visting the states i went to florida the Women there had nice attitudes, travelled to N.J. same thing even made friends at the salon.went NY. n oh boy, A blk guy who lived in the area i was stayin n was commin bac from college stopped to talk to me he was not tryin to get a date jus being friendly then 3 blk girls he knew came ova and started drama without gud reason. If they had lost the attitudes n communicated they wudda seen it was jus a conversation. i just had to laugh n shake my head.
A lot of black women will act like that way and this is no lie, because they are standing up for themselves. And they feel like their back is up against a wall. It feels like nobody is listening and nobody cares about them. Like when dating interacially the other people might say something racists and the black girl is going to get upset especially when her so called 'man' does not take up for her. Even when dating w/in the race, black men do not stand up for their women.
@kidunique10 Guess what, its not working. Having a hateful mean spirit will forever make them be the most hated group in America. Try smiling. Try being friendly. We all have issues. That is no excuse for rudeness. Besides, you can be nice to them and they STILL have attitudes. Screw that and them.
i'm a black female and i'm piss at these getho black bitches. so what if you got a fucking job you still on welfare bitch. different baby daddies, bald head, fat ass, black as shit bitches. think she better than a man that don't have a job rigth now but take of he's fucking babies emotionally and educationally unlikes some others and have the nerve to call him bumb. bitch you have to pay niggas to fuck you. someone pissed me off.
my own sister is an angry bw, evryday she has an attitude, when she gets on the phone with customer service, she alwys has an edge to her voice, evn in the initial startup of the conversation before a solution is met. she talks an acts like she's entitled to everything and we're all just in her way. her attitude grosses me out. she hates to see bm with wht women, n maybe not all bw are like that but id nvr date a girl like my sister, she makes me wanna scrape my brain with my nails....
no race has had it like black women so they have had to be strong and the man and the woman because black men have let black women down for 100's of years. bring it to present days, they had to see their dad leave their mum making her have to be even stronger. and now this new black men saying i don't date black women for this reason and that! no other race of women have to be the man & women, the hunter, protector, mother, father, working and put up with the constant bashing from everywhere!
@iamhaneil I somewhat agree, however I thinks it's more about how the media portrays things regarding black women and single moms etc....I know people who struggle witht the same issues in other races and I hope you don't think I was "bashing" black women. I'm just making a statement based on what I see around me. No disrespect to black women because I was raised by one and they don't come any better but our races has this stereotype for a reason. Unfortunately it's more dominate with us.
@Roobin08 you right a lot of sistas do have attitudes. im a black woman and Ive noticed it also. i hate it because i dont have an attitude but yet i get crap from black guys because of girls like this.
@aferg76 That's right it goes both ways, and not that it's all of them but some women in ALL races are like that because of past experience therefore they take it out on the remainder. It's not right but that's how it is, a man like me isn't going to take crap because of what the LAST nigga did yunno?
@aferg76 As far as you question about black men, it's not everybody. All I can say is that all men aren't men, but BOYS. It's up to you to determine which one you're dealing with because a MAN wouldn't do those things.
@Roobin08 do you know why black women are so defensive, so quick to standup for herself, and so quick to argue? try being us for a week and you'll see why. we are villified, debased, and humiliated by all races of men. we are called sheboon, ugly, fat, welfare queens, with a deprived IQ. Even black men supposedly hate us and are looking for a real woman thats not too much hassle. There is a lot of blame to go around to bm and bw but we cant always play the victim.
@iamhaneil Oh please! Enough with the excuses!!! ALOT of people have stereotyped against and have broken families. Have you been to other countries? Give a break with this crap. I don't care WHO you are, we all have problems. Black women in America have their ugly attitudes and always treat people like crap. Whether they are ghetto or not, they always have to start trouble and get loud and belligerent. There is no excuse for this. We all have problems! Thats a lame excuse.
All women have attitudes, not just Black women. Just because we don't see it, don't think that women of other races are more better. Im not saying that YOU (the guy that made this video) said that, so Im just making a statement. The attitudes from women stem from a demonic spirit. No doubt. It's more than what meets the eye, my brotha!
I completely agree to what you said, happened to find one of those girls, and happened not to understand completely what she asked me, and as soon as i sayd that I could not understand.
She spoke wery bad almost in gibberish, but i was really polite: she royally snapped!
She started pointing fingers, shaking head, insulting me in a very hard way calling me "muthafucka, whaaat aaaass cracka" and started calling dudes telling i insulted her.
