if i had the opportunity to try with my ex i would do some things different but i think it just was not meant to be she just started college and i just signed up for service. things worked out how they were supposed to. i fell in love and regret not doing what i put my mind to doing with her first time around but i wouldnt try again. only if we were freinds first and then maybe....but most likely would stay freindly, last longer that way.
Why does it matter what the race of the woman is in his video? She's Asian and what? There aren't interracial relationships? Shiii people its 2010! And saying that Asians aren't part of his fan base is incorrect. I am Asian and LOVE Raheem DeVaughn. Haters. ;-)
I swear, this whole album helped me make it through my senior year of high school. Literally a song for every situation or emotion. Thank you Raheem Devaughn
Those lyrics hit ya deep in the soul........wow...I'm recovering..I haven't heard it in awhile..I used to have it on repeat in the truck..classic soul'
Love, love, love the song, hate the video. It looks so cheap and rushed. Has all the elements of a good vid, but some of it is poorly lit, or shot, or both? Kimora the 2nd doesn't help, NO chemisty, none. Try making the video again. The song deserves a classic.
Its not the music because I support Rah since he is a local artist from DC. But, its the music videos with the same message that black women are no longer important to black men. Blackmen no longer have a positive counterpart to represent them in the media. Maybe Barack and Michelle are the inspiration needed for this generation...
Again it is a great video but so many black artists feature women of diverse backgrounds instead of women from their own background as the main squeeze in the video. Black artists do this more often than any other group.
I LOVE this Song! But, when I saw this video I can't believe he didn't put a sista to represent the main character. I have nothing against Asian, or biracial women, but I atleast want someone who looks some what like I do. It seems like most black entertainers/singers will feature women other than blackwomen when singing love songs, but will put a blackwoman first when singing about sex. Blackwomen= sexual fantasies , all other women= relationships. Try again Rah ...
raheem is showing that love has no color! he appreciates all women of any color as we all should its not about black all the tiem we have to get out of that selfish mentality! his baby moma is black so he loves black women and his other vids have black women so dont hate for 1 video with an asian chick shes beautiful!
The issue is not about real life or Rah's life. The issue is the entertainment industry that does not accurately portray black couples black love and black life. 50 + years after de-segregation blacks are still dehumanized w white saviors emerging as the only answer. Why do people of color have to be
unselfish in the media? I wouldn't expect a half-asian half black american woman, or a white woman for that matter not to be selfish in portraying a life that represents their own.
to everyone who seems to think this is jus some asian chick I really believe she is blasian when I look at her I think people felt the same way about kimora but come to find out she half black so I guess you shouldn't go off what you see cuz that ain't always the truth. Eventhough does it really matter any ways?
This is one of my favorite songs by Raheem. I can't stop playing it. I'm obsessed with this guys music...as far as the comments about the girl...um...I like to see women in a video that I can imaging the artist singing to. They just don't match. Not because she's asian....
But because she looks like she would be in a 50 cent video. He should have chose a more natural woman with less make up. MY OPINION>> don't freak out on me. LOL.
i luv luv this song. i never seen the video on tv. he always represents for all women of all races and that is what makes him so attractive, sexy and mysterious..go on tour again soon raheem!
Im from tha south and ive been a fan since Guess who loves you. The brotha has never let me down. This video is on my favorites list!!!! Very real joint!!!!
I luv Mr. DeVaughn...Been ridin' wit him as a fan for years. If u ever saw him in a live performance, u will appreciate him as a "true artist" more. This video is cute :)
I love Raheeem Devaughn, all his music is awesome. And just because you see women of different colors and nationalities in the video, doesn't mean he is dating her for one, and let's not bash our sisters from other mothers, women are beautiful, we should be appreciate and celebrated, like Raheem does in his songs....proud to be Black!!!
Props to Divine85n i suppose ure 23 like me. Anyway thats the best way to put it and that goes out to all the black singers and rappers worldwide. We da one supportin u from day REMEMBER that!
