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  • remember they had a remix for this? it was more upbeat

  • awesome jam

    rockin the body slowly to the beat.. oh yeah

  • such a gud vibe

  • i know this may seem obvious but the whole song is sayin he cheated but she still takin him back regardless

  • boy if u from ga n u know bout Plantaion Apts in like 1995 summer.........kevin, butler, tim, kim ,lissa, ...lol mike, lol some more!!!!! ayeeeeee!!!!!! thumbs up

  • @BlackOwnedDallas...yo homie I have never laughed so hard in my life!!!

  • This song was terrible. Like super, garbage, terrible.

  • I was about 9 when this song came out. The funny thing is so u still consider him urs if the girl has had.him more than once n constantly? Lol not but glad I got a good man (im thinkin).

  • Karma is a bitch. . . However I do anything and everything for my husband we have been together since I was 14 I am now 23 and we are more in love then ever. Always keeping him satisfied ;)

  • omg i remember this song like it was yesterday

  • smh, even hoes had good theme songs back in the 90's.

  • 1 hit wonders lol

  • With as bad as cheating is nowadays I am surprised at the negative way ppl are reacting to the story of this song..people make mistakes and her guy obviously didn't cheat again so the point is that the other woman is trying to put her down cause her man cheated but she's telling her watever he's mine..you won't get him again because you were a one time mistake and I'm his all the time. Basically, this stuff happens every day...if you can't relate to this song..somebody else can.

  • damn dis the jam!!!!!!!!!!

  • He might be doing you. But he's thinkin' about me, so lay that finger on another love. And go find another brother. I know he's my man. He's holding my hand. It feels good when he calls my name! Don't you wish you had the same feeling? Disgust workin' yo' stuff till he thinks about mine. Now he's feeling real high. You ask why? Cause he's mine. You may have had him ONCE, but I got him ALL THE TIME! :)

  • these women know damn well they used to pump this shit back then stop fronting

  • ♥.!

  • EVERYONE HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY ABOUT THIS VIDEO, CALLING HER STUPID OR DUMB BUT WE HAVE ALL PLAYED THE FOOL AND MESS WITH A DUDE THAT HAD A GIRLFRIEND OR SOME A WIFE AND YES THAT MAN IS HER'S. SO STOP ACTING LIKE YOU HAVE NOT EVER PLAYED THE DUMBY ROLEBECAUSE EVERYONE HAVE (UGH)

  • @nashterri okayyyyy

  • @nashterri Don't try to put everyone in the same category as you. I ain't ever get put in that position and if I did I wouldn't keep the bitch.

  • @tuck0804 I WAS NOT PUTTING ANYONE INTO THE SAME CATEGORY AS MYSELF. I DNT DATE MEN THAT HAVE GF,BUT I KNOW PPL WHO HAVE. THIS WAS A RANDOM THOUGHT TO Y IS EVERYONE JUDGING A SONG. IF YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN IN THIS SITUATION Y WASTE MY TIME AND OTHERS BY COMMENTING ON A POST THAT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH U. I WUD HOPE THT ANYONE U GET WITH WUD STAND TO BE DISRESPECTED AND CALLED OUT OF THEIR NAME (BITCH). THIS IS ALL I HAVE TO SAY.PLEASE DNT COMMENT ON NOTHING ELSE I PLACE ON HERE. THANK U

  • @nashterri if the shoe fits... the term "bitch" would be appropriate as if I dated a gal with the lowest caliber of character whose actions are bitch made then I deem her worth of the title. It seems like you assumed I call everyone a bitch. Just those that deserve it.

    P.S. You forgot to turn your caps lock off... =)

  • @tuck0804 the song is simply saying she the type TO STAY AND YOU MAY HAVE GOT SOME BUT HE KNOWS HOME....NI I DONT AGREE WITH THAT EITHER, BUT I LOVE THIS SONG IT BRINGS BACK ALL MY GOOD MEMORIES OF HANGING WITH MY BIG CUZIN AND A GUY THAT I LOVED........I WAS LIKE 15 BUT HE WAS MINE...LOL

  • @tuck0804 ALSO YOU COULD INTERPRET IT AS TO THOSE BEFORE YOU, THEY HAD THERE CHANCE, BUT NI YOU GOT THAT.....MUSIC IS ART AND NO ONE IS WRONG IN HOW THEY INTAKE THE LYRICS

  • this is the LOW SELF ESTEEM WOMAN theme song for all times

  • IF YOU DONT LIKE THE SONG...... click the white X, red square, on the top right corner... It aint like this song playing on the radio TODAY.... So why the hell yo complaining ass is even on this link? Apparently you like it.

