Your right and wrong. I think it's good 2 talk about it cause reality is some insecurities are very hard to get over especially if u feel like u have no other feedback but ur own negativity. Having some1 tell u that they didn't notice or it's not that bad can help you heal and get over it. Constantly bringing up ur insecurities as to let every1 know is annoying. Lines b/w attention seeking and therapeutic conversation.U should only bring it up to people close to you or ppl whos opinions matter.
hahahah I think it's funny, while I was watching this there was an ad on the right persuading to get Laser Liposuction Starting at $1249 (Per Area) O.o Coincidence? Oooooh America -__-
i was born with deformed teeth and as a child my parents lifted me up and as an adult i lift my own self up and well into my 30's i just got my teeth fixed. i always dated and had boy friends. i lift my self up emotianlly spiritually and phyiscally.
hold on Sharmuta i hear u speaking on other ppl insecurities but i dnt hear u own up to ur insecurities like how ur face look dry ass hell n ur skinny legs on awkward body shape plus u mad that drake hit n quit ur haram ass andrea lewis aleast ur friend owned up to hers so lets hear ms lewis.....kkkkkkk
i think that people talk about there insecurities with there loved one because they feel that they can trust and can confide in that person on how they truly feel about themselves with out being judged or ridiculed.
@misanthropikbunny no not really, she would have burnt me if i got cut....not the case. talk out of my ass.... WOOOW because im actually typing and its true she talks from her nose.
lol i actually have a female friend and whenever she has a pimple i tell her :)))) and she's like -___- fuck off. but that's why we are so good friends
agreed, but i've also noticed the opposite. sometimes, expressing insecurities can quell the awkwardness, especially if it's something that you both have in common. i think humor makes all the difference, though, regardless of the situation. self-pitying/compliment-fishing is always unpleasant, but self-deprecating humor is can be a good way to cope and not take your insecurities toooo seriously (in my experience of course)
"hold your head up high, because they'd kill to see you fall"
When people bring up their insecurities, it just gives people who are jealous or them or malicious people a reason to get their own back. They'll comment and bring it up FOREVER just to annoy you. I've witnessed this and learnt from other peoples mistakes! Its just awkward when people confide in you about insecurities as well because when they're true and you know they are, its so hard to say that they're not. Jheez people!
i doubt you'll read this, but i just discovered your page and your videos are real. please keep going with the truth and forget the ignorant people on youtube
haha, it's definitely the case that people don't have insecurities because they have flaws or whatever, they just have insecurities. I've known so many people who were actually insecure about what I thought were their best traits.
But I think it's worth it to bring up insecurities if you realize that they're affecting you or a relationship in some other way.
It's so wonderful to see young women talking about having insecurities and how to handle them. Most of us don’t realize feeling insecure about our abilities is one of the signs of a chronic people pleaser. Other signs are never feeling good enough or constantly worrying about hurting someone else's feelings. Getting past your people pleasing tendencies can drastically improve how you feel about yourself and your life.
I totally agree i have a friend who does it like 10 times a day mentioning how big she is or how shes not pretty then theres always a silence and then i think of a compliment to give her but i feel like i just did cause i know thats what she wants to hear but its uncomfortable im really starting to see the pattern now i think shes just looking for a compliment.
I agree I think people bring up there insecurities to have the person make them feel better about themselves. I have the "little people in my head" point out my insecurities all the time. I am guilty of pointing out my insecurities but I only do that with my close friends(and boyfriend). I wish i didn't now that Ive watched this video :/ ...I have to be more confident with myself. I love you guys. all your videos help me out soooo much. Its like watching Oprah but for the younger generation :)
My boyfriend trys to help me through my insecurities because i've been trying for years and no such luck. I had acne from the summer after 6 grade (if i remember correctly) to my freshman year in HS.I took every type of medicine possible (prescribed by my dermatologist) pills topical EVERYTHING, nothing worked so we went to the "last resort" which was accutane. that left me 12-13 years old and a virgin FORCED to take birth control because of the possible side effects of the medicine.
@ebonyheart90 I had to get blood work done like every month. . . I had perfect skin after doing accutane for 6 months along with chemical face peels, but a few months after my acne came back (ill say 11th grade) My skin is ok now, just oily and blemishes (scars, w.e) but because i was teased by everyone in my school (middle school) for two years STRAIGHT (no breaks, there wasnt one day that i wasnt humiliated in the lunch cafeteria)
@ebonyheart90 I'm 21 years old now. I have a nice shape, pretty face, big booty (lol) and a Gooooooorgeous boyfriend. But i cant come to terms to except these things, as well as my past. Hope this story touched someone.
