This is one of the most awesome videos I've seen in YouTube in a while, I feel sorry for people who can't get it and say they would have preferred another slideshow of glamour shots from the vocalist.
finally i found a song that totally explains me after a party im 42yrs i lost my girlfriend 10 yrs ago to a drug overdose and my family and friends force me to go out and try to make my social and happy i hate every second of it,after its all over i go home to my lonely bed and lay there myself once again after all these years.
@chacho6011 AWW..God bless you ♥ I'm your age...and i feel lonely sometimes cuz my love got remarried three times. At least your getting OUT there. I hope and pray the best for you ♥
I know these people. The groom and the biride are from Istanbul. They have been together since they met in the university. All the grooms might feel the same things.
I really love this song. It touches every inch of my spirit, it fills my whole everytime I listen to it. Reminds me of my ex gf that I still love so much and everytime I listen to it it makes me cry like a baby. Long live IAMX!
@annekmatias For sure, it is Turkey :) But why they didn't put the picture while he is drinking the coffee at 1:16. According to Turkish tradition, wife candidate needs to serve very salty coffee to the man (husband), and man shouldn't tell that "it is bad" and needs to drink all of it infront of everybody. It should be funny to see the face of a man, while drinking it :)
Don't know if that's the official vid but, this is an AWESOME idea. Very well executed, simple and efficient. Contrast between electro song/Turkey real life footage, smart !
Its funny. Before i knew the video was of an arranged marriage in Turkey i thought it was just a statement about middle class britain. Folks sat around looking at their shoes and pretending to have fun while the atmosphere divebombs. Life needs more streakers.
That was the most fucked up video I have seen from the iamx collection. I know it wasnt produced and/or thought of by chris corner but i really think he should check it out, because he would agree that this video is dark and depressing. I would also wanna die after that party!!!
@ooosteve for an ugly fucker like you, you should shut the fuck up.
Do you even realise what you've said? "he should be happy to get a half decent looking womAn like her"? Seriously? Would you like to be forced to get married to someone (good-looking or not) you don't love, dumbass? COME ON.
I bet those aranged mariages last longer then natural mariages!
It serves them right...if you are gonna follow some dumb culture rules then live with it. He can consider himself lucky he aint walking out the door with a bomb strapped to his chest.
This makes me wanna cry ): Not only the video and the song itself (which btw is extremely beautiful) but the fact that this is not acting. It happened. And so surreal to me, because I can't relate to it in any way, it could not happen within my culture. This was really a wake up-call.
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if it is the official video, then it sux. who wants to see a boring homemade wedding tape (or whatever the hell that shit is) for a music video. not a bad song but i would expect something better (more creative) instead of this dumb shit.
This is so sad......Look at how forced everything is. The bride and groom almost seem to be making a concerted effort NOT to make any contact with each other. Even sitting side by side, they can't even look at each other.
Hey, everybody! Look at the moment at 2 min: 52 sec.
There were two same bridegroomers NOT dancing, but just claping in the hands.
Was it sort of tradition to have two same looking guys for one bride, or it was just a coincidence (they both had grey costumes and a beard and all) or The auther of this movie wanted to put some mystic at the actually GREAT VIDEO.
@DivisionDirlewanger it has nothing to do with religion. it's a tradition applied by traditionalists. arranged marriages are applied in numerous cultures and it is a very ancient tradition, nevertheless very useless.
This video's of an arranged marriage in Turkey. Interestingly the tables are turned and the guy seems to be the one forced into it. They travel, negotiate with the other family, then the girl traditionally makes coffee and serves everyone during the negotiations. A supposed happy occasion is actually a painful event. Like the partying/ cocaine theme in the song itself.
Good video, cause as someone else had posted his suffering is so palpable!
@esarinoglu - its not just him being forced, i think. in 2:20 she pushes away his arm on her back. she´s just a hell lot better at pretending to smile...
