@Tweed539 I've bought some things I've almost never worn but just in case I change my mind, I'll still have them. Those shoes are Vera Wang flats, a lucky clearance find.
@rskyfeet lol, I thought that too. Purging is only really a thing if you're buying more clothes than a normal girl (i.e. need clset space), or if you've been brought up to feel like crossdressing is a guilty pleasure.
@vickilocke I don't think it's a question of when. The only issue I imagine is lack of space, other large things would go instead (like an old stereo system which I could eventually replace with something smaller and better). I'll get rid of extra furniture before I get rid of any clothing. If a girlfriend wants me to get rid of all that stuff I'll just have to find a better girlfriend.
I've purged 2 times and I've regretted it greatly both times. Girls, your crossdressing urges will never go away. Destroying those fem items that give you so much comfort and pleasure will not "cure" you. You are who you are. If you have to take a break from dressing up, put those items into storage. You will save money, heartache, and irreplaceable items that way.
I have so much admiration for you - never purging! You really get it, and are not afraid to be yourself - even in a society filled with small-minded jerks who don't understand and don't want to. God bless you!! :)
I've never purged, either... except once when I was 12, but that doesn't count for much (was just a make-shift skirt).
It's crazy - the whole purging thing. Sadly, so many confused people will continue to purge, not realizing that the problem is with *society* and NOT with them.
Such a great video on such an important topic. I've done it twice, between the age of 19 when I thought I *might* transition, and 21 when I decided I was going to be a MAN. How stupid was I. Also I don't think you will die alone. Just enjoy who you are anyways :)
Never purge...put your stuff in storage until you get over it....I've purged twice over a 30 yr period. Wish I still had some of my treasures I tossed away.
Crossdressing will always be part of who you are. No matter how much you wish it to go away. Now I'm much older & poorer-GG's don't want me, so I have no need to purge.
It's not really an issue for me, I've never wanted to purge anything. Whenever I die I'll be alone but at least I'll have all my clothes even if no people actually care that I'm gone.
These days I tend to find I make great plans to have massive wardrobe clear outs and end up only throwing out 2 or 3 items. Usually I only get rid of clothes because I need to make room for new stuff!
Believe me, I have purged SO many times! It's a common malady among us.
LadyboyNina 1 week ago
The only time I "purge" is when my clothes don't fit, or it's things I know I won't wear.
On an off topic, your shoes are really cute!
Tweed539 6 months ago
@Tweed539 I've bought some things I've almost never worn but just in case I change my mind, I'll still have them. Those shoes are Vera Wang flats, a lucky clearance find.
femstarlight 6 months ago
@femstarlight Very lucky find indeed, they rock. I love shopping but don't have a lot of room. So I donate bits and pieces every now and then.
Tweed539 6 months ago
@rskyfeet lol, I thought that too. Purging is only really a thing if you're buying more clothes than a normal girl (i.e. need clset space), or if you've been brought up to feel like crossdressing is a guilty pleasure.
Anon5241 1 year ago
hey sexy i wanna be ur lover
sexylatinmanforyou 1 year ago
@sexylatinmanforyou I mean this politely, but it will never happen. You have the wrong anatomy for me.
femstarlight 1 year ago
Purging will happen it is only a question of when. I agree that you should store it rather than toss. You will buy again so save now.
vickilocke 1 year ago
@vickilocke I don't think it's a question of when. The only issue I imagine is lack of space, other large things would go instead (like an old stereo system which I could eventually replace with something smaller and better). I'll get rid of extra furniture before I get rid of any clothing. If a girlfriend wants me to get rid of all that stuff I'll just have to find a better girlfriend.
femstarlight 1 year ago
I've purged 2 times and I've regretted it greatly both times. Girls, your crossdressing urges will never go away. Destroying those fem items that give you so much comfort and pleasure will not "cure" you. You are who you are. If you have to take a break from dressing up, put those items into storage. You will save money, heartache, and irreplaceable items that way.
Lavandercd 1 year ago
@Lavandercd It's not good to learn a lesson the hard way, but everyone watching should read your comment.
femstarlight 1 year ago
I have so much admiration for you - never purging! You really get it, and are not afraid to be yourself - even in a society filled with small-minded jerks who don't understand and don't want to. God bless you!! :)
I've never purged, either... except once when I was 12, but that doesn't count for much (was just a make-shift skirt).
It's crazy - the whole purging thing. Sadly, so many confused people will continue to purge, not realizing that the problem is with *society* and NOT with them.
myCDlife 2 years ago
Such a great video on such an important topic. I've done it twice, between the age of 19 when I thought I *might* transition, and 21 when I decided I was going to be a MAN. How stupid was I. Also I don't think you will die alone. Just enjoy who you are anyways :)
RachelLouise33 2 years ago
I hope you're right about not dying alone. I never tried to be a 'man' in the macho sense, it's a waste of time for short skinny people like me.
femstarlight 2 years ago
Never purge...put your stuff in storage until you get over it....I've purged twice over a 30 yr period. Wish I still had some of my treasures I tossed away.
Crossdressing will always be part of who you are. No matter how much you wish it to go away. Now I'm much older & poorer-GG's don't want me, so I have no need to purge.
xoxox Danielle
dannycandoit 2 years ago
It's not really an issue for me, I've never wanted to purge anything. Whenever I die I'll be alone but at least I'll have all my clothes even if no people actually care that I'm gone.
femstarlight 2 years ago
These days I tend to find I make great plans to have massive wardrobe clear outs and end up only throwing out 2 or 3 items. Usually I only get rid of clothes because I need to make room for new stuff!
starrynowhere 2 years ago
I have purged twice. Not a good idea. Very expensive.
Bobbiexr 2 years ago