Stabbing Westward - Shame

[CartoonsKick]

Love this song. A staple for the car MP3, since 2 years ago when I first found it. Great band. Awesome song.

[mbiker83]

And that's how the band broke up.

[Minacious]

I can totally connect with this song.

[simonaris]

Does anybody know what guitar Christopher is 'using' in this video?

[clockworkmike83]

@simonaris It's definitely an Ibanez Talman in Flaked Silver , most likely a TC740 based on the humbucker/lipstick/lipstick pickup situation, as the TC740 was the only one to have that setup. These model guitars were mainly built from 1994 to 1998 and have resurfaced and continued as acoustic models. Christopher's model here was built from 97 to 98, so he had JUST gotten this guitar judging from the date of the video.

[michaeltgrace]

@clockworkmike83 Clockworkmike for the win!

[clockworkmike83]

@michaeltgrace lol thank you, thank you

[IAmMyOwnDownfall]

i have such a boner for that lead singer. 

[insufficience]

@IAmMyOwnDownfall well, at least we know your sexual orientation now..great.

[DukeofDudes74]

This video is so fucking cool.

[genesishep]

How this song doesn't end up in the list of top stalker songs I'll never understand. Great song, even if it is a bit creepy. (its a good kinna creepy)

[LordWoolley]

Lead singer=Buddy Revell from the movie "Three o'clock High"..........he also looks like the head of the roller skate gang in the subway from the movie "the Warriors"....

[Skullcracken]

@LordWoolley LOL, and the drummer=Lead singer from Midnight Oil...

[reneeconnolly]

Always the runner...

[defkorn8893]

Still one of my favorite bands from the 90's. Had the pleasure of Hanging with and running sound for Chris' newer band, The Dreaming....can I just say re this video: lmao , a home phone and a pay phone...two things that will be obsolete at some point. getting there. lol

[Skullcracken]

@defkorn8893 Great concerts in the 90's. Saw them in Atlanta, God Lives Underwater, opened, then Stabbing Westward, then Sponge - $20. Stabbing Westward should have been the headliner...

[23chopperrob]

drummer got the right idea...

[CarKrashed]

well, i've been existing just fine since she left..

[brh2282]

Lead singer looks like the bad guy in Kindergarten Cop!!

[253098u]

@brh2282 ur right

[Sundermize]

@brh2282 OMG I SO AGREEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Hecklerkoch223]

@brh2282 HAHAHAHA!!! Dude I was just thinking that!! Good Call

[dadyhr]

In the stairwell: "You wouldn't be avoiding me now, would you?"

[nonstop85716]

FUCK YOU TIMMY....FUCKIN ASSHOLE.. GET OFF MY COMPUTERMOTHER FUCKER,,,,ASSHOLE BITCH

[satanicmechanic11]

I thought this video ended with him pinning her down and about to rape her... either there's another version out there or maybe I remember it wrong. Probably the latter....

[Onesecondname]

My name is Julie, and this is my favorite love song.

[vettekid407]

@Onesecondname julie you rock

[CarKrashed]

How Can I have Sex without you!?!?!?

[smgober74]

@CarKrashed ~ lyrics are "how can i Exist without you"

[conekiller13]

This band literally saved My life.......  I got the chance to tell Chris that in person a couple years ago at The Dreaming concert, great guy!

[leftcoaster67]

The lead singer is like...crap I MISSED THE MOVIE!!!

[akharpel]

This intense song should have MILLIONS of views! "Once I swore I would die for you....I never meant like this....No I never meant like this." This song and this band did not get enough respect.

[MrsJannaC]

I listened to this song endlessly when it first came out!

[kdoodliest]

@MrsJannaC i still listen to this song endlessly.. it's like a ritual.. i wake up, go to my playlist, and this is the first one i always click

[Talyn91]

I LOVE that song!!



[retardedhampster]

not even half a million views? c'mon man wtf?

[Lunariousnomnom]

sucks she didnt go over too...

[YakmanOx]

Drummer sorta looks like Voldemort...

[eyeseer1]

This song was truly an escape. I hated the millenium.

[757Roy757]

I wanna go back to the 90's

[switzerlicious]

One of the creepier videos of the 90s...

[victoriano2117]

the best of the best

[deathdealer60546]

what does the drummer say at 2:17?

[TheGovinda777]

@deathdealer60546 Looks like "Let's go." Because at the end the rest of the band abandoned the guitar player and he doesn't fully realize it until the very end of the video.

[michaeltgrace]

@deathdealer60546 "WALTER! LET'S GO!"