@esarinoglu - its not just him being forced, i think. in 2:20 she seems to push away his arm on her back. she´s just a hell lot better at pretending to smile...
I know these people. The groom and the biride are from Istanbul. They have been together since they met in the university. All the grooms might feel the same things.
I know these people. The groom and the biride are from Istanbul. They have been together since they met in the university. All the grooms might feel the same things.
Yes he is really sad.. that there is nowadays something so like traditional marriages still, find I badly. Everybody should be allowed to fall in love in he wants. Yes he sees very sadly from. probably know themselves only from pictures. :-(
In the morning, after every Party i die!!
dan43544911 1 week ago
mdr ! il a l'air ravi de se marier le mec ! ^^
marine7fol 3 weeks ago
it's like a horror movie :D
tojopowa 1 month ago 2
I very like this song... *
loko4ka21 1 month ago
this video is crap.
dezz1911 3 months ago
This video must become official video from this song. Ha ha.
evachval58 3 months ago
the song fits well the chaotic mood of the event... i think this is a good combination.
yemrea1974 3 months ago
wtf what is this? fuckaa
Majuh89 3 months ago
Brianna frost ;D:D:D true
Kuziai 3 months ago
00:30 seda sayan ne alaka amk
br0kenoff 4 months ago
i found this song from a porn vid:)
iateeveryonebutu 5 months ago
@iateeveryonebutu haha yeah me too, i cant remember what the video was tho, it was somethin off of pornhub
Jmp153 4 months ago
@Jmp153 haha thats were i got it:)
iateeveryonebutu 4 months ago
@iateeveryonebutu mayby any link to this vid? ;)
koozzkoozz 3 months ago
böyle bi partiden sonra kim yaşamak ister ki zaten =) hem güldüm hem tırstım..korku filmi gibi adetlerimiz var..
kopiyka 5 months ago 2
Amına koyim gerçek klip sandım
Phalanificate 6 months ago 6
"try your best to sleep at cocaine speed" love it
j387duke 6 months ago
"try your best to sleep at cocaine speed" love it
j387duke 6 months ago 4
this is srsly making me sad
and cry. cant even say why.
ROYALPOPSTAR 6 months ago
Wow! I am from holland and I want to get married in Turkey and in Turkish traditions.
Şaka lan yemeyin hemen edirneliyim bunu gördükten sonra siksen evlenmem :D
alyanki 7 months ago 9
Sneaker Pimps-after every party i die...listen,Chris Corner's old band
KasraParanoia 7 months ago
é um vídeo assustador, é tudo o que posso dizer...
nacaolusitana 8 months ago
sweet vid:D
pdidko 8 months ago
I wonder how the guy emotionally is, no homo.
LucifersDisciple6 8 months ago
Transgender make up tutorials, seriously? are youtube suggestions about making the most off topic-est suggestion everytime
SoufMeng 8 months ago
this song made my ears itch
curtis8516 8 months ago
@Tsiamisp The singer is CHRIS CORNER from Iamx.
boleynanne 8 months ago
Who 's the singer ?
Tsiamisp 8 months ago
this should be the official video ^_^
koukoukou8 8 months ago 24
This is one of the most awesome videos I've seen in YouTube in a while, I feel sorry for people who can't get it and say they would have preferred another slideshow of glamour shots from the vocalist.
Zenboy23 9 months ago 10
I would of loved to see him in this video instead of this one :[
andybondoir18 9 months ago
finally i found a song that totally explains me after a party im 42yrs i lost my girlfriend 10 yrs ago to a drug overdose and my family and friends force me to go out and try to make my social and happy i hate every second of it,after its all over i go home to my lonely bed and lay there myself once again after all these years.
chacho6011 9 months ago 19
@chacho6011 oh man,im so sorry :/
RianHeartattack 9 months ago
@chacho6011 AWW..God bless you ♥ I'm your age...and i feel lonely sometimes cuz my love got remarried three times. At least your getting OUT there. I hope and pray the best for you ♥
katsmeo 2 months ago
@katsmeo thank you so much i really appreciate your kind words.