LOL @ those hatin' on Raheem for lovin' da Asian persuasion!! NO disrespect to sistas, but there is beauty to be appreciated everywhere. I commend the brother for his great taste in ALL women.
Raheem Devaughn's video girls get lighter and lighter, don't they? As a true fan, woman, and "lightskinned" girl...this shit is so tired. I went to his concert last night and most of his supporters and fans don't pass the brown paper bag test...He should celebrate women of ALL shades, especially the shades that support him...Be smart! Even if this just an innocent preference, don't alienate fan bases of a darker shade. They buy your shit, put them in your video.
@Divine85nc women are women. let's not separate ourselves by our skin tones, but by more important things. i'm not light and i don't care what he puts in his videos. maybe the celebration will stop when people stop focusing on skin and focus on the music.
Women are not just women. We all have differences, and the more people act like we're the "same" the more we embrace ignorance. Therefore, our differences in cultures, backgrounds, and looks (which yes, includes skin color) should be celebrated. Unfortunately, that does not happen in the entertainment industry the majority of the time. The women get lighter and lighter and skin color is a big issue in the black community...NOT to be ignored, but discussed.
@Divine85nc There's a huge difference between celebrating our differences and separating ourselves because of them. Focusing on such insignificant details such as skin contributes to the ignorance that holds back black women. (And yes, I am a black woman) It is her skin that people have a problem with, because there is clearly no "celebration" in the fact that he features a woman from a different background and can appreciate that.
There's ALWAYS a separation. This ideal of a melting pot, although suggested with best intentions, is a huge joke. Skin color is extremely significant to black women! We are all different shades and colors, and while heritage or background should be the main issue, the truth is that the shades of our skin are important to us, to these artists in industry, and society in general. Otherwise there'd be more diversity.Like I said, it should be discussed and dissected, never ignored.
And while I understand your stance on the issue, and have my own perspective as well, my last point in my very first response to this vid was the main one. Celebrities cater to their fan base, period. His fan base is not Asian. As a person who knows how the industry works to a certain extent, unless he's trying attain cross over appeal via this video (which I highly doubt) then it's not a smart move to cast a woman that doesn't represent his biggest consumers.
OMG That chick is BAD! G-zus! Um I'm sorry ya'll niguz can feel how you want, She kills Kimora! I would put babies in this girl and take her bullshit for at least 6 months! LMAO
Tabbi is getting better., i see DOF shots., LA., Tracking , dolly Ha .., I love everything except for the fact there is absolutely no concept., give him a few years ., he will be good ., I give tabbi an A for effort
I love the song but I feel as though the concept really didn't go with the lyrics. I was expecting more emotion from the girl she looks relly happy to me. She could of cried or something. She had the oh hes gone I don't care and looked very losted like she didn't know what was going on. I don't have a problem with her being Asian that was different I was thinking maybe yr trying to reach other to a different race of women.
I love the song it has got to be in my top 3 off the album! Love the fact that Tabi did the video and on a low budget pretty good job. I just can't get with the lead female at all.Shelook like she shooting a cotton commercial. Shouldn't she be upset crying or something??? Throwing stuff I mean anything realistic. Not to mention in the chocolate city there are so many flavors of us, was there no one else available for the video?
Love the song. Love the album. I've been riding to you since the mix tape days and the "love experience". Please don't release Mo Better as a single. That song should be kept on the album for the true fans. Don't let the industry change you. STAY TRUE TO YOU
this is on repeat
AlyseAK 3 months ago
if i had the opportunity to try with my ex i would do some things different but i think it just was not meant to be she just started college and i just signed up for service. things worked out how they were supposed to. i fell in love and regret not doing what i put my mind to doing with her first time around but i wouldnt try again. only if we were freinds first and then maybe....but most likely would stay freindly, last longer that way.
legalman07 1 year ago
Why does it matter what the race of the woman is in his video? She's Asian and what? There aren't interracial relationships? Shiii people its 2010! And saying that Asians aren't part of his fan base is incorrect. I am Asian and LOVE Raheem DeVaughn. Haters. ;-)
missjadalyric 1 year ago 2
Beautiful song... I wish I could try again... Always regret 1!
