continued...I feel he is in the wrong, by trying to hinder me from sharing my testimony and my avenue which lead me to faith. I feel lead to do this, and he won't let me do this in our church or community and honestly, I feel like he is ashamed and wants to sweep my past under the rug, so to make a long story short...Do you think I'm wrong to have a Facebook/YouTube to share my faith without my husband knowing exactly that I'm sharing what he acts like is "Forbidden Knowledge"? I know my heart
Hey there. I am a Christian, my husband is too. Here is the problem I have and it has made me feel guilty, and don't know what God wants me to do. I have a wonderful testimony. I survived my 1st husband's suicide, & then getting severly beaten by another ex who is now in jail and I've had 4 surgeries...anyway, I came to Christ. My husband doesn't like me talking about my past or sharing my testimony, but I feel led to do it, so I have a Facebook & I keep what I do from him, I feel he is in
God wants you to listen to the voice in your head....because that voice is your god...who only lives in your head....and this voice tells you what to do...
If someone is blaming Facebook for their cheating (Or other marital problems), that's just an excuse like any other. If someone is married, and going to cheat, they won't NEED Facebook or even the Internet to do so, as history has shown. I personally don't like Facebook because it doesn't take very long for it to turn into a mailbox filling annoyance, but to blame it for marital problems is outright laughable.
Aint love meant to conquer all? Therefore temptation should always be there and if the marriage really is as strong as the couple has vowed, then this temptation should not be an issue at all.
Was this not meant to be the point of the bible story of God putting the apple there? To leave the choice up to the individual. Fight and resist temptation, dont try and block it out.
Also, if people want to cheat, they will do it, facebook myspace the internet in general whatever. if they dont have the internetk they will sneak of to the bar to meet someone, Gonna tell people to stay away from bars after that? Howbout we just bar our spouses from ever leaving the house? People make the choice, its no one elses fault, if a person is worried about being tempted, recognize that and resolve that situation dont blame the interface.
jf by your logic we should blame christianity for the crusades. blame christianity for anything people do thats evil that claim their faith was why they did it. I dont even believe that and im an atheist. Religion is a tool people can twist to justify their actions. Facebook is just a tool people used, it didnt cause them to do anything.
and i dont friggin know, facebook is just a place i have friends, i dont go there to pick up chicks.
I'm just going to pray, God will help the people.... that he hit with an earth quake and tsunami...oh wait, I'm not going to pray, I'm an atheist, so I will actually pull my thumb out of my ass and try to physically help :D
Jezuzfreek777, People are responsible for their own actions, Facebook is only a website, it can't make anyone do anything. By your reasoning if someone were to kill another person with a hammer it's the hammer's fault. The hammer, like facebook, is a tool and should not be blamed when it is misused.
I disagree Jezuzfreek. I think FB is only a danger to Christians that are weak when it comes to fidelity or attraction to people outside the marriage. Deleting individual FB accounts is very silly, UNLESS one or both partners have an issue with infidelity. If a spouse is a known cheater, then no, they shouldn't have a FB account at all. If they have gained trust to the point that they have a FB account, then the other spouse needs complete and free access to it at anytime.
Jezuzfreek is merely providing conversation, and stating his opinion. Stop trolling him. If you dont like or agree with what he has to say then dont listen to him and stop crying about it.
You have a point but do we blame the gun for murder or the kitchen knife for stabbing someone? "Hey, that SUV ran that guy over!" Ultimately, WE control these things and how we use them. The adulterous heart will seek out any means to sin, FB or another.
@Roonies97 I agree with you completely Roonie, and good point too. Adulterous people don't really need FB as a vehicle when just being out in the world is vehicle enough for them to succumb to temptation. But, I think it definitely does make it easier to flirt online than in person. Its easy/harmless for someone to make a comment or send a message, etc.
May God bless you, too! One thing i really like is that, right now, through certain facebook driven games, Zynga is offering some very nice perks if you join up with their special in-game programs (like the VIP program in Texas Hold'em). For a limited time, *all* of the fee for a VIP membership is donated to Save The Children.
Speaking on Facebook, most of the couples I know let each other read their private messages so that there will be no secrets or problems. I think that's a great idea.
I'm not deleting my facebook for nobody, its a way to connect with my friends and I'm not giving anyone power over my relationships with my friends. When I get married I'm keeping it too. Do you realize how extreme you sound telling people to delete their facebooks when they get married?
@mypainhurtsforever Deleting an account may be a bit extreme, but sharing passwords or showing your spouse all of your private messages is not asking much at all.
Bluebelle9289 why would christians choose to be christians if they knew of the hate and violence they'd face as christians? christians have been harassed, beaten and killed. why would they choose to be christians with all that violence and hate going on?
Wow, e-beggin for orgs that prey on people who are going through a disaster.
Nothing more pathetic than trying to catch people at their lowest and then telling them they are in that situation because god is "dealing with them" and they need "salvation."
Disgusting.
Give to the Red Cross, not these parasitic religious orgs.
Satan is more powerful than you think,and all you pityful filthy dogs will feel his wrath,and filthy jehova and his bastard son jesus will lick shit from His feet.I piss on your filthy god jehova and shit on his bastard son.
Satan is more powerful than you think,and all you pityful filthy dogs will feel his wrath,and filthy jehova and his bastard son jesus will lick shit from His feet.I piss on your filthy god jehova and shit on his bastard son.
Facebook is just a tool for people to use, much like a cell phone. it's the people who destroy their own marriages and they need to take responsibility for their own actions and be accountable, as JF also pointed out.
I doubt that Facebook has the power to destroy a perfectly healthy and functioning marriage. A slutty wife who wants to cheat on her husband will get an opportunity to do so with or without Facebook. People managed to cheat on each other before the Internet or Facebook just fine.
There's a lot more problems than Facebook if that is the only thing preventing you from cheating. Sharing passwords isn't trust... you're just making sure you each watch over one another in all their activities. There are important things to focus on to improve the marriage, and Facebook password sharing or account sharing is not one of them that would matter. After all, sites like Ashley Madison or personal email have just the same or more temptation.
Its not Facebook's fault that people are getting divorced. Facebook is merely a website, and plays no roles in the feelings of people. Its the peoples fault using Facebook who aren't being faithful or whatever to their significant other.
Facebook doesn't ruin marriages, careless people do. And by careless I mean people who don't care about their spouse's feelings, and people who marry without being fully committed or without making sure that the other person involved is also fully committed.
Not sure about Facebook "ruining marriages", but I do know for a fact that Facebook is anti-freedom of speech, thus is evil in those regards and shouldn't be utilized if for no other reason than that.
Greetings, I will only address the first part of the video. I mean no disrespect but must point out I find it disgusting that rather than seek to help the Japanese people as to their needs with love, respect and compassion you seek to “help” by only helping so you can force your beliefs on them.
This is not compassion, this is ego. You yourself said in base the loss of life, home, hunger , illness, sadness due to loss all come 2nd because “they can be fixed” but your main goal is to forge your belief on them insulting their beliefs, history etc.
If this happened here and a group of say Muslims or Hindus rushed in to help handing out food and their holy books, trying to convert people you would be one of the loudest voices screaming at them.
True compassion is to help people as to their needs not to what you think their needs are.
My charity is made up of people of many beliefs and Atheist ( I am Buddhist/Atheist) I set a rule when I founded this charity to only help to their sufferings and never force any beliefs, to celebrate the beliefs of the people we are helping.
Jezzuzfreek I am not sure if you know this but there are even sites out there encouraging affairs. While that is more brazen; Facebook is just a tool to locate people. I have heard a lot of people blame it, but this is stupid, there are public record tools as well. Christians have a way of blaming music, pornography (previously this was claimed to cost marriages) and so forth. It's just stuff man.. the people are the problem.
