Jealousy...Possessiveness In Lesbian Relationships

[lushlip2lip]

the jealousy is very annoying. I'm going through it now and every day I'm questioned not only about things that I do, but hypothetical things that I'm not doing. we've talked about her insecurity and she's aware, and said she'd try to calm it down but she isn't. aside from that, she's very sweet, just very overbearing and jealous of everybody

[whitelockcity]

you're gorgeous girl. good vid btw

[busymother24]

@whitelockcity Thank you!!

[Taylor4evaSwift]

ok then watya do if u feel like u love ur best mate u tell em how u feel and they go moufin off to every1 but u like cant stop finkin about them and now they hate u ??? life sucks

[dirtybase91]

@Taylor4evaSwift den u deal wit it.

[BabyLeoBaby]

?! her own mother ? wow. issues

[zalmonet]

Girl this was so me and I can't shake this jealousy/possessive quality. Im trying to work on it even though it has caused me to lose a relationship. But mine was due to trust issues. I want to work on it, so what do you recommend to people who suffer from this quality.

[TheHamish1989]

u are way way way to sexy to be a lesbian..... what a waste

[Eldraable]

jealousy and possessiveness is a form of control, it isn't healthy and eventually it does great harm to any relationship

[TheSARGIE1]

YOU ARE SEXY, DAMN!

[GayBranddon88]

wow i like cute guys hehe but not naked like at GayBangz . Com it's the place to go for gay men

[Ichliebemusikundybd]

lesbian relations etc lol. BUT NEVER AGAIN! Women aren't worth that, nor are men. hip hip hooray

[ritekaid]

you are most definitely right. my ex and i were always with each other for four years straight. i left all my friends for her and yet she still had friends. it started the overprotective, paranoid, and lack of communication between us. i never was able to connect with other people while we were together because she always needed my attention constantly. but when she was hangin' with her male friends and what she said to them or did with them made me feel jealous. I was never like this before her

[Ichliebemusikundybd]

Omg that sucks, I am sorry. You should've dumped her, she sounds like a manipulative asshole! I was in a similar situation with my first girlfriend, she was jealous of my guy friends, my girl friends, my activism, my love for nature, and just anything I showed interest in. Thankfully she dumped me! The funny thing was I was planning to dump her in a few days, but she beat me to it. The main reason why I didn't dump her earlier was because I was still in the stage where you're so curious about

[HiHataz08]

I feel where your coming from. i went thru the same thing with my GF. she was controlling, demanding, & made me feel as if i had to cater to her. she hated when i spoke to anyone even my own family. she dispised anyone who i got close to. and envied my ex's. it got to the point now that we broke up we dont speak at all & we have a 1 yr. old together.

[da1whonevahatin]

Damn u sexy Ma! And always got sum'n intelligent to say!

[jarodreese12]

you is soo sexy

[theV00d00shop]

lol you look so guilty i love ya videos... specially the one with the myspace argument.. lol yeah u know what im talkin bout xoxo

[busymother24]

LOL! Guilty? I was drunk as crap that nite! Neva again!

[MadameGarnet]

hi! i've noticed with myself that i only get jealous of my lover if our relationship is mostly based only on sex and not having enough in common. this can cause a wall to build up. then through that lack of emotional intimacy mistrust can develop. that's usually when i realize i shoulda kept shoppin.

[nigger911]

hello you make interresting videos iam a man in the uk

[fyrehazel18]

i feel u on this becuz  my gurl told me that i was just like that but i said she made me that way .... becuz she always around me and when she want to leave i dont want her to leave and shit like that ill make a video on it .... but yeah and she say im selffish but i dont call it i call it been worryed about her dou think im wrong...my video comeing soon on that

[Studiousgyrl09]

Thanx bunches 4 responding 2 my topic request. It's well appreciated! U hit it right on w/ your observation of fear, jealousy, & the need 2 control. What I've learned about myself is that I have separation anxiety & I have a difficult time when people leave me, so 2 not intentionally drive her away I realize that I need 2 allow her space & time 2 grow that may not always include me. I think if I continue to work on my feelings, we'll grow closer 2gether, not further apart. Thanx again!

[DAMNimHOTT1]

@Studiousgyrl09 Your so right, because I also suffer from abandonment issues and I noticed this with the girl I'm with now, but my jealousy has gotten a lot better for 1. because of trust and 2. I gave her that space to go out with her friends and family and she comes right back to me...in the end its just fear, and to cancel out that fear we have to trust that the person we are with is going to be with us threw thick and thin. And if they do leave us, God will never leave us or forsake us :)