Muslim Marriage - Muslim matrimonial-"Why women love shopping" - Half Our Deen Video #7

[mrsalsaidi2008]

I think u should call urself Dr. Baba Ali :D

[1jennayly]

I prefer to shop by myself so not an issue. I love to fish and can and have fished sunup to sundown and i will go with someone or myself. When I talk while fishing its about the best bait or lures to use otherwise i just stay quiet and enjoy the peace .My last fishing buddy was a guy who talked more than i do lol.

[hidirhyper]

1:02 "Two steps is enough brother. Why you take three? I hope you make niyyah because you have been traveling ALL day brother! ALL day!" Made me LOL. HAHAHA. I love you Baba Ali!

[fatihaa94]

omg i hate shoppping my mum drags i feel like crying but wen i need to go i go!!!

i think im on the guys side for this one !!! lol

[MrsBBchanel]

Yea I DONT like shopping. I think that's why my hubby and me get along. We go get what we need and get out

[AfrikanBambaataa]

LOL this is so true

[TheVlogSister]

Really great advice from Br. Ali! I never take my husband to the mall if I can tell he's tired or bored. It's no fun for me anyways if he's not having a good time! I'd rather go shopping alone, and honestly, even though I'm a girl, I DO usually shop with a purpose!!

[benzsk8ergirl9]

im i girl and i dont rly like shopping i rly get bored anyways i love ummahfilms awesome

[phlowt]

i'm maybe a man! noo!! lol..kidding..

i hate shopping like SERIOUSLY!

like you said...i go shopping to buy only what i want..if i don't find it..i go back home dissapointed.

i once nearly cried because my friends were shopping for a loooong time trying this and that..and i started to make faces...HAHAHA

[juieatssocks]

Even the girls I go shopping with hate shopping with me because I'm bad at making a decision lol!!!

[LOLLAdb]

LOL! I think my brain functions like men's coz I really HATE shopping xD

[jesstherocka]

thats actually true. i wnt to the mall with my friend and we just hanged out n bought nothing but at the end we were like.. it was fun.. lets do this again but nxt tym we'll buy this n that n those earings we saw lalalala... :D

[aishjanna]

@jesstherocka i go shopping whith a freind today n we spend 4 hours just trying staff n full the basket, then replace staff again lol but we had a great time n fun :)

[jesstherocka]

@aishjanna lol..i no!:D

[gycsilla]

your such a dickhead!

[suraj905]

@gycsilla then you might be such a dickleg!

[ameneteid]

ah mashAllah very nice...although some girls prefer to not leave the shopping centre empty handed! jaza Allah kheir..

[NLB90805]

Very well spoken. Keep them coming dude.

[NazmaAbuBakar]

ok, baba ali, correction...i think most guys follow their wives around the shopping mall because they don't trust their wives not because their wives want them there with them. I am a woman and I hate shopping without a goal myself...so daaa!

[islamdatruth777]

me and sister love window shopping.

GO BABA ALI

[raina916]

male's life is full of adventure.they can do what ever they want at any time.they have a lot more interesting stuff to do than shopping.but a woman's life is devoid of all these things her whole world is her house.she can't go out to play football with little kids so what ever she can do for change is going out occasionally for shop.men and women are differently brought up.for a girl age 13 and bye bye physical activities.so no surprise if she talks about things.

[beobscureclearly]

I love shopping and my husband hates it. I rarely take him along unless I have to. What is the point of forcing him to do something he hates?

[AmatuALLAH92]

Is babaAli Shiite ??

BTW I'm a HUGE fan :)

[fafemk]

I had posted my pictures on half a deen.com and once i posted all information. I got a message that it didnot save my picture. I just hope my picture is safe and not misused by this site. I wear hijab and im very scared.

[anitamata29]

Ima girl and i hate shopping...its sooooooooooooooooooo boring.... maybe cuz i grew up with 3 brothers...

[little0boots]

i'm a girl and if i look at something i can't afford i just find it depressing, and since im poor most of the time i rarely go shopping. and when i do i usually do it alone so i can concentrate on what i need to buy, and not be distracted by other people's opinions, so i go to town, find what i need, buy and leave. simples.

