Dear Buck, this teacher at school gives everyone the creeps. He's got a ruler thats used to go up skirts. He is 70ish and his wife works at our school and she's great. He runs with the mid skl track during their pe. He tickles/grabs ppl in our grade and we tell the other teachers and they tell us to be quiet like we're kidding. He told me and my friend that were his favorite students & I don't evn have him in class. People say the private school won't fire him because of his wife.. Any advice?
And so I'm not giving false hope, it is the ABSOLUTE truth that everything will be okay in the end and if its not okay its not the end. AND that there is light at the end of the tunnel... and its not another train:) so. stay strong! I don't think I've ever known who I am as a person as much as now. And honey... TALK TO ME WHENEVER YOU NEED SOMEONE. i have legit been through like EVERY situation.
I'm 13 ill be 14 in a month and my parent's divorce has lasted a year now so I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND. all i have to say is that you are really super lucky to be with the parent that you want. I went through a really bad time this past year and I know thats not assuring at all but right now but hopefully that I am sitting where I want to be with the people that I love is. And I'm very upfront.
@Kaduffy94 A lot of people (including me) find tall girls very hot.. but it's the way you conduct yourself, you have to at least appear confident about ur looks. and join volleyball and I guarantee u will love life
I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm 6'6" tall, and larger, I often walk down the sidewalk being called Sasquatch or being made fun of for my size. I try to put a smile on my face and say that I'm used to it, but I know over time my armor has cracked. These things have really begun to eat me up inside. Some of my family even calls me names. It hurts me and I don't know what to do? I try to talk to my friends, but I don't have the guts to say it aloud. Help Me PLEASE!!!! anyone!!!
@mcspeed7 Hay, im not buck but my advice for you is TO GET THE FUCK OUT! REPORT YOUR DAD! How are you gonna explains the marks on ur neck? You don't have to be in child services if you have other family members you can stay with them. Your dad belongs in prison, NO ONE and I mean NO ONE should treat anyone the way your dad treats you. Hugz+ More Hugz <3
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE! help me!! so my friend thinks i've been talkin about her behind her back! Her younger sister wont stay out of it! but i cant find out who's been texting her all this stuff last night her younger sis was tryin to confrot me so i asked the girl "do you wanna be friends with me or not" she said she didnt wanna hurt my feelings so i took it as she didnt wanna be my friend i erased her number and we dont talk but i still need to know who did this to me
Me and my best friend have been bffs since 2nd grade now she has been hanging out with another girl. Now she never calls me. The last time i saw her was a month ago at my b-day party. We just got in to a fight. I told her to try hanging out with someone else. She ask me if i had a problem hang out with that girl. I said not really but i really do.
@MarylovesAdam1 Well you should call her.I think that you should get an other friend because u dont need just one friend i had the same problem lyk 2 years ago and my friend just told me that i was a bitch and she didnt want to be my friend and the girl she was hanging out was mean 2 and now no oone lyks them and they dont even lyk each other
dear buck, i am 11 years old and my parents were divorced about a year ago. my mom has now found a guy in texas. I am from Canada and my dad is also from canada. both my mom and my sister hate my dad but i love my dad and i dont want to let him go. my mom wants to move to texas. my sister said that if i dont want to move to texas, i will have to live with my dad. and she said that if i chose to live with my dad she will never talk to me again. please help i have cried about this!
dear buck, my friend has been like really annoying me lately. like last year i would call her my best friend for life. now im not so sure of it. she really irritates me. like when something doesnt go her way she gets so mad . idk why but i feel like we are drifting apart. we've had so many good times together and i just dont know what to do anymore. she's been causing me so much stress this past week and she can be the biggest bitch . should i like say something to her?
@jidfurikuri thanks he is in rehab now he has to use crutches and a wheelchair but we have been told we will be able to use his leg almost fully by this time next year! it will be a long road but we will make it throught
Is it weird that I cried a little when the over-weight girl's story came on? Cause I'm on the same exact boat and it's a difficult thing. I hate leaving my house and I'm actually scared to go to school sometimes (people don't bully me, at least, not to my face though). It's a difficult thing, but for some reason, I just can't find it in me to lose the weight :/ any advice?
hey my best friend fancies her teacher and her boyfriend found out and dumped her and now all she cares about is that teacher and her boyfriend is coming on to me and her other friends, i have told him to leave me alone and that he is ugly but now he is coming on to my other best friend what should i do ??
EmoliciousJew: My weight has yo-yoed for years, and I know it can be super hard and frustrating to lose weight. After years of struggling with my weight going up and down, I've learned one really important thing: don't diet alone. Trying to lose weight by yourself is exponentially harder than doing it with a support system. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family, and if you can, find a weightloss buddy. It's so much easier if you have other people to share your struggle.
Dear Buck, I dont need any advice but i would like to say thank you for helping me come out (:. Seeing your success and happiness gives me hope for my future P. Buck, people like you saved my life :) Thank you.
@ilovemrbuckley My advice to you is to tell your mom everything that's been going on with your sister, even if she doesn't talk to you again. Think about it , would you rather have her do harm to herself that can leave her in the hospital, or have her not talk to you for getting her help. You parents have to know what's going on because this is a very dangerous issue when it involves your own sister trying to commit suicide. I hope this helped, and i wish you the best of luck! *CYBERHUGS*
Hi I had the same problem. The best thing you could do right now is to just take a break from each other. If that doesn't work then you need to just straight up tell her to stop or cut off the friendship. Hope this helps
@TaylortheTuckerGirl Well I think you should start hanging out with a guy you like a lot. A guy that likes you back I'm assuming. If your ex tries to get near you, you could just get closer to that guy. It's a win win. If you're not interested in anyone right now, just tell him straight up "Leave me alone or I'm going to sell your first born child on eBay for 2 dollars." Stare him dead in the eye when you say it. He might think you're crazy which is also a plus because he won't come near you. GL
I'm 13 and I am not wanted. My Mom has recently told me that I am ruining her marriage and I'm picked on non-stop at school and at home. I feel like if this doesn't stop I'll end up hurting myself. I wasn't supposed to be born, as my Dad has told me that his condom broke. I only have 3 friends that actually like me and I feel like I'm gasping for air. Please help me. Thanks, big fan of your show.
@amylynn3211 Hey Amy! okay, i am 13 in 2 months :) i can sence how you are feeling! i feel unwanted and a bit of a waste of space but my best friend showed me that i am important to someone (her!) My mum tells me i ruin her life, i have a sleeping problem and i cant sleep well and it makes my mum very angry sometimes, but believe me she loves you! it is not your problem if her marriage is going down hill, we are only human and blame is an easy way out of things
@amylynn3211 i dont think its fair her blaming it on you so sit her down and explain this to her, okay i cut myself, DO NOT DO IT!, once its done you can not go back and it leaves a scar! it is not your fault if you were not meant to be born, just remeber your mum and dad had the choice to keep you, and they did x
@amylynn3211 Every one is brought on this earth for a reason. If you have willing and nice grandparents call them and ask if you can stay there. Your mother and father seem like bad people. I'm not good at helping people with there problems but, stay with yours grandparents or something
I have a friend that ive known for 7 years we are really close but she could be a brat sometimes and I try my best to be nice and not explode I dont want to tell on her because i dont know how to escape she sometimes calls me fat and says That my art sucks but I would really like to change that and change HER please help.
in answer to the hot for teacher question one thing that works for me is I focus on something about my crush that is an annoyance or a turn off and the more I focus on it the more the person less attractive to me
Dear Buck or anyone else who can help, I'm 18 years old and I am going to be attending college in the fall. The problem is that I'm really nervous. I've always been extremely shy when it comes to meeting new people, and I have trouble approaching people I don't know. My orientation is next week and I'm hoping to meet some new people. How can I break out of my shell and meet new friends? Thank you so much! :D I love your show! <33 *cyber hugs*
@Whoaadreambig4 hehe, that actually remind me of myself ^^ well...all i can say is try. i mean i am the less talkative, quiet and shy type. so all you need is set your mind. don't sit alone, sit next to someone who have empty sit beside them. then calm yourself and say "hi, I'm....what your name?" remember to smile =D and you can ask about where they/he/she from and after the orientation ask want to eat together. then next day, you got yourself a friend to be with =D
My big sister self harms. I really don't know what to do. I don't want to tell my mum about it because my sister would never talk to me again! I found her diary and it said that she had tried to kill herself. Buck PLEASE help. What should I do? I dont want to lose her.
Please thumbs this up so buck can see this. I posted this on the last video but you didnt answer so please answer it next time<3 i need your help!
@ilovemrbuckley you really need to get an adult involved in this. shes hurting herself! she could kill herself! this is serious! tell your mom. your sis might get mad, but she cant hate you forever when you are only trying to help and potentially save her life. get her into some counsiling. she needs help, now. i hope the best for you and her. -cyber hugs-
@ilovemrbuckley IT DOESN'T MATTER IF YOUR SISTER WILL HATE YOU. Sorry that sounds bad but seriously sweetie TELL YOUR MOTHER. This is what happened to my sister, and she told me the same thing, that I shouldn't tell mom about the things she did. But I did, cause I fucking care so much about her. Your not going behind your sister back, your saving her. TELL your mother, please. Or a counceler, or someone. x
@ilovemrbuckley you need to tell your parents .. your sister can die and if you tell about it you can save her ! and after she gets help and aren't suicidal she will understand that you helped and surely thank you
@ilovemrbuckley I've been in that kind of situatuion. I would talk to your sister about it, and tell her it's affecting you because you love her and can't see her like that. I would understand your sister if you told your mom, I self-harmed and my mom found out. [But she understood, she did it too but that's different]. It would be hard on your sister for your parents to find out because they might want to send her to counceling, I've been there, it would probably make her feel miserable.
@ilovemrbuckley But if she doesn't stop, you should tell your parents 'I'm concerned about ___, she's been depressed like she'll kill herself' or something like that without actually saying she is.
@ilovemrbuckley I recently went through the same thing your sister is going through. The best thing you can do is just tell your mum. She may not like it, (I sure didn't) but it's for the best. Trust me, she'll talk to you again. I hope that helps....
DB: I recently broke it off with my high school BFF of 6 years. I felt justified in doing it. She always stood me up, lied to me, put boyfriends before me, was generally condescending, manipulative, and negative, and didn't want me to have other friends. I was not happy, and now I have found people who I am happy around. She's trying to guilt trip me and make me wonder whether I really should break it off. She always makes me think everything is my fault. How can I stay strong with my decision?
@LxExplosionx93 dont get guilt tripped. just look the other way when she comes around. you dnt need her around. shes negative and controlling (well in plain words, A BITCH). so just dnt answer her calls or her txts. block her if you have to. thats how you stay strong with decisions.