Learning to not give a f@#$ also helps with insecurities. I think more people need to level with themselves and realize that not EVERYONE has an opinion on every little thing they do.
shannon you have such beautiful skin I honestly don't understand where you see bad skin, your skin is so good that i would lick you if you had doodoo(3:07 - 3:08) all over your skin.....you know what im lying about the doodoo but i would definitely lick you happily :) ( not meant in a creepy way )
You guys are really cool but you seem so insensitive in this video... insecurities are such a hurtful topic for so many girls.. it sucks if u dont realize that.
Sometimes you will talk about ur flaws like that and not even be aware you're doing i..lol. thats so true tho...my friends always say fake it till you make it if you are insecure. i think that you have to take time out to work on your insecurities in a relationship and deal with otherwise it will affect the relationship
@thosegirlsarewild ANDREA iv'e been looking for that sweater for FOREVER....can you please tell me where you got it...ive been on this quest for AGES lol
I am an insecure person and I never really thought of it the way you ladies mentioned but I'm happy you made this video because now I know how I sound when I complain lol
I think that insecure people just want to be reassured that there is nothing to fear. What they don't realize is that that way of thinking cannot be told to anyone. It has to be conceived within their own minds. :)
and I think I mean I kno its true that ppl state their insecurities for compliments b|c I do that sometimes, I tell all my friends that I;m fat and I need to go to the gym. some of them tell me I;m not others say they'll go to the gym w| me.
I have 2 friends who are extremely insecure. One of the would always be like" im so ugly, idk why my boyfriend wants to be with me, he could do so much better. i think if I looked like Kim Kardashian I'd be cuter" and after a while it just got annoying and I jus ignored her whenever she brung it up. she'll be like "I look sooo ugly today" nd I'll be like well dat sucks. and my other friend would go to boys and get all slutty so she'll feel better about herself because boys want her.
as awkward as it is some people inform u of their insecurities because the trust you and what u to beaware of areas where they can improve. they are letting down this perfect facade so they can show u the real them, just because somone tells u a flaw doesnt automatically mean they're searching for attention.
Andrea, im too insecure to ask u out because ur a star and im a nobody....Shannon, dont be insecure..there's gotta be ONE man who isnt annoyed by ur fast talking
I guess what really helps me to deal with my insecurites is the facet that everybody has them and the reality is nobody really cares. I mean unless your insecurity is going to affect someone personally I don't think it is importnant to let that be known. Also I think that we need to start focusing our good qualites because that is what poeple notice.
@EGirl12 yup! I've been on accutane and a bunch of other things in the past. It's not so bad anymore but still I have constant breakouts on my temple and chin. I'm using a bunch of Nivea products now hopefully be summer I'll be totally cool without wearing concealer
@thosegirlsarewild I have too and finally im 21 and i only get a few pimples here and there. but i still have some battle scars from acne (blemishes) my skin wont allow me to wear make up so i dont. Now i use "Black Soap" 100% Natural (handmade) If you would like to know where you can purchase it from hmu. Its all i use now ^_^
ps. did you hear that we (the ppl who used accutane) could be having side effects from it that compromises our health? ppl are suing etc
I disagree, people revealing *some* insecurities are charming to reveal... When Shannon said she is insecure about talking fast I thought "aw", stuff like that is kind of cute and shows you are a bit vulnerable. Or someone saying they have never had a bf/gf in a bashful way is a bit endearing
However constantly expressing insecurity about being alone and allowing that to manifest itself as bitterness is off putting and will run people away.
I notice tht when im around insecure ppl i become less confident in myself. I had a "best friend" in high school &i was insecure for the most part b/c she wuld always complain abt weight, hair, skin etc, &I thot she was beautiful &I became jealous. B/c she brought up those things, I became my worst critic &it wasnt until i exed her out of my life that I realized tht I too was beautiful, no matter wht any1 else thot. Its been a long process but a good one. I only surround myself w/ positivity now
I think people bring up their insecurities, not only to receive compliments but it's almost like a defense mechanism. You bring up that one thing that way no one else can. It's kinda like "Yeah i know you're thinking it and want to say it, but I'm gonna beat you to it and say it out loud. That way it'll hurt less since it's coming from me!" (of course that last bit would be in the mind!) Idk just a thought..
The same way no one wants really be around someone that's considered "weak" or insecure, i'd like to believe that it works the same for those that are considered arrogant and full of themselves. I dislike the concept of arrogance and it's these type of people that i tend to laugh at the most when they screw up. Overall, people like that i tend to avoid.