tifdavis 1 year ago
the chicks in his videos really dont go with his music
but i L O V E this mans music for sureeeeeeeee
topoftheline100 1 year ago
the joint!!!
mat2208 1 year ago
"my cinderella, my juliet". Dude has serious lyrics. This cat and Mint Condition are saving music.
ablake06 1 year ago
great song, + i loved to see a mixed couple, we see a lot of mixed race couples in real life, and strangely not that much in the media!!!!
elgeeone 1 year ago
I swear, this whole album helped me make it through my senior year of high school. Literally a song for every situation or emotion. Thank you Raheem Devaughn
gtstar13 1 year ago
Those lyrics hit ya deep in the soul........wow...I'm recovering..I haven't heard it in awhile..I used to have it on repeat in the truck..classic soul'
carolinagal252 2 years ago
this is why i love Raheem DeVaughn
MsCandyJo 2 years ago
That chica is beautiful!
HillyMcJilly 2 years ago
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HillyMcJilly 2 years ago
this is my favorite song by him. smh
notcharlei 2 years ago
luv dem RIMS
triniwyn 2 years ago
This song goes so hard cd is a classic I feel like he talking about my life got to love this music
datguyoz1 2 years ago
MoneyMan, NC...I didn't mean what I said.
NextMogul 2 years ago
Love ur style, voice & music, thanx for making real soul music
MsRnbjunkie 2 years ago
Love, love, love the song, hate the video. It looks so cheap and rushed. Has all the elements of a good vid, but some of it is poorly lit, or shot, or both? Kimora the 2nd doesn't help, NO chemisty, none. Try making the video again. The song deserves a classic.
clarkvaughan 2 years ago 4
Inspired by the lyrics to this masterpiece. Thank you Raheem.
sheritaon23s 2 years ago
Its not the music because I support Rah since he is a local artist from DC. But, its the music videos with the same message that black women are no longer important to black men. Blackmen no longer have a positive counterpart to represent them in the media. Maybe Barack and Michelle are the inspiration needed for this generation...
electrickeys 2 years ago
Again it is a great video but so many black artists feature women of diverse backgrounds instead of women from their own background as the main squeeze in the video. Black artists do this more often than any other group.
electrickeys 2 years ago
I LOVE this Song! But, when I saw this video I can't believe he didn't put a sista to represent the main character. I have nothing against Asian, or biracial women, but I atleast want someone who looks some what like I do. It seems like most black entertainers/singers will feature women other than blackwomen when singing love songs, but will put a blackwoman first when singing about sex. Blackwomen= sexual fantasies , all other women= relationships. Try again Rah ...
electrickeys 2 years ago 5
raheem is showing that love has no color! he appreciates all women of any color as we all should its not about black all the tiem we have to get out of that selfish mentality! his baby moma is black so he loves black women and his other vids have black women so dont hate for 1 video with an asian chick shes beautiful!
mcristhebest1 2 years ago
The issue is not about real life or Rah's life. The issue is the entertainment industry that does not accurately portray black couples black love and black life. 50 + years after de-segregation blacks are still dehumanized w white saviors emerging as the only answer. Why do people of color have to be
unselfish in the media? I wouldn't expect a half-asian half black american woman, or a white woman for that matter not to be selfish in portraying a life that represents their own.
electrickeys 2 years ago
Great song. The video could have been better
legoluv2227 2 years ago
Raheem is the ish people sleepn' on him
Chakolet 2 years ago
love it!!! we Asian doin bigger and bigger out there
afroasiac 2 years ago
to everyone who seems to think this is jus some asian chick I really believe she is blasian when I look at her I think people felt the same way about kimora but come to find out she half black so I guess you shouldn't go off what you see cuz that ain't always the truth. Eventhough does it really matter any ways?
carameldreamz84 2 years ago 2
lol i agree ...im asian and believe me, i know a blasian when i see one 0_0
bkluvzu 2 years ago
she's asian, i went to school with her.
