What should i do, my gf left me and had to move to ohio, im so depressed she said she could wait to come back and i was waiting then she dumped me, i was welling to wait the 8 months for, i really dont know what to do anymore , i love nikki, and now 6 months later ive been trying so not to break but this is the hardest thing ive been through in my whole, can i have some advice
I have a story to share. I went to see my old pediatrician for a shot. I asked the nurse if I could see him. She said, "You're depressed, aren't you." I said yes and started crying. She said, "Doctor... will be able to help you. He helped me." I told my pediatrician that I didn't want to get counseling; I only wanted to tell him that I'm sorry I didn't make it into medical school. He said that there is a place for me thin this world, and gave me a huge. It alleviated six long years of suffering.
i kindly disagree, i cried when i heard what he had to say because i have battled the same thing and it was touching to hear that i wasn't alone in my struggle. It's so easy to hide it from others especially because when people nowadays are so heartless that they believe your attempts are for attention or that there is no reason why anyone should be quite so sad, even when you've never given them a reason to believe otherwise.
I really love the video you did on the suicide hotline, I just visited the postsecret website, and it really got to me.. I want to thank you guys so much, and everyone who worked on it. On behalf of those feeling like that.. including myself.. Thank you. <3
I said I did all the work except for the filming, which is entirely true. I also got everyone together, the music, told people what to talk about, and so on. Messaging people alone probably took at least four hours. I wanted other people to help with this, but no one felt like it. And while I planned for the rest of the video to be more collaborative, instead I just had to write everything out (except for you and Dan's individual parts).
There is an alternative to the Hopeline that is also in existence and that serves the very same purpose: The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline @ 1800-273-TALK. It's 24/7. Regardless of which you want to support, don't lose sight of the effectiveness of a suicide prevention hotline, and don't hesitate to use one whenever you need it.
This is a really wonderful video. There should always be outlets available for people who feel that they are close to attempting suicide, and have no one to tell. In reality, I'm sure they have many loved ones they could tell... but sometimes it just doesn't seem that way. That's why hopeline is so important.
This video is GREAT. We just started a To Write Love on Her Arms branch at my college and we're raising money to help support 1.800.SUICIDE. Thanks guys :)
TWLOHA supports a homophobic organization, Mercy Ministries. It is one of the very few charities that TWLOHA gives to, when it isn't just the founder keeping the money for himself.
The irony of a yaylife organization supporting organizations that cause so many homo's to off themselves every day makes me poop with disappointment ;-;
TWLOHA's terms clearly state that the creator takes a lot of the money, and that he sends a lot to Mercy Ministries. Look up Mercy Ministries, they do not hide that they offer (homosexual to straight) conversion therapy.
Because offering donations to Hopeline will allow it to continue to exist and give chances to people out there who do seek out the help to receive it. I think the "hope" here is that they will then use it instead of offing themselves. How do you expect it to exist without money?
great and valuable vid, but get rid of the music. It is truly terrible, and made me almost cry with laughter, which should not be the reaction to the message contained in the video.
Well donefor making the video. Don't let isiots of some people on here or in reality tell you different. Suicide is a serious matter. 3 of my friends attempted it, it failed the week after they died in a car accident. Trust me it can be prevented.
: ) i didnt know if this ever really got made. im glad i could have been a part of it. thank you tim, it was verry beautifully put together, and im sorry for all of your losses.
Suicide isn't worth it and to make jokes about this nature is really tasteless as well as heartless. Being someone that has been there and done that. I know the feeling believe me. Thanks for sharing this you all. God bless you all!
are you kidding suicide is HILARIOUS, and it's a good way to get life over with, whether you are bored of it, or you dont want to grow any weaker, older sicker, it's a gift from GOD(not literal there).
Your username is hedgehogsrule, LOL, you sir need to kill yourself, may I recommend asphyxiation?
THis video is, very affecting. I do deal with severe depression, tried suicide once, and have been recently thinking about it again. But this video, makes me question it. Nicejob on the video!
Wow, every single youtube video that I've watched these past few weeks have never fully loaded. This one fully loaded for some reason. This was a nice video, good job. (:
Anyone? Help?
rseagles14 1 month ago
I'm asking for help.... Help.
rseagles14 1 month ago
@wollclark same with me except I'm 12 yo 5'4 and 106 pounds.