As Shannon pointed out, it's great to be humble. :)
omg i watched you guys video n im like the girl in the sweater looks so familiar n i asked my sis where u from n i realized ur from degrassi Hazel lol
haha wow me and my bf were just talking about this! I mentioned something about myself that I didn't like and he started making jokes...lol Its like I can talk about myself but I didn't expect you to agree with me!!..hahaha!! So yeah don't mention them cuz some ppl then start to think its ok to make mean jokes about whatever insecurity you mentioned.
It's like a discussion I had with my friends the other day. I can not stand for the life of me people who post pictures onto their Facebook profile and caption "i'm so ugly," so why did you take the time to press upload, wait for to load, edit the thumbnail and caption it. "Are you fishing for compliments." This may be something else but it's just a pet peeve it makes me question their self esteem and vanity.
A. I love Your sweater/shirt print thing. Where did you buy that?
B. Out of all my friends, I am the curviest of us all. Most of my friends range from size 2-6, while Im at a 12. In this situation, you'd THINK Id be the most insecure one about my body. But NO. I have to listen to "im so fat", "look at my tummy", and I give all of the awkward but true responses "No, your gorgeous" I cant help but to think that if that's what they think of themselves, what the hell do they think of me?
speaking about insecurities, i have some of my own. One of the biggest is confidence, and I know confidence goes along way, but It's too the point were I dont even socialize. It kills me bc i constantly put my self down so I can feel "better". But i guess that is just something i have to work on...
I agree with you. you shouldn't bring up your securities in front of people, well if its your bestfriend than that is fine. But when you bring out your insecurites, in the moment will feel akward and now that, that person knows your insecure, you will become more insecure about that particular thing.
omg its like you read my mind. lately i have been putting my self down alot because of summer getting close and im not swim suit ready. i know it makes some of my friends and boyfriend uncomfortable to hear me beat my self down. thank you for making this video it really opened my eyes :)
Every time I walk in a room I yell, "I AM THE GREATEST MF ON THE PLANET BITCHES!" Then I walk up to the closest person, crotch thrust the air and shout "SUCK IT!" I'm not a doucher am I?
I am generally very honest so when someone voices insecurities around me it can either go really great or really, really bad. (Example) Skinny Friend: I'm so fat! Me: Shut up skinny Bitch. (Example) Fat friend: I'm so fat! Me: You're not THAT fat... (Example) Me: I'm totally getting fat but I'm STILL gonna eat this burger dammit. I say all this to say: We all have insecurities but I'm just way more awesome about mine, lol. The end
Very true - I never like interacting with people who put themselves down - I tend to avoid them in fact. It's just not comfortable for others, especially when you don't know the person that well. We have a social stigma that values strong people - you could almost call it Social Darwinism haha so no one WANTS to be around a weak person. You put your best foot forward and leave the fact that your shoe strings are untied out of the discussion lol.
what if somebody calls out your insecurities/ flaw in front of people?
lanaeeb15 2 hours ago
ohmgee ! my rel name is TIMERA !
mimie206 8 hours ago
TUMBLR-worthy faces!!!
nerdyrice1 8 hours ago
Your right and wrong. I think it's good 2 talk about it cause reality is some insecurities are very hard to get over especially if u feel like u have no other feedback but ur own negativity. Having some1 tell u that they didn't notice or it's not that bad can help you heal and get over it. Constantly bringing up ur insecurities as to let every1 know is annoying. Lines b/w attention seeking and therapeutic conversation.U should only bring it up to people close to you or ppl whos opinions matter.
bears66 1 day ago
you guys are the best :D
AtiyaTheWeirdo 1 day ago
hahahah I think it's funny, while I was watching this there was an ad on the right persuading to get Laser Liposuction Starting at $1249 (Per Area) O.o Coincidence? Oooooh America -__-
wildprincess1101 3 days ago
hehe you guys said do do
Snuffs456 3 days ago
You guys shouldn't do these kind of vlogs, they come across as insensitive and immature.
SilenziEmpire 1 week ago
that has to be the girl from cadet kelly
antiprincesses 1 week ago in playlist Uploaded videos
R U FROM DEGRASSI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
BeautyByKelliee 2 weeks ago in playlist More videos from thosegirlsarewild
i think some ppl share their insecurities its because they want to overcome it in a weird way
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Nice hair Andrea.. is it a weave or thats your real hair?
