I thank God i never witnessed any violence i dont know what id do. Id for sure call the cops and hope the person didnt have a weapon. I just prayfor the world so much evil is here and will never leave.
I had my best friend she was threatened by 2 of her kids dad but i never met him because we grew up had families and grew apart. I told her id be afraid i wouldnt know what to do her dad had to gaurd her home for a while. I dont understand when kids are involved get restraining orders are something . I dont believe in weapons but if i had to for the safety of my kids and i id probably have mase, a stun gun, a knife under mattress, a gun even though i hate them. Crazy people just dont go away!
I told her many times you are attractive, smart, good job, no kids, why are you letting these guys do this? She even had an abortion being afraid of what one would do if he found out i said im done. I didnt want to be the one you call to witness the dirty work i hated that i begged her not to abort. Now i have no sister no neice/nephew who knows what it could have been 2 babies because of controlling males. I just chose not to have her around i have my kids and i to think about now.
My sis was on my front porch her boyfriend did something because she made a noise as if he did something bad i swung the door open and said did he hit you? That day i got ghetto with his tail! Of course she said no but her belt ended up broken. Now i dont even hang with her because she continued to pick guys that pop up on us at the stores were ever we were. I just couldnt take it! We had to leave the spots we were at early and i was the one driving my car now i felt like i was the girlfriend.
Also yes some women are foolish to back to a man who will hit them,but some of them have low self esteem or it's all they know.Point blank too no woman should ever put their hand on a man as well. Whoever said this is right a man is stronger than a woman so he should know & is able to restrain himself @7:45.I know it will seem frustrating to see a woman go back into the issue over & over but no one should ever look away for you will regret not helping for it could've been someone close to you!
Ya'll made some valid points.I've never been in a situtation to have a man put his hands on me nor will it ever get to that point.Example I heard a woman telln her man to not put his hand on her so I called the police waited outside till the police came.The man came at the door & wanted to get a attitude with me.I told him I'm not his woman. Me bein a woman I could sit & not do nothin.I would be more wiser to what I do in person & I would help anonymously.
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Chris Brown is not a killer. Plus, there are lots of girls who START fights and hit guys. It's not always the guy. Boys get punked too. Plus, don't try to fix your relations. Tell them the info and trust they will act. Help them if they need it. But, if they don't want it....Stay out of it. Don't call the police, 'cause they don't care.
A real friend would call the cops for her. There are friends and then there are people who think they are friends but really there not - they are just useless people that are close by for some reason.
Is everyone tryiing to say that a women should be allowed ot put her hands on some one for the simple fact she is a women? That is a load of crap. If a feamle is throwing her weight around like a dude she better be prepared to be hit like one. I'm sorry thats just the way I see things dont hit anyone and your azz wont get hit back. And not all men are stronger then women that is absolutely FALSE!!! NO one should be abused either it being a man or women.
maaaaaaan that really sux i really wanted to see wat was happenin int the background, but i really do agree cuz he really shuldn't have hit her. he jus shud have been a man about it and jus walked away and non of that wud have happen.
Conclusion: Black women report domestic violence at the highest rate (65%-67% of abuse is reported). White feamles show 50% of the abuse is reported. Poorer women are more likely to suffer abuse, as are women 16-24. Those who don't necessarily report abuse, but have been found beat up/are getting beat up, etc are Black women. As for Black men they suffer domestic violence at a rate 62% higher than men of other races.
Forget damsel in distress. If these celebrity women cooked, they would know how to get a knife, frying pan, cook up some hot grits, pour some hot grease. Men think things are done when they go to sleep. That's when you get them.
You tell. DUH. A REAL friend tells and calls the cops. Black women get abused the most. Some chicks are secure enough to leave and some do have a sick liking for that. That fat dude is a jackass. Friend or fam you help out. Abuse isn't taken serious enough. Celebs get to do it all. C.B is a PUNK and any other beater.
What black women do you know? I know more white women that have been abused. I know plenty of black women that get in fights, but we know how to fight and we don't do damsel in distress.
I'm not talking opinion. It's a FACT Black women are abused more by 33%. Don't hide behind the "powerful, independent Black woman" stereotype. Black teens are also more likely to be bulimic as of recent. WE need to stop letting men break us down like this.
I am talking real world experience. I know black chicks that will start a fight quick and call the police. It's a fact that black women will call the police quick. My ex husband hit me once, in a car just like Chrissy tried. I threw the car into park in the middle of the street. I took the keys and he chased me i ran into a store and called the police. We made up, he went to sleep and I poured scalding water on him. He granted me a divorce. My, that was easy. SCREW DANSEL IN DISTRESS!!!!
Why would I have to know them personally? Does that make a difference? Does that change the statistics? Hot grits and scolding water doesn't change an abusive husband/bf. Some women for real are damsels in distress, because they have nowhere to go or feel people won't believe them or they can't afford to leave. Few women leave right away.
The issue with statistics is, they are easily manipulated. Are you looking at who files more reports of domestic violence. There are plenty of women (all races) who won't call because they can change him or don't want to get him in trouble. Can't afford to leave my tail! If they truly want out they will find a way. What's worth more the things you have or your life? Call a DV shelter or hotline, they will help. No sympathy from me, I left 6mos pregnant and broke, She could've left.
Well good for you, but, hey, bottomline, most don't leave. Everyone isn't some strong like you. Maybe to some it's better to get beat and have a home/food/clothing than to be dirt poor on the streets. Other women are embarrassed and ashamed, and like I said, sometimes people think they're lying. There are two types of EVIL people in the world: those who commit and those who omit. You sound like the latter. To be continued....
If they want to leave they can, the guys in this video are right. If a woman does not value her life enough to give up worldly possessions, her stupidity. If a woman chooses staying in an abusive relationship as opposed to going to a DV shelter and having to start over, she made her choice, I'm not crying for her. You can pat her up and tell her dumbass it's ok to stay, I'll be standing at the door with a clip while she packs up to leave. If she chooses to stay, she better not call me again.
A real friend would call the cops for her. I learned in church that a real is not just there for good, partying times, but also there when you're at your LOWEST. A good friend will risk you being mad at her if in the end you're helping her when she's too blind or insecure to help herself. Some don't leave, because they feel the man will hunt and kill them anyway. That does happen.
That's not true. Alot of black women get abuse. My aunt was abuse, my mother was abuse, my granmother was abuse. I think white, Asian, Black women get abuse all alike.
I can agree with that. I am willing to go with people (not just women) get abused. I am not willing to blame abuse on color or poverty. All races can be manipulated, and confused. I think every person should value their life more than material things or a relationship. And everyone should be taught that love shouldn't hurt (physically or emotionally). Bottomline: Everyone needs to keep their hands to themselves. If a person makes you so angry you want to harm them, that's not the person for you.