  • Okay, so this song wins every award for dumbfuckery, but it's still my shit. Modern version: Monica's "Sideline Ho."

  • she talking about how the girl sayn what they use to do but knw he with her

  • @LadySnapBack3 No, she's talking about how he fucked the girl then came home to her.

  • ok hes fucking some other girl but hes your man he shouldnt be cheating period I have a very low tolerance for bullshit with niggas

  • lmao at some of these comments! It's a freakin song for crying out loud! That was the jam in '95'....Oh the memories!

  • If anyone is dumb enough to make this their reality them more power to them! lol

  • @xxx9virgo11xxx Why it it dumb THIS SONG IS ABOUT REAL SHIT? This isn't my experience but is for millions of ppl.

  • @chakazulu87 Real shit or not......self esteem is a must! I get people go through it but the should think more of themselves than yo let a man/women control then to this degree!!!! Any who, I have the CD and love the song, dumb as it is!!! THX

  • @xxx9virgo11xxx its more than a song. its a fucked up mindset that unfortunately a lot of girls are walking around here with. and wondering why men treat us fucked up its because we allow it.

  • @shayarzachary It's not my reality! 

  • Wow old skool jam..

  • seems 2 me that ur cool with an open relationship so the question i ask.........where is ur self respect? u can not talk about the other woman because ur no better than her!!! so gone on player do ur thang if they like it i LOVE IT!!!!

  • ya may havee had em ONCE but iqott em ALL the timee .

  • high school days aww yeah baby got to luv the 90s

  • i love this song

  • yea....

  • OMG I USED TO LOVE THIS SONG!!!!! STILL REMEMBER EVERY WORD!

  • yes....this is my song.....1995

  • i would rather be the one nighter den the silly biatch puttin up wit da bullshit been there done that its not as easy as she sings it to be the wifey always b cryin da trick b carefree NO MOTALKIN SAVE THOSE LIES FO SOMEBODY ELSE KEEP ON WALKIN CAUSE I CAN DO BETTA BY MYSELF thats da jam this song was just ok n we was vibin to it at dat time

  • @loveyellie i was just thinking abt that...

  • this my shit she started alot of songs for artist out now all there songs on based on this one #trends setta

  • OK,if a dude is with another woman,he ain't thinking about you.TRUST

  • Lord please just take me back to the 90's! Pleeeeas!!

  • @breezwonder If you ever get a chance to go, please take me with you! jk

  • @OnlyThe90s I will! cause i want it bask soooooooo bad! it was just a fantastic time!

  • @breezwonder 90's was the best of the best of hip hop, rap, and R&B. Can't compare 90's to today's hits. There's nothing to compare to because it's garbage music of today. 90's you get LL, Snoop, Dre, Naughty By Nature, Boys 2 Men, All 4 One, Will Smith, SWV, TLC, Monica, Genuwine, and the lists goes on and on.  Hit after hit on the radio.

    Nowadays what do we have??? I only can think of USHER and that's it..!! Lil wayne, Bruno Mars, Gaga, Bieber = Garbage Disposal Dead Music. No Beat

  • @MrGthang I couldn't agree with you more. But it wasn't just Music, it was also tv shows! Famous Jett Jackson, All That, Martin, Family Matters, Boy meets world, Zoom, Home Improvement, Double Dare. Whew! Just good times!

  • @MrGthang

    I was watching an award show last yr (cant emember which one tho, maybe bet awards) & they had the category for best r&b and the winner was Bruno Mars, WTF is what we have come to that that bubble gum pop wins best r&b. Remember when this went to guys like r.kelly, genuwine, or luther vandross, gerald levert?

  • @dapog dude I know...! You know why? Because Bruno is the only one in his category that's popular. No one else that's why he won. No disrespect on Bruno, he can sing. I just don't like the lyrics he used on his song " grenade" trash!! I still loved the 90's no matter what people say. I would rather listen to say....Tevin Campbell the whole day than listening to Bruno Mars song or Bieber!

  • @breezwonder Take me with you!

  • @breezwonder AMEN!!!!

  • @breezwonder I know right!!! I miss it sooo bad! The music, movies, tv shows, nothing like it!

  • what year did this come out 94 or 95... i have a bet on it

  • @aMeN408 1994

  • @aMeN408

    Fall of 1995..I was a senior in high school...

  • Alaska is the most sparsely populated state. New Jersey is the most densely populated state.

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  • @shesalive1 its deeper than that, shes saying "you may have had him once, but there in love so therefor she will always have him." Shes not saying "go cheat its okay babe, come home now" -_-

  • @shesalive1 price wrote this song.

