Lifes Lessons "Pressure"

[jujibear711]

Great Video. Lovely song :)

[oliverblain]

get a hair cut

[BlahBethanyBlah]

i didnt even realise how much pressure i am under until this video nearly made me cry :L then again, am ridiculously emotional atm. really enjoyed this video, made me feel like i wasnt the only one that is/was struggling with something like this x

[PLElectric]

This is the most stupid video I have seen for a long time. Thumbs down

[beatlegirl456]

pretty goos vid =] and yes, that is a good example for pressure.

[MiuMisakiMizukiFurry]

i found this video soothing as i have mock exams in coming december and then im off to college interviews same time (in Dec) still got a HEAP of college interviews to get threw in 2011, but im just going to be myself and cope till the end, coz thats when i think "wow i didnt even think it would be that easy."

thanks so much for tumbling over my youtube account and inboxing me :) u deffinately deserve my subscription! *subscribes* <3

[aliceKate94]

I'm doing my GCSE's this year and im kind of shitting myself i must admit :/

[charliejaniee]

awh i know how you feel D: -huggle- i just talk to a friend about it he's a great help :) :o yeah pressure has got to much for me before and i did some stupid things :s

.... what's the song playing in the backround? i love it ^_^ xxx

[TitsandTom]

@charliejaniee was a sweet disposition cover by ellie goulding

[gambamarcela]

In my work, there is always pressure. We always need to hit our daily quota. Before I go to work, I can already feel the pressure. But, I don't mind it anymore when I've watched the movie, PEACEFUL WARRIOR. I was inspired by that movie when we had our film viewing in the office. You might like it as well. Socrates was featured there. It's really helpful. :)

[officialnhu]

seriously, your accent is so cutee (:

[TitsandTom]

@officialnhu aww thanks :)

[MiuMisakiMizukiFurry]

@officialnhu me agrees x

[twigstarox94]

I read a book to get away from my exams.

My parents pressure me heaps too. I just ignore them now. Which pees them off more.

But I don't care.

[TitsandTom]

@twigstarox94 you should try flowers for algenon one of my favourite books ever

[ThePatriotNurse]

You express yourself very well :D

[TitsandTom]

@ThePatriotNurse thanks so much, I think sometimes I rush my words but Im trying to work on that

[Weronica100]

I like your accent;]

[TitsandTom]

@Weronica100 aww thanks

[madjoygirl]

Ah, wow. That was really helpful thanks. (:

I've been under a bunch of pressure because I have loads of school work and a speaking test on Tuesday for my French class, but this helped A LOT! So thank you. (:

I think it's time to go take a nap and get some much needed sleep.

[TitsandTom]

@madjoygirl no worries im trying my best to help :) you enjoy that ha

[gossipqueen679]

first of all you do not need a hair cut i love it lol

2nd love the vid and yh im doing my GCSE this year and have an exam monday maths so alot of pressure on me predicted an A but they want me to try an A* impossible for me

3rd i dont know how i deal with all the worry and pressure usually jus have to cope x

[TitsandTom]

@gossipqueen679 Ah well the things is all you can do is try your best so dont get too worked up over GCSE's

[ElizabethxPete]

Wow great video. It really got me thinking.

Well, I feel pressure sometimes, because I really want to do well in school, and in my life in general.

[TitsandTom]

@ElizabethxPete thanks so much :) means a lot

[Kimmeeeeh]

@TitsandTom I always waste time! In fact, right now I should really be doing some homework D:

[TitsandTom]

@Kimmeeeeh haha get on with it then silly :P

[Kimmeeeeh]

@TitsandTom Pressure always gets too much for me, I always end up breaking down at the weekends, cause I either try too hard or don't try enough. How do you find the balance between work and free time? Because I can never get it right xx

[TitsandTom]

@Kimmeeeeh i never balance it right! ive got a play and exams at the moment but I waste time on youtube and at the gym :(

[JennyTheJellyTot]

What were your results? X

[TitsandTom]

@JennyTheJellyTot 10 A*'s

[JennyTheJellyTot]

@TitsandTom Wow, Im fucked :)

[TitsandTom]

@JennyTheJellyTot nah itll be fine

[Zombiematrix]

i couldn't stop looking at that flicky up bit in your hair all throughout the video <3

[TitsandTom]

@Zombiematrix im starting a new trend, the hair flick

[XSweetLightsX]

Awwh!