ajnt77 2 years ago
would have been nice if he had alec wek or lelah james or bre from americas next top model as the woman
xoticangell 2 years ago 5
olalala la jadore cet chanson !!c trooo
luv luv luv this song!!!
soulsista136 2 years ago
My song! Nice video, Rah. I love this and you. Keep 'em coming. Oh, and please come back to the Chi soon. We need you.
fatface2939 2 years ago
that car is nice
juswolf22 2 years ago
This is one of my favorite songs by Raheem. I can't stop playing it. I'm obsessed with this guys music...as far as the comments about the girl...um...I like to see women in a video that I can imaging the artist singing to. They just don't match. Not because she's asian....
But because she looks like she would be in a 50 cent video. He should have chose a more natural woman with less make up. MY OPINION>> don't freak out on me. LOL.
tamaraalana 2 years ago 26
@tamaraalana I agree
junibismalis 1 year ago
ever since my husband sent me this video as way of callin a truce, it has become my most fave from Rah. LOVE IT
MrsIZay 2 years ago
THIS IS MY SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIITTT!!!!! Go head Raheem DC STAND UP! :))
sassyladi01 2 years ago 2
DC!
Egyptbound 2 years ago 2
love this song..
[P.P.C.] :P
Rand0mLiifR3sh 2 years ago
shes so much hotter than kimora and i love this song
vcandersonnyc 3 years ago 2
every woman in every video is SOOOO BUFF... buff meaning sexy.. in london its different lol
carbredder 3 years ago
ya' get me blad!
RandomRobAtMyspace 3 years ago
no.. not reli
carbredder 3 years ago
She's asian. They have different bodies than other women.
NextMogul 3 years ago
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yh but asians have flat backof's an no tits.. an dey make STUPID noises when u bang them looool
carbredder 3 years ago
LMFAO
myra2112 3 years ago
lmfaooo tru tru
certifiedhotness 3 years ago
lol and they make a weird squinched up face too
juswolf22 2 years ago
this is hot!
XspressivelyChic08 3 years ago
She looks like a ghetto Kimora. HA!
NextMogul 3 years ago
Blowin' at 1:35. Harmony is TIGHT!
NextMogul 3 years ago
i luv luv this song. i never seen the video on tv. he always represents for all women of all races and that is what makes him so attractive, sexy and mysterious..go on tour again soon raheem!
NiVeA5678 3 years ago
the first line is a little stalker-ish but i love this song anyway... B-E-A-U-TIFUL!!!
305JustMe 3 years ago
The entire album is HOT!!!
foxxywoxxy 3 years ago
SING Raheem 1:29-1:43.
NextMogul 3 years ago
I love this song from off the album i wasnt aware you had a video for it. what a treat!
PalmBeachNative20 3 years ago
dis song goes hard!!! its da truth!!!! love dis dude i feel like this song!!! this the best song on da cd!!!
tjmcknight08 3 years ago 2
it is a tight song tjmcknight 08 i agree with u on this
GemineyeHoney 3 years ago
i was obsessed with this song for weeks when i got the album!!!!! but it dont got nothin on "empty" that is my stuff!
tedatbeme 3 years ago
yes, empty is a great song! This album is great from start to finish!
jlady80 3 years ago
That harmony will take you there. For real.
NextMogul 3 years ago
ooh tha azn girl is hot
DiPree1 3 years ago
this song has deep words fa real....love both of the albums...beautiful
wbdiva504 3 years ago
Im from tha south and ive been a fan since Guess who loves you. The brotha has never let me down. This video is on my favorites list!!!! Very real joint!!!!
DameyenT 3 years ago 2
I luv Mr. DeVaughn...Been ridin' wit him as a fan for years. If u ever saw him in a live performance, u will appreciate him as a "true artist" more. This video is cute :)
vote4misskeke 3 years ago
I love Raheeem Devaughn, all his music is awesome. And just because you see women of different colors and nationalities in the video, doesn't mean he is dating her for one, and let's not bash our sisters from other mothers, women are beautiful, we should be appreciate and celebrated, like Raheem does in his songs....proud to be Black!!!
