high school with and they were so against it but now they full on gay....like are u serious u really need a self evaluation...LOL

[ImagineMeRuling]

ok sooooo iam really feeling this, and also soooo true funny thing is that me and my friend were just talking bout this cause i have a friend who is wishy washy cause she always talking bout she gay thennn turn around and goes back with her dude. Iam bi so ill let it be known but i dont think its right how most people think its a trend to be gay/les/whatever or they think its cute and cool like u said especially in Cali.

[Yaziphae]

at 8.49  which jill scott song is that?

[ranti2007]

Slowly Surely, By Jill Scott

[tiarrantracy]

This is so true. I don't understand why certain women think it is cool to do that. I have to go thru a lot being the young Black lesbian that I am. We stuggle all the time and when people come around saying that they are gay or a lesbian just throwing it around like it's a toy it hurts those who really struggle and go thru what we go thru....

[dudeboy5976]

I love your vids. I love your accent. Very funny and good point! What that's song at 1:55? What does bi-curious mean?

[ranti2007]

Roxanne by the Police

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Thanks 1nalawest! Peace :)

[1nalawest]

THAST Was a great blog.. and id date cha

[Whispersoftly2009]

I like to comment on the video "Are you faking it?" For the young lady in the video..your accent is cute..I enjoyed listening to the London/Island accent. You most definitely set your friend straight..until she can stay up to the hatred and comments that the heteros said to us..she not gay..just had a nice azz kiss from a woman...

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Hey whispersoftly2009, thank you for the love and for understanding were I am coming from I appreciate it, peace

[msmarley008]

wow, charming girl, real charisma, beutiful to!, great subject, hope theres more to come, stay safe

peace

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Thanks Msmarley008 for the love blessings to you...peace

[fukitup22]

Digging the subject loving tha accent...Peace lovely

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

thanks fukitup22 for the love bless

[ninalabelle]

i'm a jamaican lesbian too, my mom actually prayed for me to die at church, so ... some people really don't know. they don't understand how cast out we r.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Oh my goodness...Ninalabelle I am sorry to hear that no people do not understand how outcast we can be...thanks for your input, peace

[tastedadulce]

hey fro mama.... girl ur accent is so0o cute! its english mixed w a jamaican accent.. cuteee! lolz but i know where ur comin from w ur friend.. the same situation that happened w ur friend happened to0o mine... i told her i still love her but she aint gay..lolz n in my head im like only if she new ive been confussed for evah but no1 knows.... o0o yea i sent u a message about that.. so0o hope to0o hear from u so0on....

muahz!

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

thanks tastedadulce for the love and happy you can relate bless

[WhatTheWorld]

That was real talk ri thea...Feelin dat Jill playin in tha background...you're beautiful too...Keep it sexy!

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

thanks whattheworld, peace

[laidbaqq]

some folks do jump the gun and think that one kiss changes their sexuality. More goes into being a lesbian than such an experience. & THANK YOU I hate when people refer to homosexuality as a "lifestyle". No one refers to being straight as such, so why is being gay so much different?

But I really left this comment to say I love your voice AND your playlist lol it was on shuffle but I liked all that I heard.

You've probably mentioned this in another vid but at what age did you come out?

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Hey laidbaqq I am happy you understand the point of this video

Yep I love my music lol

I came out "officially" just a few mths ago...

Thanks for watching peace

[Bloodlust5010]

I love that video and the the song too. Very good point!

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Thank you bloodlust5010, peace

[NoDrama1980]

I love the way you tell a story! Plus it's nice to see a UK female repping on here, loving it!

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Thank you nodrama1980...peace

[kizzthegirlz]

i love ur voice..omg..so just reminded me of all the reasons i love woman..lol..but mad girls are fake gay..just to turn on guys..or just cause they wanna "try" something new.like fuckin..part time gay..and people who realli are gay..can invovled wit these girls..and get hurt...

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Thanks for the compliment hun!

I hear you for some women indeed could be just a "fantasy" and for real sadly if a lesbian or bisexual woman gets involved with someone who's just "messing about" for real hearts can get broken!

Thanks for the input...peace x

[ggarrett]

Hey you. you are so cute, i love you accent..

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Thank you so much, peace x

[skittlez0bitch]

thanx for saying all 0f this.....n the scum 0f the earth l00ks u were talking ab0ut.....i actually like when sum1 l00ks at me like that me and my girl friend just l00k at them and laugh.....i have even had a guy l00k at me and my gurlfriend and he was like smiling and winking at us and like shaking his head....i dnt understand y it is such a turn 0n 2 men 2 see 2 w0men 2gether.....well i d0 but then again i dnt......and btw u are beautiful

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

No probs hun!

