Locker Room Confessions (QV-13)

[RENITAHART]

I failed gym for not changing with the other kids



[Super1bigboy]

Well I'm straight but this is really sad and I'm not judging because I'm not but is homosexual is going to hell or heaven no offense

[multiracial17]

I can really relate to this video. When I was 11 and 12 that's when I started having sexual feelings and attraction towards the same gender. I would stair at guy while they changed or get an erection when I was saw boys but at that point in my life I was unaware of my sexuality.

[Borntoamaze]

Well for me in middle-high school a long time ago i actually got caught with an erection, my whole row saw my junk and im a slims dude so the amount of fear i had was great i didnt want to get verbal or even physically abused but i usually avert attention by leaning my body into the locker and stare inside my locker so to prevent that i wore longer shirts to cover me up in the case that ever happen But as the years went by i was able to control my hormones yes it was a rather difficult times

[divad1mc]

i was very shy about changing and showering in gym as well, partly because i was over-wieght and worried about getting "excited" to be there.. however; the gym teacher would allow me not to participate in the sports and do various activities for him(like a t.a.) and so i wouldn't have to shower or change...now it's not a big deal, but for young children it can be detrimental to their mental and emotional health

[ppmintpatti]

I cheer and have been for 8 years now. I discovered a side of my sexuality when I entered college- the worst. And if you dont know, us cheerleaders get very close. ALOT of physical contact, ALOT of revealing clothing. I till this day am very conscious of the jokes I make and the way I touch my teammates, especially those few that would the type of females I'm attracted to. So, for me it is a daily struggle to control my almost instinctual urges and to not develop crushes on my teammates.

[BeeTheGayBarbie]

I'm 15 now so it was last year that i was in middle skool nd i went to a mostly black one at tht, nyway no one ever took showers cuz dey all were unconfortable nd I never felt any kind of way gettin undressed at all in the locker room. I was and still am flamboyant nd i feel that me being very "vocal" and unafraid kinda made people not say much if not anything to me so i had a great time in gym actually there were a lot of gay-ish things goin on especially wit da "jocks and popular" cute boys ;)

[BeeTheGayBarbie]

I wish a bitch would try to rip anything on me off...i'd molly whop they ass so damn quick i swear!!

[famemonsterXD]

your teeth are so nice!

[UniqueNei]

@famemonsterXD Yes! His smile is beautiful. Beautiful eyes too.

[doomheartotter]

well that was a toughy.i avoided taken showers and got it straight at home and had towl constantly around my waist or somthing to cover up.still do but am trying to get over it,im first in and first out sorta changer

[kiddhj00]

I definitely had to deal with this. I think my middle school years is when it became worse. I would try to be the first person in the locker room so I could change quickly and not have to watch or be watched in the locker room.

[Themusic021]

I'm 15 and I am a freshmen in high school

I have always hated gym I'm finally done with it

in 6th grade I never changed cause I'm so ugly and 7th grade I did the same and all the teachers and kids wud say to me is ur so dumb Michael just change wats so hard? But of course all of them had nice bodies and were very confident in who they are. While I still don't know but I don't think kids should have to change in gym it is pointless as long as they do the activity leave them be :)

[alittleweird69]

lol locker rooms is so middle and high school,im able to deal now but everynow and then my eyes tend to wonder and i cannot resist...boyz are fine as hell! lmao

[MrMakemewet]

t the locker room thing is why i never really persuded sports...i secretly told myself when i was younger that i be damned to shower with other dudes and whats so funn is that in gym coaches and peers saw that i had so much natural athletic ability.w hen ever put would ask why i wasn't envolved in sports i would get defensive and ask why cant i be intellectual can't i just be a smart black boy...and whats a trip is that i've been using that one since i was in early elementry

[RideauxR]

ooo shit i've had a girl voice since forever and all the boys clowned me and YES my clothes were my safty blanket. I liked some pe sports but hell all that running were hard on my man boobs lol.

[prettyflynik]

can i just say i hated gym and i failed gym from 10th- 12th and was in jeopardy of not graduating so in 12th grad i had 3 gym classes one was gym in class where i did paper work 2nd was regular gym with the gym and the 3rd i had to take a class at the local community college in order to get the credit for gym.. thats how much i hated gym i refuse to change my clothes becuase i was comfortable and the lockers were rusty and dirty and i refuse to put my nice clothes in there!