I am a black female & I dont act like that. I'll admit that I do walk up the block with a face like im mad but i dont realize that I do that. like you said i am perfectly fine but my face doesn't show it. if you say hi to me i'll say hi back but some guys don't know how to leave it at that. sometimes we just really dont wanna be bother and we'll be nice and say hi back but then when we be like no you can not have my # they dont understand that. but i dont think that all of us are like that
I can relate to that. Everybody doesn't have an awesome day everyday and just don't want to be bothered. I definitely don't think ALL of black women are like that. Although this video was targeted to those who do and ONLY those who do. Thanks for te comment! =)
First of all, good day. I'm a 46 year old black woman, with 5 kids, and recently separated from my husband after 22 years. I've seen the first video "Black Woman's Attitude", and this is to the debate between MZKWAN & ROOBIN08. Now, after seeing the video, to me, I thought it was very degrading, hurtful, and mean. It made me feel bad. Like I was the lowest person in the world. But I know that I'm not. You see the reason why we have this "ATTITUDE" is because we have to put up with this.
Sweetheart, first I want to say sorry about your recent separation. Also thank you for respectfully disagreeing. Now I am lost, are you referring to MY video as "very degrading, hurtful, and mean" or the first video? If so PLEASE tell me what it was about this that was so incredibly hurtful? I am still not understanding how this can be so offensive to people unless it directly applies to them. The purpose of this video was to share my experience, thats all. I'm not wrong in doing that.
Roobin08, I didn't get to finished my comment because I didn't see it and I thought it didn't go through. No need to be sorry about my situation, my family and I are just fine. Anyway, I was referring to the first video "Black Woman's Attitude Stems from Jealousy of White Women??" I am hardly jealousy of any pale face white woman and my view on this issue is that if we seem to have an attitude is because we have a natural need to feel appreciated.
oh ok lol I didn't see that video myself but I can tell it's not something I'd be interested in watching because though some women of color may be intimidated or have animosity towards white women because of the large amount of brothers that date them, I hardly think jealously is the issue. I think a lot of black men make black women the issue too much and blame them for the reason why they date white women. thats just me. I agree with you on that.
A lot of times our brothers are very selfish and they don't think of our needs. You see, we are emotional beings and those emotions and feelings need to be addressed. We need to feel the love and we need to see the love and respect. If we had those emotions fulfilled in our lives, brother, you would never look for another woman again in your life because we would be your one and all! It's that simple. I don't know why that's so hard for brothers to understand.
This is true and personally I never had an issue dating black women. Although they aren't my first preference, but that has nothing to do with this topic of attitudes. I've dated more black women than any other race. Sisters are beautiful in my eyes, when they carry themselves in a way that shows their worth. But I'm speaking in reference to the black women who act out and do too much for unnecessary reasons. They make other sisters look bad.
I hear you, but those sistas don't know self. And, instead of putting them down and blaming the weight of the world on them like they cause all the wars in Iraq, Iran and everywhere else, they need some spiritual, healing words. You know words can cut, and when words cut you, you have to defend yourself. So, it's not a sista acting hood, it's a sista acting naturally normal. Now, I don't know what you mean by we act out and do too much for no reasons?!?! Could you clarify.
Again by saying "we" you placing yourself into the category the you don't want to be in which is the "Angry Black Woman" category. Now when I say act out for no reason is that I've seen a lot of black females get into meaningless arguments, fight, getting nasty with people etc... all in public where everyone is looking and laughing. That is not expectable behavior for any woman especially when the odds are against you because you're black or of color.
Sir, by me saying we, doesn't nessarily mean that I am putting myself in the same category as the women you're describing. That's how you interpret my saying we, I'm just relating to them as a Black Woman, the category to which you are talking. Now I understand the answer to the question I asked. And, again sistas like the ones you're describing don't know self. And, UNTIL WE ALL KNOW WHO WE ARE we will still be here in this forum like we are right now. Hotep.
@Roobin08 Please explain what do you mean by the'odds are against you?' I've been with my black man for 30 years and our love has NEVER CHANGED. I give him his space - likewise. I treat him when ever I can - likewise ect and we are both happy :-)
thats wonderful, I'm glad to hear that you marriage is working well. I wish you the best. I meant that nowadays some young women (not just black included) want the bad guy, they pay no mind to the nice guy but yet they give off an attitude towards most guys because of what the last man did. The have a chip on they're shoulder because of a bad experience that left them bitter. It's a very common thing now.
Firstly let me say many thanks for your replys and especially for not swearing. I have noticed that when ever I have a disagreement with black male on Youtube, most of the time the swearing comes in. Now comming from the UK, is constantly swearing an american thing! Don't missunderstand me it is just something I have observed. It is nice to know that I can send you an email and we can both respond to the emails like civilized mature adults!
Again Roobin08, I find some black men more difficult than the Crypton Factor and what ever makes them tick, I sure as hell don't know. Everything that you are refering to about black women I see the same thing but from a female point of view about some black men. Black men, I don't know!! At the end of the day as long as I have THE MOST HIGH, I will survive! Hotep
Now as far as catering to your needs, I can agree with that, although I was mainly speaking in terms of the black women that have a GOOD black man, but wont take the time out to notice or let him treat her how she should be treated because of what OTHER black men in their life did in the past. It could be a past relationship or even their father! It's very common in America within our community and it's a shame. Go watch the part 2 I did on this. It's a response to this video.