DucksOnQuack037 1 month ago
sad story: ppl in dis video all got b& from postsecret forumz :'''(((
lukeisastalker 1 year ago
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Go fucking kill yourself.
dis0gree 1 year ago
I'm 18, 5'9 and 345 pounds. I'm never going to get laid or fall in love. Suicide is ALWAYS an option.
wollclark 1 year ago
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You guys make me depress, get over it and move on...plus if you kill yourself then you will have to go to the same process until you get over it...
ipLelouch 2 years ago
): ):
ac95ac 2 years ago
Say a friend of yours is talking about suicide. DO you call this number for him? and if so what wuold they do or have you do?
Blacksoljah 2 years ago
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stridencymetal209 2 years ago
What should i do, my gf left me and had to move to ohio, im so depressed she said she could wait to come back and i was waiting then she dumped me, i was welling to wait the 8 months for, i really dont know what to do anymore , i love nikki, and now 6 months later ive been trying so not to break but this is the hardest thing ive been through in my whole, can i have some advice
stridencymetal209 2 years ago
heyy man how r u doing with everything?@ stridencymetal209. i hope ur ok and if u need a buddy 2 talk 2 i got ur back
95nblair 2 years ago
I have a story to share. I went to see my old pediatrician for a shot. I asked the nurse if I could see him. She said, "You're depressed, aren't you." I said yes and started crying. She said, "Doctor... will be able to help you. He helped me." I told my pediatrician that I didn't want to get counseling; I only wanted to tell him that I'm sorry I didn't make it into medical school. He said that there is a place for me thin this world, and gave me a huge. It alleviated six long years of suffering.
luckyodeler 3 years ago
I still get chills everytime i see this..
PSCBecc 3 years ago
samme.
tinateeni 3 years ago
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PATHETIC
pricture 3 years ago
?????????
egyptiansushi 3 years ago
Aw this was very sweet guys! I hope it helped some people. D:
I agree with Sami though I feel left out now.
~MissKasey
kaseybaby93 3 years ago
Thank you very much for this video. I cried thanks to the boy at 1:23, it's beyond touching to know that you're not alone.
xeonha 3 years ago
by the way I'm also really scared now.
<3~~~
samilantern 3 years ago
o cute but i feel left out omg....
samilantern 3 years ago
^^^ hugs Dan!
James29621 3 years ago
the guy with the plaid shirt totally got my attention and his voice was so soothing and comforting.
sugarnuts781 3 years ago 8
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touching.. but they should've cut the in the plaid shirt with the black tie.. because sitting through his talking felt like FOREVER..
he has no presentation.. its quite dull..
nestraboo 3 years ago
-_-
lukeisastalker 3 years ago
s my d, face.
DMorlack 3 years ago 2
i kindly disagree, i cried when i heard what he had to say because i have battled the same thing and it was touching to hear that i wasn't alone in my struggle. It's so easy to hide it from others especially because when people nowadays are so heartless that they believe your attempts are for attention or that there is no reason why anyone should be quite so sad, even when you've never given them a reason to believe otherwise.
hellopixel 3 years ago 8
nice touching video... hated the music though
BloodyInsane 3 years ago 2
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Questionaire: How you lost a loved one to suicide?
Me: Yes, my ps3 shut down for no reason and now, it won't turn on.
HabibKh 3 years ago
I really love the video you did on the suicide hotline, I just visited the postsecret website, and it really got to me.. I want to thank you guys so much, and everyone who worked on it. On behalf of those feeling like that.. including myself.. Thank you. <3
theoriginalcoolkidz 3 years ago
Simply wonderful.
hugatree10 3 years ago
ohey - we're famous!
- val
lockhart000 3 years ago
This video has like 5 million views. Holy tits.
NoTAMATZ 3 years ago
5 mil? haha
thesecretseven 3 years ago
Who is the girl 4 minutes and 27 seconds in? She is gorgeous!
generalseanb 3 years ago
that's a boy? lol
lukeisastalker 3 years ago
omg she scared me!
eliinnos 3 years ago
Me =D
lohanaddict 3 years ago
you? =O
egyptiansushi 3 years ago
P.S. All the work my ass, Tim. You edited. It's a big part, but yeah...ass.
