Yeah Im talkin to you

[supervirtuouswoman]

I have heard people say that too many black women are single, but they fail to realize that it only takes one or maybe two black men that are terrible to help you realize that you can do bad by yourself.

[supervirtuouswoman]

Yes, I went through it too. These are the type of niggas that the white women can have.

[katbalu]

@supervirtuouswoman I'm laughing sis....I understand your point though. On the real though, our sisters need to wake up, get stronger and begin to walk in the spirit of 'I am okay without a man'. If he isn't taking care of business properly and he's disrespecting me and our commitment, then he is not the one.

[454star454]

Awsome!!!!

[katbalu]

@454star454 thank you for watching

[wcmcclintonclassics]

love your message!!

[katbalu]

@wcmcclintonclassics Praise God! People need to be free and realize that the power and source for being free from these types of bondages can be found...is found rather, in Christ. We all need Him.

[cancersign1]

Amen!  A message for the young and the old.

[katbalu]

@cancersign1 Hi there. Sorry I'm just responding to you, but I'm glad you found some agreement with me in this. My main purpose is that someone might be encouraged to get free and not be bound up in this mental slavery...thank you for your comment.

[livinmybestlife]

great great great vid!

[katbalu]

Thank you my sista/friend!

[wcmcclintonclassics]

YOUR SUCH A NATURAL!! BE BLESSED!

[katbalu]

God bless the Church and may their blessings be multiplied.

Happy New Year,

[MattieDora2]

You know you're telling the truth!! We have to get it right now so the next generation can break the plate!!!

[katbalu]

Indeed,indeed!

[projectresurrection1]

Passionate, informative, and most importantly... TRUE. You are an eloquent sister, and I have no doubt that The Almighty has great work in store for you. March on, beloved of the Lord. Thanks for the message.

[katbalu]

Thank you brother in Christ. I am just checking in on my channel after a short break. Thank you so much for watching.LISTENING and taking the time to comment. To God be all the glory...

[miacbeam]

Amen. You are right on point. Be Blessed.

[katbalu]

God bless!

[naturally4us]

I know that's right. May God bless you and keep you and give you peace.

[katbalu]

Thank you sis.

[Mumzeeee]

You are SO on point! No matter how we try to teach by our own mistakes, it seems to get more difficult with each generation. May God have mercy on their souls.

[katbalu]

Indeed...thank you for viewing and taking the time to comment.

[90daysoflovingme]

Amen my sista AMEN!

[katbalu]

Thanks girl....I appreciate your watching and taking the time to comment I appreciate you..

[blackeee1]

I love this video so much I posted it to my facebook page. Everyone needs to listen to this.

[katbalu]

Yay!!!That's great Blackee. That was birthed out of my own relationships and from my own experiences. Some me,some others....hope people will be blessed and convicted.

[Soulever1]

Thank u for that message!

[katbalu]

My pleasure.

[darlynasanford]

you hit the nail on the head with this one.

[katbalu]

I'm glad you watched. Thank you for your support.

[sosoblessed1]

awesome!

[katbalu]

Thank you for watching and listening. Your comment is appreciated.

[jellycoconut]

on point as always!

[katbalu]

Hey Jelly...blessings to you.

[watchfuleye2008]

PREACH-SIS-TAH!!!This video really blessed me*

[katbalu]

Bless You my sis-tah!!

[TheSagaciousGirl]

I thought this was such a good video that I added it to my blog. The part about friends really hit home for me. Its like people want to drain all of my energy but would never consider that I may need a shoulder to lean on. Great post!

[katbalu]

Isn't it the truth? Thanks Jen....

[EbonyAbraxas]

"If you can't say amen, say ouch" LOL Love your video. So necessary

[katbalu]

ha.ha..that's what my pastor says.....thanks for watching.

[7smartgrl]

Yes, you were talking to me...thank you!

[Seedcovers]

I have heard it all from our sisters, it is soo sad. We are good enough and we are good enough to marry. If we continually work on ourselves, we can expect the best that God has.

Great video, it is not enough to say what you gon do, do it.

[katbalu]

Yes..I agree with you about the solution. GOD will deliver if we make ourselves open to Him. Thank you for watching.

[ZoeyAbena08]

Amen Kat, great video...do more of these motivators please..

Thanks and Peace and Blessings Grace

[katbalu]

Hey Zoe....God bless sista/friend. Stay up!

Yes...peace and blessings.

[MzCJA]

You better preach sis!  Great message. Thank you.

[katbalu]

Much love and respect to you Sis. God bless and keep you.

[virgosapphires]

True...true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[katbalu]

Yes....Amen!

[blackeee1]

Say it again Kat...say it again.....the truth...I am feeling the statements about the children....

[katbalu]

Girl....it just ain't right. We must break the cycle.

[blackeee1]

A lot of times women don't want to leave for the fear of they will not be able to find any better. More of us need to stick together and date others that or with a mate ..no matter what is coming out of their mouths. Thats the start right there...with ourselves.

[justmyworld74]

Nice!

[katbalu]

Thank You.

[tobemeis2bfree]

Amen....I'm glad I tuned in... Say it!!!

[katbalu]

Me too! Much love sista/friend....

[HairNailsBeautytips]

Teach my sister

[katbalu]

:) Thanks girl...I'm appreciating your support. God bless and keep you....

Love Ya,

[dbrunsonsr]

True, True, True.

When one has enough pain, one will do something different.

Yes.

[katbalu]

You got that right...It is definitely a motivator! Thanks for supporting my brother..Stay up!