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  • love it

  • Preach!!!

  • My video entitled Light Skin Dark Skin issues in the Church.

    Should answer all questions people have concerning the color issue.

    Its based from a christian perspective, but applies to all religious views and stand point

  • Light skin bw have better attitudes then darkskin women.

  • Folks need to understand mother nature and science is the way to go because since the time whites came from their cold land and mixing things up blacks folks and others have seem to be lost... dark people are meant for hot climates meaning lightest complexions are the weakest... sun rays damage the flesh that's why it's great to be darker in the hottest climate.. A mind should continue to learn and never stop rather than being trapped in a box being afraid to be and do things differently.

  • I remember going to school and watching tv had me hooked on white & lighter women until i realize makeup cover up real looks and not all of them are pretty... We are also brain washed because our own people pump it up by making jokes about darker bro & sisters... dark represents silence in other words a black ferrari is pretty as the red and yellow kind but oppose to attraction. ancient religion,media, and rapper perniciously tearing down facts..

  • This brother is so right.

  • So true! Well said.

  • @xKayxAngelx Appreciate that.

  • I perfer a nice chocolate sister but at the same time lightskin bw seem to be more down to earth and have less attitude then darker bw in my opinion

  • @Tolulope86 THANK YOU

  • i like bown skin like the color of sand and caramel dark is just not me in men it not bein racist i my preference not pale not dark brown color is very appealing light bown caramel i love it

  • I agree 100 percent with what you said. I think some people have a very bad grip on reality. I know alot of beautiful dark women and light women skin color isnt even in the equasion of what would make a girl ugly to me but instead a contributer to a persons beauty btw your mom looks like she should be in the movies.

  • I believe darker woman wear all these types of str8 weave that does not really bring out their features.When they go more for the natural look, they look more earthly and attractive.The point im tryin to make is, u cant b lukin like a African wearing str8 shiny weave. It looks odd.

  • @midnitecruiser44 what the hell u african too all of us are and ps we dont wear full weave point is blck men dont need to likem light women

  • So wai! your saying that's shes upset because all the men she done been with said the'yve preferred lighter women?maybe Black men don't want her because they all done ran through that loose pussy.

  • its because of what their family impossed on them and what their community says. its really sad. I grew up like that but with opposite ideas on beauty in my culture. I wont let those ideas dictate who I find when it comes to love though. I think it's important to take your child out of their natural environment to a totally different area to keep the mind thinking forward when it comes to what beauty is to prevent those narrow minded thoughts on beauty.

  • If it ain't light it aint right.loil

  • Well eventhough this might be in common.

    In North Africa and East Africa tends to have more Light skinned Africans, and those Africans are not dipicted as the sterotypical African. Like if you look at Ethiopia for example. In the North of Ethiopia you have your light skinned people.

    Towards the South you have the more darker in complextion. Now in most situations people tend to like people from their region.

  • Where i live at men prefer light skinned women based on looks wise.

  • @justleviopinion It keeps popping up because you younger generation are using YouTube to revive a topic that died more than a decade ago. THE PERSON THAT POSTED THIS ORIGINAL VIDEO isn't even black. It's a game to see who can get the most responses and you're giving them reasons to post more bogus videos. You're smarter, your videos that don't include race are good, that's how I found this video, keep those, but remove the others. P.S. most of the comments in here aren't from black people.

  • @Par5Birdie Appreciate you watching my others videos, thats a good luck but I gotta clear up that video response thing cuz my video is not a video response. My topic came after a discussion I had with some friends, then after watching a video on sweetaddictionstv, and last but not least a subscribers sent me a clip from the tyra show so all these things pushed me to do a video on the subject.

  • @justleviopinion This is an issue that never dies. I am a parent of an acceptionally gorgeouse young woman who is very light complected, and an absolutle God z9my sonz0 who is very dark... How did that happen, when my complection is like caramel? Because that is the beauty of being black, we come in all different shades of black. It would be nice if our pple were not so easily influenced by mainstream America.