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I know these people. The groom and the biride are from Istanbul. They have been together since they met in the university. All the grooms might feel the same things.
osk1905 9 months ago
The video is more disturbing than the song lyrics, if we're going to compare.
macabrechrist 10 months ago 6
2:20 ..wow
Liriodelaire 11 months ago
nai!!!!!!!!!!! @Gagarin!!!!!!!!! whoaaaaa
jennyeugenie 11 months ago
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zeynepbike 11 months ago
I really love this song. It touches every inch of my spirit, it fills my whole everytime I listen to it. Reminds me of my ex gf that I still love so much and everytime I listen to it it makes me cry like a baby. Long live IAMX!
OpaslyKnurLudojad 11 months ago 3
Alyans - На заре (Russia, 1987) - just listen to entry
80yava 11 months ago
2:27 NANO BIAATCH!
aqq1337 11 months ago
lol,these ppl are so sick like in my country... they are all fucking victims who started to like being prey... gr8 song btw...
burnthezombie 11 months ago
Interesting lyrics.
ecstasy1692 1 year ago
By the way: VERY good idea (;
annekmatias 1 year ago
Is this a turkey rave? wow call me next one (:
annekmatias 1 year ago
@annekmatias For sure, it is Turkey :) But why they didn't put the picture while he is drinking the coffee at 1:16. According to Turkish tradition, wife candidate needs to serve very salty coffee to the man (husband), and man shouldn't tell that "it is bad" and needs to drink all of it infront of everybody. It should be funny to see the face of a man, while drinking it :)
Kadir85Akin 2 weeks ago
This song will always remind me of my best friend Allyssa :)
iceman590444 1 year ago
Don't know if that's the official vid but, this is an AWESOME idea. Very well executed, simple and efficient. Contrast between electro song/Turkey real life footage, smart !
monsieurzuid 1 year ago
LOLOLOL!!! @2:23 JUICEBOX!!!!!
eggbertsmith 1 year ago
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3.47 minutes wasted -.-
FallBackAhead 1 year ago
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pinkietows 1 year ago
yeah its relaxed
marcianara71 1 year ago
Its funny. Before i knew the video was of an arranged marriage in Turkey i thought it was just a statement about middle class britain. Folks sat around looking at their shoes and pretending to have fun while the atmosphere divebombs. Life needs more streakers.
Thunderspuds91 1 year ago 6
That was the most fucked up video I have seen from the iamx collection. I know it wasnt produced and/or thought of by chris corner but i really think he should check it out, because he would agree that this video is dark and depressing. I would also wanna die after that party!!!
losvivivi 1 year ago
@Planjane69 why do you try to find a "kind of music", just enjoy it.
ChaSLDean 1 year ago
pls start to joy drugs-.-
uburi0san 1 year ago
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whats his big problem?
for an ugly fucker like him, he should be happy to get a half decent looking women like her.
maybe he is gay, that might explain it.
ooosteve 1 year ago
@ooosteve for an ugly fucker like you, you should shut the fuck up.
Do you even realise what you've said? "he should be happy to get a half decent looking womAn like her"? Seriously? Would you like to be forced to get married to someone (good-looking or not) you don't love, dumbass? COME ON.
ChaSLDean 1 year ago 3
@ChaSLDean hahaha,
glad I could piss you off LOL
I bet those aranged mariages last longer then natural mariages!
It serves them right...if you are gonna follow some dumb culture rules then live with it. He can consider himself lucky he aint walking out the door with a bomb strapped to his chest.
ooosteve 1 year ago
@ooosteve Seriously, that was even worse than the first comment. Are you racist? Don't even answer, it's not like I cared about you anyway.
Try to put your head in a micro-wave, you're gonna be cute *-*
ChaSLDean 1 year ago 3
@ooosteve or maybe he's unhappy because he doesn't love her.
