made me cry :( same story ... I'm 36 I manage to get pregnant three times,each time lost them, three miscarriages :( don't understand why this happens ... but will not lose my faith .. don't give up :) is hard but is not impossible to achieve, I know there is a little angel in heaven for each one of us struggling ,keep your faith.
I'm so sorry to hear about all of your troubles. It's not a good thing to have in common but I feel better knowing I'm not alone. My heart breaks for you all and myself! It's not something you'd think of as being so painful until it happens to you. May we all have luck and be fruitful someday=[.
Me too...my husband and I have been trying for 5 years. And it hurts so bad when people say "When the time is right, it will happen. Thought I was the only one doomed to hear that repeatedly. I'm not honest about it AT ALL. I am so ashamed I just tell everybody I don't want children for fear of being pitied, because people who don't have any trouble usually act like that. You are so brave and I truly admire you for sharing your pain. It's an inspiration to me!
Going on 7 years now for us..It;s heard. I am 29. IT hurts so bad and too see someone with a baby or pregnant hurts even worse..we dont have the money to go to the dr either. I am praying for you.
I used to hate hearing each of my friends tell me they were pregnant even though it made me feel like an awful person... I used to be so angry about people getting pregnant who were in a situation that was not ideal for babies... I used to cry over every single BFN. My husband and I made an appt to see a fertility doctor on April 1 of this year and found out on April 5 that we were actually pregnant... All I know is that it was a miracle. I hope you get your miracle soon. xo
I used to hate hearing each of my friends tell me they were pregnant even though it made me feel like an awful person... I used to be so angry about people getting pregnant who were in a situation that was not ideal for babies... I used to cry over every single BFN. My husband and I made an appt to see a fertility doctor on April 1 of this year and found out on April 5 that we were actually pregnant... All I know is that it was a miracle. I hope you get your miracle soon. xo
Oh honey I have been in the same shoes with you for the past 14 years. I did end up pregnant but had my son at 23 weeks. Sadly he didn't make it. After that I sat down and thought about things. Did I really want to carry a baby or be a mother? I really wanted to be a mother. Five years after my son passed away god answered my prayers with my son. We adopted him from Russia. I can tell you the love is no different! He is my son and I am his mother.
You told my story through this video... we have been trying for 9 years... we have to use IVF but we just can't afford it :( just doesn't seem fair that teenagers can have babies and people that don't want children can have them, but those of us that cry ourselves to sleep because we want a child to hold and love... we can't.... Thank you for make this video
8 years of trying...No one can tell me why its not working..All my friends and family have children but not me..I just want to have one maybe one day!
I am crying. Because you just told my story. 4 years we tried. Tried to get pregnant, and tried not to question God's authority. Some days it was so hard. In the end, after all the heartbreak (and money) it came down to hubby's blood pressure meds. Don't give up. You will make awesome parents, with so much love! Praying for your miracle. :)
Hi thanks for the video ugh I know that pain we have been trying 15yrs...though there is some light we are now 100 % on RAW live food and its improving our health. Im 36 so hopefully it will happen like yours xxx blessing
I made a video of me lip singing this song.. Your video made me cry. Me and my husband have been trying for over 8 years.. I'm soon to be 34, and I ask the very same questions you do. "When is it our turn?" "Why do people who kill their kids or abort, get to have kids, yet we dont?" "I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND" My heart is breaking for you and your husband, just as it does for mine. I wish you lots of luck honey.. *HUG*s
I'm considering not marrying the love of my life because I have a condition that severely compromises fertility. If I can't bear him children, what good am I? I love children but I can't have any. All my drug addicted female family members can bear children but I cannot and I have never done drugs.
Your clip choked me up in tears I understand what you`re going through we`ve been trying for 11 years & I just hit 40 so you know I`m a lil desperaten my biological clock is ticking. 2 days ago I finish my clomid pills and hoping for the best. Mamita please don`t lose hope & pray, I wish you the best & you`ll always be in my prayers God bless!
Thats the saddest thing ive seen in a while... It bought me to tears. Its people like you and your husband who deserve more than anything to bring a child into the world to love and care for for life... Then there are the other parents who take their children for grnated and treat them badly, do not care about them. I hope so much that you fall pregnant soon...
i got pregnant first try and i am pushing 40! i guess i should feel lucky after hearing your story, unfortunately my baby is without a dad as we are not together. i hope your miracle will happen for you, you deserve it!
Your video made me cry. I am going through that too. My husband and I for over 4 years now. Everyone around me is preganat. I would rub their tummy if it would work. It is a heartache when you want it so bad and it doesn't matter what we do as it is not in our control.
