Here is a funny story! I hid certain things from my children, like awards from previous work, so that they do not need to feel pressure to 'be good' or walk in my shoes. They have their own dreams. One day I might show them or maybe they will find the papers when I die.
Nao sou "orgulhosa" de tudo o que fiz na minha vida, mas nao me arrependo porque tudo o que fiz ou o que outras pessoas me fizeram, me tornaram o que sou hoje, e sou feliz por isso. Quando for mae, meus filhos poderao me indagar sobre tudo na minha vida e eu serei orgulhosa de poder relatar minha experiencia a eles, boa ou ruim que tenha sido. (Dizem que experiencia é o nome que damos aos nossos erros, sendo assim tenho muuuuuita experiencia!!!)
I don´t think so. In the end all acts we have done are done by us, and we are responsible for them and have to stand by them. So if these acts were shameful, they were bad, and we have got to endure the implications. It is hard, but correct.
I agree that we should often 'endure the implications' of our actions. However, the pain caused to others of revealing our actions is what i would like you to think about.
Of course you have to measure if it is worth it to reveal our actions or the pain we cause in doing this. I guess that there is no rule of thumb, it is always needed to check what the right way is, especially with our conscience.
I believe people that can be honest about their flaws, insecurities and mistakes are the most trustworthy and strong ones. Certain conditions crave certain acts. When we acknowledge that we are both devils and angels all of us, true compassion, gratefulness and connections can grow.
From a woman's view I think it's very important to know the real inside of a man's mind. Most of women naturally tend to think or see things from a different male's perspective. Relationships can get easier when women are able to open their minds and understand both sides of the story. Knowing a man's view and values is an extra step to break rules and open one's mind thru different concepts of life situations. It's an easier step to understand their soul.
My children, fortunately or unfortunately have known all of my flaws. It was a painful time, as nobody wants shadow areas of their lives to be displayed, but in our humaness may my children learn from my mistakes, I pray.
I used to be shy person, even any word of girls would make me blush :) Now I have discovered how to use my blush and other vices to make fun with that. I like to reveal my vices and I do it on fun way, while we all accept we are not perfect
Mi problema es que cuando no quiero que alguien sepa algo de mí, actúo como si no hubiera sucedido.. y llega un momento en el que hasta a mí se me olvida que sucedió.. y esto se que es malo porque se que podría caer en el mismo error.
I watched it. Really good! There is a natural drive nowadays to reveal both the good and the bad about ourselves. It was like a therapy for me, when I wrote my own book. It is very liberating as well.
I was such a wayward child & was really, really rebellious. and one bad thing about me is that when someone hurts me, sometimes, i tend to want to hurt them more than they did.
al heco trecho en otras palabra me gusta tu sonrisa en tucara loaamo y si me pued
guadalupe042567 9 months ago
Here is a funny story! I hid certain things from my children, like awards from previous work, so that they do not need to feel pressure to 'be good' or walk in my shoes. They have their own dreams. One day I might show them or maybe they will find the papers when I die.
danceswithcrayons 1 year ago
This is so true, Paulo.
My heart feels really heavy now. Maybe I should tell somebody what I did... :/
piotrekk8 1 year ago
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girlspring 1 year ago
Nao sou "orgulhosa" de tudo o que fiz na minha vida, mas nao me arrependo porque tudo o que fiz ou o que outras pessoas me fizeram, me tornaram o que sou hoje, e sou feliz por isso. Quando for mae, meus filhos poderao me indagar sobre tudo na minha vida e eu serei orgulhosa de poder relatar minha experiencia a eles, boa ou ruim que tenha sido. (Dizem que experiencia é o nome que damos aos nossos erros, sendo assim tenho muuuuuita experiencia!!!)
Tbretas 2 years ago
that's so true. We're ashamed of things we've done or been through but we should be proud we have conqured them.
katyburg 2 years ago
I love your books Paulo.. and i really like
you having a small talk with your readers..
By the way, when will be the English book printed?? are you writing the English version by yourself ??
i hope to read your biography soon.
NobilityObliges 2 years ago
Some things are simply best kept hidden.
timshel84 2 years ago
I don´t think so. In the end all acts we have done are done by us, and we are responsible for them and have to stand by them. So if these acts were shameful, they were bad, and we have got to endure the implications. It is hard, but correct.
floeynubi 2 years ago
I agree that we should often 'endure the implications' of our actions. However, the pain caused to others of revealing our actions is what i would like you to think about.
timshel84 2 years ago
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floeynubi 2 years ago
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Of course you have to measure if it is worth it to reveal our actions or the pain we cause in doing this. I guess that there is no rule of thumb, it is always needed to check what the right way is, especially with our conscience.
floeynubi 2 years ago
You have the guts to show off some deep odd acts Paulo! Great biography!
Acidecritics 2 years ago
I believe people that can be honest about their flaws, insecurities and mistakes are the most trustworthy and strong ones. Certain conditions crave certain acts. When we acknowledge that we are both devils and angels all of us, true compassion, gratefulness and connections can grow.
Telluselle 2 years ago
From a woman's view I think it's very important to know the real inside of a man's mind. Most of women naturally tend to think or see things from a different male's perspective. Relationships can get easier when women are able to open their minds and understand both sides of the story. Knowing a man's view and values is an extra step to break rules and open one's mind thru different concepts of life situations. It's an easier step to understand their soul.
colorado35 2 years ago
My children, fortunately or unfortunately have known all of my flaws. It was a painful time, as nobody wants shadow areas of their lives to be displayed, but in our humaness may my children learn from my mistakes, I pray.
trishwird 2 years ago
I used to be shy person, even any word of girls would make me blush :) Now I have discovered how to use my blush and other vices to make fun with that. I like to reveal my vices and I do it on fun way, while we all accept we are not perfect
theedi1 2 years ago
Mi problema es que cuando no quiero que alguien sepa algo de mí, actúo como si no hubiera sucedido.. y llega un momento en el que hasta a mí se me olvida que sucedió.. y esto se que es malo porque se que podría caer en el mismo error.
xzero001 2 years ago
I watched it. Really good! There is a natural drive nowadays to reveal both the good and the bad about ourselves. It was like a therapy for me, when I wrote my own book. It is very liberating as well.
dekmektsis 2 years ago
I was such a wayward child & was really, really rebellious. and one bad thing about me is that when someone hurts me, sometimes, i tend to want to hurt them more than they did.
mistyeyedlass 2 years ago