My best friend who I think of a sis to me has a boyfriend!And he says really mean stuff about me and my boyfriend! And I tell her but I dont think she tells him! He hates me and I have never done anything to me! And by best friend won't listen to me!! From, Emily G. thank you
Dear Buck, my name is Alex and i have a problem. Im 14 years old and i have a boyfriend who i've been dating for 2 months now. When were alone hes the sweetest guy but when were with his friends hes really mean to me. He'll call me names like whore or even call me fat and sometimes even hits me. I think i love him but i dont know what to do anymore. Please help! xoxo
@Alextheseahorse hi =) so i know im not buck but i mite have sum helpfull advice =) ok so short and simple, 2 months with a guy who calls u a whore an acts like a dick in front of his friends. ask yourself, do u really love him? no. this guy sounds lika insecure immature butt.ur young ur 14, hes a little boy who obviously hasnt had a real gf before. your better then him, u deserve some one who Treats U Right. u desrve all the happynes u can get =) dump him. u can always do better. good luck =)
@missteenmusic355 you might have to tell your parents.......if not, then any adult would do. you need to get help. bulimia is a serious health problem. you need to confide in someone and get professional help on this. i hope you get better soon. -cyber hugs- ill be thinking of you. (i have a friend with a similar prob, and ive been encouraging him to eat. you aren't alone. definitely not. XD!)
@missteenmusic355 Ofcourse their going to dissapointed, but you have to tell them sweetie. Seriously, you know right now that you need help, get it immediatly. Hun, if you think you look Olsen Twin thin....haha it's time for some help. If you don't feel right telling your parents and would rather someone else tell them, please talk to a trusted adult. You cant make this worse. I know it's so hard at age 16. You feel weak. Your going to be fine. PLEASE GET HELP. WE"RE ALL BEHIND YOU. Xo
Dear Buck, MY name is Angie, 18 years old and im from newyork. My parents have been divorced for 10 years and i live with my mother and sister. I havent talken to my dad since he left. Me and my mother fight like cats and dogs bc my sister always has different standards then me even tho she is only a year older. Im a straight A student and just got into a great college yet she yells at me bc my sister is not as sucussful. What should i do?
Anyone who doesn't get their questions answered can post their questions on my channel. If i get enough questions I will make a video giving my advice! So, if anyone really wants an answer just post send me your questions and I will try my best to help : )
I have a problem with a girl at my school. She keep messing with me calling me names and sending threats to me, which I ignore almost everyday. I told my teachers, and they didnt do nothing about it. I didnt tell my parents because I didnt want them to worry, but I did tell my sister. My sister said if she gets in your face take 3 steps back and if she takes 1 step in my face, punch her. I really want to do that but I dont want to get suspended what should I do??.
@caution456 i wouldnt hit her. i know it may be hard too but you will get in trouble for it :/ the best advice i would say would be to tell you parents. they could help a lot.
@caution456 no punching........you dnt want that on your record for when you go to college. um.....did you tell the principal? i think thats your best bet now. cuz im sure as hell that if the teacher hasnt done anything yet, then they arent gonna do anything later. no need to tell them again. go straight to the principal about this. kk? -cyber hugs-
@Beautybubify im going into highschool too! this is advice that my mom and my sister gave me: be yourself in highschool! in movies HS had the mean girls and shit but thats more MS. i mean HS has that but it also has clubs and more people and its really about finding yourself. i know so many ppl who do drugs and drink in hs, but also so many who dont. even in a private school you will find others like you so just be yourself. good luck!
I was fired from my job last October apparently i was saying bad things about the place (i was but only to myself) but was happy to leave due to me being mistreated there with no breaks and working til 2am sometimes. Well i have no motivation to find another job because i think deep down i will be miss treated again and i guess you would say i have been depressed for the last 8 months or so. I don't know what to do to get myself going again to find a job.
Hai. So, my ex boyfriend and I have been together three separate times this year. we keep breaking up because he thinks we are better as friends. what i dont understand is that he says he likes me, but we should 'take a break' because he thinks we 'rushed into this' which, to me, makes no sense. hes the one that asked me out the three times, and the reason we broke up all three times is the same every time.! i just need some advice.! i love your show Buck.! Thanks <3
@bcole82995 there is probably some hiden reason behind it. it might be family problems, school stress, friends, or sorry but even someone else. a relationship like that isnt healthy. if your with him now, or if you get together with him again, tell him if we beak up again its for the last time. i mean if you keep breaking up it means thats it not 'ment to be' so ending it althogether would in fact be healthier
dear buck or anyone, i am just about to end my high school experience, and i am of to college in a couple of months. the thing is that i haven't had very many friends through school. (and the people i think of as my bff's don't think of me as their bff) i really don't want to be the "wierd / lonely" girl in college as well. if you have some tips about how to meet new people and make great friendships send them my way,
I'm really confused, I started talking to my best friends exbf. They broke up 6 months ago but i think she may still like him. He and I talked on the phone for 3 hours last night. I haven't told her yet but I think I really like him. And my best guy friend is telling me that this guy is a jerk and hes only going to use me. I know I cant be his gf bcuz he dated my best friend but I still want to maybe go on a date with him. I don't know how I should approach the situation. Help!
i do have a question that i subbited but i ot scared when i posted it and marked it as spam but i really do want you to answer my question so there will be a question in your spam thingy thanx 4 everything please help
My sister keeps telling me about all her sexual encounters and one night stands. She keeps partying and getting drunk every night which makes her hung over and she misses her morning classes. Plus she has sex with guys she meets at the parties and then comes crying to me telling me that they wont like her unless she has sex with them but they won't date her afterward. She is 18 turning 19 but this whole thing started when she was 17. Everytime I give her advice she calls me a bitch.
I really like this girl, but she is messing with my head. One day she'll be staring in to my eyes and then kiss me, and then the next, she will say she only likes me as a friend. And she knows that i like her. My question is, do I try to stop liking her more than a friend and try to maintain our friendship, or do i not need try to get over her? I'd like to maintain our friendship either way. She is a really cool person. She's nice, she's not a whore, and she's not afraid
@iamaunicornsmib definitly get over her. because you like her that might mean staying away from her a little bit in the beggining. once all your feelings are gone however, defitnley stay friends! a good friendship shouldnt be hurt at all by it
My 16 year old sister is extremely overweight and weights 120kg and is constantly gaining! She is also drinking and smoking excessively and parties all weekend. Me and Mom have tried to talk sense into her and on occasions called the police to bring her home (which they legally couldn't do). When she turns 17 in September the highschool will legally be able to expel her and said they would so if she didn't change. Please buck what do i do? Ashlea.
@ashlearosearcher93 1.i know this sounds bad, but scare her about her weight. tell her diabetes runs in the family or shw her a show called 'supesize vs. superskinny' (find it on youtube) 2. cut off all money from her. tell her if she keeps doing this shes gonna be broke anyway so she better get used to it. 3. i had a friend who constanly drank and what me and my other friend did was everytime we knew she had a horribal hangover we would bang pots in her ear and shit.
@Beautybubify DO NOT COMPROMISE YOURSELF!! you are so smart for deciding now that you don't want to do drugs alcohol or sex, it's so much easier to make that decision now without feelings involved - so stick to it! it's not really that weird to want to stay clean in high school and if you're really worried about what people are going to think of you because of your good choices you don't have to tell everyone strait away that your gonna be good, just make the right decision when it comes time.
Me and my exboyfriend still like each other but he has a girlfriend. He and his girlfriend are going to be at this concert I'm performing at this Saturday and I'm really scared that with him and her there I'll mess up and humiliate myself. What should I do to keep myself from getting too nervous and messing up?
@MeganBoulden Just pretend they are just like everyone else in the crowd. Or you could talk to your Ex about it and tell him how you feel. Tell him that bringing her will make you more nervous.
Dear Buck or anyone (please click the reply button!!!!)
My friend is hanging out with this one group of girls in my class, but the thing is this-- they, basically, chewed her up and spit her out, and she has gone back to them. And she KNOWS what happened to another one of my friends when SHE hung out with them. I don't think I'll be able to be sympathetic this time, but I still want to be a good friend. Can someone help me for when they kick her out again? Please reply directly (if at all) :S
@eclairep The best thing you can do is to become a neutral party. If she doesn't get it the hint that they are not good people to hang out with the next time around, then you could try confronting the group of girls about how they treat your friends. But next time she is thrown out just be there for her and try to (without saying I told you so) show her the error of being friends with those girls. It's best to stay neutral until this happens though.
I am 14 and 8 months ago a girl moved into my school, we have become best friends, but this Saturday she is moving across the country and the only person I will have left is a girl I don't have a stable friendship with and I am really unconfident also I don't want to know any of the people in my school as they are all having sex, doing drugs and drinking way too much alcohol and having hangovers, they are 14, I don't wanna be like that.~Zoe
@hennie148 I want to come out at school because I don't really want to keep it a secret anymore.. but I still am very nervous about coming out to family and friends.. I am really scared about pretty much anything. Going up on a stage, making speeches, doing plays, scared of bugs, etc etc.
I'm 15 and i like boys a lot, but everyone (gay ones... no offense) keeps asking me or my friends if i'm gay. One girl even told me that when i'll get older i'll definitely find out that i'm gay. What should i do to no look like gay.. Well i mean yeah, i have short hair and wear a lot of colorful clothes... should i change my style or let my hair grow long?
(it cut off the rest of my last one.) they got really mad at me. And to make things worse I can't talk to anyone about it. Last time I told someone I thought t could trust. But she told this girl who is awful to me. So she started to be mean to me about it. I tried to tell my best friend but she didn't really care because her dad died when we were little. So she feels like my problems aren't that important. I just don't know what to do anymore. Thanks to anyone who helps!!
I am 13, turning 14 in August. I am homosexual and I am wondering if I should come out to my parents and friends at school.. I have actually been thinking about it for a while but I do not know what they will think. My family has no problem with gays but I actually do think I will get my shit beaten if anyone at school finds out.
@1Koakuma1 Its 2011. if you have chossen the right friends, they will stand by you, PLUS+ if you want to tell only your parents for now just telll them they sound very understanding
@1Koakuma1 if it helps, i think you are awesome for accepting the fact that you are gay! XD! Don't tell if you don't want to......especially if you think you are gonna get beat up for it. if you want to, then start small, like telling your family, then tell your friends (if you think they should know)...well, other than that, it shouldn't be anyone else's business whether you are gay or not. um.....i hope this helped a little. my heart goes out to you! -cyber hug-
@1Koakuma1 I'd say tell your family. If they're supportive like you say, then it shouldn't be bad if you let them know. Obviously it'll be extremely hard, but at least you know they'll still be there for you. As for the school thing, I wouldn't worry about it right now. If you're afraid of how they'll react, then there's no rush. Wait until you have good friends you know will still love you and you can tell them when you're ready, and in the mean time you can lean on your family for support.