Greetings! I was also going to add in my last email to you that your views and points ALL seem to be focused on the black females. Yes I agree, I have seen the way some of them carry on. HOWEVER, I will also say this also applies to some black males and some of them don't want to hear that! I read on Youtube how one black man was REALLY running down black women. This insensed me so much that I read him the Riot Act, told him exactly where to get off and to stop comparing me to other females.
@dfolks15. every brother have tryd the respect root & found that disrespect gets a beter responce, i wish it was that simple but a man who is able to show love & feelings will be seen as weak to most BW, a BM not fullfiling a BW emotional needs, this is learned behavier from BW, there are a lot of single good BM that dont know why they are single. nuff respect to you if you are a different BW.
This video is ish! You could have kept this. How come black women are your only target. You need to check yourself. We got attitudes because of dumb stuff like this! Grow Up! Get real!
lol ok first off sweetheart the fact that you're even coming at me like this is placing you into the very stereotype I'm talking about in the video. I wasn't targeting anyone, I was simply making a video about a documentary I saw, and giving my opinion (which I am entitled to) on it. so all this TUDE is unnecessary because it's not like I was saying something rude and hurtful. No disrespect, maybe YOU should "grow up".
It is not Tude but Black women are getting hated on at an alarming rate. You mean to tell me that you don't see attitudes in white, asian, hispanic, and other races of women. Please. You should come to Atlanta we have plenty for you. I could respect this more if you didn't try to bash sistas talking about weaves and hair not right that is what I find offensive. This is my opinion as well! You video is ish!! By the way I am grown enought to know that please believe that!
First, yes I see attitudes in all races but that was not the subject here. Now I'm not going to apologize for anything but please do understand that those comments were strictly comical. Now unless you are one of those girls then there really is no reason for you to br this upset and to be tryna come for me over it. Please learn what it serious and what is not. Everyone else clearly got what I was saying and no where in this video was I "bashing" or "hating on" black women.
I also was responding to a video made by a BLACK WOMAN who said pretty much the same things I said....it's a humble thing to do when you turn a mirror on yourself.
As far as the mirror thing when I look at it I never see someone I am ashamed of. What do you see? Maybe the reason why black women seem so hostile to you is because they see your "fakeness". You want to "smile to make their day" and make Videos like this talking ish about them. Which one is it? Turn that mirror on yourself. Better yet look inside yourself and when you see just how fake you come across you will see what "WE" see! oh yeah NO DISRESPECT!
Thats what I'm saying rite there sista, no one was even referring to you! So for you to take this so personal makes one question how you must treat people regularly. At what point was I being "fake" I don't follow. I spoke from my experience with "SOME" black females but I did NOT say all. Trust hun getting along with women is not the issue because I know how to respectfully disagree with someone if need be which is clearly an issue for you. You made NO sense here, GOOD DAY & BE BLESSED!
Im a young black man. .ive been brought up by a black mother and a black father therefore i have been taught to respect my race and my culture. I do NOT hate black women.. infact hopefully i'll get married to a beautiful black women but MANY black women have a type of negative attitude towards their own black men and towards others. I find it very hard at times to talk to a sista especially when they are with their girlfriends. But do remember every race has their bad apples?. ..you could say:)
A lot of black women have fucked up attitudes but so does every other race. White women are the most stuck up women there is. It isn't just black women it is black men too with such attitudes. Black people we do exhibit a attitide but a lot of us don't know why. I believe we have such a strong will and are so proud a people that things that held us back in the past we would never let happen again. We have a chip on our shoulder from inequality and are willing to fight at the drop of a hat
You are right, some men have attitudes too. Some white women are VERY stuck up and ALL races have bad stereotypes that they can use to identify the other with because a few messed the image up for the rest. At the same time I wanted to point out that no one's life is without heartache and struggles. No matter what another man/woman did to you, it is NOT the next man/woman's fault and wrong to take out past aggression on them. A chip on you shoulder wont find you a husband or a happy marriage.
Black, Hispanic, White, Asian, Indian, Native American
______ women can have bad attitudes.
I must admit, my relaxed countenance could easily be misread as angry, or upset; but this is not to say that I am an angry black woman. I'm very easy going and hard to anger.
If black women, just as much as any other race, in general were treated with more respect and kindness maybe the world view of black women would change. *pipe dream*
I agree but also keep in mind that I speak from experience and NOT stereotypical belief. I don't go by what I think is but by what I know is for SOME black woman. Again I don't think that this applies to you given what you're saying in your comment but for many black women this does exist and those black women have even admitted to being angry as a result of bad relationships with OTHER men in their lives...For example their fathers.