[cnorthrop11]

I used to wear my gym clothes under my clothes so that I didn't have to change around the other boys. There was a guy in 8th grade who used to try and make me uncomfortable and call me gay, but it's funny because a few months ago he sent me one of those "hey whats up.." messages on facebook trying to have a get me to hookup with him... I think lockerrooms are uncomfortable for all kids at first, but ESPECIALLY ones that are questioning their sexuality because of the fear of being 'found out'.

[lilsamson2004]

wen i was in middle school i wore mi gym clothes under mi school clothes until i met (at that tyme) mi bestfriend...because we had gym at the same tyme i was able to feel comfortable because while changin we usually jus talked until we were dressed...i really didnt notice everyone else...do you think he liked me back then...lol

[highu3]

it is hard, that's why I change clothes in our bathroom in the locker room.

[ThePrideReport01]

How times have changed from generation to generation. Same struggles, but different levels of sexual awareness. Changing clothes no problem, but to shower was not done by me. I rather be funky til I reach home. I am still not about to shower at the gym to public for me. I will wait!

[tennislover08]

Yeah Xem i always had problems in a locker room because I had body issues just as the young man you were speaking of. But this is a great topic something that seems off the wall but it's really not at all

[word2BigBirdxD]

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[DonnieTroya]

Most of the guys in my school are ugly so I was fine. =)

[MsVanni22]

in all honesty this is the FIRST time i see someone talk about this issue, i myself can relate, i was always a bit heavy set in my middle school days so when we had to change, u hit it right on the money where a girl subconsciencely compares her body to everyone elses, i totally DISAGREE on the fact that students HAVE to be put in that enviornment, insecurities are greatly expected that age and the fact that kids get in trouble for it is ridiculous.thank u so much for this,after this vid,i subed

[simplyshun]

When i started taking gym, i was horrified. i was terrified of getting a "boner" in the locker room. I was not comfortable changing in there. So later i learned how to either be first or last in changing. i was already experiencing what teenage boys experience.

[rath19]

I understand. When I had gym in middle school, we didn't have to change and i was sooo relieved we didnt have to change our clothes. But when i was in my last year of high school(the next time I had gym) we had to change into our school shirt and shorts. I used to wear the shorts UNDER my clothes and I hated that the shorts were not baggy style because compared to the others who got extra larger sizes, I felt like my shorts were small. Now i wear them to bed these days. lol

[NewOrLeaNzbaby03]

My post was too long so I sent it in a message... great topic.

[101Truelife]

I never dress out lol i just failed P.E XD

[mandingo782]

In middle school I was uncomfortable being around the other boys bcuz that's when my gay thoughts began to emerge, and like you, i felt everyone knew what i was thinking about. Highschool was better, but my dick was considerably larger than most the other guys in the locker room and i knew most noticed. I was usually able to maintain Erectile composure, but I had to run out one time bcuz a guy I thought was cute was lathering up and I couldla swore he was noticing me notice, in a good way lol

[mrtaurus09]

i always hated gym class for the same reason you hated it..having to change out of my clothes so i never really did it lol...i would get dressed but i would not take my clothes completely off. i was glad that our school never made us take showers cuz i couldnt do that. i wish i could say the same about the gay slurs that u said but i went through being called fag and sissy by peers and family members.

[wordjunkiee]

Ahh 7th grade gym class. I knew I had some homosexual feelings when I met this 8th grade boy named Ricky Davis. I never really got erect or anything in the locker room nor was I ever picked on....but I knew something wasn't right because I thought that boy was FINE! I'm 19 years old now and I recently saw him in the mall a few months ago, he STILL looks good haha!

[HypnotiqEnt08]

i felt the same waay at one time. being a dancers helped cause we all had to get dressed in the same area regardless if you were a guy or girl.

[missmaritza91]

gay guys are always the hottest.

[okloverboy]

It was definitely awkward for me (attending gym). Many times I would have to direct my attention elsewhere or try to think of things that wouldn't arouse me. Whenever I go to my school's gym now (college) I go in and out of the locker-room quickly. I never shower at the gym. At times it can be really difficult to be an exposing environment.

[akwaqs]

At my Jr. High school in D.C. boys would get erect in the open shower room all the time. No one ever said anything about it at all. My friend told me at Catholic school the boys showered in gauze garments so as not to show to much skin.

