WENDY! You idiot, you're so embarrassing. Just let the man talk, you seem like you can't have a serious mature conversation. He is talking about something important and you're going in by interrupting. UGH!
na, i don't agree. it's not right for a man to cheat, just cause he's a MAN. smh men do that though, if a woman cheats its no more chances for her. but they expect. a woman will wait forever for a man to get his shit together. a man? WILL NOT.
he was saying that even a good woman who is doing what she is supposed to do can get cheated on. plenty of relationships that are great and loving but you will have one or both that think the grass is greenr or they want something new and different! Every good looking person turns their head! They wnt someone to share their life with but still want to play around! We have all heard a man is going to be a man and thats the prblm. BS! Wm get wet and men get hard! If a wm can say no so can a man
this guy had such a lot more to say... !!! wendy, why didn't you let him??? *)/&%! before we can change sth we first must understand what is going on!
go fuck your self ty . in this day and age with STDs etc you are telling women that they need to put up with cheating just because ....? i fell sorry for your daughter for having for a dad . Seriously ... is it also ok to beat women?
@imhissensualbeauty by no means am i hater i'm just stating the truth i agree with you she always cuts people off her voice is annoying and she looks like a man. just saying. not a hater though shes making her money
Don't get me wrong I never understood man or female cheating when you can be single and be with anyone you'd like without answering to anyone. The fact of the matter is its true society has made us to think when men cheat its normal and in some ways acceptable cuz we take back the cheaters most of us not all of us.. which causes those to think they can be forgiven and do it again... get with someone else you can get away with it again,..its just a ugly way of life for the world of cheaters
I think we are asking the wrong questions here. Dont ask..."why do men cheat?" Instead ask, why do people feel the need to cheat while they are with their partner instead of just coming to them, sitting down and telling them what they dont like about them. Communication is the best key, and if they dont want to listen then try again and if it still dont work then break up with the person.
Why men cheat? Easy answer, SOME cheat because we (men) get away with it. I will never cheat on my woman since my conscience will kill me, but how many women you know go right back to the guys that cheat on them. Better yet, how many women you know are going after men who have histories of being cheats. The answer is simple. Men cheat because we get away with it! Women need to stand up and say no. And mean it. The day my mom stood up and said no was the beginning of her life in happiness.
oooooh i can see what he's saying, but at the same time, no. he's basically saying men cheat b/c the wife isn't doing something to keep his attention at home, like it's her fault, and it's not. there's no reason to cheat period--if something at home isn't keeping a man happy, then it's time him to break up with her, not cheat
@Tokiogrl09 No. you misunderstood. He was sayin the oposite. He was saying that you can do evverything in the world to keep ur man but if it's in him to cheat he will and it's not ur fault and u shouldnt make it ur fault
@Tokiogrl09 No, I at first heard what you thought when he said it wasn't the spaghetti, what he is referencing to is the part that our mothers say to keep a man is to cook good, clean etc. .. he saying nope cuz its not the food its another female looking all cute with little clothes nice legs.. He said the man knows the value of the woman at home but can't help but dip in somethin else.
@Tokiogrl09 No, that not what he's saying. He even specifically states that if a man cheats, the woman should NOT see that as a reflection on herself. No, what he was merly "implying" is that it's moreso in a man's nature to be polygamous than in a female's. And that's understandable. Since the dawn of time, man in different cultures throughout the world have had multiple partners, and even multiple wives. But in today's society where we are more civilized, that is unacceptable.
@Cammy4442 There are societies where women have multiple husbands and being "civilized" has nothing to do with our society being monogamous. Almost all of it is do to economic reasons. People are expected to move where jobs are, try doing that with more than one spouse. It isn't easy. Do a little research and you will see the economy plays a role in every society's marriage institutions.
@HybridD91 I agree with the fact that both males and females cheat. And yea, SOME ppl may be monogamous for economic reasons. But I think that it's a little exaggerated to say that "almost all" couples are for that reason.
@Cammy4442 Its true, plus whether parents like it or not, even if they raise their sons to respect women, never cheat, the fact is when they go to school these guys will still be saying things like what he said 'did you hit that?', and their friends will be supporting them, laughing about it. With girls at school, should they ever talk like this then other girls will be like, 'she's such a whore' etc. A lot of guys will grow up thinking its ok, and girls thinking its not ok due to their peers
No it's not time to break up, it's time for them to talk and say "okay this or that is not working and we need to do something different to keep us strong and faithful to each other." Too often people find any and every reason to cheat, or leave and break up with the person they are with. At the first sign of trouble they wanna high-tail it and run. Be a man/woman about yours and put some effort into your relationship to make it strong. 23 yrs and counting in mine! thru good & bad!
@Tokiogrl09 I believe wut he is saying is that there's nothing a woman can do at home to prevent a man from cheating....its something w/in the man that needs to change. He never said they cheat because women need to do more to keep him home. The man has to knw that woman's worth, be self discipline & ready to be with her
Boaa, Tyrese can say and believe what he wants to, but I know no man of mine can think that way. If he did then I would not only black his eye, but kick his ass to the curb. So men can cheat, but women must stay at home and be faithful? Giving, giving, giving, but never recieving the same respect? No, fuck that! Thats not how it plays in my book. And any man who thinks they can pass that shit on me is gonna have another thing comin'....
Dudes like this that haven't mentally matured passed highschool dont ned to be talking about this topic and even if it is how u grew up thinking we all know right from wrong your a grown man and here on earth we are suppose to sharpen ourselves and be complete inside out he is missing alot of qualities and moral that the lifestyle he has has clouded from him im 22 and i have more identity within myself and reality smh signing off
and its that kind of mindset that got him divorced. LOL i don't think anyone who wasn't married for at least 5 years should be tryna give advice on relationships Wendy was to emotional about it and biast but Tyrese is too selfish in his actions and his idea in a faithful relationship but he calls his self a capricorn ha(capricorn was a side note).
@ladytracy10 I'm fully aware that it is a horrible double standards. women are oppressed in the household, workplace, school etc. I know how it is, never been cheated on...for the men who cheat they should feel inspired by what Tyrese is saying and change their ways. U keep ramping on bout BE THE SOLUTION! U want me to start a protest yh? SKEENAGE! looool u need to chill. Now ur making me really think ur a hater. Not serious. Self-fulfilling prophecy mate #Krasine
i think famous men and men in politics with power are expected to cheat. whenever i hear abt a nba or governor that have cheated it isn't news to me anymore. but i don't expect nor condone a regular dude to cheat..chances are they don't have much and can easily be replaced.
Ty i hope that you will return to work my brotha, we need more real chocolate/dark skin black ppl on tv and media and we should to return real black music! bless you brabra!
Alright ladies you really wanna know how to keep a man faithful? Let your man put it in your butt. i'm sorry for sounding for sounding so vulgar but the majority of men love anal sex because the vagina does get boring believe it or not. Shit, you women are able to have multiple orgasms in one session and we can't so take that into consideration.
kryptoniteCTD I'm a feminist! i do what i can to change society so don't get it twisted. As much as i like to think i can make it happen, i have to reach out to ignorant people who think it's acceptable for men to cheat and women to take back the guys who cheat on them. It's wrong on so many levels. Anyway, what i was saying was that Tyrese was clearly stating the obvious. he was misunderstood. For guys who are cheating STOP IT and girls if ur being cheated on, LEAVE! Education goes a long way!
kryptoniteCTD me and u both no that cheating is unacceptable. I'm not trying to justify what Tyrese said in anyway because it's just wrong to cheat. As a matter of fact when i said people are hating i was referring to all those who made irrelevant comments about his success. but that's besides the point, you are making it seem as if i said u are a hater!!! Unless u really are? LOL and never did i say i was happy with the double standards. In fact, I have very strong opinions about this topic...
@ladytracy10 Im so glad u didnt "@" me in this because your entire reply is sad. Never did i once say YOU were justifying what he said nor were agreeing with it.SMH. Like i said before if YOUR NOT APART OF THE SOLUTION YOU ARE APART of the problem. LET me break what that "quote" meant in the last. TYRESE is knows why men cheat YET he doesn't address this issue w/ his brother man. I Find it odd that you applied those 2 comments to yourself and have the audacity to call me a hater.
