Fetishes seems to be something acquired during childhood. It is an association of objects paired with an emotional deficiency. It is a natural mechanism that can bridge this gap. When the person becomes an adult, the object becomes an erotic desire. This is why some people like to watch you smoking. For others it will be leather, shoes, boots, food or fur to only mention the most common and the most socially accepted. This is something they can't change.
@Rudhumq Hi there, this is the Detrash owner but I'm on a newer account. I just wanted to come in and say thanks for commenting. I'm intrigued by how you said " It is an association of objects paired with an emotional deficiency" and I also read about a disorder recently called HPD. I fit HPD extremely well and wonder if its the cause of some of my.. characteristics.
Its been a while since anyone has said much on this topic. Thanks for making a comment!
And hey, I cant say that any bad boys have turned me on but, in a way I think I can relate since I do prefer "naughty" women. (black hair and dark eyes and clothing helps)
This is the epitome of the "badboy" image. I remember in high school the "badboys" going out back to smoke and it turned me on. To me the rebelious badboy image is MANY TIMES hotter than the squeaky clean image. :)
Anyway, could the same be said for the simple act of eating? Possibly - though as you say i would guess most eating fetishers are gainers/encouragers/feeders and therefore both sides have to participate in that fetish... As for clothing, i reckon if you mentioned a certain brand of jeans or trainers (sneakers) or boots in your tags, you'd get a lot of people subscribing just to see you wearing them... Cheers
hey mate, you got me thinking... i think you might have a point in that smoke fetishists can get turned on by just seeing a good looking guy smoke - and sometimes it is hottest if the smoker has no idea what they are doing is sexy...
It's quite unusual to find someone who has realised what it happening though a few of you have and ask people to send them ciggies!!! cont...
Continued... I now love the taste like u but equally the thought of sharing a cigarette with a guy or doin blow backs with him -mmmmm. Sorry if this freaks u out but just trying to help u understand a little. Strange I know!!! Keep puffin mate - u r hot! Sorry!!! Ur str8 i know - major freak out
Continued...But I dunno I just loved the smell and taste of their smoke wafting round me and that got me started. I was always turned on by guys smokin - guys my age and older guys.
continued... But that aside - u ask what makes it a fetish. I started smokin at 13 and like u i probs started because i loved the look of it, the rebellious look of it. The guys who stood out in my class at school were the lads who smoked - they looked very sexy smokin. I loved how "bad" they were, the fact that they were making a statement about their individulaity from the crwod of non smokers in my class.
Fetishes seems to be something acquired during childhood. It is an association of objects paired with an emotional deficiency. It is a natural mechanism that can bridge this gap. When the person becomes an adult, the object becomes an erotic desire. This is why some people like to watch you smoking. For others it will be leather, shoes, boots, food or fur to only mention the most common and the most socially accepted. This is something they can't change.
Rudhumq 1 year ago
@Rudhumq Hi there, this is the Detrash owner but I'm on a newer account. I just wanted to come in and say thanks for commenting. I'm intrigued by how you said " It is an association of objects paired with an emotional deficiency" and I also read about a disorder recently called HPD. I fit HPD extremely well and wonder if its the cause of some of my.. characteristics.
Epixtome 1 year ago
you seem like a cool, open dude. Thanks for the vid, and your attitude, man!
DaCoach68 3 years ago
yeah, I think I am going to suscribe. I want to see you eat ham and mushrooms.
stellabelle 3 years ago
I know I'm late on to your game, but... most interesting video of the week.
Most blatantly, no... watching you eat would not interest us smoke freaks a bit. Not our thing, bro... jeez...
though hopefully, you picked up oodles of... food freaks from this. Gotta admire your ability to bang around outside the box.
I'm gonna subscribe you, cuz you're smart. It'll be interesting, perusing your vids since, to see whether you got over condescending to your fans.
Diving into your stuff...
mrkiii 3 years ago
interesting...
malehuman2 3 years ago
I think smoking is VERY sexy but the smell afterwards negates the benefit. BTW ... you're a great looking dude.
ghrpdx 3 years ago
wtf r u smoking???
UranusPlanter 3 years ago
UranusPlanter (1 year ago)
Mushroom cigarettes, one presumes!
cheers.
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del-boy
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Call1800POO 2 years ago
sweet
blubbs 4 years ago
Just watch "snapsmoke"s videos and you'll see why smoking guys are sexy. I don't care if you're gay or straight, he is hot.
designx86 5 years ago
check out the videos of guys who have fetishes for other guys with beer bellies. Just search beer bellies :P
beachbumde 5 years ago
Its been a while since anyone has said much on this topic. Thanks for making a comment!
And hey, I cant say that any bad boys have turned me on but, in a way I think I can relate since I do prefer "naughty" women. (black hair and dark eyes and clothing helps)
Detrash 5 years ago
This is the epitome of the "badboy" image. I remember in high school the "badboys" going out back to smoke and it turned me on. To me the rebelious badboy image is MANY TIMES hotter than the squeaky clean image. :)
Mikeyboy609 5 years ago
...cont
Anyway, could the same be said for the simple act of eating? Possibly - though as you say i would guess most eating fetishers are gainers/encouragers/feeders and therefore both sides have to participate in that fetish... As for clothing, i reckon if you mentioned a certain brand of jeans or trainers (sneakers) or boots in your tags, you'd get a lot of people subscribing just to see you wearing them... Cheers
smokemate 5 years ago
hey mate, you got me thinking... i think you might have a point in that smoke fetishists can get turned on by just seeing a good looking guy smoke - and sometimes it is hottest if the smoker has no idea what they are doing is sexy...
It's quite unusual to find someone who has realised what it happening though a few of you have and ask people to send them ciggies!!! cont...
smokemate 5 years ago
Blah blah blah blah blah... Chris stop smoking lol it turns me off lmfao!! I hate it when u smoke :( lol
Bye bye
xmivillex 5 years ago
Continued... I now love the taste like u but equally the thought of sharing a cigarette with a guy or doin blow backs with him -mmmmm. Sorry if this freaks u out but just trying to help u understand a little. Strange I know!!! Keep puffin mate - u r hot! Sorry!!! Ur str8 i know - major freak out
fegsmoke 5 years ago
Continued...But I dunno I just loved the smell and taste of their smoke wafting round me and that got me started. I was always turned on by guys smokin - guys my age and older guys.
fegsmoke 5 years ago
continued... But that aside - u ask what makes it a fetish. I started smokin at 13 and like u i probs started because i loved the look of it, the rebellious look of it. The guys who stood out in my class at school were the lads who smoked - they looked very sexy smokin. I loved how "bad" they were, the fact that they were making a statement about their individulaity from the crwod of non smokers in my class.
fegsmoke 5 years ago
I think its a good question - why fetish over smokin?
I am a gay smoke fetisher and yes i think ur very cute smokin.
fegsmoke 5 years ago
I really enjoy watching you smoke. Nothing turns me on more than the sight of a good looking guy smoking.
illinoisguy 5 years ago