MissKay185 2 weeks ago
shannon, andrea I love you. you may not ever see this. but I love you guys + the wild girls movement. keep your heads up.
yeezytaughtyou 2 weeks ago
...you dont have bad skin...lol. Where did that come from? Ur beautiful =)
BinkaaBabee 2 weeks ago
Omg! She's from degrassi!!!! Subscribe!
ywave7 2 weeks ago
i was born with deformed teeth and as a child my parents lifted me up and as an adult i lift my own self up and well into my 30's i just got my teeth fixed. i always dated and had boy friends. i lift my self up emotianlly spiritually and phyiscally.
malcanext 3 weeks ago 5
OH MY GOSHH!! get it hazel! ♥
Lala216 3 weeks ago
Girl with her hair up reminds me of an older version of Kimora lee Simmons daughter
70babylana 3 weeks ago
LOL" missing arm" and I'm trying to help you not commit suicide UGH #onthefloor
Easter004 4 weeks ago
yep andrea lewis thats her! :D
durtipanda09 4 weeks ago
I wish people would stop asking if Andrea is "the girl from DeGrassi" just go to wikipedia instead of leaving a comment...seriously.
onyxanya 1 month ago
hold on Sharmuta i hear u speaking on other ppl insecurities but i dnt hear u own up to ur insecurities like how ur face look dry ass hell n ur skinny legs on awkward body shape plus u mad that drake hit n quit ur haram ass andrea lewis aleast ur friend owned up to hers so lets hear ms lewis.....kkkkkkk
lionfj21 1 month ago
:/ she has bad skin?? ...neverr...and i was here thinking how her skin is amazingly smooth
kellybelly4life 1 month ago 2
Doesn't sound like either of them talks through their nose, someones listening too hard.
225Mayfair 1 month ago
fuck theses hating ass hoes theses girls are funny smart and gorgeous.
december2291 1 month ago
@thosegirlsarewild what face wash yall use because both of ur face are so clear?
tinkvsmm 1 month ago
you both are naturally beautiful !
hibbabieberfan 1 month ago
Shannon, are your eyes green, hazel, or gray? They look gray in this video, but in others they change... like the weather.
kOliviaTV 1 month ago
LOVE your videos! = )
TiiABooSKeeH 1 month ago
i think that people talk about there insecurities with there loved one because they feel that they can trust and can confide in that person on how they truly feel about themselves with out being judged or ridiculed.
winniee623 1 month ago
are those your real eyes
bratzdoll94 1 month ago
Put me on with the beautiful lady on the right
Baller4Life136 1 month ago
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Baller4Life136 1 month ago
Shannon, Shannon, Shannon. Just amazing.
SilverSaiyan93 1 month ago
Love the video and message. U Girls are Great...
prettycarmencurls 1 month ago
You two are my idols!
CuteCleverBlonde 1 month ago
you talk through ur nose
swagbg 1 month ago
@swagbg and you talk out of your ass. funny coincidence eh
thosegirlsarewild 1 month ago 206
@thosegirlsarewild haha
TheKhalil1990 1 month ago
@thosegirlsarewild lmao good 1
shasummers14 1 month ago
@thosegirlsarewild YESSSS!!!l LOL Wild girls unite!!!!!!
abysinianqueen 1 month ago
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swagbg 1 month ago
@thosegirlsarewild LMAO defensive!
swagbg 1 month ago
@thosegirlsarewild checkmate!
nawgee 1 month ago
@thosegirlsarewild LMAOOOO!!!
JPabloMusic 2 weeks ago
@thosegirlsarewild hahahaha tell em!
AMIrishandProud 2 weeks ago
@thosegirlsarewild LOLOLOLOLOL! thank you for that comment. you just made my day. who wrote that?...shannon...?
TheSoxxyMonkey 1 week ago
@thosegirlsarewild hahahahahahahahahahaha you're so funny girl
PrincessRuba 6 days ago
@swagbg LMAO she burned you baad.
misanthropikbunny 3 weeks ago
@misanthropikbunny no not really, she would have burnt me if i got cut....not the case. talk out of my ass.... WOOOW because im actually typing and its true she talks from her nose.
swagbg 3 weeks ago
@swagbg leave their noses alone their cute lml
MrSkaar1234 4 days ago
OMG i recognize the girl on the right?! iunno where frm -___-
AzizaBB 1 month ago
@AzizaBB Probably from Degrassi, that's Hazel. OR Cadet Kelly lol just wiki her!
BlizzyBry 1 month ago 25
@BlizzyBry OMGG YES! cakdet kelly! and degrassi! yes omg thnx!