Double standards continue because there are more people "going along with the flow" than there are trying to be an example of doing the right thing. Regardless whether he's justifying men cheating or not he is GOING ALONG W/ THE FLOW. IF YOU'RE NOT APART OF THE SOLUTION, YOU'RE APART OF THE PROBLem. There are men & surprisingly enough, women right now in this Comment section proving my point, by using what tyrese is saying to justify why men cheat as if its okay.
(cont) "become" the cheat...never did he say you sould stay with him or let him drag her along while he continues in his mess, but what he was saying was dont let HIS mistakes change the person you already are or make you think you doing things such as cooking and cleaning be seen as a waste of time...We live in a very double standard society today...different sexes have different upbringings and thats why he said men are "expected" to cheat, cause thats how MOST people see US....God bless
@TheDeLaKore ..i don't know if that is what Tyrese was trying to say or not but your explaination makes a whole lot more sense. Personally, I don't know why anyone would cheat with all of the risks that could come from it..ie; STDs. I know I have never cheated on anyone and will NEVER do that to my future husband. I do expect famous ppl(nba players/actors and politicians) to cheat and whenever I hear abt one doing so(Tiger, MJ,Arnold etc.) I am no longer shocked.
When he said men are expected to cheat he was reffering to how society sees us. He never justified cheating, he said that CLEARLY before wendy started interrupting him several times. But what he was trying to say was if youre in a relationship dont expect the things you DO to keep a man home..and quite frankly he was right, it hurts but its the truth. People both men and women need to realize that when someone does us wrong we cant let that change who we are, like when he told his daughter dont
Wendy didn't want to hear the real. She want to keep promoting dat bullshit. Ty was fina school her ass. That's whts wrg with society now. What about you? That's a female favorite line. Before you know it she wearing a baseball cap with a wife beater on telling the next female to accept who she is. damn fool!
If you're not familiar with Wendy you must know that she's been in the same business longer than most of us has worked any of our jobs. She does know a lot about Black celebs in particular. I'm pretty sure she knows something about Tyrese we don't. As a married woman she has to feel strongly on the topic.
It almost looks like she was 'hitting' on him. @ the women, why aren't you addressing the fact that Wendy wants to excuse cheating for women noting the 'free pass' comment. If you are really against 'cheating' then don't call the kettle black while you are supporting Wendy's comments from this video. Is she trying to excuse herself because she wants to cheat w/Tyrese? He probably told her that he wouldn't because she is married...ha ha. Oh yeah, I'm a woman.
I cant stand Wendy Williams. He said men are EXPECTED to cheat not that it was ACCEPTABLE. She makin Tyrese look like he said "men can cheat and its ok but a woman cant." He didnt say if a woman cook, clean, etc that its right or ACCEPTABLE for him to cheat, he's just sayin that that"s how a mother raises a young girl to think, and that its wrong. I dont like that WOMEN think they have all the answers on how to keep a man every man is different. We not that complicated just ask the ? dont assume
no u didnt get it, what he said was that cooking & cleaning for a girl is not enough, u shouldnt put the blame on urself when he cheats and thats it (meaning u stay with him despite of what he did, without putting the blame on urself). On the contrary, for men, they are NOT expected to cook and clean for their wife and if she cheats she can leave the house immidiately. So that's the double standard he is preaching, you think thats ok? then ur a fool
@dromycatcher Whoa we couldnt have watched the same video. I dont remember stating that i felt it was ok to cheat. You obviously have a misconception of the whole video and what i was saying.
kryptoniteCTD why are u hating Tyrese??? He never said cheating was a good thing all he said was that it happens. is that not true? its the way society treats it. for a guy it is seen as a good thing to sleep with many girls whereas for a girl to do that its wrong. its a fact! all he was doing was stating the obvious. i personally feel it isn't right for men and women to have double standards but what can i do? aint like i can change the way society teach men and women to behave lol
@missCD10 LLS okay you feel as though I'm "hating" tyrese. But then further on you say what can i do?. Double standards remain in effect because people like you say "what can i do". instead of trying to be an ex. of WHAT TO DO. & I agree with you to an extent, no you can't change society overnight. But you can be an example to other people by doing the right thing. It amazes me how you can interpret what hes saying but all you got what that I supposedly "hate" him.
TheDarioushurt you are 100% correct. i had an argument with a friend about this. i said exactly the same thing as u did. so mane people misinterpreted what he said. he never once said it was right for men to cheat. he said it happens and provided us with valid examples. there are double standards in life whether u like it or not. all he was doing was stating the obvious and many people are hating him for no apparent reason! Single minded individuals need to go educate themselves!!!
Tyrese isn't saying that it's OK for men to cheat, he is saying that society makes it seem that men cheating is OK, he is just explaining the double standerd. Wendy didn't give him the opportunity to explain his remarks because she is SIMPLE MINDED. Alot of you woman on here are simple minded because yall refuse to actually understand what tyrese was saying.
@CarlaMills i agree with u, when a bloke is willing to cheat it means obviously what he has at home hes willing to lose, promiscuity is only refer to a women never a man so un fair. i think this kinda way of thinking is truly why no body believes in giving their heart anymore as i always tell people it takes courage to love because u risk everything
I just want to commend all of you for debating the issue in a decent fashion. Most of the people commenting all across the web these days use profanity as if it describes everything on the planet and fail to make legitimate points. I'm proud of you all who posted well on this emotional topic.
Women are part of the problem b/c we are way to supportive. As mother we don't teach our sons or make sure a man teaches our sons a better way. Our sons are not learning how to choose or how to treat his queen. It's a cycle. The successful ones win at it together.
oh and before anyone insists on making a comment to give me the "male perspective" it's not necessary... my brother is a successful attractive blk male almost 30, grad of morehouse, heading to matrimonal bliss w. his blk fiance -- they have been together for about 15 yrs. that said, i know what i expect and deserve i dont need to know how a guy thinks anymore than he needs to know how i think... i am a believer of free will and mutual respect despite color, gender what have you... so save it. :)
another thing, ladies please stop trying to be the men in your relationships. quit letting these fools like (tyrese and steve harvey) profit off of your insecurities. it's not abnormal to know how you should be treated and if anyone cant rise to the occasion love that person and yourself enough to say goodbye. you will teach him a lesson of how to love someone else correctly eventually if he cherishes you. you dont need to prove and reprove yourself. stop doing the most, be happy and be you.
if one male has sex w. 10 women he is a walking disease and a woman of quality would never touch that fool (vice versa). no penis on earth is ever that deep LOL sorry to tell you guys... you get one body and popularity and black culture and breeding has never made me change my mind. we as a people need to break out of this sick mindset. we arent lab monkeys so please stop w. the stupid talk. im sorry some of y'all are letting new age rap songs raise you.
"I don't want 2 B your prisoner so baby won't u set me free, stop playing w/ my heart, Finish what u start , when u make my love come down, if u want me let me know, baby let it show, honey don't u fool around" Wise words sung by Madonna for those who feel they are being cheated by their significant other.
Tyrese made a logical statement. Wendy's down syndrome looking ass couldn't handle the truth and got emotional and erratic. Thus coming back at Tyreese with a lame ass comment that didn't even pertain to him.
Hell didn't her ex husband cheat on her? Hell who could blame him though.
Men are no different than any male in the animal kingdom. Men are programmed to spread their seed. Monogamy in nature is rare. When it happens in nature its only for the young. Integrity in relationships (not opposable thumbs) is the only thing that separate men from the rest of the animal kingdom. Women cheat for the same carnal reasons as men but are much less likely if their mate is "right enough" (subjective). Find a man with integrity in something he loves; he is less likely to cheat.
Its a shitty deal women get. Its two parts to a relationship. Part 1: A man can have a physical relationship with another woman and still have strong feelings for his partner. Its a foreign concept to women who early on equate the physical and the emotional.