This video just made me feel quite good :D

I'm doing my Gcse's right now. & I'm finding them really hard :/

But this videos quite comforting, hehe :') thank goodness you mentioned this subject in particular ^.^

[TitsandTom]

@XSweetLightsX ahhh gse's seem tough but as long as you do as much work as possible its all good :)

[meshello76]

Kudos! I think its a great topic! Pressure is something we all face and sadly it can get the better of us. My pressure builds up around the holiday time...I want it all to be "perfect" but I've come to realize it doesn't have to be my perfect. It can just be pleasant and fun toi be with family with out a huge arguement exploding. I think you saaid it perfect though....great job!

[TitsandTom]

@meshello76 thank so much, i tried to make as much as sense as possible :) I have the same thing not just with holidays, I always think its going to be absolutely amazing but sometimes you have to be content with just an average holiday and realise thats fine, if that make sense ha

[xticklesmilex]

Awesome topic. Love it!

[TitsandTom]

@xticklesmilex thanks so much :)

[Emily7up]

i usually feel pressure to do good in everthing i do. and to just relax i play the piano :) ive been playing it as long as i can remember and i just love it =)

[TitsandTom]

@Emily7up wow thats so coolm what grade are you?

[XgeoXluvsXcatsx]

You Really DONT Need A Haircut!! :D It Looks Great!!!!!

I Feel Pressure Most Days, I Live In Italy And Go To And Italian School, But Im English. I Feel Really Under Pressure With My Homework! I Have 3 Hours After School To Do My Homework But Sometimes My Teacher Has To Miss A Lesson And Then It All Just Goes Wrong!

I Normally Deal With Pressure By Listening To Music :) And (Of Course) Watching Youtube! xxxxxxx

[TitsandTom]

@XgeoXluvsXcatsx ouch, do you speak fluent italian then? Youtube does do a great job at releaving stress ha

[XgeoXluvsXcatsx]

@TitsandTom I Guess I Am Fluent... But Also Really Shy About Speaking So That Really Doesnt Help...

Andd Yepp, Youtube Is The Bestttt!!!!! x

[TitsandTom]

@XgeoXluvsXcatsx haha still atleast you can speak it fluently!

[lovemeloveyouxx]

is your hair blonde or brown?

[TitsandTom]

@lovemeloveyouxx i dunno it sort of changes colour with the light

[liurbekanopa]

You DO NOT need a haircut.

[TitsandTom]

@liurbekanopa haha are you sure :P

[liurbekanopa]

@TitsandTom Yeah, I am sure. It's why we have hair. We need to let them grow. Ban haircuts!!

[TitsandTom]

@liurbekanopa video idea :P 

[Aaroneousify]

Pressure really does put the pressure on. But your right the pressure is on conforming to peoples expectations and ideals. Great video. Glad I've finally found your channel.

[TitsandTom]

@Aaroneousify glad you found my channel as well ha

[Aaroneousify]

@TitsandTom Glad glad I found your channel as well haha. =) Until next time au revoir.

[TitsandTom]

@Aaroneousify au revoir mon ami

[alexis2394]

I feel a lot of pressure to do well in school not just from others but I put the pressure on myself too. I spend so much time on homework and studying. The way I deal with it is Youtube. It takes my mind off school and lets me focus on your guys' lives and relax, so thank you for making a video to relieve my stress :]

[TitsandTom]

@alexis2394 your welcome, glad it de stressed you!

[AjAnxiouS]

I've found the ONLY way to make pressures of school family life and friends is t just get it over with, like hmwk not that I ever do it once I get it done I feel like a 1000 pound weight has just been lifted, BUT if friends of mine are pressuring me to do something like Drugs or Smoke, I stick to my gut feeling, of I don't care if they think I'm uncool I'm not going to because I don't want to. and personally I think everyone should live by that.

[TitsandTom]

@AjAnxiouS I couldnt agree more there always has to be a certain amount of pressure in your life like I said but you cant let it get too intense!

[AjAnxiouS]

@TitsandTom this video is like 3 weeks late for me... haha I'm so far behind in 2 of my class's I might fail... :P BUT I'm working on getting it done!

[TitsandTom]

@AjAnxiouS what do you mean it was late?

[AjAnxiouS]

@TitsandTom haha I don't really know anymore... you see I'm really silly and say random things... and I think the first sentence was one of those really random moments for me.... :P

[TitsandTom]

@AjAnxiouS fair play :P

[AjAnxiouS]

@TitsandTom I think my brain is turning to mush from playing to many video games :P

[popparoc46]

you have a bit of a Donald Trump haircut going on there! Not that there is anything wrong with that... There no excitement or drive in life without a little bit of stress, but you have to roll with the punches sometimes.

