It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is
Sometimes if you glance away for a second, while at a public place (bar or restaurant, for example), and your date looks in the same direction, versus continuing to look at you, it could show some insecurities on their part. They can be looking to see if you're checking out someone else.
@0505sophie I, too, thought the eyes were the "window". The whole "mirror" thing is new to me. A window leads in, you can see in, enter. A mirror.. Well, you're looking back at yourself, it reflects. Haven't heard it said that way. Clear it up for us, doctor? :)
haha idk if this dude is right or not but I did happening to look at this girl I liked in her eyes and her pupils were dialated but in any of her pics there smaller dots
thougths like " what if they think I'm weird, or dull or stupid, and that I'm soo not welcome into their group then well if it is so they will let you know that and there are others just move to the next one, mayde others who are weird, cause being weird just means that you are more intresting than the rest
I would never say that I'm popular but I do have many weird and funny friends who I really can trust. so for all you who are shy just try to ignore the fears or at least do not let them rule your life.
looking back I wasn't enjoying my life as much as I do today, and the truth is that I know that I'm a good and frendly person and if the one I decide to talk to does not like me there is others who do. by starting conversating with many different people the stakes for each one is less then if I just talk to one or two and you get more intresting people in your life.
I used to be very shy and anti-social. Today, I am nearly a complete 180 of who and what I used to be. My best advice is take your time with people and learn more about yourself through people.
i agree. for me, i might be interested, but i get so nervous that i dont make eye contact! but im still young so i guess ill get over it eventually :)
@sugar1973us You're not staring into the person's eyes, just looking into them from time to time, its to let the other person know you're paying attention to them. And to show that you like them.
try to figure out who you are and what you want the relation between yourself and the other person, and also try to see just what exactly you are missing out on by beenig shy. and what are the fears you have when you try make contact, is it low selfesteem or fear of rejection or fear of being hurt/ punched by the other.
I have been very shy so I know it's hard to face those fears but I also know that it will be worth it and it gets easier because everytime you overcome one you get stronger, I still have a long way to go.
Thanks for the advice. It's getting a little better. I just can't nail those direct glances across the room. It's happened to me a few times lately from guys and I can only give brief glances or look in their general direction. I'm still trying to practice. I think it's partly self-esteem and fear of being hurt. It's also upbringing--raised being passive.
@sugar1973us sorry for the late answer. I know it is hard to be happy and just go with the flow when someone flirts with u or so I've been really hurt(raped) by a man and it makes it difficult to get near other guys, even if they are nice and tell me that they want a date with me,
just try to think that they are looking AT YOU! I mean they are looking, they probably are interested in getting to know u and try to act confident even if your not.
@sugar1973us fear of being hurt is natural, but that fear is supposed to help us not restrain us, if u are too afraid to get closer u'll gonna miss all the fun times u could have with him. what I'm saying is this u don't know if something will end up good or bad u can get hints like he beats up the cat when he's drunk or calls others b**ches and so on
but most ppl are nice, if ur nice to them. just start by saying hi to them and ask to have a coffe or someting they might say yes
HAHA HE SAID THE EYES IS THE MIRROR OF THE SOUL AND ITS WINDOW INSTEAD OF MIRROR LOL
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Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is
MMArtist99 6 months ago
you can take that to the bank... MM!
BriHiggz 7 months ago
Sometimes if you glance away for a second, while at a public place (bar or restaurant, for example), and your date looks in the same direction, versus continuing to look at you, it could show some insecurities on their part. They can be looking to see if you're checking out someone else.
krisannRN 8 months ago
@0505sophie I, too, thought the eyes were the "window". The whole "mirror" thing is new to me. A window leads in, you can see in, enter. A mirror.. Well, you're looking back at yourself, it reflects. Haven't heard it said that way. Clear it up for us, doctor? :)
krisannRN 8 months ago
apple cyder makes the man lol
blaby4ever 8 months ago
1st gf..... im nervous as hell, im a really shy guy
leveethewall 9 months ago
DR. PAUL ...YOU ARE SHARP !!
novemberRainSD 10 months ago
yess the eyes ;) i flirt with my eyes a lot haha!