I say mind your own business; I don't get into my friends or relatives relationship whether it is fighting, fooling around or money issues. I stay out of it because I have enough with my own business. Now, if they ask me for help - I will help otherwise I keep my mouth shut about that man or woman. Because at the first opportunity they will gang up on me and I ain't having that!!
to me it's not a first for chris and riri i think her friends should have come out along time of the case she's a celebrity she gone b protected but sum ppl u cnt tell anything to
mind ur business it could be a life and death situation u dnt know by telling your friend sumthin u can get her ass whipped ..u just dnt know how crucial the situation is and sumthin people think it's luv dnt get in it ..if they get killed everybody has to go some way and fn around it couldve been both of yall family members is different a brother gone stand up for his sister
sorry im not sounding like a broken record. i actually ended a friendship bc of that i cant continue to be ur friend if u dont listen to me. but like maekyl said if they were real friends they shouldve stated that before or ended their friendship with her.
on reason why he possibly was not violent towards her in the past, she never had a body guard accompany her esp for that night. if he really was violent and was a threat then she wouldve had a body guard that night or a driver or somebody there. i feel both of u but kevin u are so right. when u r in that situation and speak to a friend a million times n they dont get it.
what if you beat up her dude and then she goes back to the nigga? what would be the point? if you like gettin your ass kicked, then i love it. if you dont like it, come over my house and get on my couch till u get ur shit together. i dont have time to live your life for you. first time, okay. second time, okay. t hird fourth fifth? - bye girl, fly girl.
yeah seriously it is not right but he has the money so he will get out of this and move on with his life who cares every body makes mistakes we no that we just have to relize that and just let it go who gives a flying crape
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lmao "Bitch It's Time 4 You TO GO!".... lmfao!!! But 4real why the fuck didnt she say anything if this shit was goin on previously?? And Rihanna, she hits him too! if you give that shit! you can get that shit back!! wtf?! i know tht 4 a fact? "now you wanna get your 15 mins of fame" lmao! man fuck it! I AINT EITHER ONE OF THEM SO IT'S THEIR FUCKIN PROBLEM. THEY SHOULDVE BEEN LEFT EACHOTHER ALONE.!
chris brown set himself up for failure..if the woman wasnt rihanna,or a celeberty, i dont think this situation would have as much hype..and didnt chris say he didnt want an industry girl?!?!?!?! he did it too himself..
Calling the cops is not your job but wouldnt you rather help your friend and not have the weight of them being killed when you could have done something, on your shoulders?
the part where one of you says.."it's something i would not regret...bcuz ive done evreything i could," well how would u have done everything if you wouldnt have called the cops?
chris and rihanna were ridin in the car and chris turned off the radio. Rihanna then said please don't stop the music.
Chris brown then said that rihanna had to shut up or he would beat her from wall to wall. Rihanna got mad and told him to shut up and drive. Chris brown then started beatin her with an umberella and when the cops started lookin for him he had to run it run it.
i dont think she would end up in the hopsital and the police involved if it wasn't serious. like makael said he coulda have killed her. if he slapped her once and she wasn't brusised who knows that coulda still be together today. if that was my sister or best friend, i could be rounding up my people and chris would be in the hospital right now. i dont think her friends ever saw him beat her like this before so they probably just brushed it off but like u said everyone want their 15 min of fame.
if i was scared for the victim (or any possible victims) i would contact the police anonymously - i would try and convice the victim to leave first
i agree with you about the other way around, if a woman hits a man like some dude u'd c in the streets beatin on another woman, it should be considered abuse
point blank. a man doesnt hit a woman. i need NO EXCUSE or NO FACTS. its an inexcusable thing to do. no matter what rihanna "did" to provoke him, a true man would walk away...not hit back, not be violent. I hate! how people are like, "leave chris alone, we dont know the facts." well we know he beat her. he didnt go to a hospital. SHE DID.
its like STFU dont judge EITHER party... i didnt say leave chris alone I SAID BE AN INTELLIGENT INDIVIDUAL AND LEAVE THINGS ALONE UNTIL WE HAVE ACTUAL FACTS
rihanna was a fool she got fooled ,she is such a beauty no man should ever hit her for any reasion ,she should have never got with him ,i hop she has learnt a good lession ,if she stays with him she is the biggest fool ever ,could end up dead.
You really you can't say what you would do if you were in that situation unless you've experienced it. Some woman are scared to leave their spouse because of them hitting and controling them. So its easier said than done. To say "leave em" is not enough unless you help them too. Now the thing to do is try to help that friend out of the situation. Call the police, make a report, something. But don't just stand by and expect them to handle it by themselves,
okay research proves that if u grew up in an abusive home you might grow up to be an abuser..chris grew up in an abusive home so when i first heard the issue i was not over the top shocked ... but my mouth was open cuz they looked good together.. what chris needs to do is issue a big apology to rihanna and jayz big time.he also needs to issue an apology to the public bigtime..when he does this his carrer will be safe because hes chris brown and every one loves him.he needs to end it with rihanna
I don't condone for a man to beat anyone; a man or a woman. But sometimes people earn their ass whopping and deserve to get one. We should reserve judgment till we hear the full details as to why this happened and stop this psychoanalyzing bullshit. It's not an abuse if your candy ass do something that deserve a smack down. I've NEVER beating a woman and don't plan to ever do, but oh I've seen some who definitely earned the beatings they received
if i had a friend who was going trough domestic violence i would not go to the police but i would definetly talk to her showing my concern about the situation.
I have a friend that is envolved in a relationship were she is abused and i did get involved somewhat. I told her that she need to leave this man or she will end up dead and she did not listen to me. u cant tell someone like that what they need to do cause they feel like u arent goin threw the situation so u don't know what ur talkin bout. not only is she gettin her ass beat but she has a child wit this man, so the only way to pull my friend out of this problem is in a body bag. mean but true.
honestly I would act like I'm minding my business but I would anonymously tell the cops, the reason being some people do not appreciate or are too scared to receive help, especially in sensitive situations like this.
If it was a friend of mine who was a girl, I'd confront the dude the first time. If it happened again, it'd be me and him. I don't want to go through a situation like Makael laid out.
Another great video. I agree with Kevin. You can't help someone if they are not willing to help themselves. If it was my friend of course I will try to help her out but she is control of her own life. If she wants to keep on going back to her abuser I can't stop her.
Now, if my friend/family is getting their ass whipped in front of me then I will definately do what I have to do to get him/her off of my friend. At that point if I have to become involved I am calling the cops. not only to save my friend but to save his ass too! :-D In a nut shell keep your hands to yourself! Its not worth loosing your freedom for something you can't change or save.
makeal just bcuz u report it, it doesnt mean she would still be alive. lets not be ignorant here. Most absuers will go after the frieds as well- verbally i mean and they will try to attack u.
It does look like the scene from "Beneath the Planet of the Apes," but in the movie they danced better & their mouths weren't full of mumbo jumbo coon gumbo.