What a beautiful video and such a fitting song to go with it.
I was TTC for 7 years and had 2 IVF treatments and i was lucky enough to blessed with twins, for that i am truly greatful. I totally understand the pain you are going through. Even though i now have my babies the pain of infertility never goes away. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.
Hey, i wish you the best in your journey !, i have been ttc for 3 years, we have a miscarriage about 2 years ago, and now i am currently taking Clomid... Good luck and may god bless you with a healthy baby!!
I am feeling so much of what you are feeling right now.....I don't understand why we haven't been blessed with a child yet when we have everything to provide a good life for one. My husband is great, but this has tested our marriage. I'm scheduled for further testing in August and all I can do is pray that everything turns out alright. God bless you and never give up....
thank you for posting this video all of my female family members have children it hurts when someone tells me they are pregnant.They all tell me dont worry your time will come well so far nothing i have had two miscarriages and every time some one says that to me i just want to scream!And to make matters worse my husband has 3 children from previous relationships the two youngest we are raising im lucky there but he doesn't understand that i want my own do you have any advice on how to deal it?
Hanna611 you are pretty much an idiot! Even thin people have PCOS and yes I eat fruits and vegetables and I have NEVER eaten an entire cake...it is none of your business if an overweight person wants a child who are you to say they won't be wonderful parents!!!
You guys are a BEAUTIFUL couple and deserve the baby you long for. Stay strong and keep trying! That is what my Husband and I have had to do. I hasn't been easy. I think it is very brave to put together a video and share it with the world, I commend you for that. Good luck and God Bless!
Hanna611 perhaps you have never has a weight problem!!! As the mother of twins and obese woman that comment was rude and very uncalled for! Just a thought for you---no child deserves to have ignorant parents!!!
YOU ARE A NASTY, PERSON. Do you not have one one ounce of sympathy in your blood? This is a beautiful couple going through hell on earth, and you should be ashamed of yourself! I am 5ft7in tall& 125lbs and have not had a baby in 5 years. My sister has PCOS and endo and has been successful! TWIN BOYS, they are beautiful and healthy, and their parents are fighting being overweight. It is people who judge others from the outside that have the biggest problem. God help you.
I don't know whether you actually really know what you are talking about. Ever heard of a condition called PCOS? PCO? Makes it extremely hard to lose weight, makes it hard to concieve. That is so insensitive what you have put there. Have you had to struggle to have a child? I believe that if you have had to struggle you would not be coming out with retarded comments like that, you fool.
I'm so sorry that you are going through this, my husband & I are going through the same thing. I just found out this weekend that my bestfriend is expecting, along with everyone else i know. It is so hard fighting back the tears when they talk about the negatives during their pregnancy. Thank you for posting this, and please let me know when your waiting is over & you have your little bundle of joy in your arms!
i cried whil watching your video. i know exactly how you feel. im from kuwait and i have been trying for two years with no luck. it hurts... its hurst so much. you are not alone. i will be praying for you
u r so rite...me n my husband have problems having @ least a baby...i kno God will send me 1...im just gettin anxious n excited about it....i wana start shopping n gettin the crib n bottles n takin pix every mnth as my beely grows.....well hopefully i'll get a baby
i know exactly what youre going through, I am from romania and me and my husband have the same problem, we have been trying to conceive for almost 2 yrs now and nothing. there are a lot of wemwn around me who are having abortions and I ask myself whi is it that some people are so blessed and commit such horible chrimes? i will never be happy untill I hold my baby in my arms.
i am so sorry you are going throught this.. i too am experiencing infertilty. I have PCOS and when i watched your video.. i cried. I do hope in the future, you can experience being a mom. I will be praying for you and all else who is experiencing infertility.
Good luck to you both. Trying almost the same amount of time as you guys and it is hard going. Have PCOS and 1 blocked tube. Been on clomid for almost a year. Not sure where we go from here but I know we have to stay strong. To everyone-STAY STRONG
I know of one woman who couldnt concieve, she tried since she was married and one day at the age of 40 she got pregnant. we dont know what god will have in store for us. But I hope one day you will be given a baby.Dont give up, look at all options and keep going.
My husband and I have been going through similar problems- we have conceived 3 times- twice on our own and once with clomid- all 3 ended in m/c- it is difficult to see the number of children that are abused or abandoned- all we want is one- is that really too much to hope for- your video is very touching- I will keep you in my thoughts that one day you get your miracle- hang in there, it is a long hard road, but remember you are not alone.