LearnResistLive 3 years ago
I said I did all the work except for the filming, which is entirely true. I also got everyone together, the music, told people what to talk about, and so on. Messaging people alone probably took at least four hours. I wanted other people to help with this, but no one felt like it. And while I planned for the rest of the video to be more collaborative, instead I just had to write everything out (except for you and Dan's individual parts).
thesecretseven 3 years ago
blpblpblp
LearnResistLive 3 years ago
There is an alternative to the Hopeline that is also in existence and that serves the very same purpose: The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline @ 1800-273-TALK. It's 24/7. Regardless of which you want to support, don't lose sight of the effectiveness of a suicide prevention hotline, and don't hesitate to use one whenever you need it.
jl0113 3 years ago
<3 thank you for uploading.
such a warm feeling has overwhelmed me.
Rachelfrommyspace 3 years ago
the guy in the plaid shirt has the most soothing voice ever
sensualvi0lation 3 years ago
This is a really wonderful video. There should always be outlets available for people who feel that they are close to attempting suicide, and have no one to tell. In reality, I'm sure they have many loved ones they could tell... but sometimes it just doesn't seem that way. That's why hopeline is so important.
Gl1tt3rn1nj4 3 years ago
You guys are awesome. :]
PSCxChristina 3 years ago
wow.. the views went from 4000 to 55000.
im glad frank put this on the blog.
so many more people aware : )
yay!
OMGPOPTARTpsc 3 years ago
This video is GREAT. We just started a To Write Love on Her Arms branch at my college and we're raising money to help support 1.800.SUICIDE. Thanks guys :)
pimpinswimmer666 3 years ago
TWLOHA supports a homophobic organization, Mercy Ministries. It is one of the very few charities that TWLOHA gives to, when it isn't just the founder keeping the money for himself.
egyptiansushi 3 years ago
The irony of a yaylife organization supporting organizations that cause so many homo's to off themselves every day makes me poop with disappointment ;-;
DMorlack 3 years ago
We're not sending the money to TWLOHA, but to Hopeline itself :)
pimpinswimmer666 3 years ago
really? that's really interesting, but who's your source? just wondering.
hummingllama 3 years ago
TWLOHA's terms clearly state that the creator takes a lot of the money, and that he sends a lot to Mercy Ministries. Look up Mercy Ministries, they do not hide that they offer (homosexual to straight) conversion therapy.
egyptiansushi 3 years ago
Does this mean we're famous now?
LearnResistLive 3 years ago
i just saw this on postsecret
keep going hopeline-people need it
brontekass 3 years ago
God bless you, Hopeline, for doing what you do.
b1blancer1 3 years ago
Great video guys!
(p.s. the guy talking from 1min22 is cute! :P)
pinkunicorn123 3 years ago
totally agree.
mysteriousmtball 3 years ago
I this sounds horrible... but I couldn't help think "When is the comedian going to come out?"
Other than that, this was a good video! :)
stalkingself 3 years ago
Oi... I meant to say that the music distracted me... Sorry!
It's great to read that this video changed people's lives, tho'... nice work :)
stalkingself 3 years ago
I dont see how donating money to the hopeline will save suicidal people. Really I dont
thegrimmfaerie 3 years ago
They'll be able to keep their phone lines open, and spread the word. And I'm sure training for their operators is not free.
shenaniJen 3 years ago 5
Office space and supplies don't come free, either.
b1blancer1 3 years ago
Because offering donations to Hopeline will allow it to continue to exist and give chances to people out there who do seek out the help to receive it. I think the "hope" here is that they will then use it instead of offing themselves. How do you expect it to exist without money?
DMorlack 3 years ago
WOW!
Just saw this on PS and it is amazing!
Thankyou for putting the effort into making this and letting people know that they aren't alone in this and that there is help.
tearsofred 3 years ago
great and valuable vid, but get rid of the music. It is truly terrible, and made me almost cry with laughter, which should not be the reaction to the message contained in the video.
berryesque 3 years ago
Your mom called and she said, "CALL.HOPELINE.TODAY!"
DMorlack 3 years ago
HEY THAT'S ME ^-^
lukeisastalker 3 years ago
Lovely Video, don't like the music in the background. Would have preferred just the voices of the people. :D
Go hopeline!
beatbritish 3 years ago 3
Well donefor making the video. Don't let isiots of some people on here or in reality tell you different. Suicide is a serious matter. 3 of my friends attempted it, it failed the week after they died in a car accident. Trust me it can be prevented.
XshizzlemizzleX 3 years ago
: ) i didnt know if this ever really got made. im glad i could have been a part of it. thank you tim, it was verry beautifully put together, and im sorry for all of your losses.
OMGPOPTARTpsc 3 years ago
Suicide isn't worth it and to make jokes about this nature is really tasteless as well as heartless. Being someone that has been there and done that. I know the feeling believe me. Thanks for sharing this you all. God bless you all!