I would say become involved and advise your friend/family to leave. However, if the person is hard headed DON'T do anything drastic. Why should you be bought up on criminal charges just so he/she can stay in that disfunctional relationship? Oh and they will stay. You have to be mindful that your actions have consequences. If you whip that ass for hurting your friend you could be the one doing jail time while they live their lives freely. Hell naw! MaMa can't do jail time for nobody!
I understand both your points. You can only help someone who wants to be helped. I saw one ep of Oprah about this subject and the best thing to do w/someone who stays in the situation is to DOCUMENT the violence. Write things down when you observe them. I don't pity ppl who stay in negative situations; she as a celeb has the power to leave unlike women who have kids involved and/or no money.
Love is a powerful thing and when someone is in an abusive relationship there is emotional and mental problems as well as many insecurities especially if they keep going back or they keep hitting or getting hit on. They need help and support and even if they don't take it in the relationship when they get out, while it's hard to swallow, it would be easier for them to have someone there for support to help take them through. Speak to them and notify somebody so at least things are known in case.
Kevin I think you're views are a bit twisted. While I understand how you feel I think you should also talk with your friend and be there to support them. Yes If I have spoken to you once and you still go back and it happens over and over it's frustrating but you should at least leave yourself available to them when they finally figure it out and get out of the relationship.
Sometimes you can tell friends/family the NEED TO LEAVE,and they dont hear shit you saying. BUT if its my best friend, mom, sister. THEN THE BITCH ASS NIGGA will be fighting us both. AS for Rihanna if he was constantly hitting him, then what he should have done..........IF you keep putting your hands on a MAN THAT IS STRONGER THAN YOU, YOU ARE A STUPID BITCH. It might have been th first time he HIT HER BACK. and I CANT blame him. She wasnt worth his life.
yeah i agree with makael. kevin, some of the stuff you were saying didnt make sense. it was contradicting. there's a double standard with men and women. people think its somewhat fine for a woman to hit a man. i have an uncle, most of his girlfriends youd swear were men at some point. he has been abusive with other women (smaller ones) and hes an alcoholic. he has tried to beat on these manly girlfriends and they have beat him bad. i mean swollen purple face bad. women can do much damage too.
i agree wit makael. yes it would be wrong for a man 2 hit a woman but if she is provoking him 2 do so she is givin him grounds 2 hit her back. it is not fair 4 a woman 2 keep eggin a man on like "oh u can't hit me i'm a woman" and think she can get off bein an abuser herself so if she hit him then hey don't play in the devil's playground cuz u askin 4 trouble. If she didn't then he would be out of line but we all just need 2 wait for those kids real story 2 come out b4 we pass judgment on anyone
a woman is not stronger than a man IN MOST CASES.but whether she is or not.let's say i am 6 feet tall 185 pounds. if a woman id 5'3 120 ..she need to STAY IN HER LANE!!! the moment she think she can take me like she on my level then it's not my fualt she ut her self in amn's position!!lol
chris rock said it best.."there is nothing worse than a woman THAT KNOWS YOU ANT GON HIT HER"
we don't know the details of the situation.but if this happened before i blame her people JAY-Z INCLUDED!!If they are so concerned then why let it go on for so long??i know sometimes the woman will stay even if loved ones tell her to bounce.that's why i handled my mom's situation myself.after that. the dude has to decide if he wants to deal with me gain..cause next time it happens IT'S ALL BAD FOR DUDE
I see Skorpion's point on this, trust me I almost died trying to help a friend in an abusive relationship, and then she turned around and stayed with him.
If she don't wanna be help then u can tell all you want, but if she constantly going back.. it means she dont wanna be helped, and since rihanna never said nothing or thought of it as a big deal then her friends aint say nothing, but i guess since its all in the media now, she has no choice but to say something cause if she go back to chris her fans would look at her like she's a stupid bitch.
I'm sure he feels horrible. He's still in teen angst. His emotions are raw. I think at the time he just saw red, but when he realized his actions he was immediately regretful and scared. That's where the , he ran off idea works.
You guys should have did some research on "Battered Womans Syndrome" before you did your video.
Some women find it hard to walk away from their abusers no matter how many times they have been hit, begged to leave, or involved police. Some women become psychologically conditioned to being abused. It takes months or years of therapy before they find the strength to leave.
yeah just cause we're now hearing her friends saying she had bruised marked whenever you said she had them doesn't mean that they didn't tell her to leave her. We don't know everything "remember".
Friends and Family being abused aren't different cause you try and help them the best that you can evern if they don't want it cause they will thank you later. well that's what a true friend would do.
I agree with Kevin that it's different. I love my best friend but I wouldn't kill for her or cover her crimes you know. Like this is a lesser scale but it's the same. U go "I'd kill for my sister" not my friend. I don't think Rihanna suffered long time abuse. She's the same girl who hit her lil brother with a glass bottle. I don't think she would've took it. This is an isolated incident, and we don't know what happened. honestly she did cause it if she hit him while driving. Equal treatment.
They are lying their asses off, they know shes an abuser it's a setup. The heffa is use to having her way. You know shes bossy and has been hitting him thru out the relationship.
Its all about double standards and years of brainwashing. She could have hammered him between his eyes causing death, punched his nose so hard it caused an aneurism, cut the windpipe in this throat with one sharp blow and his lights are out. Not to mention killing his swimmers in his nuts. Folks need to realize that women's blows can be just as dangerous. Stop all of that mess. I'm a female with ten years of martial arts experience...so tell me I can't hurt you.
Right. We are not weaker.She could have killed them both by attacking him in the car. Why is she a victim because she's the female. She's the agressor from reports, bite marks support that.. She chose her battle and she didn't deserve to be hurt brutally but she is no angel. Females want to be treated equal only when it's suitable. Thats what's idiotic. She attacked him as a woman older then him and more mature but not smart enough to not start a fight, what about herrr self control
Um.................. wasn't it Rihanna who had the bite marks? Just saying... I don't think Rihanna should just be blamed and go back to Chris after that whole ugly episode.....
yeah that's what I heard that She had the bite mark and Chris had only like one bruisd which was on his fist. I'm sure he made those bruise marks from hitting her. I think they need some therapy and then when they learn to control themselves then they can give it a try cause Chris doesn't seem that bad but still he beat her... so it's w.e I guess
she has bite marks because she was grabbing him, going for the keys or the wheel...take your pick. No one is absolving Chris but don't excuse her part in it. And she did play a part.
