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  • I know you moved to the NC area. I was wondering if you have looked into Carolina Conceptions in Raleigh. I don't know if that is too far for you, but they have an amazing staff. I saw Dr. Park. They also sit down with you before anything is done to set up payment options for after they file your insurance. I know you are not ready yet, but for when you are... They are great! Good Luck!

  • how old are you?

  • Hey if u have another baby will u make a video like last time?

  • I completely understand where you're coming from! You shouldn't have to feel rushed, so just take your sweet time and enjoy your life, just like you said! And for infertility, I would like to recommend you to REACH. If you want more information, go to the youtube channel devinanderica and message them! They are on baby 2 and can give you great info and recommend you to a WAY better infertility doc! Hope you're doing well! x

  • This is so strange to me because my husband can breathe on me and I get pregnant. I have 5 and I'm 13 weeks 3 days pregnant with number 6. You seem to be a loving person. I hope he best for you<3 :)

  • i am so sorry you have to go through this, and i hope you read this

    “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” john 16:33

    i truly beleive in my LORD JESUS CHRIST, and i think through him all thing are possible, just believe in him and never loose your faith because remember,he loves u & through these times of trial & suffering, when u seem to be all alone. it is when he is carrying you!

  • Im so sorry you have to go through this hun! Your an amazing mom and i know when the time is right you will be blessed again! :)

  • I am so fearful of IVF. I feel the same. I am confortable just trying on our own (we are unexplained infertile) after 5 failed IUIs and 2 miscarriages. I am not mentally ready to jump onto the IVF ship just yet. Thank you for being so honest. I've been watching you for so long and I just love your vlogs and blog.

  • your camera focused more on your bed then you lol!

  • Good for you to express your true feelings about all this!! I have a friend who has a blog that you might be interested in babyforyoubellyforme.blogspot.­com good luck on everything you do I live your blog!!

  • I am glad your happy where you are right now. I love your honesty!! I wouldnt wanna deal with all that right now either. Your my fave. Good luck when u decide it's time!

  • I could totally understand how you would have a lot of negative emotions attached to TTC.I think you are totally right about finding a new Doctor. They seem very insensitive and unprofessional from what you have told us. Good luck moving forward! <3

  • Hey, I was just wondering how old you are?

  • Don't worry I see you having another baby....a lil girl,but later,take your time enjoy your life....but don't ever give up.... And glad to see you do this update for us

  • perfect*

    

  • I'm really sorry that it doesn't happen naturally for you guys. I didn't realise how painful that could be :-( When you're ready then you'll know it and you'll be strong enough to go through it again- and if you decide that you want to stay a one child then that's prefect for you too! No one should ever judge that!

  • you're the kind of person that should have a hundred children :) because you would love them so deeply and ensure they grow into people of character. thus, i'm sure you know how i feel about you having another one but whatever you choose, i hope you find happiness in that path. also, just throwing this out there but i have three kids and after the first, i was sure there was no way i could love another just like him but i did. it's amazing how your heart and love just grows with each child. xoxo

  • @krissyj0606 if that, at all, was something looming in your mind and being a factor in your apprehension on a second :)

  • Sorry if I sound nosy, but why can't you have a baby without IVF? Do you have a condition that prevents it? Good luck to you in the future if you decide to do it.

  • I have to say that even though this was blurry I think the quality was better. When you use your Mac you seem so far away. Love your vids and completely support you in all that you are doing. Do what you feel is right for you and your family.

  • Do what makes you happy! You know in your heart what you do and dont want :-)

  • dont let your experience with one doctor make you scared or hesitant to continue on and find a new doctor. if you were unhappy with your experience you dont need to explain yourself or feel obligated to your old doctor. please i encourage you to call and switch all of your records to a new doctor that you will be happier with! and to be honest i dont even think you have to be the one to make that call. find a new doctor first and they are usually the ones to call the old doctor for records

  • When you decide please take a look at REACH in Charlotte. I know it's a while away from you, but they have been so wonderfull for us! We are now ten weeks in with our second pregnancy because of them, and they gave us our beautiful daughter Olivia. I think you'll be very happy with them. Good luck, Meg!

  • I know you didn't ask but i am going to put it out there anyway. I have made it my hobby to talk to women about all things children and a common concern for first time mothers trying for #2 is "How can I possibly love another baby as much as the one I have now?" Well you will. So when you look at Carter and your thinking about #2 know that #2 will bring you as much joy/love etc as he does and weigh that in to your decision making process :-) Good luck on whatever you choose to do!