Walter Flakus is the keyboardist.

[deathdealer60546]

@michaeltgrace cool, thanks!

[yamaharider58]

a Justin Bieber advertisement before this song.....come on youtube...get rid of VEVO seriously

[RDigi]

This Song's awesome, glad others remember this band too!

[RedSnyder141]

"HOW CAN I HAVE SEX WITHOUT YOUUUU!" *headbangs*

[krissykazele]

me too Raj......'cept, I still got the girl crush on her, lol.....Also the guy who plays the psycho is such a good actor (or has got an unbeliiiievable darkside to tap into) to execute the lines with such realistic facial portrayal of such a deeply scarred emotional base........Love,love, LOVE the song too & "Save Yourself" is phenomenal too.

[GabriellaRhaine]

this was my favorite song in high school <3

[RajaofNYandPGH]

I used to have the biggest crush on the girl in this video.

[BlueeyzCaL]

i wish these guys would get back together and make another album...

[SuperBean81]

Great song ....Its like a mini scary movie with a kick ass soundtrack!!!

[pixi615]

Sweet freaking video! I miss this band so much.

[dskeetgt]

who is the chick in this video? anyone know?? thx

[mrmadkia1]

The stalker dude looks like anthony jeselnik from the comedy central roasts lol

[PadanelliLutz]

Completely INSANE. I miss Stabbing Westward!

[iin77]

For the longest time, I thought it was "How can I have sex without you?"

[Raflegan]

@iin77 It is, the lyric sheets lie.

[RDigi]

@iin77 I thought the same thing when I first heard it at a younger age, thought it was a 'bad' song

[yamaharider58]

@iin77 me too man hahaha...I still sing it like cuz it's funny though. Like Creedence Clearwater Revival's "Bad Moon Rising" --- sounds like they say "there's a bathroom on the right"

[SBKinsella]

@iin77

ROFL....so did I till I googled the Lyrics one day lol

[MrHahahaonetwothree]

@iin77 thats what i t hought he was sayingto? what is he saying?

[iin77]

@MrHahahaonetwothree "How can I exist without you?"

[AcidFMHQ]

@iin77 same here haha

[tsarvey123]

@iin77 I thought it was "How can I obsess without you." I like my version better.

[Rawk4Life]

@iin77 He says "How can I exist without you?"

[mssjeni1]

@iin77 i think everyone in the world did. LMAO!!!!!

[rmaxtpmx]

@iin77 well that's just stupid.

[xxxwhenimdeadxxx]

@iin77 HAHAHAHA

[DaRealMzGreedy]

@iin77 Lmfao!!!!!! how can I have sex with out? tooooo funny!!!

[111vnderbnder111]

@iin77 it's not? O_o

[camman924]

@iin77 yeah that totally sounds better too lol. I thought the same thing.

[iReturnV1deotapes]

@iin77 Cannot be unheard.

[insufficience]

@iin77 a hahaha that's my friend used to sing..id be like "dude I think it's exist" he'd be like no man,no its sex



[mkeane442]

great tune !!

[TheRockerchick4]

lead singer is soo HOTTT

[Chrisgodoflard]

8 people named Christopher were left out, except for me.

[bstew5]

The best part of the 90's. Right here.

[graveyardwrestler]

greatest music video EVER.

[buddawiggi]

Awful crap, sounds like a Rebecca Black blumpkin

[TheRealScarr]

@buddawiggi This is coming from a braindead raptarded wigger douchebag with nothing but moron Call Of Duty videos on his page. Here's a hint retard: Life? YOU FUCKING FAILED IT!!!

[buddawiggi]

@TheRealScarr everything about you and your comment is incorrect. You, your mom, and everyone like you and your mom are all small dick tinkle lickers with pick up truck day jobs wiping up wet fart stains at the old folks home.

[graveyardwrestler]

@buddawiggi Shut up and go play your video games kid.

[buddawiggi]

@graveyardwrestler trust me sub-tard; you are the kid here. I cant help you with your hyper-deficient sense of good and bad when it comes to music but I can help you by pointing out the trash when your stepping in it. This is shit. Stabbing Westward is as completely fucking awful as Miley Cyrus or Rebecca Black. For Christs sake forgive your parents, go back to school, and get a real job. Your music, this music, totally sucks.

[graveyardwrestler]

@buddawiggi You have no room to talk. Ha. You this is great music too bad your too fucking stupid to realize it. I have a job ass hole.