@1Koakuma1 This happened to a boy at my school. Some people will hate, but many of us respect him for telling us and treat him just the same. Best of luck! I say you should go for it.
@1Koakuma1 Ok, you should probably tell your fam. first, cuz hopefully whatever happens at shcool, they'll back you up and be supportive. then slowly tell your bestfriends. try to be open and accept that not everyone will be ok with it. MOST IMPORTANT: keep your chin up, don't let ANYONE talk down at you. Walk with your back straight, and, what the heck, hum a little Born This Way, stay strong and carry on! best of luck Love!!
Hey hun! I'm 16, BI, and out. I told my parents and best friends only at first because I knew they would understand, and that coming out is hard. Besides, who says you have to tell everyone at your school? I only tell people if they ask me if I am completely comfortable telling them, and I if know that I can handle the criticism right then. You are the only person that will know when you are ready to come out, and you will know who to tell when you are ready. Good luck!
@1Koakuma1 Im not sure about your gender, but im completely straight, theres maybe 2 homosexuals at my school, in my opinion i think gays or lesbians r awesome, theyr prety fun to hang with cuz their pretty funny sometimes and i would suggest not coming out in highschool because some people still arent mature to realize that some people r just themselves. hope this helped.
@1Koakuma1 Definitely tell your parents. :) If you feel confident enough that their going to be okay with it, then definitely tell them. I know it's hard when your 13/14, but I think it's really cool that your okay with it. And who the fuck cares what others think. I think your fucking awesome that you've figured out who you are at such a young age. KUDOS to you. It can take some people years, forever even, to figure out who they are. Your fucking awesome and shouldn't take shit from anyone...
@1Koakuma1 I know it's hard to take shit when your young, but realize that you adn your friends are still really young and they don't know any better. Realize that YOU have figured out who you are, and they havent....;) your going to be fine. If however you ARE getting severly bullied, make SURE you tell someone. xo GOOD LUCK HUN
@1Koakuma1 I was in a similar situation. I don't know that perfect answer, but I can tell you what I did. When I found out that I was gay, I had the same fears. I told a couple of my close friends and asked them to keep a secret. I'm now 18 and going into college. Now that my parents have no control over me and they can't punish me for simply being gay, I have come out to the world. Although there were some hard times through high school because of keeping a secret, I turned out fine :)
Hmm.. I wonder why I feel more comfortable by telling my friends instead of my parents.. (I havent told them yet).. Probably because I'm not around my friends 24/7
@1Koakuma1 Well it might also be because parents often make things bigger than they are. My parents for example, think of me as a gay person, not a person who just happens to be gay. Not all parents react to this, but mine just happened to. Also, if you come out to them in college or something, they can't possibly do anything to you to make you terribly unhappy. Btw, if people end beating the shit out of you for being gay, just know that they just don't feel comfortable that you;re happy! :)
I am 14 about to turn 15 and my whole life my parents have been fighting. They always say that they are going to get a divorce. That kills me. When ever they do my sister always cries and makes me try to help her feel better even though I'm sad about it too. And when ever they are fighting they bring me into it. I have recently tried to tell them not to include me in their fights but that did not work to well they both got really mad
@liveloveluck26 I am 16 and your story sounds a lot like my own. I'm the only child but I completely understand your problem. My parents have been divorced around 2 years now and trust me it is a thousand times better than my life before. Realize that their problems have nothing to do with you and once you do that then you will feel a lot better and more understanding. Its your parents, not you .
I'm Solangel and i'm 13 and i have a friend(lets call her Jane) who is prego, who is also 13. She called me crying when she found out. My mom heard about this through other mom's. Now my mom won't let me hangout wit her, but all my other friends left Jane n so she has no one! Her parents work every second of everyday and her sister is a Drunk. I dn't wanna leave my friend in her time of need! Help!!
@tikt0kcutie5 sit down with your mom and tell her avoiding a friend who is pregnant is ust as bad as getting pregnant. tell her you promise not to do anything bad, in fact you see the horror of unprotected sex or even sex at such a young age and would NEVER do that, but that doesnt exclude the fact that she did. tell her without others support your friend can get into even worse situation, and god forbid harm another life. its really important for you to be there for her
Dear buck/anyone ever since this yr has started I've had strong feelings for my best guy friend but there's a problem. He's dating my BFF I rlly want to tell him how I feel cuz he always flirts wit me n Iik it even tho Ik he doesn't lik me should I tell him, not say anything or get one of my friends to tell him? PLZ HELP btw i'm 11 n my name is judith but go by juju half the time :)
Dear buck or anybody ur hot (not anybody buck is) btw im victoria and im almost 13 and my friend a said he loves me all year then his name is jose i held his hand on de last day f skool but hes a total man whore he practically dated half de skool. and he knos (well i think he does) that i hv a crush on a rocker guy in my skool named dobie and hes totally in my lege n we r probably be able 2 be 2gether but i idk how to put it 2 my friend jose. well thats it victoria cyber hugs and kisses
Dear Buck, I am Tatum I am nine years old but this is my cousins account and yes I know I am young but I know a lot about what I will be saying So there is a boy in my class that likes me and happens to be very serious about it and he knows I like other people but he just won't quit it and now all of my friends found out and now he is saying things like he wants to marry, have sex with me, and have babies and I don't like it. Buck please help I don't know what to do if it goes any farther.
Dear Buck, I am Tatum I am nine years old but this is my cousins account and yes I know I am young but I know a lot about what I will be saying So there is a boy in my class that likes me and happens to be very serious about it and he knows I like other people but he just won't quit it and now all of my friends found out and now he is saying things like he wants to marry, have sex with me, and have babies and I don't like it. Buck please help I don't know what to do if it goes any farther
Dear Buck or Anyone - I like this guy and long story short, we were talking last night and I told him someone asked if we were going out and I said no and he said I should've said we were with a happy face put after it. But I replied saying that we're not going out so I don't know why I'd reply with we are going out. He just replied with an upset face and wouldn't speak no more on the matter. He's 19 and I'm 16. Does he like me? How can I tell? If you need any more info just PM me!
@TrrainWrreck extra info - whenever we see each other since our friendship is long distance, he always hugs me a lot and always talks to me more over than his friends and the most recent time we met he was keen on introducing me to them too. I asked him out in February but he said no then because he liked someone else. They're not together now and I don't know if his feelings for me have changed over time or if I'm just imagining things?
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Dear buck, my friend has problems at home and i just found out. she has a stepfather who hates her and a brother that beats her. she hates her home and she told me she was planning on running away this month! Of course I tried to talk her out of it and just told her to call child services but she can't cuz her mom works in that department! I love her and I just wanna help her and won't want anything bad to happen to her!plz help and btw my names taryn and I absolutely love u and ur videos :)
i recently started liking my best guy friend. He says things to me like: he can see himself marrying me in the future, he serenades me and calls me beautiful.So i thought well maybe he likes me. Then about 1month he asked out another girl. He still flirts with me even though he is with her. I am so upset!i dont understand why he flirts with me but is with her. I want to tell him how i feel, but next year we are going to the same uni together and i dont want things to be awkz.. HELP
@ChocolateGirl1993 He may be going out with someone else because you havnt shown intrest. Guys won't wait around forever and it sounds like he thinks you just wanna be friends.
TIP: In order to find a lover, you need to find a friend within them.
@ChocolateGirl1993 if he does that kind of stuff, he may be trying to feel you out, to see if you feel the same way. you know.? try talking to him about it. Good Luck.!
Dear buck, I was suppose to start college (Fashion Institute of Design and Merchandising) in April but couldn't due to financial reasons. Now I am at the local junior college and I am rethinking my dreams. I feel like I can't make it because I have no financial help and really don't want to be in debt. I am now second guessing everything in my life. I have no drive in school/work/relationships. Help?
@ashleyyy8686 Ashley, it sounds like you need to take mroe risks. With student loans youll probably be able to finish atleast one cemester. Being in debt is seen as like being in hell, it's really not, I know alot of adult who know have great careers and tell me about how student loans helped. CONSIDER THE OPTIONS, everyone has financial trouble, even the rich, although not like our issues, they have them. Take a risk, 40 years from now you might not regret your choice
Dear Buck my real name is juan i like this girl but she dosent like me cause im ugly ive been going to a gym cause im chuby and i want to be skinny ive done everything to try to be skinny i havent eaten in a long time and i have been starting to get dizzy but i dont want anyone to think im fat cause no girl liks me like that... last year i was so depressed i cried mostly everyday i always get bullied but i cant fight back or ill get in trouble please help me buck i really need help
@026abcd Trust me, after the bullying issue is resolved you'll wish you punched them. I have been bullied to and went into a deep suicidal depression, so trust me, I know the pain. Anyway it sounds like you starting to get an eating disording. Excersize without food is uselss. Eventually you'll crash and pass out somewhere[*DANGEROUS*!!] Try to talk to someone about it like a parent, or a guidance councelor.
@madmelidy31 but when i try to talk to someone i feel uncombfterable and everyday the bully i really want to punch them so i started kickboxing so i can get my frustrations out on there but when im at school and get bullied they call me crap and take me down and start hitting me and i cant do anything cause ive gotten in trouble many times for fighting so i cant do anything and when i ask for help they dont do anything
@026abcd Then if the teachers don't do anything go to the principal, or even the superintendant. When I got help from the guidance teacher and it went to the principal it wasnt the best situation. I was told I was 'pretending to be the victim' because the principal believed the other kid when he lied and said I was the one bullying him. [Yeah like the girl her went home crying everyday was the bully >.>] Just remember that it will get better, you just need to try to reach out and get help [->]
@026abcd Sometimes it takes alot of time or a small amount to solve the issue. I was bullied for years by a kid with ADHD and he used it as an excuse... and some people supported his excuse. I once broke out into tears in the middle of camp [its organized by grade] and one kid kept saying and yelling at me 'he has a problem, get over it' as if I were the reason I was crying. It took almost 4 years to the point I became suicidal. You need to reach out, REALLY!!!! Don't wait until its too late.
Dear buck or anyone, I'm 18 and have known this guy since I was about 13, he will be 20 in October. He has now been my boyfriend for over a year. He is a british royal marine and just got back from a long deployment in afghanistan, he has only been back for 2 weeks and is already going to Libya now. I love him so much but I feel like I am going to fall to pieces without him, I respect him so much for what he does but keeping busy and distracting myself isn't working anymore, please help.