Part 2. The man comes to the point where he will not mess around b/c he has that full emotional attachment. (something that women develop very early into the relationship)
Humans are not meant to be monogamous (sorry to pop bubbles)
what 1 believes in may not not B what others believes in. just like religion, thankfully, it is a personal matter. which is not 2 B discussed amongst others unless one chooses 2 do. so. i don't care what others believe in as long as i am aware of what i believe in for me 2 know my own worth. what would be the point in committing into a relationship w/ a person if u feel the need 2 resort 2 others 4 affection other than your significant other. u may as well remain single until you're ready.
A different take on the matter. I think men cheat because mothers do little to treat the problem and women allow men to cheat. Don't feel sorry for a man that has been cheated on unless he can prove he is completely innocent. I have a man who I believe has cheated. Ever since I found out he has done nothing but suffer the pain I feel and he always has my exit looming over the relationship until I finally make my decision on my own terms. No sympathy from me b/c I have not cheated.
@Naturalbychoice Its no way women can "allow" a man to cheat. If women had that much control in a relationship there would be no such thing as a man cheating. You are by definition an angry black woman (i'm assuming u are a sista). You are going to destroy your future relationships and any hope of you being happy in a relationship. I bet you haven't even had a real sit-down adult conversation with him? If you are not going to have a "where is your heart at convo?" you might as well brk-up
@bboy1022 I'm a woman who believes men are being cheated of life benefits in the process of cheating. Its too easy. If one woman leaves there's twenty others before he can figure out what went wrong. I'm guilty too. I trusted he was telling the truth on how long ago his last relationship was. Men are losing out financially, emotionally, and its shows as women are becoming strong competitive forces. Yes, I've had numerous heart to hearts w/ him. He's benefited greatly from me.
I took Tyrese statement very well, because it is true on both sides. Women cheat and men cheat. I mean even if a man or woman come from a loving home, whenever he/she gets out on their own, they live by their own rules. Now if he/she can't commit then walk away, some people don't do that. I understand his statement, everyone is not perfect, but until he/she realize they don't want to play bed hopping anymore than its a continuation. Cheating has been going on forever, men and women do it!
@L00kinThruPeripheral Well most women aint like that now a days they the ones that accuse men of cheating even if he isnt and 95% of the time they are the ones that do and thats a fact women dont own up to their mistakes but blame men for everything that happens in the relationship what if the man dont trust you cause he think ur cheating dont u think thats the most logical reason why men cheat its not always cause the woman is fine and he couldnt resist its more of not trusting their women
People get cheated on because they allow themselves to be cheated on....Men and Woman cheat, why do people CLING to upbringing and history doesn't make it "ok" to be a hoe by any means......take ownership & set your own standards
@Jecire I don't understand where this "they allow themselves to be cheated on" mentality comes from. You must explain. It just sounds as if you are making the cheater to be the victim. "Oh he/she implied that it was okay to cheat so i cheated... it ain't my fault its their fault for implying" People don't "allow" themselves to be cheated on that makes absolutely zero sense.
@L00kinThruPeripheral shut up cause u probably one of those women that cheats and hides it and there aint no doubt that women hides it when they cheat and they do it alot better than men i can tell u that much which is why most yall say women are smarter than men cause yall know how to do shit and get away with it us fellas are not that skilled at that we get caught up sometimes cause we talk about it a lil too much with our homies thus thats how it goes and comes back to ya girl and shit
I concur..I think men who CAN cheat will because its what men are meant t do, we were built to mate and spread our seed(natural instinct)..Any good looking guy who has options will fuck when they are in a relationship..especially if your a Suave motherfucker like me, you get bored really fast with one individual and need something fresh to keep yourself satisfied.
@L00kinThruPeripheral Totally agree. I totally disagree with what Tyrese said and like Steve Harvey, he is in NO POSITION to impart advice to people regarding relationships. He should stick to the music and keep his mouth shout as he's just another charlatan looking to make a quick buck off peoples' insecurities.He should be ashamed.
@L00kinThruPeripheral: i don't buy into his load of crap about people are expected to cheat on their significant other. whether an individual is going to be unfaithful towards their significant other or not, it's what their thinking of doing so that is disturbing. What people need to think about is think twice before hurting those who are directly affected in your life.
Tyrese made some good points. Its too bad he was on the lady show that decided to cutt him off as soon as he said something controversial. Maybe people can try having a different perspective on things, or an open mind.
Expected does not mean acceptable.
Girls think with their feelings too much instead of trying to rationalize what he is getting too.
@bje717i You're right though. I'm a woman and I have seen and been through alot with men in my life. Women do think too much with their feelings because that's who we are. We're emotional beings. I think we as women can rely to much on them too. And that is what keeps us from making logical choices when comes to relationships, men, careers, money etc. I feel tyrese on this one.
Thanks for seeing what I was saying. Its fucking known that love can't affect how you think, so sometimes to make the best decision you have to put your feelings aside, and thats not just with relationships. You can't trust your feelings sometimes, because they are unreliable.
If women don't believe that men are expected to cheat theyre delusional. Most men that don't cheat rarely get the respect and the appreciation for being loyal and faithful.
If that's not the case why in the fuck black women keep saying,"they are no good men
around". Face it ladies, own up to the fact that due to your own empty standards, you have overlooked a man intangibles. P.S this is coming from a man who has never
@L00kinThruPeripheral; u took the words out of my mouth. it doesn't make sense to commit with someone when down the road a person is going to be unfaithful to their significant other. people like tyrese have no common sense and heartless.
Men like TYrese make my blood boil SO men have a pass to cheat and women don't. ITs upseting to me that if i were to put myself in a married womans shoes, cook ,clean, etc. etc., he has the right to cheat on me? Huh?
@kryptoniteCTD: the problem is that those who agree with Tyrese don't consider EMPATHY before acting on their desire to do what they feel is required of them to do
@TheDeLaKore I understand that he was not justifying cheating. I'm irritated by the fact that from what he said people are going to use that as a source to jusitfy cheating themselves as i see several people doing in this post.Tyrese is one of those guys who understands the double standard but through his actions does nothing about it. To me thats like saying men cheat so what? Well thats cool if you're a guy but put yourselves in a good woman's shoes (yes they do exist) . That is a nightmare.
@kryptoniteCTD He never said men have a pass to cheat its just that a lot of woman like you hear what you want to hear instead of what people are trying to say. Even wendy couldnt stop interrupting him.
@TRINIBOY411 Tyrese DID NOT justify it but he DAMN Sure didn't stand against it either. Men & women Who go with the flow and accept this "Double standard" set the American family structure (especially the BLACK one) back decades. ITs funny because the average BM hates the "bitterness, Anger and ATTitude" Coming from a BW but what do you think CHEATING on your WIFE creates??? Skittles??? and BTW for those that missed it the "pass" (EXCUSE) was his comment "MEN are expected to cheat"
@kryptoniteCTD Tyrese DID NOT justify it but he DAMN Sure didn't stand against it either. Men & women Who go with the flow and accept this "Double standard" set the American family structure (especially the BLACK one) back decades. ITs funny because the average BM hates the "bitterness, Anger and ATTitude" Coming from a BW but what do you think CHEATING on your WIFE creates??? Skittles??? and BTW for those that missed it the "pass" (EXCUSE) was his comment "MEN are expected to cheat"
If you want a bad boy dont be shocked when he does bad boy things to you. Only a FOOL wil accept a cheating man and only a FOOL will have loads of kids with a man who will not commit to them, if the person is good enough to have multiple kids with why arent they good enough to marry.