AzizaBB 1 month ago
@BlizzyBry I knew it!!! I thought my eyes were deceiving me
Brihappy42 3 weeks ago
@AzizaBB Probably Degrassi
MsMishijah 1 month ago
lol i actually have a female friend and whenever she has a pimple i tell her :)))) and she's like -___- fuck off. but that's why we are so good friends
15godfather1 1 month ago
i disagree completely for reason too complicated to get into. =)
Maestroxxx1 1 month ago
agreed, but i've also noticed the opposite. sometimes, expressing insecurities can quell the awkwardness, especially if it's something that you both have in common. i think humor makes all the difference, though, regardless of the situation. self-pitying/compliment-fishing is always unpleasant, but self-deprecating humor is can be a good way to cope and not take your insecurities toooo seriously (in my experience of course)
"hold your head up high, because they'd kill to see you fall"
nimbunimbu 1 month ago
o: wooooahh. It's hazel from DEGRASSI :P
NiKKiBSEXCii 1 month ago
When people bring up their insecurities, it just gives people who are jealous or them or malicious people a reason to get their own back. They'll comment and bring it up FOREVER just to annoy you. I've witnessed this and learnt from other peoples mistakes! Its just awkward when people confide in you about insecurities as well because when they're true and you know they are, its so hard to say that they're not. Jheez people!
EDiiEbOO 1 month ago
hey u were on degrassi!
nellyparidise 1 month ago
heyyy she looks FAMILAR lol
0671134156 1 month ago
i swear thats the girl from degrassi....
TheCubarican619 2 months ago
@TheCubarican619 yupp she is i remember her too
sesamestreet90 2 months ago
ccaan that girl that was on dergrassi do a video on her degrassi exspeirnceee ?
Adrilovesyou9 2 months ago
you guys make me laughhh soooo much :')
Sky1l7 2 months ago
Hazel is my girl!
PiggyHyungJigae 2 months ago
It is her! Andrea Lewis that's her name! I loved her as Hazel!
stanethia 2 months ago
Is that Hazel from Degrassi?
stanethia 2 months ago
@stanethia I was totally thinking "that girl looks really familiar but I can't remember where I saw her." That's totally Hazel!!
jenejen1 2 months ago
not all insecurities are that easy to fix guys...
simplyshama 3 months ago
I think if you don't like certiant things about urself nd ur insecure about it ..."Please Dnt sit there a COMPLAIN or feel bad about it FIX IT ".
1967foreverlove 4 months ago
woah... am i crazy or was that girl on degrassi?
ellie3444 4 months ago
i doubt you'll read this, but i just discovered your page and your videos are real. please keep going with the truth and forget the ignorant people on youtube
Gillz93fyi 4 months ago
the girl on the right was on a disney channel movie right? with the white girl from africa?
livingLYF2010 4 months ago
shannon you have beautiful hands.
dippers18 4 months ago
haha, it's definitely the case that people don't have insecurities because they have flaws or whatever, they just have insecurities. I've known so many people who were actually insecure about what I thought were their best traits.
But I think it's worth it to bring up insecurities if you realize that they're affecting you or a relationship in some other way.
Riteilu 6 months ago
i agree that we shouldnt bring it up because it looks like your fishing for compliments
but i dont say my insecurities to get a compliment because it makes me uncomfortable and i know that they are saying it to make me feel better
aylix89 6 months ago
Do you agree that everyone naturally has insecurirtes ? and do you think its because of the media?
LadyLusciiOus 6 months ago
Woooooowwwww I was sitting her saying the same thing she looks like she got thicker I knew that was hazel
diamond18ist 6 months ago
ahhhh is that hazel from degrassi ?
imsobomb101 6 months ago
@imsobomb101 yea
down4guyana 6 months ago
It's so wonderful to see young women talking about having insecurities and how to handle them. Most of us don’t realize feeling insecure about our abilities is one of the signs of a chronic people pleaser. Other signs are never feeling good enough or constantly worrying about hurting someone else's feelings. Getting past your people pleasing tendencies can drastically improve how you feel about yourself and your life.
VickieChampion 7 months ago
I totally agree i have a friend who does it like 10 times a day mentioning how big she is or how shes not pretty then theres always a silence and then i think of a compliment to give her but i feel like i just did cause i know thats what she wants to hear but its uncomfortable im really starting to see the pattern now i think shes just looking for a compliment.
kennaluvsu 8 months ago
bELIEVE iT oR nOT bUT sOME gUYS dO pREFER a cHICK wITH iNSECURITIES aND lOW sELF eSTEEM. tHEY sEE iT aS a eASY wAY tO cONTROL hER
RiverLandPark 8 months ago
is she from degrassi ?
QuePasaNinq 8 months ago
@QuePasaNinq yep
hollame123 6 months ago
@hollame123 NEAT !
QuePasaNinq 6 months ago
Andrea tooo gorgeous!!!!!
Jh69921 8 months ago
I agree I think people bring up there insecurities to have the person make them feel better about themselves. I have the "little people in my head" point out my insecurities all the time. I am guilty of pointing out my insecurities but I only do that with my close friends(and boyfriend). I wish i didn't now that Ive watched this video :/ ...I have to be more confident with myself. I love you guys. all your videos help me out soooo much. Its like watching Oprah but for the younger generation :)
sweetheartalldai 8 months ago
Where'd you get your pullover sweatshirt from?
