I like .. I also wished my estranged wife would like, not disconnect and abandon as she's done! Our wonderful little girl is losing out so much and my hopes for her are like a dying ember about to extinguish. Help is needed and hearing learned discourse like this would work better than what we currently have.
Very good, and much needed today.. with all the sex role changes in the last 35 years- couple's are confused and need guidance. How to resolve conflict is a crucial part of any relationship. He gives us in this video strong guidelines of what to do, and what NOT to do. I intend to employ his concepts in my troubled live in relationship.
In case you did not notice, this video's reference to the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse has to do with RELATIONSHIPS and not Bible prophecy or the Bible itself.
@robertjbassett Marriage tends to bring out or expose the 4 horsemen. The longer that a person is with a partner the more intimate they become with each other and the more that they know about each other, the more that can get under each person's skin and upset them. If either partner refuses to look at their own reactive tendencies then this tends to spell disaster for the relationship, for the marriage.
@robertjbassett Spirits are thoughts or so-called evil thoughts, thoughts motivated by reactive emotions. The apocalypse in this case means the end of the marriage or relationship. The presence of any one of the Four Horsemen means that the relationship is doomed to failure because at least one of the two people is not taking responsibility for their own dysfunctional issues, they are basically in denial and avoiding even looking at the possibility that they themselves might have a problem.
Gottman is an expert on what makes relationships work, by studying couples for more than 30 years. He describes the four types of communication that can kill a relationship, and how people who stay together have conversations and continually repair their connections.
I like .. I also wished my estranged wife would like, not disconnect and abandon as she's done! Our wonderful little girl is losing out so much and my hopes for her are like a dying ember about to extinguish. Help is needed and hearing learned discourse like this would work better than what we currently have.
Realness97 5 days ago
lol U of M social psych
Jenningzo 3 weeks ago 2
Very good, and much needed today.. with all the sex role changes in the last 35 years- couple's are confused and need guidance. How to resolve conflict is a crucial part of any relationship. He gives us in this video strong guidelines of what to do, and what NOT to do. I intend to employ his concepts in my troubled live in relationship.
peterrampionclark 1 month ago
Dr. Phil did not get divorced lol.
Rozhe89 3 months ago
Dr. Phil is divorced? Whoaaaaaaa....didn't know.
Goin2Back 4 months ago
i love that he disses Oprah and Dr. Phil. Thank you. :)
ursaminorislilbear 10 months ago
In case you did not notice, this video's reference to the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse has to do with RELATIONSHIPS and not Bible prophecy or the Bible itself.
PiPhD 1 year ago
i like this guy
robertjbassett 1 year ago
what marriage got to do with 4 horsemen
robertjbassett 1 year ago
@robertjbassett Marriage tends to bring out or expose the 4 horsemen. The longer that a person is with a partner the more intimate they become with each other and the more that they know about each other, the more that can get under each person's skin and upset them. If either partner refuses to look at their own reactive tendencies then this tends to spell disaster for the relationship, for the marriage.
PiPhD 1 year ago
@PiPhD i thought there were spirits that bring the apocalypse
robertjbassett 1 year ago
@robertjbassett Spirits are thoughts or so-called evil thoughts, thoughts motivated by reactive emotions. The apocalypse in this case means the end of the marriage or relationship. The presence of any one of the Four Horsemen means that the relationship is doomed to failure because at least one of the two people is not taking responsibility for their own dysfunctional issues, they are basically in denial and avoiding even looking at the possibility that they themselves might have a problem.
PiPhD 1 year ago
Gottman is an expert on what makes relationships work, by studying couples for more than 30 years. He describes the four types of communication that can kill a relationship, and how people who stay together have conversations and continually repair their connections.
lionine9 2 years ago 10
Makes sense to me...
turtlewalzer 2 years ago 5