That's what makes her the agressor. Bite marks are defensive. As in she jumped on him and wrestled and he bit her off.. to not hit her, even though it's obvious he resorted to that anyway. If he had bite marks the choke story would be more believable
I've had friends in violent relationships and I have told them more than once to leave them alone. They didn't listen to me and I felt like there's nothing else I can do. People who usually stay have low self-esteem or trust issues. If it was a famly memebr especially my sis I would kill them or give them a good AZZ whoopin!!!I'll straight die for my family!!!
i agree with both of you no one should jit any body but a man should hit a woman because 9 times out of 10 his stronger and could hurt her reallt badly or even kill her but a women cant do that unless she has an object
my question why did god make men stronger? when i hear about stuff like this it really makes me wonder why he did that
If you have a friend thats getting beaten you simply try to help that person the bestw ay you possibly can =) If the person doesn't want to be saved then you cannot save them. Point blank. There is ony so much one can do, but you do what you can.
yesss Skorpion, i agree with you...it's a sticky situation..family and friends are different,BUT still..you can't save anyone, that doesn't want to be saved...well rihanna friends probably lying..they all need to sit they ass down..and really though this is gossip..and yes makael(no one shud hit each other)there's a double standard that it's okay for a woman to hit a man..NO bitch!! if i was a dude and girl hit me in the head with a brick..FUCK THAT!! bitch gettin her ass beat..simple!
Wow!!! yall 3rd video. Y'all was good then.
247tarzen 2 months ago
I thank God i never witnessed any violence i dont know what id do. Id for sure call the cops and hope the person didnt have a weapon. I just prayfor the world so much evil is here and will never leave.
sweetismami28 9 months ago
I had my best friend she was threatened by 2 of her kids dad but i never met him because we grew up had families and grew apart. I told her id be afraid i wouldnt know what to do her dad had to gaurd her home for a while. I dont understand when kids are involved get restraining orders are something . I dont believe in weapons but if i had to for the safety of my kids and i id probably have mase, a stun gun, a knife under mattress, a gun even though i hate them. Crazy people just dont go away!
sweetismami28 9 months ago
I told her many times you are attractive, smart, good job, no kids, why are you letting these guys do this? She even had an abortion being afraid of what one would do if he found out i said im done. I didnt want to be the one you call to witness the dirty work i hated that i begged her not to abort. Now i have no sister no neice/nephew who knows what it could have been 2 babies because of controlling males. I just chose not to have her around i have my kids and i to think about now.
sweetismami28 9 months ago
My sis was on my front porch her boyfriend did something because she made a noise as if he did something bad i swung the door open and said did he hit you? That day i got ghetto with his tail! Of course she said no but her belt ended up broken. Now i dont even hang with her because she continued to pick guys that pop up on us at the stores were ever we were. I just couldnt take it! We had to leave the spots we were at early and i was the one driving my car now i felt like i was the girlfriend.
sweetismami28 9 months ago
stas gordooo
carlos75531 10 months ago
GOOD JOB CHRIS..........
trustewiefan87 1 year ago
Also yes some women are foolish to back to a man who will hit them,but some of them have low self esteem or it's all they know.Point blank too no woman should ever put their hand on a man as well. Whoever said this is right a man is stronger than a woman so he should know & is able to restrain himself @7:45.I know it will seem frustrating to see a woman go back into the issue over & over but no one should ever look away for you will regret not helping for it could've been someone close to you!
NALESSEY 1 year ago
@NALESSEY In some cases people can change and they really do regret the abuse.
fashionhistorylover 1 year ago
Ya'll made some valid points.I've never been in a situtation to have a man put his hands on me nor will it ever get to that point.Example I heard a woman telln her man to not put his hand on her so I called the police waited outside till the police came.The man came at the door & wanted to get a attitude with me.I told him I'm not his woman. Me bein a woman I could sit & not do nothin.I would be more wiser to what I do in person & I would help anonymously.
NALESSEY 1 year ago
My only response to this is...
Never give up on anyone (friend, non-friend or family member)
Very similar for going for your dreams. Never give up! Take a different route. Prayer and action works! I can detest to that.
There is always a way through fundamental darkness, always!
bobby24love 1 year ago
wait wait wait !
lmfao at Kevin .. "u mostve luved it" . i luv U!
LadyBeex3 1 year ago
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MrLito197 1 year ago
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khyree1688 2 years ago
Chris Brown is not a killer. Plus, there are lots of girls who START fights and hit guys. It's not always the guy. Boys get punked too. Plus, don't try to fix your relations. Tell them the info and trust they will act. Help them if they need it. But, if they don't want it....Stay out of it. Don't call the police, 'cause they don't care.
escribe96 2 years ago
A real friend would call the cops for her. There are friends and then there are people who think they are friends but really there not - they are just useless people that are close by for some reason.
greenforestgal 2 years ago
i like what you guys had to say because a women shouldn't hit a man and a man shouldn't hit a women
crazihayrchyck 2 years ago
Is everyone tryiing to say that a women should be allowed ot put her hands on some one for the simple fact she is a women? That is a load of crap. If a feamle is throwing her weight around like a dude she better be prepared to be hit like one. I'm sorry thats just the way I see things dont hit anyone and your azz wont get hit back. And not all men are stronger then women that is absolutely FALSE!!! NO one should be abused either it being a man or women.
MrsBooker100 2 years ago
I'm letting my friend know that I'm concerned and if she doesnt do nutten bout it I'm calling the police anonymously ... ICAM w/ Makael.
And if I call the police ANON and she defends him and make evrything seem OK then she deserves whatever the hell she gets.
DaniAngel2006 2 years ago
maaaaaaan that really sux i really wanted to see wat was happenin int the background, but i really do agree cuz he really shuldn't have hit her. he jus shud have been a man about it and jus walked away and non of that wud have happen.
~Stephii
class91792 2 years ago
hey its snoop dog on the left lol..
gh0ngu 2 years ago
wat the fuck i wanted to see wat happened im going on miley bye :)
biglu2323 2 years ago
wazzup gey retard?
AlexTa99 2 years ago
Shut-Up Man Chill Out
recabo29 2 years ago
Conclusion: Black women report domestic violence at the highest rate (65%-67% of abuse is reported). White feamles show 50% of the abuse is reported. Poorer women are more likely to suffer abuse, as are women 16-24. Those who don't necessarily report abuse, but have been found beat up/are getting beat up, etc are Black women. As for Black men they suffer domestic violence at a rate 62% higher than men of other races.
LaLaRu100 2 years ago
Forget damsel in distress. If these celebrity women cooked, they would know how to get a knife, frying pan, cook up some hot grits, pour some hot grease. Men think things are done when they go to sleep. That's when you get them.
natosean 2 years ago
You tell. DUH. A REAL friend tells and calls the cops. Black women get abused the most. Some chicks are secure enough to leave and some do have a sick liking for that. That fat dude is a jackass. Friend or fam you help out. Abuse isn't taken serious enough. Celebs get to do it all. C.B is a PUNK and any other beater.
LaLaRu100 2 years ago
What black women do you know? I know more white women that have been abused. I know plenty of black women that get in fights, but we know how to fight and we don't do damsel in distress.
natosean 2 years ago
I'm not talking opinion. It's a FACT Black women are abused more by 33%. Don't hide behind the "powerful, independent Black woman" stereotype. Black teens are also more likely to be bulimic as of recent. WE need to stop letting men break us down like this.