[saki619]

i hate shopping without a goal and i'm a girl. All of these videos are generalizations. Not all girls are like this.

I think you're talking about introverts and extroverts

not guys vs girls

what is this??????????

[DevilzDontCry]

hey! id like to sit for hours in company of someone else and not say a word. i just cant cause then im called anti-social and other stuff. women drive me crazy too. i guess thats why i get along better with guys than girls. =P

[suraj905]

@DevilzDontCry you maybe gay.

[DevilzDontCry]

@suraj905 how does it make me gay if I get along with guys more than girls?

[asmaemuslima]

stop talking about marriage please

[themuslimah1993]

lol this is sooo me! May Allah Guide us all! Ameen

[gucciiimanii]

This is hilarious. But as much as I love shopping I go there for a purpose: to treat myself. I dislike shopping with other people, even my friends. Shopping for me means 'me time'...so my future husband will definitely be grateful for that in the future, since I won't drag him shopping. =D

[markee871]

well thats how Allah(swt) created women..women love beautiful things...heels,makeup,perfume,­clothes,jewellery,etc :D

[rhoquehoque]

omdays he is so funny!! made me laffff

[pixty1]

Is halfourdeen . com a dating site ?:0

[W4ABN]

Going to one store for one thing and leaving quickly... yep, that's me. Shop for what I need (mostly).

[C6H12O11]

COOL CHAIR SPIN AT THE END!

[Veiled4God]

lol

[greenwaterlilly]

This is true, although some girls don't like shopping, like me, it applies to other activities. For example, I like to go for walks not to exercise, or to go somewhere, it's just to admire the weather and stop and chat with neighbours.

[littlemuslimgirl1]

ive dun tht alot...i go shopping chat wiv frends and most time come bk wv nthing or prbli one item lolll

[slater246]

lol! Next time the husband wants to go home, I know what to tell him!

[cutedevil786]

Not all girls are like that! lol i hate shopping, i do it the 'guy' way. look for what i need online, go to the shop, buy it and go back home! Hassle free! i think i answered my own question why everyone hatez shopping with me :D i dont spend enough time in da shopz

[MsSind00]

true true true !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! love you !

[MrAusMuslim]

Sooo true. wish i saw this video before I got married.

[xenia1790]

brilliant)) I almost always go out of the shop... disappointed=))

[rensal22]

I love your videos brother, but I dont appreciate the stereotypical take on what women like, or a man giving a female perspective.

[HijabiLady18]

hhhahhahaha I LOVEEEEEEEE TOOOO SHOPPP

[iman0z]

salamun alaikum wr wb,

i just want to say, jazakallah khierfor putting in the time to make all these amazing videos. your wife is a really lucky women and i make dua i find someone who's also understanding.

[InfamyG]

LMAO, that basketball segment had me rolling on the floor! Good one.

[GlamoOur94]

asalamu walykum wr wb

hahaha im actually not a big fan off shopping

if i go, id go to get chocolate or coz ma mum n sis are going n i dnt hav a choice lol

luvvv shopping for chocolate lol

[siedibrhan]

i really like that and that’s the reality

kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

women loves shopping even if they came back empty handed



[BlueFezProductions]

haha! once again you don't fail to please! If only I could show this to my married relatives without it seeming like i'm hinting that their marriages aren't going well.

[noriepie]

i have guys in my family that loves to shop. (Buying tech stuff is so much cooler)

this video is more general than others :) i don't go shopping unless I have an idea of what to buy. But, I do understand what he's saying.

[tAuRuS51693]

Emmmm if I'm shopping and come home empty handed I'm not too happy, unless I had fun wherever I was. The fun for me won't come from the shopping experience but what other stuff I did besides shopping. If I'm not gonna go actually buy something or at least go for a good time, I won't bother leaving the house to wonder around at a store or the mall. That's just me though :p

[shadowgirl9891]

Sounds like me. Whenever, my mom and sister go shopping. They always take me with them. Whenever they stay in a store for a 'long time' or at least whenever I think is a long time. I get impatient and just want to go look at video games or go to a restaurant.