PaigeLovesYou88 8 months ago
New fan here, cool videos!! Can you girls do a video on Eye Catchers, like what about us guys catches your eye while were out n about enjoying life..
VaMoneyCow 8 months ago
My boyfriend trys to help me through my insecurities because i've been trying for years and no such luck. I had acne from the summer after 6 grade (if i remember correctly) to my freshman year in HS.I took every type of medicine possible (prescribed by my dermatologist) pills topical EVERYTHING, nothing worked so we went to the "last resort" which was accutane. that left me 12-13 years old and a virgin FORCED to take birth control because of the possible side effects of the medicine.
ebonyheart90 9 months ago
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@ebonyheart90 I had to get blood work done like every month. . . I had perfect skin after doing accutane for 6 months along with chemical face peels, but a few months after my acne came back (ill say 11th grade) My skin is ok now, just oily and blemishes (scars, w.e) but because i was teased by everyone in my school (middle school) for two years STRAIGHT (no breaks, there wasnt one day that i wasnt humiliated in the lunch cafeteria)
ebonyheart90 8 months ago
@ebonyheart90 I'm 21 years old now. I have a nice shape, pretty face, big booty (lol) and a Gooooooorgeous boyfriend. But i cant come to terms to except these things, as well as my past. Hope this story touched someone.
ebonyheart90 8 months ago
Learning to not give a f@#$ also helps with insecurities. I think more people need to level with themselves and realize that not EVERYONE has an opinion on every little thing they do.
Ryushai 9 months ago
shannon you have such beautiful skin I honestly don't understand where you see bad skin, your skin is so good that i would lick you if you had doodoo(3:07 - 3:08) all over your skin.....you know what im lying about the doodoo but i would definitely lick you happily :) ( not meant in a creepy way )
famousamos94 9 months ago
She was on degrassi. Are yall related?
BSGfashiongal1 10 months ago
You guys are really cool but you seem so insensitive in this video... insecurities are such a hurtful topic for so many girls.. it sucks if u dont realize that.
forevasweet1 10 months ago
Sometimes you will talk about ur flaws like that and not even be aware you're doing i..lol. thats so true tho...my friends always say fake it till you make it if you are insecure. i think that you have to take time out to work on your insecurities in a relationship and deal with otherwise it will affect the relationship
jaydva15 10 months ago
Is that the actress from Degrassi?????
raybout2010 10 months ago
She reeled that compliment in funny
llove2320 10 months ago
@thosegirlsarewild ANDREA iv'e been looking for that sweater for FOREVER....can you please tell me where you got it...ive been on this quest for AGES lol
mahakj 10 months ago
I am an insecure person and I never really thought of it the way you ladies mentioned but I'm happy you made this video because now I know how I sound when I complain lol
DivineGoddess3 10 months ago
fine ass
triangle1990 10 months ago
i <3 you guys !
screamDiNA 10 months ago
I am an insecure person. I will try to avoid complaining about my insecurities to everybody. As always appreciate the videos, ladies.
Muslimah33 10 months ago
I think that insecure people just want to be reassured that there is nothing to fear. What they don't realize is that that way of thinking cannot be told to anyone. It has to be conceived within their own minds. :)
Zir0nix 10 months ago
these girls are annoying!
aniger818 10 months ago
and I think I mean I kno its true that ppl state their insecurities for compliments b|c I do that sometimes, I tell all my friends that I;m fat and I need to go to the gym. some of them tell me I;m not others say they'll go to the gym w| me.
voniesosexy 10 months ago
I have 2 friends who are extremely insecure. One of the would always be like" im so ugly, idk why my boyfriend wants to be with me, he could do so much better. i think if I looked like Kim Kardashian I'd be cuter" and after a while it just got annoying and I jus ignored her whenever she brung it up. she'll be like "I look sooo ugly today" nd I'll be like well dat sucks. and my other friend would go to boys and get all slutty so she'll feel better about herself because boys want her.
voniesosexy 10 months ago
as awkward as it is some people inform u of their insecurities because the trust you and what u to beaware of areas where they can improve. they are letting down this perfect facade so they can show u the real them, just because somone tells u a flaw doesnt automatically mean they're searching for attention.
ImUrFanGirl 10 months ago 10
by the way...my comment was a joke
theonlygeezy 10 months ago
You guys are so flawless. :)
mur52691 10 months ago
Andrea's sweater looks so 80s lol.....Great video ladies!
