The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid70s.
I work for The Bill Cunningham Show with one of the teams that produces a show each week. We're always looking to hear different stories who could potentially be on the show! We'd love to hear yours! We also want you to know our contact if you know anyone who might need our help or be interested in being a guest on the show. If selected we provide all flights and stay in NYC for the taping. Could we give you a call sometime?
Or you can give me a call i'll be at my desk all day
This Is Why People Need To Get To Know Who They Dealing With Before Laying Down... So Many Young People Are In This Drama.. Im In My 20"s With No Kids & I Never Wanna Start a Sentence off Like I Love My Baby But I Wish... or It Was a Mistake To.. Women Make Theyself Look Stupid Always Wanna Talk About They Baby Daddy Cuz He Ain't What U Bargained For, You Dealt With Him What Does That Have To Say About You Bottom Line People Get Married !!
If these issues are faced as if it's the "baby daddy" who we are dealing with, we are so far from waking up. It's not the baby daddy, It's the devil who hates the Most High and his mission is to use whomever he can to destroy who ever he can.
When you are living for The Most High the battles you face are not carnal, they are spiritual. Who cares about whether a man buys 3/4 outfits for a child, or whether he spends time with the child--if he isn't living for the Most High--his absence is the best thing he can give that child...refer to the Book of Jasher and see how well it went with Abraham when his evil male parent Terah was not in his life.
9th...The male parent takes showers with the child even when the child expresses their dislike for it....courts deem this "parenting" according to the laws of the state of Florida there's nothing wrong with this....Lev 18:7
10th...The male parent who sometimes claim to be Jehovah's Witness all of a sudden celebrate pagan holidays with the child faithfully...2nd Kings 17:14-17
7th...The male parent has sexual intecourse with someone else's wife while the child is in the bed naked with them (the child should not be a part of this)...Ex 20:17 & Lev 18:20
8th...The male parent has sexual intercourse with multiple partners (male and female) while the child sleeps in the bed naked (the child should not witness this)...Lev 18:22
5th...The male parent takes the child with him while he cheats on the woman he is currently with and uses the child as bait to seduce women(the child should not be a part of this)...Ex 20:14
6th...The male parent lies on the mother in court and to DCF(bearing false witness) in an attempt to get custody of the child...Ex 20:16
2nd...The child brings home evil/any action figures (graven images) from the male parent's house...Ex 20:4,5
3rd...The male parent wants every weekend with the child to prevent the child from observing the sabbath...Ex 20:8
4th...The child doesn't respect the mother and only complies with the rules of the male parent's household because the child is afraid of the male parent...Ex 20:12
You've clearly addressed the issues WORLDLY women are facing. Let's talk about some issues a woman encounters with her "baby daddy" when she has TRULY changed her life to keeping the law statutes and judgments. The enemy tries every thing he can to keep the child from keeping the laws.
1st...The child's male parent who previously had no belief system, now forces the child to partake in being Jehovah's Witness and Freemasonry--bowing before every alter and worshipping other gods...Ex 20:3
@cokie114 I am not a wordly woman...and these were the issues I and many others faced. Your situation is clearly abnormal. I don't know any single mother in your situation. If you would like to discuss it further please hit my inbox.
@TorahCents It's not abnormal...1st Cor 10:11Now all these things happened unto them for ensamples: and they are written for our admonition, upon whom the ends of the world are come. 12Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall. 13There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.
Aww this was cute and good advice. It's great that you know from experience and aren't just passing out self righteous pacifiers. This is something I will use in my daily dealings with the man my kids call daddy.
good advice for those single mothers I know of some of those women who bash there child father and some still have a child with that guy again know he aint gonna do for them what up with that? I know of a father who dont do for his three kids but he do for his two from the ex before he met the woman whom he had the three kids with is that right men and women need to be careful on who they lay down with
What do you do if you have drama with the fathers Moma? Lol. Like baby daddy mom- drama. Single mom doesn't want to work and wants all the money the babys father makes and won't let him move out or manipulates his mind thinking he won't be able to do it? He's going to be 20.. Should I be mad at him because he's not stepping up or her for not allowing him? His mom tells him she's raised him for 19 years and she comes first and he thinks this is true..
@misz3c - LOL! I only really give advice about stuff I have experienced first hand....but if I was you, I would leave him alone if you guys are in a relationship...and if you are not...I would just follow the rules in my video and apply it to myself. We all have to find some kind of acceptable way to deal with consequences to deal with the decisions we have made. Hope that helps. :)
@TheEsquire212 - Smh...thats what inspired me man. I can't stand the thought process of bitter broads. You took the penis willingly, you received the seed, you bore forth fruit....now handle the harvest you chose to sow...but with dignity.
@24mrbruce - LOL...I get that question all the time and I reply with the same answer: Although I have met a lot of guys with potential, the guy for me hasn't come around yet. :)
11) dont use the child as a bargaining chip. like dont tell the man if you can be with me then you cant see your child no more and turn around and tell the child that your father dont want nothing to do with you.... i really like this video no i dont have kids but i feel like you hit home on that and a lot of dudes respect you for that because we thought women wasnt listening
Well, if all of us lived by the Bible's way... having kids AFTER marriage, you would not have to make videos like this... it's a shame people have to go through crap like this due to their own devices...