  • there is something funny that i have noticed about about dark skin women is that i usually MOST of the time i see non black men with dark skin to brown black women. It seems while a lot black men hate that dark skin women non black men seem to look at what they are inside and appreciate their skin color. People need to look beyond skin color

  • And last thing: I dnt think the women blame light skin women.. I think it's more resentment than anythin... & I also feel like the women on the tyra show may have nt been able to find love cuz a lot of em were plus size..I think sadly, being plus size limits ur pool of dating way mre than color..shit Im rambling lol bt I dnt gt it whn I hear rappers like Wayne tlkn bout hw they only like light skin women whn hs daughter is dark..???? I dnt see the logic

  • @Fiddysgrl05 Yeah his daughter is dark skin as well as her mother (his ex wife) Toya. So I dont think it's that he does not like dark skin women cuz on record he talks about light skin woman but in real life he MARRIED a dark skin woman who was never his jumpoff or his side piece but his WIFE. Not just him but Snoop talks about women on way but the mother of his kids and on and off again wife Shaunte is a strong black woman, as well as big boi, ti, and etc.

  • @justleviopinion Regardless if they r downing dark skin woman, callin you hoes, or bitches I feel like artist do it not by preference but they feel that this is what the ppl want. If women dont stand up n numbers & say this is inappropriate then they will keep doing it. It's hard to defend that downing blk women is wrong when ur n a club n all the ladies known Gucci Mane Freaky Girl by heart. So yeah entertianment &etc is wrong but until women stand up and say enough is enough it will continue

  • BTW whenever I watch shows about these subjects I always feel like people like Tyra really don't know what they're talkin about because THEY DONT KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE!!! Like it would b easy fr me to sit here &tell a plus size woman that beauty comes in all sizes and shapes crap &look down on hr fr tearin up on hw she gets no luv bt tht would be B.S cuz there's truth to hr story & I think we should sympathize more than tell ppl wht they're doin wrong!!!

  • When u tlk about her needin to branch out b/c nt everywhere is the same basically..idk about that..Im Kenyan &these same issues r in Africa..sad I knw! Lighter ppl r put on a pedestal there too & the bleaching cream market is doin ridiculously well all over the cities there & even in their music vids which r becomin increasingly Westernized, dark skinned women aren't present..sometimes ull see even another race. Idk y its looked down upon soo much.???

  • change gon' come" rap re-mix by MzMuffin - right here on YouTube - on the real, how's u feel?

  • I think in African society there is always something like that! in North Africa for exemple, "light skinned" is the common color , really dark skinned si the minority, but there are lighter like white, blonde and blue eyes in a same family (cousin white and you black ). So descrimination is even in your own family when you are north african.

  • @Hind1982 THE WHITES INVADED NORTH AFRICA.

  • brother...you make SO MUCH SENSE.

    thank you.

  • @queenVEExo Appreciate that

  • Both type of girls are Gorgeous! Color does not matter! All girls are Gorgeous in every way <3

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  • @Billjohnson201020 T_T No need for the racism...

  • @Billjohnson201020 You also have to know that the media dumbs down the black youth and even the latin youth to feel insecure about their skin color. They make it so relevant to show white or light-skinned people often...now than even compared to the 90's. At least in the 90's they had a balance of dark brown, brown, and light brown people to look to..and even as far as positive role models. In our race their isnt a big divide among dark and light skin like people are making it. Just media B.S.

  • @Coilizebronze i feel you on that

  • IF U NEVER BEEN A DARK SKIN WOMAN U SHOULDNT SAY THAT. IM A BROWN BUT I HAVE EVEN SEEN THAT MANY MEN PUT LITE WOMEN ON A PEDESTAL. WOMEN DONT HAVE TO GO THROUGH A MILLI BLACK MEN TO KNOW THAT A LARGE NUMBER OF THEM PREFER LITE WOMEN. THERE ARE SOME THAT DONT PREFER LITE WOMEN BUT HONESTLY THEY ARE IN A MINORITY. IM CARAMEL AND I EVEN SEE THAT SHIT. ITS NOT EVEN ABOUT BEING OVERLOOKED BUT MANY BLACK MEN WILL OUTRIGHT INSULT AND DISRESPECT A DARK GIRL U KNOW THIS SO WHY PLAY LIKE IT DONT HAPPEN?

  • @oohkillertofu I feel you but I have a little sister who is darker than the midnight sky but I have never allowed her to feel that she is not beautiful because she is dark skin. It's about SELF CONFIDENCE and so what if the majority so call "prefer light skin women". You aint dating, marriage, or settling down with kids and a home with the majority of men, only 1. So if you find that one, then the hell with what society thinks.