Newyork8608 10 months ago
Andrea, im too insecure to ask u out because ur a star and im a nobody....Shannon, dont be insecure..there's gotta be ONE man who isnt annoyed by ur fast talking
theonlygeezy 10 months ago
Wow a help women channel???
MRBLUE516 10 months ago
I guess what really helps me to deal with my insecurites is the facet that everybody has them and the reality is nobody really cares. I mean unless your insecurity is going to affect someone personally I don't think it is importnant to let that be known. Also I think that we need to start focusing our good qualites because that is what poeple notice.
TheCeebereal07 10 months ago 53
@TheCeebereal07 thumbs up all the wayyyyyy
thosegirlsarewild 10 months ago 18
BAD SKIN?!!!!!
EGirl12 10 months ago 12
@EGirl12 yup! I've been on accutane and a bunch of other things in the past. It's not so bad anymore but still I have constant breakouts on my temple and chin. I'm using a bunch of Nivea products now hopefully be summer I'll be totally cool without wearing concealer
thosegirlsarewild 10 months ago
@thosegirlsarewild I have too and finally im 21 and i only get a few pimples here and there. but i still have some battle scars from acne (blemishes) my skin wont allow me to wear make up so i dont. Now i use "Black Soap" 100% Natural (handmade) If you would like to know where you can purchase it from hmu. Its all i use now ^_^
ps. did you hear that we (the ppl who used accutane) could be having side effects from it that compromises our health? ppl are suing etc
ebonyheart90 9 months ago
@EGirl12 yeah where??BAD SKIN WHAT>>?? if that's bad skin I don't mind it loool :p
dizlee86 10 months ago
dang you do have bad skin and you sound annoying when you talk fast
aniger818 10 months ago
You ladies are putting on a little weight
Cynicalese 10 months ago
@Cynicalese lol I can't think of a more appropriate comment than this. Oh man this gave me a good chuckle
thosegirlsarewild 10 months ago 40
@thosegirlsarewild I hope that you've taken it as a joke, because I was only joking
Cynicalese 10 months ago
@thosegirlsarewild I think you both are beautiful (especially on the left) ;)
BlackOasis21 10 months ago
I disagree, people revealing *some* insecurities are charming to reveal... When Shannon said she is insecure about talking fast I thought "aw", stuff like that is kind of cute and shows you are a bit vulnerable. Or someone saying they have never had a bf/gf in a bashful way is a bit endearing
However constantly expressing insecurity about being alone and allowing that to manifest itself as bitterness is off putting and will run people away.
Unekwu89 10 months ago
I notice tht when im around insecure ppl i become less confident in myself. I had a "best friend" in high school &i was insecure for the most part b/c she wuld always complain abt weight, hair, skin etc, &I thot she was beautiful &I became jealous. B/c she brought up those things, I became my worst critic &it wasnt until i exed her out of my life that I realized tht I too was beautiful, no matter wht any1 else thot. Its been a long process but a good one. I only surround myself w/ positivity now
babyv2992010 10 months ago
I think people bring up their insecurities, not only to receive compliments but it's almost like a defense mechanism. You bring up that one thing that way no one else can. It's kinda like "Yeah i know you're thinking it and want to say it, but I'm gonna beat you to it and say it out loud. That way it'll hurt less since it's coming from me!" (of course that last bit would be in the mind!) Idk just a thought..
MIMIFRENZY 10 months ago 2
The same way no one wants really be around someone that's considered "weak" or insecure, i'd like to believe that it works the same for those that are considered arrogant and full of themselves. I dislike the concept of arrogance and it's these type of people that i tend to laugh at the most when they screw up. Overall, people like that i tend to avoid.
As Shannon pointed out, it's great to be humble. :)
somedude712 10 months ago
Was your sister in that Hillary Duff movie..Cadet Kelly or something?
KenyaFlyMarie 10 months ago
omg i watched you guys video n im like the girl in the sweater looks so familiar n i asked my sis where u from n i realized ur from degrassi Hazel lol
chelsmusic123 10 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
all the time that you spend talking........u could be taking your clothes off.....
warfaredude12 10 months ago
great vid ladies
LittleMalcomX 10 months ago
Andrea, I love you sweater :)
MonaLiisa314 10 months ago 4
haha wow me and my bf were just talking about this! I mentioned something about myself that I didn't like and he started making jokes...lol Its like I can talk about myself but I didn't expect you to agree with me!!..hahaha!! So yeah don't mention them cuz some ppl then start to think its ok to make mean jokes about whatever insecurity you mentioned.