@autismpete I agree...and people say its a new day. What they don't understand that when we lived more conservative...we didn't catch as much hell. But hey...people gonna be people.
@TorahCents EXACTLY!! And I'm about to sub to you!! :)
I mean, people may SAY the Bible is out of date, but if we lived by Biblical principles, EVERY SINGLE WOMAN would know who her kids father was, no need for DNA testing, virtuous women and God-fearing strong men everywhere... it wouldn't matter how much SWAG a dude had, it wouldn't matter if a chick had a phat azz... I could go on and on...
Love this video I watch it a few time here and there as a reminder of how to deal with my child's father. Thank YOU.
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The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid70s.
pc0p1mp 1 week ago
Great Video!!! Funny too, but true..
iAmQueenBri 2 weeks ago
GREAT VIDEO
sajm4315 1 month ago
Good vid.
cboneofenglewood 2 months ago
Good video
missexi718 3 months ago
I work for The Bill Cunningham Show with one of the teams that produces a show each week. We're always looking to hear different stories who could potentially be on the show! We'd love to hear yours! We also want you to know our contact if you know anyone who might need our help or be interested in being a guest on the show. If selected we provide all flights and stay in NYC for the taping. Could we give you a call sometime?
Or you can give me a call i'll be at my desk all day
212-419-7479
RandiGodshaw 3 months ago
@RandiGodshaw She needs to be an advisor to your guest..LOL
Discernaoftruth 1 day ago
This Is Why People Need To Get To Know Who They Dealing With Before Laying Down... So Many Young People Are In This Drama.. Im In My 20"s With No Kids & I Never Wanna Start a Sentence off Like I Love My Baby But I Wish... or It Was a Mistake To.. Women Make Theyself Look Stupid Always Wanna Talk About They Baby Daddy Cuz He Ain't What U Bargained For, You Dealt With Him What Does That Have To Say About You Bottom Line People Get Married !!
sj4 3 months ago
love this woman
licialicous 4 months ago
If these issues are faced as if it's the "baby daddy" who we are dealing with, we are so far from waking up. It's not the baby daddy, It's the devil who hates the Most High and his mission is to use whomever he can to destroy who ever he can.
cokie114 5 months ago
When you are living for The Most High the battles you face are not carnal, they are spiritual. Who cares about whether a man buys 3/4 outfits for a child, or whether he spends time with the child--if he isn't living for the Most High--his absence is the best thing he can give that child...refer to the Book of Jasher and see how well it went with Abraham when his evil male parent Terah was not in his life.
cokie114 5 months ago
9th...The male parent takes showers with the child even when the child expresses their dislike for it....courts deem this "parenting" according to the laws of the state of Florida there's nothing wrong with this....Lev 18:7
10th...The male parent who sometimes claim to be Jehovah's Witness all of a sudden celebrate pagan holidays with the child faithfully...2nd Kings 17:14-17
cokie114 5 months ago
7th...The male parent has sexual intecourse with someone else's wife while the child is in the bed naked with them (the child should not be a part of this)...Ex 20:17 & Lev 18:20
8th...The male parent has sexual intercourse with multiple partners (male and female) while the child sleeps in the bed naked (the child should not witness this)...Lev 18:22
cokie114 5 months ago
5th...The male parent takes the child with him while he cheats on the woman he is currently with and uses the child as bait to seduce women(the child should not be a part of this)...Ex 20:14
6th...The male parent lies on the mother in court and to DCF(bearing false witness) in an attempt to get custody of the child...Ex 20:16
cokie114 5 months ago
2nd...The child brings home evil/any action figures (graven images) from the male parent's house...Ex 20:4,5
3rd...The male parent wants every weekend with the child to prevent the child from observing the sabbath...Ex 20:8
4th...The child doesn't respect the mother and only complies with the rules of the male parent's household because the child is afraid of the male parent...Ex 20:12
cokie114 5 months ago
You've clearly addressed the issues WORLDLY women are facing. Let's talk about some issues a woman encounters with her "baby daddy" when she has TRULY changed her life to keeping the law statutes and judgments. The enemy tries every thing he can to keep the child from keeping the laws.
1st...The child's male parent who previously had no belief system, now forces the child to partake in being Jehovah's Witness and Freemasonry--bowing before every alter and worshipping other gods...Ex 20:3
cokie114 5 months ago
@cokie114 I am not a wordly woman...and these were the issues I and many others faced. Your situation is clearly abnormal. I don't know any single mother in your situation. If you would like to discuss it further please hit my inbox.
TorahCents 4 months ago
@TorahCents It's not abnormal...1st Cor 10:11Now all these things happened unto them for ensamples: and they are written for our admonition, upon whom the ends of the world are come. 12Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall. 13There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.
cokie114 3 months ago
Aww this was cute and good advice. It's great that you know from experience and aren't just passing out self righteous pacifiers. This is something I will use in my daily dealings with the man my kids call daddy.
nikki2nite4luv 5 months ago
Wisdom!
darlamaria108 5 months ago
She speaks the truth!