[buddawiggi]

You wrote "You have no room to talk. Ha. You this is great music too bad your too fucking stupid to realize it. I have a job ass hole." --- Judging by the number of grammatical, spelling, and syntax errors in that group of barely legible words I seriously doubt you have a education. I know you do not have a job. What you might have is a person who pays you to suck dick and sit in the closet but unless you pay taxes on the dick sucking income then that is not a job. Truly "under the table".

[gibsonlespaul111]

drummer looks like hes a white supremisist

[buddawiggi]

@gibsonlespaul111 He is, this is a neo-Nazi/White supremacist group. They are filled with hate for blacks and Jews and gays and probably you too.

[gibsonlespaul111]

@buddawiggi hahahaha well thank u for making me feel unloved

[TheNineinchsnails]

love the song, the music video is a little silly, overall hurts the song

[webby720]

at 1:03..when she bends over...is that a wet fart stain?.......LMAO

[11xxxfox]

FUCK YUS! I LOVE THIS BAND SO MUCH~brings me back to 1996 every time I hear them. I love their unique style. They can do it hard or they can rock it soft... not many bands possess this quality of versatility. NEW FANS AND OLD FANS ALIKE TAKE CAUTION: NEVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE LISTEN TO SW IF YOU ARE IN LOVE AND IN PAIN OR GOING THROUGH A PAINFUL BREAK-UP! TRUE STORY... TAKE IT FROM ME.

[Candlestick4155]

Why so serious babe? I just want to give you a hug.

[TheSarahfran]

you dudes don't think she's the slightest bit TOOO skinny??!!?/

[animelove2021]

@TheSarahfran I was thinking the same.

[erickhcabrera]

Hmmmm... very good. A good band, good voice and excelent video.

[AstralShine]

I'd bust out of the loony bin for a hot piece of ass like that too.

[michaeltgrace]

Yeah yeah. "Sex without you". That was funny for like a week in 1996.

[bnbsmith07]

When Brad first played this song, I thought that lyric said, ""How can I have sex without you" haha After actually listening to it I realized what he said.

[wikidsledge]

God Damn it I love this band!!!!

[godnothing666]

Awwwww and then Chris is left all by him self :-( kinda like in real life LOL! poor guy can't seem to keep a band together.

[michaeltgrace]

@godnothing666 This absolutely true. Take it from me, I can tell you this first hand.

[CapnHolic]

so wish that music videos were made like this nowadays....

[bigeherb]

saw em in San Francisco in 2001, Awesome show1

[allanxxx99]

Wow watching SW makes me want to buy a Chevy Silverado....

FKN CNTS

[ouuuyeaa]

@fullonnight suck my balls dude -.- (cartman FTW)

[jdcool038]

lol "maybe we should get christopher?" ....nah lol

[jdcool038]

if NIN and Bush had a baby it would be this band

[MsMiaro]

Fuck that singer is beyond sexy!

[doktorphilth]

It blows this band broke up, they made some KICKASS stuff over the years they were together.

[fullonnight]

holyshit!! hahahaha lol!!!! This is one of the GAYEST music videos I've ever seen! hahaha this is one of the darkest songs ever made ut this video is so fucking ridiculously cheesy and retarded! Hahaha it's some campy ass glam fag fest!!!

[djwithnoname]

@fullonnight Wow, you sound so cool? Can we hang out? I mean, do you have time? Obviously you're the most awesome person alive, making fun of people that re eons more talented and successful than you. MOVE OUT OF YOUR PARENT'S BASEMENT, loser.

[MayamiXSasori]

@fullonnight then why the heck are you even watching it, idiot? if you dont like it, dont watch it. its as simple as that. are you really that stupid?

[fleshypuppet]

What a fuckin' intense song as well as a great video and this is why Ungod and Stabbing Westward rock!!

[moonpeeple]

Bitch you cant quit me!



[culyfry93]

yea, that settles it, stabbing westward is fucking awesome

[Raflegan]

"How can I have sex without you" is a great mondegreen for this song. I mean, it's more honest than 'how can I exist without you'

[umkm2k]

@Raflegan I always thought it was "How can I obsess without you?"

[DevineBovine528]

@umkm2k *exist

[TheMorbidmirage]

30 Day Song Challenge, Day 20; Stabbing Westward - Shame....this song rules! Love the powerful chrous in this and the awesome vocals. Addicting song...

[828eddie]

no i love you tube but flippin hate vevo - its bugs me - it has 2have its fingers on everything now

[828eddie]

I HATE VEVO

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[tallyhoman911]

@828eddie is there a reason why? or are you just saying that to get thumbs up

[SarahLynnM]

This song kicks ass.