LaLaRu100 2 years ago
I am talking real world experience. I know black chicks that will start a fight quick and call the police. It's a fact that black women will call the police quick. My ex husband hit me once, in a car just like Chrissy tried. I threw the car into park in the middle of the street. I took the keys and he chased me i ran into a store and called the police. We made up, he went to sleep and I poured scalding water on him. He granted me a divorce. My, that was easy. SCREW DANSEL IN DISTRESS!!!!
natosean 2 years ago
Why would I have to know them personally? Does that make a difference? Does that change the statistics? Hot grits and scolding water doesn't change an abusive husband/bf. Some women for real are damsels in distress, because they have nowhere to go or feel people won't believe them or they can't afford to leave. Few women leave right away.
LaLaRu100 2 years ago
The issue with statistics is, they are easily manipulated. Are you looking at who files more reports of domestic violence. There are plenty of women (all races) who won't call because they can change him or don't want to get him in trouble. Can't afford to leave my tail! If they truly want out they will find a way. What's worth more the things you have or your life? Call a DV shelter or hotline, they will help. No sympathy from me, I left 6mos pregnant and broke, She could've left.
natosean 2 years ago
Well good for you, but, hey, bottomline, most don't leave. Everyone isn't some strong like you. Maybe to some it's better to get beat and have a home/food/clothing than to be dirt poor on the streets. Other women are embarrassed and ashamed, and like I said, sometimes people think they're lying. There are two types of EVIL people in the world: those who commit and those who omit. You sound like the latter. To be continued....
LaLaRu100 2 years ago 6
If they want to leave they can, the guys in this video are right. If a woman does not value her life enough to give up worldly possessions, her stupidity. If a woman chooses staying in an abusive relationship as opposed to going to a DV shelter and having to start over, she made her choice, I'm not crying for her. You can pat her up and tell her dumbass it's ok to stay, I'll be standing at the door with a clip while she packs up to leave. If she chooses to stay, she better not call me again.
natosean 2 years ago
A real friend would call the cops for her. I learned in church that a real is not just there for good, partying times, but also there when you're at your LOWEST. A good friend will risk you being mad at her if in the end you're helping her when she's too blind or insecure to help herself. Some don't leave, because they feel the man will hunt and kill them anyway. That does happen.
LaLaRu100 2 years ago
That's not true. Alot of black women get abuse. My aunt was abuse, my mother was abuse, my granmother was abuse. I think white, Asian, Black women get abuse all alike.
54BrownEyez 2 years ago
I can agree with that. I am willing to go with people (not just women) get abused. I am not willing to blame abuse on color or poverty. All races can be manipulated, and confused. I think every person should value their life more than material things or a relationship. And everyone should be taught that love shouldn't hurt (physically or emotionally). Bottomline: Everyone needs to keep their hands to themselves. If a person makes you so angry you want to harm them, that's not the person for you.
natosean 2 years ago
how about nobody hits nobody unless it's self defense?
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lilrichynichols 2 years ago
I say mind your own business; I don't get into my friends or relatives relationship whether it is fighting, fooling around or money issues. I stay out of it because I have enough with my own business. Now, if they ask me for help - I will help otherwise I keep my mouth shut about that man or woman. Because at the first opportunity they will gang up on me and I ain't having that!!
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aquabat0587 2 years ago
to me it's not a first for chris and riri i think her friends should have come out along time of the case she's a celebrity she gone b protected but sum ppl u cnt tell anything to
tanishaandbilly 2 years ago
mind ur business it could be a life and death situation u dnt know by telling your friend sumthin u can get her ass whipped ..u just dnt know how crucial the situation is and sumthin people think it's luv dnt get in it ..if they get killed everybody has to go some way and fn around it couldve been both of yall family members is different a brother gone stand up for his sister
tanishaandbilly 2 years ago
if you bad enough to pass a lick you bad enough to take a lick
HouseBunnie08 3 years ago
sorry im not sounding like a broken record. i actually ended a friendship bc of that i cant continue to be ur friend if u dont listen to me. but like maekyl said if they were real friends they shouldve stated that before or ended their friendship with her.
babyluv24 3 years ago
on reason why he possibly was not violent towards her in the past, she never had a body guard accompany her esp for that night. if he really was violent and was a threat then she wouldve had a body guard that night or a driver or somebody there. i feel both of u but kevin u are so right. when u r in that situation and speak to a friend a million times n they dont get it.
babyluv24 3 years ago
Exactly!!!!!!!!!
Fellasluvme2 3 years ago
Yes!!!! I agree with Makeal because no woman should hit a man either....
desih17 3 years ago
Whoa, this is really interesting! I'm favoriting this and i am definately subscribing yous! <333
fanpire246 3 years ago
what if you beat up her dude and then she goes back to the nigga? what would be the point? if you like gettin your ass kicked, then i love it. if you dont like it, come over my house and get on my couch till u get ur shit together. i dont have time to live your life for you. first time, okay. second time, okay. t hird fourth fifth? - bye girl, fly girl.
justcrystalle 3 years ago
yeah seriously it is not right but he has the money so he will get out of this and move on with his life who cares every body makes mistakes we no that we just have to relize that and just let it go who gives a flying crape
0999loves 3 years ago
no guy should ever hit a girl
one time my EX-bf slapped me at school
haha i kicked his ass right infront of his friends
good times :)
breannduh 3 years ago
all i have 2 say iz wat i've been sayin since i 1st heard about this....GET THE ENITRE STORY B4 U GO MAKING A BUNCH OF ASSUMPTIONS THAT WHERE PUT IN2 UR HEAD BAI MANIPULATED MEDIA ;)
tracitrae 3 years ago
yes it is your job
AngieCutie27 3 years ago
i lol'd harder XD
ahmega 3 years ago
RealRecognizeReal11 3 years ago 6
uhm, wht chris did was wronq buh i mean i dont think he iss qonna beh charqed qith somethinq big
hannauuh25 3 years ago
well, guess what goes around comes around, if u know what i mean,m,m, haaaaaa
tonweoau 3 years ago
like my momma said......two wrongs...dont make ah right! (lol)say it again brah.
yallstilloweme81 3 years ago
NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH!!
Princessnene08 3 years ago
chris brown set himself up for failure..if the woman wasnt rihanna,or a celeberty, i dont think this situation would have as much hype..and didnt chris say he didnt want an industry girl?!?!?!?! he did it too himself..
cierra1993 3 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
chris brown = woman beating scum
rihanna = skanky ho
aint right to beat her no matter what she did or said. chris brown will get his just rewards.
all media should ban his music.
1AussieAvenger1 3 years ago
Calling the cops is not your job but wouldnt you rather help your friend and not have the weight of them being killed when you could have done something, on your shoulders?
eXclusiveSupastar 3 years ago 2
I love you skorpion....
msstevieduck 3 years ago
OT: But Skorpion what is your religion?
eXclusiveSupastar 3 years ago
Catholic
theskorpionshow 3 years ago 3
Oh ok.
eXclusiveSupastar 3 years ago
the part where one of you says.."it's something i would not regret...bcuz ive done evreything i could," well how would u have done everything if you wouldnt have called the cops?