Me and my husband are going through the same. we'll pray for you guys as well. i kept playing your video over and over that song is beautiful who sings it?
tears ran through my face while watching this video. I understand, my husband and i are going through the same situation( I was also diagnosed with PCOS) i know we are not to question God but sometime you cant help it. I pray everyday for a miracle. Hope your dream comes true.
letting you know i know how you feel! jeff and i have been ttc for 10 yrs. My prayers with you guys and you do the same for us. Good luck and God bless you guys !
this is a nice video, I know how hard it is not to question God, I am in the same shoes as you but I have been trying for 5 years now due to pcos, I really hope you and everyone else be bless including myself, just don't give up and keep faith, the Lord sees and hears all things, he no our hearts desire, he's just creating a child that suits are every needI wish you all the best for 2008 and I hope you get your heart desire May God Bless.
I believe in God too so I am not questioning your faith, but it might help you to consider whether it is God that causes people to conceive a child. I know people have thought this a long time, but I think the facts suggest that he is letting us borrow this power but not dictating its use or guaranteeing we won't have problems.
made me cry :( same story ... I'm 36 I manage to get pregnant three times,each time lost them, three miscarriages :( don't understand why this happens ... but will not lose my faith .. don't give up :) is hard but is not impossible to achieve, I know there is a little angel in heaven for each one of us struggling ,keep your faith.
chrome9mm 10 months ago
I'm so sorry to hear about all of your troubles. It's not a good thing to have in common but I feel better knowing I'm not alone. My heart breaks for you all and myself! It's not something you'd think of as being so painful until it happens to you. May we all have luck and be fruitful someday=[.
DNA2831 11 months ago
Me too...my husband and I have been trying for 5 years. And it hurts so bad when people say "When the time is right, it will happen. Thought I was the only one doomed to hear that repeatedly. I'm not honest about it AT ALL. I am so ashamed I just tell everybody I don't want children for fear of being pitied, because people who don't have any trouble usually act like that. You are so brave and I truly admire you for sharing your pain. It's an inspiration to me!
DNA2831 11 months ago
Going on 7 years now for us..It;s heard. I am 29. IT hurts so bad and too see someone with a baby or pregnant hurts even worse..we dont have the money to go to the dr either. I am praying for you.
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Your video made me cry. because I am going through the same. I wish u all the luck and God Bless U!
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I used to hate hearing each of my friends tell me they were pregnant even though it made me feel like an awful person... I used to be so angry about people getting pregnant who were in a situation that was not ideal for babies... I used to cry over every single BFN. My husband and I made an appt to see a fertility doctor on April 1 of this year and found out on April 5 that we were actually pregnant... All I know is that it was a miracle. I hope you get your miracle soon. xo
babyvlog 1 year ago
I used to hate hearing each of my friends tell me they were pregnant even though it made me feel like an awful person... I used to be so angry about people getting pregnant who were in a situation that was not ideal for babies... I used to cry over every single BFN. My husband and I made an appt to see a fertility doctor on April 1 of this year and found out on April 5 that we were actually pregnant... All I know is that it was a miracle. I hope you get your miracle soon. xo
babyvlog 1 year ago
Oh honey I have been in the same shoes with you for the past 14 years. I did end up pregnant but had my son at 23 weeks. Sadly he didn't make it. After that I sat down and thought about things. Did I really want to carry a baby or be a mother? I really wanted to be a mother. Five years after my son passed away god answered my prayers with my son. We adopted him from Russia. I can tell you the love is no different! He is my son and I am his mother.
jmcpeak1 1 year ago
I heart you... your video touched my heart, we have been trying for a year.
qkgirl 1 year ago
You told my story through this video... we have been trying for 9 years... we have to use IVF but we just can't afford it :( just doesn't seem fair that teenagers can have babies and people that don't want children can have them, but those of us that cry ourselves to sleep because we want a child to hold and love... we can't.... Thank you for make this video
IamKatoes 2 years ago
8 years of trying...No one can tell me why its not working..All my friends and family have children but not me..I just want to have one maybe one day!
carolina5628 2 years ago
you are in my prayers!
LYDISANC21 2 years ago
I am crying. Because you just told my story. 4 years we tried. Tried to get pregnant, and tried not to question God's authority. Some days it was so hard. In the end, after all the heartbreak (and money) it came down to hubby's blood pressure meds. Don't give up. You will make awesome parents, with so much love! Praying for your miracle. :)
katyjoan 2 years ago
You posted this on my 18th birthday.
I think there is a special child that you're supposed to have at a special time. It will happen. Have you tried IVF?