Most women are looking for that BAD BOY image in guys anyway so when he said "its expected of men to cheat" most women know when they find that BAD BOY cheating is around the corner. If you find a guy who has money, his shit together, and already has women floating around what makes you think hes gonna stop everything once he gets to you? not saying guys cheat forever but it takes a while to slow most men down.
many in our generation need the ultimate reality check (men and women)... everything out his mouth in regards to both men and women should be insulting to us all... he makes substantial actions and decisions based on "legs, skirts, spaghetti, dipping out, passes" this boy has absolutely no clue what a relationship w. himself or anyone else is. if he is half as dense as he insists he is i would stay away from him and his likeness like nuclear weaponry... and that's the truth!
there are many things a part of "our" upbringing... love how people can distort "society" for their own benefits. if you are really that minimal in your thought process and you are older than 21 you are aging, you have yet to mature... cheating has to be the single most cowardice act.
and a guy that jumps from woman to woman has made his body a dumpster for any whore who chooses, it's far more unattractive than guys know and the same vice versa. no woman of quality wants a man w. no self-worth
No Tyrese your wrong my mum never taught me to grow up to cook and clean for men to stay! My mum taught me too get a good job, earn my own money and never rely on a man
@chocolat80 yes both my mother and father taught me the same thing, too. they have been together for 40 years, and i have learned to be a G from my mother...her fav lines "what love got to do with it' from tina turner and 'anything u can do i can do better.'
Tyrese is yet another Charlatan who, like Steve Harvey thinks he's qualified to speak on relationships. He should keep his mouth, because what came out is complete garbage spoken by a man who's never going to get married anyway. Real talk.
So basically he's saying men are born to be dishonest? Any woman who accepts this DESERVES to be cheated on. Why should a woman have to wait for her man to work out how loyalty and trust works, Tyrese is nothing more than a has been imbecile who is convinced by his own stupidity.
i think another problem with why black men cheat is that we have the best of both worlds...white women love the chocolate...(here in england even more so)...black women love us...and mixed race women love us(black and white)...it doesn't make it right btw but all i'm saying is a guy can love you AND another girl aswell...don't feel bad.....you don't need to put a sticker on a guy saying that's your man...just be happy xxx
to be honest i think every black man needs a black woman in his life and myself as a black man i don't cheat but i'm done with relationships for a long time...i have a friend thats been with his wife for 20 years and they only stayed together for the kids...women sometimes you have to play your position...we all have the capability to love more than one person at one time...it's life...you don't need to claim one man...don't feel bad about having a no strings attached sexual relationship xxx
Wendy Williams showed why she is an unsophisticated, unintelligent host because she told a guest "it is time for you to go" just because that guest expressed an opinion with which she disagrees. She practically kicked him out of her show. A more sophisticated host would have responded with a counterargument or asked a question refuting what Tyrese said. His opinion also has some merit, so Wendy probably acted this way so as to appease her female fans.
but...it Is part of our upbringing.....us men are BREAD to think this shit, were BREAD to think we need multiple females (which is wrong and BAD)...and were bread to think sex and feelings or sex and love..shouldnt be connected and dont HAVE to be connected. THATS the problem and thats the 1st part of why men cheat, 2nd part is...after all that, WEAK ass DELUSIONAL ass females...ACCEPT men doin it! Do yall really think dudes would contiue this if they KNEW they couldnt get away wit it? FUCK no!
WENDY! You idiot, you're so embarrassing. Just let the man talk, you seem like you can't have a serious mature conversation. He is talking about something important and you're going in by interrupting. UGH!
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Man I remember being at this show! I even saw my face in the audience lol! Fun times!
Martinique757 3 days ago
na, i don't agree. it's not right for a man to cheat, just cause he's a MAN. smh men do that though, if a woman cheats its no more chances for her. but they expect. a woman will wait forever for a man to get his shit together. a man? WILL NOT.
misskaylitax3 6 days ago
her boobs are huge!
jkw906koz 3 weeks ago
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cuz she HUGE!
nahuatlSOUL 2 weeks ago
damn he sexy
beautynmyheart 3 weeks ago
I dont like her..she needs to stop cutting off something so gorgeous!
craiganddebbie 3 weeks ago
Tyrese is sexy as ever!
shatoyta2000 1 month ago
he was saying that even a good woman who is doing what she is supposed to do can get cheated on. plenty of relationships that are great and loving but you will have one or both that think the grass is greenr or they want something new and different! Every good looking person turns their head! They wnt someone to share their life with but still want to play around! We have all heard a man is going to be a man and thats the prblm. BS! Wm get wet and men get hard! If a wm can say no so can a man
shatoyta2000 1 month ago
this guy had such a lot more to say... !!! wendy, why didn't you let him??? *)/&%! before we can change sth we first must understand what is going on!
mssummerrose1 1 month ago
go fuck your self ty . in this day and age with STDs etc you are telling women that they need to put up with cheating just because ....? i fell sorry for your daughter for having for a dad . Seriously ... is it also ok to beat women?
100036877 1 month ago
I Love my Baby Tyrese.!
GabbanaPrincesss 2 months ago
People (not just men) "cheat" because that's how they are. Some are free spirited and some are narcissistic, all aren't monogamous. Get over it.
HybridD91 3 months ago
@imhissensualbeauty by no means am i hater i'm just stating the truth i agree with you she always cuts people off her voice is annoying and she looks like a man. just saying. not a hater though shes making her money
321611Sam 3 months ago
hehe im hunnnngreeeyyyy
helpoj 3 months ago
No Tyrese. Women cheat more than men. We're just more clever. So it is truly expected for US. To cheat. And that is the truth
CassandraJTube 3 months ago
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MaybachMusicBOSS99 3 months ago
she is garbage and a dude in disguise.
liclak 4 months ago
She always cuts people off! I wanted to hear what he was saying!
imhissensualbeauty 4 months ago 7
Hahah why did i smile during the whole video
AfghanSultan 4 months ago 2
@IndiBoo002 You explained it quite well! Thank you cuz the other person had it all wrong.. Temptation and lust is a motha phuka!
aatorres5 5 months ago
Don't get me wrong I never understood man or female cheating when you can be single and be with anyone you'd like without answering to anyone. The fact of the matter is its true society has made us to think when men cheat its normal and in some ways acceptable cuz we take back the cheaters most of us not all of us.. which causes those to think they can be forgiven and do it again... get with someone else you can get away with it again,..its just a ugly way of life for the world of cheaters
aatorres5 5 months ago
"man, you need to hit that, hit that, hit that"
ROFL!
UnknownGenius01 5 months ago
2:05 lil smooch there haha
cool08player 5 months ago
BITCHIES JUST DONT WANNA HEAR THE TRUTH !!!
godzangel100 5 months ago
He's so ignorant! eww he got so much uglier from this video and I used to think he was cute
cornrowedlowe 6 months ago
You could tell how much she wanted to sex him LOL
Nimo1605 6 months ago 2
I think we are asking the wrong questions here. Dont ask..."why do men cheat?" Instead ask, why do people feel the need to cheat while they are with their partner instead of just coming to them, sitting down and telling them what they dont like about them. Communication is the best key, and if they dont want to listen then try again and if it still dont work then break up with the person.
musicproducer16 6 months ago
Why men cheat? Easy answer, SOME cheat because we (men) get away with it. I will never cheat on my woman since my conscience will kill me, but how many women you know go right back to the guys that cheat on them. Better yet, how many women you know are going after men who have histories of being cheats. The answer is simple. Men cheat because we get away with it! Women need to stand up and say no. And mean it. The day my mom stood up and said no was the beginning of her life in happiness.
VCR1111 6 months ago
mmmm
ElliahxLiisha 6 months ago
Baby Boy wrote a book! Way to go,my nigga!
arhuxtable 6 months ago
He is soooo lickable ummmyeahhh
naturalmommy3 7 months ago
SHE WAS VERY RUDE LET EM TALK DANE MAN I MEAN WOMEN HAHA I BET HE AINT NEVER COMIN ON HER SHOW NOMO
MUSICLIFE738 7 months ago
part of upbringing? he's just a nasty lustful man looking for an excuse just because he cant control his lust and its not OK to cheat!