  • @oohkillertofu I understand where your coming from but let's be real your not dating, married to or having children with the MAJORITY of so called "men who prefer light skin women", only 1. All u need is to find that 1 who appreciates u for who u are and the hell with what society thinks is beautiful. How is this issue different from natural sizes versus the model size 0 or women long silky (so called GOOD HAIR) vs black women's natural hair. This problem can be easily solved w/ SELF CONFIDENCE

  • I love this video :)

  • There is NO SUCH THING as a "Light Skinned Black" person The term “Light Skinned Black” is just a racist oxymoron coined by racial supremacists who tried (via the racist & illegal One-Drop Rule) to forcibly deny Mixed-Race' people who are Multi-Generational Multiracially-Mixed (MGM-Mixed) the right to embrace & acknowledge their full ancestry So-called "Light Skinned Blacks" are just 'Mixed-Race' people from families that BECAME & CONTINUALLY REMAINED Mixed-Race THRU-OUT their generations
  • You are so right. And you know what? Light skinned, dark skinned, whatever. We're still black. I liked the video and your mom is so pretty (:.

  • Men are animals. Women need to realize they all cheat & they are big a headache & they cause too many problems (rape, murder, theft) Black women are strong; a trophy wife with a Blood Diamond is a glorified prostitute, slave. Who wants to rely on someone inadequate?

  • If men only have "good vision, we can solve this problem. Salter peter, poke their eyes out, neuter, gas them, keep the cool 1s (gays) for entertainment (loneliness) & reproducing (KEEP the party going). It isn't about looks GIRLS, it's about domination.

  • Men do a good job at giving EVERY kind of women some sort of complex, too fat, not good bed, too promiscuous, not freaky enough, too dumb, small tits, big butts, etc yet they are the ones who always come up short.  These perverts take too many jobs! Some people need to get laid off in this time of economic crisis. They have too much control. It is a white mans world but it does not have to be. We have a pervert problem.

  • Physically women do not need sex. But if thats what you want, it is ok to masturbate. Men do it all the time! Even though, it is not discussed in schools, frowned down upon, & not usually practiced by women at an early age.. Men get rich off the porn industry (but prostitution is Illegal? If that's what they want, why cant women go into business for themselves?). Sounds like a leaky pipe problem too me. We can fix it before they cause any more catastrophes.

  • There no such think as light skin and dark skin black people Please, It's like saying that there is light and dark skin whites, oriental and all the great colors in between. Dark skin is black like the people in Africa and light skin are bi-racial or close generation bi-racial, so in truth the guys or girl who say there want a light skin black person wants a bi-racial partner.

  • When I became 19 I felt the pressure that non biracial black women. I use 2 feel the pressure of not being light enough & not having super long hair at first. That was one of the reasons why I grew my real hair all the way down 2 the middle of my back. Now Im finally happy 2 be me I love my dark brown skin & my hair is 2 my neck now & I like it. Now I realize that u don't have to be biracial looking with long hair 2 be beautiful.

  • By the way...white people have a skin-diseased called leprosy. Which is subject to skin-cancer and all sorts of other skin-diseases. Brown-2-Dark-skin is blessed. White is cursed. Numbers 12:10  And the cloud departed from off the tabernacle; and, behold, Miriam became leprous, white as snow: and Aaron looked upon Miriam, and, behold, she was leprous.

  • OMG, speak the truth!! lol

  • my rule---the more the pigment....less wrinkle

  • This man makes a great point but I don't know if those black women in the pics would appreciate being on youtube...lol...i d k...

  • thank you for saying black men are inidividuals im tired of hearing this "light skin women have it better" whine....not all men prefer light women stop watchin bet...keep in mind which is owned by a white person

  • @Dawn0564 I am tired of hearing it as well. It sounds like bullshit. Especially when they complain about these videos. Most of these videos are funky anyway. And a lot of black girls even say that then turn around and nag about the skin tones of the females, lol.

  • Light skin blacks in general Have it

    A lot easier than dark skinned blacks.

    I've seen light skinned black women

    portayed in beuty but never dark skinned

    blacks

  • what about Naomi Campbell, Nia Long, Michelle Obama??? they are darker and very attractive. Iman is pretty dark as well...if you are a beautiful woman you are a beautiful woman light, dark, whatever

  • true that----Adam and EVE Were LIGHTER and some of us came out lighter,light ,med, dark and darker. amen

  • IT IS HOW GOD LOOK AT YOU. NOT MANS thoughts but God's.