Vampyer66 2 years ago
Hi thanks for the video ugh I know that pain we have been trying 15yrs...though there is some light we are now 100 % on RAW live food and its improving our health. Im 36 so hopefully it will happen like yours xxx blessing
Tynx 3 years ago
I made a video of me lip singing this song.. Your video made me cry. Me and my husband have been trying for over 8 years.. I'm soon to be 34, and I ask the very same questions you do. "When is it our turn?" "Why do people who kill their kids or abort, get to have kids, yet we dont?" "I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND" My heart is breaking for you and your husband, just as it does for mine. I wish you lots of luck honey.. *HUG*s
MsMaggs 3 years ago 2
we are on 2 1/2 years right now. No answers and about to start an IUI. I used to want 6 kids, now I just hope to have one.
hazeldream1984 3 years ago 2
I'm considering not marrying the love of my life because I have a condition that severely compromises fertility. If I can't bear him children, what good am I? I love children but I can't have any. All my drug addicted female family members can bear children but I cannot and I have never done drugs.
GamingQueen88 3 years ago
Your clip choked me up in tears I understand what you`re going through we`ve been trying for 11 years & I just hit 40 so you know I`m a lil desperaten my biological clock is ticking. 2 days ago I finish my clomid pills and hoping for the best. Mamita please don`t lose hope & pray, I wish you the best & you`ll always be in my prayers God bless!
beba0447 3 years ago 4
Thats the saddest thing ive seen in a while... It bought me to tears. Its people like you and your husband who deserve more than anything to bring a child into the world to love and care for for life... Then there are the other parents who take their children for grnated and treat them badly, do not care about them. I hope so much that you fall pregnant soon...
dueaug132007 3 years ago
I am so in tears .. I've been trying for 5 yrs now .. The pain of our broken heart shall never be understood ...
Mohd3612 3 years ago
i got pregnant first try and i am pushing 40! i guess i should feel lucky after hearing your story, unfortunately my baby is without a dad as we are not together. i hope your miracle will happen for you, you deserve it!
hellsbells36 3 years ago
This video also made me cry, its always the people that would make the best parents that have trouble conceiving!
xXsophieboXx 3 years ago 2
Your video made me cry. I am going through that too. My husband and I for over 4 years now. Everyone around me is preganat. I would rub their tummy if it would work. It is a heartache when you want it so bad and it doesn't matter what we do as it is not in our control.
likecards 3 years ago 3
What a beautiful video and such a fitting song to go with it.
I was TTC for 7 years and had 2 IVF treatments and i was lucky enough to blessed with twins, for that i am truly greatful. I totally understand the pain you are going through. Even though i now have my babies the pain of infertility never goes away. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.
Much love
Lou
xxx
TwinMummy1979 3 years ago
Hey, i wish you the best in your journey !, i have been ttc for 3 years, we have a miscarriage about 2 years ago, and now i am currently taking Clomid... Good luck and may god bless you with a healthy baby!!
Raelsteph 3 years ago
Life is unfair.
LittleAlecrim 3 years ago
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life is so unfair
leb12345leb 3 years ago
i take that comment back
wat ever
life is life
i guess its meant to be this way
im meant to be alone
leb12345leb 3 years ago
I am feeling so much of what you are feeling right now.....I don't understand why we haven't been blessed with a child yet when we have everything to provide a good life for one. My husband is great, but this has tested our marriage. I'm scheduled for further testing in August and all I can do is pray that everything turns out alright. God bless you and never give up....
mechanic717 3 years ago
thank you for posting this video all of my female family members have children it hurts when someone tells me they are pregnant.They all tell me dont worry your time will come well so far nothing i have had two miscarriages and every time some one says that to me i just want to scream!And to make matters worse my husband has 3 children from previous relationships the two youngest we are raising im lucky there but he doesn't understand that i want my own do you have any advice on how to deal it?
kimanim77 3 years ago
wow..very nice. u guys are ambassadors in many ways. have faith god test who he loves most. be strong my friends
yourspotlight 3 years ago 2
Hanna611 you are pretty much an idiot! Even thin people have PCOS and yes I eat fruits and vegetables and I have NEVER eaten an entire cake...it is none of your business if an overweight person wants a child who are you to say they won't be wonderful parents!!!
shera1970 3 years ago 2
My previous comment was for that Hanna611.
