Good vid! I wish more people would get this. If you think your source of love and well-being is in another person, I think you're in for some heartbreak. But if you can find the love and good feelings inside of yourself, then the universe will just reflect that back to you and all the right people will naturally show up. :D
But how do stay that centeret, when you are about to go on a date with the girl of your dreams (which is my case in about a week)??? Should I just stay aloof to what happens, and just to for it, or what would the best approach on this date with this AMAZING girl!!!??
@Hilallamaa: It already sounds to me like you are too attached to the outcome. Is this a first date? How do you know she is so "AMAZING" and the "girl of your dreams" if you haven't even met her yet? In my experience, no human on earth is that "AMAZING" because everyone has their weak points. If I were you, I would stop putting this girl on a pedestal, just relax and try to have fun on the date without being attached to the date being successful or not.
@trnjulcica: Yeah, by putting people on a pedestal, you can end up psyching yourself out before you even take the first step. Also, I think putting someone on a pedestal is terribly unfair to that person because it creates unrealistic expectations and puts too much pressure on that person. You'll end up feeling resentful of that person when they don't fulfill your high expectations of being some "super human."
You are right guys. But I do know her, we are friends, and sort of had this special connection for a while now, but I don't know if she has the same feelings, although I think she knows (or should know at least) that I feel some extra for her.
But what do one do, when a girl is SOOOO beautiful, that u can't ignore it, and it makes u feel "out of league"??? She is REALLY the kind of girl I want as a lover!!
@Hilallamaa: If you feel "out of league," then it means you have low self-esteem. That is where your focus needs to be. Do things that build your self-esteem (ie. hit the gym, lift weights, etc.). When you have high self-esteem, then you won't give a shit if this girl likes you or not because you'll be so in love with yourself. When you are in love with yourself, then everything in your life goes wonderfully.
@Hilallamaa: By the way, if you ever come to San Jose, California, I can train you how to become a badass. Then, you can get any girl you want. HAHA! I charge 30 bucks an hour in US dollars. ;P
@Hilallamaa there are pleanty of beautifull women out there...take ur time,dont get 2 serious,have some fun and show every girl ur interested in who u are..so u find out whether they love u 4 u :)
I duno... If us guys keep our hopes right down low, then if she doesnt like us then we won't feel as bad when we get rejected. If we did it this way our hopes would be so high at first
...but if you keep your hopes/vibration high, you'll attract great girls that match you. and if you're in the right (high) feeling place, rejection just won't matter! try it :)
I LOVE SMURFS!!! <3
chrispatyna 1 year ago
Good vid! I wish more people would get this. If you think your source of love and well-being is in another person, I think you're in for some heartbreak. But if you can find the love and good feelings inside of yourself, then the universe will just reflect that back to you and all the right people will naturally show up. :D
BillyOhRayBob90210 2 years ago 8
I would really like to get this into my bones.
But how do stay that centeret, when you are about to go on a date with the girl of your dreams (which is my case in about a week)??? Should I just stay aloof to what happens, and just to for it, or what would the best approach on this date with this AMAZING girl!!!??
Hilallamaa 2 years ago
either way LINE UP
trnjulcica 2 years ago
@Hilallamaa: It already sounds to me like you are too attached to the outcome. Is this a first date? How do you know she is so "AMAZING" and the "girl of your dreams" if you haven't even met her yet? In my experience, no human on earth is that "AMAZING" because everyone has their weak points. If I were you, I would stop putting this girl on a pedestal, just relax and try to have fun on the date without being attached to the date being successful or not.
BillyOhRayBob90210 2 years ago 3
Good advice Billy. The pedestal thing can make one feel inferior, out of league. And our guidance tell us "na-nah!" about it.
trnjulcica 2 years ago
@trnjulcica: Yeah, by putting people on a pedestal, you can end up psyching yourself out before you even take the first step. Also, I think putting someone on a pedestal is terribly unfair to that person because it creates unrealistic expectations and puts too much pressure on that person. You'll end up feeling resentful of that person when they don't fulfill your high expectations of being some "super human."
BillyOhRayBob90210 2 years ago
I concur
trnjulcica 2 years ago
You are right guys. But I do know her, we are friends, and sort of had this special connection for a while now, but I don't know if she has the same feelings, although I think she knows (or should know at least) that I feel some extra for her.
But what do one do, when a girl is SOOOO beautiful, that u can't ignore it, and it makes u feel "out of league"??? She is REALLY the kind of girl I want as a lover!!
Hilallamaa 2 years ago
We can't decide for you. We are strangers on internet.
trnjulcica 2 years ago
@Hilallamaa: If you feel "out of league," then it means you have low self-esteem. That is where your focus needs to be. Do things that build your self-esteem (ie. hit the gym, lift weights, etc.). When you have high self-esteem, then you won't give a shit if this girl likes you or not because you'll be so in love with yourself. When you are in love with yourself, then everything in your life goes wonderfully.
BillyOhRayBob90210 2 years ago
You are right. It's simple really, one has just have to remember how it really is. Wish me luck on Saturday :o)
And if I ever come to San Jose, I will hire you :)
Hilallamaa 2 years ago
@Hilallamaa: By the way, if you ever come to San Jose, California, I can train you how to become a badass. Then, you can get any girl you want. HAHA! I charge 30 bucks an hour in US dollars. ;P
BillyOhRayBob90210 2 years ago
@Hilallamaa there are pleanty of beautifull women out there...take ur time,dont get 2 serious,have some fun and show every girl ur interested in who u are..so u find out whether they love u 4 u :)
BrianNM1 1 year ago
I duno... If us guys keep our hopes right down low, then if she doesnt like us then we won't feel as bad when we get rejected. If we did it this way our hopes would be so high at first
kellygthatsme 2 years ago
@kellygthatsme
...but if you keep your hopes/vibration high, you'll attract great girls that match you. and if you're in the right (high) feeling place, rejection just won't matter! try it :)
MrEdogc 2 years ago
@MrEdogc just got your message then. Thanks for the reply I will try it. Have a good week eh
kellygthatsme 1 year ago
hehe posrečeno je vse skupaj s-pet..
sponkacom 2 years ago
beautiful picture! ^^
inthebigpicture 2 years ago