[lwahedi]

Overall good advice and funny movies, but you try to find explanations that make sense to you as a male for the motivation behind behaviors you observe in women. These explanations can be offensive at times. Here, it's not that women aren't goal oriented--I am probably more goal oriented than my fiance, but I love shopping and he does not. Your explanation makes women seem petty and extravagant. It's that women's goal *in shopping* is to be social, not to get an object.

[sweetpoisonx]

lol so funny! and so true!! 

[MuslimahUnity]

I can't lie.. Shopping is fun :D

[omaralsanea]

Thank you brother ...

[NYCbarbiegirl]

Ali i Love you much more than i love shopping ;)

[42317]

Woman are not more social, they're just more communicative. :-)

[DiamondApple100]

LOL! "they go to one store, look for the one thing they want, and if its not there, they leave. disappointed"!! AHHHHHHHAH

[littlemuslimgirl1]

@DiamondApple100 lo i know my brother does tht

[ShahSoFly]

great video! but don't you think your being a little stereotypical? not all men behave that way and not all women behave a certain way either. i dunno, i just felt a bit (not exactly hurt) but a little discouraged because everyone is different...

[NeeenO7]

i love shopping

just wondering around the mall is fun no need to buy anything just watch

too bad men can't feel that pleasure :)

[zarajani1]

great video...but for me, i cant go home empty handed, otherwise i'de be verry dissapointed

[samarpinky]

so true

[naa1013]

What women are you basing these videos off of? I think you don't know women at all. Nice Try though. Jazaak Allah

[princessjuly1320]

mashallah really good...mann i cant stop laughing.....its really good tho and btw...do you sing the theme song?? i really like it

[sherax]

haha funny

[MyKittenHasADD]

I've watched a few of these videos now... men are goal setters and women are not? Men are natural problem solvers and women are not? I'm beginning to think, my dear Baba Ali, that you don't know very many women. If I come home empty handed from a day at the mall, it was an unproductive day and a complete waste of my time... and I am not happy. Oh and by the way, if I don't want to hear your "solution" to my "problem", it's probably because it was useless and yet another waste of my time.

[n4179]

Muslims don't date?? sooo... they just get married, and then spend time with their wife/husband?? how does that exactly work if so?

do male Muslims have female friends? or female Muslims have male friends? if they fall in love with their friend, they ask them to marry them instantly??

I guess marriage is such a complicated thing in Islam, and I also think that marriage is all about sex... in Islam... am I right?

marriage = sex??? hell NO!... that's wrong...

[cssftw100]

@n4179 nah marriage is all about building a structured family, etc and financially supporting the wife etc. Sex is just something that comes along with it. So no one should marry just for sex.

[sweetsaba91]

you make so much sense..i like how you relate Islam and give advice as we are living in the 21st century. very inspiring! i love your videos.

[Badoora97]

SO TRUE! i go shopping everyweeked for like 3 hours empty handed, and i would come back so happy :D wow im such a girl :P

[iTruth]

@Badoora97

so you come back empty handed or what? :P

[Badoora97]

@iTruth haha, yeah sometimes i come empty handed, i mean i go to the mall everyweekend? i saw everything already! but mostly i buy somethin :P :P

[zakirakhiard]

that's not necessarily true for all women..I'm a girl and i personally hate going around looking at stuff aimlessly...i go shopping with a goal..guess my future husband is gonna have it easy :P

[radenmuaz]

@zakirakhiard

well.. ok.

[peaceSymOfISLAM]

@zakirakhiard lol me too....The way he begged that's how I beg my mom to go home:)lmbo

[jaggedette]

@zakirakhiard It's for GENERAL population geez... He's not going to specifically target each womans personality is he?

[basithq]

@zakirakhiard Don't take it too seriously. It is nice of you to hate going around and looking at stuff. But I have personally experienced the situation. It is just that women are usually quite selective about things. And Ali is just trying to indicate common differences between men and women.

[kandousha]

@zakirakhiard I HATE shopping with my mom cuz she drives me crazy by saying here try this on or try that on when i just want to buy a few socks!! (im a girl by the way)

[waqasalikhanrajput]

@zakirakhiard Hahahahhaa... that made my day

[ArabQuest]

@zakirakhiard I am the same way. I go to the store, buy whatever I want, and I leave. When I am with my cousins, and shopping for cloths, I am always the one whining, asking to go home. 