  • i like the fact that i remember this song, and think she has a great voice..and i like the beat...HOWEVER the message is wrong...all wrong especially for young women (and men). this is very sad.

  • Im 16 & i jam this :)

  • i love this song!!!

  • This song was added on my birthday!

  • THE STORY OF THE SONG IS DUMB FEMALES FIGHTING OVA A MAN WHOS PLAYING BOTH OF THEM BUT SO WAT I STILL LIKE THE SONG 9Os MUSIC IS THE SHIT AND IT U COULD RELATE TO IT OR KNEW SUMBODY WITH THE SAME SITUATION REAL LIFE !!

  • 90's hip hop and r&b- New Jack Era

  • it feels good when he calls me eddie Q, don't U WISH u had the same . . .

  • Haters hate--- This is the joint.. besides it's only music,.,,

  • pretty lady, decent singin voice. way 2 go on screwin 2pac's 'keep ya head up' beat & puttin a lil twist on it.

  • @shindogg you damn rite lololol nvr thought of it like tht this is his beat huh lol

  • @jahdeiluv yup. this comin from a pac fan. slow down pac's acapella & it would fit perfect wit this beat. r.i.p. the best rapper alive.

  • -Ayee ii agree this songz is 4 the ignorant women who allow there men 2 cheat nd B Koo w/ it ..But we cant deny this is A BANGERRRR!.Lmaoo this the shxt .If women wana B stupid let them B ..She wrongg fa this tho lolx .

  • yeah this is my song too, but hey thats why im single so i don't want to put up with that mess. lol and i don't want anyone else man ether.

  • read this.once u started there is no turni back. a little 10 year old girl was raped and murdured in 1945. her body was not found untill 1947.then a boy last week read this and did not copy and paste this message. the dead girl appeared in his room haunting him and killed him. if ou do not copy and paste this onto 10 videos in 30 minutes the dead girl will appear in your room tonight and haunt you and kill uwell you better start to copy and paste if you want to be safe

  • This song states that she is ok with her man cheating on her because any (supposedly) he is going to leave them anyway.Really none of it is ok because it makes men listening think that it's ok disrepect because "he aint going nowhere".This song just sounds nice not the lyrics just the sound and the voices.It doesn't mean you take this kind of thinking into relationships for those of you who don't know.

  • I LOVE THIS SONG.....PRINCESS LECY..PURPLE FRIDAY

  • "him"  :)

  • "I got all the time" that's right ..

  • Still bangin. This was the jam

  • somebody must have played this song on Casshan1983's voicemail, and they mad as shit!!!! LLS

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  • This song has alot of meanin' shit I know so far it's like 40 people who don't like this song. (But) When you really listen to this song shit it does has some truth to it. I mean don't get me wrong who wouldn't want somebody who was only with them but it's up to us to decide who we're goin' to be with. I look at like it old girl just lettin' her know you can't brag that you had him. Shit he's mines and that nigga better had used a comdon when he fuck you and got money out of you and gave it 2 me

  • @wr513 , you're just stupid. I can't say anything more.

  • LOVE IT.....GREAT SONG! I GUESS DA 1S DAT DNT LIKE IT R DA 1S DEY R REFERRING 2 N DIS SONG...IT WAS ONLY 4 1NITE.....KML :)

  • @bunkabiatch , you can't speak English correctly dear... I'm black but I'm educated; people think you're stupid if you mess up as much as you do. P.S. This song's acceptance is exactly why blacks are growing in the AIDS Population. We need to stop accepting this type of behavior. It's disgusting!!!!

  • @cuchinafrankie9 Amen!!!

  • dumbest r&b lyrics ever, but hey since it was in the 90's it gets my stamp of approval hahaha

  • i love da song! :) open ya mind up to what shes sayin cuz...how many of u srry men cheated on ya women and wished u had her sayin this bout u!...think about it.

  • Get Over It,It Was Only For Onee Nighht Haha Myy Jammm..

  • "And now he's coming home" The tune is awesome but please ladies, dont take the lyrics seriously. You may have had him once, she has him all the time but there are probably a few other women that can say that they have had him once too.

  • this is my jam he's mine you may have had him once but i got him all the time

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  • Can't agree with the words but I'm vibin' the tune.

  • wow deep.

  • This Is A Song 4 Dumb ASz Naive Women Who Make Themselves Feel Better By Faulting The Other Woman. She Just Fucked Him U Gata Deal Wit Hisz Cheating Asz Everyday. Girl He Dont Love U He Makin A Fool Outta U N Since He Know U Feel Like This He Gon Continue 2 Do It 2 U Because He kNow U Not Going Nowhere. I Wonder What They Gon Sing About When He Bring U Some U Cant Get Rid Of... #Kept Bytches Anthem

  • @TiaraDenise100 what you said

  • Ive notice these throwback songs have alot of meaning. 

