I feel as though the media portrays this image that if you are "fat" you can't love yourself or that no one will love you... I am "fat" and I love and embrace who I am... I don't look for someone to love me because that time will come. But I do understand where other ladies are coming from. Losing the weight is very difficult, but if you think positive, I promise you, the weight will peel right off... believe in yourself.
I cry everyday because I'm a fat, undesirable, black woman. No man even pays me any attention no matter what I do, I'm invisible. Other fat girls have enriching relationships or get noticed by men, but I'm incapable of attracting anyone but old 50+ men. I don't deserve anyone because I'm so ugly, who'd be stupid enough to want to be with me? My personality doesn't matter..looks are everything. I have given up on ever finding anyone decent, that's asking too much.
omg thats really sad! hey looks ARENT everything, and if you are really unhappy there is SO MUCH you can do to heal your heart and your body. Don't give up, just start small and you can get there.
woman ha you have been cotradicting your selv's for the longest time i dont like being objectifeid . but im too fat like wtf if you think your to fat you care what ppl think of you so therefore your letting youre selfs be objectified who the fuck care's if you weigh a lil more then others ppl like confidence beleve in your self thats all you need being fit is just a bonus and its not easy if its done the right way you have to work to get what you want .
I hate myself. Everything about me. There's a person that I've met recently that really changed my life. He's truly a wonderful friend that I've never had before and I think he likes me just as much as I do him. But deep down, I feel like I don't deserve him because I'm not thin. It's hard to believe that people will love you no matter what your physical body looks like. Good things come to pretty people. I wish I were one.. How can someone just give up this fear?
Guh. Sometimes i really hate being a chick. especially living in a big city.. i get to see huge bilboards of perfect woman and places usually hire people for reasons.. like a certain place only hires "hot" chicks with huge boobs and super skinny.. i mean, im not large nor am i at the skinny level i want.. It gets hard once in a while :(
we get bombarded with imagery everyday trying to sell us stuff on the premise that if we buy this to look this way, we'll be loved and accepted. it's the plague of the modern, this self-loathing, self-obsession....each of us has to struggle to recognize and prevent it from ruining our lives and our image of ourselves.
I don't understand how someone can e fat?? we are all built by the same material, big and small are only perceptions and are always compared to another form, nothing actual beyond those words- fat or thin.
i can see how this applies to healthy people but look at the heavier fast food consumer and tell me that getting on a treadmill and eating real food wouldn't make them healthier. it's not the material but the BMI where there is a healthy range of percentage of fat you can have in your body. it's unresonable to aspire to be a model, this woman is not too fat, but some people are.
Wont i become more fat if i stop thinking about that! I mean i have to work out every day just to maintain my weight.. now if i stop thinking i am fat wont i lose motivation to work out and atleast maintain my weight?!
If you think you are fat, and you work out because of that motivation, it is hatred, not loving. You can definitely stop thinking you are fat and still work out -- by choosing to love your body and do something good for it, or by deciding you want your body to be in healthy condition. Those are loving motivations.
What Katie is saying is that you don't have to HAVE the belief that you are fat, because that belief causes you stress.
I feel as though the media portrays this image that if you are "fat" you can't love yourself or that no one will love you... I am "fat" and I love and embrace who I am... I don't look for someone to love me because that time will come. But I do understand where other ladies are coming from. Losing the weight is very difficult, but if you think positive, I promise you, the weight will peel right off... believe in yourself.
GMAHIPPO101 10 months ago
The Woman crying is so beautiful. I hope she has found some peace.
missfortune777 1 year ago 2
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missfortune777 1 year ago
She is still fat anyways... I mean she knew the truth, she's fat xD!
sailormoongustavlufr 1 year ago
I'd do her.
dthendon 1 year ago
wow, this woman is amazing. She is so right!
akeru1000 1 year ago
Sunshine, freedom, and a ugly fat body-.-
Throwyourselfskinny 1 year ago
I cry everyday because I'm a fat, undesirable, black woman. No man even pays me any attention no matter what I do, I'm invisible. Other fat girls have enriching relationships or get noticed by men, but I'm incapable of attracting anyone but old 50+ men. I don't deserve anyone because I'm so ugly, who'd be stupid enough to want to be with me? My personality doesn't matter..looks are everything. I have given up on ever finding anyone decent, that's asking too much.
