I'm divorced for 9 months and until now I'm still not over it. My ex husband moved back to his home country (Europe) and I don't even know if he's with someone else. I don't want to know but he's a good father to our son. My son doesn't tell me anything he knows I'm hurting. My ex husband cheated on me we were together for 11 and a half years and married for 7 years. I don't know how to move on. I don't know how to date anymore cuz I fear I'll get hurt again. Send me a message anytime.
I now how you feel. I feel the same. You have a great courage. Losing self-esteem is normal when you divorced. I have the hope it's getting better with time. Stay strong, we 'll have easier times and we'll date great men, you 'll see. We'll be much much happier than in our previous crappy marriages:)
Your daughter probably wants you to get married because she sees how sad you are and wants YOU to be happy. I'm terribly sorry about your relationship with him. The only consolation I can offer is that you're not alone :/
wow u met him at 12,wow.anyway,sorry you lost your husband,well I'm not married yet in 24,but I would be said,heres a hug and a cookie ~your friend,roundedother2
Thanks for posting this. My wife (ex) and I just broke up (14 years) and I'm feeling pretty crappy (came home yesterday and found the entire house empty when I came back from work). I'm feeling pretty lonely/hurt/angry...all that stuff (part of life I guess). Again, thanks for sharing your feelings and helping me realize that I'm not alone in how I feel.
darn ol state, its not a good daddy, influences you to turn against your husbands leaving you with no defense from the same big daddy state that wants to eat you and your babies up. the romans always pitted the women against the men in territories it wished to plunded so the men would not fight for the women making it easier to enslave the women. have a good time being a foul mouthed beligerant knowitall slave having warm tinglies blaming a man to your last breath
Hi Mindy, I hope you're doing better now, a year down the road. I feel your pain too but hope I can give you some positive energy and encouragement to move on with your life and make a fresh start. Take care.
in my opinion i think my mom SHOULD devorce my dad, im 15 and from childhood to now my dad has never encouraged me, he makes fun of me (yes) seriously he yells at for being useless. he doesnt want me anymore threatens to smash my treasures, and when i want privacy he doesnt let me lock the door and he barges alot. isnt he a swell dad? oh theres alot more, he does love me once in a while but thats like when hes in a really good mood and i avoid him i treat him like a stranger and he gets angrier.
my wife walked out on me and our children after being married 24 years. i raised them myself for a long time while working full time and being disabled.i am now remarried . my kids are doing really well and we are all happen even though there mother has only seen them 4 times in the past 6 years. it will get better and you will be happy. might not seem that way now but it will !. you look fantastic and your weight looks ok to me. he left and its his lose not yours. be strong. god bless.
Of course you are capable of meeting someone else. I have felt your same pain. My ex did the same and basically in the beggining treated our son as if he wasnt a part of his DNA. Now....I have a beautiful man in my life who treats me like a queen. Only time will heal your pain. Be strong!
It took a lot of courage to do this Mindy. I'm proud of your progress through all this. You don't even realize how strong you are. You are an inspiration to all single mothers out there. I'm praying for you all the time.
iam a man i fell the same way you do my wife left me after 7 years i dont know why it hurts i cant get close to aney one it hurts bad and i live alone i dont know what to do
Although this is a painful time. I hope you will not reflect on what you did or did not do to contribute to this all to common selfish person who betrayed you and your children. I wish you the strength to focus on you first and your children, your faith and your future. Although love in marriage is best a following relationship all to often suffers the same result do to blended family difficulties. Look towards positive energy in those who you love and admire.
Your story sounds nearly exactly like mine- I know exactly how you're feeling. I hope you continue to post as it's so nice knowing I'm not the only one. Hang in there- it gets easier, I promise you.
I know your pain. My dad left my mom, my sister and I when i was 15 for another woman, and i had never felt so hurt and rejected in my life. I'm glad you're with your kids, they really need you, and vice-versa. You can do this, just keep close with your children and life will turn itself around, i promise.
Stay strong, and don't push yourself into any relationship until you are healed and ready to move on. =)
Your weight loss will help u bring back ur self esteem and i am sure you will find a very nice and loving person for urself, who will love u for who u r. I am really touched by ur weight loss progress and want to work on mine too. Good luck and keep smiling. Don't cry for someone who is not worth it. U seem like a very nice person and caring mother so whenever u feel sad just look at ur kids and u will feel much better. Best of luck dear.
