The problem is that we must get back to our roots! Black people need to stop trying to follow this Eurocentric point of view of what constitutes a family. Yes, black male and female relationships are strained but even worse, the village as a whole is strained! We must get back to a village mentality! We must start helping and empowering one another! We need to start teaching our children about their REAL history and culture and when they do better - we do better as a village!
I agree. I was just reading the book "Is Marriage for White People?" and the author commented on the same notion of a culture of collectivism or the village mentality that you spoke of.
I am Latino and I speak from my single point of view, I don't care if you are black, I want your book, and i will figure out myself =D...... I am sure it will help me find out my own problems. now wish me luck!! =D thank you!!
@AveolarD And you sound like an ignorant, always single, no-life, pathetic person who trolls on youtube starting bs, someone NO ONE would like. But I won't waste anymore time on you, and thank you for your rude and pointless perception of a person you don't know. Stay lthe sad and onely person you are, and God bless. :D
This was a great book! I learned alot about myself and my relationship and it has strengthened my relationship and has me very seriously considering marriage now. A must read for all african american men and women.
Hill harper is great to hear speak. I like the fact that though he has success in life, he understands that he is suppose to be involved in proactively helping in his community. To whom much is given much is required. All the issues that he talked about are large issues in the black community. Listen to the statistics of single parent house holds in the black community. I don't know how fun a relationship book can be, but it's good to hear that he wants to find a solution to the issue.
T.J. actually does date black women?! who'd a thunk it
Hill Harper i think he's prettier than me lol , hes so lovely isnt he like a sexy buttercream cupcake...just scrumptuousness. but i like my men a lil rougher n quirkier tho but i cud eat a cupcake. T.J. s handsome bit stiff tho but i suppose his 'stiffness' is appropriate being all News Anchorish
i obviously low on cupcakes, look at this rambling mini essay of a comment i just wrote lol
HILL you just lost all the credibility i had for you you just sat here talking about the statistics and how AA are the worst off and talking about the destruction of the black family then at the end when he asks about whats going on with the professional black women not having men he backs up and says well "this is just a fun read" you are full of shyt Hill
5-17-2010. He's not a bore. Double H is 44. Happy Birthday, Hill. You've come a long way since Confessions of a Dog. I look forward to seeing you in your next project, Stonehenge Apocalypse. Many happy returns.
You want to know what's going on? It's because black women are petty bitches. And most of them are gold diggers. And a lot of them are fat, have kids and aptitudes. Hopefully smart brothers will choose women for their characters, NOT their race.
he is the most ignorant man in hollywood. Just saw him on bill maher and he sounds like a brain washed little puppy trying to move up in the liberal hollywood world. very sad...
I absoutley love Hill Harper. I read both of his books Letters to a Young Sister and The Conversation, and both were fantastic. I laughed so hard while reading The Conversation it 's really well written. I would love to see this book become a play. When reading the book you can see how black men and women really distrust each other. We have started to believe the myths about one another. Hill is so intellegent and engaing I can't take my eyes off of him when ever I see him. And he is Hot!!
i love him to bits, as you can tell from my name but he seems a little over obsessed with his race, it applies to white ppl to why doesn't he stop segrating himself?
Go out an get his book its great,but he puts himself out there with his new relationship ,doesn't matter what race you are every one has something to gain from it across the board,ENJOY
Love Hill, he's my mentor! Had the honors of meeting this man and let him know how much he inspires me...he even inspired me to be a mentor! Also read Letters to a Young Brother, and Letters to a Young Sister! Love him!
The problem is that we must get back to our roots! Black people need to stop trying to follow this Eurocentric point of view of what constitutes a family. Yes, black male and female relationships are strained but even worse, the village as a whole is strained! We must get back to a village mentality! We must start helping and empowering one another! We need to start teaching our children about their REAL history and culture and when they do better - we do better as a village!
outofthisworldgurl 2 months ago
@outofthisworldgurl
I agree. I was just reading the book "Is Marriage for White People?" and the author commented on the same notion of a culture of collectivism or the village mentality that you spoke of.
misstrice84 2 weeks ago
Lawd, both of these black men make me weak chile!!!
outofthisworldgurl 2 months ago
Great looking men.
intellectualxx 2 months ago
I've never been so happy to watch the news lol ;)
missthabie 3 months ago
2 sexy men
SierraStarr100 4 months ago
tj and hill are sexiest thing alive
munawt 4 months ago
Hill Harper is truely amazing.... Keep up the hard work :~)
MsDoc08 7 months ago
Wow two sexy men, TJ and Hill :-)
honeegrrl 7 months ago 5
Two of the hottest men going! TJ and Hill Harper: YES PLEASE!!!
lford1130 8 months ago 5
The black man constantly faces an uphill battle in life.
Thedarksecret1 9 months ago
Why is Hill, single?
COliver788 10 months ago
@COliver788 I just said the same thing!!
lford1130 8 months ago
When is Hill Harper going come out of the closet, Hill Harper is gay!
Tsugua21 10 months ago
T.J. you are the hottest man alive!
razoraudi 1 year ago 3
I am Latino and I speak from my single point of view, I don't care if you are black, I want your book, and i will figure out myself =D...... I am sure it will help me find out my own problems. now wish me luck!! =D thank you!!
salsero206 1 year ago
i have a lesbian friend who uses this book to says its ok for her to have lesbian feelings.....and she is a christian....
chillbrotha01 1 year ago
If Hill wants to remain single thats his human right and choice, if Black woman can't find husbands thats a personal problem.
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KatarraParson 1 year ago
Gosh...they both are so fine! I'm trying so hard to concentrate on the conversation, but...GOOD LORD! lol
KatarraParson 1 year ago 5
@KatarraParson you sound like a tramp. exactly the type of women black men do not like.