You give good advice! - roc

[TitsandTom]

@popparoc46 thanks i try my best :)

[TitsandTom]

@Paint2104 thats how i usually handle things too :)

[GerardWayRocksMySoks]

i'm in the middle of ny gcse's - i have a maths modular exam this tuesday :(

i have so much stress, i cry myself to sleep every night.

life sucks balls atm :3

[TitsandTom]

@GerardWayRocksMySoks ah things always look up after awhile :) good luck with maths

[andrsdtz]

nice one Titus

[TitsandTom]

@andrsdtz thanks

[misticalbezza]

i very much enjoy watching your video's titus.

[TitsandTom]

@misticalbezza cheers :)

[SinfulFangbanger]

I am out of school, and I have a rather good job. Yet for me, pressure is more internal. Being an only child, I want to make my parents happy by any means. Even if it means living a lie. I hate that everyday I am surrounded by homophobes and bigots, being the Gay American that I am. With all of the "laws" against gay marriage, its hard to live without being pressured. I hate that there are hundreds of documented gay suicides because of all this pressure. But I am here to help anyone who wants it

[TitsandTom]

@SinfulFangbanger hmmm i saw they didnt pass gay marriage laws somewhere in america. Pretty shameful in 2010 there are still people who dislike the gay community. se la vie though

[SinfulFangbanger]

@TitsandTom It has passed in some states. Sadly where I live, they put it in the State Constitution that marriage is between a man and a woman.

[TitsandTom]

@SinfulFangbanger is there no way thatll ever change?

[SinfulFangbanger]

@TitsandTom Very very slim chance. I don't want to live in this state for much longer. I would actually rather move out of this country all together.

[TitsandTom]

@SinfulFangbanger ah well good luck to you whatever happens

[spaztastic90210]

who's cover of Sweet Disposition is that playing in the background?

and reading, dancing, or writing about it helps usually :)

[TitsandTom]

@spaztastic90210 ellie gouldings its so awesome :) ill put it in the description

[spaztastic90210]

@TitsandTom

thanks ^_^

[TitsandTom]

@spaztastic90210 no worries :)

[doctorwhogirl2]

i love you <3 and even u failed the exams i still would :)

[TitsandTom]

@doctorwhogirl2 haha thanks :)

[JessyIsTheBestis]

Sometimes when you have that much pressure on you its your friends, music and hobbies that keep you sane. Sometimes you just have to slow it down and just forget.

[TitsandTom]

@JessyIsTheBestis ive defintaely learnt that now

[ILoveBlairAndElle]

i agree. My prelims are in like 2 weeks and excuse my french but i am shitting myself.

you have calmed me. Thanks love you <3

xxxxxxxxxx

[TitsandTom]

@ILoveBlairAndElle Im glad you're feeling better then :)

xxxxxxx

[spookyxSophie]

Thanx for your replay... I guess you are right... Thumps up and as always I really love ur videos

[TitsandTom]

@spookyxSophie thanks so much means a lot

[AlicePictureAlicee]

1) The hair on the top of your head was annoying me through the whole video :D And 2) Well i have to say Titus that i'm feeling a lot of pressure right now (as you know) Bloody Exams :( Why do we have to do them, they just stress me out to the point where i think "i cant be asked to do this anymore" Oh well... It'll all be over soon. Love xxxxx

[TitsandTom]

@AlicePictureAlicee pffh deal with it thats my new style the annoying flick. im sure youll do fine everyone feels a bit of pressure :) xxxxx

[flyhalf1213]

essay due in two days, and i dont have any idea what to write

[TitsandTom]

@PenguinKissesx your welcome :)

[StephayLuvsMilk]

I'm feeling pressure from exams :( I feel like if I don't get good grades, my family will be disapointed because I'm not as smart as my other siblings :( Your video cheered me up .. You sir, are amazing xx

[TitsandTom]

@StephayLuvsMilk im sure youll do well :) you called me sir yey

[TheCookieMonster75]

yes most pressure is school because I'll do my school leaving exam in 2012 (I'm living in germany so it's different from the uk ;)) and we have to collect points from now on so... every exam that i'm writing is relevant for my school leaving exam...

buut...there's ONE big problem: i'm just a lazy person and everytime I say to myself "you have to learn." but... i end up playing or the computer or doing something else.. and that's just.. argh XDD i hate myself for that :D

[TitsandTom]

@TheCookieMonster75 haha i do the same every time i sit down to revise i end up watching the mentalist

[TheCookieMonster75]

@TitsandTom exactly :D (btw...i just love the mentalist XD great show XD)

[TitsandTom]

@TheCookieMonster75 patrick jane is my life ha

[TheCookieMonster75]

@TitsandTom yes mine too XD

[Leakovlancaster]

I have pressure to get straight A's and A*'s in my maths and physics modules...and french assessment next week.Unfortunately my way of coping with is to not think about it until like a week before when I frrantically panic and revise like a maniac :)

[TitsandTom]

@Leakovlancaster eek good luck :) ive got mocks soon so worried as well

[Leakovlancaster]

@TitsandTom thanks ,good luck :)

[xBumbleBea24]

Your hair looks like a giant furry tornado surrouding your head.