WickyGirl 7 months ago 3
lmao get em uncle i love ya and say hi to my cousin shaylah
ttwildenout 7 months ago
oww, he is some kind of sexual chocolate. Tyrese, yes!
luxuriouslady5625 7 months ago
Wow Wendy, way to disrespect your guest, instead of really try to listen, I cant stand your show.
elderescamilla 7 months ago
oooooh i can see what he's saying, but at the same time, no. he's basically saying men cheat b/c the wife isn't doing something to keep his attention at home, like it's her fault, and it's not. there's no reason to cheat period--if something at home isn't keeping a man happy, then it's time him to break up with her, not cheat
Tokiogrl09 8 months ago 29
@Tokiogrl09 No. you misunderstood. He was sayin the oposite. He was saying that you can do evverything in the world to keep ur man but if it's in him to cheat he will and it's not ur fault and u shouldnt make it ur fault
IndiBoo002 7 months ago 4
@Tokiogrl09 No, I at first heard what you thought when he said it wasn't the spaghetti, what he is referencing to is the part that our mothers say to keep a man is to cook good, clean etc. .. he saying nope cuz its not the food its another female looking all cute with little clothes nice legs.. He said the man knows the value of the woman at home but can't help but dip in somethin else.
aatorres5 5 months ago
@Tokiogrl09 No, that not what he's saying. He even specifically states that if a man cheats, the woman should NOT see that as a reflection on herself. No, what he was merly "implying" is that it's moreso in a man's nature to be polygamous than in a female's. And that's understandable. Since the dawn of time, man in different cultures throughout the world have had multiple partners, and even multiple wives. But in today's society where we are more civilized, that is unacceptable.
Cammy4442 3 months ago
@Cammy4442 There are societies where women have multiple husbands and being "civilized" has nothing to do with our society being monogamous. Almost all of it is do to economic reasons. People are expected to move where jobs are, try doing that with more than one spouse. It isn't easy. Do a little research and you will see the economy plays a role in every society's marriage institutions.
HybridD91 3 months ago
@HybridD91 I agree with the fact that both males and females cheat. And yea, SOME ppl may be monogamous for economic reasons. But I think that it's a little exaggerated to say that "almost all" couples are for that reason.
Cammy4442 3 months ago
@Cammy4442 Its true, plus whether parents like it or not, even if they raise their sons to respect women, never cheat, the fact is when they go to school these guys will still be saying things like what he said 'did you hit that?', and their friends will be supporting them, laughing about it. With girls at school, should they ever talk like this then other girls will be like, 'she's such a whore' etc. A lot of guys will grow up thinking its ok, and girls thinking its not ok due to their peers
diamond3187 2 months ago
No it's not time to break up, it's time for them to talk and say "okay this or that is not working and we need to do something different to keep us strong and faithful to each other." Too often people find any and every reason to cheat, or leave and break up with the person they are with. At the first sign of trouble they wanna high-tail it and run. Be a man/woman about yours and put some effort into your relationship to make it strong. 23 yrs and counting in mine! thru good & bad!
KCheriK 2 months ago
@Tokiogrl09 I believe wut he is saying is that there's nothing a woman can do at home to prevent a man from cheating....its something w/in the man that needs to change. He never said they cheat because women need to do more to keep him home. The man has to knw that woman's worth, be self discipline & ready to be with her
cmunnerl 3 weeks ago
Boaa, Tyrese can say and believe what he wants to, but I know no man of mine can think that way. If he did then I would not only black his eye, but kick his ass to the curb. So men can cheat, but women must stay at home and be faithful? Giving, giving, giving, but never recieving the same respect? No, fuck that! Thats not how it plays in my book. And any man who thinks they can pass that shit on me is gonna have another thing comin'....
MJsTabloidJunkie 8 months ago 4
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BITCHIES JUST DONT WANNA HEAR THE TRUTH !!!!
godzangel100 8 months ago
Dudes like this that haven't mentally matured passed highschool dont ned to be talking about this topic and even if it is how u grew up thinking we all know right from wrong your a grown man and here on earth we are suppose to sharpen ourselves and be complete inside out he is missing alot of qualities and moral that the lifestyle he has has clouded from him im 22 and i have more identity within myself and reality smh signing off
modusvivendii 8 months ago
and its that kind of mindset that got him divorced. LOL i don't think anyone who wasn't married for at least 5 years should be tryna give advice on relationships Wendy was to emotional about it and biast but Tyrese is too selfish in his actions and his idea in a faithful relationship but he calls his self a capricorn ha(capricorn was a side note).
modusvivendii 8 months ago
half you people act like Tyrese cares about your negative comments , smh . I LOVE YOU TYRESE !
babyt069 8 months ago 2
Thats why men lie to women because women cant tolerate having frank, non bullshit discussions without getting blindly emotional.
pagashow1 8 months ago
@kryptoniteCTD BTW i was meant to @ u last time!!!!!!!!!!!
ladytracy10 8 months ago
@ladytracy10 I'm fully aware that it is a horrible double standards. women are oppressed in the household, workplace, school etc. I know how it is, never been cheated on...for the men who cheat they should feel inspired by what Tyrese is saying and change their ways. U keep ramping on bout BE THE SOLUTION! U want me to start a protest yh? SKEENAGE! looool u need to chill. Now ur making me really think ur a hater. Not serious. Self-fulfilling prophecy mate #Krasine
ladytracy10 8 months ago
lmfao. "he seen sumthn in that skirt, those legs, and he decided to dip off". im super weak
futurephxfirefighter 8 months ago
Tyrese is such an idiot. I am embarassed that i look like him.
niltash4ever 8 months ago
i think famous men and men in politics with power are expected to cheat. whenever i hear abt a nba or governor that have cheated it isn't news to me anymore. but i don't expect nor condone a regular dude to cheat..chances are they don't have much and can easily be replaced.
TheScorpio4lyfe 9 months ago
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realblackxxxx 9 months ago
don't blame us in your shi't! most women are gold digger whores/hoes especially black/mixed women "men cheat because women want dick"!!
realblackxxxx 9 months ago
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Ty i hope that you will return to work my brotha, we need more real chocolate/dark skin black ppl on tv and media and we should to return real black music! bless you brabra!
realblackxxxx 9 months ago
Alright ladies you really wanna know how to keep a man faithful? Let your man put it in your butt. i'm sorry for sounding for sounding so vulgar but the majority of men love anal sex because the vagina does get boring believe it or not. Shit, you women are able to have multiple orgasms in one session and we can't so take that into consideration.
ag2407 9 months ago
kryptoniteCTD I'm a feminist! i do what i can to change society so don't get it twisted. As much as i like to think i can make it happen, i have to reach out to ignorant people who think it's acceptable for men to cheat and women to take back the guys who cheat on them. It's wrong on so many levels. Anyway, what i was saying was that Tyrese was clearly stating the obvious. he was misunderstood. For guys who are cheating STOP IT and girls if ur being cheated on, LEAVE! Education goes a long way!
ladytracy10 9 months ago
kryptoniteCTD me and u both no that cheating is unacceptable. I'm not trying to justify what Tyrese said in anyway because it's just wrong to cheat. As a matter of fact when i said people are hating i was referring to all those who made irrelevant comments about his success. but that's besides the point, you are making it seem as if i said u are a hater!!! Unless u really are? LOL and never did i say i was happy with the double standards. In fact, I have very strong opinions about this topic...
ladytracy10 9 months ago
@ladytracy10 Im so glad u didnt "@" me in this because your entire reply is sad. Never did i once say YOU were justifying what he said nor were agreeing with it.SMH. Like i said before if YOUR NOT APART OF THE SOLUTION YOU ARE APART of the problem. LET me break what that "quote" meant in the last. TYRESE is knows why men cheat YET he doesn't address this issue w/ his brother man. I Find it odd that you applied those 2 comments to yourself and have the audacity to call me a hater.
kryptoniteCTD 9 months ago
Double standards continue because there are more people "going along with the flow" than there are trying to be an example of doing the right thing. Regardless whether he's justifying men cheating or not he is GOING ALONG W/ THE FLOW. IF YOU'RE NOT APART OF THE SOLUTION, YOU'RE APART OF THE PROBLem. There are men & surprisingly enough, women right now in this Comment section proving my point, by using what tyrese is saying to justify why men cheat as if its okay.
kryptoniteCTD 9 months ago
(cont) "become" the cheat...never did he say you sould stay with him or let him drag her along while he continues in his mess, but what he was saying was dont let HIS mistakes change the person you already are or make you think you doing things such as cooking and cleaning be seen as a waste of time...We live in a very double standard society today...different sexes have different upbringings and thats why he said men are "expected" to cheat, cause thats how MOST people see US....God bless
TheDeLaKore 9 months ago
@TheDeLaKore ..i don't know if that is what Tyrese was trying to say or not but your explaination makes a whole lot more sense. Personally, I don't know why anyone would cheat with all of the risks that could come from it..ie; STDs. I know I have never cheated on anyone and will NEVER do that to my future husband. I do expect famous ppl(nba players/actors and politicians) to cheat and whenever I hear abt one doing so(Tiger, MJ,Arnold etc.) I am no longer shocked.