I am an easy, calm girl. I usually hav a mean LOOK, only because I;m so used 2 b n picked with. Guys THINK they r complimentin me, wen they r insultin me. I mind my own business, I wave, speak wen I'm spoken 2. I WILL get an attitude tho, wen U r sayin somthin crazy 2 me, wen I didn't say n e thing 2 U. I dont expect 4 no 1 2 kiss my a**, I'm just sayin if U were 2 say "Hi, how U doin", & leave it @ dat, A LOT of people would'nt hav an ATTITUDE!
Well heres the thing...if you are not that type of woman then that means that this video does not apply to you. I was simply making a general statement based on experience with SOME black women I've come in contact with where a lot of the time "Hi, how you doin?" is responded to with an attitude. Thank you for your comment! ;^)
Ok when I heard the song I interpreted it having a misogynistic theme and since I'm a women, I took it as being cast in my direction. That set the atmosphere. I agree there are alot of angry BW out there but these women were not created in a vacuum. If you come across these women - run, my man, run for your m-f-ing life. She may have the Buffy booty,be the color flavor of the month, have paper but if she's toxic..what does all of that matter? Run
I can understand where you are coming from because I do have bad days too and I don't want to be bother, but I do take the time to smile back at someone whos just being nice. There are some woman with nasty attitudes, thats why there face starts to look hard and rough because they stress their self too much.....its not healthy.
Ummmmmmmmm, the first 32 secs. of the video is WHACK! I'll try to listen to what u have to say, (but that music...would make any woman have an attitude I mean really)... I feel you, but, we all have bad days sometimes; and some days people receive and some days they don't, keep moving & don't take it personal. Peace
wait but why did that song offend you i mean it wasn't targeted to any woman especially not you because i don't know you, but honestly i want to know what about that particular song offended you..i only chose it because it fit with the whole topic of stank attitudes and what often run through the minds of the girls in question when someone pisses them off...i don't understand how that would offend you...please explain hun?????
SEE that's what the real problem is. Why did that song offend her? No one on earth can say that song was directed to her.....BUT HER!!! If u did nothing for somene to be calling you a bitch then that means no one is calling you a bitch! Thats why black women have attitudes all the time.....becasue they take offense to EVERYTHING that has NOTHING to do with them
i didn't even read this comment and replied to her comment and i said exactly what you've written..i managed to gather within 2 seconds that you only chose that song tto set the tone of the clip and show the themes you was going to discuss..although i did think from it you would have come from an angle that men have disrespected them needlessly a lot (hence the song) etc etc i totally agree with your video though
thank you!!! by her jumpin to conclusions only proves my point, i mean no disrespect but if you are going to stand up for all women then represent them by being the opposite of what my topic describes! you betta go head man kudos for the back up
also for the record i wasn't saying that i do take it personal but i can relate because i have met ppl who come across so mean that it has turned me off and i also have had days where i purposely put the mug face on cuz i don't want to be bothered..thats all i was saying
wait wait...hold up??? did you not comprehend that song was used to set the tone and relate to the theme of the actual post...and there you go, through no fault of your own...you have just displayed that you are the poster child for this post...attitude for no reason andquick to voice out a negative opinion before you've even managed to get the full story...well done...oh and i expect an angry or sarcastic reply from you to this
visting the states i went to florida the Women there had nice attitudes, travelled to N.J. same thing even made friends at the salon.went NY. n oh boy, A blk guy who lived in the area i was stayin n was commin bac from college stopped to talk to me he was not tryin to get a date jus being friendly then 3 blk girls he knew came ova and started drama without gud reason. If they had lost the attitudes n communicated they wudda seen it was jus a conversation. i just had to laugh n shake my head.
EdenBeauty100 7 months ago
A lot of black women will act like that way and this is no lie, because they are standing up for themselves. And they feel like their back is up against a wall. It feels like nobody is listening and nobody cares about them. Like when dating interacially the other people might say something racists and the black girl is going to get upset especially when her so called 'man' does not take up for her. Even when dating w/in the race, black men do not stand up for their women.
kidunique10 10 months ago
@kidunique10 Guess what, its not working. Having a hateful mean spirit will forever make them be the most hated group in America. Try smiling. Try being friendly. We all have issues. That is no excuse for rudeness. Besides, you can be nice to them and they STILL have attitudes. Screw that and them.
Barfetta3000 8 months ago
i'm a black female and i'm piss at these getho black bitches. so what if you got a fucking job you still on welfare bitch. different baby daddies, bald head, fat ass, black as shit bitches. think she better than a man that don't have a job rigth now but take of he's fucking babies emotionally and educationally unlikes some others and have the nerve to call him bumb. bitch you have to pay niggas to fuck you. someone pissed me off.
skyyeblue101 11 months ago
my own sister is an angry bw, evryday she has an attitude, when she gets on the phone with customer service, she alwys has an edge to her voice, evn in the initial startup of the conversation before a solution is met. she talks an acts like she's entitled to everything and we're all just in her way. her attitude grosses me out. she hates to see bm with wht women, n maybe not all bw are like that but id nvr date a girl like my sister, she makes me wanna scrape my brain with my nails....