No offense, just sayin.

It's a pretty cool furry tornado, though. <3

And I have a lot of pressure in sports. Like, in track & field. Everyone wants me to beat the record and win every race. D:

[TitsandTom]

@xBumbleBea24 i wish from the bottom of my heart there was a way to change my username to giantfurrytornado.

[Chocohall]

Pressure to keep up a 4.0 grade point average. I have to study a lot. A lot a lot. (Although I do enjoy my science class.) I guess to relieve stress I play random music on my violin. I envy guitarists.

[TitsandTom]

@Chocohall i envy violoinists, one of my favourite instruments

[JustJessicaOx]

When I feel to much pressure I tend to just give up, I tell myself it's just not worth this amount of stress, I did that with my GCSE art, I was predicted A* - A and I only got a C because my teacher cheated for me. Yet she put way to much pressure on us, saying to get even a C we had to do about 50 pieces of work in 6 weeks, and I'm the worst perfectionist when it comes to artwork, so I was spending 6 weeks on one drawing. Xx

[TitsandTom]

@JustJessicaOx Hmmm i used to do that when things got too much and it took me awhile to not do that anymore and start trying to relax

[TitsandTom]

@PenguinKissesx im sure you can do well :)

[SuperLilyGaga27]

Deep

[TitsandTom]

@SuperLilyGaga27 cheers

[KasandraKAP]

@jowenht true that! I agree with you hole heartedly.

[KasandraKAP]

I feel pressure when I am around my friends...I want to make everyone happy and sometimes that makes me sacrafise my own happyness. When I can't make everyone happy I feel a huge amount of dissapointment, and it makes me feel well pressured to do things that frankly aren't my bag of tricks. (If you'll excuse the expression.)

[jowenht]

@KasandraKAP you don't have to make everyone happy, just be yourself, do what you wanna do,and be honest to everyone. sometimes, you just can't pleased someone, but that's not your problem if you r being real with them!

[TitsandTom]

@jowenht totally agree

[TitsandTom]

@KasandraKAP i think a lot of people feel like that as well, there is alwaus pressure to fit in

[porcpine1]

i have my evams next week

[TitsandTom]

@porcpine1 good luck :)

[porcpine1]

@TitsandTom cheers

[spookyxSophie]

Well do u know what is like when the whole class glares at you...¬¬ it's horrible and I don't really liek to be noticed so... awkward situation for me

[TitsandTom]

@spookyxSophie no i get ya, but id try and concentrate on your own work and not worry about other people :)

[spookyxSophie]

Hi again!! :D (sorry for my wierdness I'm just tired so I become a happy person) I feel pressure when I have to do an exam and the whole class is hoping for me to help. It's stressful, plus I just exist for them when they need help ¬¬

[TitsandTom]

@spookyxSophie why do you have to help them? i would feel so stressed if i had to help everyone else with their work

[vH3L3N4v]

i feel pressure when shopping: i get really stressed choosing which item to buy. to relieve this pressure i simply buy both items and let my credit card take the strain. sorted.

love your videos as usual x

[TitsandTom]

@vH3L3N4v sounds like a very good way of relieving stress ha, so glad you like them :)

[FreckleFaceYAYY]

I watch films(:

[TitsandTom]

@FreckleFaceYAYY i do that too, that or go to the gym

[yellownudge]

And I couldn't stop looking at the bit of hair sticking straight up in the air for the whole video. :L

[TitsandTom]

@yellownudge u definately need a hair cut :P

[TitsandTom]

@yellownudge sorry *I definately need a hair cut woops

[MZB1993]

GCSE's are nothing, try bloody A2's

...not to scare you :P

To relieve pressure, I go for a run. It calms me down.

[TitsandTom]

@MZB1993 haha cheers, im not finding as levels too brilliant atm

[yellownudge]

During exam time mainly, especially the year when I needed grades for uni. I'm not sure how I dealt with it, I think I'd watch something like a film for a bit and then go back to revising. Yeah, pressure got too much when I got my results not last summer but the summer before when I got a C in two of my subjects because I'm used to doing really well so I thought I wasn't going to get into uni with those grades and spent the whole morning crying.

[TitsandTom]

@yellownudge but you got into uni so its all good :) id probably do the same though I get so worried about marks and things