TheScorpio4lyfe 9 months ago
When he said men are expected to cheat he was reffering to how society sees us. He never justified cheating, he said that CLEARLY before wendy started interrupting him several times. But what he was trying to say was if youre in a relationship dont expect the things you DO to keep a man home..and quite frankly he was right, it hurts but its the truth. People both men and women need to realize that when someone does us wrong we cant let that change who we are, like when he told his daughter dont
TheDeLaKore 9 months ago
monkey asse president! spitting that shit. only in america...fucking baby player. tyrese bull shit, modelling like a fag on cover, tahhh!!
Sinisterappearance1 9 months ago
I was shocked when he said this lol. And ahhh snap, I just spotted myself in the audience lol
Martinique757 10 months ago
Wendy didn't want to hear the real. She want to keep promoting dat bullshit. Ty was fina school her ass. That's whts wrg with society now. What about you? That's a female favorite line. Before you know it she wearing a baseball cap with a wife beater on telling the next female to accept who she is. damn fool!
laylososlo 10 months ago 13
One day women will probably just date women bcoz they ar gonna get sick of men cheating in them
MCHaveFaith 10 months ago
check out my bro lionel millz
hovaqueen 10 months ago
at the end of the day both men and women cheat its just that the two sexes deal with it differently...
jpolimus 10 months ago
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All the more reason women should give up on dating men, right?
thefkncomplex 10 months ago
If you're not familiar with Wendy you must know that she's been in the same business longer than most of us has worked any of our jobs. She does know a lot about Black celebs in particular. I'm pretty sure she knows something about Tyrese we don't. As a married woman she has to feel strongly on the topic.
Naturalbychoice 10 months ago
It almost looks like she was 'hitting' on him. @ the women, why aren't you addressing the fact that Wendy wants to excuse cheating for women noting the 'free pass' comment. If you are really against 'cheating' then don't call the kettle black while you are supporting Wendy's comments from this video. Is she trying to excuse herself because she wants to cheat w/Tyrese? He probably told her that he wouldn't because she is married...ha ha. Oh yeah, I'm a woman.
JESUSanswers1 10 months ago
@oakaveli I was simply stating the quote correctly. I did not take a stance on it at all. Of course, everyone is entitled to their own beliefs.
JESUSanswers1 10 months ago
I cant stand Wendy Williams. He said men are EXPECTED to cheat not that it was ACCEPTABLE. She makin Tyrese look like he said "men can cheat and its ok but a woman cant." He didnt say if a woman cook, clean, etc that its right or ACCEPTABLE for him to cheat, he's just sayin that that"s how a mother raises a young girl to think, and that its wrong. I dont like that WOMEN think they have all the answers on how to keep a man every man is different. We not that complicated just ask the ? dont assume
kdf1291 10 months ago 3
@kdf1291 cause that's what it sounded like. He's cheated before so don't get on her when a FORMER CHEATER says shit like that
oakaveli 10 months ago
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KUDOS!
FlipStar26 10 months ago
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no u didnt get it, what he said was that cooking & cleaning for a girl is not enough, u shouldnt put the blame on urself when he cheats and thats it (meaning u stay with him despite of what he did, without putting the blame on urself). On the contrary, for men, they are NOT expected to cook and clean for their wife and if she cheats she can leave the house immidiately. So that's the double standard he is preaching, you think thats ok? then ur a fool
dromycatcher 9 months ago
@dromycatcher Whoa we couldnt have watched the same video. I dont remember stating that i felt it was ok to cheat. You obviously have a misconception of the whole video and what i was saying.
kdf1291 9 months ago
@kdf1291 I agree with you. I think wendy just had a misunderstanding. She did assume. She didnt get a clear idea of it.
lawsj009 8 months ago
kryptoniteCTD why are u hating Tyrese??? He never said cheating was a good thing all he said was that it happens. is that not true? its the way society treats it. for a guy it is seen as a good thing to sleep with many girls whereas for a girl to do that its wrong. its a fact! all he was doing was stating the obvious. i personally feel it isn't right for men and women to have double standards but what can i do? aint like i can change the way society teach men and women to behave lol
missCD10 10 months ago
@missCD10 LLS okay you feel as though I'm "hating" tyrese. But then further on you say what can i do?. Double standards remain in effect because people like you say "what can i do". instead of trying to be an ex. of WHAT TO DO. & I agree with you to an extent, no you can't change society overnight. But you can be an example to other people by doing the right thing. It amazes me how you can interpret what hes saying but all you got what that I supposedly "hate" him.
kryptoniteCTD 9 months ago
TheDarioushurt you are 100% correct. i had an argument with a friend about this. i said exactly the same thing as u did. so mane people misinterpreted what he said. he never once said it was right for men to cheat. he said it happens and provided us with valid examples. there are double standards in life whether u like it or not. all he was doing was stating the obvious and many people are hating him for no apparent reason! Single minded individuals need to go educate themselves!!!
missCD10 10 months ago
Tyrese isn't saying that it's OK for men to cheat, he is saying that society makes it seem that men cheating is OK, he is just explaining the double standerd. Wendy didn't give him the opportunity to explain his remarks because she is SIMPLE MINDED. Alot of you woman on here are simple minded because yall refuse to actually understand what tyrese was saying.
TheDarioushurt 10 months ago 2
He sounds so Stupid.... Men that think like this is why Relationships have so many Issues !!!
CarlaMills 10 months ago
@CarlaMills i agree with u, when a bloke is willing to cheat it means obviously what he has at home hes willing to lose, promiscuity is only refer to a women never a man so un fair. i think this kinda way of thinking is truly why no body believes in giving their heart anymore as i always tell people it takes courage to love because u risk everything
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serrribral 10 months ago
Guys can cheat because they can. When they do cheat most women stay with them. Now who do you think who taught them that behavior is ok WOMEN
MegaQueenforaday 10 months ago
I just want to commend all of you for debating the issue in a decent fashion. Most of the people commenting all across the web these days use profanity as if it describes everything on the planet and fail to make legitimate points. I'm proud of you all who posted well on this emotional topic.
Naturalbychoice 10 months ago
Women are part of the problem b/c we are way to supportive. As mother we don't teach our sons or make sure a man teaches our sons a better way. Our sons are not learning how to choose or how to treat his queen. It's a cycle. The successful ones win at it together.
Naturalbychoice 10 months ago
oh and before anyone insists on making a comment to give me the "male perspective" it's not necessary... my brother is a successful attractive blk male almost 30, grad of morehouse, heading to matrimonal bliss w. his blk fiance -- they have been together for about 15 yrs. that said, i know what i expect and deserve i dont need to know how a guy thinks anymore than he needs to know how i think... i am a believer of free will and mutual respect despite color, gender what have you... so save it. :)
b3autiphulmokha 10 months ago
another thing, ladies please stop trying to be the men in your relationships. quit letting these fools like (tyrese and steve harvey) profit off of your insecurities. it's not abnormal to know how you should be treated and if anyone cant rise to the occasion love that person and yourself enough to say goodbye. you will teach him a lesson of how to love someone else correctly eventually if he cherishes you. you dont need to prove and reprove yourself. stop doing the most, be happy and be you.
b3autiphulmokha 10 months ago
if one male has sex w. 10 women he is a walking disease and a woman of quality would never touch that fool (vice versa). no penis on earth is ever that deep LOL sorry to tell you guys... you get one body and popularity and black culture and breeding has never made me change my mind. we as a people need to break out of this sick mindset. we arent lab monkeys so please stop w. the stupid talk. im sorry some of y'all are letting new age rap songs raise you.
b3autiphulmokha 10 months ago
"I don't want 2 B your prisoner so baby won't u set me free, stop playing w/ my heart, Finish what u start , when u make my love come down, if u want me let me know, baby let it show, honey don't u fool around" Wise words sung by Madonna for those who feel they are being cheated by their significant other.
justmythoughts1234 10 months ago
Tyrese made a logical statement. Wendy's down syndrome looking ass couldn't handle the truth and got emotional and erratic. Thus coming back at Tyreese with a lame ass comment that didn't even pertain to him.