Tenabina 1 year ago
Wow, a video must have been made by a Muslim! The parties are much like that,
but I don't know why the guy would be so upset, unless he is gay or something.
I'd like to thank whoever made this video. It made me cry because it reminded me of home, and of my own failed marriage that started much like this.
ryansqeg 1 year ago 5
@ryansqeg wouldn't you be upset if your parents forced you to marry someone?
pithikoulis 1 year ago 2
brilliant vid. should be the official vid for the song
dbundler 1 year ago
I'd be horrified in the corner crying
pinkietows 1 year ago
This makes me wanna cry ): Not only the video and the song itself (which btw is extremely beautiful) but the fact that this is not acting. It happened. And so surreal to me, because I can't relate to it in any way, it could not happen within my culture. This was really a wake up-call.
BleedingOphelia 1 year ago 3
This video kind of breaks my heart.
vanhazinga 1 year ago
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if it is the official video, then it sux. who wants to see a boring homemade wedding tape (or whatever the hell that shit is) for a music video. not a bad song but i would expect something better (more creative) instead of this dumb shit.
ewigkeithero 1 year ago
19 people dont have this kinda taste in music ._.
iXrosalina 1 year ago
sh1t should be official.
N1SHTIK3IT 1 year ago
Great video... So touching...
MrSchnitzel19 1 year ago
wow
Knifeblade11 1 year ago
Is this official video of IAMX?
LeadCr0w 1 year ago 2
@LeadCr0w If there reads Home Made Music Video by Gokhan Toka in the OP I doubt. Learn to use your fucking brains.
rayven1234 1 year ago
great song...
babajarac 1 year ago
Cool Video :)
pjfuckit 1 year ago
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HelloShitti 1 year ago
awsome song...
Great vid...
Goosebumps...
apriliam1 1 year ago
love this. <3
angelicaleyva52 1 year ago
i can't find this song anywhere D: where did you get it ? :)
satchelllucy 1 year ago
Great video - nice one
eoryan 1 year ago
Brianna Frost brought me here...
lithiiumz 1 year ago 40
@lithiiumz ha ;)
RodeoReject 1 year ago
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chickenbob66 1 year ago
@lithiiumz word :)
buttonsnz 1 year ago
This is so sad......Look at how forced everything is. The bride and groom almost seem to be making a concerted effort NOT to make any contact with each other. Even sitting side by side, they can't even look at each other.
Leapster76 1 year ago 8
@Leapster76 really really sad :(
hennyroosen 1 year ago
Hey, everybody! Look at the moment at 2 min: 52 sec.
There were two same bridegroomers NOT dancing, but just claping in the hands.
Was it sort of tradition to have two same looking guys for one bride, or it was just a coincidence (they both had grey costumes and a beard and all) or The auther of this movie wanted to put some mystic at the actually GREAT VIDEO.
MrAntoniukA 1 year ago 2
i heard this song in a porn video and it was fucking amazing
wubbadubdub 1 year ago 3
@wubbadubdub , I would like to see THAT video. His music just seems to lend itself well to sex in my opinion.
Leapster76 1 year ago
@Leapster76 it was some random brianna frost strip tease. . .there are a lot of those, so good luck finding it!
wubbadubdub 1 year ago
@wubbadubdub was it a girl dancing ?
scoobes11 1 year ago
@scoobes11 yep
wubbadubdub 1 year ago
@wubbadubdub it must be cool
LeadCr0w 1 year ago
ale domówka :D
awałek cudo! :)
kadelovsky 1 year ago
The guy doesn't look happy, lol. Stupid religion...
DivisionDirlewanger 1 year ago 4
@DivisionDirlewanger it has nothing to do with religion. it's a tradition applied by traditionalists. arranged marriages are applied in numerous cultures and it is a very ancient tradition, nevertheless very useless.
ruhpastasi 1 year ago
bania u cygana do rannaaaa!
maciuzfcb 1 year ago
chris and gaga = mind explosion
but chis was first ;)
EmmaWismyhero 1 year ago
i like this song!
po prostu urywa dupę, no!
africzka 1 year ago
Gokhan cok iyi bir muzik/ video olmus. Ayrintilar mukemmel. Cok komik ve ayni zamanda uzucu..
topluigneucu 1 year ago
this looks like Romania
existtraiesc 1 year ago
@existtraiesc i was thinking the same thing!
retarded130 1 year ago
Gaga totally ripped this off.