AngieCutie27 3 years ago
Calling the cops is not my job
theskorpionshow 3 years ago 2
@theskorpionshow
lmfao.
i can hear u KEVIN sayin this. luv u but thats fucked up!
LadyBeex3 1 year ago
but i do agree with makael about her friends trying to come out the woodworks all of a sudden
beezy7118 3 years ago
I totally agree with skorpion 100%
beezy7118 3 years ago 2
chris and rihanna were ridin in the car and chris turned off the radio. Rihanna then said please don't stop the music.
Chris brown then said that rihanna had to shut up or he would beat her from wall to wall. Rihanna got mad and told him to shut up and drive. Chris brown then started beatin her with an umberella and when the cops started lookin for him he had to run it run it.
akarox5 3 years ago 2
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pinktwinkie09 3 years ago
Well is Rihanna going to rehab, sheesh Chris should have just kiss kiss.
RST432 3 years ago 2
Yes!!! Makael I agree with you on everything!!!
LetoyaLuckettFan 3 years ago
my man makeal killed it! that's my baby right there..call me keal
goscene23 3 years ago
liar
pinktwinkie09 3 years ago
i dont think she would end up in the hopsital and the police involved if it wasn't serious. like makael said he coulda have killed her. if he slapped her once and she wasn't brusised who knows that coulda still be together today. if that was my sister or best friend, i could be rounding up my people and chris would be in the hospital right now. i dont think her friends ever saw him beat her like this before so they probably just brushed it off but like u said everyone want their 15 min of fame.
AlbGurl 3 years ago
I also heard he threatend to kill rihanna.
I dont know if its true though
KeepTrue56 3 years ago
if i was scared for the victim (or any possible victims) i would contact the police anonymously - i would try and convice the victim to leave first
i agree with you about the other way around, if a woman hits a man like some dude u'd c in the streets beatin on another woman, it should be considered abuse
Movies123Online 3 years ago
the friends and family shouldve done more .. point blank
i HATE The fact that people are judging him and her without knowing full facts
the ONLY people we should judge are those who love them and didnt intervene when they saw the signs
ojoscafe189 3 years ago
point blank. a man doesnt hit a woman. i need NO EXCUSE or NO FACTS. its an inexcusable thing to do. no matter what rihanna "did" to provoke him, a true man would walk away...not hit back, not be violent. I hate! how people are like, "leave chris alone, we dont know the facts." well we know he beat her. he didnt go to a hospital. SHE DID.
thatsmemimi 3 years ago
thats the simple way of looking at things...
look @ the war in iraq thats the same mentality
OMG 2000 ppl died in 911 LETS ATTACK!
its like STFU dont judge EITHER party... i didnt say leave chris alone I SAID BE AN INTELLIGENT INDIVIDUAL AND LEAVE THINGS ALONE UNTIL WE HAVE ACTUAL FACTS
ojoscafe189 3 years ago
Ignorance is so rampant on this case
& Jumpng to conclusions and the Old Eye for an Eye is perhaps the most ignorant way of doing things
if something doesnt work the 1st time.. try a different way...
the sign of insanity is doing the SAME thing twice expecting DIFFERENT results
i suggest u read my comment honey. I wasnt defending either party.
Cast the first stone he who is free of sin....
ojoscafe189 3 years ago
Oh and Did i mention...
Im not a Chris Fan nor do I have any of his music...
So that argument is NULL & Void.
ojoscafe189 3 years ago
I would tell my friend to leave this person and advise the but i wouldn't call the police if they asked me not to because it's their choice
da3bool 3 years ago
i would tell
Greenterror 3 years ago
i dont know the full story, i heard chris browns aunt speak, but I dont know, I just chris learns his lesson and I hope Rihanna gets better.
KeepTrue56 3 years ago
rihanna was a fool she got fooled ,she is such a beauty no man should ever hit her for any reasion ,she should have never got with him ,i hop she has learnt a good lession ,if she stays with him she is the biggest fool ever ,could end up dead.
GODSjudgment 3 years ago
You really you can't say what you would do if you were in that situation unless you've experienced it. Some woman are scared to leave their spouse because of them hitting and controling them. So its easier said than done. To say "leave em" is not enough unless you help them too. Now the thing to do is try to help that friend out of the situation. Call the police, make a report, something. But don't just stand by and expect them to handle it by themselves,
alliehazelangel 3 years ago
I AGREE WITH YOU KEVIN!!!but then again makel has a point
smithquanna 3 years ago
okay research proves that if u grew up in an abusive home you might grow up to be an abuser..chris grew up in an abusive home so when i first heard the issue i was not over the top shocked ... but my mouth was open cuz they looked good together.. what chris needs to do is issue a big apology to rihanna and jayz big time.he also needs to issue an apology to the public bigtime..when he does this his carrer will be safe because hes chris brown and every one loves him.he needs to end it with rihanna
latoyaluckettfan 3 years ago
thats juss my opinion. and i agree with makael
latoyaluckettfan 3 years ago
i agree..
ljone125 3 years ago
I don't condone for a man to beat anyone; a man or a woman. But sometimes people earn their ass whopping and deserve to get one. We should reserve judgment till we hear the full details as to why this happened and stop this psychoanalyzing bullshit. It's not an abuse if your candy ass do something that deserve a smack down. I've NEVER beating a woman and don't plan to ever do, but oh I've seen some who definitely earned the beatings they received
edr1882 3 years ago
i agree with u
latoyaluckettfan 3 years ago
if i had a friend who was going trough domestic violence i would not go to the police but i would definetly talk to her showing my concern about the situation.
echiebai 3 years ago
I have a friend that is envolved in a relationship were she is abused and i did get involved somewhat. I told her that she need to leave this man or she will end up dead and she did not listen to me. u cant tell someone like that what they need to do cause they feel like u arent goin threw the situation so u don't know what ur talkin bout. not only is she gettin her ass beat but she has a child wit this man, so the only way to pull my friend out of this problem is in a body bag. mean but true.
jaszz2006 3 years ago
But Kevin it should havent made it to the third time You should have came up with a plan after the second time.
ANDREOFNORTHDALLAS 3 years ago
Yes because they videos when they were leaving and getting in vehicle and driving off.
ANDREOFNORTHDALLAS 3 years ago
honestly I would act like I'm minding my business but I would anonymously tell the cops, the reason being some people do not appreciate or are too scared to receive help, especially in sensitive situations like this.
isparklelikediamonds 3 years ago 2
right
ANDREOFNORTHDALLAS 3 years ago
my videos aren't even processing.
If it was a friend of mine who was a girl, I'd confront the dude the first time. If it happened again, it'd be me and him. I don't want to go through a situation like Makael laid out.
jaydub8907 3 years ago
i would tell i would talk to my friend first if they dont get im calling to cops
chaperel1985 3 years ago
Another great video. I agree with Kevin. You can't help someone if they are not willing to help themselves. If it was my friend of course I will try to help her out but she is control of her own life. If she wants to keep on going back to her abuser I can't stop her.