@BreakingDevon Knowning a troop or someone who's been to war or is at war is VERY hard. The days drag on, you don't know what to do with yourself, and you run out of ideas after like 3 days. I would try to do someone or make the best out of it. Why don't you and your girlfriend turn it into a reality Dear John?. Just really focus on getting yoru feeling otu too. Try therapy, when in a relationship with someone gone so much and in such high risk danger, you need to talk it out of your system
@BreakingDevon Don't write him a Dear John letter, and stand by him. Imagine how he is feeling with out you, most likley the same. Try very hard to concentrate on something else.
@viviantsuei1995 What is his email? I might just not be looking hard enough, but I can't seem to find it. Either that or I missed it while I was looking.
I am 15 years old and recently my 22 year old brother has been diagnosed with a stroke and is having seizures as a side effect he is now at home and has started being really mean to me I'm trying to keep calm when I am around him so I dont send him into a seizure however he has recently been calling me fat(I am just getting over an eating disorder) and is trying to convince me to commit suicide.I dont want to send him into a seizure but I just can't handle it anymore please help.
@Theatrelove98 Threatelove, if your brother is sending you back into the state you were just stay away from him. He may be looking for someone to blame for whats happening, or just someone to focus his anger on. If he does know about your recent disorder he must be EXTREMELY angry. If I were you, I woudl just stay away from him, leave him in his room, and try my best to not cross paths with him until he's better. Also TELL YOUR MOM, it's VERY VERY VERY important she knows!!!!
Buck, you talking about losing weight just now with positive things about weight loss inspired me. I need to loose weight as well, and I just very inspired by your there. Thank you so much.
CHARLOTTE L : @charlottel FRST OF AL USE A CONDOM !!! its no bigee if u luv him go fr it be realistic though hes a male! will it make it harder i duno ,its hrd enuf alrdy rite !!! if it brings u guys emotionally closer yes it will make it harder and also if he brakes up with you it will be worse cause u lost ur virginty to him ( assuming ur a virgin) !! The fact tht u guys are in a lng dist relationship at all is awesum its gonna be hard no mater wat, and its going to get harder as u get closer
My dad has been making me really pissed off. I'm always trying to make him and everyone else happy and when i try to do something for myself (something as simple as taking a day to relax after volunteering at Camp Zoo for a week), he gets mad and makes me feel bad about myself (he says 'Yeah, whatever Erin' & 'well go off and be upset' and hangs up the phone). I'm getting really sick of it. Ive tried to tell him how I feel but he just gets mad! What should I say to him?
@POTCAmericanIdolfan My dad is somewhat of the same way. He wants me and my older brother to be busy and get out. Little does he know we're out ALL THE TIME, he just works alot so he doesn't see it. Also if your dad works alot, he might want to spend time with you. If you do need time to yourself your parent[s] need to get that. Explaining it to them isnt easy, but as long as you get it out, it'll lift some weight off of your shoulders.
If you really like him tell him how you feel, and if he doesnt like you that way then you can just be friends. If you want to forget about him try to distract your mind with games, reading, watching tv, or hanging with friends. This happens to everyone, even me, so dont be alarmed and dont freak out. Just be yourself! :)
I'm 13 and in middle school. I have really liked this one guy since I first saw him. I try to show in all different ways that I like him. Yet he has showed no interest yet. Also he is rarely single because he just goes from one girl to the next. I try so hard to forget about him but I never can(It might be that he is my neighbor). Please help me figure out what I should do?
@jane93851 To be honest it sounds like he's a player. You should just tell him lightly and not like 'I LIKE YOU CANT YOU SEE THAT!?'. Try telling him over FB, it made it easier for me when I told a guy I liked, although he told me first cus it popped up before I finished typing mine.
I'm 19 and a junior in college. My family is constantly comparing me to my sister who is 18. She's going to college in the fall and my dads wants her to apply for scholarships. The problem is he has been hounding me, asking me to write her scholarship essays FOR HER. I am an excellent writer, and because of this he has been bribing me to write her essays so that she can get the credit and get the scholarships. Not only is this wrong but it's unfair to me. How do I say no?
@THEHuG5 You should DEFINITLY say no. My parents compare me and my older bro, and hobbies and stuff so I get what you mean.
Anyway, I would flat out say: Dad, I knwo you want her to get a scholarship... but no matter what you bribe me with, Im not gonna do HER essays. If she can't do one good enough herself then she shouldnt get the scholarship. Her not earning it is stealing it from someone more worthy of it. Although I love [sister's name], no.
I'm a 17 yr old girl from Australia (feel free to use an accent). I graduated last year with great marks and got into a top university. I didn't party like my friends and only really had 1 or 2 close friends which have both moved. I took a gap year and haven't really tried to make new friends. I will be moving soon to the uni and am worried about trying to make new friends. Do you have any advise on making new friends and juggling school work with a social life? P.S i'm n
@1Zoe1234 Congratulations on getting into a top uni! I'm also an Aussie girl and had the same worries when I started uni last year. Trust me, you will make plenty of friends at uni! In class, just make an effort to talk to the students sitting around you; that's how I met some of my best friends. Also, try joining clubs or sports teams to meet new people. As for the work load, make sure you keep up with the course work and get help from tutors if you don't understand a topic. Good luck!
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I'm 19 and i've developed strong feelings for my best guy friend, he's 20. I let the cat out of the bag yesterday and he basically said he considers me a really good friend but the only thing stopping him is that he's not physically attracted to me. he said he regrets what happend between us one night. I dont wanna lose him as a friend which i doubt will happen but i'm afraid that soon we'll start to become distant. i've never been this much of a wreck over anyone advice
@elksswimchik04 I really don't think you should be worried. You said that he says the two of you are really good friends. If that's true, then a little situation like this won't hurt the friendship. About you liking him, I would suggest you easing into it (if you still want to pursue him that way.) Don't make him feel pressured or it may get awwkward. Don't stress girl, it'll all work itself out. (:
Dear Buck, Today was my last day of middle school, and I'm going to a high school that only 10 people from my middle school are going to. One of these people is a girl who used to be my best friend. Earlier in the year, we had a huge fight, and we both screwed each other over. She ended up hacking my facebook and telling people a lot of my secrets. Next year is supposed to be a new start for me, but i'm scared that she's going to tell everyone stuff to make me seem really mean. Any advice?
Dear Buck (or anyone), Me and my guy friend sort of have an ongoing thing, like we used to date but we broke up but still when we hang out he is touchy feely but it isn’t like I don’t enjoy it because I kind of miss him but he just got a new gf who he rlly likes and I heard her talking saying that she hates me because I keep trying to steal her bf but I'm not me and him r just rlly close like he honestly is my best friend like i dont understand why she cant see that what we had is over?
@KUTExKATIExMxCxZxRA6 maybe you could like talk to her alone one day and explain things to her. theres a book im reading right now called "what happened to goodbye" and there is this boy and girl in it who are extremely close (like they even got small little tatoos) and they used to date, but that didn't work out, however their relationship made them closer and strong. I suggest talking to her and explain how you two are really close friends, maybe even like sibligns, and maybe she'll understand
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srbXOXOgirl93 1 month ago
Dear Buck, this teacher at school gives everyone the creeps. He's got a ruler thats used to go up skirts. He is 70ish and his wife works at our school and she's great. He runs with the mid skl track during their pe. He tickles/grabs ppl in our grade and we tell the other teachers and they tell us to be quiet like we're kidding. He told me and my friend that were his favorite students & I don't evn have him in class. People say the private school won't fire him because of his wife.. Any advice?
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And so I'm not giving false hope, it is the ABSOLUTE truth that everything will be okay in the end and if its not okay its not the end. AND that there is light at the end of the tunnel... and its not another train:) so. stay strong! I don't think I've ever known who I am as a person as much as now. And honey... TALK TO ME WHENEVER YOU NEED SOMEONE. i have legit been through like EVERY situation.
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I'm 13 ill be 14 in a month and my parent's divorce has lasted a year now so I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND. all i have to say is that you are really super lucky to be with the parent that you want. I went through a really bad time this past year and I know thats not assuring at all but right now but hopefully that I am sitting where I want to be with the people that I love is. And I'm very upfront.
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drpepper23ization 2 months ago
@Kaduffy94 A lot of people (including me) find tall girls very hot.. but it's the way you conduct yourself, you have to at least appear confident about ur looks. and join volleyball and I guarantee u will love life
MrEricRuiz 2 months ago
dear buck. or anyone,
I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm 6'6" tall, and larger, I often walk down the sidewalk being called Sasquatch or being made fun of for my size. I try to put a smile on my face and say that I'm used to it, but I know over time my armor has cracked. These things have really begun to eat me up inside. Some of my family even calls me names. It hurts me and I don't know what to do? I try to talk to my friends, but I don't have the guts to say it aloud. Help Me PLEASE!!!! anyone!!!
KADuffy94 3 months ago
@mcspeed7 Hay, im not buck but my advice for you is TO GET THE FUCK OUT! REPORT YOUR DAD! How are you gonna explains the marks on ur neck? You don't have to be in child services if you have other family members you can stay with them. Your dad belongs in prison, NO ONE and I mean NO ONE should treat anyone the way your dad treats you. Hugz+ More Hugz <3
TeeHeeSeries 4 months ago
2:35 totally crushed my dreams on Orlando Bloom
nozomi832 5 months ago
Dear Buck
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE! help me!! so my friend thinks i've been talkin about her behind her back! Her younger sister wont stay out of it! but i cant find out who's been texting her all this stuff last night her younger sis was tryin to confrot me so i asked the girl "do you wanna be friends with me or not" she said she didnt wanna hurt my feelings so i took it as she didnt wanna be my friend i erased her number and we dont talk but i still need to know who did this to me
JUNEBUG754 6 months ago
Dear Buck,
Me and my best friend have been bffs since 2nd grade now she has been hanging out with another girl. Now she never calls me. The last time i saw her was a month ago at my b-day party. We just got in to a fight. I told her to try hanging out with someone else. She ask me if i had a problem hang out with that girl. I said not really but i really do.
Please help!
MarylovesAdam1 6 months ago
@MarylovesAdam1 Well you should call her.I think that you should get an other friend because u dont need just one friend i had the same problem lyk 2 years ago and my friend just told me that i was a bitch and she didnt want to be my friend and the girl she was hanging out was mean 2 and now no oone lyks them and they dont even lyk each other
AngelHighHeels 5 months ago
@mcspeed7 you seriously need to report him, i mean, you'd rather be in child services than dead.
or maybe you can move into an aunt's house or something, even at your best friend. Please keep me updated on what you choose
1bardh1 7 months ago
dear buck, i am 11 years old and my parents were divorced about a year ago. my mom has now found a guy in texas. I am from Canada and my dad is also from canada. both my mom and my sister hate my dad but i love my dad and i dont want to let him go. my mom wants to move to texas. my sister said that if i dont want to move to texas, i will have to live with my dad. and she said that if i chose to live with my dad she will never talk to me again. please help i have cried about this!
bum7464 7 months ago 3
dear buck, my friend has been like really annoying me lately. like last year i would call her my best friend for life. now im not so sure of it. she really irritates me. like when something doesnt go her way she gets so mad . idk why but i feel like we are drifting apart. we've had so many good times together and i just dont know what to do anymore. she's been causing me so much stress this past week and she can be the biggest bitch . should i like say something to her?
taylorlautnercrazyy7 7 months ago
@jidfurikuri thanks he is in rehab now he has to use crutches and a wheelchair but we have been told we will be able to use his leg almost fully by this time next year! it will be a long road but we will make it throught
missteddygirl100 7 months ago
Is it weird that I cried a little when the over-weight girl's story came on? Cause I'm on the same exact boat and it's a difficult thing. I hate leaving my house and I'm actually scared to go to school sometimes (people don't bully me, at least, not to my face though). It's a difficult thing, but for some reason, I just can't find it in me to lose the weight :/ any advice?