poetcstyle 1 year ago
great video
thugnificentg 1 year ago
no race has had it like black women so they have had to be strong and the man and the woman because black men have let black women down for 100's of years. bring it to present days, they had to see their dad leave their mum making her have to be even stronger. and now this new black men saying i don't date black women for this reason and that! no other race of women have to be the man & women, the hunter, protector, mother, father, working and put up with the constant bashing from everywhere!
iamhaneil 1 year ago
@iamhaneil I somewhat agree, however I thinks it's more about how the media portrays things regarding black women and single moms etc....I know people who struggle witht the same issues in other races and I hope you don't think I was "bashing" black women. I'm just making a statement based on what I see around me. No disrespect to black women because I was raised by one and they don't come any better but our races has this stereotype for a reason. Unfortunately it's more dominate with us.
Roobin08 1 year ago
@Roobin08 you right a lot of sistas do have attitudes. im a black woman and Ive noticed it also. i hate it because i dont have an attitude but yet i get crap from black guys because of girls like this.
aferg76 11 months ago
@aferg76 That's right it goes both ways, and not that it's all of them but some women in ALL races are like that because of past experience therefore they take it out on the remainder. It's not right but that's how it is, a man like me isn't going to take crap because of what the LAST nigga did yunno?
Roobin08 8 months ago
@aferg76 As far as you question about black men, it's not everybody. All I can say is that all men aren't men, but BOYS. It's up to you to determine which one you're dealing with because a MAN wouldn't do those things.
Roobin08 8 months ago
@Roobin08 do you know why black women are so defensive, so quick to standup for herself, and so quick to argue? try being us for a week and you'll see why. we are villified, debased, and humiliated by all races of men. we are called sheboon, ugly, fat, welfare queens, with a deprived IQ. Even black men supposedly hate us and are looking for a real woman thats not too much hassle. There is a lot of blame to go around to bm and bw but we cant always play the victim.
aferg76 8 months ago
@iamhaneil Oh please! Enough with the excuses!!! ALOT of people have stereotyped against and have broken families. Have you been to other countries? Give a break with this crap. I don't care WHO you are, we all have problems. Black women in America have their ugly attitudes and always treat people like crap. Whether they are ghetto or not, they always have to start trouble and get loud and belligerent. There is no excuse for this. We all have problems! Thats a lame excuse.
Barfetta3000 9 months ago
Yes it's a bad spirit in us ur right on slavory they killed us to there gods and that's the power over us that keeps us down. We need to brake it
MrIloveusaa 1 year ago
All women have attitudes, not just Black women. Just because we don't see it, don't think that women of other races are more better. Im not saying that YOU (the guy that made this video) said that, so Im just making a statement. The attitudes from women stem from a demonic spirit. No doubt. It's more than what meets the eye, my brotha!
dagreatcapri82 1 year ago
i know exactly what you mean,the thing i wonder about those type of women is ;what possible advantage is there in being like that!!!!!!
onlyjoetee 2 years ago
rite!! Thank you for understanding where I was coming from because clearly some of these other folks didn't lol
Roobin08 2 years ago
@Roobin08 why do black men feel they need to drop out of school, sell drugs, not parent kids. etc. there is blame on both sides.
aferg76 8 months ago
I completely agree to what you said, happened to find one of those girls, and happened not to understand completely what she asked me, and as soon as i sayd that I could not understand.
She spoke wery bad almost in gibberish, but i was really polite: she royally snapped!
She started pointing fingers, shaking head, insulting me in a very hard way calling me "muthafucka, whaaat aaaass cracka" and started calling dudes telling i insulted her.
i just hope she will never rise a child.
TheRealAxelFury 2 years ago
I am a black female & I dont act like that. I'll admit that I do walk up the block with a face like im mad but i dont realize that I do that. like you said i am perfectly fine but my face doesn't show it. if you say hi to me i'll say hi back but some guys don't know how to leave it at that. sometimes we just really dont wanna be bother and we'll be nice and say hi back but then when we be like no you can not have my # they dont understand that. but i dont think that all of us are like that
BksAriesBaby91 2 years ago
I can relate to that. Everybody doesn't have an awesome day everyday and just don't want to be bothered. I definitely don't think ALL of black women are like that. Although this video was targeted to those who do and ONLY those who do. Thanks for te comment! =)
Roobin08 2 years ago
First of all, good day. I'm a 46 year old black woman, with 5 kids, and recently separated from my husband after 22 years. I've seen the first video "Black Woman's Attitude", and this is to the debate between MZKWAN & ROOBIN08. Now, after seeing the video, to me, I thought it was very degrading, hurtful, and mean. It made me feel bad. Like I was the lowest person in the world. But I know that I'm not. You see the reason why we have this "ATTITUDE" is because we have to put up with this.
dfolks15 2 years ago
Sweetheart, first I want to say sorry about your recent separation. Also thank you for respectfully disagreeing. Now I am lost, are you referring to MY video as "very degrading, hurtful, and mean" or the first video? If so PLEASE tell me what it was about this that was so incredibly hurtful? I am still not understanding how this can be so offensive to people unless it directly applies to them. The purpose of this video was to share my experience, thats all. I'm not wrong in doing that.