[Damnyou1985]

well it happened to me when i went to camp...her name was ambrosia back then they said she was gay and i was still tryna play straight but she came in the shower where i was and flashed me and i was just like in awe i was quiet so nobody noticed me when i watched her and stuff lol

[ranger1906]

You have the voice of a preacher! *smile* Good word though!

[stillgrow]

Yes I can relate, but I hated gym & loved it at the same time, I loved it because I knew I would be in a physically revealing situation around boys who many I thought were cute, but I also hated it because it made me very self conscious of my atrraction to other males, who were taught to be for the most part homophobic by society. One time I did get hard in pool class, mind u I'm not small down there, & a str8 boy saw & freaked out!

[DiAcorea]

I can definitely related. In hindsight, I realize that I was always extremely subconscious about my sexuality during throughout my adolescence, and even though I wasn't fully cognizant of it (the sexuality) @ the time, I knew that seeing the other boys was quite arousing. It was terribly frightening for me, and I tried, as much as possible, to get into the locker room, dress, and get out before the other guys would file in. Needless to say, gym was my worst class...LOL

[lambyloveslion]

dressing out was always an issue i would actually go into the bathroom stall and dress out there! lol

[freakinfamouss]

and i read some of the other comments and thank god nuthin like that happens at any of the schools ive gone to but yeah i feel the same way u do...and i was uncomfortable changing in and out of my clothes for some unknown reason to this day

[freakinfamouss]

i feel the same way....now that im in high school at the age of 15 and having delt with this many times its not as bad....but i remember in middle school around the 7th grade when i began to have feelings toward other boys i would feel very uncomfortable in locker rooms because i found some of the boys attractive and would get aroused but the fear of getting caught snapped me right out of that lol..

[csupernature]

I was very uncomfortable,  i had a coach that was a pervert he would stand in the shower room and personally hand everyone towels. If you didn't get in the shower you go to the office. I just changed quickly and covered everything. In school they need more private stalls.

[dariusd2003]

Lol I thought I was the only one paranoid about gym class. I was glad I went to a school with a magnet program. Would rather take band than gym any day.

[cruzianjumbee]

OMG, I went through the same thing. My freshman yr in high school I was scared to take Gym.

[ferre77]

I liked gym in elementary school but middle and high school I sat out a lot and failed it but I didn't care. My gym teacher in 9th grade was handsome though I used to flirt with him..lol

[MakeLoveNoBabiez]

I LOVED gym because i got to see HOT boys take it OFFF in the locker room. JESUS!....I still get turned on these days. I GO to LIFETIME fitness and i see Naked HOT BUFF guys walking around butt Naked changing and stuff! That raises my blood pressure and gives me an excuse to lounge around for an hour in the locker room......I use to tuck my penis in between my thighs to prevent anyone from seeing my erection lol.....AHHH those days and those hormones! life is crazy!

[ucns]

I can remember in the 5th grade I started taking band...and this went on til high school at which time we could take gym or band so (not that I loved being in the band) to avoid going to gym I remained in the band through all off my school years...this is really sad now that I look back on it...I had no idea of my sexual feelings back then it was just the fear of removing my clothes in from of others....rich

[variableoflife]

the only problem i had in gym was my gym coach... i swear he hated me cause i was fat... and every day he had something smart ass to say...

[jnhotboy]

with me it wasn't dressing out I was afraid of being picked on by the other boys for being a fim or like they said a complete sissy,I wasn't really hiding that I was gay either come to think of it

[ststud2003]

Xem, I love your videos. I can relate. When i was younger, I had to change out for gym and it was degrading. My school was similar to yours, everyone would have gym together. When i was in 9th grade, the older boys had this thing they would do to the freshmen. They would yell meat meat show your meat and they would grab a freshmen, strip him naked and try to make him hard. I was terrified.Thank God for my older brother.He kept this from happening to me but some friends were not lucky!

[bat232000]

i was the opposite im i enjoyed undressing in front of other people and showing my good!