I don't agree with the points Jezuzfreek makes, but guys, come on, stop ripping into him because of what happened to his personal life. "HAHAHA Hypocrite!" is not an argument against the points he's making.
"Samaritan's Purse"? lol If anyone reading this actually want to donate money for the Japan crisis, and wants the money to be used well (instead of flying church leaders around in private planes), find another charity. Don't use Samaritan's Purse as JF suggests.
@CatchFlipsidE I'm not going to do your homework for you, but I have no problem pointing out errors. "In 1992 his ministry, Samaritan's Purse, had a run-in with the Evangelical Council for Financial Accountability, the self-policing organization his father helped start. The ECFA suspended Samaritan's Purse while it looked into Franklin's (Graham) compensation and use of the company plane."
Man, if FB is the reason your marriage failed, then you had no business getting married in the first place. The ONLY point I agree with you is the subject of sharing passwords. But, even that aspect is flawed. If someone's going to cheat, they're probably going to open a new FB account, regardless of the one his wife knows the PW to. Why to you think you need to set up rules for every damn thing on earth? How about just being real and loving one another? If you're a cheater, don't blame FB
I think it's because it's unnatural and undesirable to want to be with the same boring person FOR YOUR ENTIRE LIFE! Facebook might bring out people's true animal nature a bit more and make it convenient, I'll grant you, but ultimately it's up to the individual and their desire. The only solution I can see is to forbid your spouse from socializing or being seen by anyone but you, kinda like they do in Islam.
I was ready to lash out on you Jesusfreak, but after watching your WHOLE video, your philosophy was quite reasonable. As an atheist, this is what I plan to do. But in defense to those that want their own facebook after marriage, it's not a bad idea because one day (if ever) you'll see you're spouse's true intentions. What's the point in locking up your spouse if that what he/she wants to do? At least you'll know their true intentions and you'll be able to make an informed decision.
I think you made some good points but overall I disagree that facebook is ruining marriages. People need to really start taking responsibility for their actions. Everything that is created has a good purpose but the enemy will pervert anything for his use. My husband and I use our separate facebook pages as a way to spread the gospel as well as communicate in a Godly manner with our peers and family.
Here is the problem with your logic, or the logic of whoever is claiming that 1 in 5 marriages end because of facebook.
Social networking sites DO make it easier for for people to meet, talk, and yeah, flirt. However, the bottom line is, the ultimate responsibility lies not on the site, but on the people to know what's appropriate and what is not. Even before it comes to that, if your marriage is good and happy, the idea of fooling around does not cross ones mind.
Here is the problem with your logic, or the logic of whoever is claiming that 1 in 5 marriages end because of facebook.
Social networking sites DO make it easier for for people to meet, talk, and yeah, flirt. However, the bottom line is, the ultimate responsibility lies not on the site, but on the people to know what's appropriate and what is not. Even before it comes to that, if your marriage is good and happy, the idea of fooling around does not cross ones mind.
Your man made god is unchanging------>thus it is not possible for him to do everything---->thus was never a god, all things are not possible with your man made god LMAO
I suggest all here to donate directly to their chosen good cause. You know I am not blaming you of doing an VenomFangX. But lets just say that by law things are much easier if you directly donate. Tax wise and so...
Ah facebook or as I call failbook because it offers me such joys of people making mistakes in the public.
Really You can't blame a tool for something. Facebook is a tool like a hammer. Can you blame the hammer for hitting your finger? NO! Neither can you blame facebook for enabling you!
Facebook can do things that are good to it depends on how you use it. For instance It makes me laugh!
In my opinion, facebook just makes socializing easier. You'd also have to ask how many relationships, engagements, marraiges start from fbook? I kinda feel like a cheater's going to cheat eventually even without fbook making it easier.
P.S. Matthew 19:6 always creeped me out. Why couldn't it say they are connected spiritually instead of by flesh? That just makes it sound like a double headed flesh monster.
@000whiterabbit For some reason, I doubt that you have been married for 33 years. Your comment looks like ones I have seen teenagers make. Try harder next time.
I've been married for 20 years, and at no time were we ever one. We are two separate individuals who decided to live the remainder of our lives together. I cannot imagine anything more destructive or unhealthy than seeing myself as part of instead of whole and complete all on my own.
Facebook is a FBI front. They want to know everything about you so they can enforce the "mark of the beast" in the end times (Rev 13:16-17). America is Babylon (Rev 18), a great merchandising kingdom on the earth who got rich through socerery (Rev 18:23). Nothing America does is any good. Hollywood is just witchcraft --holly and wood. "Come out of Babylon" (Rev 18:4). You need to spend your time studying the Word of God, not doing Facebook!
My last relationship ended because I discovered via text messages on his phone that my ex was cheating on me. By your logic, it's the cell phone's fault we broke up. Cell phones ruin relationships!!
Seriously though, place the blame where it belongs, not on a scapegoat.
@v1de0gamr exactly my thought. I wonder how long it will take until JF realizes he's utilizing the same tactics his religion employs when dealing with issues in the church, ...and that they have no logical use when dealing with real life issues rationally. Perhaps, then, he'll see how flawed his beliefs are.
Hold on, so not only does your god flatten japan with an earth-quake, tsunami, and power plant failure, but now you want people to donate money to japan, so that your can brain wash them to worship him for it?
What kind pathetic jackass are you?
Oh you also know where else people can keep up with their ex's, its called the real world, and reality has been fueling human affairs since about 250,000 years ago, so Jezuzfreek, you'd better delete your 'reality account' right now.
Self-worship and sin breaks up marriages. Facebook is whatever you make it. If your looking to commit adultry of fornication, then certainly, facebook can be a tool by which to accomplish that goal, but I am sure it would be accomplished with or without facebook. Want to keep your marriage? Then die to self like Luke 9:23 says and determine to be faithful to your spouse, and obedient to Christ.
a friendly notice: saying "may god bless you with this message" (implying your message is a blessing) especially when you said nothing about jesus in the video sounds a little conceited.
t seems like everytime I click on your videos JF, the thumbs down ratings ALWAYS heavily outweigh the pluses. There are too many pathetic haters that follow you who have nothing better to do, obviously, than to troll. I say you go on a blocking spree.
Take all this time on YouTube you invested and consider whether that had anything to do with your marriage problems. Just dismissing it would be a mistake I think. ^_^
Is it *because* of Facebook or is it just the normal and inevitable things that happen with relationships projected in a new and different venue? As for passwords, even to the person you're married to, you never share it with ANYONE. If you ever have to, for what ever circumstance, you change it afterwards. Comp Security 101
Blah blah blah. If an "online website" can ruin your marriage then obviously you never had a REAL and solid marriage to begin with. People need to quit blaming other people and things for their own screw ups and failed relationships.
If people are going to cheat, they will. A site does not CAUSE people to cheat. But alas, people always like to find something to blame other than themselves.
Get off the blame game buddy - marriages do not end because of a social site - this is but a symptom that may become the breaking factor - the marriage itself had been compromised a long time before.
I think it says a lot about a person who thinks facebook will tempt "others" to do something that will damage their relationship with their spouse. If you can't control yourself on facebook, then you probably shouldn't be using the internet. I also don't understand how it could hurt a relationship. I bet the statistics were pulled out of someones rear end.
all you are doing is giving out examples of how to hide problems. if someone still wants to be friends with his ex, ajoint facebook would only hide that not remove that feeling from the person.
The skeptic in me is questioning the "1 in 5 marriages fail because of face book" JF. I couldnt find any real statistics but i did find many articles saying 1 in 5 divorces cited facebook. Also statistic seems to come from a company called Divorce-Online, which leads me to belive their sample wouldnt be representive of the general populace. Now this information doesnt change your message, but i dont think 20% of all marriages fail because of facebook.