I like ya attitude...that's right walk with ya head held high!

Peace x

[a7seven]

hey girl,i respect u for making this video telling yur story,but idisagree with the test you gave yur frend,telling her if she cant hold yur hands in public shes not gay.....(not sayin she is!)wen u 1st accept thta yur gay,u dont gain convfidence to be affectionate in public overnite...a woman noz shez a lesbian b4 anyone else doz,i knew frm i was 12yrs old but never came out til 4yrs ago,wen i met my soulmate,and it did take a little time for me 2do the public affection thing,

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Hey thanks for commenting,

I hear were u r coming from BUT you do need to take into consideration that I am referring to my friend who I know very well also I am referring to MY experiences etc...therefore not everything in my vid is going to be applicable to everyone BUT the point of the video is to prompt women who may be legitimately confused about their orientation to think before stating that they are 100% Lesbian...ya input is appreciated though, Peace and love

[nolaprncss]

wow you really put hit the nail on the head, so many people are trying to experiment with the same sex I call it a trend and it's crazy....a lot of people are getting hurt b/c of people being fake.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Thank you glad you can relate and understood were I am coming from...peace and love to you!

[JAEsTAR20]

first off; you are soooo B-U-TIFUL!

i love your accent and how you mix it up wit potois. but yea i feel you on the "knowin when your a lesbian" topic. 5*

[JAEsTAR20]

*patois

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Thank you for the love glad you can appreciate were I'm coming from also thank you for subbing to me, much appreciated! Bless x

[shupianer17]

great!

i'd like to share a cool lesbian online dating at the site of myblacklesbian...com

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

You spammers are so nauseating

[oakjazz]

Thanks for your understanding of the view as regards my discomfort when it concerns men. I know women who really dislike the contrast between the way straight men see lesbians as opposed to the negative view of gay men.

I must say your discourse here is quite interesting, do take care.

[oakjazz]

I must say you're good looking and fully understand why people struggle to believe you're a lesbian(I say that with all due respect).

I must also state that what you're doing here takes tremendous guts.Though I live in England,as a black man,I'm aware of much more awfully taboo this is viewed in certain communities.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Thank you for the compliment and I know you meant it respectfully, this is appreciated!

In ref. to "taboos" I am aware of this hence the reason I am speaking out...not to necessarily tell people how to think/feel towards homosexuals as I can appreciate everyone has their views/opinions and they are entitled to them BUT I hope my videos will educate some to let them know and to show that not all homosexuals conform to their "stereotypes"

Peace and love...

[oakjazz]

On another note,I honestly don't think 2 women holding hands in public elicits reactions of disgust.I think people are used to seeing women generally display affection.Two men doing that would however, I have to admit that I as a straight man wouldn't want to see that. I know what some may think about this view, but I honestly have accepted the fact that people are different, just would rather not see certain things. I know it sounds typically straight male, but 2 women doesn't really bother me.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Firstly thank you for commenting, as you're a heterosexual male your opinion on the subject is appreciated...I hear what you're saying in ref to 2 women being tactile BUT I am referring to kissing and touching in a clearly intimate way were it is obvious that the 2 women are lovers & not just friends!

Also as u stated you'd have an issue with men being tactile; so in the same way many others still have this issue with Lesbians & bi-sexual women too.

Thanks for your input, peace

[oakjazz]

Following from what you stated about your first experience with a woman and the realisations it brought, I guess you're saying that experience wasn't conclusive as regards your sexuality . I say that cause your friend probably felt something similar, but as you rightly pointed out, that may not be conclusive.

[tx22girl2007]

u are so right on the money and can not wait for more and u are so real thanks for been u !!!!

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Aaaahh babe a BIG thank you for the love!

Peace x

[Pocketrocklife]

IINC, You are SO REAL with it! Police's "Roxanne" came on and you just started vibin. loll I FEEL YOU THO. LOVE THE POLICE.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

I couldn't help myself I love that track and many other police songs!