Melanie1502 3 years ago
You Two are AMAZING!!!! x.x.x
shelly22sm 3 years ago
guys your big break should be coming very soon this is great...
amack2015 3 years ago
HAPPY VALENTINES YOU TWO.
You guys are so right on everything. Very good views keep it up
6766177 3 years ago
Now, if my friend/family is getting their ass whipped in front of me then I will definately do what I have to do to get him/her off of my friend. At that point if I have to become involved I am calling the cops. not only to save my friend but to save his ass too! :-D In a nut shell keep your hands to yourself! Its not worth loosing your freedom for something you can't change or save.
binkybaby007 3 years ago
makeal just bcuz u report it, it doesnt mean she would still be alive. lets not be ignorant here. Most absuers will go after the frieds as well- verbally i mean and they will try to attack u.
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capon33 3 years ago
I would say become involved and advise your friend/family to leave. However, if the person is hard headed DON'T do anything drastic. Why should you be bought up on criminal charges just so he/she can stay in that disfunctional relationship? Oh and they will stay. You have to be mindful that your actions have consequences. If you whip that ass for hurting your friend you could be the one doing jail time while they live their lives freely. Hell naw! MaMa can't do jail time for nobody!
binkybaby007 3 years ago
I agree with Makael, if you aint say nothing b4 then dont say shit now. but you cant help those who dont help themselvs.
2PHILADELPHIA215 3 years ago
I understand both your points. You can only help someone who wants to be helped. I saw one ep of Oprah about this subject and the best thing to do w/someone who stays in the situation is to DOCUMENT the violence. Write things down when you observe them. I don't pity ppl who stay in negative situations; she as a celeb has the power to leave unlike women who have kids involved and/or no money.
Rus2946 3 years ago 2
This is a difficult subject because there are some women that will take the piss because they know that the man isnt gonna hit them.
What kind of friends does Rihanna have if theyre only talking about him hitting her before now they prob could have stopped it by tellin the police
monsweet16 3 years ago
Love is a powerful thing and when someone is in an abusive relationship there is emotional and mental problems as well as many insecurities especially if they keep going back or they keep hitting or getting hit on. They need help and support and even if they don't take it in the relationship when they get out, while it's hard to swallow, it would be easier for them to have someone there for support to help take them through. Speak to them and notify somebody so at least things are known in case.
theoneyoucantforget 3 years ago
Kevin I think you're views are a bit twisted. While I understand how you feel I think you should also talk with your friend and be there to support them. Yes If I have spoken to you once and you still go back and it happens over and over it's frustrating but you should at least leave yourself available to them when they finally figure it out and get out of the relationship.
theoneyoucantforget 3 years ago 2
Chris was wrong for hitting the girl so many times...and rihanna and her friends/family were wrong for not telling the truth from day one! PERIOD
It's sad...
dash971 3 years ago
makael said it the way it is. hitting is wrong no matter if the man hits the woman or the woman hits the man. it's still a crime
AnssiArpiainen 3 years ago
Sometimes you can tell friends/family the NEED TO LEAVE,and they dont hear shit you saying. BUT if its my best friend, mom, sister. THEN THE BITCH ASS NIGGA will be fighting us both. AS for Rihanna if he was constantly hitting him, then what he should have done..........IF you keep putting your hands on a MAN THAT IS STRONGER THAN YOU, YOU ARE A STUPID BITCH. It might have been th first time he HIT HER BACK. and I CANT blame him. She wasnt worth his life.
RST432 3 years ago
Dang it sounds heated in there, I wish I could see ya'all. It's great to talk about stuff like this :0)
BuildableBeauty 3 years ago
yeah i agree with makael. kevin, some of the stuff you were saying didnt make sense. it was contradicting. there's a double standard with men and women. people think its somewhat fine for a woman to hit a man. i have an uncle, most of his girlfriends youd swear were men at some point. he has been abusive with other women (smaller ones) and hes an alcoholic. he has tried to beat on these manly girlfriends and they have beat him bad. i mean swollen purple face bad. women can do much damage too.
sofloverpyro 3 years ago 2
aww no video
sharpsuitedmod 3 years ago
i agree wit makael. yes it would be wrong for a man 2 hit a woman but if she is provoking him 2 do so she is givin him grounds 2 hit her back. it is not fair 4 a woman 2 keep eggin a man on like "oh u can't hit me i'm a woman" and think she can get off bein an abuser herself so if she hit him then hey don't play in the devil's playground cuz u askin 4 trouble. If she didn't then he would be out of line but we all just need 2 wait for those kids real story 2 come out b4 we pass judgment on anyone
Tendra 3 years ago
I'd doubt Chris Brown got mad at rihanna coz of her reaction to his booty call, she probs got him really fired up and started being a smart ass
hakunamalaka 3 years ago 3
YO SKORPION DAWG!!!
a woman is not stronger than a man IN MOST CASES.but whether she is or not.let's say i am 6 feet tall 185 pounds. if a woman id 5'3 120 ..she need to STAY IN HER LANE!!! the moment she think she can take me like she on my level then it's not my fualt she ut her self in amn's position!!lol
xkaliber72 3 years ago
chris rock said it best.."there is nothing worse than a woman THAT KNOWS YOU ANT GON HIT HER"
we don't know the details of the situation.but if this happened before i blame her people JAY-Z INCLUDED!!If they are so concerned then why let it go on for so long??i know sometimes the woman will stay even if loved ones tell her to bounce.that's why i handled my mom's situation myself.after that. the dude has to decide if he wants to deal with me gain..cause next time it happens IT'S ALL BAD FOR DUDE
xkaliber72 3 years ago 4
Right on Makael! Violence is Violence. There would be less violence if people kept there hands to themselves PERIOD!!!
Vibegirl03 3 years ago 3
BASICALLY IT'S LIKE THIS...
my mom was married to this dude,he got brave one day and hit her..I PUT HIS ASS TO SLEEP AND KICKED HIS ASS OUT!
ANOTHER DUDE FEW YEARS LATER HIT HER I PUT HIS ASS IN THE HOSPITAL AND HE HAD TO AHVE PINS PUT IN HIS ANKLE AFTER I BROKE UP.
long story short..if it's family or very close friend i don't let the shit go on for long period of time i' gon handle that shit QUICK!!
THAT AT THE SAME TIME DON'T GET IT TWISTED ,CAUSE SOME FEMALES EGG SHIT ON THINK A MAN IS SOF
xkaliber72 3 years ago
I see Skorpion's point on this, trust me I almost died trying to help a friend in an abusive relationship, and then she turned around and stayed with him.