  • @MeghanArmyWife Thanks for writing this, Meghan! That's one of the things that was in the back of my head. It's hard to imagine comparing anyone or anything to the pedestal we've put Carter on. I appreciate this reassurance!

  • @rMeghann Your welcome. Of the women who share their stories with me, I have not met one who didn't worry about this. We didn't know a love like this existed until our first, so we have a hard time believing it will happen again. I carried a lot of guilt during my 2nd pregnancy. The second she was in my arms, I was angry I had even worried about it :-). Again Good luck!

  • Do i ever watch candance on the adoption story here on youtube...i think u guys would be amazing adoptive parents check her out!!

  • Good for you. You'll know when and if it's the right time/thing to do. It's good to see you making more videos!

  • I truly wish you would consider adoption. IVF is just so... invasive & disappointing. Adoption is the complete opposite.

  • @bcashmom12 I meant to say something about adoption in this vid bc I knew there would be questions about it, but it completely slipped my mind. We don't have adoption as an option on the table right now because our insurance completely covers IVF, while adoption costs around $25k, I think. Anyway, in financial terms, we want to exhaust the IVF option before moving to the next - less affordable - plan.

  • @rMeghann Wow! I wish our insurance covered IVF. Ours won't even cover iui or monitoring for clomid (although it does cover the clomid) As a general insurance, its great. No copay and 100% covered for most normal things.. but when it gets to IF theres not much it covers other than a little bit of testing and some of the drugs. Good Luck with whatever you decide to do in the future!

  • Thank you so much for sharing. I was curious but it's a very personal thing so didn't want to push. My hubby and I are ttc and it is starting to get frustrating when people keep asking if we're pregnant yet. I think u should definitely keep enjoying the fun time your having now, you'll know when your ready to start again. You have beautiful Carter to keep u on your toes atm anyways :p loving the regular vids btw!

  • hey nice to see another video hope you and ur gawjus family are well as far as da ivf goes da best advice i cud giv u is follow ur heart hun best of luck with what ever you decide you no in your heart that whatever you decide wil be da right decision for you and ur family xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • I want you to know that i understand how you feel. I never did IVF but i have had 8 pregnancy losses and did pump myself with many similar drugs (needles and all) to try and help. Dealing with the Dr's and all of that stuff. Until a person has lived that type of pregnancy scenario; they really can't judge. It is not such a simple process for everyone. It's not "decide to have a baby" pay money and automatically get one. It is so much more than that. HUGS!!

  • sooo blurry! lol

  • Good luck with everything!

  • I dont think that unless you have been down the infertility and in particular IVF path, anybody knows how it feels. To continuously hear from people, ''relax, it will happen'', or ''dont think about it'' really gets you down. I have been lucky enough to have 2 boys (2 years old and 5 months old) as a result of IVF, and thank my lucky stars for them every day. Here in Australia I have had to pay almost $10 000 upfront to do 1 IVF cycle. Of that I was left about $4000 out of pocket. Good luck!

  • Don't lose hope. I know this may sound cliche, but the perfect time will come

  • yes ivf is very emotional and many ppl dont realize the many steps it takes before doing a transfer, in agust i had a failed transfer, was the worse feeling ever:( i had my second transfer in dec and now im having a baby for a couple:) you seem to be happy for what you have:) i enjoy watching your vids, ive been fallowing you since 2009 when i was pg with my own!

  • can you get all your records from the old place without having to tell them you're going anywhere else? i would think it would be your right to have your records, and not -have- to give them a reason. whatever happens, just know that you have a lot of people out there that care about you and your family, there's a lot of love out there directed at you. God Bless!

  • @StoliDassah You should just be able to tell them you want your records and they give them to you no questions asked (and for a fee probably). If they ask for a reason tell them for personal use.

  • Happy for you and your family!!!! :)

  • don't give up with it please! you are ment to be a mommy! I am an only child and it's hard

  • Thanks for your honesty and you will do what is right for your family! :)

  • why don't you adopt a baby to give a child a good home??