[arafear1]

one hell of a beat in the beginning

[kdoodliest]

I would let that stalker stalk me anyday

[afhevh]

who's the actress in the video?

[Iluvbiguns]

how can i have sex without you?

[AESTH3TICSOFHATE]

@Iluvbiguns incase you actually think those are the lyrics.....don't wanna sound like a dick for correcting you, but it's "how can i exist without you"

[vallt1]

1:23 FUCK THE POLICE!

[alcoholicavenger1]

word ocean



[redfacade]

lead singer is super hot. and the stalkers pretty hot too.

[emmers57]

The obsessed stalker is pretty hot.

[SuperThebear11]

Why did she run into that room? Clearly he was in there, secretly she wants it, she's just playing hard to get 

[SteelWeed2010]

misheard lyrics: HOW CAN I HAVE SEX WITHOUT YOU?

[satisfiction]

@SteelWeed2010 lol i heard that too. i'm guessing its "obsess without you" but its funny hahaha

[SteelWeed2010]

@satisfiction Its how can I exist without you

[AnnaEsteCangur]

@satisfiction haha. it's how can I exist without you

[BloodPoolxCQCx]

anyone else think timothy olyphant when they seen the dude on the phone at first?

[PsychoChakal]

@BloodPoolxCQCx Exactly.



[BloodPoolxCQCx]

@PsychoChakal lol i knew i wasn't crazy but the earliest thing i seen him in is scream i think 2 idk nvr watched any of them except the end of that one.More of a halloween/Friday 13/Nightmare on elm kinda guy.I'm 21 but I love the old school horrors.But yea I don't think he's even known about for another few years lol.I found this band from playing duke nukem time to kill when i was like 8 and been jammin to them ever since.The Dreamings a lil too emo for me though.

[PsychoChakal]

@BloodPoolxCQCx Exactly again. Same on all this for me hahaha, amazing. I'm 21 too, and really loved those scary movies. I found this band playing the same game, and I really liked that song, the lyrics more than anything don't goes for me. I like something a little less personal-emo-love stuff hahaha. Anyway I like some of their songs, and they kind of remind me of NIN, which I am a big fan of.

[BleedForMetal69]

Who is the chick in these clips? I'm pretty sure she is in the clip "Lies" as well. Is she married to one of the band members or something? I feel stupid for asking.

[utubefail]

This album was such a sellout album, but it was GREAT.

[fingerstylefan]

@utubefail

I came across this band from another website. Not familiar with them at all. Just curious...why do you say they're a sell out?

[izanagee]

Stabbing Westward Lives... in The Dreaming

[GetDead151]

Still one of the few CDs i can listen to from beginning to end without skipping a single song

just listened to Crushing Me for the first time in a long time...now im depressed....yay

[djdrexl]

Such an underated band. If only they where still together.

I'm still going through crappy relationships and need sum new stuff from them!

[slikford]

..yea this is probably their best. kinda encompasses the feeling of driving 150 mph off a cliff, laughing hysterically all the way down...AAAAHHHHAHAHAHahahaaaa.­..

[Lanivity]

How can you not love this video! It's perfect!

[southport97]

Listening to this song makes me want to trash a hotel room.

[2PlayDead]

@southport97 High five! Hahaha

[cmurda31080]

Best stabbing westward song ever

[101blunte]

I saw them in person.

[tkbaby1013]

I need to clip my toenails, but I can't find clippers =(.

[Ashtaroth426]

I gotta wonder if the people who put the ads up on youtube realize that they're only pissing people off and thus driving them AWAY from the advertised product. Obnoxious shite it is. On the plus side, I get to watch this awesome video as a reward for 35 seconds of annoyance. Fair trade in this case I guess.

[RDbushi]

i forgot how cool of a video this was

[MaliceAndVodka]

Chris is soo fucking hot!

[AntiSemantic1]

The days of the bald headed drummer are soooo over.

[zullone]

@AntiSemantic1 ahahahah why do you say this? but i must say i am drummer and bald ones bother me!

[lucasman30]

@zullone yeah me too, its just weird

[AntiSemantic1]

@zullone I don't know, it just seemed like every band for a while was like, "We got to have a bald headed drummer"! Then it was bald bass players wearing panties.....hahahaha

[th3oceanBlu]

this is why i don't give out my number

[loriannedc]

@th3oceanBlu Ditto! Ha, ha, ha~ :) Damned stalkers!