RandomHouse029 3 years ago 6
If she don't wanna be help then u can tell all you want, but if she constantly going back.. it means she dont wanna be helped, and since rihanna never said nothing or thought of it as a big deal then her friends aint say nothing, but i guess since its all in the media now, she has no choice but to say something cause if she go back to chris her fans would look at her like she's a stupid bitch.
DaWiiNeFiiNeDiiMe 3 years ago
i personally could never hit a woman unless it was in self defense and my life or well-being depened on it. even then i'd still feel bad.
AxEWorlD 3 years ago
I'm sure he feels horrible. He's still in teen angst. His emotions are raw. I think at the time he just saw red, but when he realized his actions he was immediately regretful and scared. That's where the , he ran off idea works.
20YearSoul 3 years ago 2
You guys should have did some research on "Battered Womans Syndrome" before you did your video.
Some women find it hard to walk away from their abusers no matter how many times they have been hit, begged to leave, or involved police. Some women become psychologically conditioned to being abused. It takes months or years of therapy before they find the strength to leave.
anastayjah715 3 years ago 3
my bf is a girl and if her dude was beating her....its a fight! ill get his mind right....
cegeorge0709 3 years ago
Lol. I have to say I agree.
Fabgyrl86 3 years ago
yeah just cause we're now hearing her friends saying she had bruised marked whenever you said she had them doesn't mean that they didn't tell her to leave her. We don't know everything "remember".
lutchmiperas 3 years ago
Friends and Family being abused aren't different cause you try and help them the best that you can evern if they don't want it cause they will thank you later. well that's what a true friend would do.
lutchmiperas 3 years ago
i agree 100% w/ makeal!
TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT!!!
a man is never right in hitting a woman.
a woman is never right for hitting a man EITHER because a person is only going to let u hit them so many times before they hit back!!!
SO LADIES BE CAREFUL B/C WOMEN YELLING EQUAL RIGHTS!!! WOMEN WHO PHYSICALLY BEAT UP GUYS IN AGRUEMENTS THEN WANT 2 U CAN'T ME BACK.
mcgee86 3 years ago 5
I agree with Kevin that it's different. I love my best friend but I wouldn't kill for her or cover her crimes you know. Like this is a lesser scale but it's the same. U go "I'd kill for my sister" not my friend. I don't think Rihanna suffered long time abuse. She's the same girl who hit her lil brother with a glass bottle. I don't think she would've took it. This is an isolated incident, and we don't know what happened. honestly she did cause it if she hit him while driving. Equal treatment.
20YearSoul 3 years ago 3
They are lying their asses off, they know shes an abuser it's a setup. The heffa is use to having her way. You know shes bossy and has been hitting him thru out the relationship.
goldendiva725 3 years ago 4
"they" means the friends
goldendiva725 3 years ago
Its all about double standards and years of brainwashing. She could have hammered him between his eyes causing death, punched his nose so hard it caused an aneurism, cut the windpipe in this throat with one sharp blow and his lights are out. Not to mention killing his swimmers in his nuts. Folks need to realize that women's blows can be just as dangerous. Stop all of that mess. I'm a female with ten years of martial arts experience...so tell me I can't hurt you.
goldendiva725 3 years ago 3
Right. We are not weaker.She could have killed them both by attacking him in the car. Why is she a victim because she's the female. She's the agressor from reports, bite marks support that.. She chose her battle and she didn't deserve to be hurt brutally but she is no angel. Females want to be treated equal only when it's suitable. Thats what's idiotic. She attacked him as a woman older then him and more mature but not smart enough to not start a fight, what about herrr self control
20YearSoul 3 years ago 2
Um.................. wasn't it Rihanna who had the bite marks? Just saying... I don't think Rihanna should just be blamed and go back to Chris after that whole ugly episode.....
kristif88 3 years ago
yeah that's what I heard that She had the bite mark and Chris had only like one bruisd which was on his fist. I'm sure he made those bruise marks from hitting her. I think they need some therapy and then when they learn to control themselves then they can give it a try cause Chris doesn't seem that bad but still he beat her... so it's w.e I guess
lutchmiperas 3 years ago
she has bite marks because she was grabbing him, going for the keys or the wheel...take your pick. No one is absolving Chris but don't excuse her part in it. And she did play a part.
I'm thru with it.
goldendiva725 3 years ago 3
That's what makes her the agressor. Bite marks are defensive. As in she jumped on him and wrestled and he bit her off.. to not hit her, even though it's obvious he resorted to that anyway. If he had bite marks the choke story would be more believable
20YearSoul 3 years ago
I've had friends in violent relationships and I have told them more than once to leave them alone. They didn't listen to me and I felt like there's nothing else I can do. People who usually stay have low self-esteem or trust issues. If it was a famly memebr especially my sis I would kill them or give them a good AZZ whoopin!!!I'll straight die for my family!!!
kmcru 3 years ago 2
i agree with both of you no one should jit any body but a man should hit a woman because 9 times out of 10 his stronger and could hurt her reallt badly or even kill her but a women cant do that unless she has an object
my question why did god make men stronger? when i hear about stuff like this it really makes me wonder why he did that
shamanamaniqua 3 years ago
Two wrongs dont make a right I agree ... We shoukd all keep our damn hands to ourselves male or female :)
lucianqueen85 3 years ago 2
I love the skorpion show
iratetruth 3 years ago
dudes this is excellent.
You should have your own talk show on AM Radio
lboygrace 3 years ago 3
If you have a friend thats getting beaten you simply try to help that person the bestw ay you possibly can =) If the person doesn't want to be saved then you cannot save them. Point blank. There is ony so much one can do, but you do what you can.
CareemBrownMusic 3 years ago
yesss Skorpion, i agree with you...it's a sticky situation..family and friends are different,BUT still..you can't save anyone, that doesn't want to be saved...well rihanna friends probably lying..they all need to sit they ass down..and really though this is gossip..and yes makael(no one shud hit each other)there's a double standard that it's okay for a woman to hit a man..NO bitch!! if i was a dude and girl hit me in the head with a brick..FUCK THAT!! bitch gettin her ass beat..simple!
Pharrellsnumber1 3 years ago 2
i agree lol
lucianqueen85 3 years ago
man yall niggas need to get famous yall would make a great tv show..REALLY!
danieldowdy 3 years ago
you can only help someone for so long before they have to learn how to help themselves..
BeeTeeV 3 years ago
Ya'll both make some pretty good points...kevin was right on in alot of the stuff he was saying...
BeeTeeV 3 years ago
thank you beeteev
theskorpionshow 3 years ago
no problem..thank ya'll for ya'lls usual crazy selves.lol..its good to mix in some of ya'll's humor in on serious issues..
BeeTeeV 3 years ago
skorpian PLEASe SHUT THE FUCK UP!
Like for real, How can you say someone loves getting their ass whooped.
TINA Turner, Chris Browns mom, all loved to get their ass whooped.
ITS NOT EASY FOLKS ITS NOT EASY.
Yall make it seem like it so easy to get the strength and leave.
KeepTrue56 3 years ago 2