SoulDiva72 3 years ago
Props to Divine85n i suppose ure 23 like me. Anyway thats the best way to put it and that goes out to all the black singers and rappers worldwide. We da one supportin u from day REMEMBER that!
QueenChoc 3 years ago
I LOVE RAHEEM AND ALL HIS MUSIC HE HOT
ed2feet 3 years ago 2
man i luv raheem!!!!
i wunder if he's gonna ever make a video 4 marathon......tht is my jam!!!
toianna91 3 years ago
what yall dont know about raheem is that he does not discriminate against any female or race
ajeane88 3 years ago
okay raheem is soooo soulful & SOOOO SEXY!!
he can easily make a woman fall in love with him..
& asian women are beautiful in their own right..
i mean its a video...many artists have women of different races in their vids..
sr08ashlee 3 years ago
LOL @ those hatin' on Raheem for lovin' da Asian persuasion!! NO disrespect to sistas, but there is beauty to be appreciated everywhere. I commend the brother for his great taste in ALL women.
kdb0bcat33 3 years ago
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I looooove Raheem, but an Asian girl??? How many asian fans does he have....please TRY AGAIN
scholgurl 3 years ago
yea i agree, she does kinda look like kimora lee simmons....man i luv raheem devaughn!..his music is awesome!
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ozhi2406 3 years ago
Raheem Devaughn's video girls get lighter and lighter, don't they? As a true fan, woman, and "lightskinned" girl...this shit is so tired. I went to his concert last night and most of his supporters and fans don't pass the brown paper bag test...He should celebrate women of ALL shades, especially the shades that support him...Be smart! Even if this just an innocent preference, don't alienate fan bases of a darker shade. They buy your shit, put them in your video.
Divine85nc 3 years ago 13
@Divine85nc women are women. let's not separate ourselves by our skin tones, but by more important things. i'm not light and i don't care what he puts in his videos. maybe the celebration will stop when people stop focusing on skin and focus on the music.
yababii4now 1 year ago
@yababii4now
Women are not just women. We all have differences, and the more people act like we're the "same" the more we embrace ignorance. Therefore, our differences in cultures, backgrounds, and looks (which yes, includes skin color) should be celebrated. Unfortunately, that does not happen in the entertainment industry the majority of the time. The women get lighter and lighter and skin color is a big issue in the black community...NOT to be ignored, but discussed.
Divine85nc 1 year ago
@Divine85nc There's a huge difference between celebrating our differences and separating ourselves because of them. Focusing on such insignificant details such as skin contributes to the ignorance that holds back black women. (And yes, I am a black woman) It is her skin that people have a problem with, because there is clearly no "celebration" in the fact that he features a woman from a different background and can appreciate that.
yababii4now 1 year ago
@yababii4now
There's ALWAYS a separation. This ideal of a melting pot, although suggested with best intentions, is a huge joke. Skin color is extremely significant to black women! We are all different shades and colors, and while heritage or background should be the main issue, the truth is that the shades of our skin are important to us, to these artists in industry, and society in general. Otherwise there'd be more diversity.Like I said, it should be discussed and dissected, never ignored.
Divine85nc 1 year ago
@yababii4now
And while I understand your stance on the issue, and have my own perspective as well, my last point in my very first response to this vid was the main one. Celebrities cater to their fan base, period. His fan base is not Asian. As a person who knows how the industry works to a certain extent, unless he's trying attain cross over appeal via this video (which I highly doubt) then it's not a smart move to cast a woman that doesn't represent his biggest consumers.
Divine85nc 1 year ago
If you put so much love in a relationship. You should need give up on love. Try again..
devindeclipsedsm 3 years ago
OMG That chick is BAD! G-zus! Um I'm sorry ya'll niguz can feel how you want, She kills Kimora! I would put babies in this girl and take her bullshit for at least 6 months! LMAO
Mardigraz718 3 years ago
whos dat girl????
ragehh 3 years ago
the gir; in the video look like kimora lee simmons
vdog843 3 years ago
Now thats beautiful..