I struggle to believe that 20% of marriages end due to Facebook related incidents. It may be a factor in a relationship but only in the same way that a typo in a 260 page book makes a book bad. To level any kind of blame towards Facebook for a significant portion of divorces seems ridiculous, a figure around the 2% or 3% mark would seem more likely.
On a completely different note, I am quite shocked by some of the comments :| left by your viewers.
You are about the last person I would listen to about relationship or marriage advise. This advise is about as useful as your healthy food advise about KFC. Your first sentence about couples breaking up "because" of Facebook is reason enough to know that you don't know your ass from a hole in the ground. I have to admit that I have a difficult time understanding know-it-alls that really just don't quite get it and that use their self imposed ignorance in ridiculous and sometimes hateful ways.
@jezuzfreek777...thanks, but my "problem" doesn't involve watching or not watching your videos. By not watching your videos, or by haviing an individual Facebook account, as you've advised for married couples as a way to stay together, doesn't mean a problem go away. It actually makes the problem worse. Facebook, or having a life as an individual when in a relationship, doesn't = divorce. I would advise you to stay with subjects you know about. Take your own advise and free to block me
@jezuzfreek777 Where did the bible come from Sir. This is coming from someone who grew up in a religious family. Where was genisis and the flood taken from please.
If you put videos up on the internet people are going to watch them and people are going to comment on them. You can either be a big boy and deal with the commentary like an adult or you can just stop making videos and find a new hobby.
@taco1010...if you don't like my comments don't read them...not THAT's good advise! Here's some more good advise for you...turn that frown upside down!
@grumpychuck Well if you dont like his videos then dont watch em! He has some valid points and your just being a prick for no reason. i dont see you doing sht for anything.
@taco1010...have you ever watched any of his other videos? Is the answer yes?...and you call me an asshole?
In your view, what valid points about marriage did he make?
Why does Anthony think he has the background and education to give out marriage counceling as an expert?
Have you ever seen any of his anti-gay homophobic videos?
Have you ever tried to have a discussion with Anthony who states "Let's Discuss" and then he calls you names only because you disagree with his point of view.
@grumpychuck You are such a hipocryte! What gives you the credentials to decide whether or not someone can give marriage advice? at that what gives you the right to give advice on anything? Who are you to say homosexuality is right OR WRONG? I know people whose relationships have broken because of facebook and its true what he says. he has his own channel with his opinon. if you dont like it then dont even watch his videos again your a fucking idiot.
@taco1010 you are right Jezuzfreek can give any advice he wants it is up to people to take it or not. I do not think down on the fact he has made this video as he marital problems, I was around for those and recall it being other issues. All people have opinions.
@taco1010...calling me, or anyone, names doesn't make your opinion right or wrong so try to chill out.
I don't need credentials to decide anything and Anthony has the right to his opinion and the freedom to express it. As far as homosexuality, why does he, and I suspect you, care about who I, or anyone else has sex with. If someone shares their bigoted opinion I don't run away...they need to hear unbigoted opinions.
To sum this up...expect my comments on JF's videos...and relax Taco...
@grumpychuck Somthing that maks no sence here is if he has the right to his opinons and to express it how can anyones opinon be bigoted? These are comments i just cant stand. Noone has to accept noones ideology that homosexuality is right if the same can be for the contrary.
@taco1010...A bigot is a person devoted to their own opinions expressing intolerance towards other that disagree with that opinion towards race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation...etc...
There is a difference between saying "I like chocolate" or "I dislike chocolate" to saying "Ï dislike chocolate so noone should be able to eat it" or "Ï dislike homosexuality so you should not have the same rights as I do".
Anthony wants his ideology to be law, instead of just following it in his own life.
@grumpychuck People do not say i dislike homosexuality so i dont think it shouldnt be allowed they say its wrong. There is a stark difference between feeling something and somthing being. You yourself cannot define right or wrong but by your own feelings. you yourself cant even define pain with out someone saying that it is not pain. Your asking the wrong questions. The bible is law and people will be judged one day by the one who made the law.
@taco1010...You've hit the nail on the head...if people will be judged one day by god the who are we to make judgement over someone's sexual desire to the point of wanting to make laws that systematically descriminate against them solely based on their sexual orientation? If you believe the bible is law, that's your business and I've fought for your right to practice it...in your own life. JF's habitual distain for gays goes way beyond practicing beliefs for himself. I wish you the best, Taco
"people do not say i dislike homosexuality so i dont think it shouldnt be allowed they say its wrong. There is a stark difference between feeling something and somthing being."
Homosexuality is a behavior Not a trait you are born with.
Actually homosexuality is something you're born with. It's not genetic, but you are pretty much born gay, just as you're born bisexual or born straight. You can't choose to be gay and you can't be taught to be gay.
Funny thing about homosexuality though, many gays are born to straight parents.
@Bluebelle9289 Actually no its a behaiver. you choose to act that way. You are not born with a sexual preference to a behaivier. Thats like saying that some one is born liking ice cream.
You are not born with a behaivier .nothing has been proven on the subject about anything.Do some research instead of just listening to any of the bs you see in the media
People choose to be Gay for the same reason you choose to be straight.
" Separation of Church and State" Way to not make sence?
"People choose to be Gay for the same reason you choose to be straight."
Which is?
Yes it has been proven that being gay is not a choice. You are born gay just as you are born straight or bisexual. All you have to do is do a little reading to find out. And it's not just on the internet. Why don't you also talk to some gay people too and ask them if they chose to be gay. I can guarantee that they will tell you that they did not choose to be gay.
Also, if being gay is a choice, then why would people choose to be gay if they knew of the hate and violence they'd face as gays? Gay people have been harassed, beaten and killed. Why would they choose to be gay with all that violence and hate going on?
@Bluebelle9289 Because they like the behaiver obviously? For the same reason someone would choose to tell the truth even though theyll face hate and violence.
@taco1010...You don't really have a point but...please ask yourself this question: "Why do I care who other people have sex with?" Taco...what difference does it make whether sexual orientation is a learned behavior or not? If you think the bible tells you not to be a homosexual and you believe the bible to be law and you believe that your sexual orientation is a learned behavior then don't be a homosexual. Does the bible tell you to get involved in other people's private affairs?
@grumpychuck Its because you dont understand simple concepts. Its not a question. It is a behaivier. Im not getting involved in anyones affairs, im merley adressing your questions. Your question would be more accurate if you asked "Why would i care if something is right or Wrong?
The best way how to save your marriage by that logic is not to leave the house, cut of internet or any other connection to the outside world or move to forgotten island. Facebook can make even more happy marriages then destroy them. Access to information doesn't change who we are just gives us access. Sorry but i don't buy what you are selling.
is this video in response to what happened to Von? I know its facebook, and blogTV, but similar situations, wasn't that Von's wife that was always with him in his BlogTV's and in the one he got caught in??
The fact that something like Facebook is a factor in marriage is ridiculous. If your marriage gets ruined because you are dumb enough to do something that is able to be posted on Facebook - and your someone who says "Facebook ruined my marriage", or any kind of reason where the word Facebook is a factor in the degradation of your relationship - then you are childish, immature, and deserve to have your relationship destroyed. You can then use your extra time to grow the hell up!
Any connection to humanity bares the possibility of misuse, it is in the individuals character whether or not that weakness is allowed to be exploited. Infidelity is a common blight on all relationships, facebook mearly allows it to be discovered more easily. SO FEEL FREE TO DELETE ALL OF YOUR ACCOUNTS, I DONT CARE.