TheAPrincess 7 months ago
he must be gay. gay..
92Karolis 8 months ago
dear buck or anyone else who can help,
hey my best friend fancies her teacher and her boyfriend found out and dumped her and now all she cares about is that teacher and her boyfriend is coming on to me and her other friends, i have told him to leave me alone and that he is ugly but now he is coming on to my other best friend what should i do ??
kinxjones 8 months ago
EmoliciousJew: My weight has yo-yoed for years, and I know it can be super hard and frustrating to lose weight. After years of struggling with my weight going up and down, I've learned one really important thing: don't diet alone. Trying to lose weight by yourself is exponentially harder than doing it with a support system. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family, and if you can, find a weightloss buddy. It's so much easier if you have other people to share your struggle.
TempestinBlue 8 months ago
Dear Buck, I dont need any advice but i would like to say thank you for helping me come out (:. Seeing your success and happiness gives me hope for my future P. Buck, people like you saved my life :) Thank you.
spinneraddiction 8 months ago
@ilovemrbuckley My advice to you is to tell your mom everything that's been going on with your sister, even if she doesn't talk to you again. Think about it , would you rather have her do harm to herself that can leave her in the hospital, or have her not talk to you for getting her help. You parents have to know what's going on because this is a very dangerous issue when it involves your own sister trying to commit suicide. I hope this helped, and i wish you the best of luck! *CYBERHUGS*
hola1707 8 months ago
@diomond101
Hi I had the same problem. The best thing you could do right now is to just take a break from each other. If that doesn't work then you need to just straight up tell her to stop or cut off the friendship. Hope this helps
MsBoogieman77 8 months ago
@TaylortheTuckerGirl Well I think you should start hanging out with a guy you like a lot. A guy that likes you back I'm assuming. If your ex tries to get near you, you could just get closer to that guy. It's a win win. If you're not interested in anyone right now, just tell him straight up "Leave me alone or I'm going to sell your first born child on eBay for 2 dollars." Stare him dead in the eye when you say it. He might think you're crazy which is also a plus because he won't come near you. GL
BlammmSugnin 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
I'm 13 and I am not wanted. My Mom has recently told me that I am ruining her marriage and I'm picked on non-stop at school and at home. I feel like if this doesn't stop I'll end up hurting myself. I wasn't supposed to be born, as my Dad has told me that his condom broke. I only have 3 friends that actually like me and I feel like I'm gasping for air. Please help me. Thanks, big fan of your show.
Amy
amylynn3211 8 months ago
@amylynn3211 Hey Amy! okay, i am 13 in 2 months :) i can sence how you are feeling! i feel unwanted and a bit of a waste of space but my best friend showed me that i am important to someone (her!) My mum tells me i ruin her life, i have a sleeping problem and i cant sleep well and it makes my mum very angry sometimes, but believe me she loves you! it is not your problem if her marriage is going down hill, we are only human and blame is an easy way out of things
dixielott 8 months ago
@amylynn3211 i dont think its fair her blaming it on you so sit her down and explain this to her, okay i cut myself, DO NOT DO IT!, once its done you can not go back and it leaves a scar! it is not your fault if you were not meant to be born, just remeber your mum and dad had the choice to keep you, and they did x
dixielott 8 months ago
@amylynn3211 Every one is brought on this earth for a reason. If you have willing and nice grandparents call them and ask if you can stay there. Your mother and father seem like bad people. I'm not good at helping people with there problems but, stay with yours grandparents or something
theskye101 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
I have a friend that ive known for 7 years we are really close but she could be a brat sometimes and I try my best to be nice and not explode I dont want to tell on her because i dont know how to escape she sometimes calls me fat and says That my art sucks but I would really like to change that and change HER please help.
Lorena
diomond101 8 months ago
He is very honest with his opinion! Awesome!
LateNightPartyTime 8 months ago
in answer to the hot for teacher question one thing that works for me is I focus on something about my crush that is an annoyance or a turn off and the more I focus on it the more the person less attractive to me
elemeno82002 8 months ago
Dear Buck or anyone else who can help, I'm 18 years old and I am going to be attending college in the fall. The problem is that I'm really nervous. I've always been extremely shy when it comes to meeting new people, and I have trouble approaching people I don't know. My orientation is next week and I'm hoping to meet some new people. How can I break out of my shell and meet new friends? Thank you so much! :D I love your show! <33 *cyber hugs*
Whoaadreambig4 8 months ago
@Whoaadreambig4 hehe, that actually remind me of myself ^^ well...all i can say is try. i mean i am the less talkative, quiet and shy type. so all you need is set your mind. don't sit alone, sit next to someone who have empty sit beside them. then calm yourself and say "hi, I'm....what your name?" remember to smile =D and you can ask about where they/he/she from and after the orientation ask want to eat together. then next day, you got yourself a friend to be with =D
SleepyAngel1225 8 months ago
@Whoaadreambig4 Thanks for the Cyber hug:)
Well, you can always just stay home w/ ur roommate.
I prefur staying home.
And I am completely happy with myself.
MissLFlechsig 8 months ago
Dear Buck or anyone else who can help,
My big sister self harms. I really don't know what to do. I don't want to tell my mum about it because my sister would never talk to me again! I found her diary and it said that she had tried to kill herself. Buck PLEASE help. What should I do? I dont want to lose her.
Please thumbs this up so buck can see this. I posted this on the last video but you didnt answer so please answer it next time<3 i need your help!
ilovemrbuckley 8 months ago 62
@ilovemrbuckley you really need to get an adult involved in this. shes hurting herself! she could kill herself! this is serious! tell your mom. your sis might get mad, but she cant hate you forever when you are only trying to help and potentially save her life. get her into some counsiling. she needs help, now. i hope the best for you and her. -cyber hugs-
soccergirl350 8 months ago
@ilovemrbuckley IT DOESN'T MATTER IF YOUR SISTER WILL HATE YOU. Sorry that sounds bad but seriously sweetie TELL YOUR MOTHER. This is what happened to my sister, and she told me the same thing, that I shouldn't tell mom about the things she did. But I did, cause I fucking care so much about her. Your not going behind your sister back, your saving her. TELL your mother, please. Or a counceler, or someone. x
onemoment2live 7 months ago
@ilovemrbuckley you need to tell your parents .. your sister can die and if you tell about it you can save her ! and after she gets help and aren't suicidal she will understand that you helped and surely thank you
xxx1h8jBxxx 7 months ago
@ilovemrbuckley dont react in fear
coolman7736 7 months ago
@ilovemrbuckley I've been in that kind of situatuion. I would talk to your sister about it, and tell her it's affecting you because you love her and can't see her like that. I would understand your sister if you told your mom, I self-harmed and my mom found out. [But she understood, she did it too but that's different]. It would be hard on your sister for your parents to find out because they might want to send her to counceling, I've been there, it would probably make her feel miserable.
bonobobo1999 7 months ago
@ilovemrbuckley But if she doesn't stop, you should tell your parents 'I'm concerned about ___, she's been depressed like she'll kill herself' or something like that without actually saying she is.
bonobobo1999 7 months ago
@ilovemrbuckley you sound like my little sister except for i've never tried to kill my self or keep a diary
ImSubscribedToU 6 months ago
@ilovemrbuckley yuo should tel!!! your sister would forgive you,this is a VERY bad thing to do to your self.
allzombiesloveme1 5 months ago
@ilovemrbuckley I recently went through the same thing your sister is going through. The best thing you can do is just tell your mum. She may not like it, (I sure didn't) but it's for the best. Trust me, she'll talk to you again. I hope that helps....
dudette474 1 week ago
DB: I recently broke it off with my high school BFF of 6 years. I felt justified in doing it. She always stood me up, lied to me, put boyfriends before me, was generally condescending, manipulative, and negative, and didn't want me to have other friends. I was not happy, and now I have found people who I am happy around. She's trying to guilt trip me and make me wonder whether I really should break it off. She always makes me think everything is my fault. How can I stay strong with my decision?
LxExplosionx93 8 months ago 2
@LxExplosionx93 dont get guilt tripped. just look the other way when she comes around. you dnt need her around. shes negative and controlling (well in plain words, A BITCH). so just dnt answer her calls or her txts. block her if you have to. thats how you stay strong with decisions.
soccergirl350 8 months ago
Dear Buck or Anyone,
My best friend who I think of a sis to me has a boyfriend!And he says really mean stuff about me and my boyfriend! And I tell her but I dont think she tells him! He hates me and I have never done anything to me! And by best friend won't listen to me!! From, Emily G. thank you
lover2baby 8 months ago
Dear Buck, my name is Alex and i have a problem. Im 14 years old and i have a boyfriend who i've been dating for 2 months now. When were alone hes the sweetest guy but when were with his friends hes really mean to me. He'll call me names like whore or even call me fat and sometimes even hits me. I think i love him but i dont know what to do anymore. Please help! xoxo
Alextheseahorse 8 months ago
@Alextheseahorse hi =) so i know im not buck but i mite have sum helpfull advice =) ok so short and simple, 2 months with a guy who calls u a whore an acts like a dick in front of his friends. ask yourself, do u really love him? no. this guy sounds lika insecure immature butt.ur young ur 14, hes a little boy who obviously hasnt had a real gf before. your better then him, u deserve some one who Treats U Right. u desrve all the happynes u can get =) dump him. u can always do better. good luck =)
tenaynayy 8 months ago
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missteenmusic355 8 months ago
@missteenmusic355 you might have to tell your parents.......if not, then any adult would do. you need to get help. bulimia is a serious health problem. you need to confide in someone and get professional help on this. i hope you get better soon. -cyber hugs- ill be thinking of you. (i have a friend with a similar prob, and ive been encouraging him to eat. you aren't alone. definitely not. XD!)
soccergirl350 8 months ago
@missteenmusic355 Ofcourse their going to dissapointed, but you have to tell them sweetie. Seriously, you know right now that you need help, get it immediatly. Hun, if you think you look Olsen Twin thin....haha it's time for some help. If you don't feel right telling your parents and would rather someone else tell them, please talk to a trusted adult. You cant make this worse. I know it's so hard at age 16. You feel weak. Your going to be fine. PLEASE GET HELP. WE"RE ALL BEHIND YOU. Xo
onemoment2live 7 months ago
Dear Buck, MY name is Angie, 18 years old and im from newyork. My parents have been divorced for 10 years and i live with my mother and sister. I havent talken to my dad since he left. Me and my mother fight like cats and dogs bc my sister always has different standards then me even tho she is only a year older. Im a straight A student and just got into a great college yet she yells at me bc my sister is not as sucussful. What should i do?