JPPT1974 3 years ago
watch?v=1UEOZGFzPas
CaptainsParrot 3 years ago
This has been flagged as spam show
Remember kids, its down the road , NOT across the street.
7proxiesmudkipz 3 years ago
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Let people kill themselves if they want, it's not a decision that other people should make for you.
BTW, if you want commit suicide, first take nudes if you're a girl then get a chainsaw, and then decapitate yourself live on Stickam. It'd be AWESOME.
WildShoeTWT 3 years ago
your a fucking dumbass suicide is not a laughing matter it is serious. you are probably some dumbass with no life.
HedgehogsRule101 3 years ago
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are you kidding suicide is HILARIOUS, and it's a good way to get life over with, whether you are bored of it, or you dont want to grow any weaker, older sicker, it's a gift from GOD(not literal there).
Your username is hedgehogsrule, LOL, you sir need to kill yourself, may I recommend asphyxiation?
WildShoeTWT 3 years ago
Depression is a DISEASE that MAY lead to suicide if not taken care of properly.
You can't stop it; & Its hard to cure it.
Some people don't even know they have this disease.
Learn some respect.
tifveeey 3 years ago
Either that comment is lagging on my screen but that last comment was for WildShoeTWT.
tifveeey 3 years ago
okay that last part really got to me.
good job, you guys are wonderful
Taylor15 3 years ago
i'm proud to be apart of this, even if it is only for a split second. thank you for asking me.
fashiondale 3 years ago 2
THis video is, very affecting. I do deal with severe depression, tried suicide once, and have been recently thinking about it again. But this video, makes me question it. Nicejob on the video!
Live4Musicnalex 3 years ago
You guys got spammed. You're pretty much famous by now.
NoTAMATZ 3 years ago 2
We even got a spam video response! Deleted, though.
thesecretseven 3 years ago
Amazing!
Cherribudd 3 years ago
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nsenaratne 3 years ago
This has been flagged as spam show
FUCK MAN I know. But hey, do u want to watch TV on ur PC
You'll get all the SKY CHANNELS there is
AND from any country IN THE WORLD, on your pc screen!!!!
Go to this website...
frexis.*com/PCTV24.html
(DELETE the *)
check it out................its cool, i've got it myself.
nsenaratne 3 years ago
Never in my life have I been brought to uncontrollable tears by a youtube video.
:things WILL get better:
^THANK YOU for saying that .
I am choosing to believe you.
This video, I can honestly say, CHanged my life
PSCBecc 3 years ago 2
This is so incredible. Thank you. You are all the most amazing people, you really are.
GeorgielovesPSC 3 years ago 2
very, very wonderful video.
much love to all of you.
PSHbethanne 3 years ago 2
Nice.
NoTAMATZ 3 years ago
\m/
wintahdude 3 years ago 2
good job everyone :)
lukeisastalker 3 years ago
Wow, this was very touching. Great job.
tigerseye402 3 years ago
Ohtim <3
DMorlack 3 years ago
ohdan!
egyptiansushi 3 years ago
Wow, every single youtube video that I've watched these past few weeks have never fully loaded. This one fully loaded for some reason. This was a nice video, good job. (:
karlaaPSC 3 years ago
Wow, good video. My mom's father and brother, and then a cousin, all committed suicide.
girlitoldyou 3 years ago
wow, that's tough. Though it does run in families. :/
if you think any more may be considering, perhaps even just write an anonymous note to them with the number. may help. :)
egyptiansushi 3 years ago
Great job, Tim.
LXkoru 3 years ago
:))
egyptiansushi 3 years ago
the vid really touched me, it made me want to cry
halllmark 3 years ago
:))
egyptiansushi 3 years ago
This made me cry, you guys. :(
Thanks, though. It's beautiful and I'm glad you guys did it. And I'm glad Dan is doing better. <3
jenniferf84 3 years ago
don't cry, babe.
egyptiansushi 3 years ago
Beautiful. Great work, everyone...it's amazing to see so many people rallied behind a good cause. :)
Th3L13 3 years ago
woot.
egyptiansushi 3 years ago
wow...this was very good. almost made me cry.
thank you for posting this :)
immortaldeath 3 years ago
thanks for watching!
egyptiansushi 3 years ago
thank you for taking the time to put this together <3
stefanoperfili 3 years ago
thanks for participating <3
egyptiansushi 3 years ago
well done.
vallabee 3 years ago