[The24imran]

@zakirakhiard lucky for him

[MsDan297]

hehehe :P am not a big fan of shopping and am a girl :P but the vid is true most of the time :P

[Flaco1941]

goooooooooooood

[misszaynahmad]

my dad has the same hat.. i always hide it!

[radenmuaz]

@misszaynahmad

is that furry headgear thing called kufi or songkok or..?

[InfamyG]

@misszaynahmad Too funny.

[catnawal]

i have a feeling this happened to you baba Ali...hahaha

[peaceSymOfISLAM]

@catnawal i thought the same lol

[IsmiWSA]

As Salaam u 'Alaikum

Jazaak Allaahu Khair

[bosniaandsarajevo]

Did any of you read his disclaimer. baba ali clearly says that its a general overview, and there exceptions to every stereotype and rule. Im a woman who hates shopping (i only go when i need to and get out asap) and i love sports (WORLD CUP!). So calm it down people. jeez.

[wowwow180]

u read my mind 

[Almandarina2]

muslims just live by stereotypes

[Wikaay]

I'm a guy.. I don't go shopping only when I need something.

I usually go around to see if there's something to buy.

I guess, Baba Ali, you've explored the social norm of men and women; there's always a good percentage of the population which likes to break free from these social norms and have their own way.

[SelcoXL]

Good vid, but please stop promoting Half our deen.. sigh.

[hiltondilton]

Lol so true goal oriented shopping for men :) but they shouldn't go crazy over women shopping !!!!!

[Hanabanananz]

i totally disagree!!!!!

[nmbr1rascal4eva]

i dunno bro, all the brothers i know like to joke around. we wouldnt sit on a boat and not say anything lol.

[MsNeelam93]

So True!

[raissa2knian]

I love the theme song! :D Plus Baba Ali :D Thanks thanks!

[YaHussainMazlum]

mashala

but why at the end there is an echo

but the rest there isnt

YA ALI

[umersgirl]

clearly this dude doesn't know pakistani men... they talk so much more than women. My husband keeps me waiting for ever to leave from our friends house, ? cuz he just can't stop the conversation.

[MySaidov]

Watching this video definately benefited me as well as putting me in a good mood x) Funny video!

[justafriend08]

this is true lol i can go shopping and spend ours out with friends and go home with nothing. its the socialising that i go for .

[twilightfan531]

@twilightfan531 this one wasn't bad. it was funny. but still we should never generalize. ever. ever. not about men, not about women. not about any race or anything. everrrrrr

[dahelpa]

not too mutch ads please -.-

[Roah26]

I dislike and oppose the idea of marriage completely but this video is so true hahahah :)

[lo0lo0007]

just leave the man at home

[Afgsusan1]

I cant wait to be married inshallah

:D

[EimanY89]

im a girl..and i dont really like shopping without a goal..for me, time is too precious and theres so much other things to do rather than shopping without a goal..so , i think it depends on individuals...not all girls are like that..

-just my 2 cents

[amoutgoing]

<3 u Baba Ali. You are doing a GOOD JOB. :) !!

[WorkingWithMonkeys]

i love baba ali! ur the best (:

[quadriceps44]

u missed american consumerism :)

doesnt work like that everywhere :)

[MsSully01]

The mans goal during the Shopping spree is to hold the bags if explained before hand as Barber Ali says all should be well :-P... yippeeee know they role and goal.



[highheadjester]

yes bring one of your friends.... after we shop all day and your tired.. Il take you both out to eat and buy as many drinks as you want... Thanks Ummahfilms for the help!!!

[DiscreetDiam0nd]

@ProfetTommy Firstly watch your language. It's really not necessary to use such filthy language. Secondly, back in those days, marrying a young girl wasn't out of the ordinary. Not just for Muslims, but for people of any other faith. Younger girls were a lot more mature back then than they are today. As far as I am aware the prophet (SAW) was told to marry Aisha because she was very intelligent. And she was in agreement with the marriage. Thirdly, why are you even watching this video?