Love Angie
Angggg16 8 months ago
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TryingToHelp21 8 months ago
@Panda78900 okay, thank you!
iamaunicornsmib 8 months ago
Dear Buck or anyone
I have a problem with a girl at my school. She keep messing with me calling me names and sending threats to me, which I ignore almost everyday. I told my teachers, and they didnt do nothing about it. I didnt tell my parents because I didnt want them to worry, but I did tell my sister. My sister said if she gets in your face take 3 steps back and if she takes 1 step in my face, punch her. I really want to do that but I dont want to get suspended what should I do??.
caution456 8 months ago
@caution456 i wouldnt hit her. i know it may be hard too but you will get in trouble for it :/ the best advice i would say would be to tell you parents. they could help a lot.
Drummergrlmj 8 months ago
@Drummergrlmj Thanks I will tell my parents everything, your a big help =D
caution456 8 months ago
@caution456 no punching........you dnt want that on your record for when you go to college. um.....did you tell the principal? i think thats your best bet now. cuz im sure as hell that if the teacher hasnt done anything yet, then they arent gonna do anything later. no need to tell them again. go straight to the principal about this. kk? -cyber hugs-
soccergirl350 8 months ago
@Beautybubify im going into highschool too! this is advice that my mom and my sister gave me: be yourself in highschool! in movies HS had the mean girls and shit but thats more MS. i mean HS has that but it also has clubs and more people and its really about finding yourself. i know so many ppl who do drugs and drink in hs, but also so many who dont. even in a private school you will find others like you so just be yourself. good luck!
panda78900 8 months ago
Buck love the comment on being a little ehhh when your older about sex its so true
ericwied 8 months ago
Dear Buck or Anyone
I was fired from my job last October apparently i was saying bad things about the place (i was but only to myself) but was happy to leave due to me being mistreated there with no breaks and working til 2am sometimes. Well i have no motivation to find another job because i think deep down i will be miss treated again and i guess you would say i have been depressed for the last 8 months or so. I don't know what to do to get myself going again to find a job.
Tyler
sabreshbk1 8 months ago
Dear Buck or Anyone,
Hai. So, my ex boyfriend and I have been together three separate times this year. we keep breaking up because he thinks we are better as friends. what i dont understand is that he says he likes me, but we should 'take a break' because he thinks we 'rushed into this' which, to me, makes no sense. hes the one that asked me out the three times, and the reason we broke up all three times is the same every time.! i just need some advice.! i love your show Buck.! Thanks <3
bcole82995 8 months ago
@bcole82995 there is probably some hiden reason behind it. it might be family problems, school stress, friends, or sorry but even someone else. a relationship like that isnt healthy. if your with him now, or if you get together with him again, tell him if we beak up again its for the last time. i mean if you keep breaking up it means thats it not 'ment to be' so ending it althogether would in fact be healthier
panda78900 8 months ago
dear buck or anyone, i am just about to end my high school experience, and i am of to college in a couple of months. the thing is that i haven't had very many friends through school. (and the people i think of as my bff's don't think of me as their bff) i really don't want to be the "wierd / lonely" girl in college as well. if you have some tips about how to meet new people and make great friendships send them my way,
hope you can help.
- Alberte :)
afashionfool 8 months ago
@hennie148 Thanks!!!! :)))))))))
zoe6281 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
I'm really confused, I started talking to my best friends exbf. They broke up 6 months ago but i think she may still like him. He and I talked on the phone for 3 hours last night. I haven't told her yet but I think I really like him. And my best guy friend is telling me that this guy is a jerk and hes only going to use me. I know I cant be his gf bcuz he dated my best friend but I still want to maybe go on a date with him. I don't know how I should approach the situation. Help!
Megan
MeganBoulden 8 months ago
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7Breakway7 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
My sister keeps telling me about all her sexual encounters and one night stands. She keeps partying and getting drunk every night which makes her hung over and she misses her morning classes. Plus she has sex with guys she meets at the parties and then comes crying to me telling me that they wont like her unless she has sex with them but they won't date her afterward. She is 18 turning 19 but this whole thing started when she was 17. Everytime I give her advice she calls me a bitch.
TraumaPsychoTizer 8 months ago
Dear Buck or anyone,
I really like this girl, but she is messing with my head. One day she'll be staring in to my eyes and then kiss me, and then the next, she will say she only likes me as a friend. And she knows that i like her. My question is, do I try to stop liking her more than a friend and try to maintain our friendship, or do i not need try to get over her? I'd like to maintain our friendship either way. She is a really cool person. She's nice, she's not a whore, and she's not afraid
iamaunicornsmib 8 months ago
@iamaunicornsmib definitly get over her. because you like her that might mean staying away from her a little bit in the beggining. once all your feelings are gone however, defitnley stay friends! a good friendship shouldnt be hurt at all by it
panda78900 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
My 16 year old sister is extremely overweight and weights 120kg and is constantly gaining! She is also drinking and smoking excessively and parties all weekend. Me and Mom have tried to talk sense into her and on occasions called the police to bring her home (which they legally couldn't do). When she turns 17 in September the highschool will legally be able to expel her and said they would so if she didn't change. Please buck what do i do? Ashlea.
ashlearosearcher93 8 months ago
@ashlearosearcher93 1.i know this sounds bad, but scare her about her weight. tell her diabetes runs in the family or shw her a show called 'supesize vs. superskinny' (find it on youtube) 2. cut off all money from her. tell her if she keeps doing this shes gonna be broke anyway so she better get used to it. 3. i had a friend who constanly drank and what me and my other friend did was everytime we knew she had a horribal hangover we would bang pots in her ear and shit.
panda78900 8 months ago
@Beautybubify DO NOT COMPROMISE YOURSELF!! you are so smart for deciding now that you don't want to do drugs alcohol or sex, it's so much easier to make that decision now without feelings involved - so stick to it! it's not really that weird to want to stay clean in high school and if you're really worried about what people are going to think of you because of your good choices you don't have to tell everyone strait away that your gonna be good, just make the right decision when it comes time.
mandimarieee 8 months ago
Dear Buck (or anyone),
Me and my exboyfriend still like each other but he has a girlfriend. He and his girlfriend are going to be at this concert I'm performing at this Saturday and I'm really scared that with him and her there I'll mess up and humiliate myself. What should I do to keep myself from getting too nervous and messing up?
Megan
MeganBoulden 8 months ago
@MeganBoulden Just pretend they are just like everyone else in the crowd. Or you could talk to your Ex about it and tell him how you feel. Tell him that bringing her will make you more nervous.
TraumaPsychoTizer 8 months ago
@TraumaPsychoTizer thank you :)
MeganBoulden 8 months ago
Dear Buck or anyone (please click the reply button!!!!)
My friend is hanging out with this one group of girls in my class, but the thing is this-- they, basically, chewed her up and spit her out, and she has gone back to them. And she KNOWS what happened to another one of my friends when SHE hung out with them. I don't think I'll be able to be sympathetic this time, but I still want to be a good friend. Can someone help me for when they kick her out again? Please reply directly (if at all) :S
eclairep 8 months ago
@eclairep The best thing you can do is to become a neutral party. If she doesn't get it the hint that they are not good people to hang out with the next time around, then you could try confronting the group of girls about how they treat your friends. But next time she is thrown out just be there for her and try to (without saying I told you so) show her the error of being friends with those girls. It's best to stay neutral until this happens though.
TraumaPsychoTizer 8 months ago
@eclairep just be there for her....that is all i can say....be a really good friend to her, and maybe she'll see who her true friend is.
soccergirl350 8 months ago
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Dear Buck or anyone-
I am 14 and 8 months ago a girl moved into my school, we have become best friends, but this Saturday she is moving across the country and the only person I will have left is a girl I don't have a stable friendship with and I am really unconfident also I don't want to know any of the people in my school as they are all having sex, doing drugs and drinking way too much alcohol and having hangovers, they are 14, I don't wanna be like that.~Zoe
zoe6281 8 months ago
@hennie148 "Why not just be who you want to be and doing what you're comfortable with?"
Most of the kids at my school are asses.. I will come out, but I do think some shit might go down there D:
1Koakuma1 8 months ago
@hennie148 I want to come out at school because I don't really want to keep it a secret anymore.. but I still am very nervous about coming out to family and friends.. I am really scared about pretty much anything. Going up on a stage, making speeches, doing plays, scared of bugs, etc etc.
1Koakuma1 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
I'm 15 and i like boys a lot, but everyone (gay ones... no offense) keeps asking me or my friends if i'm gay. One girl even told me that when i'll get older i'll definitely find out that i'm gay. What should i do to no look like gay.. Well i mean yeah, i have short hair and wear a lot of colorful clothes... should i change my style or let my hair grow long?
merka856 8 months ago
(it cut off the rest of my last one.) they got really mad at me. And to make things worse I can't talk to anyone about it. Last time I told someone I thought t could trust. But she told this girl who is awful to me. So she started to be mean to me about it. I tried to tell my best friend but she didn't really care because her dad died when we were little. So she feels like my problems aren't that important. I just don't know what to do anymore. Thanks to anyone who helps!!
liveloveluck26 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
I am 13, turning 14 in August. I am homosexual and I am wondering if I should come out to my parents and friends at school.. I have actually been thinking about it for a while but I do not know what they will think. My family has no problem with gays but I actually do think I will get my shit beaten if anyone at school finds out.
1Koakuma1 8 months ago 33
@1Koakuma1 best bet, is tell your family. dont tell kids at school if your not comfortable about it
bcole82995 8 months ago
@bcole82995 I mean friends at school that I can trust, not random kids.