Mixed Love
Viet611Forever 3 years ago 4
That is my girl yo!!!! She rocked it out!
moodybabe9 3 years ago
i went to school with the girl, shes cool as shit yall need to stop hating!
ilovedwade3 3 years ago
A treu musician and vocalist...cant 4 the show here
GKeturah2232 3 years ago 3
dam that girl is so pretty.
race0629 3 years ago 2
word up on that one...
JermaineATL 3 years ago
I don't like the video but I LOVE THIS SONG!!! I LOVE THE ALBUM!!! CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOU IN DETROIT, JUNE 6TH.
caramelnicola 3 years ago
This song is like...superb
but that girl looks like a baby bratz doll
tigerkidtre 3 years ago
Tabbi is getting better., i see DOF shots., LA., Tracking , dolly Ha .., I love everything except for the fact there is absolutely no concept., give him a few years ., he will be good ., I give tabbi an A for effort
leftythemanager 3 years ago
Like the video... love the song! I agree with J11434 a video for marathon is long overdue!
Webbica82 3 years ago
I love the song but I feel as though the concept really didn't go with the lyrics. I was expecting more emotion from the girl she looks relly happy to me. She could of cried or something. She had the oh hes gone I don't care and looked very losted like she didn't know what was going on. I don't have a problem with her being Asian that was different I was thinking maybe yr trying to reach other to a different race of women.
yaya151 3 years ago
Nice vid but he needs to stop bullshitting and make a video for Marathon, hands down one of the sexiest songs ever made!
J11434 3 years ago
I love the song it has got to be in my top 3 off the album! Love the fact that Tabi did the video and on a low budget pretty good job. I just can't get with the lead female at all.Shelook like she shooting a cotton commercial. Shouldn't she be upset crying or something??? Throwing stuff I mean anything realistic. Not to mention in the chocolate city there are so many flavors of us, was there no one else available for the video?
LadyLuckDC 3 years ago 3
You can NEVER do wrong in my eyes...
Just wish that there was a more "believable" female lead in the vid...
I believed you...just didn't believe the both of you.
Either way, fan-tabulous work my brother...
teepr 3 years ago 2
fuck trying again..lol..
MissJenee 3 years ago
Impressive.
tigerkidtre 3 years ago
I love the song and the video Raheem but I love all your work even before Customer I been rockin wit u keep doin ya thing Mwah!!
MsGottabody20 3 years ago
Tabi shot this.. thats hot.
MissYankee2006 3 years ago
i love this song.
the girl is pretty.
but the video looks kinda cheap.
stfus3riously 3 years ago
This is nice. I like.
toihorn2 3 years ago
she is so pretty nice song too
Peachis911 3 years ago
Lovely song.
mjnettles 3 years ago
LOVE THE SONG AND WISH I HAD THAT CAR.
AISHACE1 3 years ago
LOVE DA SONG RAHEEM!!
ForeverMusik06 3 years ago
He is all that!
WifeyTypePeach 3 years ago
Love the song. Love the album. I've been riding to you since the mix tape days and the "love experience". Please don't release Mo Better as a single. That song should be kept on the album for the true fans. Don't let the industry change you. STAY TRUE TO YOU
OriginalQrooqed 3 years ago
Love the song, love the album I LOVE both albums; but it wasn't any black women available for the video shoot?
Lyric1913 3 years ago 3
Yeah i agree with you I was thinking the same thing. There are so many of us he could use in this video. Anywayz love the song
love7147 3 years ago
Golden touch with the music.
lilbits 3 years ago
You're so talented. Love the new video.
excusememiss32 3 years ago
Great work Tab and Rah.Dang set it off proper too beautiful as always.
ViceLifePR 3 years ago
man that chick in the video is cute.. keep doin' it raheem!
YoungKaz 3 years ago
Whoa! I just saw some exclusive ish! LOL! Raheem is that dude! No homo!
konrizzy5 3 years ago
Love you raheem
SinnamonS 3 years ago