[brotheryusuf1]

Ppl shud calm down... He's tlking to da new generation wiv da parents wich r rly backhome-ish, buh ppl who got parents like mine, born in uk n al, level headed, i fink we cn tke his advice, n give it to ppl whos got backhome-ish parents.

Peace out 

[MizShinobi1]

@brotheryusuf1 'backhome-ish' lol.

[HananShaleizi]

lol, so true :P

[DiscreetDiam0nd]

@ProfetTommy How old are you? Like 6 years old? What an immature comment. Anywho...

[09nabila]

sooooooooo true :)

[chocolateice87]

I'm just wondering if you can make a video about women that have minds similar to men. As for example, i'm more like a guy in a way that if I go out to shop is because I need something, and in one of your previous videos you talked about guys prefer to have some time alone and think about their problems rather than talk about it, I am as well like that. I'm sure your videos on gender are based on average male and female. I just want your opinion on women who think more like men and vice versa

[drstrangeluv25]

You're either really stupid, brother, or raised in an unfortunate society. Your misguided words only serve to misinform the ummah.

Stop making movies homogenizing gender behavior. You clearly show you have nothing to teach the world in this regard.

[Ayshafr]

I'm a girl but I hate shopping... so this is why my mom always walks around the store looking at stupid, uninteresting things! Next time my mom drags me along to the mall maybe I should recommend she take her friends along instead!

[salps3]

I SHOP FOR WOMEN I MEAN LOOKING FOR MUSLIM WOMEN

[YouShouldSeeThisNow1]

For me, guys will need to know each other well enough to bear the silence, if not, then the "taking out their iphone and figeting w it will commence"

If girls are not JUST for buying, then just window shop please, or at least justify b4 purchasing it please. :) I agree, that's how i (MEN) shop. :)

LOL, lastly, i hope that disclaimer is because of my PM, and if it's not, then Alhamdulillah still :)

[TheDeathHasCome]

So true XD

[ZilverGalacticon]

You are so 100% accurate this time brother! :-D

[yemeni4life]

HAHAHA funny stuff!

[superwoofer21]

Dear Ali Baba,

what is your opinion

on building a mosque near Ground Zero?

and do you think its a anti-mosque protest or

muslim?

[ZilverGalacticon]

@superwoofer21

thesouthernavanger made a great video about that, and that video makes all other talk about the subject seem silly, lol, really.

check that link out man!

watch?v=-eYBmrwunKQ

[MizShinobi1]

@superwoofer21 The mosque has already been there for years. it's just getting a face lift. in fact it's a religious centre for all faiths, including a room facilitating prayers for muslims which ultimately makes it a masjid inside the centre. it's getting blown way out of proportion, if only people were presented with the facts then they can just relax more.

[WizoHattMapepe]

@ProfetTommy wth r u talking abt :P

[WizoHattMapepe]

haha omg xD soooo trueeeeeeeeee!

[ontheskies]

true bhai all true!!!!

[lema0girl]

why is baba ali talking about me and my fiance! LOL. this sounds like us. i shop, he's bored. l talk about what i found shopping. he's bored. lol.

[missundrstood100]

brhtr Ali im a girl n i hate going fr shopping....i lv da part dat lets muslim women remain home......i lv my deen alhumdolillah........bt i agree wid u

[missundrstood100]

brother Ali im a girl bt i hate going shopping....n i lv islam dat allows women to remain in their homes....i lv ALLAhs comands.......jazaak ALLAH kheran brthr

[parsprincess]

um... good video, as always... but I think you should also advise the men :S not just the women! :S

I mean the guy should try to be understanding and gentle with his wife and please her if that is what pleases her - not ALL the time, but I mean the Prophet was a good example on how to treat your wife...

[nmbr1rascal4eva]

@parsprincess yup i agree men are the caretakers of their wives. they are supposed to be gentle with them... but sometimes sisters are crazy =p

[parsprincess]

@n4179 Epic fail on your part.

[n4179]

@parsprincess

hahah! :D yeah right...

PIMPIN'!

[princessjuly1320]

@parsprincess he does ... he criticisez both of them.....in the sports video he criticised the men...