JiaIreland 6 months ago
good advice for those single mothers I know of some of those women who bash there child father and some still have a child with that guy again know he aint gonna do for them what up with that? I know of a father who dont do for his three kids but he do for his two from the ex before he met the woman whom he had the three kids with is that right men and women need to be careful on who they lay down with
Kendawg841 6 months ago
U will not be a single mother forever...this I guarantee. Virtuous women are in high demand (in select circles). Shalom to you along your journey.
zeroun92 6 months ago
I really like your videos! First time watching...keep it up!
capricorn11j2 7 months ago 2
@capricorn11j2 Thank you!
TorahCents 7 months ago
Arright, from a secular perspective, some pretty good advice...
wiseassgamer 7 months ago 2
@wiseassgamer Thank you sir?
TorahCents 7 months ago
What do you do if you have drama with the fathers Moma? Lol. Like baby daddy mom- drama. Single mom doesn't want to work and wants all the money the babys father makes and won't let him move out or manipulates his mind thinking he won't be able to do it? He's going to be 20.. Should I be mad at him because he's not stepping up or her for not allowing him? His mom tells him she's raised him for 19 years and she comes first and he thinks this is true..
misz3c 8 months ago
@misz3c - LOL! I only really give advice about stuff I have experienced first hand....but if I was you, I would leave him alone if you guys are in a relationship...and if you are not...I would just follow the rules in my video and apply it to myself. We all have to find some kind of acceptable way to deal with consequences to deal with the decisions we have made. Hope that helps. :)
TorahCents 8 months ago
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BangTheNoise 8 months ago
This is good stuff. These chicks leaving these bittter statuses and notes on my Facebook News Feed should be forced to watch them.
ANd yes, 90% of them profess to be Christian.
TheEsquire212 8 months ago
@TheEsquire212 - Smh...thats what inspired me man. I can't stand the thought process of bitter broads. You took the penis willingly, you received the seed, you bore forth fruit....now handle the harvest you chose to sow...but with dignity.
TorahCents 8 months ago
@TorahCents ..... why are you not married yet?!?!?!?! i sooo appreciate prudent women
24mrbruce 8 months ago
@24mrbruce - LOL...I get that question all the time and I reply with the same answer: Although I have met a lot of guys with potential, the guy for me hasn't come around yet. :)
TorahCents 8 months ago
Awesome presentation and sound advice full of wisdom. Loved it!
mssquirrely 8 months ago
@mssquirrely - So glad you loved it. :)
TorahCents 8 months ago
I had my child in wedlock and somehow i still got a baby daddy lmaoo..divorced last month...
ShaCourtney 8 months ago
@ShaCourtney - Oh wow...well I hope the video helps. lol
TorahCents 8 months ago
I think I see a star in the making.
weeweedup 8 months ago
@weeweedup thank you for the support
TorahCents 8 months ago
LOL @ 1:15
Nephtali1981 9 months ago
"I'm DUMB?"....LMAO
ChanelDatStar1 9 months ago
@autismpete I know n I agree with you fully on what you said
kingpin30314 9 months ago
11) dont use the child as a bargaining chip. like dont tell the man if you can be with me then you cant see your child no more and turn around and tell the child that your father dont want nothing to do with you.... i really like this video no i dont have kids but i feel like you hit home on that and a lot of dudes respect you for that because we thought women wasnt listening
kingpin30314 9 months ago
@kingpin30314 - LOL! I agree..but this may fall under "being spiteful"....thanks so much for watching and supporting. :)
TorahCents 9 months ago
Well, if all of us lived by the Bible's way... having kids AFTER marriage, you would not have to make videos like this... it's a shame people have to go through crap like this due to their own devices...
smh...
autismpete 9 months ago
@autismpete I agree...and people say its a new day. What they don't understand that when we lived more conservative...we didn't catch as much hell. But hey...people gonna be people.
TorahCents 9 months ago
@TorahCents EXACTLY!! And I'm about to sub to you!! :)
I mean, people may SAY the Bible is out of date, but if we lived by Biblical principles, EVERY SINGLE WOMAN would know who her kids father was, no need for DNA testing, virtuous women and God-fearing strong men everywhere... it wouldn't matter how much SWAG a dude had, it wouldn't matter if a chick had a phat azz... I could go on and on...
autismpete 9 months ago
@autismpete my thing is what grown man who has class about himself still use the word swag to characterize his personalty
kingpin30314 9 months ago
@kingpin30314 well apparently that's what a lot of our sistas care about is SWAG. And THATS why we're the shape we're in now...
autismpete 9 months ago
@kingpin30314 I HATE that word "swagg" with a passion. LOL!
TorahCents 9 months ago
@autismpete Thanks for the sub...and I totally agree with you! People call me crazy for being "outdated", but my life isn't in shambles
TorahCents 9 months ago
good advice!
Benyazem 9 months ago
ROFL....@ "intermission" say it sis!!! LOL!!!
1TWENTYONLOC 9 months ago
ROTFL
magirecords2004 10 months ago