[FkYoCoUcHx3]

As a student in highschool having to change out among other male students I dont get axcited because I have such a fear of being attacked for being a homosexual especially with the many threats I am given daily Ive alsomoved to the girls locker room to feel more comfortable but in doing so I have gotten in trouble But Dressing out should be a choice given by the student or atleast give the child a note to bring to ones parent to sign that excludes them from dressing out

xoxo KOUTURE

[marvinfan04]

Ironic..Im watching the news now and I just saw a young man getting jump in the locker room for being gay..ugh..wow..nice post Xem as a lesbian and going through the same thing in jr high i understand how that could be such an awkward feeling and or situation

[MrKITCHENTALK]

Hell I'm big as hell and gym was my favorite class lol. and the locker room was nothing i don't know maybe it had something to do with you being the only child Xem. I mean everybody had to take a joke or to. but now that I think about it there were some cats that always went to the conor lockers and if them lockers were taken they would not dress.

[DominicanBlackBoi]

I couldn't stand it!! i skipped gym and failed the class, i still can't stand undressing front of men or displaying my body like that. I think schools should not allow them to undress in front of others.

[mm0616]

great vid!!!!!

[whiskeyknight40]

xem i under stand what you are saying yeah I was called faggot however I was took the abuse comments and was 20 yrs ago

[norlack89]

yea locker rooms arent that "hot" like sexy naked men yes, but scared of getting caught not so much.

thank god we didnt take showers in high school!

very interesting vid.

[Xone7]

I usually had no problem changing in front of others but those who do should have the option of changing in private.

[aronbrown1]

i use to go to the back of the locker room ro change cus i didnt want any1 to see me looking at them r nething--although they didnt know about me i normally waited r walked to change my clothes---but i got so use to all of them that i overcame that fear of changing infront of others boys!

[RavenDailyTV]

Ummm yeah, i do sometimes suck in my stomach in gym (not that im obese but i do hav a lil stomach) and like romeo said the biggest issue for me wasnt changing (altho i hav had sum close calls) it was more im not the sports type of person, i dont really do good w/ masculine sports even till this day im a sr now but i dont take the actual activity class in gym i take weight lifting b/c theres no real competition or w/e. and ive tooken that all 4 yrs of high skool

[boobear121668]

I hated P.E.! Being overweight i caught hell in those years and were glad when they were over!! I actually hated P.E. because i was raped in the locker room! yes by 4 male students! so after that 8th grade year i hated P.E. even more! A lot of things go on in the locker room that the teachers don't pay attention too! I actually failed P.E. one year because i hated dressing out in the locker room! but back in those days it was either dress out or fail no compromising at all! That was 20 yrs ago

[blacksglpower]

I hated gym class coming up especially after I came out in High School

[rockboot45]

yes, im going threw that right now. im in the 9th grade,and i cant stand my 4th period which is PE and Health..and when we have PE , are coach(teacher) makes us change intoo are PE clothes...its soo stupid.and my grade is stuffer alittle because of that.But now its alittle better Because of the fact that he's leting me be able to change after the other guys have changed in the locker room.because of be being the only gay male in that class.(im guessing thats the reason why)

[TheToKyoShow1]

you are not the only gay male there.... believe me

[hotworkagain]

amen,beautiful,

[Kanikamc]

In the 7th grade, I was uncomfortable when I had to change my clothes in the locker room for gym class because a lot of girls compared their bodies to one another. Girls, including myself, would hold their stomach in to appear to have a flat stomach only to prevent getting teased and taunted. But, I didnt care about it while in high school because most of the girls would jokingly show their fat to one another and laugh about it.

[DonDada615]

I was a big, husky boy, so there were times when I would not dress-out for gym; and other times I would wear my gym clothes underneath my casual clothes and then take them off after gym. I was cool with everyone in a social way, but when it came to the locker room, I just wanted to get in and get out and go to my next class. My attraction for other males started around 7th grade...but that didn't negatively impact my experiences in gym or pledging a frat in college. It was more so my weight...

[DonDada615]

@DonDada615 I guess I should be more clear... Xem, I think I had an experience that was opposite of yours. At that time, I was subconscious because of my body, but the mental stuff didn't really phase me. I could be around many dudes and at the same time not feel uncomfortable just because I think some of them are attractive. I kept it under wraps, and I still do to this day. Yep, another closet-case.

[romeo8868]

i never had a problem with changing in front of others. i was never worried that i would get erect because i was so worried that i would get hard lol. my fear was always the fact that i would get picked on because i didnt kno how to play basketball or football or any type of really masculine sport that a teenage boy should know how to play. i actually took the punk way out and just didnt go to gym class but lookin back on it i wish i did because it wopuld have made things alot easier.

[itsjohnira]

@romeo, I agree. It was the same for me.