Im so sorry, men are just bastards! I'm having exact same issues and started counceling and reading the book by Robin Norwood " Women who love too Much" It is a tremendous help to me, please read it! Church is helpful too, God will repay him for what he does! Belive it! God Bless you and the kids <3
@snugglishous o dnt start that shit women are just ass bad. I do feel sorry for this woman in the vvideo but she had to know marriage is a risk and its not guranteed you will be together till death do you part. Works both ways women screw men over, men sccrew women over. Men now adays rarely like to be with only one woman. This is why marriage is a joke now adays and dont do it.
Hi there, I can feel your pain as I am going through the same thing. I am in the middle of a divorce and overweight I am 240lbs and would like to be 150lbs so i have 90lbs to loose. I have a 5 yr old boy. I am also struggling with depression and gaining more weight because of anti-depressing meds. All I want to say that u r not alone there are so many women out there and just keep working on your weight loss.
Hey I was at 240 too, and I weened off my anti depressants as well, I would love to be your support as well as have you be my support and get through this together! I do plan on making another video just been to busy. keep in touch!:)
Thanks Dear. Please do share some of your weight loss secrets with me so I can start to do some of it. Your message really made me feel good. You can always count on me as a supporter. Good Luck!
Dont worry everyhing will work out for you in the end. he seems to be selfish.
tcbeddie 6 months ago
I'm divorced for 9 months and until now I'm still not over it. My ex husband moved back to his home country (Europe) and I don't even know if he's with someone else. I don't want to know but he's a good father to our son. My son doesn't tell me anything he knows I'm hurting. My ex husband cheated on me we were together for 11 and a half years and married for 7 years. I don't know how to move on. I don't know how to date anymore cuz I fear I'll get hurt again. Send me a message anytime.
coolchicnfriends 7 months ago
Dearest Mindy,
I now how you feel. I feel the same. You have a great courage. Losing self-esteem is normal when you divorced. I have the hope it's getting better with time. Stay strong, we 'll have easier times and we'll date great men, you 'll see. We'll be much much happier than in our previous crappy marriages:)
manusicandstefan 9 months ago
Your daughter probably wants you to get married because she sees how sad you are and wants YOU to be happy. I'm terribly sorry about your relationship with him. The only consolation I can offer is that you're not alone :/
charlotte13victoria 10 months ago
much respect for being so honest on here. i hope you managed to work things through in your life.
spartemiou 11 months ago
wow u met him at 12,wow.anyway,sorry you lost your husband,well I'm not married yet in 24,but I would be said,heres a hug and a cookie ~your friend,roundedother2
roundedother2 1 year ago
Thanks for posting this. My wife (ex) and I just broke up (14 years) and I'm feeling pretty crappy (came home yesterday and found the entire house empty when I came back from work). I'm feeling pretty lonely/hurt/angry...all that stuff (part of life I guess). Again, thanks for sharing your feelings and helping me realize that I'm not alone in how I feel.
DarylDude88 1 year ago
so sorry dear.. mee too.. it's only been a few months for me that I have been divorced and it really sux..............feel for you... huggs harmony
capriceharmony65 1 year ago
darn ol state, its not a good daddy, influences you to turn against your husbands leaving you with no defense from the same big daddy state that wants to eat you and your babies up. the romans always pitted the women against the men in territories it wished to plunded so the men would not fight for the women making it easier to enslave the women. have a good time being a foul mouthed beligerant knowitall slave having warm tinglies blaming a man to your last breath
jehu2011 1 year ago
Hi Mindy, I hope you're doing better now, a year down the road. I feel your pain too but hope I can give you some positive energy and encouragement to move on with your life and make a fresh start. Take care.
cdullea123 1 year ago
Do you have anyone else in your past life you remember who could help you out? Maybe someone who said they loved you?
It might be the time to talk to them.
Destro7000 1 year ago
in my opinion i think my mom SHOULD devorce my dad, im 15 and from childhood to now my dad has never encouraged me, he makes fun of me (yes) seriously he yells at for being useless. he doesnt want me anymore threatens to smash my treasures, and when i want privacy he doesnt let me lock the door and he barges alot. isnt he a swell dad? oh theres alot more, he does love me once in a while but thats like when hes in a really good mood and i avoid him i treat him like a stranger and he gets angrier.