1Koakuma1 8 months ago
@1Koakuma1 Its 2011. if you have chossen the right friends, they will stand by you, PLUS+ if you want to tell only your parents for now just telll them they sound very understanding
MissLFlechsig 8 months ago
@1Koakuma1 if it helps, i think you are awesome for accepting the fact that you are gay! XD! Don't tell if you don't want to......especially if you think you are gonna get beat up for it. if you want to, then start small, like telling your family, then tell your friends (if you think they should know)...well, other than that, it shouldn't be anyone else's business whether you are gay or not. um.....i hope this helped a little. my heart goes out to you! -cyber hug-
soccergirl350 8 months ago
@1Koakuma1 I'd say tell your family. If they're supportive like you say, then it shouldn't be bad if you let them know. Obviously it'll be extremely hard, but at least you know they'll still be there for you. As for the school thing, I wouldn't worry about it right now. If you're afraid of how they'll react, then there's no rush. Wait until you have good friends you know will still love you and you can tell them when you're ready, and in the mean time you can lean on your family for support.
00TaeKwon00 8 months ago
@1Koakuma1 This happened to a boy at my school. Some people will hate, but many of us respect him for telling us and treat him just the same. Best of luck! I say you should go for it.
flutesandchaos 8 months ago in playlist Dear Buck
@1Koakuma1 Ok, you should probably tell your fam. first, cuz hopefully whatever happens at shcool, they'll back you up and be supportive. then slowly tell your bestfriends. try to be open and accept that not everyone will be ok with it. MOST IMPORTANT: keep your chin up, don't let ANYONE talk down at you. Walk with your back straight, and, what the heck, hum a little Born This Way, stay strong and carry on! best of luck Love!!
GypsyBaby396 8 months ago
@1Koakuma1
Hey hun! I'm 16, BI, and out. I told my parents and best friends only at first because I knew they would understand, and that coming out is hard. Besides, who says you have to tell everyone at your school? I only tell people if they ask me if I am completely comfortable telling them, and I if know that I can handle the criticism right then. You are the only person that will know when you are ready to come out, and you will know who to tell when you are ready. Good luck!
Chihuahua647 8 months ago
@1Koakuma1 Im not sure about your gender, but im completely straight, theres maybe 2 homosexuals at my school, in my opinion i think gays or lesbians r awesome, theyr prety fun to hang with cuz their pretty funny sometimes and i would suggest not coming out in highschool because some people still arent mature to realize that some people r just themselves. hope this helped.
Toxicmountain97 8 months ago
@1Koakuma1 Definitely tell your parents. :) If you feel confident enough that their going to be okay with it, then definitely tell them. I know it's hard when your 13/14, but I think it's really cool that your okay with it. And who the fuck cares what others think. I think your fucking awesome that you've figured out who you are at such a young age. KUDOS to you. It can take some people years, forever even, to figure out who they are. Your fucking awesome and shouldn't take shit from anyone...
onemoment2live 7 months ago
@1Koakuma1 I know it's hard to take shit when your young, but realize that you adn your friends are still really young and they don't know any better. Realize that YOU have figured out who you are, and they havent....;) your going to be fine. If however you ARE getting severly bullied, make SURE you tell someone. xo GOOD LUCK HUN
onemoment2live 7 months ago
@1Koakuma1 I was in a similar situation. I don't know that perfect answer, but I can tell you what I did. When I found out that I was gay, I had the same fears. I told a couple of my close friends and asked them to keep a secret. I'm now 18 and going into college. Now that my parents have no control over me and they can't punish me for simply being gay, I have come out to the world. Although there were some hard times through high school because of keeping a secret, I turned out fine :)
MrFredthelemur 7 months ago
@MrFredthelemur This helps :D
Hmm.. I wonder why I feel more comfortable by telling my friends instead of my parents.. (I havent told them yet).. Probably because I'm not around my friends 24/7
1Koakuma1 7 months ago
@1Koakuma1 Well it might also be because parents often make things bigger than they are. My parents for example, think of me as a gay person, not a person who just happens to be gay. Not all parents react to this, but mine just happened to. Also, if you come out to them in college or something, they can't possibly do anything to you to make you terribly unhappy. Btw, if people end beating the shit out of you for being gay, just know that they just don't feel comfortable that you;re happy! :)
MrFredthelemur 7 months ago
Dear buck,
(sorry this is long but please please help me!)
I am 14 about to turn 15 and my whole life my parents have been fighting. They always say that they are going to get a divorce. That kills me. When ever they do my sister always cries and makes me try to help her feel better even though I'm sad about it too. And when ever they are fighting they bring me into it. I have recently tried to tell them not to include me in their fights but that did not work to well they both got really mad
liveloveluck26 8 months ago
@liveloveluck26 I am 16 and your story sounds a lot like my own. I'm the only child but I completely understand your problem. My parents have been divorced around 2 years now and trust me it is a thousand times better than my life before. Realize that their problems have nothing to do with you and once you do that then you will feel a lot better and more understanding. Its your parents, not you .
tkstump95 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
I'm Solangel and i'm 13 and i have a friend(lets call her Jane) who is prego, who is also 13. She called me crying when she found out. My mom heard about this through other mom's. Now my mom won't let me hangout wit her, but all my other friends left Jane n so she has no one! Her parents work every second of everyday and her sister is a Drunk. I dn't wanna leave my friend in her time of need! Help!!
*Cyber hugs* ~Solangel= Soul-Angel
(sorry ppl say my name rong A LOT! Idk Y?
tikt0kcutie5 8 months ago
@tikt0kcutie5 sit down with your mom and tell her avoiding a friend who is pregnant is ust as bad as getting pregnant. tell her you promise not to do anything bad, in fact you see the horror of unprotected sex or even sex at such a young age and would NEVER do that, but that doesnt exclude the fact that she did. tell her without others support your friend can get into even worse situation, and god forbid harm another life. its really important for you to be there for her
panda78900 8 months ago
Dear buck/anyone ever since this yr has started I've had strong feelings for my best guy friend but there's a problem. He's dating my BFF I rlly want to tell him how I feel cuz he always flirts wit me n Iik it even tho Ik he doesn't lik me should I tell him, not say anything or get one of my friends to tell him? PLZ HELP btw i'm 11 n my name is judith but go by juju half the time :)
JBLover450 8 months ago
Dear buck or anybody ur hot (not anybody buck is) btw im victoria and im almost 13 and my friend a said he loves me all year then his name is jose i held his hand on de last day f skool but hes a total man whore he practically dated half de skool. and he knos (well i think he does) that i hv a crush on a rocker guy in my skool named dobie and hes totally in my lege n we r probably be able 2 be 2gether but i idk how to put it 2 my friend jose. well thats it victoria cyber hugs and kisses
victoriablackbutler 8 months ago
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Dear Buck, I am Tatum I am nine years old but this is my cousins account and yes I know I am young but I know a lot about what I will be saying So there is a boy in my class that likes me and happens to be very serious about it and he knows I like other people but he just won't quit it and now all of my friends found out and now he is saying things like he wants to marry, have sex with me, and have babies and I don't like it. Buck please help I don't know what to do if it goes any farther.
TheMariaSings 8 months ago
Dear Buck, I am Tatum I am nine years old but this is my cousins account and yes I know I am young but I know a lot about what I will be saying So there is a boy in my class that likes me and happens to be very serious about it and he knows I like other people but he just won't quit it and now all of my friends found out and now he is saying things like he wants to marry, have sex with me, and have babies and I don't like it. Buck please help I don't know what to do if it goes any farther
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sabreshbk1 8 months ago
Dear Buck or Anyone - I like this guy and long story short, we were talking last night and I told him someone asked if we were going out and I said no and he said I should've said we were with a happy face put after it. But I replied saying that we're not going out so I don't know why I'd reply with we are going out. He just replied with an upset face and wouldn't speak no more on the matter. He's 19 and I'm 16. Does he like me? How can I tell? If you need any more info just PM me!
April (:
TrrainWrreck 8 months ago
@TrrainWrreck extra info - whenever we see each other since our friendship is long distance, he always hugs me a lot and always talks to me more over than his friends and the most recent time we met he was keen on introducing me to them too. I asked him out in February but he said no then because he liked someone else. They're not together now and I don't know if his feelings for me have changed over time or if I'm just imagining things?
TrrainWrreck 8 months ago
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AdviseMee 8 months ago
Dear buck, my friend has problems at home and i just found out. she has a stepfather who hates her and a brother that beats her. she hates her home and she told me she was planning on running away this month! Of course I tried to talk her out of it and just told her to call child services but she can't cuz her mom works in that department! I love her and I just wanna help her and won't want anything bad to happen to her!plz help and btw my names taryn and I absolutely love u and ur videos :)
MysteriosKittenThief 8 months ago
Dear 300 girly,
i'm diabetic and it sux. big time. lots of my family died from it. i send cyber hugz
TheLaisama 8 months ago
dear buck,
i recently started liking my best guy friend. He says things to me like: he can see himself marrying me in the future, he serenades me and calls me beautiful.So i thought well maybe he likes me. Then about 1month he asked out another girl. He still flirts with me even though he is with her. I am so upset!i dont understand why he flirts with me but is with her. I want to tell him how i feel, but next year we are going to the same uni together and i dont want things to be awkz.. HELP
ChocolateGirl1993 8 months ago
@ChocolateGirl1993 He may be going out with someone else because you havnt shown intrest. Guys won't wait around forever and it sounds like he thinks you just wanna be friends.
TIP: In order to find a lover, you need to find a friend within them.
madmelidy31 8 months ago
@ChocolateGirl1993 Guys are weird... I say go for it :)
Theguitargirl97 8 months ago
@ChocolateGirl1993 if he does that kind of stuff, he may be trying to feel you out, to see if you feel the same way. you know.? try talking to him about it. Good Luck.!
bcole82995 8 months ago
Dear buck, I was suppose to start college (Fashion Institute of Design and Merchandising) in April but couldn't due to financial reasons. Now I am at the local junior college and I am rethinking my dreams. I feel like I can't make it because I have no financial help and really don't want to be in debt. I am now second guessing everything in my life. I have no drive in school/work/relationships. Help?
ashleyyy8686 8 months ago
@ashleyyy8686 Ashley, it sounds like you need to take mroe risks. With student loans youll probably be able to finish atleast one cemester. Being in debt is seen as like being in hell, it's really not, I know alot of adult who know have great careers and tell me about how student loans helped. CONSIDER THE OPTIONS, everyone has financial trouble, even the rich, although not like our issues, they have them. Take a risk, 40 years from now you might not regret your choice
madmelidy31 8 months ago
Dear Buck my real name is juan i like this girl but she dosent like me cause im ugly ive been going to a gym cause im chuby and i want to be skinny ive done everything to try to be skinny i havent eaten in a long time and i have been starting to get dizzy but i dont want anyone to think im fat cause no girl liks me like that... last year i was so depressed i cried mostly everyday i always get bullied but i cant fight back or ill get in trouble please help me buck i really need help
026abcd 8 months ago
@026abcd Trust me, after the bullying issue is resolved you'll wish you punched them. I have been bullied to and went into a deep suicidal depression, so trust me, I know the pain. Anyway it sounds like you starting to get an eating disording. Excersize without food is uselss. Eventually you'll crash and pass out somewhere[*DANGEROUS*!!] Try to talk to someone about it like a parent, or a guidance councelor.