Thanks for watching and commenting, peace x

[meagculkeen]

I am fairly certain that I'm in love with you!

okay okay, maybe I just really like this video and reallylike what you have to say.

peace.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

lol thanks hun x

Peace

[shezzybaybe]

lol haaha i no for a fact its CANDY lmao hahaha i agree with what you sayin then b.. thats so true mannnnnn. with like people innit .. im the girl off sex with mom and dads and i outed myself to every bludclart body and it aint easy man. it aint easy..im gay i said bi on their but bwoi im gay.. i just sed bi cause it be a less blow but rarrr they new i was rar lesbian so yeh man i agree with you man....i fully agree! respect you girl

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Candy really? Still no comment lol

I am happy that you're now out n proud!

I have no issues with a bi-sexual woman but my issue is when she clearly states shes Lesbian but still dates/sleeps with men...

I understand and fully support my bi-sexual peeps but all I ask is that they state that they're bi-sexual just as I state I'm a Lesbian...

Thanks for ya input, peace

[jodiebakesalot]

lol i bet this happened at the Candybar

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Oh my goodness NO comment LMAO!!!

[happyedee]

I love the Police and your videos..

thanks for keeping it honest and real...

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

I hear ya the Police ROCK right lol

Thanks for the encouragement, bless!

[msgirly85]

love the video, u r a beautiful girl and i love your accent. i wish i had one

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Thank you hun, the love is appreciated x

[yeaurhot06]

lol, i luv wen she gets caught up in the music! so me...

anyway definately feeling you on this one girly...

**uk accents are hot as fucc**

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

lol thanks I love my music!

[PureInfatuation]

Seriously, i never watch peoples video blogs, but you intrigued me, i loved it, you make a good point.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

I am glad you understood my point. Thanks for watching and commenting the love is appreciated, thanks x

[rebeckianne7]

I have empathy for your friend. As you pointed out, there are many real socio-cultural consequences for being perceived as non-heterosexual in public. This consequences affect openly Queer folks as much as they do closeted people. Your friend (up until the other night) was at the very "least" a closeted bicurious woman. When finally in a non-threating environment, she acted on those feelings. Rather than scaring her out of the Sisterhood, I hope you will help her consider this transition.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Hi, I see were you're coming from as to whether or not I may have "scared her" away, that was not my aim and she is knows this, she and I have spoken about the situation and the probability of her possible bi-curious sexuality on several occasions since this happened. Excluding my friend-there are still some women who seem to claim to be Lesbian as if for the "wow/shock factor" & these are the women I am referring too.

Thanks for watching/commenting

peace xx

[jalk888]

omg i freaked out about what you said...its so true!!!yes!yes!you speak my heart!

one of my friends i came out to said she wished she was bi,too.damn that pissed me off.i told her what its like and i think that changed her mind a bit.duh.

and i always say im bi.why should i lie about that?!makes no sense to me!

btw youre beautiful and i love,love ,love your accent!love london!

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Hey babe,

I see I'm not the only one experiencing this scenario lol, personally I have no probs with people who admit they're bi-curious that's cool and when you think about it most of the LGBT community start of like that until we realise who we are. My issue is with women who state categorically that they're 100% Lesbian because they feel there's some kinda "wow factor" attached to the title. Anyone who is genuinely bi-curious has my full support. Thanks for commenting, peace xx

[LikeDaLickLiyah]

Beautiful!!

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Thank you :)

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Hey sweety,

Thank you for watching and for the comment, love ya x

[sasriakal456]

dude, can i just say that I love watching your videos. because:

1) you're adorable.

2) your topics are all so well organized. You know what you want to say and don't ramble on and on about pointless stuff. you're on point. and your points are good ones!

3) you're hillarious (your eye-rolling cracked me up!)

so yea. keep making the vids! love them!

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Thank you so much! Ya comment is much appreciated! Even though it wasn't intentional glad I made ya laugh (smile) peace x

[TheKwikKash]

I think with sexuality becoming more liberated in society, people do not have to hide their feelings (aside from those who are not accepting, or they hide it out of shame) and are free to explore them more. This is a blessing and a curse; Blessing because people can be who they are, but a curse because folks may become confused.

Personally, for me, I identify as a heterosexual. I am attracted to women, but I do not dismiss the idea of a man, as I think there is more to someone than looks.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

I hear you, you make a great point! Thanks for watching!

[ChookyLow]

I hear a lil jamaican too, I love it.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

lol I can't help it, thanks hun!

[loveisfree2008]

You make a good point "Gay is NOT a fashion" it is for real!

Thanks great video!

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Wow someone qouting me, that's deep lol thanks for watching!

[Imbracenight]

Much agreed. Well said hun.

[IgnoranceIsNotCute]

Thank u hun!

[sweetbutdaring]

Ditto.