  • true sentences from true divas

  • tbh; i like this song only to be messy on da slick cuz if she has him once she could have him all da time...lol

  • Even as a teen I knew this song was ratchet as fuck. We used to call this group the bootleg SWV. lmao

  • Okay so the lyrics are kinda dumb, but this beat still sounds hot as heck.

  • Its Funny How Many People Comment Its A Stupid Song, But Yet You Searched It ,

    Didnt You? Lmao

  • @mellachella

    It is a stupid song, but it's a jam, too.

  • @mellachella Isnt It Funny How You Capitalize Every Word In Your Sentence? You Must Have A Lot Of Time On Your Hands

  • @mellachella Not necessarily - it pops up on the side of the songs people actually search. I personally love the song, but it IS stupid as hell, and no self-respecting woman would say this to another woman. It should be more like, "You can have that loser!"

  • I'm sorry but Mokensteff was a wack group.

  • @ sweetstanley40 He migrated off somewhere and didn't want to know because I kicked him out of my life. I'm married to a terrific guy (10yrs) and had two more lovely boys. As for him - he married after me, had 1 kid and wife left him, took her 5mos old baby and migrated to the US.

  • @ sweetstanley40 @101iamalegend He migrated off somewhere and didn't want to know because I kicked him out of my life. I'm married to a terrific guy (10yrs) and had two more lovely boys. As for him - he married after me, had 1 kid and wife left him, took her 5mos old baby and migrated to the US.

  • Shut up. straight up haha..

  • WHAT HAPPEN TO THIS GROUP

  • Dumb ass bitch ho's

  • LOL...bought this CD back then and my baby daddy was living with me but, having his thing on the side. This use to comfort me until one day after graduating from university, I thought "I've had enuff of this piece of crap". I kicked him out...FOREVER!!!

  • @Bizz2k He at least gets to see his kid, right?

  • @Bizz2k Good for you!

  • Sounds like her man was on the down low.

  • if its a hoodrat anthem then why u up here listening to it...move on to the next song because its obvious that u like it, or are u the hoodrat they talkin bout...this joint still bangs 90s was that era forreal

  • agree

  • omg yall takin dis song wayy 2 far shes talkn 2 the other women telln her this is my man yes yall may have had sumthing goin on but its dne bcuz he is my man just like most women would do if some female comes and try to take your man

  • @sexiilady2012 thank u some women must be the one who she is talkin about cause they show is kinda upset

  • One of the dumbest songs of the 90s. No wonder this group was a one-hit wonder. Its one thing if the main chick does not know about the other woman, but when she does and still takes the guy back, then something is definitely wrong w/ her. This song probably gave a lot of those women the wrong idea. LOL

  • Some. Ppl.just don't understand this song...just because they might be the chick she talkin about ....listen to the words..never fall in love with a man that don't luv u ....damn....

  • hood. rat. drama. lmao, bitch you could just have him.

  • classically dumb...woman if he's cheatin on u even just for one nyt,he'll do it next week,next month,next year!!!!!

  • @Barbie86ist That's the most dumbest comment I've ever heard. First of all, "women" are so quick to judge another woman if she's sleeping with someone's elses man. The man is a hoe too!!! That double standard shit is wack! Either way it's a wrong. Yall dumb broads always take the man side and blame the other woman. Obviously, it's a problem if his trifling ass is cheating is the first damn place!

  • Ok, look people everyone knows the singers/rappers or whatever you want to call them DO NOT make politically correct songs...So please stop with the complaining. If this song was never made, men and women would still cheat, there would still be unplanned pregnancies and STDs. Do not go blaming this song on society's problems. Because before it was made and after things like this still exist and trust me it's not because they heard this song.

  • Wow! I didnt realize that this song had that much of an impact on ppl. Especially in 2011.Really?Im an african american woman who had kids at a young age.Yes,I did receive welfare and ended up raises them by myself.But it wasnt b/c of this song.It was b/c of the choices that I made and the consquences I had to face b/c of those choices.Now married,kids in high school with3.67,3.60 n 3.54 grade point averages,I must say, my choices are alot betta.Its your choice folks.Listen or keep it movin.....

  • WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA­AAAAACK AZZ SONG. If you were a woman, why would you even say some bullshiot like that?