6mindless6scarecrow6 1 year ago 6
@6mindless6scarecrow6 AGREED!!
2livenletdie 1 year ago
This video's of an arranged marriage in Turkey. Interestingly the tables are turned and the guy seems to be the one forced into it. They travel, negotiate with the other family, then the girl traditionally makes coffee and serves everyone during the negotiations. A supposed happy occasion is actually a painful event. Like the partying/ cocaine theme in the song itself.
Good video, cause as someone else had posted his suffering is so palpable!
esarinoglu 1 year ago 148
@esarinoglu Wow, great explanation. Intriguing video. That poor guy. Song is freakin amazing though.
silverfoxtrot13 1 year ago 2
@esarinoglu - its not just him being forced, i think. in 2:20 she pushes away his arm on her back. she´s just a hell lot better at pretending to smile...
FrauleinMueller 1 year ago
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@esarinoglu - its not just him being forced, i think. in 2:20 she seems to push away his arm on her back. she´s just a hell lot better at pretending to smile...
FrauleinMueller 1 year ago
I know these people. The groom and the biride are from Istanbul. They have been together since they met in the university. All the grooms might feel the same things.
osk1905 9 months ago 2
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I know these people. The groom and the biride are from Istanbul. They have been together since they met in the university. All the grooms might feel the same things.
osk1905 9 months ago
Interesting video consept
uilium 1 year ago
why is he suffering
TheMiamifuentes 1 year ago
@TheMiamifuentes i seen this video before where is it from
TheMiamifuentes 1 year ago
IAMSedaSayan
Darrell146 1 year ago
synthpop is the best :D
jesusinus14 1 year ago
best I've heard in a long time, thanks!
Zopfmuster 1 year ago
viel schärfer als andere!
danke!
nepazan 1 year ago
I like It . !!
It's Really very nice song .
LusiaCk 1 year ago
I think we've all been in the guy-with-white-tie's position at least once in our lives...
MassiveMarket 1 year ago
Well said...
VooDooMadMan 1 year ago
Well I'd say this is something like Electronica or Electroclash, sometimes mixed with Trip-Hop.
RadonKid 1 year ago
this is hell
donastarr 1 year ago 59
@donastarr Wrong....hell would be nicer.
eggbertsmith 1 year ago
i feel very sorry for that guy with white tie.. it seems he meet with his fiancee at firs time.
MartsypanA 1 year ago 4
Ahh eurotrash, fashion,techno,clove cigarrettes,these are my life!!
DaarkRedeemer 1 year ago
i gotta say i prefer the original sneaker pimps version of this song
silvershad0wbeliever 1 year ago
this video fits perfect!!!
thank you Gokhan
MJohnHH 2 years ago 3
perfect video for this song
koukoukou8 2 years ago
abi bence bi çığır açmışsın:D IAMx ile geleneksel nişan töreni bu kadar güzel buluşturulur=D gülmedim değil ama montaj süper olmuş
ozzge 2 years ago
beautiful decadent video for a great song.
inmyangelhood 2 years ago
ahahah süper :D dagildim an itibarı ile görüntü ve iamx'in alakasız kombinasyonuyla.. ama ciddi anlamda lyrics bazında ironik olmus.
ruhpastasi 2 years ago
Wow, I love this song and I dont care for fan make videos, but this is great!!! Very cool!!!
zombielust1969 2 years ago 3
hmmm so good
sumwhut 2 years ago
it's taked by real life or just for the clip !?
DeathOrGlory4You 2 years ago
@DeathOrGlory4You just for the clip, I think.
