loving is to live with the power to forgive

[anotherloaner]

I luv that mug.

[TheBestBabiFem]

Thats horrible...last year when i was 15 my best friend at that time outted me at my highschool but no one believed her because appariently i dont "look gay" ugh i hate when people say that but anyways...when i actually came out it totally sucked cuz she killed that moment for me...the obvious result to all of this....were not besties anymore

[mysslauren]

AJ, that coffee mug is the BEST!!! How freaking cute!!

LOL @ being kicked out of the closet. I can credit my sister for kicking me out of the closet to some people. I overheard her telling one friend "she's a dyke" which angered me, cos, one, I didn't appreciate being kicked out of the closet, and two, I feel straight people using slang like 'dyke' can sound offensive. Although I was angry that she booted me out of the closet, I was somewhat relieved that those people then knew I was gay.

[mysslauren]

Having said that, I did (and still do to some extent) feel a little ashamed that I didn't have the courage to tell them myself.

[taryn2484]

HA this topic is awesome...my first gf outed me to my parents and their friends one night...ohh good times...i wasn't really upset tho..it saved me from having to do it..still it was awkward

[HooJayJay]

Yes i believe the statute of limitations has run its course.....reconcile...it's the law!

[jaysyntax11]

god I give massive kudos for this topic, MASSIVE kudos.

it's so invasive when people, even people you don't even know, out you to other people. especially during teen years. grrr.

thanks again AJ (: you rock lgbt australia's socks ;D

[burningsensation3]

Great advice! It's exactly what I was thinking. I'm sure it was embarrassing, but if his intentions were good and her family still loves her, she shouldn't still be upset about it. She should definitely talk to him to move past it. Best of luck to her. :)

[watsasticker]

Hahhaha you are awesome my friend ;)

[rainbowlover87]

my aunt told my mom my mom told everybody on her side and in the end when it was all over and done with i thanked my aunt even know i wasn't ready to come out... shit i dont even know how my aunt even knew

[lizrem]

Haha I love whatching "Aj-Hyper-on-Coffee-Wednesdays­!" ;) Always makes me laugh. Rad as always Aj! -Liz

[AVAINTEX]

AJ i think you and lori would be a great couple.

[AskAJanything]

i think so too....but we're both taken :(

[EverythingJunkie]

I really like you AJ.

[AskAJanything]

and i really like you too!

[sarahhification]

i think if your able to tell someone that your gay then you shouldnt have a problem telling everyone..

its not something you did its something you are..

[allicellobasketball]

i heart you AJ!!! : )

[AskAJanything]

i heart you too!

[sofly22]

wet the instead rim of the hat (like where sweat normally shows up on the new era caps) and leave it, it should shrink a little. and by wet i don't mean soak lol, dampen a towel and use the towel to wet the inside rim :)

[sofly22]

and by instead i mean inside

[AskAJanything]

thats cute you came back 5 hours later to correct yoruself

[LLLeashaaa]

My aunt outed me but. her intentions were good. Im glad i didnt have to do it myself. xD

[julietita92]

omg i want coffee!

[thismightsoundcrazy]

agreed, seven years is a very very long time. I actually hold very intense grudges for very short times.

[bbeetthhaannyyy]

yeah 4 years ago i told my mom i was gay and she told EVERYONE. i'm still mad over it, i tell her how i feel and she doesn't give a fuck.

[NanaKitadeLvr]

too old? I'm 19 and I love Fiddler on the roof! I'm not old yet!

[burntflybog]

You're right, it is way too long to hold a grudge. I actually put it in the back of my head for a while because my grandparents were ill and I didn't want to make their lives harder than they had to be. If he went blabbing about that, then why wouldn't he do it again when I confronted him? Well, the time is now to let it go, right? I'll figure out what to say and get it done. You five are awesome and thanks so much for the support!

[AskAJanything]

i liked your question. thanks for sending it in :)

[Grrrstin]

hahahaha the end was amazing.

[softballluver90]

nice video and do you get hype after drinking a bunch of coffe cuz i do and i dont stop talking and i piss off my friends

[Nomming]

I thought the same thing, AJ. As soon as I saw the first BB post, I started singing that song.

"HODEL, oh, Hodel. Have I made a match for you! He's smart, HE'S YOUNG! Alright, he's 62. But he's a nice man, a good catch. Right? right."

[proud2beagleek]

i miss the "hey ladies"!!!

love u AJ

[AskAJanything]

hey ladies is on my personal channel ;)

[MAM2012]

"Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match. Find me a find, catch me a catch"

I had that stuck in my head after this vid. Not because I've seen Fiddler on the Roof, but because I love Mrs. Doubtfire. lmao.

[peebzzz]

...cont

But I know if it ends up going round the family it will get to my Gran eventually and she's the one person I don't want to know. She's old and Greek and set in her ways and I don't want to hurt her.

[peebzzz]

I can't believe I missed yesterdays rap and it wasn't in my box =| I thank you, I went to go watch her now because of you. But don't worry, I came back.

Being outed before you're ready isn't fair.

Personally I don't want to have to have that conversation with anyone, so I kinda hope my cousins just tell each other so I don't have to do it. CONT...

[AmandaWiddifield]

"Were like the most accessible beavers out there, thats kinda sick" -- :)

[watsonjennifer]

You were really hyper!

[ALIROX931]

i agree. drama (telephone game) happens to everyone. :|

[pmoore4]

Number 1! .... btw Awesome vid AJ!!