Roobin08 2 years ago
Roobin08, I didn't get to finished my comment because I didn't see it and I thought it didn't go through. No need to be sorry about my situation, my family and I are just fine. Anyway, I was referring to the first video "Black Woman's Attitude Stems from Jealousy of White Women??" I am hardly jealousy of any pale face white woman and my view on this issue is that if we seem to have an attitude is because we have a natural need to feel appreciated.
dfolks15 2 years ago
oh ok lol I didn't see that video myself but I can tell it's not something I'd be interested in watching because though some women of color may be intimidated or have animosity towards white women because of the large amount of brothers that date them, I hardly think jealously is the issue. I think a lot of black men make black women the issue too much and blame them for the reason why they date white women. thats just me. I agree with you on that.
Roobin08 2 years ago
A lot of times our brothers are very selfish and they don't think of our needs. You see, we are emotional beings and those emotions and feelings need to be addressed. We need to feel the love and we need to see the love and respect. If we had those emotions fulfilled in our lives, brother, you would never look for another woman again in your life because we would be your one and all! It's that simple. I don't know why that's so hard for brothers to understand.
dfolks15 2 years ago
This is true and personally I never had an issue dating black women. Although they aren't my first preference, but that has nothing to do with this topic of attitudes. I've dated more black women than any other race. Sisters are beautiful in my eyes, when they carry themselves in a way that shows their worth. But I'm speaking in reference to the black women who act out and do too much for unnecessary reasons. They make other sisters look bad.
Roobin08 2 years ago
I hear you, but those sistas don't know self. And, instead of putting them down and blaming the weight of the world on them like they cause all the wars in Iraq, Iran and everywhere else, they need some spiritual, healing words. You know words can cut, and when words cut you, you have to defend yourself. So, it's not a sista acting hood, it's a sista acting naturally normal. Now, I don't know what you mean by we act out and do too much for no reasons?!?! Could you clarify.
dfolks15 2 years ago
Again by saying "we" you placing yourself into the category the you don't want to be in which is the "Angry Black Woman" category. Now when I say act out for no reason is that I've seen a lot of black females get into meaningless arguments, fight, getting nasty with people etc... all in public where everyone is looking and laughing. That is not expectable behavior for any woman especially when the odds are against you because you're black or of color.
Roobin08 2 years ago
Sir, by me saying we, doesn't nessarily mean that I am putting myself in the same category as the women you're describing. That's how you interpret my saying we, I'm just relating to them as a Black Woman, the category to which you are talking. Now I understand the answer to the question I asked. And, again sistas like the ones you're describing don't know self. And, UNTIL WE ALL KNOW WHO WE ARE we will still be here in this forum like we are right now. Hotep.
dfolks15 2 years ago
Ok I see what you're saying. Thanks for that clarification.
Roobin08 2 years ago
@Roobin08 Please explain what do you mean by the'odds are against you?' I've been with my black man for 30 years and our love has NEVER CHANGED. I give him his space - likewise. I treat him when ever I can - likewise ect and we are both happy :-)
Anuksonamun 2 years ago
thats wonderful, I'm glad to hear that you marriage is working well. I wish you the best. I meant that nowadays some young women (not just black included) want the bad guy, they pay no mind to the nice guy but yet they give off an attitude towards most guys because of what the last man did. The have a chip on they're shoulder because of a bad experience that left them bitter. It's a very common thing now.
Roobin08 2 years ago
Firstly let me say many thanks for your replys and especially for not swearing. I have noticed that when ever I have a disagreement with black male on Youtube, most of the time the swearing comes in. Now comming from the UK, is constantly swearing an american thing! Don't missunderstand me it is just something I have observed. It is nice to know that I can send you an email and we can both respond to the emails like civilized mature adults!
Anuksonamun 2 years ago
Again Roobin08, I find some black men more difficult than the Crypton Factor and what ever makes them tick, I sure as hell don't know. Everything that you are refering to about black women I see the same thing but from a female point of view about some black men. Black men, I don't know!! At the end of the day as long as I have THE MOST HIGH, I will survive! Hotep
Anuksonamun 2 years ago
Now as far as catering to your needs, I can agree with that, although I was mainly speaking in terms of the black women that have a GOOD black man, but wont take the time out to notice or let him treat her how she should be treated because of what OTHER black men in their life did in the past. It could be a past relationship or even their father! It's very common in America within our community and it's a shame. Go watch the part 2 I did on this. It's a response to this video.