Hell didn't her ex husband cheat on her? Hell who could blame him though.
See Tyrese was right
PinkDiamondEnt1 10 months ago
Men are no different than any male in the animal kingdom. Men are programmed to spread their seed. Monogamy in nature is rare. When it happens in nature its only for the young. Integrity in relationships (not opposable thumbs) is the only thing that separate men from the rest of the animal kingdom. Women cheat for the same carnal reasons as men but are much less likely if their mate is "right enough" (subjective). Find a man with integrity in something he loves; he is less likely to cheat.
bboy1022 10 months ago
Its a shitty deal women get. Its two parts to a relationship. Part 1: A man can have a physical relationship with another woman and still have strong feelings for his partner. Its a foreign concept to women who early on equate the physical and the emotional.
Part 2. The man comes to the point where he will not mess around b/c he has that full emotional attachment. (something that women develop very early into the relationship)
Humans are not meant to be monogamous (sorry to pop bubbles)
bboy1022 10 months ago
what 1 believes in may not not B what others believes in. just like religion, thankfully, it is a personal matter. which is not 2 B discussed amongst others unless one chooses 2 do. so. i don't care what others believe in as long as i am aware of what i believe in for me 2 know my own worth. what would be the point in committing into a relationship w/ a person if u feel the need 2 resort 2 others 4 affection other than your significant other. u may as well remain single until you're ready.
justmythoughts1234 10 months ago
Well he got himself caught up....
sodakandy 10 months ago
A different take on the matter. I think men cheat because mothers do little to treat the problem and women allow men to cheat. Don't feel sorry for a man that has been cheated on unless he can prove he is completely innocent. I have a man who I believe has cheated. Ever since I found out he has done nothing but suffer the pain I feel and he always has my exit looming over the relationship until I finally make my decision on my own terms. No sympathy from me b/c I have not cheated.
Naturalbychoice 10 months ago
@Naturalbychoice Its no way women can "allow" a man to cheat. If women had that much control in a relationship there would be no such thing as a man cheating. You are by definition an angry black woman (i'm assuming u are a sista). You are going to destroy your future relationships and any hope of you being happy in a relationship. I bet you haven't even had a real sit-down adult conversation with him? If you are not going to have a "where is your heart at convo?" you might as well brk-up
bboy1022 10 months ago
@bboy1022 I'm a woman who believes men are being cheated of life benefits in the process of cheating. Its too easy. If one woman leaves there's twenty others before he can figure out what went wrong. I'm guilty too. I trusted he was telling the truth on how long ago his last relationship was. Men are losing out financially, emotionally, and its shows as women are becoming strong competitive forces. Yes, I've had numerous heart to hearts w/ him. He's benefited greatly from me.
Naturalbychoice 10 months ago
Steve has said this before, men cheat because they can, period. Men less likely to cheat are men who have moral values
psychmaj323 10 months ago
I took Tyrese statement very well, because it is true on both sides. Women cheat and men cheat. I mean even if a man or woman come from a loving home, whenever he/she gets out on their own, they live by their own rules. Now if he/she can't commit then walk away, some people don't do that. I understand his statement, everyone is not perfect, but until he/she realize they don't want to play bed hopping anymore than its a continuation. Cheating has been going on forever, men and women do it!
LovingMyOwnSkin 10 months ago 2
@L00kinThruPeripheral Well most women aint like that now a days they the ones that accuse men of cheating even if he isnt and 95% of the time they are the ones that do and thats a fact women dont own up to their mistakes but blame men for everything that happens in the relationship what if the man dont trust you cause he think ur cheating dont u think thats the most logical reason why men cheat its not always cause the woman is fine and he couldnt resist its more of not trusting their women
Howie0513 10 months ago
People get cheated on because they allow themselves to be cheated on....Men and Woman cheat, why do people CLING to upbringing and history doesn't make it "ok" to be a hoe by any means......take ownership & set your own standards
Jecire 10 months ago
@Jecire I don't understand where this "they allow themselves to be cheated on" mentality comes from. You must explain. It just sounds as if you are making the cheater to be the victim. "Oh he/she implied that it was okay to cheat so i cheated... it ain't my fault its their fault for implying" People don't "allow" themselves to be cheated on that makes absolutely zero sense.
bboy1022 10 months ago
@L00kinThruPeripheral shut up cause u probably one of those women that cheats and hides it and there aint no doubt that women hides it when they cheat and they do it alot better than men i can tell u that much which is why most yall say women are smarter than men cause yall know how to do shit and get away with it us fellas are not that skilled at that we get caught up sometimes cause we talk about it a lil too much with our homies thus thats how it goes and comes back to ya girl and shit
Howie0513 10 months ago
I concur..I think men who CAN cheat will because its what men are meant t do, we were built to mate and spread our seed(natural instinct)..Any good looking guy who has options will fuck when they are in a relationship..especially if your a Suave motherfucker like me, you get bored really fast with one individual and need something fresh to keep yourself satisfied.
DiamondLife33 10 months ago
@DiamondLife33 LMAO
Rasha882 10 months ago
i don't think he was giving men a free pass to cheat, they were on two diff pages
Deednice 10 months ago
momogamy is unnatural!
TexasCalibur 10 months ago
@L00kinThruPeripheral Totally agree. I totally disagree with what Tyrese said and like Steve Harvey, he is in NO POSITION to impart advice to people regarding relationships. He should stick to the music and keep his mouth shout as he's just another charlatan looking to make a quick buck off peoples' insecurities.He should be ashamed.
ezekielthemack 10 months ago
@L00kinThruPeripheral: well said at "See its stuff like this that has got society all messed up and Nobody wont take a stand against it."
justmythoughts1234 10 months ago
@L00kinThruPeripheral: i don't buy into his load of crap about people are expected to cheat on their significant other. whether an individual is going to be unfaithful towards their significant other or not, it's what their thinking of doing so that is disturbing. What people need to think about is think twice before hurting those who are directly affected in your life.
justmythoughts1234 10 months ago
Tyrese made some good points. Its too bad he was on the lady show that decided to cutt him off as soon as he said something controversial. Maybe people can try having a different perspective on things, or an open mind.
Expected does not mean acceptable.
Girls think with their feelings too much instead of trying to rationalize what he is getting too.
bje717i 10 months ago
@bje717i: girls may think with their feelings, men think thru their penis
justmythoughts1234 10 months ago
@justmythoughts1234
Not true. I honestly believe that Tyrese wasn't saying that its okay for men to cheat.
Take all feeling out of the equation and really listen to what he saying.
For one he said the double standard is horrible.
Most girls think that there boyfriend will cheat on then, hence expected.
Girls act ilke they horniest never affect their decision making but I know the truth. Search google for the word dickmatized
bje717i 10 months ago 2
@bje717i You're right though. I'm a woman and I have seen and been through alot with men in my life. Women do think too much with their feelings because that's who we are. We're emotional beings. I think we as women can rely to much on them too. And that is what keeps us from making logical choices when comes to relationships, men, careers, money etc. I feel tyrese on this one.
whatchasayboo615 10 months ago
@whatchasayboo615
Thanks for seeing what I was saying. Its fucking known that love can't affect how you think, so sometimes to make the best decision you have to put your feelings aside, and thats not just with relationships. You can't trust your feelings sometimes, because they are unreliable.
bje717i 10 months ago
If women don't believe that men are expected to cheat theyre delusional. Most men that don't cheat rarely get the respect and the appreciation for being loyal and faithful.