KaShEeRaLaTaSh 10 months ago
It's like a discussion I had with my friends the other day. I can not stand for the life of me people who post pictures onto their Facebook profile and caption "i'm so ugly," so why did you take the time to press upload, wait for to load, edit the thumbnail and caption it. "Are you fishing for compliments." This may be something else but it's just a pet peeve it makes me question their self esteem and vanity.
ZannieZanana 10 months ago 2
Love how Shannon made herpes singular! "A herpe" will now be seamlessly integrated into my vernacular. Thanks Those Girls!
PremiumDenim 10 months ago
A. I love Your sweater/shirt print thing. Where did you buy that?
B. Out of all my friends, I am the curviest of us all. Most of my friends range from size 2-6, while Im at a 12. In this situation, you'd THINK Id be the most insecure one about my body. But NO. I have to listen to "im so fat", "look at my tummy", and I give all of the awkward but true responses "No, your gorgeous" I cant help but to think that if that's what they think of themselves, what the hell do they think of me?
octoberose19 10 months ago
I agree with everything that you said... Sometimes, bringing up your insecurities can increase them.
ChristinaBrown1 10 months ago
speaking about insecurities, i have some of my own. One of the biggest is confidence, and I know confidence goes along way, but It's too the point were I dont even socialize. It kills me bc i constantly put my self down so I can feel "better". But i guess that is just something i have to work on...
TheRealMuna 10 months ago
I agree with you. you shouldn't bring up your securities in front of people, well if its your bestfriend than that is fine. But when you bring out your insecurites, in the moment will feel akward and now that, that person knows your insecure, you will become more insecure about that particular thing.
TheRealMuna 10 months ago
ANDREA WHERE DID YOU GET THAT SHIRT!!!!!!!!!!!! ive been looking for it FOREVER :'(
mahakj 10 months ago
I needed to hear this .
I love u girls
{NH}
,-Necce<3
NecceBoo 10 months ago
omg its like you read my mind. lately i have been putting my self down alot because of summer getting close and im not swim suit ready. i know it makes some of my friends and boyfriend uncomfortable to hear me beat my self down. thank you for making this video it really opened my eyes :)
wwhitney30 10 months ago
Yay I missed you guys ! :) And I love my insecurities cause I've learn to accept myself for who I am .
kimmyw010 10 months ago 5
@kimmyw010 cheers to both of those sentences Kimmy!!
thosegirlsarewild 10 months ago 3
Every time I walk in a room I yell, "I AM THE GREATEST MF ON THE PLANET BITCHES!" Then I walk up to the closest person, crotch thrust the air and shout "SUCK IT!" I'm not a doucher am I?
goudz23 10 months ago 2
:)
kellyannabama 10 months ago
LOL!!! I busted out laughing on the pinky part... You two women really have an inner brilliance. Thanks. Made my day.
newjusticeleague 10 months ago
I am generally very honest so when someone voices insecurities around me it can either go really great or really, really bad. (Example) Skinny Friend: I'm so fat! Me: Shut up skinny Bitch. (Example) Fat friend: I'm so fat! Me: You're not THAT fat... (Example) Me: I'm totally getting fat but I'm STILL gonna eat this burger dammit. I say all this to say: We all have insecurities but I'm just way more awesome about mine, lol. The end
MissNVS1 10 months ago
Very true - I never like interacting with people who put themselves down - I tend to avoid them in fact. It's just not comfortable for others, especially when you don't know the person that well. We have a social stigma that values strong people - you could almost call it Social Darwinism haha so no one WANTS to be around a weak person. You put your best foot forward and leave the fact that your shoe strings are untied out of the discussion lol.
CerebralInsanity 10 months ago 15
@CerebralInsanity so well said
thosegirlsarewild 10 months ago
I think that if it is something u r insecure abt that u can change- change it! ie: being insecure about ur weight.....
But if u can't change it and it's not something major or that other ppl care about- try ur hardest to get over it...
rxploding21 10 months ago
i hrvee trible gramar
yusefdoodie 10 months ago 2
@yusefdoodie You sure do little buddy, you sure do. =)
MissNVS1 10 months ago
As far as insecurities, I think that people bring them up in order to receive a compliment from someone else:
PERSON A: Awww, I'm so fat & ugly.
and one of these people can happen
PERSON B: Oh no! You are sooooo beautiful & you're not fat at all!!!
PERSON C: Ummm... okay? What's your point?
PERSON D: Heck yeah you're fat & ugly... aaand you smell! Oooh!
(most hope for PERSON B... of course)
SignoraArcobaleno 10 months ago 30
@SignoraArcobaleno
PERSON E: That's why I love ya, babe.
c00lwatter 10 months ago
@c00lwatter Yay! Much love to you too!
SignoraArcobaleno 10 months ago