Misantropist 1 year ago
Brilliant!
This SHOULD be the official video!
Tokagokhan.. please tell me ""the making of"- story!
Paltazaar 2 years ago 6
u my god!!ortam mide bulandırıcı şekilde sıkıcı.
sukawun 2 years ago
hahahah ! abi naaptın sen
AbigailCrane 2 years ago
guten shots
joeytronclips 2 years ago
Turkish coffee? Dont mind if I do thank you very much!
brizzlekizzle 2 years ago
che tristezza!!!
Morrigandiscordia 2 years ago
ma penso sia volutamente "triste" e decadente...è stupendo! ;)
inmyangelhood 2 years ago
it's so sad... it's so sad...
antoniwaczkowski 2 years ago 2
I fucking love this video. @ 2:32 the party starts, WOW
ericbasia 2 years ago
I love the video!!!!
hotguye1 2 years ago 3
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I swear I could see the words "Hello, my name-a Borat" coming out of any of these people's mouths :-)))))
klappahunda 2 years ago 2
HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA
EverlastingUniversal 2 years ago
arata a prosti, asta e clar
pigeonkiller112 2 years ago
for sure they are Turkish. it is not about Romanians. PLM ce retarzi!
raduculic 2 years ago 4
oha bide ciddi ciddi comment atmışım.çingene düğününü oturdum klip diye seyrettim.
lanquide 2 years ago
the words on the wall at 00:22 are not romanian.they re turkish.
lanquide 2 years ago 2
this is not happening in romania..don't you see that they look like turkish people...???and the wedding ceremony is turkish...come on people...
stbest86 2 years ago 6
Seriously, this video left me speechless. Thanks so much for making this.
landbridge 2 years ago 3
anyone gonna explain how marriage is being made in romania? :P
pithikoulis 2 years ago
The video is incredible. The suffering of the guy is so palpable. I really feel for him.
hlmrtn 2 years ago 12
wow the party look sooo romanian
wudoo6666 2 years ago
Hahaha +1
selftitledera 2 years ago
I don't get it... That's not the party the song is about. This is the family-party and you shouldn't show it to the world :p
gradzio1 2 years ago
Well done!
theeldergoth 2 years ago
Great song. But video is not funny. Really.
RuknaGeraltas 2 years ago
super video,aż chciało by się krzyknąć do tego strapionego pana młodego UCIEKAAAJ !!!!!!!!!!!
skarbek666 2 years ago
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skarbek666 2 years ago
Well, seems like a hot chick at least ;p
Tsukts 2 years ago
fantastic video, really.
magictoes1 2 years ago
şahane video yorumu, 5 yıldız da benden
rockstjarna 2 years ago
I give 5 stars for the title of this song alone.
lennyd44 2 years ago
The video fits the song so well, great job Gokhan Toka.
Arranged marriage must be difficult if your heart isn't in it at all.
pixieofprozac 2 years ago
great song :))
barsonyka13 2 years ago
love it <3
lo0na 2 years ago 3
Strange Party...
At the beginning I thought it was a funeral, but it appears to be a wedding (?).
But still good video and music is so addictive
gferek 2 years ago 3
WONDERFUL VIDEO
innergyne 2 years ago 2
great video xD . i like this song so mych
exdzznl 2 years ago
this should be official video!!!!!wonderfull!!!!!!!usmiałam się do łez:DDD
drzewnykotek 2 years ago 2
Excellent ! Love it
2007AMAURY 2 years ago
like Bedük
exzantrik123 2 years ago
The husband (?) doesen't looks really happy... looks for me like a wedding, right? It makes me a bit sad... nice video.
gothmietze 2 years ago 8
Yes he is really sad.. that there is nowadays something so like traditional marriages still, find I badly. Everybody should be allowed to fall in love in he wants. Yes he sees very sadly from. probably know themselves only from pictures. :-(
PoisonIvy500 2 years ago 4
hey tokagokhan,
it