Roobin08 2 years ago
Greetings! I was also going to add in my last email to you that your views and points ALL seem to be focused on the black females. Yes I agree, I have seen the way some of them carry on. HOWEVER, I will also say this also applies to some black males and some of them don't want to hear that! I read on Youtube how one black man was REALLY running down black women. This insensed me so much that I read him the Riot Act, told him exactly where to get off and to stop comparing me to other females.
Anuksonamun 2 years ago
@dfolks15. every brother have tryd the respect root & found that disrespect gets a beter responce, i wish it was that simple but a man who is able to show love & feelings will be seen as weak to most BW, a BM not fullfiling a BW emotional needs, this is learned behavier from BW, there are a lot of single good BM that dont know why they are single. nuff respect to you if you are a different BW.
rikshaw223 2 years ago
This video is ish! You could have kept this. How come black women are your only target. You need to check yourself. We got attitudes because of dumb stuff like this! Grow Up! Get real!
mzkwan 2 years ago
lol ok first off sweetheart the fact that you're even coming at me like this is placing you into the very stereotype I'm talking about in the video. I wasn't targeting anyone, I was simply making a video about a documentary I saw, and giving my opinion (which I am entitled to) on it. so all this TUDE is unnecessary because it's not like I was saying something rude and hurtful. No disrespect, maybe YOU should "grow up".
Roobin08 2 years ago
It is not Tude but Black women are getting hated on at an alarming rate. You mean to tell me that you don't see attitudes in white, asian, hispanic, and other races of women. Please. You should come to Atlanta we have plenty for you. I could respect this more if you didn't try to bash sistas talking about weaves and hair not right that is what I find offensive. This is my opinion as well! You video is ish!! By the way I am grown enought to know that please believe that!
mzkwan 2 years ago
First, yes I see attitudes in all races but that was not the subject here. Now I'm not going to apologize for anything but please do understand that those comments were strictly comical. Now unless you are one of those girls then there really is no reason for you to br this upset and to be tryna come for me over it. Please learn what it serious and what is not. Everyone else clearly got what I was saying and no where in this video was I "bashing" or "hating on" black women.
Roobin08 2 years ago
I also was responding to a video made by a BLACK WOMAN who said pretty much the same things I said....it's a humble thing to do when you turn a mirror on yourself.
Roobin08 2 years ago
As far as the mirror thing when I look at it I never see someone I am ashamed of. What do you see? Maybe the reason why black women seem so hostile to you is because they see your "fakeness". You want to "smile to make their day" and make Videos like this talking ish about them. Which one is it? Turn that mirror on yourself. Better yet look inside yourself and when you see just how fake you come across you will see what "WE" see! oh yeah NO DISRESPECT!
mzkwan 2 years ago
Thats what I'm saying rite there sista, no one was even referring to you! So for you to take this so personal makes one question how you must treat people regularly. At what point was I being "fake" I don't follow. I spoke from my experience with "SOME" black females but I did NOT say all. Trust hun getting along with women is not the issue because I know how to respectfully disagree with someone if need be which is clearly an issue for you. You made NO sense here, GOOD DAY & BE BLESSED!
Roobin08 2 years ago
True
jarmar2117 2 years ago
Im a young black man. .ive been brought up by a black mother and a black father therefore i have been taught to respect my race and my culture. I do NOT hate black women.. infact hopefully i'll get married to a beautiful black women but MANY black women have a type of negative attitude towards their own black men and towards others. I find it very hard at times to talk to a sista especially when they are with their girlfriends. But do remember every race has their bad apples?. ..you could say:)
Bunfire123 2 years ago
I agree with you 100%
Roobin08 2 years ago
This was very well said and I can relate!
Roobin08 2 years ago
A lot of black women have fucked up attitudes but so does every other race. White women are the most stuck up women there is. It isn't just black women it is black men too with such attitudes. Black people we do exhibit a attitide but a lot of us don't know why. I believe we have such a strong will and are so proud a people that things that held us back in the past we would never let happen again. We have a chip on our shoulder from inequality and are willing to fight at the drop of a hat
shiest13 2 years ago
You are right, some men have attitudes too. Some white women are VERY stuck up and ALL races have bad stereotypes that they can use to identify the other with because a few messed the image up for the rest. At the same time I wanted to point out that no one's life is without heartache and struggles. No matter what another man/woman did to you, it is NOT the next man/woman's fault and wrong to take out past aggression on them. A chip on you shoulder wont find you a husband or a happy marriage.
Roobin08 2 years ago
I hate this stereotype about black women.
Black, Hispanic, White, Asian, Indian, Native American
______ women can have bad attitudes.
I must admit, my relaxed countenance could easily be misread as angry, or upset; but this is not to say that I am an angry black woman. I'm very easy going and hard to anger.
If black women, just as much as any other race, in general were treated with more respect and kindness maybe the world view of black women would change. *pipe dream*
ladyEulaelie 2 years ago
I agree but also keep in mind that I speak from experience and NOT stereotypical belief. I don't go by what I think is but by what I know is for SOME black woman. Again I don't think that this applies to you given what you're saying in your comment but for many black women this does exist and those black women have even admitted to being angry as a result of bad relationships with OTHER men in their lives...For example their fathers.