CookieBear99 1 year ago
You have really white teeth.
millymusicplayer 1 year ago
eyes are the mirror to soul? isnt it window?!
0505sophie 1 year ago
haha idk if this dude is right or not but I did happening to look at this girl I liked in her eyes and her pupils were dialated but in any of her pics there smaller dots
tonefresh 1 year ago
Good test. tx
Smoafagh 1 year ago
thougths like " what if they think I'm weird, or dull or stupid, and that I'm soo not welcome into their group then well if it is so they will let you know that and there are others just move to the next one, mayde others who are weird, cause being weird just means that you are more intresting than the rest
Zeldarules4ever 1 year ago
I would never say that I'm popular but I do have many weird and funny friends who I really can trust. so for all you who are shy just try to ignore the fears or at least do not let them rule your life.
Zeldarules4ever 1 year ago
looking back I wasn't enjoying my life as much as I do today, and the truth is that I know that I'm a good and frendly person and if the one I decide to talk to does not like me there is others who do. by starting conversating with many different people the stakes for each one is less then if I just talk to one or two and you get more intresting people in your life.
Zeldarules4ever 1 year ago
right on dock
7bakba 2 years ago
this is amazing , i like aloot
saysogirl 2 years ago
this guy is way better than Dr.Phil. Dr. Phil is a sellout
stavencapp 2 years ago 3
its like scarface
tony montana
the eyes chico..they never lie
2005cbc 2 years ago 3
hi dr. paul
Emmilita 2 years ago
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This is all bollocks.
Men - take along a bank statement.
Women - grab hold of his todger.
That is all you need to know.
OswestryGrey 2 years ago
I used to be very shy and anti-social. Today, I am nearly a complete 180 of who and what I used to be. My best advice is take your time with people and learn more about yourself through people.
JBthree24 2 years ago 21
I have such a problem with eye contact. I'm terribly shy. I need serious help.
sugar1973us 3 years ago 41
stop being self consious and having low self esteem.
VictoriaLykeRocks 2 years ago 5
i agree. for me, i might be interested, but i get so nervous that i dont make eye contact! but im still young so i guess ill get over it eventually :)
gymshorty23 2 years ago 4
just try not to think too much.
angelprincess12345 2 years ago
@sugar1973us You're not staring into the person's eyes, just looking into them from time to time, its to let the other person know you're paying attention to them. And to show that you like them.
clay180 1 year ago
@sugar1973us
try to figure out who you are and what you want the relation between yourself and the other person, and also try to see just what exactly you are missing out on by beenig shy. and what are the fears you have when you try make contact, is it low selfesteem or fear of rejection or fear of being hurt/ punched by the other.
Zeldarules4ever 1 year ago
@sugar1973us
I have been very shy so I know it's hard to face those fears but I also know that it will be worth it and it gets easier because everytime you overcome one you get stronger, I still have a long way to go.
Zeldarules4ever 1 year ago
@Zeldarules4ever
Thanks for the advice. It's getting a little better. I just can't nail those direct glances across the room. It's happened to me a few times lately from guys and I can only give brief glances or look in their general direction. I'm still trying to practice. I think it's partly self-esteem and fear of being hurt. It's also upbringing--raised being passive.
sugar1973us 1 year ago
@sugar1973us sorry for the late answer. I know it is hard to be happy and just go with the flow when someone flirts with u or so I've been really hurt(raped) by a man and it makes it difficult to get near other guys, even if they are nice and tell me that they want a date with me,
just try to think that they are looking AT YOU! I mean they are looking, they probably are interested in getting to know u and try to act confident even if your not.
Zeldarules4ever 1 year ago
@sugar1973us fear of being hurt is natural, but that fear is supposed to help us not restrain us, if u are too afraid to get closer u'll gonna miss all the fun times u could have with him. what I'm saying is this u don't know if something will end up good or bad u can get hints like he beats up the cat when he's drunk or calls others b**ches and so on
but most ppl are nice, if ur nice to them. just start by saying hi to them and ask to have a coffe or someting they might say yes
Zeldarules4ever 1 year ago
@sugar1973us Look inbetween the eye's. They think your looking into your eyes. It helps me.
childofreletivity 2 months ago