f the s about vaginas, boobs, &uterus-s not being fully developed and the dude wont be attracted to you -you shouldn't be with a dude like that , a real man would be attracted to your personality, that makes a true guy ask for your hand in marriage. My parents have been married for 23 yrs im 15, my mom was stick skinny, til she had me &my sister, she's changed physical since they first got married & so has my dad but they're stil happly married because their feelings for eachother hasn't changed
@vipsince95 my point is , not all dudes look at what you got on the outside (like you said - your undeveloped uterus, boobs and vaginas . .) some are matured and see your personality just overpowering , which attracts the girl to the dude vis versa
@vipsince95 i wasnt saying that dudes wont be attracted to a skinny girl, i'm stick skinny i got a man, my mom was stick skinny she got married that way, i'm not saying that all guys are just about outer appearance, that's not the point i was trying to make. i was trying to say that girls shouldnt give their all, specifically sex, to a guy when they're not finished developing, physically AND mentally.
@vipsince95 the point i was trying to make is that young people arent mature and they dont need to be so focused on having REAL love and REAL relationships because the fact of the matter is, you're not ready for marriage in high school. you're not a grown up yet. grown ups get married because they're finished developing physically and mentally. kids arent. they're cookies arent finished baking. thats what i meant.
i agree with almost everything you said and you really used good examples for everything great video! the one thing i don't agree with is not putting yourself out there. i think that sometimes to get to the right person you have to be rejected sometimes in your life to learn that not everything in life comes easily, and when you find that person who loves you for you it makes it that much better. hes the one who saw past the imperfections and shallowness. that's just my opinion though ! <3
I thought women wanted emancipation? If you want to have the exact same rights as men, you also have to have the same obligations as men. I don't think that guys are supposed to ask out girls. Because being rejected can hurt a guy just as much as it can hurt a girl, even though we hide it. At least a girl always has her friends' backs. A guy's friends tend to be... you know. Dicks.
@hiitsjordyy its up to the girl, but honestly i'm not a big woman's rights activist or anything, i'm old school.. i believe that the man in a relationship should be dominant, and in looking for a wife, he should be the chaser. that's how i was raised. i believe a woman shouldnt have to initiate anything. a man should seek out his wife and pursue her... if a guy is too much of a wimp to come ask me out then he's not strong enough for me. i shouldnt be stronger than him.
You have spoken the truth.
Godwill3 10 months ago
f the s about vaginas, boobs, &uterus-s not being fully developed and the dude wont be attracted to you -you shouldn't be with a dude like that , a real man would be attracted to your personality, that makes a true guy ask for your hand in marriage. My parents have been married for 23 yrs im 15, my mom was stick skinny, til she had me &my sister, she's changed physical since they first got married & so has my dad but they're stil happly married because their feelings for eachother hasn't changed
vipsince95 1 year ago
@vipsince95 my point is , not all dudes look at what you got on the outside (like you said - your undeveloped uterus, boobs and vaginas . .) some are matured and see your personality just overpowering , which attracts the girl to the dude vis versa
vipsince95 1 year ago
@vipsince95 i wasnt saying that dudes wont be attracted to a skinny girl, i'm stick skinny i got a man, my mom was stick skinny she got married that way, i'm not saying that all guys are just about outer appearance, that's not the point i was trying to make. i was trying to say that girls shouldnt give their all, specifically sex, to a guy when they're not finished developing, physically AND mentally.
thenewvickylew 1 year ago
@vipsince95 the point i was trying to make is that young people arent mature and they dont need to be so focused on having REAL love and REAL relationships because the fact of the matter is, you're not ready for marriage in high school. you're not a grown up yet. grown ups get married because they're finished developing physically and mentally. kids arent. they're cookies arent finished baking. thats what i meant.
thenewvickylew 1 year ago
reply to 2:05 -what about your personality?
vipsince95 1 year ago
i agree with almost everything you said and you really used good examples for everything great video! the one thing i don't agree with is not putting yourself out there. i think that sometimes to get to the right person you have to be rejected sometimes in your life to learn that not everything in life comes easily, and when you find that person who loves you for you it makes it that much better. hes the one who saw past the imperfections and shallowness. that's just my opinion though ! <3
imaniiiiixox 1 year ago
@imaniiiiixox i value your opinion! thanks for your input (:
thenewvickylew 1 year ago
You just made my night a little bit better. I don't think I saw this video on accident.
duckienfriends13 1 year ago 4
I thought women wanted emancipation? If you want to have the exact same rights as men, you also have to have the same obligations as men. I don't think that guys are supposed to ask out girls. Because being rejected can hurt a guy just as much as it can hurt a girl, even though we hide it. At least a girl always has her friends' backs. A guy's friends tend to be... you know. Dicks.
hiitsjordyy 1 year ago
@hiitsjordyy its up to the girl, but honestly i'm not a big woman's rights activist or anything, i'm old school.. i believe that the man in a relationship should be dominant, and in looking for a wife, he should be the chaser. that's how i was raised. i believe a woman shouldnt have to initiate anything. a man should seek out his wife and pursue her... if a guy is too much of a wimp to come ask me out then he's not strong enough for me. i shouldnt be stronger than him.
thenewvickylew 1 year ago