Arkenarge 2 years ago
my wife walked out on me and our children after being married 24 years. i raised them myself for a long time while working full time and being disabled.i am now remarried . my kids are doing really well and we are all happen even though there mother has only seen them 4 times in the past 6 years. it will get better and you will be happy. might not seem that way now but it will !. you look fantastic and your weight looks ok to me. he left and its his lose not yours. be strong. god bless.
bigrider2806 2 years ago
Of course you are capable of meeting someone else. I have felt your same pain. My ex did the same and basically in the beggining treated our son as if he wasnt a part of his DNA. Now....I have a beautiful man in my life who treats me like a queen. Only time will heal your pain. Be strong!
SoLady1 2 years ago
hey thabks i got divorece too
2submit 2 years ago
It took a lot of courage to do this Mindy. I'm proud of your progress through all this. You don't even realize how strong you are. You are an inspiration to all single mothers out there. I'm praying for you all the time.
Achrestensen 2 years ago
iam a man i fell the same way you do my wife left me after 7 years i dont know why it hurts i cant get close to aney one it hurts bad and i live alone i dont know what to do
copasgrande 2 years ago
Although this is a painful time. I hope you will not reflect on what you did or did not do to contribute to this all to common selfish person who betrayed you and your children. I wish you the strength to focus on you first and your children, your faith and your future. Although love in marriage is best a following relationship all to often suffers the same result do to blended family difficulties. Look towards positive energy in those who you love and admire.
yrangelabv 2 years ago
Your story sounds nearly exactly like mine- I know exactly how you're feeling. I hope you continue to post as it's so nice knowing I'm not the only one. Hang in there- it gets easier, I promise you.
KelliCentner 2 years ago
Hey hunny,
I know your pain. My dad left my mom, my sister and I when i was 15 for another woman, and i had never felt so hurt and rejected in my life. I'm glad you're with your kids, they really need you, and vice-versa. You can do this, just keep close with your children and life will turn itself around, i promise.
Stay strong, and don't push yourself into any relationship until you are healed and ready to move on. =)
And good job with the weight loss, keep it up!
FashionGen 3 years ago
Your weight loss will help u bring back ur self esteem and i am sure you will find a very nice and loving person for urself, who will love u for who u r. I am really touched by ur weight loss progress and want to work on mine too. Good luck and keep smiling. Don't cry for someone who is not worth it. U seem like a very nice person and caring mother so whenever u feel sad just look at ur kids and u will feel much better. Best of luck dear.
rjoshi07 3 years ago
Thankyou! I will be making another video soon, well when ever my kids let me haha :)
Mindles84 3 years ago
Im so sorry, men are just bastards! I'm having exact same issues and started counceling and reading the book by Robin Norwood " Women who love too Much" It is a tremendous help to me, please read it! Church is helpful too, God will repay him for what he does! Belive it! God Bless you and the kids <3
snugglishous 2 weeks ago
@snugglishous o dnt start that shit women are just ass bad. I do feel sorry for this woman in the vvideo but she had to know marriage is a risk and its not guranteed you will be together till death do you part. Works both ways women screw men over, men sccrew women over. Men now adays rarely like to be with only one woman. This is why marriage is a joke now adays and dont do it.
99bleeder 2 weeks ago
there's nothing I can say that would help you I just want you to know that youre not alone, you have your kids, and now you have us youtubers!
Im trying to loose weight to so lets do it toghether! :)´
xoxo
ChloeThin 3 years ago
Here's a hug anda good luck!
You have a pretty face=)
swedo23 3 years ago
thankyou I really do appreciate it :)
Mindles84 3 years ago
Hi there, I can feel your pain as I am going through the same thing. I am in the middle of a divorce and overweight I am 240lbs and would like to be 150lbs so i have 90lbs to loose. I have a 5 yr old boy. I am also struggling with depression and gaining more weight because of anti-depressing meds. All I want to say that u r not alone there are so many women out there and just keep working on your weight loss.
rjoshi07 3 years ago
Hey I was at 240 too, and I weened off my anti depressants as well, I would love to be your support as well as have you be my support and get through this together! I do plan on making another video just been to busy. keep in touch!:)
Mindles84 3 years ago
Thanks Dear. Please do share some of your weight loss secrets with me so I can start to do some of it. Your message really made me feel good. You can always count on me as a supporter. Good Luck!
rjoshi07 3 years ago
@Mindles84 if you search man for wedding im here but with seriously relationship
ghali274623 9 months ago