  • u r so rite bout black men cuz ma daddy married ma momma who is dark skin n ma daddy lite skin n im like obama color! EVERYONE! has a different type of person they perfer! me i love all men 4rm white boys 2 dark skin boys! 2 me if u fine u fine! i just think this needs to end because it makes no since! and we as black people need to see how far we've come! we were all slaves and now we have a black president! i dont think we should b worring about skin color anymore because we are all the same

  • niceeeeeeeeeee...hmmmm. WE came from Adam and EVE.....All 4 races.

  • i mean like ridiculous stereotypical stuff. like big asses and things like that. they always say im shaped like a white girl. which sucks cuz i cant really change that. u kno?

  • no offense but when it comes to my babies, doesnt matter whether light or dark, they gotta be goodlooking in facial features.

  • you can go fuck youself you motherfucker im a dark skinned male so go fuck yourself

  • relax my brother........inside we all have the same.... REMEMBER THIS....IF WE all looked a like would the world be better.

  • yo i can not stand the way you talk..it sounds like you bout to spit every where..didnt get past 30 seconds so ill give you 1 star..god bless

  • ya momma nice bhaiii

  • I'm brownskin and we all have our stuggles I know lightskin girls get tired of being called "high-yellow" and stuff like that but I get tired of whites, asians and hispanics saying "OMG , your pretty for a dark-skin girl" Like WDF is that suppose to mean? Smh....its sad , but I love my skin tone and wouldn't change it for any man.

  • fellows lets be honest with these girls yo the reason why black males prefer light skin over dark is because THE LOOK BETTER thats it u can't go any explain it more I mean seriously all u females are desame way when it comes to guys, yall prefer light skinned over dark skinned too and don't lie

  • hell yeah..females more colorstruck then dudes..they the ones who care about pretty babies with light skin and eyes and curly hair

  • 495039....my man is dark skinned and the first thing I noticed about him was his complexion...yes SOME black females see light men as better looking, but for the most part, we love black men regardless of skin tone. However once, my sister in law said these exact words" I already know my baby's gonna have 'good hair' because I'm gonna marry a white man" And that was just fuc'n sad.

  • I use to have a problem with this but my mom told me that most light skinned men prefer a drak skinned girls i'm not sure how true that is but where I live its seems to be true i've never had to face any problems about my skin color some people call me "red bone" some would just say i'm dark skinned (which is what i call my self) I feel that if a guy is going to date you based on your skin color light skinned or dark skinned then they have problems point blank period.

  • my ma told me that 2 but ive found that lots of them prefer lighter women 2! so it really sux

  • I get that youre saying to stop juding the whole group and to blame the person.

  • I'm a "chocolate" complexion. I've dated quite a few guys. From what I've experienced. The guys that date darker females, do it ONLY because "light skinned females think they all dat". ALL of my guys told me dat. Wen I'm told dat, I believe that they PREFER 2 b wit a lighter female. It may sound stupid, but dat kind of hurts. I like dat a guy will date a darker female, but I dont like the reason 4 them doin it.

  • yea dont just date me b/c the lighter females dont pay u any attention. but i got sick of that a long time ago. ive become attracted more to dudes of other races b/c most of the ones ive met choose women based on NORMAL traits. black men are the only men who do this. note; i am not saying they all do but most do

  • @gogogetter exactly only black men are colorstruck for the most part. they put lighter females on pedestals and when these women play they ass thats when they wanna run back to the darker females with their bruised egos.

  • @kievia04 yes i noticed that as well that they only mess with darkskin chicks because lightskin women hurt they feelings or too high maintenance. And if they wasnt they would leave darkskin women as whole. These darkskin decide to date interracially and get crucified for it. go figure

  • @kievia04

    Dark skin men like lighter woman and lighter men prefer Dark woman

  • Great discussion, Fam! You hit it right on the head. I LOVE my dark-skinned Black women! I want one in my life right now. They are beautiful my boy!

  • lmao.

  • im dark skinned, confident , & happy. when it comes to dating my complexion has never been a problem . YES, my skin tone has been talked about , but do i let that get me down & start boo-hooin ?, HELL NO (:

    . people forget that there are pretty dark girls& pretty light girls.  if you have CONFIDENCE & know what u want in lifee then finding a partner who loves your skintone wnt be a problem .

    dnt assume that all light skinned girls think that they are better than you, get to know them!