Roobin08 2 years ago
I am an easy, calm girl. I usually hav a mean LOOK, only because I;m so used 2 b n picked with. Guys THINK they r complimentin me, wen they r insultin me. I mind my own business, I wave, speak wen I'm spoken 2. I WILL get an attitude tho, wen U r sayin somthin crazy 2 me, wen I didn't say n e thing 2 U. I dont expect 4 no 1 2 kiss my a**, I'm just sayin if U were 2 say "Hi, how U doin", & leave it @ dat, A LOT of people would'nt hav an ATTITUDE!
kievia04 2 years ago
Well heres the thing...if you are not that type of woman then that means that this video does not apply to you. I was simply making a general statement based on experience with SOME black women I've come in contact with where a lot of the time "Hi, how you doin?" is responded to with an attitude. Thank you for your comment! ;^)
Roobin08 2 years ago
Gotcha! You're welcome.
kievia04 2 years ago
Check out this video and post your comments on youtube. Type in (Why Do Black Men Prefer White Or Lightskin Women?)
jerscat 2 years ago
Excellent video.
IconListening 2 years ago
Ok when I heard the song I interpreted it having a misogynistic theme and since I'm a women, I took it as being cast in my direction. That set the atmosphere. I agree there are alot of angry BW out there but these women were not created in a vacuum. If you come across these women - run, my man, run for your m-f-ing life. She may have the Buffy booty,be the color flavor of the month, have paper but if she's toxic..what does all of that matter? Run
Malacyne 3 years ago
many black women, especially inner city black women have an entitlement mentality.
xxShannonGreenxx 3 years ago 6
Shannon,
Unfortunately, I HAVE seen this all too often and yes, mostly with sistas in the urban arena.
SeptiaWoman 2 years ago
I can understand where you are coming from because I do have bad days too and I don't want to be bother, but I do take the time to smile back at someone whos just being nice. There are some woman with nasty attitudes, thats why there face starts to look hard and rough because they stress their self too much.....its not healthy.
natacheen 3 years ago
good vid my man. xlnt points. i did a vide with jia and this dude edited together. love to get your feedback. thanks and god bless.
UROUTofT1ME 3 years ago
Great video brother me and my wife fully agree with you!
When we talk like this our backlash will be venomous from them
BlackJesus2153000 3 years ago
thank you and god bless
Roobin08 3 years ago
lol @ that song
shaylaphai 3 years ago
Ummmmmmmmm, the first 32 secs. of the video is WHACK! I'll try to listen to what u have to say, (but that music...would make any woman have an attitude I mean really)... I feel you, but, we all have bad days sometimes; and some days people receive and some days they don't, keep moving & don't take it personal. Peace
LGnLA 3 years ago
wait but why did that song offend you i mean it wasn't targeted to any woman especially not you because i don't know you, but honestly i want to know what about that particular song offended you..i only chose it because it fit with the whole topic of stank attitudes and what often run through the minds of the girls in question when someone pisses them off...i don't understand how that would offend you...please explain hun?????
Roobin08 3 years ago
SEE that's what the real problem is. Why did that song offend her? No one on earth can say that song was directed to her.....BUT HER!!! If u did nothing for somene to be calling you a bitch then that means no one is calling you a bitch! Thats why black women have attitudes all the time.....becasue they take offense to EVERYTHING that has NOTHING to do with them
young25swag 3 years ago 5
exactly! you betta go off! lol
Roobin08 3 years ago
i didn't even read this comment and replied to her comment and i said exactly what you've written..i managed to gather within 2 seconds that you only chose that song tto set the tone of the clip and show the themes you was going to discuss..although i did think from it you would have come from an angle that men have disrespected them needlessly a lot (hence the song) etc etc i totally agree with your video though
theboogieman9988 3 years ago 2
thank you!!! by her jumpin to conclusions only proves my point, i mean no disrespect but if you are going to stand up for all women then represent them by being the opposite of what my topic describes! you betta go head man kudos for the back up
Roobin08 3 years ago
also for the record i wasn't saying that i do take it personal but i can relate because i have met ppl who come across so mean that it has turned me off and i also have had days where i purposely put the mug face on cuz i don't want to be bothered..thats all i was saying
Roobin08 3 years ago
wait wait...hold up??? did you not comprehend that song was used to set the tone and relate to the theme of the actual post...and there you go, through no fault of your own...you have just displayed that you are the poster child for this post...attitude for no reason andquick to voice out a negative opinion before you've even managed to get the full story...well done...oh and i expect an angry or sarcastic reply from you to this
theboogieman9988 3 years ago
i just don't have the patience to deal with a woman with a sour apple face.
agray10returns 3 years ago 2
lol
Roobin08 3 years ago