Sorry but I'm not going to help Japan. Japan has got what it deserved.. Japan has been a atheist and false worshipping state for thousands of years. Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ has been patient with Japan but due to their unbeliving and false worshipping
Now God is pouring out his wrath on Japan for this and I have no sympathy for them whatsoever. They are getting exactley what they deserve
PRIASE GOD for his righteous JUDGEMENT on JAPAN!!!!!!!!!!!!
@rudemood2011 wow I can't believe you said that, you obviously sound like a fake christian. God loves every mankind on earth whether they're christian or not.
@dietsolutionprograms If that's the case then why is there a hell and why do people go there??? The fact is that you don't or want to understand the truth. Jesus Christ himself spoke in great detail of hell and in fact Jesus spoke of hell like 3 times more than he did of heaven. Why? Because he knew where unbelievers and people who worshipped fake gods went. The Japanese have rejected Jesus Christ from the beginning and they are paying the price right now for it
@mandangalo18 The bible clearly tells us that GOD punishes people on earth then with everlasting torture in hell. If you read your bible you would know that but you either don't know or don't care. You listen to all these "watered down" preachers who tell you what you want to hear
Sounds like quite a benevolent fellow. Thanks for letting me know what I've read, but....... you're wrong. You don't know what I've read or listened to but thanks for telling me what I read and listen too anyway.
@mandangalo18 I don't care what you've read or listened to. I'm telling you what's in the bible. All of these feel good kissi poo preachers will tell you all about gods love and forgiveness and yes that's true but god also punishes which is what god is doing to japan
@rudemood2011 I can understand where you coming from, yes I agree with what you said, and I respect that. According to bible, all non-believer or those who reject Jesus will go to hell. Maybe only 3% of the Japanese are christian, so I agree with you on that most Japanese may not be saved. You may telling the truth, but just don't say stuff like they deserve to go to hell because they don't trust in Christ. We are all human being, I pray that some of them are still saved.
continued...I feel he is in the wrong, by trying to hinder me from sharing my testimony and my avenue which lead me to faith. I feel lead to do this, and he won't let me do this in our church or community and honestly, I feel like he is ashamed and wants to sweep my past under the rug, so to make a long story short...Do you think I'm wrong to have a Facebook/YouTube to share my faith without my husband knowing exactly that I'm sharing what he acts like is "Forbidden Knowledge"? I know my heart
mommymummy 7 months ago
Hey there. I am a Christian, my husband is too. Here is the problem I have and it has made me feel guilty, and don't know what God wants me to do. I have a wonderful testimony. I survived my 1st husband's suicide, & then getting severly beaten by another ex who is now in jail and I've had 4 surgeries...anyway, I came to Christ. My husband doesn't like me talking about my past or sharing my testimony, but I feel led to do it, so I have a Facebook & I keep what I do from him, I feel he is in
mommymummy 7 months ago
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God wants you to listen to the voice in your head....because that voice is your god...who only lives in your head....and this voice tells you what to do...
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youneekk 8 months ago
If someone is blaming Facebook for their cheating (Or other marital problems), that's just an excuse like any other. If someone is married, and going to cheat, they won't NEED Facebook or even the Internet to do so, as history has shown. I personally don't like Facebook because it doesn't take very long for it to turn into a mailbox filling annoyance, but to blame it for marital problems is outright laughable.
BreakerInc 8 months ago
I wonder how much money this organization makes in the process of helping meet peoples spiritual needs
Plagueis1017 9 months ago
@Plagueis1017 I wonder how much money ANY organization run on donations makes in the process of helping others.
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Aint love meant to conquer all? Therefore temptation should always be there and if the marriage really is as strong as the couple has vowed, then this temptation should not be an issue at all.
Was this not meant to be the point of the bible story of God putting the apple there? To leave the choice up to the individual. Fight and resist temptation, dont try and block it out.
donniegerrard 10 months ago
Also, if people want to cheat, they will do it, facebook myspace the internet in general whatever. if they dont have the internetk they will sneak of to the bar to meet someone, Gonna tell people to stay away from bars after that? Howbout we just bar our spouses from ever leaving the house? People make the choice, its no one elses fault, if a person is worried about being tempted, recognize that and resolve that situation dont blame the interface.
tsdobbi 10 months ago
jf by your logic we should blame christianity for the crusades. blame christianity for anything people do thats evil that claim their faith was why they did it. I dont even believe that and im an atheist. Religion is a tool people can twist to justify their actions. Facebook is just a tool people used, it didnt cause them to do anything.
and i dont friggin know, facebook is just a place i have friends, i dont go there to pick up chicks.
tsdobbi 10 months ago
I'm just going to pray, God will help the people.... that he hit with an earth quake and tsunami...oh wait, I'm not going to pray, I'm an atheist, so I will actually pull my thumb out of my ass and try to physically help :D
ProjectBlackWolf 10 months ago
Ah, JF. You're outlook on life is so childishly simple. If only we all could view life this way. *Sigh* OK, back to the adult world.
boredgurl24 11 months ago
Jezuzfreek777, People are responsible for their own actions, Facebook is only a website, it can't make anyone do anything. By your reasoning if someone were to kill another person with a hammer it's the hammer's fault. The hammer, like facebook, is a tool and should not be blamed when it is misused.
ProblemofSuffering 11 months ago
THEY MEET THAT SPIRITUAL NEED ALONG WITH THEIR PHYSICAL NEEDS LOL
stonerpunx 11 months ago
I just watched an episode of Rescue Me, and then I listen to your video and it occurred to me that you sound just like Dean Winters.
OneEyedJack1970 11 months ago
#1 There is NO social media or ANYTHING that can harm a relationship that didn't have SERIOUS problems to begin with!
My GF and Myself are on Facebook as well as other social Media and our relationship is Great!
Granted we are Atheists and we do not try to Control or manipulate each other!
#2 Clearly you are opposed to FREEDOM! Just because people can talk to others or ex's DOESN'T MEAN THEY ARE GOING TO CHEAT!
#3 THERE IS NO GOD!
The Bible is an outdated piece of Shit!
MrGoodNKinky 11 months ago
nice intro
codyaustinpemberton 11 months ago
FB is a road to social destruction.
deepengrave 11 months ago
Jezuzfreek, I like the new graphics and video format. Are you gearing up to become a partner?
redcomic619 11 months ago
I disagree Jezuzfreek. I think FB is only a danger to Christians that are weak when it comes to fidelity or attraction to people outside the marriage. Deleting individual FB accounts is very silly, UNLESS one or both partners have an issue with infidelity. If a spouse is a known cheater, then no, they shouldn't have a FB account at all. If they have gained trust to the point that they have a FB account, then the other spouse needs complete and free access to it at anytime.
FoxxyEmz 11 months ago
Jezuzfreek is merely providing conversation, and stating his opinion. Stop trolling him. If you dont like or agree with what he has to say then dont listen to him and stop crying about it.
spiritofalivinggod 11 months ago
Thats a really good suggestion for married folks to follow. Thanks!
kriscateslive 11 months ago
You have a point but do we blame the gun for murder or the kitchen knife for stabbing someone? "Hey, that SUV ran that guy over!" Ultimately, WE control these things and how we use them. The adulterous heart will seek out any means to sin, FB or another.
Roonies97 11 months ago
@Roonies97 Oh and thanks for the thought provoking video!
Blessings to you.
Roonies97 11 months ago
@Roonies97 I agree with you completely Roonie, and good point too. Adulterous people don't really need FB as a vehicle when just being out in the world is vehicle enough for them to succumb to temptation. But, I think it definitely does make it easier to flirt online than in person. Its easy/harmless for someone to make a comment or send a message, etc.
FoxxyEmz 11 months ago
first facebook doesnt suck if it did suck you wouldnt be using
metallica2ization 11 months ago
May God bless you, too! One thing i really like is that, right now, through certain facebook driven games, Zynga is offering some very nice perks if you join up with their special in-game programs (like the VIP program in Texas Hold'em). For a limited time, *all* of the fee for a VIP membership is donated to Save The Children.