AveolarD 1 year ago
@AveolarD And you sound like an ignorant, always single, no-life, pathetic person who trolls on youtube starting bs, someone NO ONE would like. But I won't waste anymore time on you, and thank you for your rude and pointless perception of a person you don't know. Stay lthe sad and onely person you are, and God bless. :D
KatarraParson 1 year ago
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KatarraParson 1 year ago
@AveolarD And P.s. Some people (you), just can't take a lighthearted joke. Get a life... it's for your own good.
KatarraParson 1 year ago
@KatarraParson my bad, katarra! take care!
AveolarD 1 year ago
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KatarraParson 1 year ago
@KatarraParson wow. thought the same of you. lol. known hill for awhile.
AveolarD 1 year ago
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KatarraParson 1 year ago
@KatarraParson so ur a troll? lol
AveolarD 1 year ago
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KatarraParson 1 year ago
@KatarraParson of course i am. it's called a sense of humor!
AveolarD 1 year ago
@AveolarD :)
KatarraParson 1 year ago
This was a great book! I learned alot about myself and my relationship and it has strengthened my relationship and has me very seriously considering marriage now. A must read for all african american men and women.
focused40 1 year ago
Hill harper is great to hear speak. I like the fact that though he has success in life, he understands that he is suppose to be involved in proactively helping in his community. To whom much is given much is required. All the issues that he talked about are large issues in the black community. Listen to the statistics of single parent house holds in the black community. I don't know how fun a relationship book can be, but it's good to hear that he wants to find a solution to the issue.
in2mobile 1 year ago 2
I have read this book and it help me look at myself and work on making things better
schooldaze21 1 year ago
T.J. actually does date black women?! who'd a thunk it
Hill Harper i think he's prettier than me lol , hes so lovely isnt he like a sexy buttercream cupcake...just scrumptuousness. but i like my men a lil rougher n quirkier tho but i cud eat a cupcake. T.J. s handsome bit stiff tho but i suppose his 'stiffness' is appropriate being all News Anchorish
i obviously low on cupcakes, look at this rambling mini essay of a comment i just wrote lol
Applebaum 1 year ago
@Applebaum love ur comment
mariemarsha 1 year ago
HILL you just lost all the credibility i had for you you just sat here talking about the statistics and how AA are the worst off and talking about the destruction of the black family then at the end when he asks about whats going on with the professional black women not having men he backs up and says well "this is just a fun read" you are full of shyt Hill
EyeWearMySunglasses 1 year ago
5-17-2010. He's not a bore. Double H is 44. Happy Birthday, Hill. You've come a long way since Confessions of a Dog. I look forward to seeing you in your next project, Stonehenge Apocalypse. Many happy returns.
mkl62 1 year ago
You want to know what's going on? It's because black women are petty bitches. And most of them are gold diggers. And a lot of them are fat, have kids and aptitudes. Hopefully smart brothers will choose women for their characters, NOT their race.
DionLaurent1 1 year ago
Two fine men talking!
19832006 1 year ago 7
that stat is wrong about 70% of Black Professional Women being single... I though it was 70% of Black women were single period?
see how people are exploiting stats to spread propaganda
termanology85 1 year ago
he is the most ignorant man in hollywood. Just saw him on bill maher and he sounds like a brain washed little puppy trying to move up in the liberal hollywood world. very sad...
naboba 2 years ago
mmm, mmm, mmm....i want to be in the middle of hill and t.j. sandwich.
k0k0jamb0 2 years ago
I absoutley love Hill Harper. I read both of his books Letters to a Young Sister and The Conversation, and both were fantastic. I laughed so hard while reading The Conversation it 's really well written. I would love to see this book become a play. When reading the book you can see how black men and women really distrust each other. We have started to believe the myths about one another. Hill is so intellegent and engaing I can't take my eyes off of him when ever I see him. And he is Hot!!
61Terri 2 years ago
I think T.J. and Hill would make a nice couple.
iknowdasright 2 years ago
@iknowdasright WTF??
leston4life 1 year ago
i love him to bits, as you can tell from my name but he seems a little over obsessed with his race, it applies to white ppl to why doesn't he stop segrating himself?
MrsHillHarper 2 years ago
@MrsHillHarper he's obsessed with his race? what makes u believe that?
termanology85 1 year ago
@MrsHillHarper wow.
EyeWearMySunglasses 1 year ago
Hill Harper or TJ Holmes...who's the finest? They're both too damn fine I don't think anyone can choose. yum yum yum
princess11222 2 years ago 5
Go out an get his book its great,but he puts himself out there with his new relationship ,doesn't matter what race you are every one has something to gain from it across the board,ENJOY
EveningGoDs 2 years ago
I LOVE THIS MAN AND I WOULD MARRY HIM
TiffanyFerg8 2 years ago 2
lol me too I actually went to book signing for his other book.. he is perfect man
liyish 2 years ago
I'm not going to lose my land and investments to a gold diggin' banshee. Until american women agree to sign a prenup before marriage!
jeff2all 2 years ago
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This Jungle Bunny Nigger Love White People, especially White Ugly Women.
bjh1207 2 years ago
He is so right, women and mean need to speak life and speak positivity and say "I can find a great man." and you will if you believe it.
voiceoffaith 2 years ago 16
Black or white, I agree; we need more people like Hill Harper!
ladygillen 2 years ago 25
Love Hill, he's my mentor! Had the honors of meeting this man and let him know how much he inspires me...he even inspired me to be a mentor! Also read Letters to a Young Brother, and Letters to a Young Sister! Love him!
nicjoy80 2 years ago 2
Your so lucky! I love him, America needs more men like him! Cant wait to get his new book!
ashsexygirl 2 years ago 3
omg ur so effin lucky, i hate you!! lol
ihavme 2 years ago