You guys are a BEAUTIFUL couple and deserve the baby you long for. Stay strong and keep trying! That is what my Husband and I have had to do. I hasn't been easy. I think it is very brave to put together a video and share it with the world, I commend you for that. Good luck and God Bless!
elsiemaye 3 years ago
Hanna611 perhaps you have never has a weight problem!!! As the mother of twins and obese woman that comment was rude and very uncalled for! Just a thought for you---no child deserves to have ignorant parents!!!
shera1970 3 years ago
YOU ARE A NASTY, PERSON. Do you not have one one ounce of sympathy in your blood? This is a beautiful couple going through hell on earth, and you should be ashamed of yourself! I am 5ft7in tall& 125lbs and have not had a baby in 5 years. My sister has PCOS and endo and has been successful! TWIN BOYS, they are beautiful and healthy, and their parents are fighting being overweight. It is people who judge others from the outside that have the biggest problem. God help you.
elsiemaye 3 years ago 2
I don't know whether you actually really know what you are talking about. Ever heard of a condition called PCOS? PCO? Makes it extremely hard to lose weight, makes it hard to concieve. That is so insensitive what you have put there. Have you had to struggle to have a child? I believe that if you have had to struggle you would not be coming out with retarded comments like that, you fool.
PurpleLuci 3 years ago
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GOD PLEASE HELP ME!!!
MsCoCoCrispy 3 years ago
I'm so sorry that you are going through this, my husband & I are going through the same thing. I just found out this weekend that my bestfriend is expecting, along with everyone else i know. It is so hard fighting back the tears when they talk about the negatives during their pregnancy. Thank you for posting this, and please let me know when your waiting is over & you have your little bundle of joy in your arms!
firefighterswife23 3 years ago
i cried whil watching your video. i know exactly how you feel. im from kuwait and i have been trying for two years with no luck. it hurts... its hurst so much. you are not alone. i will be praying for you
baby dust to all may god be always with you
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3meow 3 years ago
u r so rite...me n my husband have problems having @ least a baby...i kno God will send me 1...im just gettin anxious n excited about it....i wana start shopping n gettin the crib n bottles n takin pix every mnth as my beely grows.....well hopefully i'll get a baby
scorpio11684 3 years ago
i know exactly what youre going through, I am from romania and me and my husband have the same problem, we have been trying to conceive for almost 2 yrs now and nothing. there are a lot of wemwn around me who are having abortions and I ask myself whi is it that some people are so blessed and commit such horible chrimes? i will never be happy untill I hold my baby in my arms.
krokodil7043 3 years ago
i am so sorry you are going throught this.. i too am experiencing infertilty. I have PCOS and when i watched your video.. i cried. I do hope in the future, you can experience being a mom. I will be praying for you and all else who is experiencing infertility.
Love,
MEg
boo8ball 3 years ago
Good luck to you both. Trying almost the same amount of time as you guys and it is hard going. Have PCOS and 1 blocked tube. Been on clomid for almost a year. Not sure where we go from here but I know we have to stay strong. To everyone-STAY STRONG
xtrict 4 years ago
I am in the exact same position as you are right now! My husband and I want a baby more than anything. God Bless you!!!!
missnicole97801 4 years ago
I really hope that your dream of having a child comes true. You both seem like you will make wonderful parents.
Marleygirl1987 4 years ago
I know of one woman who couldnt concieve, she tried since she was married and one day at the age of 40 she got pregnant. we dont know what god will have in store for us. But I hope one day you will be given a baby.Dont give up, look at all options and keep going.
mbiling 4 years ago
My husband and I have been going through similar problems- we have conceived 3 times- twice on our own and once with clomid- all 3 ended in m/c- it is difficult to see the number of children that are abused or abandoned- all we want is one- is that really too much to hope for- your video is very touching- I will keep you in my thoughts that one day you get your miracle- hang in there, it is a long hard road, but remember you are not alone.
prkygth 4 years ago
Me and my husband are going through the same. we'll pray for you guys as well. i kept playing your video over and over that song is beautiful who sings it?
flacabella12 4 years ago
tears ran through my face while watching this video. I understand, my husband and i are going through the same situation( I was also diagnosed with PCOS) i know we are not to question God but sometime you cant help it. I pray everyday for a miracle. Hope your dream comes true.
perladelsur1981 4 years ago
I pray you get your miracle
dorme99 4 years ago
letting you know i know how you feel! jeff and i have been ttc for 10 yrs. My prayers with you guys and you do the same for us. Good luck and God bless you guys !
jmphill 4 years ago
this is a nice video, I know how hard it is not to question God, I am in the same shoes as you but I have been trying for 5 years now due to pcos, I really hope you and everyone else be bless including myself, just don't give up and keep faith, the Lord sees and hears all things, he no our hearts desire, he's just creating a child that suits are every needI wish you all the best for 2008 and I hope you get your heart desire May God Bless.
keysf 4 years ago
I believe in God too so I am not questioning your faith, but it might help you to consider whether it is God that causes people to conceive a child. I know people have thought this a long time, but I think the facts suggest that he is letting us borrow this power but not dictating its use or guaranteeing we won't have problems.
morganspice 4 years ago