Speaking on Facebook, most of the couples I know let each other read their private messages so that there will be no secrets or problems. I think that's a great idea.
CatchFlipsidE 11 months ago
"spiritual"? How does that give people a roof over there heads, or food?
chorizo1337 11 months ago
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diegonikki 11 months ago
I'm not deleting my facebook for nobody, its a way to connect with my friends and I'm not giving anyone power over my relationships with my friends. When I get married I'm keeping it too. Do you realize how extreme you sound telling people to delete their facebooks when they get married?
mypainhurtsforever 11 months ago
@mypainhurtsforever Deleting an account may be a bit extreme, but sharing passwords or showing your spouse all of your private messages is not asking much at all.
CatchFlipsidE 11 months ago
@CatchFlipsidE I feel that a mairrage relys on trust, and sharing passwords and showing them all of you messages is not at all necessary
mypainhurtsforever 11 months ago
Are you gonna blame the Jews next Jezuzfreek?
RyunSharp 11 months ago
Sigh...... Go find a hooker Jezuzfreek. You can then fuck women without this idea of pseudo commitment.
RyunSharp 11 months ago
my mistake why would people choose to be christians*
enlightenedtruth 11 months ago
Bluebelle9289 why would christians choose to be christians if they knew of the hate and violence they'd face as christians? christians have been harassed, beaten and killed. why would they choose to be christians with all that violence and hate going on?
enlightenedtruth 11 months ago
It is ridiculous to blame facebook for people behaving badly. It's like blaming the bicycle company for jackasses breaking their legs.
AtheismTV 11 months ago
says the bachelor lol. I don't know what you're whining about, go live up champ.
CharlesOlson711 11 months ago
Wow, e-beggin for orgs that prey on people who are going through a disaster.
Nothing more pathetic than trying to catch people at their lowest and then telling them they are in that situation because god is "dealing with them" and they need "salvation."
Disgusting.
Give to the Red Cross, not these parasitic religious orgs.
MrTruthAddict 11 months ago
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Satan is more powerful than you think,and all you pityful filthy dogs will feel his wrath,and filthy jehova and his bastard son jesus will lick shit from His feet.I piss on your filthy god jehova and shit on his bastard son.
tukarak 11 months ago
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Satan is more powerful than you think,and all you pityful filthy dogs will feel his wrath,and filthy jehova and his bastard son jesus will lick shit from His feet.I piss on your filthy god jehova and shit on his bastard son.
tukarak 11 months ago
Facebook is just a tool for people to use, much like a cell phone. it's the people who destroy their own marriages and they need to take responsibility for their own actions and be accountable, as JF also pointed out.
I doubt that Facebook has the power to destroy a perfectly healthy and functioning marriage. A slutty wife who wants to cheat on her husband will get an opportunity to do so with or without Facebook. People managed to cheat on each other before the Internet or Facebook just fine.
MontrealAtheist 11 months ago
Seriously? It's not much of a relationship if something like Facebook can ruin it.
DeeDemonwitch 11 months ago
How about just not saying anything on fb that you wouldn't mind having a spouse read? Also asking your friends to keep in mind
you may share.... what is said with your spouse.
Demama777 11 months ago
There's a lot more problems than Facebook if that is the only thing preventing you from cheating. Sharing passwords isn't trust... you're just making sure you each watch over one another in all their activities. There are important things to focus on to improve the marriage, and Facebook password sharing or account sharing is not one of them that would matter. After all, sites like Ashley Madison or personal email have just the same or more temptation.
SamuelHans 11 months ago
Office equipment has ruined one in five marriages... LoL
NLPNVC 11 months ago
maybe christianity ruined your marriage jezuzfreek.
tgz5001 11 months ago
Its not Facebook's fault that people are getting divorced. Facebook is merely a website, and plays no roles in the feelings of people. Its the peoples fault using Facebook who aren't being faithful or whatever to their significant other.
SQUIRTLEuseSKULLBASH 11 months ago
Facebook doesn't ruin marriages, careless people do. And by careless I mean people who don't care about their spouse's feelings, and people who marry without being fully committed or without making sure that the other person involved is also fully committed.
s23b 11 months ago
Not sure about Facebook "ruining marriages", but I do know for a fact that Facebook is anti-freedom of speech, thus is evil in those regards and shouldn't be utilized if for no other reason than that.
StrictlyGentile 11 months ago
Greetings, I will only address the first part of the video. I mean no disrespect but must point out I find it disgusting that rather than seek to help the Japanese people as to their needs with love, respect and compassion you seek to “help” by only helping so you can force your beliefs on them.
justbekindtooall 11 months ago
cont 1-
This is not compassion, this is ego. You yourself said in base the loss of life, home, hunger , illness, sadness due to loss all come 2nd because “they can be fixed” but your main goal is to forge your belief on them insulting their beliefs, history etc.
If this happened here and a group of say Muslims or Hindus rushed in to help handing out food and their holy books, trying to convert people you would be one of the loudest voices screaming at them.
justbekindtooall 11 months ago
cont 2:
True compassion is to help people as to their needs not to what you think their needs are.
My charity is made up of people of many beliefs and Atheist ( I am Buddhist/Atheist) I set a rule when I founded this charity to only help to their sufferings and never force any beliefs, to celebrate the beliefs of the people we are helping.
justbekindtooall 11 months ago
How dare you take advantage of this horrible tragedy to cash in on your gospel spreading crusade.
feedtherich 11 months ago
Jezzuzfreek I am not sure if you know this but there are even sites out there encouraging affairs. While that is more brazen; Facebook is just a tool to locate people. I have heard a lot of people blame it, but this is stupid, there are public record tools as well. Christians have a way of blaming music, pornography (previously this was claimed to cost marriages) and so forth. It's just stuff man.. the people are the problem.
TheNigherProwler 11 months ago
I don't agree with the points Jezuzfreek makes, but guys, come on, stop ripping into him because of what happened to his personal life. "HAHAHA Hypocrite!" is not an argument against the points he's making.
Nuckpang 11 months ago
If you are faithful only because 'god says so', how faithful are you REALLY?
dewinthemorning 11 months ago
your fucking god made facebook dumb shit!
sieve417 11 months ago
"Samaritan's Purse"? lol If anyone reading this actually want to donate money for the Japan crisis, and wants the money to be used well (instead of flying church leaders around in private planes), find another charity. Don't use Samaritan's Purse as JF suggests.
extion 11 months ago
@extion Got to love it when people leave comments with no information to back it up.
CatchFlipsidE 11 months ago
@CatchFlipsidE I'm not going to do your homework for you, but I have no problem pointing out errors. "In 1992 his ministry, Samaritan's Purse, had a run-in with the Evangelical Council for Financial Accountability, the self-policing organization his father helped start. The ECFA suspended Samaritan's Purse while it looked into Franklin's (Graham) compensation and use of the company plane."
extion 11 months ago
Man, if FB is the reason your marriage failed, then you had no business getting married in the first place. The ONLY point I agree with you is the subject of sharing passwords. But, even that aspect is flawed. If someone's going to cheat, they're probably going to open a new FB account, regardless of the one his wife knows the PW to. Why to you think you need to set up rules for every damn thing on earth? How about just being real and loving one another? If you're a cheater, don't blame FB
extion 11 months ago
I think it's because it's unnatural and undesirable to want to be with the same boring person FOR YOUR ENTIRE LIFE! Facebook might bring out people's true animal nature a bit more and make it convenient, I'll grant you, but ultimately it's up to the individual and their desire. The only solution I can see is to forbid your spouse from socializing or being seen by anyone but you, kinda like they do in Islam.