If that's not the case why in the fuck black women keep saying,"they are no good men
around". Face it ladies, own up to the fact that due to your own empty standards, you have overlooked a man intangibles. P.S this is coming from a man who has never
cheated.
dra631 10 months ago
@L00kinThruPeripheral; u took the words out of my mouth. it doesn't make sense to commit with someone when down the road a person is going to be unfaithful to their significant other. people like tyrese have no common sense and heartless.
justmythoughts1234 10 months ago
Men like TYrese make my blood boil SO men have a pass to cheat and women don't. ITs upseting to me that if i were to put myself in a married womans shoes, cook ,clean, etc. etc., he has the right to cheat on me? Huh?
kryptoniteCTD 10 months ago 7
@kryptoniteCTD: the problem is that those who agree with Tyrese don't consider EMPATHY before acting on their desire to do what they feel is required of them to do
justmythoughts1234 10 months ago
@kryptoniteCTD thats far from what he was trying to say...but thats what everyone wants to hear
TheDeLaKore 9 months ago
@TheDeLaKore I understand that he was not justifying cheating. I'm irritated by the fact that from what he said people are going to use that as a source to jusitfy cheating themselves as i see several people doing in this post.Tyrese is one of those guys who understands the double standard but through his actions does nothing about it. To me thats like saying men cheat so what? Well thats cool if you're a guy but put yourselves in a good woman's shoes (yes they do exist) . That is a nightmare.
kryptoniteCTD 9 months ago
@kryptoniteCTD He never said men have a pass to cheat its just that a lot of woman like you hear what you want to hear instead of what people are trying to say. Even wendy couldnt stop interrupting him.
TRINIBOY411 9 months ago
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kryptoniteCTD 9 months ago
@TRINIBOY411 Tyrese DID NOT justify it but he DAMN Sure didn't stand against it either. Men & women Who go with the flow and accept this "Double standard" set the American family structure (especially the BLACK one) back decades. ITs funny because the average BM hates the "bitterness, Anger and ATTitude" Coming from a BW but what do you think CHEATING on your WIFE creates??? Skittles??? and BTW for those that missed it the "pass" (EXCUSE) was his comment "MEN are expected to cheat"
kryptoniteCTD 9 months ago
@kryptoniteCTD Tyrese DID NOT justify it but he DAMN Sure didn't stand against it either. Men & women Who go with the flow and accept this "Double standard" set the American family structure (especially the BLACK one) back decades. ITs funny because the average BM hates the "bitterness, Anger and ATTitude" Coming from a BW but what do you think CHEATING on your WIFE creates??? Skittles??? and BTW for those that missed it the "pass" (EXCUSE) was his comment "MEN are expected to cheat"
kryptoniteCTD 9 months ago
@kryptoniteCTD Thats what wife Stands for
W= Washing
I= Ironing
F= Fucking
E= Ect.
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robertjosephgreen 6 months ago
If you want a bad boy dont be shocked when he does bad boy things to you. Only a FOOL wil accept a cheating man and only a FOOL will have loads of kids with a man who will not commit to them, if the person is good enough to have multiple kids with why arent they good enough to marry.
DailyScheisse 10 months ago
Tyrese is an asshole, i wouldn't look up to him
justmythoughts1234 10 months ago
TYRESE CAN'T GENERALIZE "ALL MEN CHEAT" BUT HE CAN GENERALIZE "MOTHERS RAISED THEIR DAUGHTERS TO COOK, CLEAN, ETC."
AMERICA...I NOW INTRODUCE TO YOU THE NEW-WAVE 21ST CENTURY "UNCLE TOM."
bomshizzleful 10 months ago
Most women are looking for that BAD BOY image in guys anyway so when he said "its expected of men to cheat" most women know when they find that BAD BOY cheating is around the corner. If you find a guy who has money, his shit together, and already has women floating around what makes you think hes gonna stop everything once he gets to you? not saying guys cheat forever but it takes a while to slow most men down.
DeeDert 10 months ago
many in our generation need the ultimate reality check (men and women)... everything out his mouth in regards to both men and women should be insulting to us all... he makes substantial actions and decisions based on "legs, skirts, spaghetti, dipping out, passes" this boy has absolutely no clue what a relationship w. himself or anyone else is. if he is half as dense as he insists he is i would stay away from him and his likeness like nuclear weaponry... and that's the truth!
b3autiphulmokha 10 months ago 2
there are many things a part of "our" upbringing... love how people can distort "society" for their own benefits. if you are really that minimal in your thought process and you are older than 21 you are aging, you have yet to mature... cheating has to be the single most cowardice act.
and a guy that jumps from woman to woman has made his body a dumpster for any whore who chooses, it's far more unattractive than guys know and the same vice versa. no woman of quality wants a man w. no self-worth
b3autiphulmokha 10 months ago 2
Wow...Tyrese. Wow.
PlainRayna 10 months ago
it's not what one thinks, it's what one does that ruins the relationship.
think before being unfaithful towards your significant other.
justmythoughts1234 10 months ago
WENDY YOUR THE BOSS!!! TYRESE, THOUGH THE TRUTH MAY HURT, YOU TELL IT LIKE IT IS!!!
falangja17 10 months ago
@chocolate ur probably single too and/or don't know how to treat a man
shosaleen 10 months ago
No Tyrese your wrong my mum never taught me to grow up to cook and clean for men to stay! My mum taught me too get a good job, earn my own money and never rely on a man
chocolat80 10 months ago
@chocolat80 if you listen he said "MOST women raise their daughters"
hellobrittie 10 months ago
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@chocolat80 if you listen he said "MOST women raise their daughters" ...not every woman
hellobrittie 10 months ago
@chocolat80 yes both my mother and father taught me the same thing, too. they have been together for 40 years, and i have learned to be a G from my mother...her fav lines "what love got to do with it' from tina turner and 'anything u can do i can do better.'
dajewel1982 10 months ago
Tyrese is yet another Charlatan who, like Steve Harvey thinks he's qualified to speak on relationships. He should keep his mouth, because what came out is complete garbage spoken by a man who's never going to get married anyway. Real talk.
ezekielthemack 10 months ago
So basically he's saying men are born to be dishonest? Any woman who accepts this DESERVES to be cheated on. Why should a woman have to wait for her man to work out how loyalty and trust works, Tyrese is nothing more than a has been imbecile who is convinced by his own stupidity.
DailyScheisse 10 months ago
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i think another problem with why black men cheat is that we have the best of both worlds...white women love the chocolate...(here in england even more so)...black women love us...and mixed race women love us(black and white)...it doesn't make it right btw but all i'm saying is a guy can love you AND another girl aswell...don't feel bad.....you don't need to put a sticker on a guy saying that's your man...just be happy xxx
positiveblackman1 10 months ago
to be honest i think every black man needs a black woman in his life and myself as a black man i don't cheat but i'm done with relationships for a long time...i have a friend thats been with his wife for 20 years and they only stayed together for the kids...women sometimes you have to play your position...we all have the capability to love more than one person at one time...it's life...you don't need to claim one man...don't feel bad about having a no strings attached sexual relationship xxx
positiveblackman1 10 months ago
Wendy Williams showed why she is an unsophisticated, unintelligent host because she told a guest "it is time for you to go" just because that guest expressed an opinion with which she disagrees. She practically kicked him out of her show. A more sophisticated host would have responded with a counterargument or asked a question refuting what Tyrese said. His opinion also has some merit, so Wendy probably acted this way so as to appease her female fans.
princekinzo69 10 months ago
@princekinzo69 no disrespect but it was the end of the show and she was joking...that's why they were both smiling
positiveblackman1 10 months ago
Dude dug himself a HOLE!
papatoony 10 months ago
but...it Is part of our upbringing.....us men are BREAD to think this shit, were BREAD to think we need multiple females (which is wrong and BAD)...and were bread to think sex and feelings or sex and love..shouldnt be connected and dont HAVE to be connected. THATS the problem and thats the 1st part of why men cheat, 2nd part is...after all that, WEAK ass DELUSIONAL ass females...ACCEPT men doin it! Do yall really think dudes would contiue this if they KNEW they couldnt get away wit it? FUCK no!
SurreallTV 10 months ago 5
@SurreallTV If we're "bred" to think this way, then how can it be wrong and bad?
papatoony 10 months ago