  • wish i av ur confidence:)

  • All Black Women are Georgious Period!!!!

  • I'm brownish olive. I've always been in the middle between light skin and dark skin. But all races seem to love me. ANd I have dark girlfriends and they....well....I mean people are attracted to them I guess...

  • Windrix are you sure your black? your stupid ignorant comment doesnt help this issue not 1 bit. It aint no between light skin and dark, you are just a lighter shade of brown so accept it and love yourself. quit tryna put 1 foot in the door of the light skin club you dumb bitch, and accept that you are a beautiful shade of brown!!!!!

  • "Brownish Olive" is not light. If you aren't light you're dark, period. You sound insecure about it, I wish people would stop with the self-hate.

  • light skin men went out of fashion with the high top fades

  • ok..... i'ma say this... i'm a happy dark skin lady. yes i believe both light and dark have it bad... one its society that makes judge each other ever since the brown paper bag. back in slavery where the "lighter" got to work in the house bcuz it please the master.. we just all need to get over it. what ever floats ur boat.. be happy with wut God made u to be. if u love and embrace urself(inner beauty), then other people we'll see ur light. i do have more 2 say. but that's it 4 now =)

    god bless

  • Thanks for this video. Even though society praises lighter women, that shouldn't stop us from living our lives to our full potential. There's someone for everyone, and I feel that we as dark skinn women always play the victim, and it's making me look bad. I understand why we feel that way, but are we going to sit there and bitch moan and complain about it or are we going to do something about it. Making video and force society to change is not going make society change their minds.

  • The media always mostly portrays black, asian, and hispanic women the worst.

  • light skin women have problems w/ color of their skin n boys. Dark skin women have problems w/ their skin n boys. Yes, boys because a man don't really see for the color of ur skin. Hell spanish, asian, indian women have problems too.

  • pt3)...but when tTEH WHOITE MAN is obviously racist towards a black man...because he is black..then all of a sudden,black men want everyone to feel their poain.

    BUT THE HYPOCRICY...stems when u same black men say ...that dark skin girls,or 'MAKING THIS UP"...or lying.

    No maybe its TURE.

    I just wish dark skin girls will quit supporting these rappers/or any body who clearly like young berg said...

    'dont do dark butts'.

    Have your options,but dont say that what dark girls say is a lie!

  • I never said there wehre lying I say they can not make excuses for why tey cant find love, ALL PEOPLE FIND IT HARD TO FIND LOVE and yeah i nthe media they preside being lighter as beauty but im not talking about the media. Im talking to dark skin black woman attacking light skin black woman as if they are two different people. THEY ARE ALL BLACK WOMAN and that is my message

  • @justleviopinion you little fat faggot. you would see only dark skin black women ATTACKING huh? man go somewhere. you prejudice little fickle mined faggot. BLOCK ME YOU UGLY FAGGOT. DARK SKIN REPRESENTS BLACK CULTURE. remember that. AND you and you mom, is that why you said we were LYING? because you mama is red? do my race a favor and BE GONE, you and YOUR WHORE OF A MOTHER

  • i luv u =)

  • pt2..then what do you expect?

    HAVE U SEEN THE DOLL TEST?

    Okay,there were all dark skinned girls there..as well.

    as little boys...they all chose then lighter doll.

    Its starts in the home..

    however,black little girls are not blind..from age of 3 they start to internalize what thy see on TV..if they see only LIGHT SKINNED/MIXED /WHITE GIRLS getting parts/in magazines etc...then they will BELIEVE ITS SOMETHING WRONG WITH THEM.

    Thus as they age,they feel the pain more..

    smh,at you guys.

  • This is comical.

    Im not dark...nor light...but I do see it all the time...

    And all u have to do is LOOK AT THE VIDEOS...WHO DO 'RAPPERS',PUT AS THEIR MAIN GIRLS?!?

    Stop trying to make it like dakr skin girls are making this up.

    Its bs..if u,or any other 'black man',try and down play the OBVIOUS..colorism that BLACK men have...specifiually the really dark guys.

    Im not saying its wrong to favor a light skin girl..however,if its hurt she feels..and if she is prettyy/getting ignored then

  • but thats the problem right there youre letting them get to you. You cant always pay ne mind to wat the media or society has to say...and honestly most of the girls in videos as light as they are, are half naked ne way, so thats not a good portrayl in and of itself.

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