  • they're actually was alot of songs in the 90s that were as stupid as this but they were very big hits & this was def 1 of those hits

  • Why would you even be LISTENING to this song, if you just gonna complain about it? Obviously it's something about it that you like cause Im sure you didnt just run into it & decided to play it as old as it is. BTW This song makes a lot of sense... Ya'll acting like dudes aren't human, like they're perfect and never will step out on a woman. Psh Face Reality. I know plenty of dudes that LOVE they're woman but have cheated before. It's a huge difference between LOVE & LUST.. HUMANS can have both.

  • My one friend sang this to this other chick who was creepin with her man....he STILL left her SMH

  • .......

  • SOME WOMEN ACT AS IF THEY HAVE AN UNBLIMISHED LIFE,WANT TO BLAME EVERYTHING ON A MAN,IF YOU WERE DOING YOUR JOB THEN YOU WOULDN'T HAVE TO WORRY BOUT HIM GOING TO SOMEONE ELSE

  • eamonn totally stole from this.

  • DEMAISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS­S

    

  • omg people its just a song its not that serious for calling mokenstef stupid its a song i blast it all day and night singing in my off key voice but at the end of the day i would not take back my cheating bf and tell off his mistress hell she can have him but like i said it a song not a daily log

  • yes!! the baby mama's do need to get a clue .lol am the wife your never be.hahaha

  • I wish the babymams would get a clue!

  • @barbie86ish...If he loves u he wouldn't be doing someone else. He come back coz ur his comfort zone. He goes out n do others coz he's bored. Guys like these r dogs.

  • same melody as H-Town Knocking the boots....

  • @love83forever i clocked that too

  • Im feeling yall MoKenStef..sometimes we let them do them cause we aint trying to be bothered...but dnt get it twisted u sideline chics we still want his trifling ass...lol!

  • I miss the 90's..... Some of the best music

  • 90's gotta love it

  • I would lick every square inch of that mokenstef chick .

  • 33 people have only had him once!!

  • lmao these bitches are actually deep down mad/bitter as hell

  • When this shit came out...it was that slap

  • the lead singer looks like regina king

  • @DaInfamousRo omg she does! never noticed that.

  • I like this song its not saying its ok for him to cheat its just letting you hoes know he mightve fucked you but he is still with me so bitch back off..HE'S MINES if he wanted you why is he still with me know your place your just a hoe

  • @Barbie86ist

    yea...im feelin that..

  • "Play'd ya like a trick cuz ya let him hit...Now he's comin' home to a lover that is strong..."

  • IF A MAN CHEAT ON U BECAREFUL NOT GET STD, IF HE LIKES U HE WONT CHEAT U GOT GOOD PUSSY HE WONT LOOK NO WHERE AND SMART AND STRONG AND HOLD IT DOWN YOU"LL BE IGHT BECARE AND SAFE BLESS THIS SONG IGHT LIKES IT

  • I Love This Song.....

  • I wonder how many dumb women contracted an STD or two from there cheating man listening to these dumb ass women? If a man truly loves you he would never cheat in the first place and risk bringing back a deadly STD back to a woman they say they love same concept goes for the sisters too. This song was and is an anthem for stupid ignorant ass women,there I said it!!!!!

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  • @qwandiddy yeah its womens fault for being pregnant...shut your dumb ass up.. it takes 2 to tango... nigger!

    (I'm a black male)

  • @Casshan1983 That explained what's going on with Young Black "Single" mothers on welfare in Chicago raising bad raggety kids on their own with no fathers, then later their kids having kids, having HIV, because of this song which played on WGCI 107.5FM every 20-30 minutes back when this came out.

  • Why are these lames thumbs upping this comment ------> @Casshan1983

    Nobody wants to hear your little Essay, listen to the damn song.

  • @Casshan1983 Funny lol true when spoken as that!

  • @Casshan1983 You must have caught an STD from your husband? Because your stuck on some damn STD... This is a good song Hop off..

  • @Casshan1983 Men are Men they all cheat any man that says he does not is a lie most are just better at not getting caught. I know preachers and ministers that cheat,curiosity is part of mens life. MOst women do it to. Cheating and sex is not love. Making love is not the same as straight up fu**in. Some time your partner doesn't see eye to eye sexually and you roam to fullfill that fantasy or many other reasons to stray but never to betray the one you love and never when you sleep with that othr

  • @Casshan1983 person are you telling that person you love them and you no longer love your partner. Love and affairs have nothing to do with the other. Now how that person carries out the affair is shows weather he/she loves you or not. If they do it so that you find out, they want out of their relationship. If they hide it well and make sure the other person knows they are taken and they would hurt them if they contacted the partner then that is purely the curiosity and fantasy fufilling.

  • @Casshan1983 ROFLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL­LLLLLLLLLLL HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

  • @Casshan1983 THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOUUUUUU