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  • arkady, good advice, always good to be genuine, but after saying excuse me, you could introduce yourself. hello my name is.... take it from there :)

  • very nice videos,and really nice apartment

  • i like Honey Nut Cheerios

  • Cheerios..... I kept looking there and had to watch the vid twice.

  • hi! I'M 19 and i've never had a boyfriend i know i'm not the prettiest girl but i'm not ugly either. I'M a nice girl, what is wrong with me?

  • ARE you from Greece Dude? i can find the Greek spirit inside you!! you must failed enough of times to get out from your uncomfortable zone so you can approach easily women now at the situation you are!!

  • what if she says lolk

  • wow! what a stretch: if I have nothing in my mind to start a conversation with (which means I am not in right mood), the only option you suggest is to go with a steal-balls direct approach?! hm... it's kinda surprising at first glance; but, at the end of the day... hell, why not to give it a try?! :) it's definitely better than "nothing" as you said. :)

    The only problem is, ladies do not like when men sound like assholes, but for most of us this trick not properly done will sound like that.

  • Guys,

    It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.

    Here's what you need to do

    Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com

    Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program

    Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist

    Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is

  • lol cheerios

  • u the man

  • Haha thx bro I think I'll give it a go ;)

  • Do it for the Honey! Do it for the Nuts!

  • Dear Gorgeous Arkady,

    do you think its ok to use this line for a woman to peak up a guy?

    IF not, what would you reccomend?

    I really prefer something like that, I like to be open, direct, but gentle, so a guy wouldnt get scared :-)

    Thank you for ur time.

  • @SantisandKisin

    Hello, you are too kind. Yes, if done right it will be a sign of great confidence and personality on a woman's part.

  • asking about the background (ethnic) is a pretty good icebraker.

  • i like the vids, but its not as good as i like Cheenos on your left lol, :)

  • I don't believe in pickup lines but I admit this is not bad. It's like straigt out of Compton.

  • That is so right!

  • "Your not askin her where the bread shelf is" lol

  • this video is brought to you by cheeriors

  • wait...if u say hes a lucky guy...and she wuld be lesbo

    then wat?

  • DUDE YOU ARE THE MAN.....ALMOST AS GOOD AS I AM...LOL...BUT EXCELLENT..WHAT HAS ALWAYS WORKED FOR ME IS SIMPLY BEING WHO YOU ARE AND SPEAKING WORDS THAT ARE VERY NEUTRAL IN MEANING. BASICALLY DON'T MAKE THEM FEEL ANY EMOTION THAT IS UNNECESSARY. GREAT ADVISE..

  • i kinda want some honey nut cheerios

  • So every girl I talk to will have the name Stephanie? 1:15 - 1:19

  • i've had experience with guys approaching me like that and yes, i'm impressed by their confidence, but if he doesn't say anything interesting afterwards he's not getting my number lol

  • I have a question, im a kid and there is this girl a grade higher than me that i really like and she knows but she likes someone else in her grade, they arnt dating but what can i do to get her to like me?

    Thanks, and remeber, you da man

  • Do you need a box of cheerios for this to work?

  • i am definitely going to try this soon

  • I´ve read a lot of books about how to meet women and so worth, for example "The Game". In my opinion all of them have been completly unhelpful and just full of s..t.

    There sort of hypocritical and just tells you what they think you want to hear, OR they completly destroy you by saying that bequse your reading this book you are a complete looser and have to apply our system to be succesful. Again there all full of it.

    You are the first one I´ve come across that gives real helpful advice!

  • I can see this line working when she's standing still or just shoping in any given store. But how would I go about meeting a woman if she's walking in the street?

  • How big is his house?

    Every video with different background

    Damn

  • awesome accent lol 

  • is that his reflection at the back ! 

  • First, ask her, "Are you a friggin' Feminist?"

  • WOW!! You really have put some confidence in me!!! Thanks mate!

  • some guy is pissing in the hallway

  • Just do It and stop watching

  • lol u guys watching this stuff, think its going to improve ur dating life... trust me, next time u c a girl u wont have the balls to go talk to her... and if u do, ull f. it up somewhere along the way... ull also come back to this video in a few years time and be like, this shit didnt work hehe

  • I got a pick up line that always gets me laid... Very nice, How much? Lol

  • @00000000000000o0 lol is that the first thing u say when u see them? what do they say ?

  • what If she replyed" ya you are intact your to ugly to be flirting to me " lol there goes your Friday

  • it is the best pick up line.

    but I'll change the "excuse me" into just "hi"

    its good to have eye contacts and give a gentle smile before the conversation.

  • good advice! I like the speaking slowly, clearly, and WAITING FOR HER RESPONSE ideas. good no-nonsense advice

  • 2:12 i´ll keep this in mind

    "speak out your mind"

    it´s the direct one. but it´s good because you actually just have to think, why did i look to her? why she is attractive? and say this to her and say i´d like to meet you

    i´ll remember this for my life

  • this guy is subliminally advertising (foodbox on teh left).

    i would definitely buy Cheerios. i buy now!!!!

  • What should i do if i crap my pants in the process??

  • There's this girl that I wanna ask out, I'm still in school btw, but I don't know when to approach her because she is usually with her friends and when I do get a chance to talk to her I always get nervous and stop myself. I think she might be interested in because when I sit next to her in class she likes to talk to me but I still don't know. Can someone plz help?

  • ur da best

  • Nice advice!

  • This is the scenario: She is single same height as me and i feel like pussy trying to talk to her. I really need ur help. I am a high school senior and she is a sophomore and we have 2nd hour together but its over next week. I basically have two days i really need your help. I been trying to approach her for 8 weeks and chicken out. I think i have female phobia or i don;t really know what it is.

  • first i thought it was some guy taking a piss in the background lols

  • i used this tactic and she said me are you watching videos of arkady39 on youtube?? lol

  • Very good advice and will work for many women because it is an honest approach. Thumbs up!

  • Wow! I luv ur videos, and I'm a girl!! Everything I've watched so far is sooo true! If a guy came up to me and said this, I'd be so flattered and impressed! Great work!!! Now if only you could do advice for girls....... lolz XD

  • nice honey nut cheerios asshole! ur an idiot. its obvious ur rehearsing this shit by making videos before u go out and u wanna reasure ur lack of confidence

  • nice honey nut cheerios asshole! ur an idiot

  • I've had alot of guys walk up to me and try this. It really makes me uncomfortable.

  • With cheerios you always get the females ! 

  • Arkady... you eeeeZzz the man sir! this one day i picked up this milf at the grocery store...dude... i beated around that bushy bushhhh =)

  • No lines always work.

  • CHEERIOS!!!!!!!!!!!

  • CHEERIOS!! this guy's my idol!

  • or you can say I never said I want to be your boyfriend I just want to meat you.

  • Too simple to be true

  • hmm I'm thinking he gets all his secrets from that opened box of cheerios damn I wish I had a box right now

  • in the last days I've seen there's something that ALMOST NEVER fails when meeting women. In any situation, in any landscape where you are, the woman is going through a scenario. If you manage to train your humor and make a small joke, and then retire, she will notice you. The problem, here, of course, is the "joke": well, it has to be: 1. simple and short; 2. the subject of the joke must be near to the most likely thoughts of the woman at that instant, in that scenario; 3. don't be a clown.

  • I've been also seeing your videos, and they are a great set of detailed advices. But I disagree here, about this particular advice: if a woman would come to me and meet me with such a line, "I wanted to meet you", the exact NEXT question for my mind would be: WHY? Was it because of my suit, my clothing or my suit? Was it because of my shoes? Damn, it seems she will be somewhat boring when we get to the stage of talking a little bit! But in the last days I've noticed (continues in next POST)...

  • cheriosssssss

  • hey who is in the background in this video?? beyond the doorway.

  • CHEERIOS!!!!

  • Thank you for this advice, i am sure it will work for most guys.

  • No offence but its not really a good pick up line because the girl is just going to say who the hell are you trust me I have friends that ran into these problems.

  • i don't agree with that ...'Excuse me' is not appropriate word for making the opener.Why the hell are u saying 'excuse me','excuse me' like you actually want someting from her ... every average guy would say that.you don't want to be average.You MUST NOT DO what other average guys are doing.You MUST be different and that's the secret of gettig the girl.

    More appropriate would be someting like: 'Hey,I saw you a couple of minutes earlier and i thought u are rly cute so a wanted to come and say hi

  • hey, I got an idea, how about everybody out there just be who you REALLY are, what is this a freakin drama class? think up your own damn line, that way, people get an idea of who YOU are. And there might even be a chance someone will like you better without the goofy pick-up line

  • woooooooooooooo he eats cherios!!!!! he has a healthy heart!! lol

  • Short, simple and to the point. Thank you arkady.

  • Isn't "Excuse me" forbidden to say when initiating a conversation with a woman ?

  • all pimps like cheerios

  • DUDE! Absolutely great, I have no idea where you come up with this stuff, but keep them coming!!!

  • This dude is a legend!! He got me my girl! I nearly lost her!! :(!! He helped meh save her!!! ;) and then helped me get mah first kiss on her ;)) tyvm

  • well what if

    you say: exuce me

    she says yes

    u say i just noticed u and i wanted to meet u

    wat if she say oh ok

    thats nice

    then what do you say

  • in the back of my mind I always know that if i embarrass my self at the grocery store it highly unlikely i will see the same person again let alone they remember me a week later. thats how i get my confidence

  • What if she says "why?"

  • If a guy said that to me and I was single and maybe even a little interested, I wouldn't tell him my name just like that. I would probably laugh and say, "Oh, really?"

  • I'm sorry. What you mean by "meet you"? Does it mean having a date? Or just "I'd like to know you better / to talk to you"? If the first one is the case, then I have a problem. If I say "meet you" in my language, I think it will look too agressive.

    Thank you v-e-r-y v-e-r-y much for sharing your valuable and inestimable knowledge!

  • Who is that in the background?

  • Wow, I'm a girl and this approach would work perfectly with me! Simple, short, and casual! I hate when guys try these awkwards pick-up lines on me.. it never works and makes the both of us uncomfortable..

  • i luv this guy!!!

  • can this be used in high school?

  • HONEY NUT CHEERIOS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • ....... i did just what u said..

    1. she thought i was creepy.

    2. she thought i would rape her or something..

    3.she said if i didn`t go away she would call the police...

    4. i hate my life..

  • I think I'm going to try asking where the breadshelf is as a pick-up line as a kind of challenge. Actually, it's just kooky enough to work especially if there is nothing resembling a breadshelf anywhere in the area, though I will probably just come off as insane.

  • it game me a 80% success rate thanks man

  • it game me a 80% success rate thanks man

  • Also I did kind of start with the "Hi i really want to meet you" but screwed it up afterwards...

  • Should've seen this video before making a fool of myself telling her i liked her a day after i met her. Now i have no fucking idea how to approach her anymore. She acts oblivious and I'm like OMFGGGG

    Someone help! To make things worse she has a bf D:

    I'm seriously about to go insane >__>

  • Tell her she has nice boobs

  • Good advice, but how to respond to a snotty response like "Okaaaay?" or something of that sort. How would I take advantage of that situation?

  • VERY goo advice. I consider myself as being witty. I've noticed that the simple most sincere approaches are the most powerful. Save the being funny and philosophical conversations until you both are already comfortable. This using confidence thing is what the key is. If your like me, I like to play an come off as overly confidant to women who are really shy just to excite them. Knowing that there not used to having to much attention. LOL I love it. I make great friends this way. hot or not

  • lol its good, but when i think of the girls in my area, theyll probably just start laughing .

  • The doll in the background is cool!

  • i have to say that this dude has more skill than chuck norris

    awesome work dude!!!

  • U saw hey ur rly pretty im jw wht ur number is cuz i like to meet new people

  • Famous Guru's get his advise from youtube probably!

    Your the best arkady!

  • dude how many girlfriends do you have?!?!?!

  • honey nut cheerios! and nice video

  • WOOT CHEERIOS

  • This guy is as smooth as butter. He could have his own cult following.

  • dude you probably have girls beating down ur door right bout now haha

  • cheerios ftw!

  • umm i just searched "theres marijuana in my friendship bracelet" and this came up...wtf? xD

  • This man is money!

  • You make awesome videos with awesome advice, keep up the good work!

    You got my sub :) 5/5

  • i'm a woman, and this is the best pick up line that someone could use on me

  • if a guy came up to me and said that.

    i would laugh,,and leave.

  • this guy is not good, the first response would be the most likely to happen, just read the game or the secret by neil strauss and mystery, and you will know what is skills

  • Excellent!

    

  • great advice!

    ...and honey nut cheerios!

  • Any innocent approach during the day time, or in safe social places would have a good response back from women!. They are safe and they feel safe, hence are open for openers! So walking up to them and saying "hello, how are you?" would still work.

    If she said I have a boyfriend, instead of saying "he must be a lucky guy" try "Vow, how does it feel to be in a perfect relationship?" to keep the conversation going!

  • im 11 years old and im in the same class as her and she is taken plzz reply with more advice and she knows i like her so reply plzz :)

  • im getting me some cheerios

  • You must be a real ladies man...

    Eating cheerios

  • just brilliant!

  • iight im in high skool, how do you approach a girl that is always around her friends and stuff. or when she's walking to class and u never meet her

  • iight im in high skool, how do you approach a girl that is always around her friends and stuff. or when she's walking to class 

  • jigalo

  • cheerios!!

  • Chuck Norris of the dating world, your the man

  • Cheerios .. Breakfast of champions, perhaps?

  • hmm..ahh...i see...good point

  • ill try your advice...

  • "who is that guy in the background kitchen thing? hes standing pretty still lol"

    is what i was about to say before i noticed it was a mirror lmfao!

  • thanks i got slaped because of this pick up line!

  • This guy speaks wisdom....by waiting for a response, it intrigues the woman and possibly sparks interest. A great interaction between a male and female should be about exchanging responses, not just one person speaking throughout...

  • Its Funny Cause Most Of Your Vids Sound Like Me Talking To My Friends But I've NEVER Actually Had The Balls To Apply Any Of It My Self Lol

  • Thank you for the advice. It's nice to see a man who is a gentleman and knows how to date.

  • hmmmm will this help an Asian guy? hahahaha

  • Arkady you are the best ! I do agree with you. It works a lot better. You are awesome.

  • I like the concept of this approach, but I have the feeling that some would be a little shaken by this, and might think it "creepy", any thoughts on how to limit that effect?

  • i love honey nut cheerios

  • What about the good ol' whipping it out?

  • seems a good line. I will try it

  • nice honey nut cheerios in the background!

  • arkady you're the man. Thumbs up Gj thx for the upload ^_^

  • i wasnt paying attention at all i was foucousing on the honey nut cherios and i was to buisy typeing the coment regarding the honey nut cherios to be paying attention O.O

  • How much is Cheerios paying you for these advertisements? Do you have a lifesize man doll in the background wearing jeans? hmmm interesting. great advice though.

  • How much is Cheerios paying you for these advertisements?

  • just try this:"HI it's just that i noticed you here and i realised if i didn't say hi id never get to meet the girl inside of you.. and wait for her response..when she introduces here self simply challenger her every statement this turns women on a man who's intelligent n challenging

  • just try this:"HI it's just that i noticed you here and i realised if i didn't say hi id never get to meet the girl inside of you.. and wait for her response..when she introduces here self simply challenger her every statement this turns women on a man who's intelligent n challenging

  • just try this:"HI it's just that i noticed you here and i realised if i didn't say hi id never get to meet the girl inside of you.. and wait for her response..when she introduces here self simply challenger her every statement this turns women on a man who's intelligent n challenging

  • just try this:"HI it's just that i noticed you here and i realised if i didn't say hi id never get to meet the girl inside of you.. and wait for her response..when she introduces here self simply challenger her every statement this turns women on a man who's intelligent n challenging

  • just try this:"HI it's just that i noticed you here and i realised if i didn't say hi id never get to meet the girl inside of you.. and wait for her response..when she introduces here self simply challenger her every statement this turns women on a man who's intelligent n challenging

  • just try this:"HI it's just that i noticed you here and i realised if i didn't say hi id never get to meet the girl inside of you.. and wait for her response..when she introduces here self simply challenger her every statement this turns women on a man who's intelligent n challenging

  • just try this:"HI it's just that i noticed you here and i realised if i didn't say hi id never get to meet the girl inside of you.. and wait for her response..when she introduces here self simply challenger her every statement this turns women on a man who's intelligent n challenging <3

  • When your talkingto a girl try not to be in the mind set of thinking of something to say just to keep the conversation. Say what feels natural and use what she says to keep it going. The best way to practice is just by acting genuine and trying to keep a conversation with anyone you meet, even strangers.

  • it's too crazy...i'll do it!

  • Any one notice his reflection (watch his left shoulder) :D

  • i'm gonna try this!! Thanks man! =D

  • fuck yeah cheerios

  • oh, it works :)

  • whenever the woman says, "I am married" or "i am kinda seeing someone," etc., I always just say: me too. And then I wink at them.

  • I wish I had your confidence.

  • or you get your face punched in by her boyfriend...then I'd have to check out the bruce lee video before take this approach...

  • U r Love Guru Bro

    Keep it up

  • thanks and whos that in the back round

  • how about if the girl that u like knows that u like her and she walks away shyly as u are passing by what should i do?

  • CHEERIOS!

  • what are girls saying here, does that work?

  • excuse me... yes?... would you like to have sex?

  • Another thing!!! It's not wrong to straight up ask "are you single?" (after a greeting of course). Also, an anywhere thing to use "Hey, I really have to go, but you seem like an interesting person and would like to meet you. Do you have email?" DON'T DO THE FOLLOWING: +Is that a spacesuit ur wearing? because your body is out of this world! +if i told u u had a sexy body, would u hold it against me? +if my sister looked like u I would've never left home +i might not b fred flinstone but I can sur

  • and here i was, using some of the corniest and most riduculous pickup lines known to man, this shit changed my life lol

  • This man is BEAST!

  • Here is a better pick up line "Hi, I would like to tickle your bellybottom... from the inside"

  • genius

  • So very true !! I tried this and worked many times !!

  • what if she says why did you want to meet me lol? you can't say because i think your gorgeous

  • increase your chances 10 fold by kicking off your day with a bowl of cheerios! hahaha

  • 5 points from a woman.

  • Arkady.You know how you were saying that guys can be attracted to a girl just by seeing her and not even knowing her? well, thats my case. and heres my problem, im not bad looking at all but im not a popular dude in our school and she is pretty popular. I was doing a rotc colorguard for a basketball game when i saw her walk by and i told my friends, DAMN SHE IS HOT. and so being immature they told her i liked her but she really didnt even acknowledge it. what do i do now. IM also too shy.

  • this is good haha

  • yo this is simple and straightfoward...