GamingQueen88 2 years ago 3
omg thats really sad! hey looks ARENT everything, and if you are really unhappy there is SO MUCH you can do to heal your heart and your body. Don't give up, just start small and you can get there.
grindelia 2 years ago
woman ha you have been cotradicting your selv's for the longest time i dont like being objectifeid . but im too fat like wtf if you think your to fat you care what ppl think of you so therefore your letting youre selfs be objectified who the fuck care's if you weigh a lil more then others ppl like confidence beleve in your self thats all you need being fit is just a bonus and its not easy if its done the right way you have to work to get what you want .
capnbic 2 years ago
I hate myself. Everything about me. There's a person that I've met recently that really changed my life. He's truly a wonderful friend that I've never had before and I think he likes me just as much as I do him. But deep down, I feel like I don't deserve him because I'm not thin. It's hard to believe that people will love you no matter what your physical body looks like. Good things come to pretty people. I wish I were one.. How can someone just give up this fear?
jessLUVSdave 2 years ago
Guh. Sometimes i really hate being a chick. especially living in a big city.. i get to see huge bilboards of perfect woman and places usually hire people for reasons.. like a certain place only hires "hot" chicks with huge boobs and super skinny.. i mean, im not large nor am i at the skinny level i want.. It gets hard once in a while :(
Jestir66 2 years ago
Thats not the point. The point is that the suffering comes from believing that I should be like other people, when you are not. Try the work again.
alexzracer2008 2 years ago
we get bombarded with imagery everyday trying to sell us stuff on the premise that if we buy this to look this way, we'll be loved and accepted. it's the plague of the modern, this self-loathing, self-obsession....each of us has to struggle to recognize and prevent it from ruining our lives and our image of ourselves.
liviti 2 years ago
dont listen to these white trash (ive never seen any black enlightened women) escapist who come to india go back and fool others.....
baby u aint got a clue how many men dig in to cubby chicks then any skinny anorexic female skeleton
bokojoo 2 years ago
wow, you can really feel her pain:(
whatisavail09 2 years ago
This woman is so beautiful.
Blessings,
Cinnamonslices
cinnamonslices 2 years ago
I don't understand how someone can e fat?? we are all built by the same material, big and small are only perceptions and are always compared to another form, nothing actual beyond those words- fat or thin.
uranus1987 2 years ago
that's bullshit
i can see how this applies to healthy people but look at the heavier fast food consumer and tell me that getting on a treadmill and eating real food wouldn't make them healthier. it's not the material but the BMI where there is a healthy range of percentage of fat you can have in your body. it's unresonable to aspire to be a model, this woman is not too fat, but some people are.
teecomb 2 years ago 2
I hate fat chicks. If you don't have enough self control to keep yourself at a healthy weight then you don't deserve to live. Please, don't breed.
IFknHateUTube 2 years ago
stop crying about how fat you are do some sports and eat less
preppywasp 2 years ago
omg who is this woman?!
gabriellex13 2 years ago
some fat cunt
IFknHateUTube 2 years ago
I agree with Katie, that it is self-love not self-control that will result in a healthy weight and a healthy life!
jinjee 3 years ago 8
Wont i become more fat if i stop thinking about that! I mean i have to work out every day just to maintain my weight.. now if i stop thinking i am fat wont i lose motivation to work out and atleast maintain my weight?!
I dont get this..
KarthikSoun 4 years ago 2
If you think you are fat, and you work out because of that motivation, it is hatred, not loving. You can definitely stop thinking you are fat and still work out -- by choosing to love your body and do something good for it, or by deciding you want your body to be in healthy condition. Those are loving motivations.
What Katie is saying is that you don't have to HAVE the belief that you are fat, because that belief causes you stress.
sakinah77 4 years ago 9
thanks for posting this great stuff !!
"the work" is amazing
jerome112021 4 years ago
You are a beautiful woman. Don't cry. Do what you want if it is to get rid of the weight always do it for yourself no one else. Self control.
JustLisa702 4 years ago