TheDude0fLife 11 months ago
I was ready to lash out on you Jesusfreak, but after watching your WHOLE video, your philosophy was quite reasonable. As an atheist, this is what I plan to do. But in defense to those that want their own facebook after marriage, it's not a bad idea because one day (if ever) you'll see you're spouse's true intentions. What's the point in locking up your spouse if that what he/she wants to do? At least you'll know their true intentions and you'll be able to make an informed decision.
javierR510 11 months ago
IMHO... blaming facebook is kinda like blaming the devil for your mistakes... it's a cop-out...
PROdotes 11 months ago
@PROdotes or porn or "loud rock music" etc..
TheNigherProwler 11 months ago
I think you made some good points but overall I disagree that facebook is ruining marriages. People need to really start taking responsibility for their actions. Everything that is created has a good purpose but the enemy will pervert anything for his use. My husband and I use our separate facebook pages as a way to spread the gospel as well as communicate in a Godly manner with our peers and family.
classytoya24 11 months ago
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Here is the problem with your logic, or the logic of whoever is claiming that 1 in 5 marriages end because of facebook.
Social networking sites DO make it easier for for people to meet, talk, and yeah, flirt. However, the bottom line is, the ultimate responsibility lies not on the site, but on the people to know what's appropriate and what is not. Even before it comes to that, if your marriage is good and happy, the idea of fooling around does not cross ones mind.
So the blame is on the people.
tommy605 11 months ago
Here is the problem with your logic, or the logic of whoever is claiming that 1 in 5 marriages end because of facebook.
Social networking sites DO make it easier for for people to meet, talk, and yeah, flirt. However, the bottom line is, the ultimate responsibility lies not on the site, but on the people to know what's appropriate and what is not. Even before it comes to that, if your marriage is good and happy, the idea of fooling around does not cross ones mind.
So the blame is on the people.
tommy605 11 months ago
i think you are being a little hypocritical
as your marriage has failed
so you are not in a position of authority on the subject matter
you have a daughter that has to go through life without a father
in her home so she has to pay for your mistakes
prayers will not help her
so you should think for a second
god bless
thenephilin1 11 months ago
@thenephilin1 oh please. Troll someone else.
jezuzfreek777 11 months ago
@jezuzfreek777 good answer
thenephilin1 11 months ago
@jezuzfreek777 Criticism is not trolling
thenephilin1 11 months ago
@jezuzfreek777
Your man made god is unchanging------>thus it is not possible for him to do everything---->thus was never a god, all things are not possible with your man made god LMAO
devante11 11 months ago
@jezuzfreek777 You sir are a fucking idiot.
doom3134 11 months ago
@jezuzfreek777 i personally agree with him. I do not believe he was trolling
skamaster48 11 months ago
Great seeker of money you :)
I suggest all here to donate directly to their chosen good cause. You know I am not blaming you of doing an VenomFangX. But lets just say that by law things are much easier if you directly donate. Tax wise and so...
masticina 11 months ago
Ah facebook or as I call failbook because it offers me such joys of people making mistakes in the public.
Really You can't blame a tool for something. Facebook is a tool like a hammer. Can you blame the hammer for hitting your finger? NO! Neither can you blame facebook for enabling you!
Facebook can do things that are good to it depends on how you use it. For instance It makes me laugh!
masticina 11 months ago
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@masticina there really is a failbook website, it's funny and I suggest you check it out if you haven't :)
v1de0gamr 11 months ago
In my opinion, facebook just makes socializing easier. You'd also have to ask how many relationships, engagements, marraiges start from fbook? I kinda feel like a cheater's going to cheat eventually even without fbook making it easier.
P.S. Matthew 19:6 always creeped me out. Why couldn't it say they are connected spiritually instead of by flesh? That just makes it sound like a double headed flesh monster.
FlimFlam505 11 months ago
i have been married for 33 years
an individual is an individual..............facebook or whatever
dont make the difference
and you are telling people about relationship s
man get real.................your wife has gone
could be jesuses fault..............or an unanswered prayer
get into the real world man......stop fucking with peoples heads
000whiterabbit 11 months ago
@000whiterabbit For some reason, I doubt that you have been married for 33 years. Your comment looks like ones I have seen teenagers make. Try harder next time.
mcap52 11 months ago
@mcap52 MORON
000whiterabbit 11 months ago
I've been married for 20 years, and at no time were we ever one. We are two separate individuals who decided to live the remainder of our lives together. I cannot imagine anything more destructive or unhealthy than seeing myself as part of instead of whole and complete all on my own.
moronicnotions 11 months ago
Facebook is a FBI front. They want to know everything about you so they can enforce the "mark of the beast" in the end times (Rev 13:16-17). America is Babylon (Rev 18), a great merchandising kingdom on the earth who got rich through socerery (Rev 18:23). Nothing America does is any good. Hollywood is just witchcraft --holly and wood. "Come out of Babylon" (Rev 18:4). You need to spend your time studying the Word of God, not doing Facebook!
herbertwarmstrong 11 months ago
My last relationship ended because I discovered via text messages on his phone that my ex was cheating on me. By your logic, it's the cell phone's fault we broke up. Cell phones ruin relationships!!
Seriously though, place the blame where it belongs, not on a scapegoat.
v1de0gamr 11 months ago
@v1de0gamr exactly my thought. I wonder how long it will take until JF realizes he's utilizing the same tactics his religion employs when dealing with issues in the church, ...and that they have no logical use when dealing with real life issues rationally. Perhaps, then, he'll see how flawed his beliefs are.
extion 11 months ago
Hold on, so not only does your god flatten japan with an earth-quake, tsunami, and power plant failure, but now you want people to donate money to japan, so that your can brain wash them to worship him for it?
What kind pathetic jackass are you?
Oh you also know where else people can keep up with their ex's, its called the real world, and reality has been fueling human affairs since about 250,000 years ago, so Jezuzfreek, you'd better delete your 'reality account' right now.
mordinvan 11 months ago
I suppose it could also be said that marriages fail because people spend way too much time making videos for you tube.
ahab1138 11 months ago
dumb! Marriages fail because people are shit bags. Only the means by which they fail have changed.
ahab1138 11 months ago
Wow. My brother has a facebook. We're family. Should we share a facebook. Maybe with my mom too? And I should get gramma in on this.
roadsideflowers 11 months ago
Second Life is of Satan!
GluteusIlluminatus 11 months ago
Facebook doesn't ruin marriages. People ruin marriages. Be a man and be straight forward and stop blaming the internet for your problems.
Bluebelle9289 11 months ago
It's not Facebook fault, It's the people fault....!
spaceman300 11 months ago
Self-worship and sin breaks up marriages. Facebook is whatever you make it. If your looking to commit adultry of fornication, then certainly, facebook can be a tool by which to accomplish that goal, but I am sure it would be accomplished with or without facebook. Want to keep your marriage? Then die to self like Luke 9:23 says and determine to be faithful to your spouse, and obedient to Christ.
VeryImagesozo 11 months ago
THIS VIDEO REALLY SUCKS
axisapex 11 months ago
Rest Assured the MONEY goes to ? threw a middle man ? who is the middle man ? Tell Us ,stop being a troll sucker jezuz faker.
axisapex 11 months ago
facebook is bs. people making low blows at jesus freak for his marriage should be ashamed of themselves
BobThePatriot 11 months ago
a friendly notice: saying "may god bless you with this message" (implying your message is a blessing) especially when you said nothing about jesus in the video sounds a little conceited.
harrisonfong 11 months ago
t seems like everytime I click on your videos JF, the thumbs down ratings ALWAYS heavily outweigh the pluses. There are too many pathetic haters that follow you who have nothing better to do, obviously, than to troll. I say you go on a blocking spree.
regelemihai 11 months ago
Take all this time on YouTube you invested and consider whether that had anything to do with your marriage problems. Just dismissing it would be a mistake I think. ^_^
HumaninSeoul 11 months ago
Is it *because* of Facebook or is it just the normal and inevitable things that happen with relationships projected in a new and different venue? As for passwords, even to the person you're married to, you never share it with ANYONE. If you ever have to, for what ever circumstance, you change it afterwards. Comp Security 101
HeavyTrafficAhead 11 months ago
Blah blah blah. If an "online website" can ruin your marriage then obviously you never had a REAL and solid marriage to begin with. People need to quit blaming other people and things for their own screw ups and failed relationships.