  • I wrote you a note on FB. ; )

  • I'm a pretty good judge of character Meghann and I believe that you are not the moving backwards type of gal=) When and if you feel ready to go through the IVF process again just know you have a ton of support from your YT Fam and an awesome Hubby and handsome son to help you through the tough days=) Good luck and Happy thoughts to you=)

  • I think the one good thing about your situation is you appreciate what you have that much more. Not that other parents don't appreciate their kids, but you had to work so hard just to have Carter. Hopefully this year will see you get what you want and need for you and your family, whether or not it includes a sibling for Carter. :)

  • goodluck with everything you guys decide !!

    carter is so beautiful and you guys are so blessed to have him (i know you feel the same). im sure this video took courage to make.

    you are such a great mother.

    -love and hugs from boston.

  • i really think you should start seeing a naturopath. My sis was having trouble, but 3 months after having first seen her naturopath she got pregnant. They help in so many ways and help so many families with infertility. Best of luck with this. my heart goes out to you <3

  • Do you have a PO box?

  • @HoneyImHome367 i don't. nobody's ever requested that i get one.

  • @rMeghann Can you! Please please please (:

  • ooh exciting!

  • i kept waiting for it to focus! lol

  • @MakeupMeLove i know, major focus fail! i think i'll stick to my mac next time

  • any chance u could do a video explaining your fertility story and why you turned to treatments to conceive Carter?

  • I remember when my mom went through IVF, a really tough process that was successful (twins:) only after a long time of stress. I also have siblings adopted internationally with special needs. Honestly, if I ever have to choose between the two, I'll go the adoption route. I'm thinking way ahead, but I may want to have one child and adopt anyway. Idk if this helps, but know there are so many possibilities for you. Plus, Carter is amazing (u know this already;), &you're a already a wonderful mom!

  • I can completely understand why you're hesitant to move on with finding a new doctor. Given what you've been through, it's a tough thing to go through. Maybe it would help to look on the brighter side of things: once you retrieve your medical records, you don't have to go back there. That'll be done. Also, there are plenty of experienced, compassionate doctors who may know more about IVF and have other ideas that may help. I wish you the very, very best!!

  • My heart goes out to you and your family. The best advice I have ever gotten was this- "Just be patient....only time will heal things." you're a wonderful person and you are doing what's right for you now. Stay strong. Xoxo

  • You are so strong!

  • Im sure you'll know when the time is right :) My boys are almost 2 1/2 years apart. (my baby is just a little younger then Carter) and they are the best of friends right now. I have never been through IVF and cant even immagine all the heart ache it must come w/ but when you do start trying I wish you nothing but positive results.

  • That's so understandable! Don't even feel bad or guilty about it. I talk to a lot of mommies going through this and in the spiritual world we feel that a spirit has to attach to you before you can get pregnant so I'm sure if another baby is meant to come through, they will kick your butt into gear :P Also let me know if I can do a numerology reading for you and Carter :D I'm practicing on everyone who will let me! Take care

  • You seem very strong keep it up! I'm sure you'll find a great doctor when the time is right!(:

  • This is awesome! Thanks for sharing!!

  • we love you meghan! you are amazing and so strong

  • I understand not wanting to disturb life when you're such in a happy place. Maybe when the time is right, you'll know when to go through it all again. I hope too that now everyone will give you the space to continue on without asking when....

  • Maybe look into adoption. You have so much love to give and seem like such a cute family that any baby would love being raised by you. If you want another child, but IVF just isn't something you want to go through again, adoption seems like a good option. Wish you all the best <3 Good luck!

  • I completely understand you and feel for you ...was just wondering if y'all would consider adoption?

    I'm loving all the vids

    .your doing a good job posting everyday :)

  • Have you guys ever considered adoption? I know the process can sometimes be super long and it's not the same as having your own baby, but in many ways it would be much easier on you. I wish you all the best of luck though...I know God has something special planned for you and your family :)

  • ((hugs)) i enjoy your videos with your little cutie pie!!!

  • *decision

  • We did ivf n i completely understand every last word u said. i pray that god gives u peace in whatever choice u make n strength to carry out ur desition. ivf was the hardest thing i have done in my life. good luck.

  • Good luck with your future IVF journey. I can't imagine how hard IVF must be on you physically and emotionally. Ps. Carter is the cutest little boy I've ever seen! Love your video's!

  • out of focus :(

  • @keuneun3862 i know... i'm really sorry. i didn't want to re-record it because i didn't think i could tell the story the same way.

  • i love your videos!

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