madmelidy31 8 months ago
@madmelidy31 but when i try to talk to someone i feel uncombfterable and everyday the bully i really want to punch them so i started kickboxing so i can get my frustrations out on there but when im at school and get bullied they call me crap and take me down and start hitting me and i cant do anything cause ive gotten in trouble many times for fighting so i cant do anything and when i ask for help they dont do anything
026abcd 8 months ago
@026abcd Then if the teachers don't do anything go to the principal, or even the superintendant. When I got help from the guidance teacher and it went to the principal it wasnt the best situation. I was told I was 'pretending to be the victim' because the principal believed the other kid when he lied and said I was the one bullying him. [Yeah like the girl her went home crying everyday was the bully >.>] Just remember that it will get better, you just need to try to reach out and get help [->]
madmelidy31 8 months ago
@026abcd Sometimes it takes alot of time or a small amount to solve the issue. I was bullied for years by a kid with ADHD and he used it as an excuse... and some people supported his excuse. I once broke out into tears in the middle of camp [its organized by grade] and one kid kept saying and yelling at me 'he has a problem, get over it' as if I were the reason I was crying. It took almost 4 years to the point I became suicidal. You need to reach out, REALLY!!!! Don't wait until its too late.
madmelidy31 8 months ago
Dear buck or anyone, I'm 18 and have known this guy since I was about 13, he will be 20 in October. He has now been my boyfriend for over a year. He is a british royal marine and just got back from a long deployment in afghanistan, he has only been back for 2 weeks and is already going to Libya now. I love him so much but I feel like I am going to fall to pieces without him, I respect him so much for what he does but keeping busy and distracting myself isn't working anymore, please help.
BreakingDevon 8 months ago 21
@BreakingDevon Knowning a troop or someone who's been to war or is at war is VERY hard. The days drag on, you don't know what to do with yourself, and you run out of ideas after like 3 days. I would try to do someone or make the best out of it. Why don't you and your girlfriend turn it into a reality Dear John?. Just really focus on getting yoru feeling otu too. Try therapy, when in a relationship with someone gone so much and in such high risk danger, you need to talk it out of your system
madmelidy31 8 months ago
@BreakingDevon Don't write him a Dear John letter, and stand by him. Imagine how he is feeling with out you, most likley the same. Try very hard to concentrate on something else.
MissLFlechsig 8 months ago
@viviantsuei1995 What is his email? I might just not be looking hard enough, but I can't seem to find it. Either that or I missed it while I was looking.
puppysfurme 8 months ago
Dear Buck,
I am 15 years old and recently my 22 year old brother has been diagnosed with a stroke and is having seizures as a side effect he is now at home and has started being really mean to me I'm trying to keep calm when I am around him so I dont send him into a seizure however he has recently been calling me fat(I am just getting over an eating disorder) and is trying to convince me to commit suicide.I dont want to send him into a seizure but I just can't handle it anymore please help.
Theatrelove98 8 months ago
@Theatrelove98 Threatelove, if your brother is sending you back into the state you were just stay away from him. He may be looking for someone to blame for whats happening, or just someone to focus his anger on. If he does know about your recent disorder he must be EXTREMELY angry. If I were you, I woudl just stay away from him, leave him in his room, and try my best to not cross paths with him until he's better. Also TELL YOUR MOM, it's VERY VERY VERY important she knows!!!!
madmelidy31 8 months ago
Buck, you talking about losing weight just now with positive things about weight loss inspired me. I need to loose weight as well, and I just very inspired by your there. Thank you so much.
becsishere 8 months ago
Whats Buck's tumblr? Can anyone link me please :) x
smilingsammie123 8 months ago
@smilingsammie123 I don't think he has tumblr... he has twitter! xxx
Theguitargirl97 8 months ago
@Theguitargirl97 I'm sure he said in this video that he now has a tumblr?? Did anyone else hear him say that? :L x
smilingsammie123 8 months ago
CHARLOTTE L : @charlottel FRST OF AL USE A CONDOM !!! its no bigee if u luv him go fr it be realistic though hes a male! will it make it harder i duno ,its hrd enuf alrdy rite !!! if it brings u guys emotionally closer yes it will make it harder and also if he brakes up with you it will be worse cause u lost ur virginty to him ( assuming ur a virgin) !! The fact tht u guys are in a lng dist relationship at all is awesum its gonna be hard no mater wat, and its going to get harder as u get closer
glowded 8 months ago
@glowded thanks
CharlotteL1029 8 months ago
Dear Buck or anyone,
My dad has been making me really pissed off. I'm always trying to make him and everyone else happy and when i try to do something for myself (something as simple as taking a day to relax after volunteering at Camp Zoo for a week), he gets mad and makes me feel bad about myself (he says 'Yeah, whatever Erin' & 'well go off and be upset' and hangs up the phone). I'm getting really sick of it. Ive tried to tell him how I feel but he just gets mad! What should I say to him?
Erin
POTCAmericanIdolfan 8 months ago
@POTCAmericanIdolfan My dad is somewhat of the same way. He wants me and my older brother to be busy and get out. Little does he know we're out ALL THE TIME, he just works alot so he doesn't see it. Also if your dad works alot, he might want to spend time with you. If you do need time to yourself your parent[s] need to get that. Explaining it to them isnt easy, but as long as you get it out, it'll lift some weight off of your shoulders.
madmelidy31 8 months ago
@jane93851
If you really like him tell him how you feel, and if he doesnt like you that way then you can just be friends. If you want to forget about him try to distract your mind with games, reading, watching tv, or hanging with friends. This happens to everyone, even me, so dont be alarmed and dont freak out. Just be yourself! :)
TheKookyKandy 8 months ago
Dear Buck and Everyone,
I'm 13 and in middle school. I have really liked this one guy since I first saw him. I try to show in all different ways that I like him. Yet he has showed no interest yet. Also he is rarely single because he just goes from one girl to the next. I try so hard to forget about him but I never can(It might be that he is my neighbor). Please help me figure out what I should do?
Please Help,
Jane
jane93851 8 months ago
@jane93851 To be honest it sounds like he's a player. You should just tell him lightly and not like 'I LIKE YOU CANT YOU SEE THAT!?'. Try telling him over FB, it made it easier for me when I told a guy I liked, although he told me first cus it popped up before I finished typing mine.
madmelidy31 8 months ago
Dear Buck & Everyone,
I'm 19 and a junior in college. My family is constantly comparing me to my sister who is 18. She's going to college in the fall and my dads wants her to apply for scholarships. The problem is he has been hounding me, asking me to write her scholarship essays FOR HER. I am an excellent writer, and because of this he has been bribing me to write her essays so that she can get the credit and get the scholarships. Not only is this wrong but it's unfair to me. How do I say no?
THEHuG5 8 months ago in playlist Dear Buck
@THEHuG5 You should DEFINITLY say no. My parents compare me and my older bro, and hobbies and stuff so I get what you mean.
Anyway, I would flat out say: Dad, I knwo you want her to get a scholarship... but no matter what you bribe me with, Im not gonna do HER essays. If she can't do one good enough herself then she shouldnt get the scholarship. Her not earning it is stealing it from someone more worthy of it. Although I love [sister's name], no.
madmelidy31 8 months ago
@madmelidy31 Thanks for replying. I'm definitely gonna do that. He'll probably get mad at me but he can get over it.
THEHuG5 8 months ago
Dear Buck & Everyone,
I'm a 17 yr old girl from Australia (feel free to use an accent). I graduated last year with great marks and got into a top university. I didn't party like my friends and only really had 1 or 2 close friends which have both moved. I took a gap year and haven't really tried to make new friends. I will be moving soon to the uni and am worried about trying to make new friends. Do you have any advise on making new friends and juggling school work with a social life? P.S i'm n
1Zoe1234 8 months ago
@1Zoe1234 Congratulations on getting into a top uni! I'm also an Aussie girl and had the same worries when I started uni last year. Trust me, you will make plenty of friends at uni! In class, just make an effort to talk to the students sitting around you; that's how I met some of my best friends. Also, try joining clubs or sports teams to meet new people. As for the work load, make sure you keep up with the course work and get help from tutors if you don't understand a topic. Good luck!
Ashpash700 8 months ago
OMG you HAVE to watch this video. Its an AMAZING cover of a little girl. Look it up my typing "Bruno Mars Grenade mnb891" in the youtube search bar thingy
mnb891 8 months ago
Dear Buck or anyone,
I'm 19 and i've developed strong feelings for my best guy friend, he's 20. I let the cat out of the bag yesterday and he basically said he considers me a really good friend but the only thing stopping him is that he's not physically attracted to me. he said he regrets what happend between us one night. I dont wanna lose him as a friend which i doubt will happen but i'm afraid that soon we'll start to become distant. i've never been this much of a wreck over anyone advice
elksswimchik04 8 months ago
@elksswimchik04 I really don't think you should be worried. You said that he says the two of you are really good friends. If that's true, then a little situation like this won't hurt the friendship. About you liking him, I would suggest you easing into it (if you still want to pursue him that way.) Don't make him feel pressured or it may get awwkward. Don't stress girl, it'll all work itself out. (:
Good luck!
xlaurensparklesx 8 months ago
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Dear Buck, Today was my last day of middle school, and I'm going to a high school that only 10 people from my middle school are going to. One of these people is a girl who used to be my best friend. Earlier in the year, we had a huge fight, and we both screwed each other over. She ended up hacking my facebook and telling people a lot of my secrets. Next year is supposed to be a new start for me, but i'm scared that she's going to tell everyone stuff to make me seem really mean. Any advice?
kellynicole187 8 months ago
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kellynicole187 8 months ago
Dear Buck (or anyone), Me and my guy friend sort of have an ongoing thing, like we used to date but we broke up but still when we hang out he is touchy feely but it isn’t like I don’t enjoy it because I kind of miss him but he just got a new gf who he rlly likes and I heard her talking saying that she hates me because I keep trying to steal her bf but I'm not me and him r just rlly close like he honestly is my best friend like i dont understand why she cant see that what we had is over?
KUTExKATIExMxCxZxRA6 8 months ago
@KUTExKATIExMxCxZxRA6 maybe you could like talk to her alone one day and explain things to her. theres a book im reading right now called "what happened to goodbye" and there is this boy and girl in it who are extremely close (like they even got small little tatoos) and they used to date, but that didn't work out, however their relationship made them closer and strong. I suggest talking to her and explain how you two are really close friends, maybe even like sibligns, and maybe she'll understand
0701110aysoccer 8 months ago
@0701110aysoccer thnx that is good advice
KUTExKATIExMxCxZxRA6 8 months ago