DasFremde 11 months ago
How the Fuck!!! wound the get a divorce when you both have one facebook wtf .
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh That would go great over in court!
sieve417 11 months ago
If people are going to cheat, they will. A site does not CAUSE people to cheat. But alas, people always like to find something to blame other than themselves.
Enochsfury 11 months ago
Get off the blame game buddy - marriages do not end because of a social site - this is but a symptom that may become the breaking factor - the marriage itself had been compromised a long time before.
rictusgate 11 months ago
1. Japan is a very healthy society because they are not religious.
2. Facebook does not ruin marriages. People ruin marriages.
NaomiChambers 11 months ago
I think it says a lot about a person who thinks facebook will tempt "others" to do something that will damage their relationship with their spouse. If you can't control yourself on facebook, then you probably shouldn't be using the internet. I also don't understand how it could hurt a relationship. I bet the statistics were pulled out of someones rear end.
Michigan1985 11 months ago
@Michigan1985 after re-reading this, just wanted to clarify this wasn't directed at anyone. Just in general.
Michigan1985 11 months ago
If Facebook takes down your marriage, it was going down sooner or later anyway.
videoguy604 11 months ago
@videoguy604
I completely agree with you.
NaomiChambers 11 months ago
"no more book of lies
instead of food," the hungry cried
- Leftover Crack
fakeham 11 months ago
Please donate to Japan's Red Cross. And believe me, Japanese don't need or want Christianity.
w w w . jrc.or.jp
Then click on ENGLISH on the left.
Gimmeabreakman 11 months ago
all you are doing is giving out examples of how to hide problems. if someone still wants to be friends with his ex, ajoint facebook would only hide that not remove that feeling from the person.
TuplaPekka 11 months ago
Facebook ruined my marriage.
It also broke down my truck and killed my dog.
NermalsChannel 11 months ago
If you're marriage is so weak that facebook presents a real threat to it... then it's not a very good marriage.
Sines314 11 months ago
@Sines314 My sentiments exactly.
LadyTigerLily 11 months ago
The skeptic in me is questioning the "1 in 5 marriages fail because of face book" JF. I couldnt find any real statistics but i did find many articles saying 1 in 5 divorces cited facebook. Also statistic seems to come from a company called Divorce-Online, which leads me to belive their sample wouldnt be representive of the general populace. Now this information doesnt change your message, but i dont think 20% of all marriages fail because of facebook.
brettbeatnick 11 months ago
I struggle to believe that 20% of marriages end due to Facebook related incidents. It may be a factor in a relationship but only in the same way that a typo in a 260 page book makes a book bad. To level any kind of blame towards Facebook for a significant portion of divorces seems ridiculous, a figure around the 2% or 3% mark would seem more likely.
On a completely different note, I am quite shocked by some of the comments :| left by your viewers.
brinnmilo 11 months ago
I have never known anyone whose relationship was worsened because of a website.
mymatryoshka 11 months ago
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Ahaha.. You're so dumb, yet so loveable.
resincoatedlungs 11 months ago
I seen shows about this on television . I even heard the same thing about youtube also.
Boethius3007 11 months ago
You are about the last person I would listen to about relationship or marriage advise. This advise is about as useful as your healthy food advise about KFC. Your first sentence about couples breaking up "because" of Facebook is reason enough to know that you don't know your ass from a hole in the ground. I have to admit that I have a difficult time understanding know-it-alls that really just don't quite get it and that use their self imposed ignorance in ridiculous and sometimes hateful ways.
grumpychuck 11 months ago
@grumpychuck feel free to never watch my videos. Your problem would be solved.
jezuzfreek777 11 months ago
@jezuzfreek777...thanks, but my "problem" doesn't involve watching or not watching your videos. By not watching your videos, or by haviing an individual Facebook account, as you've advised for married couples as a way to stay together, doesn't mean a problem go away. It actually makes the problem worse. Facebook, or having a life as an individual when in a relationship, doesn't = divorce. I would advise you to stay with subjects you know about. Take your own advise and free to block me
grumpychuck 11 months ago
@jezuzfreek777 Don't rip their head off they're just voicing their opinion, just like you. They could be a little less crass though.
Freedom42117 11 months ago
@jezuzfreek777 Where did the bible come from Sir. This is coming from someone who grew up in a religious family. Where was genisis and the flood taken from please.
Kikikinglord 11 months ago
@jezuzfreek777
If you put videos up on the internet people are going to watch them and people are going to comment on them. You can either be a big boy and deal with the commentary like an adult or you can just stop making videos and find a new hobby.
Bluebelle9289 11 months ago
@grumpychuck Your an asshole, if you dont like his videos then dont watch em! Go fuck yourself.
taco1010 11 months ago
@taco1010...if you don't like my comments don't read them...not THAT's good advise! Here's some more good advise for you...turn that frown upside down!
grumpychuck 11 months ago
@grumpychuck Well if you dont like his videos then dont watch em! He has some valid points and your just being a prick for no reason. i dont see you doing sht for anything.
taco1010 11 months ago
@taco1010...have you ever watched any of his other videos? Is the answer yes?...and you call me an asshole?
In your view, what valid points about marriage did he make?
Why does Anthony think he has the background and education to give out marriage counceling as an expert?
Have you ever seen any of his anti-gay homophobic videos?
Have you ever tried to have a discussion with Anthony who states "Let's Discuss" and then he calls you names only because you disagree with his point of view.
grumpychuck 11 months ago
@grumpychuck You are such a hipocryte! What gives you the credentials to decide whether or not someone can give marriage advice? at that what gives you the right to give advice on anything? Who are you to say homosexuality is right OR WRONG? I know people whose relationships have broken because of facebook and its true what he says. he has his own channel with his opinon. if you dont like it then dont even watch his videos again your a fucking idiot.
taco1010 11 months ago
@taco1010 you are right Jezuzfreek can give any advice he wants it is up to people to take it or not. I do not think down on the fact he has made this video as he marital problems, I was around for those and recall it being other issues. All people have opinions.
TheNigherProwler 11 months ago
@taco1010...calling me, or anyone, names doesn't make your opinion right or wrong so try to chill out.
I don't need credentials to decide anything and Anthony has the right to his opinion and the freedom to express it. As far as homosexuality, why does he, and I suspect you, care about who I, or anyone else has sex with. If someone shares their bigoted opinion I don't run away...they need to hear unbigoted opinions.
To sum this up...expect my comments on JF's videos...and relax Taco...
grumpychuck 11 months ago
@grumpychuck Somthing that maks no sence here is if he has the right to his opinons and to express it how can anyones opinon be bigoted? These are comments i just cant stand. Noone has to accept noones ideology that homosexuality is right if the same can be for the contrary.
taco1010 11 months ago
@taco1010...A bigot is a person devoted to their own opinions expressing intolerance towards other that disagree with that opinion towards race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation...etc...
There is a difference between saying "I like chocolate" or "I dislike chocolate" to saying "Ï dislike chocolate so noone should be able to eat it" or "Ï dislike homosexuality so you should not have the same rights as I do".
Anthony wants his ideology to be law, instead of just following it in his own life.
grumpychuck 11 months ago
@grumpychuck People do not say i dislike homosexuality so i dont think it shouldnt be allowed they say its wrong. There is a stark difference between feeling something and somthing being. You yourself cannot define right or wrong but by your own feelings. you yourself cant even define pain with out someone saying that it is not pain. Your asking the wrong questions. The bible is law and people will be judged one day by the one who made the law.
taco1010 11 months ago
@taco1010...You've hit the nail on the head...if people will be judged one day by god the who are we to make judgement over someone's sexual desire to the point of wanting to make laws that systematically descriminate against them solely based on their sexual orientation? If you believe the bible is law, that's your business and I've fought for your right to practice it...in your own life. JF's habitual distain for gays goes way beyond practicing beliefs for himself. I wish you the best, Taco
grumpychuck 11 months ago
@grumpychuck Dont run away from my point.
"people do not say i dislike homosexuality so i dont think it shouldnt be allowed they say its wrong. There is a stark difference between feeling something and somthing being."
Homosexuality is a behavior Not a trait you are born with.
taco1010 11 months ago
@taco1010
Actually homosexuality is something you're born with. It's not genetic, but you are pretty much born gay, just as you're born bisexual or born straight. You can't choose to be gay and you can't be taught to be gay.
Funny thing about homosexuality though, many gays are born to straight parents.
"The bible is law"
Maybe in your fantasy world.
Bluebelle9289 11 months ago
@Bluebelle9289 Actually no its a behaiver. you choose to act that way. You are not born with a sexual preference to a behaivier. Thats like saying that some one is born liking ice cream.
"Maybe in your fantasy world"
Prove me wrong when you die.
taco1010 11 months ago
@taco1010
It's been proven that homosexuality isn't a choice. Look it up.
Also, if people could choose to be gay then why would they choose to be gay knowing of the hate they'd face from others?
"Prove me wrong"
I don't have to. There's a reason why we have Separation of Church and State.
Bluebelle9289 11 months ago
@Bluebelle9289
You are not born with a behaivier .nothing has been proven on the subject about anything.Do some research instead of just listening to any of the bs you see in the media
People choose to be Gay for the same reason you choose to be straight.
" Separation of Church and State" Way to not make sence?
taco1010 11 months ago
@taco1010
"People choose to be Gay for the same reason you choose to be straight."
Which is?
Yes it has been proven that being gay is not a choice. You are born gay just as you are born straight or bisexual. All you have to do is do a little reading to find out. And it's not just on the internet. Why don't you also talk to some gay people too and ask them if they chose to be gay. I can guarantee that they will tell you that they did not choose to be gay.
Bluebelle9289 11 months ago
@taco1010
Also, if being gay is a choice, then why would people choose to be gay if they knew of the hate and violence they'd face as gays? Gay people have been harassed, beaten and killed. Why would they choose to be gay with all that violence and hate going on?
Bluebelle9289 11 months ago
@Bluebelle9289 Because they like the behaiver obviously? For the same reason someone would choose to tell the truth even though theyll face hate and violence.
taco1010 11 months ago
@taco1010...You don't really have a point but...please ask yourself this question: "Why do I care who other people have sex with?" Taco...what difference does it make whether sexual orientation is a learned behavior or not? If you think the bible tells you not to be a homosexual and you believe the bible to be law and you believe that your sexual orientation is a learned behavior then don't be a homosexual. Does the bible tell you to get involved in other people's private affairs?
grumpychuck 11 months ago
@grumpychuck Its because you dont understand simple concepts. Its not a question. It is a behaivier. Im not getting involved in anyones affairs, im merley adressing your questions. Your question would be more accurate if you asked "Why would i care if something is right or Wrong?
taco1010 11 months ago
The best way how to save your marriage by that logic is not to leave the house, cut of internet or any other connection to the outside world or move to forgotten island. Facebook can make even more happy marriages then destroy them. Access to information doesn't change who we are just gives us access. Sorry but i don't buy what you are selling.
Uhmu45 11 months ago
is this video in response to what happened to Von? I know its facebook, and blogTV, but similar situations, wasn't that Von's wife that was always with him in his BlogTV's and in the one he got caught in??
TheJamesPope 11 months ago
The fact that something like Facebook is a factor in marriage is ridiculous. If your marriage gets ruined because you are dumb enough to do something that is able to be posted on Facebook - and your someone who says "Facebook ruined my marriage", or any kind of reason where the word Facebook is a factor in the degradation of your relationship - then you are childish, immature, and deserve to have your relationship destroyed. You can then use your extra time to grow the hell up!
praXsad12 11 months ago
F*********CK JESUS FREAK!!! YOUR INTRO IS SOOO MUCH COOLER THAN YOU!
TheJamesPope 11 months ago
Any connection to humanity bares the possibility of misuse, it is in the individuals character whether or not that weakness is allowed to be exploited. Infidelity is a common blight on all relationships, facebook mearly allows it to be discovered more easily. SO FEEL FREE TO DELETE ALL OF YOUR ACCOUNTS, I DONT CARE.
CharlesOlson711 11 months ago
Sorry but I'm not going to help Japan. Japan has got what it deserved.. Japan has been a atheist and false worshipping state for thousands of years. Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ has been patient with Japan but due to their unbeliving and false worshipping
Now God is pouring out his wrath on Japan for this and I have no sympathy for them whatsoever. They are getting exactley what they deserve
PRIASE GOD for his righteous JUDGEMENT on JAPAN!!!!!!!!!!!!
rudemood2011 11 months ago
@rudemood2011 NICE TRY TO PREDENDING LOL
Timslist 11 months ago
@rudemood2011 wow I can't believe you said that, you obviously sound like a fake christian. God loves every mankind on earth whether they're christian or not.
dietsolutionprograms 11 months ago
@dietsolutionprograms If that's the case then why is there a hell and why do people go there??? The fact is that you don't or want to understand the truth. Jesus Christ himself spoke in great detail of hell and in fact Jesus spoke of hell like 3 times more than he did of heaven. Why? Because he knew where unbelievers and people who worshipped fake gods went. The Japanese have rejected Jesus Christ from the beginning and they are paying the price right now for it
rudemood2011 11 months ago
@rudemood2011
God needs a punishment to supplement eternal Hell?
mandangalo18 11 months ago
@mandangalo18 The bible clearly tells us that GOD punishes people on earth then with everlasting torture in hell. If you read your bible you would know that but you either don't know or don't care. You listen to all these "watered down" preachers who tell you what you want to hear
rudemood2011 11 months ago
@rudemood2011
Sounds like quite a benevolent fellow. Thanks for letting me know what I've read, but....... you're wrong. You don't know what I've read or listened to but thanks for telling me what I read and listen too anyway.
mandangalo18 11 months ago
@mandangalo18 I don't care what you've read or listened to. I'm telling you what's in the bible. All of these feel good kissi poo preachers will tell you all about gods love and forgiveness and yes that's true but god also punishes which is what god is doing to japan
rudemood2011 11 months ago
@rudemood2011
Then your god is a monster for killing babies yet again.
mandangalo18 11 months ago
@rudemood2011 I can understand where you coming from, yes I agree with what you said, and I respect that. According to bible, all non-believer or those who reject Jesus will go to hell. Maybe only 3% of the Japanese are christian, so I agree with you on that most Japanese may not be saved. You may telling the truth, but just don't say stuff like they deserve to go to hell because they don't trust in Christ. We are all human being, I pray that some of them are still saved.
dietsolutionprograms 11 months ago
I would never have a relationship with anybody on FRACEBOOK.
ogrish84 11 months ago
It's not Facebooks fault, its the people who use it.
And no, even from a spouse you can keep secrets, i wouldn't want a spouse/girlfreind looking through my stuff, she should trust me.
LukeJ60 11 months ago